I have been using a quote I heard during the World Athletics Championships as an affirmation for SC and it has been making me feel 100 about sp. "They said I wasn't THE ONE, but I thank God everyday that I AM!"
“Persist until it hardens into fact” thank you!! Well said! Got it on my phone/laptop wallpaper, screen saver and labelled it on my phone case…. It will harden into fact!!!!!
For a young guy, what you say really resonates with this senior citizen who is still pursuing a healthy happy relationship. I love your positive approach!
Thank you so much, i have manifested my ex back in days since i watched your video! I'm so grateful for it, you've told me about the things that i didn't know and did in a wrong way. Best wishes to you! Good luck!
Matt builds us up and calms us down and makes us feel like anything we want is possible, doable, and that we can do it! He’s also British, so basically he’s a wizard 🧙♂️
They say patience is a virtue - but in the day & age we live, everything presses us toward instant gratification. Manifestation (I am beginning to realize) is just being aware of living - waking up everyday and looking forward to what is coming to me and where my path is taking me and who I am going to meet and get the chance to interact with today! I no longer have to hold onto the things of the past to “catch my balance” or wait (cautiously) for the things on the horizon! If I look forward hopefully towards where I am going, I can be surprised and delighted with the joy that this world has to offer -> life abundantly! Thank you to you and the many people who have helped me to turn my viewpoint and mindset around! And reminding me that this life truly IS worth living! ❤😂😊
That is absolutely what it is all about! If we can find joy and fulfilment in the journey, the destination becomes a whole more interesting and enjoyable. The world of instant gratification is a dangerous place. You're very welcome! it is my pleasure
I just love how you break things down and explain them so well. Seriously, you make manifestating easier and easier with every video you put out. Thankyou so much! Thankyou for helping us so selflessly💜
Thanks much for being so modest kind human understanding to US nd u explain so well some women coaches whose name begin with s this only I can tell they are bad nd tell bad statements or block ppl that do not agree with them Its not loyal neither human they react so so thanks much again from all of US for Ur humanity nd kindness!!!!!!
i like re-discovering the fact that i like salad and then forgetting that i like salad and then eating salad again and being SHOCKED at how good salad is. this happens a lot.
i have known about the law of assumption for a while already, but i think i only now truly understand how it works because you explain it so well. manifestation is literally so simple and i hate that i didn't grasp it earlier. but i'm grateful that i now have complete understanding of what manifestation even is and how it works, so thank you for what you do! 🌟
Every video of you is a reminder of how easy manifestation is. I resonate a lot with the way you teach the loa, specially on this kind of topics, because what you say is true, and it is helping me a lot so thank you! ❤
Thank you for the video, I wish I could stay in a positive mindset all the time I need a little parrot on my shoulder giving me a pep talk all the time 😂
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
My only question or concern with this is manifesting the life I want back, not the life I had, but a new version of it - then when I realize it’s not true, I get very depressed. I guess then I just need to continue changing my mindset on it and stay positive.
You need to keep on keeping on. It will never benefit you to give up or give into the negative when it arises.You just gotta keep going no matter what is happening.
Loved it! Especially at the end when you said "we have make progress 1% at a time and trust the process". The game is about have to bring the awareness from outside to inside (to the desired reality) and not compare your journey with others. Manifestation is a very personal process !
This is Matthew's favourite comment, because I assume it to be so! 😆 I'm so grateful for the video call we have together, it's so amazingly helpful to me. Thank you! ❤
I must say a lot of what you said I was only realising myself yesterday but wasn't sure it was correct. After watching your video, you confirmed it, I therefore am claiming I manifested you making this video. Thanks Matt, as always
Thank you so much for this video. I genuinely cried a bit feeling so happy that someone explained what to do so simply! I’m grateful you were very clear on what to do and I’m going to definitely try this out!! ❤
i know I should stop watching videos and commenting bc that’s not helping but I keep doing it and i just want to manifest a new sp and all the like sc and lots of afformation bc I say I am in the most happy loving passionate relationship and then my sc is I’m secure and confident I’m good enough, there’s no one like me I always get what I want. I’m a master Manifester
Thn you're on the right track. What this video through, really take note and follow what is said, that is all you need to do. Now, if you want more detailed help on this, the membership has the full exhaustive guide that will ensure you have 0 confusion
Thank you for the breakdown! I know you kinda catfished us in with the title of the video but it helps with not focusing on what we don’t want. But focusing on what we want and all about changing our mindset of desires. I just found you but plan to keep following you. You are going to become big on RUclips and can’t wait to comment in the future “Hey I remembered you back in 2023!” Keep going and keep being professional the subtitles help a lot!
Aha there was no catfishing, I just didn't want to keep referring to it as ex back, due to that accentuating the fact they're an ex. I am glad it helps and thank you for the support!
Hey Matt, your contents are really very helpful. When I got into Law of Assumptions's success story, the first video came in my feed was yours. I'm really grateful to you and you're awesome. Love from India ❤
You said we must persist until it hardens into fact, and it makes a lot of sense. I have one question though, what’s you oppinion about the people who only manifested their SP when they gave up? What could be the reason they didn’t manifest while persisting and affirming until burnout?
Its because sometimes "giving up" doesnt actually equal giving up, but it drops the resistance. The doubts. If youre not "needing" or "expecting" for it to happen, then whats the resistance anymore? And then it manifests!
I’ve just discovered your channel and, ufff, mindblowing. It makes me realize how important is to be authentic to myself. However, the “needing state” is a huge deal for me yet. I’m having migraine headaches almost every day because of the state of “trying”. I feel like my mind is going to explode. Do you have any advice on how to literally don’t give a fuck? I don’t feel secure to let go
Thank you for the kind words! Well, a technique I have used is the 'why would I care?' or 'So, what if it don't?. Now, these are essentially asking yourself why would you care if it didn't happen or so what if it didn't happen? Now, i know this doesn't seem positive. However, if you want to get out a state of trying, you need to thin of things from a new angle.
I'd like to thank you for the things that you do for us. The journey of getting your sp back is very challenging but with your guidance it becomes easier. I have one request (if possible). Explain why circumstances don't matter in details. Thanks, and greetings from Los Angeles.
You're very welcome! It is my pleasure! So, circumstances don't matter because your subconscious mind doesn't rely on the truth of the 3D to create what you desire. Instead, it requires your focus and awareness. So, if you change what you focus on, you change your reality. Since it uses your truth and not the truth, shifting your awareness is all that is required.
What do you do when you act as if and then you start missing them? When you feel you're in a happy relationship with them and then want to hang out or talk to them?
@MindOverThisMatrix perfect !! when they're busy we usually get going on with something else. But in this scenario, it reminds that we can't reach out to them bcz of the situation and may start spiraling.
Matt matt matt matt...damnit what would all of us do without you?! This is a brilliant video as usual...easy to understand and very concise! I have a question abt this SP thing. So I know when there is a 3p situation all the coaches say to ignore the 3p and it goes away. Sometimes that can be alittle challenging ( i am off social media and all just so i can keep a strict mental diet and while I do have some annoying feelings pop up every now and then I will stop myself and just repeat my affirmations or rampage and remind myself its my thoughts that manifest and not my feelings) however recently I started doing two things... 1) everytime a image of 3p pops up (not often but it does happen) I ask "why is this person completely irrelevant to my manifestation?!" 2) because I absolutely refuse to give my power away and let someone else take it, everytime I get that deep uncomfortable feeling in my gut when a unfavourable image or thought pops up, I look at it and say "too bad, this is my reality. In my reality I am always going to be the one SP is in love with" this makes me feel in control and ngl more badass than just ignoring the whole thing. What are your thoughts on this? Is it a good way to go about it? Many thanks for all your help! ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the kind words! I am happy to help! I thinkthose are definitely good ways of handling it and if they feel like they help, keep em up. However, it is worth considering what the 3P trggers within you and work on that also. You don't have to bring the 3p to mind but at least understanding the trigger will gve you a blueprint on what to adjust going forward
I would love some advice on what I believe is may be delaying the manifestation of my SP. I know it's not self-concept and I not only know I am worthy of all of my manifestations, but I know I will receive them. I know my SP loves me and I'm the love of his life. In my eyes, it's only a matter of time. It just hit me like a ton of bricks, the issue is patience. For those of you, including you Matthew, how do you deal with the patience aspect when you miss them very much?
Patience is based on what you are looking at in front of you and allowing to affect your state. When you are looking at your 3D and being overly aware it isn't reflecting what you desire, that is when you become impatient for it. So, the things I do is make myself so busy on a day to day basis that I don't even have the time to miss or be impatient, because I am having a great time living
Definitely one of your best videos Matt, thanks again for all your advice and tips. I do highly recommend purchasing the membership. Possibly one of the best memberships in my life/reality that I have purchased.🙂
For me is very difficult because now there's a third party and I have to see them interacting almost every day (we all work in the same place) 😢, but I will keep trying
Well, why is it messing with your head? What is stopping you from living in the end of a fulfilling relationship and then having your sub mind bring the one that most fits with that to you?
I wanna thank you Matt, coaching with you have helped me when I felt stuck in my journey 🙏🌟 a little update is that I recently woken up to who I really really Am and it shifted my whole world around 🥹 I’ve gotten an amazing shift within myself but also a 180 turn shift with my SP , money and even in my physical appearance 😍💜 Thank you Matt 🌟🙏
Hello brother, good day to you, I have been looping affirmations for that stressful situation which i mentioned to u about SP's friend tagging him in a post n said 'Im so happy for u....' i cud not see it, i was scared to see anything online from dat day, recently i reached out to sp but he is silent, we are always have been on a healthy good note n rarely talk before n I was focusing on my life n affirming for him n my sc n seeing his name here n there but that that day i suddenly i got into this post which i couldn't see 😓 Can i affirm that post is from specific field ????????? So that i can focus on my works in life ? And also can i stop messaging him ??????? Please save me with your valuable advise brother 🙏♥️🤲
You can affirm whatever you desire to be true. Right now, you're focusing too much on the lack of what you want and the things that don't align with your end resutlt. So, remove your awareness from them and place it on what you do wish to be true. Affirm for what you desire to be true and it doesn't matter what that is, itll still work.
Wonderful and thorough and easy to grasp explanation. I'm wondering your opinion on something. Why is our mind so cruel sometimes? lol I mean one minute I'm so happy and confident my SP is mine and on his way back then my brain will be mean and say "no he's not"! It makes me think of having an angel in one ear and the devil in the other. I've gotten much better at redirecting my focus but I'd like to just not have those thoughts period! If I weren't so sane, I'd think I have multiple personalities! 😂😂😂
Thank you! I am glad to help! We are a species built for survival. Part of that includes preparing for the worst and the other part is keeping ourselves safe. Our mind goes back to the worst over and over so we can be prepared for when/if it happens. Overtime, the more you do the work, the more it will lessen as those stories will become more dominant
@@MindOverThisMatrix Thank you for the reply as always! You are one of the only coaches out there that I notice consistently replies and takes care of his people, which is why I will keep coming back to your channel! It's much appreciated. And I agree. The first few weeks in this new journey was a lot of "fighting" internally in my own mind and having a lot of imaginary conversations with my SP that were not always good, but of course, not always bad. But the more I have learned that is the old story and focus on the end result, which is an amazing relationship in which that bad shit doesn't exist, it's so much easier to tell my self to shut up when those negative thoughts do tend to creep up. After almost a month, I'm glad to say I am able to get myself out of that negative "loop" in a matter of seconds so I will take this as a sign that they will soon no longer even pop up!
That happens to me. When a negative thought starts to come in I immediately say "I rebuke that" and it goes away. Just cut that thought off completely.
I agree totally with not focusing on the not having, resentements, old stories etc. But how is it possible, to feel warm and cosy when you're out in the winters cold without clothing? (😢This relates also to other situations than the sp thing.) Its cold, right? How not to feel this? How not to suffer? The only thing I can think about in this case is to identify with the person who is going to be in the warmth again. Not to think: I will suffer from cold forever. But its kind of hard to shiver in the ice and believe that it feels great. How do you think about that?
You bring to your mind the version who is experiencing the warmth. While yes it may be cold, there have been studies to prove that the body is heavily influenced by the mind. If you bring to mind warmth and cosiness, your body will begin to react more in alignment to that
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much for answering so quickly. Yes, this makes sense. I see that it definitly makes things worse to concentrate on the pain....so imagine something different,regardeless of how I feel right now...
I wamt to move in with my SP. We are currently in no contact but im trying to manifest him back into my life. I've been feeling like I should declutter my home and pack up some things that i would be taking with me. Am i crazy for thinking that?
Thank you for such an awesome video. I do have a question, when you say insert persons name, would that be the first name or the full name? That's the biggest thing that's always confused me with SP manifestations. I hope you're having a great day man, thank you for the video 😊
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much! I was thinking about it and it felt weird doing the full name because that's not natural for me. Thank you for the help 😊
Hey Matthew, thank you for the wisdom as always, I have a question if thats okay, yesterday I watched a video from Hyler, who is a manifestation coach, and she said in the video that other people's assumptions can manifest in your life, for example if you're manifesting an sp and your bestfriend thinks this person is an asshole, that will manifest in your life and will work against your desire because that assumption is also gonna manifest and they re gonna show up as an asshole, Im so confused, thank you for your answer
So, I operate as us being the operant power in our reality. There is nothing no one else can do unless we allow them to. If we give up our power and allow us to assume they have power in our reality, they will. However, if we don't they won't. That's how I operate and it hasn't led me astray. It isn't worth letting things that take your power from you take control
As everyone is you pushed out, the friend would only think sp is an asshole if you think your friend has that opinion. Or it could be that you are worried sp will show up as an asshole and your the friend is only reflecting your beliefs. He's not an asshole! 🤩
Thank you for the video! I have a slightly weird question. I'm am bilingual and I catch myself thinking in both languages. Do you think it matters which language I affirm in? I try to affirm in both languages because some affirmations are easier for me if they are in English, but I've always wondered if it makes a difference.
I loved this video! Everything you’re saying is so easy to understand and to implement. I also love the new aesthetic for this video, it’s so cute! Listen to what Matt says guys - I’ve had so much success in the past year working with Matt and I’m so grateful for his help. He’s so real and relatable that he’s literally like a friend. Matt knows his stuff and I would definitely recommend coaching if you need help with specific areas!
I dont know, when ever i try thinking he will be back then suddenly a thought comes taht he is over me and what if he finds someone or any manifestation wont work.
Well, other coaches have said they have had people experience changes like this using revision. However, I personally have never tried to do something like this. So, I cannot speak from experience. What I can say is to get clear on the result you want and residing in that result being done as best you can and give yourself the best chances to shift that outcome
Hi matt, i really wanted to know your opinions about something.... Is it really worth it to manifest your ex back ?? I mean if we actually manifest them being in love with us , does that mean, them loving us is our doing ??? What if we didnt manifest them, it would mean they never loved us in the first place. So is it worth it ??? They say the universe always have a person, let go and allow the universe ot bring he right partner for you !! What about those !?? Im confuse, i want to manifest my ex but i dont know if its worth it since he wouldnt have left if he truly loved me. I feel like im forcing things by using manifestation !!! Can you tell me your opinioms about this please... thanks a lot ❤
You're always manifesting. Whether consciously or unconsciously, your entire life is built up by the things that you allowed into your awareness. So, the first time yu got them, this was a manifestation and operated no differently to if you were to manifest them back. So, if you want them, go for it. If you want someone new, go for it. It all comes through you anyway
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you for replying to me 💕 Thanks for the info, i just wanted him to realised his mistakes ... and be remorseful for what he has done..... can i actually manifest that from him ???
She is gone, its been 4 month and she is already said she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't want us back and now she is with talking stage with someone else, so is it possible ro manifest her? She didn't block me or what, we talk but she coldy talk usually, and we in ldr relationship
Hello anyone reading this I would be immensely thankful if you took time to reply. This is not related to a video but I wanted to come to this community: So I have a “deadline” I want to manifest my results by tomorrow but I’m not sure what’s the best way to go about it. Is instantly manifesting guaranteed ?
The best thing you can do for yourself is get clear on the result or outcome you want and, from now, be dedicated and committed into claiming you have recieved that outcome already. Any thought that comes up and is opposing, redirect it back to what you want being done.
Hello. I have a question. My girl and I are currently not together, but I know we will be….. WE ARE. Her and I have a history of sabatoging and this last break up happened a few weeks ago, a few weeks before my current house is being sold, a couple weeks before we got our own place together, and it happened because….. I cheated. Unfortunately I allowed myself to be careless and made the biggest mistake, bc now…… I don’t have my girls….. my girls such as her and my 2 step daughters. I’d do anything for another chance as I know she’s my person, I know im hers but for the time being she’s disconnected and from what I understand, is giving someone else the opportunity to win her heart. I’m manifesting, all day. Sigils, bay leafs, candles, and again….. im manifesting. What can I do? How can I speed up this process. How can I get rid of any potential 3rd parties. I really wanna get this right with her. I don’t want to be the guy before THE GUY. Please help
I am sorry to hear this is your experience. However, if you desire to speed up and, ultimately, have your desire, what really matters is your state of being. These techniques you're doing are great. However, what about outside of doing them? Are you still seeing the situation in despair or are you living from the end. The dominant state matters. So, if you're doing these techniques a couple of times a day but thinking like shit the rest, you're still dominantly in that old story
Matt I swear you’ve been in my bedroom and you’ve seen my 2 pages of A3 paper that I’ve written down how my DF is showing up for me. This last week I have been reading it twice in a morning and twice before I go to bed. My problem is I can’t find the middle ground or to stay on a high with my thoughts. Sometimes I waved and find myself hitting the bad thoughts even tho I know my outcome . Why can’t I stay level headed 😔. I know it’s not hard to do but I am making it hard when it’s easy because I know I have her. She’s just not here yet I’m the 3D. I know I am in a loving, passionate, committed, eternal, enjoyable, happy relationship for now until we are married. By the way I am loving the little action heroes you’ve got on the floating shelves behind you. I’ve just rejoined the gym and I am also doing classes that involves trampoline classes called boogie bounce. My life is getting back on track 👍🙏🤪
It is all about redirecting your awareness back to what you want. As humans, we shift states constantly. It is all about being aware of where you are at and working to shift those thoughts back. Consistency is the most important thing. Aha thank you they're a little collectible habit of mind. I am glad to hear you're jumping back into things!
I don't know why i see him as a best version with no third party . What happens opposite he continues show act he like her . we don't belong together? so what I do no meaning. today I am so sad even can't cry. and leave .
You need to remove your awareness from that. You cannot do your affirmations and see them as the best version and then go looking into the 3D and using it as evidence for why things aren't working. You need to pick an option and stick to it, no matter what
I am manifesting a lot of things along side with my SP and when I get triggered I say this affirmation and start giggling " my SP adores the smell of my fart " 😂. Happy manifesting...
@@MindOverThisMatrix i know I should stop watching videos and commenting bc that’s not helping but I keep doing it and i just want to manifest a new sp and all the like sc and lots of afformation bc I say I am in the most happy loving passionate relationship and then my sc is I’m secure and confident I’m good enough, there’s no one like me I always get what I want. I’m a master Manifester
Just realised I messed up and forgot to take it out of the edit 🤣
I thought it was charming haha
Hahaha. Nice little addon 😅🫶
I want to join. But would it cost £60 or £6?
@@ss-yl9cg £6. I try to keep all my prices and services cheap
@@MindOverThisMatrix Thanks!
I have both of my exs back
I'm happy for you!
Smooth 🔥🔥
How did you achieve it babe
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I love your videos, and after checking your online peers, I am going with you.
I come to realise that I am must work on my self concept
I have been using a quote I heard during the World Athletics Championships as an affirmation for SC and it has been making me feel 100 about sp.
"They said I wasn't THE ONE, but I thank God everyday that I AM!"
I like that!
That's true Noah Lyles said that after winning the 100m at the World Athletics Championships.
This actually makes a lot of sense...biggest thing is trusting the process!
Absolutely!
Whenever I’m spiralling when someone says it’s been 5 months and he’s moved on. By listening to you I feel so much of calmness and can recenter myself
Thats awesome! I am happy to help!
I’m only 3 minutes into this but I can tell this video is gonna be life changing for loads of people watching! Including myself 🤞
Ayy! Thats great! Thank you! I hope it does! If it doesn't, the full guide on the membership definitely will
“Persist until it hardens into fact” thank you!! Well said! Got it on my phone/laptop wallpaper, screen saver and labelled it on my phone case….
It will harden into fact!!!!!
Absolutely key to remember!
For a young guy, what you say really resonates with this senior citizen who is still pursuing a healthy happy relationship. I love your positive approach!
Thank you for the kind words! I am happy to help
Thank you so much, i have manifested my ex back in days since i watched your video! I'm so grateful for it, you've told me about the things that i didn't know and did in a wrong way. Best wishes to you! Good luck!
You're very welcome! Happy to help
Matt builds us up and calms us down and makes us feel like anything we want is possible, doable, and that we can do it! He’s also British, so basically he’s a wizard 🧙♂️
I am really happy to hear that! Glad to help and never been called a wizard before aha
Hello everyone I wish everybody here to be with the people you love and share the beautiful things in life ^^
Thats lovely!
"If you want to experience exceptional results, you need to start taking exceptional actions." for some reason this really resonated with me
Glad it did!
They say patience is a virtue - but in the day & age we live, everything presses us toward instant gratification. Manifestation (I am beginning to realize) is just being aware of living - waking up everyday and looking forward to what is coming to me and where my path is taking me and who I am going to meet and get the chance to interact with today! I no longer have to hold onto the things of the past to “catch my balance” or wait (cautiously) for the things on the horizon! If I look forward hopefully towards where I am going, I can be surprised and delighted with the joy that this world has to offer -> life abundantly!
Thank you to you and the many people who have helped me to turn my viewpoint and mindset around! And reminding me that this life truly IS worth living! ❤😂😊
That is absolutely what it is all about! If we can find joy and fulfilment in the journey, the destination becomes a whole more interesting and enjoyable. The world of instant gratification is a dangerous place.
You're very welcome! it is my pleasure
What do you call it when James Bond takes a bath? bubble o7😂
Love this video!❤ so clear!
Aha I like that! Thank you for the kind words! The full guide on the membership goes into so much more detail. I'd recommend you check it out
Who said you are GOING to Barbados?! You Are IN Barbados! And you went there first class!
Absolutely!
I just love how you break things down and explain them so well. Seriously, you make manifestating easier and easier with every video you put out. Thankyou so much!
Thankyou for helping us so selflessly💜
Thank you for the kind words! I am glad it all helps! It is my pleasure
It feeeeels sooooo gooood to have my beautiful Sp back!!! We are together, BETTER THAN EVER!⚡️🩷⚡️💞
Ayyy that's amazing!
Thanks much for being so modest kind human understanding to US nd u explain so well some women coaches whose name begin with s this only I can tell they are bad nd tell bad statements or block ppl that do not agree with them Its not loyal neither human they react so so thanks much again from all of US for Ur humanity nd kindness!!!!!!
You're very welcome! It is my pleasure!
i like re-discovering the fact that i like salad and then forgetting that i like salad and then eating salad again and being SHOCKED at how good salad is. this happens a lot.
Lol sounds like a riveting experience
@@MindOverThisMatrix yeah i definitely misinterpreted 'comment about anything you like' but i stand by what i said
i have known about the law of assumption for a while already, but i think i only now truly understand how it works because you explain it so well. manifestation is literally so simple and i hate that i didn't grasp it earlier. but i'm grateful that i now have complete understanding of what manifestation even is and how it works, so thank you for what you do! 🌟
Well, now that you know it, you can create an awesome live for yourself! Better late than never! You're very welcome, it is my pleasure.
Every video of you is a reminder of how easy manifestation is. I resonate a lot with the way you teach the loa, specially on this kind of topics, because what you say is true, and it is helping me a lot so thank you! ❤
Thats awesome! Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm so happy to help!
Thank you for the video, I wish I could stay in a positive mindset all the time I need a little parrot on my shoulder giving me a pep talk all the time 😂
Aha wouldn't that be great! Put my videos on loop and have me in the background keeping you on track aha
Matt's music channel here! I will be posting music clips soon!
Ayy
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@@JanMuench467 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@@markPwilliams Her name is queen stella laveaux and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@@JanMuench467 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
My only question or concern with this is manifesting the life I want back, not the life I had, but a new version of it - then when I realize it’s not true, I get very depressed. I guess then I just need to continue changing my mindset on it and stay positive.
You need to keep on keeping on. It will never benefit you to give up or give into the negative when it arises.You just gotta keep going no matter what is happening.
Loved it! Especially at the end when you said "we have make progress 1% at a time and trust the process". The game is about have to bring the awareness from outside to inside (to the desired reality) and not compare your journey with others. Manifestation is a very personal process !
Absolutely! Such a big thing to remember!
This is Matthew's favourite comment, because I assume it to be so! 😆 I'm so grateful for the video call we have together, it's so amazingly helpful to me. Thank you! ❤
Aha we will have to see about that :D
@@MindOverThisMatrix 😊❤️
I must say a lot of what you said I was only realising myself yesterday but wasn't sure it was correct. After watching your video, you confirmed it, I therefore am claiming I manifested you making this video. Thanks Matt, as always
That's awesome! I am happy for you!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. Yes, discipline is important, just trust the process and be patient.
Youre very welcome! Absolutely! Couldn't agree more
Thank you so much for this video. I genuinely cried a bit feeling so happy that someone explained what to do so simply! I’m grateful you were very clear on what to do and I’m going to definitely try this out!! ❤
You're very welcome! It is my pleasure!
i know I should stop watching videos and commenting bc that’s not helping but I keep doing it and i just want to manifest a new sp and all the like sc and lots of afformation bc I say I am in the most happy loving passionate relationship and then my sc is I’m secure and confident I’m good enough, there’s no one like me I always get what I want. I’m a master Manifester
Thn you're on the right track. What this video through, really take note and follow what is said, that is all you need to do. Now, if you want more detailed help on this, the membership has the full exhaustive guide that will ensure you have 0 confusion
@@MindOverThisMatrix can I manifest being tall and strong to
Thank you for the breakdown! I know you kinda catfished us in with the title of the video but it helps with not focusing on what we don’t want. But focusing on what we want and all about changing our mindset of desires. I just found you but plan to keep following you. You are going to become big on RUclips and can’t wait to comment in the future “Hey I remembered you back in 2023!” Keep going and keep being professional the subtitles help a lot!
Aha there was no catfishing, I just didn't want to keep referring to it as ex back, due to that accentuating the fact they're an ex. I am glad it helps and thank you for the support!
I will get this video call. Love your videos.
Thank you! Let's see
Amazing video as always 😍 your teachings have been invaluable on my journey to manifest my man! Yes that’s right he’s my man ❤
Thats awesome! I am happy to hear that!
Be still and know that its already done!
Awesome!
Manifesting a free video call...!!!!
OOOPSSS I JUST WON IT
Ayy let's see aha
I affirm that I will be picked my Matt for the free video call coaching! I affirm that I win this competition! :))
Oo, we will have to see about that
Haha! Are you happy for me to send over some LOA success stories to you?
Hey Matt, your contents are really very helpful. When I got into Law of Assumptions's success story, the first video came in my feed was yours. I'm really grateful to you and you're awesome. Love from India ❤
Thank you for the kind words! It means a lot!
Your most welcome ✨💯
You said we must persist until it hardens into fact, and it makes a lot of sense. I have one question though, what’s you oppinion about the people who only manifested their SP when they gave up? What could be the reason they didn’t manifest while persisting and affirming until burnout?
Its because sometimes "giving up" doesnt actually equal giving up, but it drops the resistance. The doubts. If youre not "needing" or "expecting" for it to happen, then whats the resistance anymore? And then it manifests!
The answer the other person gave is spot on
Thankyou for the explanation and insight instead of telling what I can I can’t do 💪💪🙌🙌
You're very welcome! Happy to help!
I’ve just discovered your channel and, ufff, mindblowing. It makes me realize how important is to be authentic to myself. However, the “needing state” is a huge deal for me yet. I’m having migraine headaches almost every day because of the state of “trying”. I feel like my mind is going to explode. Do you have any advice on how to literally don’t give a fuck? I don’t feel secure to let go
Thank you for the kind words! Well, a technique I have used is the 'why would I care?' or 'So, what if it don't?. Now, these are essentially asking yourself why would you care if it didn't happen or so what if it didn't happen? Now, i know this doesn't seem positive. However, if you want to get out a state of trying, you need to thin of things from a new angle.
@@MindOverThisMatrix I’ll try it out, absolutely! Thank you so much for your attention and advice
My Special Person, Angelica, is obsessed with me now.
If that makes you happy, go for it
I'd like to thank you for the things that you do for us. The journey of getting your sp back is very challenging but with your guidance it becomes easier.
I have one request (if possible).
Explain why circumstances don't matter in details.
Thanks, and greetings from Los Angeles.
You're very welcome! It is my pleasure! So, circumstances don't matter because your subconscious mind doesn't rely on the truth of the 3D to create what you desire. Instead, it requires your focus and awareness. So, if you change what you focus on, you change your reality. Since it uses your truth and not the truth, shifting your awareness is all that is required.
What do you do when you act as if and then you start missing them? When you feel you're in a happy relationship with them and then want to hang out or talk to them?
When you miss them but they're busy, for example, at work, what would you do then?
@MindOverThisMatrix perfect !! when they're busy we usually get going on with something else. But in this scenario, it reminds that we can't reach out to them bcz of the situation and may start spiraling.
Matt matt matt matt...damnit what would all of us do without you?! This is a brilliant video as usual...easy to understand and very concise! I have a question abt this SP thing.
So I know when there is a 3p situation all the coaches say to ignore the 3p and it goes away. Sometimes that can be alittle challenging ( i am off social media and all just so i can keep a strict mental diet and while I do have some annoying feelings pop up every now and then I will stop myself and just repeat my affirmations or rampage and remind myself its my thoughts that manifest and not my feelings) however recently I started doing two things...
1) everytime a image of 3p pops up (not often but it does happen) I ask "why is this person completely irrelevant to my manifestation?!"
2) because I absolutely refuse to give my power away and let someone else take it, everytime I get that deep uncomfortable feeling in my gut when a unfavourable image or thought pops up, I look at it and say "too bad, this is my reality. In my reality I am always going to be the one SP is in love with" this makes me feel in control and ngl more badass than just ignoring the whole thing.
What are your thoughts on this? Is it a good way to go about it? Many thanks for all your help! ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the kind words! I am happy to help!
I thinkthose are definitely good ways of handling it and if they feel like they help, keep em up. However, it is worth considering what the 3P trggers within you and work on that also. You don't have to bring the 3p to mind but at least understanding the trigger will gve you a blueprint on what to adjust going forward
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much matt! Much to ponder over!!
I would love some advice on what I believe is may be delaying the manifestation of my SP. I know it's not self-concept and I not only know I am worthy of all of my manifestations, but I know I will receive them. I know my SP loves me and I'm the love of his life. In my eyes, it's only a matter of time. It just hit me like a ton of bricks, the issue is patience. For those of you, including you Matthew, how do you deal with the patience aspect when you miss them very much?
Patience is based on what you are looking at in front of you and allowing to affect your state. When you are looking at your 3D and being overly aware it isn't reflecting what you desire, that is when you become impatient for it. So, the things I do is make myself so busy on a day to day basis that I don't even have the time to miss or be impatient, because I am having a great time living
I got this now thank you and could you give more simple words for abundance and lack
Thats great! I don't think there are simpler words. Abundance means lot of and lack means less of. There's not much of a better way to describe it
Definitely one of your best videos Matt, thanks again for all your advice and tips.
I do highly recommend purchasing the membership. Possibly one of the best memberships in my life/reality that I have purchased.🙂
Thank you so much for the kind words and the support! Itmeans a lot
@@MindOverThisMatrix Anytime
For me is very difficult because now there's a third party and I have to see them interacting almost every day (we all work in the same place) 😢, but I will keep trying
I am sorry to hear that!
Great video and that full guide is going to be awesome!
Lots of aha moments 🤩🤩 of small/big concepts. 💎 thankyou man 💯
Thats awesome! You're very welcome !
heeeey.... i currently feel comfortable with 2 different people... which messes with my head/ thoughts a loooooott!! :( any advice or anything
Same
Well, why is it messing with your head? What is stopping you from living in the end of a fulfilling relationship and then having your sub mind bring the one that most fits with that to you?
@@MindOverThisMatrix great idea! but i think i just dont like being confused... but i guess time will tell, i wont give up on either options.
I wanna thank you Matt, coaching with you have helped me when I felt stuck in my journey 🙏🌟 a little update is that I recently woken up to who I really really Am and it shifted my whole world around 🥹 I’ve gotten an amazing shift within myself but also a 180 turn shift with my SP , money and even in my physical appearance 😍💜 Thank you Matt 🌟🙏
You're very welcome! t is my pleasure! That's awesome to hear! I am so happy for you!
Another great video! Loved it! You are without a doubt one of the best coaches out there! ❤
Thank you! That means so much!
If this were to happen, I would die a happy man! ❤
Thats awesome!
I hope you get it 💖
Love it!
Thank you!
Hello brother, good day to you, I have been looping affirmations for that stressful situation which i mentioned to u about SP's friend tagging him in a post n said 'Im so happy for u....' i cud not see it, i was scared to see anything online from dat day, recently i reached out to sp but he is silent, we are always have been on a healthy good note n rarely talk before n I was focusing on my life n affirming for him n my sc n seeing his name here n there but that that day i suddenly i got into this post which i couldn't see 😓
Can i affirm that post is from specific field ????????? So that i can focus on my works in life ? And also can i stop messaging him ??????? Please save me with your valuable advise brother 🙏♥️🤲
You can affirm whatever you desire to be true. Right now, you're focusing too much on the lack of what you want and the things that don't align with your end resutlt. So, remove your awareness from them and place it on what you do wish to be true. Affirm for what you desire to be true and it doesn't matter what that is, itll still work.
@@MindOverThisMatrix ok brother thank u 😓
Wonderful and thorough and easy to grasp explanation. I'm wondering your opinion on something. Why is our mind so cruel sometimes? lol I mean one minute I'm so happy and confident my SP is mine and on his way back then my brain will be mean and say "no he's not"! It makes me think of having an angel in one ear and the devil in the other. I've gotten much better at redirecting my focus but I'd like to just not have those thoughts period! If I weren't so sane, I'd think I have multiple personalities! 😂😂😂
@user-gj6pj6gf5s I already have.
Thank you! I am glad to help! We are a species built for survival. Part of that includes preparing for the worst and the other part is keeping ourselves safe. Our mind goes back to the worst over and over so we can be prepared for when/if it happens. Overtime, the more you do the work, the more it will lessen as those stories will become more dominant
@@MindOverThisMatrix Thank you for the reply as always! You are one of the only coaches out there that I notice consistently replies and takes care of his people, which is why I will keep coming back to your channel! It's much appreciated. And I agree. The first few weeks in this new journey was a lot of "fighting" internally in my own mind and having a lot of imaginary conversations with my SP that were not always good, but of course, not always bad. But the more I have learned that is the old story and focus on the end result, which is an amazing relationship in which that bad shit doesn't exist, it's so much easier to tell my self to shut up when those negative thoughts do tend to creep up. After almost a month, I'm glad to say I am able to get myself out of that negative "loop" in a matter of seconds so I will take this as a sign that they will soon no longer even pop up!
That happens to me. When a negative thought starts to come in I immediately say "I rebuke that" and it goes away. Just cut that thought off completely.
Superb video and great efforts… Certainly i claim that i am having one to one session with you guys . Superb session 😊
Thank you! I appreciate that
Spittin' facts. A+ video once again. I know I say this a lot, but I (and many others) really appreciate you, Matt. You have no idea. 😊🙌🏻
Thank you! That means so much!
I agree totally with not focusing on the not having, resentements, old stories etc. But how is it possible, to feel warm and cosy when you're out in the winters cold without clothing? (😢This relates also to other situations than the sp thing.) Its cold, right? How not to feel this? How not to suffer? The only thing I can think about in this case is to identify with the person who is going to be in the warmth again. Not to think: I will suffer from cold forever. But its kind of hard to shiver in the ice and believe that it feels great. How do you think about that?
You bring to your mind the version who is experiencing the warmth. While yes it may be cold, there have been studies to prove that the body is heavily influenced by the mind. If you bring to mind warmth and cosiness, your body will begin to react more in alignment to that
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much for answering so quickly. Yes, this makes sense. I see that it definitly makes things worse to concentrate on the pain....so imagine something different,regardeless of how I feel right now...
Love you for this one 💓
Thank you! The guide on the membership goes into so much more
@@MindOverThisMatrix membership n coaching I am taking both..
@@inmy20_s ayy! That's awesome!
Can this be with any sp like a new sp
Yeah, of course!
How I’m sorry for commenting a lot but how can I manifest being confident on calls with people and and with my friends
Hopefully my answer in the luvestream helps with this
I wamt to move in with my SP. We are currently in no contact but im trying to manifest him back into my life. I've been feeling like I should declutter my home and pack up some things that i would be taking with me. Am i crazy for thinking that?
It's not crazy. Maybe it is you stepping into your new self
This was really good. I'm definitely going to watch the exhaustive guide video. Thank you Matthew!!
Thats awesome! Thank you!
Thank you for such an awesome video. I do have a question, when you say insert persons name, would that be the first name or the full name? That's the biggest thing that's always confused me with SP manifestations. I hope you're having a great day man, thank you for the video 😊
Youre very welcome! I usually use first name. However you can refer to them with whatever feels natural and better for you
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much! I was thinking about it and it felt weird doing the full name because that's not natural for me. Thank you for the help 😊
Hey Matthew, thank you for the wisdom as always, I have a question if thats okay, yesterday I watched a video from Hyler, who is a manifestation coach, and she said in the video that other people's assumptions can manifest in your life, for example if you're manifesting an sp and your bestfriend thinks this person is an asshole, that will manifest in your life and will work against your desire because that assumption is also gonna manifest and they re gonna show up as an asshole, Im so confused, thank you for your answer
So, I operate as us being the operant power in our reality. There is nothing no one else can do unless we allow them to. If we give up our power and allow us to assume they have power in our reality, they will. However, if we don't they won't. That's how I operate and it hasn't led me astray. It isn't worth letting things that take your power from you take control
As everyone is you pushed out, the friend would only think sp is an asshole if you think your friend has that opinion. Or it could be that you are worried sp will show up as an asshole and your the friend is only reflecting your beliefs. He's not an asshole! 🤩
What about sc
I left SC out of this as it would have been too long. However, on the full guide on the membership, I go into it in huge detail.
@@MindOverThisMatrix is it free
Thank you for the video! I have a slightly weird question. I'm am bilingual and I catch myself thinking in both languages. Do you think it matters which language I affirm in? I try to affirm in both languages because some affirmations are easier for me if they are in English, but I've always wondered if it makes a difference.
You're very welcome! nah, you'll be fine. Your mind knows whats up. so, as long as you're feeding the right story, you're all good
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you!
I loved this video! Everything you’re saying is so easy to understand and to implement. I also love the new aesthetic for this video, it’s so cute!
Listen to what Matt says guys - I’ve had so much success in the past year working with Matt and I’m so grateful for his help. He’s so real and relatable that he’s literally like a friend. Matt knows his stuff and I would definitely recommend coaching if you need help with specific areas!
Thank you for the kind words! They mean a lot.
Also, thank you for the kind words about the coaching! It is my pleasure to help
How do i join your members only on my phone? I don’t have a laptop 😊
Does it not give you the option to join on your phone?
Here's a link www.buymeacoffee.com/MOTMatrix/membership
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much🙂
Love this content ❤.
Thankyou.
You're very welcome!
❤ thanks
You're very welcome!
Thanks for this 🙏. Is looking up photos of your ex ok for reference for imagining them. As long as your not dwelling on the past.
Youre very welcome! As long as you're using it as a positive, it's all good
I was delivered a copy when I expected the original. How does one say “Oh crap” in French? 😆 Thnx
I don't know if I understand this aha
If the wrong ex comes back should I reject them and not entertain them
That's entirely up to you.
Can we manifest and do the assumptions in our mother tongue or english ? Cuz english is not my mother tongue
in the language that resonates most with you
I dont know, when ever i try thinking he will be back then suddenly a thought comes taht he is over me and what if he finds someone or any manifestation wont work.
That's just your mind fighting back. If you let it win, you're showing it is right.
Hyy can I change my exam's Mark's which is already done plzz do reply...
Well, other coaches have said they have had people experience changes like this using revision. However, I personally have never tried to do something like this. So, I cannot speak from experience. What I can say is to get clear on the result you want and residing in that result being done as best you can and give yourself the best chances to shift that outcome
Hi matt, i really wanted to know your opinions about something....
Is it really worth it to manifest your ex back ?? I mean if we actually manifest them being in love with us , does that mean, them loving us is our doing ???
What if we didnt manifest them, it would mean they never loved us in the first place. So is it worth it ???
They say the universe always have a person, let go and allow the universe ot bring he right partner for you !! What about those !??
Im confuse, i want to manifest my ex but i dont know if its worth it since he wouldnt have left if he truly loved me. I feel like im forcing things by using manifestation !!! Can you tell me your opinioms about this please... thanks a lot ❤
You're always manifesting. Whether consciously or unconsciously, your entire life is built up by the things that you allowed into your awareness. So, the first time yu got them, this was a manifestation and operated no differently to if you were to manifest them back. So, if you want them, go for it. If you want someone new, go for it. It all comes through you anyway
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you for replying to me 💕
Thanks for the info, i just wanted him to realised his mistakes ... and be remorseful for what he has done..... can i actually manifest that from him ???
She is gone, its been 4 month and she is already said she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't want us back and now she is with talking stage with someone else, so is it possible ro manifest her?
She didn't block me or what, we talk but she coldy talk usually, and we in ldr relationship
Yeah, it's entirely 'possible' for her to come back. However, you need to stay true to the desired story
Hello anyone reading this I would be immensely thankful if you took time to reply. This is not related to a video but I wanted to come to this community:
So I have a “deadline” I want to manifest my results by tomorrow but I’m not sure what’s the best way to go about it. Is instantly manifesting guaranteed ?
The best thing you can do for yourself is get clear on the result or outcome you want and, from now, be dedicated and committed into claiming you have recieved that outcome already. Any thought that comes up and is opposing, redirect it back to what you want being done.
@@MindOverThisMatrix thank you so much 😊
do u believe in robotic affirmations?
I do indeed. It is what I make use of more than anything.
I am asking on behalf of someone. What action to take someone who is married and she has kept you blocked ?
Well, if she hadn't, other than texting, what would that someone do?
@@MindOverThisMatrix sorry i didnt get that. 😢
Hello.
I have a question.
My girl and I are currently not together, but I know we will be….. WE ARE.
Her and I have a history of sabatoging and this last break up happened a few weeks ago, a few weeks before my current house is being sold, a couple weeks before we got our own place together, and it happened because….. I cheated.
Unfortunately I allowed myself to be careless and made the biggest mistake, bc now…… I don’t have my girls….. my girls such as her and my 2 step daughters.
I’d do anything for another chance as I know she’s my person, I know im hers but for the time being she’s disconnected and from what I understand, is giving someone else the opportunity to win her heart.
I’m manifesting, all day.
Sigils, bay leafs, candles, and again….. im manifesting.
What can I do?
How can I speed up this process.
How can I get rid of any potential 3rd parties.
I really wanna get this right with her.
I don’t want to be the guy before THE GUY.
Please help
I am sorry to hear this is your experience. However, if you desire to speed up and, ultimately, have your desire, what really matters is your state of being. These techniques you're doing are great. However, what about outside of doing them? Are you still seeing the situation in despair or are you living from the end. The dominant state matters. So, if you're doing these techniques a couple of times a day but thinking like shit the rest, you're still dominantly in that old story
Matt I swear you’ve been in my bedroom and you’ve seen my 2 pages of A3 paper that I’ve written down how my DF is showing up for me. This last week I have been reading it twice in a morning and twice before I go to bed. My problem is I can’t find the middle ground or to stay on a high with my thoughts. Sometimes I waved and find myself hitting the bad thoughts even tho I know my outcome . Why can’t I stay level headed 😔. I know it’s not hard to do but I am making it hard when it’s easy because I know I have her. She’s just not here yet I’m the 3D. I know I am in a loving, passionate, committed, eternal, enjoyable, happy relationship for now until we are married. By the way I am loving the little action heroes you’ve got on the floating shelves behind you. I’ve just rejoined the gym and I am also doing classes that involves trampoline classes called boogie bounce. My life is getting back on track 👍🙏🤪
It is all about redirecting your awareness back to what you want. As humans, we shift states constantly. It is all about being aware of where you are at and working to shift those thoughts back. Consistency is the most important thing. Aha thank you they're a little collectible habit of mind. I am glad to hear you're jumping back into things!
Why are pirates the worst when it comes to dating? They're always looking for their X
Aha I like that! Very relevant to the video too
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I don't know why i see him as a best version with no third party . What happens opposite he continues show act he like her . we don't belong together? so what I do no meaning. today I am so sad even can't cry. and leave .
You need to remove your awareness from that. You cannot do your affirmations and see them as the best version and then go looking into the 3D and using it as evidence for why things aren't working. You need to pick an option and stick to it, no matter what
I am manifesting a lot of things along side with my SP and when I get triggered I say this affirmation and start giggling " my SP adores the smell of my fart " 😂. Happy manifesting...
Aha I love that!
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This one is your favourite comment. 👌
Aha who knows
I manifest that i m going to have a vc with you
Ayy let's see then
I intend to win a date sorry free video call with Matthew ❤
Ah, sorry, the winner has already been picked
@@MindOverThisMatrix ah, maybe next time
I’m watching lots of videos and I’m getting really stressed and idk what to do
Well, most videos say the same thing. What do you think you should do?
@@MindOverThisMatrix i know I should stop watching videos and commenting bc that’s not helping but I keep doing it and i just want to manifest a new sp and all the like sc and lots of afformation bc I say I am in the most happy loving passionate relationship and then my sc is I’m secure and confident I’m good enough, there’s no one like me I always get what I want. I’m a master Manifester
Pick Meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee please:)
Aha we will see