Improve your Vocabulary: Stop saying I KNOW!

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  • Опубликовано: 4 янв 2020
  • This lesson is about more than just improving your vocabulary. Improve your communication skills and your conversations with others by replacing the simple “I know.” with other terms and expressions in English. In this video, I’ll explain why “I know” often has a negative effect on your conversation, and will then give you many different terms you can use instead. Take the first step to improving your relationships with friends, family, and co-workers by watching this class and then actually doing what I say in the video. Practice in real life and then let me know how it went in the comments.
    Check out the other videos in this series:
    Stop saying SORRY! • Improve your Vocabular...
    Stop saying VERY! • Improve your Vocabular...
    Stop saying I KNOW! • Improve your Vocabular...
    Stop saying NICE and BEAUTIFUL! • Improve your Vocabular...
    Stop saying BAD! • Improve Your Vocabular...

Комментарии • 10 тыс.

  • @engvidJames
    @engvidJames  Год назад +41

    Next, check out my other videos in this series!
    Stop saying BAD! ruclips.net/video/dM_1lc32SsI/видео.html
    Stop saying SORRY! ruclips.net/video/Vf0on6KQP2Y/видео.html
    Stop saying VERY! ruclips.net/video/PCoyTwltu5g/видео.html
    Stop saying I KNOW! ruclips.net/video/FXjvpR02uNg/видео.html
    Stop saying NICE and BEAUTIFUL! ruclips.net/video/-C4nJaluO5g/видео.html

  • @waedjradi
    @waedjradi 4 года назад +3251

    Instead of saying "I know."
    You can always say;
    This is true.
    Indeed.
    Of course.
    Agreed.
    I hear you.
    Understood.
    Exactly.
    Absolutely.

  • @jayelc.8258
    @jayelc.8258 2 года назад +6648

    And now I know

  • @thedanimalchannel7072
    @thedanimalchannel7072 2 года назад +327

    I wish I had teachers like this in school. I would have learned so much more.

  • @galacticglitch4086
    @galacticglitch4086 2 года назад +51

    This man is teaching us better than most English teachers. The internet is truly a magnificent place

  • @raven7672
    @raven7672 4 года назад +5101

    teacher: "you need to stop saying I know"
    me: "I know"

    • @claudiaLaCroix007
      @claudiaLaCroix007 4 года назад +90

      SightlierDog5 I know right!

    • @DutyOf
      @DutyOf 4 года назад +39

      Hahahha yessss

    • @LilPozzer
      @LilPozzer 4 года назад +31

      I see it at a different point

    • @iEduLS
      @iEduLS 4 года назад +8

      @@DutyOf i know you are a brazilian just for your name ( eu também sou brasileiro kkkk )

    • @joyroyal5155
      @joyroyal5155 4 года назад +6

      Lmao

  • @mgames1710
    @mgames1710 2 года назад +1054

    "Improve your Vocabulary: Stop saying I KNOW!"
    I know man, I know

    • @monkeysniper5010
      @monkeysniper5010 2 года назад +10

      i know

    • @rafaelpaquete3350
      @rafaelpaquete3350 2 года назад +16

      but for real, I don't wanna watch the whole video, which phrases he suggested to use instead of "I know"?

    • @jennifergonzalez9129
      @jennifergonzalez9129 2 года назад +1

      @@rafaelpaquete3350 lol same I came to see the answers 🤣

    • @RhapsodyHC
      @RhapsodyHC 2 года назад +3

      I know right.

    • @TheBatugan77
      @TheBatugan77 2 года назад +2

      @@rafaelpaquete3350
      Watch the whole video.
      GivesAShit what you wanna?

  • @TSquare8
    @TSquare8 2 года назад +66

    Your English teaching is highly valuable even for the natives. Thank you.

  • @chrisredfield6274
    @chrisredfield6274 2 года назад +286

    "You need to stop saying I know so much"
    "Yeah, I know."

  • @chunkyzamboni8407
    @chunkyzamboni8407 2 года назад +767

    "I acknowledge that I am aware that what you have uttered is accurate."
    this will be very helpful when I have to do an essay in english class

    • @mimo_7174
      @mimo_7174 2 года назад +3

      🤣

    • @saiful0003
      @saiful0003 2 года назад +3

      G bisa basa english

    • @immortalvirgo5131
      @immortalvirgo5131 2 года назад +1

      I aware of the knowledge that you have shared with me is quite accurate. Thank you.

    • @dejavu2298
      @dejavu2298 2 года назад +5

      Said this and they said "wtf? 😐"

    • @lukevic3051
      @lukevic3051 2 года назад

      I just can’t use that cos I just need very short line to replace “I know”.

  • @lydiasoares88
    @lydiasoares88 2 года назад +39

    Meanwhile:
    Me: *keeps saying "I know" even after watching this*

  • @marcuslagman6176
    @marcuslagman6176 2 года назад +12

    I've been having this problem with a friend and I couldn't figure it out until today. He keeps saying I know and this video really brought it straight with me.

  • @sambulleit6191
    @sambulleit6191 2 года назад +724

    I'm a native English speaker who has lived his whole life in the USA, and this video is still full of good information. If you're learning English, you're in the right place.

    • @InspireNThrive206
      @InspireNThrive206 2 года назад +2

      weird right?

    • @personincognito3989
      @personincognito3989 2 года назад +8

      Thank you so much for saying you're a native English speaker rather than saying you speak American as some Americans like to say as if they have claim to the English language

    • @yoswag7380
      @yoswag7380 2 года назад +2

      @@InspireNThrive206 I know

    • @gaming4K
      @gaming4K 2 года назад

      @@personincognito3989 What are you talking about? He could be English or Canadian maybe Australian or South African? 😂

    • @brollochan2021
      @brollochan2021 2 года назад

      @@gaming4K that’s the point.

  • @haydenlanning5674
    @haydenlanning5674 3 года назад +621

    "I know" versus "I understand" is the difference between arrogance and understanding. Even if you know what someone is telling you, that person wants to be heard. If that person feels heard, they are more agreeable and so are you.

    • @GODSPEEDseven
      @GODSPEEDseven 3 года назад +27

      Absolutely on point!
      It's extremely difficult to entertain a conversation with someone who "knows everything" you might simply want to share or discuss. A valuable lesson for myself here as well.

    • @melodyeisenberg2789
      @melodyeisenberg2789 3 года назад +11

      Absolutely. Clear effective speech conveys true intention.

    • @LittleMissSunshine721
      @LittleMissSunshine721 3 года назад +8

      Great point!

    • @DanielleM22
      @DanielleM22 3 года назад +6

      It's funny this video came on my timeline right after I had a conversation with a women who I first tried to end the conversation with nicely by saying thank I understand and now im overwhelmed we can dive into this another time but she kept going so I threw in the I knows and eventually when that didn't work I completely zoned out and turned my back on her. In my own life I have used I know ONLY with people who I have tried to listen and understand and then put my input but that other person was not open to what I had to say and just wanted to hear themselves talk and talk over me. I can't have have conversation with someone who can't let someone input something into the convo because if that is the case then go to a therapist who will listen to you rant but want no input. I agree that I know is very condescending but sometimes when all other nice tactics to end a conversation fails I know can really throw a punch in there

    • @javonmaley4359
      @javonmaley4359 3 года назад +3

      🤦🏻‍♂️ saying understand is saying that you
      “stand under”
      It’s inherently submissive bs that no one should ever say.
      How about just critically think instead of listening to someone tell you what to say 😂

  • @guaporomeo1140
    @guaporomeo1140 2 года назад +11

    I taught my lil cousin this, he would always say "I know" and slowly but surely he stopped and now speaks very good English, now his conversations last longer

  • @dericasanders3269
    @dericasanders3269 2 года назад +9

    I’ve understand more in this video, than I ever had in school. I’m going to show these Video to my 7 year old Nephews.

  • @davidsimms4508
    @davidsimms4508 2 года назад +736

    Knowledge is power, UNDERSTANDING is GREATER, WISDOM is BEST.

  • @Bxrry
    @Bxrry 2 года назад +1589

    This man might change my life

  • @skillet3753
    @skillet3753 2 года назад +13

    : do you know the way?
    Me after this video: I appreciate you asking me for my evaluation of the situation. I see from my perspective many ways we are able to go about this. After recognizing and validating through a previous experience of such a situation, I now *understand* the way.

  • @morganrasmussen5071
    @morganrasmussen5071 2 года назад +7

    I love how he is just a tiny bit dorky! "Hint hint, astricks" Wonderful Teacher!

  • @conjurn.
    @conjurn. 3 года назад +1966

    you're saving people's relationships honestly

    • @JMS849
      @JMS849 3 года назад +174

      He already knows bro

    • @Kerrviii
      @Kerrviii 3 года назад +28

      I was just about to say this.

    • @sarafowler1023
      @sarafowler1023 3 года назад +29

      😭😭😭😭 exactly why I’m here

    • @itsmont8874
      @itsmont8874 3 года назад +14

      How ?

    • @butwhytho4858
      @butwhytho4858 3 года назад +10

      ikr? 🤣

  • @user-tn6fg2du6v
    @user-tn6fg2du6v 3 года назад +259

    This is so funny because I find it really annoying when people respond with “I know” . It’s essentially a way of telling you to shut up lol !

    • @auroraautumn8764
      @auroraautumn8764 3 года назад +24

      It is. Code or social cue to stop talking to that person. When o use it , I mean stop talking to me. I did not ask you to speak to me or for any information 😂😂😂

    • @crystalsingleton8993
      @crystalsingleton8993 3 года назад +3

      Exactly! That’s my opinion as well.

    • @user-tn6fg2du6v
      @user-tn6fg2du6v 3 года назад +1

      @Stephone Bryan lol I hear you . Although my comment was more about when in back and forth conversation. Saying “I know” is kind of abrasive and basically cuts the conversation short . It also makes an assumption that I think you dont know lol I’m just engaging in dialogue but yes when people give unwanted opinions or try to act like a know it all . I know is a quick and easy way to shut that down .

    • @user-tn6fg2du6v
      @user-tn6fg2du6v 3 года назад +5

      @Stephone Bryan fair enough but this isn’t about having a long conversation per se , more so about a fruitful conversation, I can only be talked at for so long . I will eventually give my input . If you respond to my input with I know , if you know why exactly are you speaking to me , go talk to yourself , review things in your head . Only therapists have to sit and be talked at for long periods of time without input , you don’t engage others in conversation and then respond to their input with “I know” . That’s not very self aware . Also shows you have crappy conversational skills , me telling you something you know doesn’t always warrant the response “I know” and if you would like to disengage from the conversation do so but don’t be surprised if someone you constantly say “I know” to starts to avoid conversation with you . If you enjoy conversation with someone saying “I know” is a good way to make sure they don’t enjoy conversation with you .

    • @Mugen123456789
      @Mugen123456789 3 года назад +14

      For me I only say it when someone is intricately explaining something simple to me that I'm well aware of. If you sit there and try to lecture me on the techniques of tying a shoelace, I'm gonna say "I KNOW"

  • @TheHi-T
    @TheHi-T 2 года назад +6

    Thank you!
    My work colleague says "I know" when information is being shared with her. It comes across as being rude, ignoring people, & unappreciative. Causes communication breakdown. Perhaps we'll just leave her "Post-it" notes. The only time she wants to communicate is when she wants to interrupt the way you are doing a task. She ignores that everyone has a way of doing simple tasks. Her way does not improve the process or make it faster. The end result will be the same. I simply say "I understand" instead of arguing.
    At the end of the day I am not going to lose sleep over her saying "I know". The team sees this which makes the rest of us look like better employees.
    As an adult it is her responsibility to improve her communication skills.

    • @JanRossi
      @JanRossi 2 года назад +1

      Send this link to her with a note for her to watch it! Maybe through a made up email address.

    • @TheHi-T
      @TheHi-T 2 года назад +1

      @@JanRossi I cannot. Probably end up in HR. People can be super sensitive.

  • @fabriceizzo2922
    @fabriceizzo2922 2 года назад +12

    For those of you Native English speakers adding your unsolicited input or corrections, remember that this is a class for beginners. He has to be straightforward. At this level, nuances only help further confuse students.

  • @Acronick101
    @Acronick101 3 года назад +526

    Basic: "I know."
    Intellectual: "I have previously obtained this information."

  • @verylowendgamers7426
    @verylowendgamers7426 3 года назад +1802

    "Any fool can know, the point is to understand." - Sponge Bob

    • @looweegee252
      @looweegee252 3 года назад +42

      Any fool can understand another person, even without comprehension!

    • @Googeldybunkz
      @Googeldybunkz 3 года назад +86

      Fucking Bob the Philosopher.

    • @yungyola5331
      @yungyola5331 3 года назад +2

      Big facts

    • @Chris1200923
      @Chris1200923 3 года назад +4

      @@Googeldybunkz LMAO

    • @coldblooded568
      @coldblooded568 2 года назад +23

      I didn't expect that source 😂

  • @rheathelord
    @rheathelord 2 года назад +1

    This is such an important topic all writers should see; expanding your vocabulary is always positive progession.

  • @Ayesha_syed
    @Ayesha_syed Год назад +3

    This was more of a communication class.. which needs to be implemented in any language we speak… thanks for teaching us how sensitive words can be… Great lesson Sir! 👏

  • @Libertus-wv9xe
    @Libertus-wv9xe 3 года назад +180

    "I know" is a perfectly good response for people who are arrogantly patronizing you and telling you obvious shit you already know.

    • @JustindunnItAgain
      @JustindunnItAgain 3 года назад +29

      I’m aware of how you feel but ones ignorance does not mean you reply with ignorance you communicate your discomfort

    • @cuautzina5978
      @cuautzina5978 3 года назад +6

      @@JustindunnItAgain that being said when you are dealing with a person who is demeaning your intelligence a quip of “I know” is a good way to show them that they are being an ass or that their explanation in completely unnecessary and borderline rude without saying “you are being patronizing ass”

    • @philippezevenberg1332
      @philippezevenberg1332 3 года назад +5

      If someone is being arrogant I just act like Im clueless and I rejoice in the frustration I see when its been 10 minutes and I just laugh...

    • @tashboog
      @tashboog 2 года назад

      Agreed bro

    • @tashboog
      @tashboog 2 года назад +7

      @@JustindunnItAgain considering ignorance is literally/defined as ‘not knowing’ ...telling someone you know something wouldn’t be ignorant 🙄

  • @sergioguadalupe755
    @sergioguadalupe755 4 года назад +953

    James is a good and funny teacher I appreciate his humor while teaching.

  • @ranggaardianshah4900
    @ranggaardianshah4900 2 года назад +4

    these lesson really help me to learn improve my vocabulary
    and i hope i can speak english confidently and without rambling

  • @drhubblebubble7
    @drhubblebubble7 2 года назад +4

    Over my years of learning Polish I've unfortunately caught one of their most commonly used phrases, "no wiem", which made me start saying it in all of languages that I can speak. I greatly appreciate that I found your video because I really hate the phrase, "I know", so I'm reteaching myself to avoid using this. Like you said, It makes me feel like people are not actually considering my message and they only care about what they want to tell me, so conversations feel one-sided.

  • @mercilesslymugentenshin8651
    @mercilesslymugentenshin8651 2 года назад +312

    Him: "Stop saying I Know, it ends the conversation".
    Me: *It's almost like that's the point*

    • @jmors7923
      @jmors7923 2 года назад +8

      for real 🤣🤣

    • @MegaUnwetter
      @MegaUnwetter 2 года назад +7

      I Know.

    • @kevinzhu6417
      @kevinzhu6417 2 года назад +2

      It is also kind of a blunt and sometimes rude way to end it, it appears like you are disinterested and annoyed by the speaker, especially if you interrupt them. Theres plenty of better ways to say "I know" that are more polite and don't kill the conversation.

    • @kam5963
      @kam5963 2 года назад +1

      @@kevinzhu6417 i think it went over your head

    • @Blobby_Hill
      @Blobby_Hill 2 года назад +8

      @@kevinzhu6417 I myself am disinterred and annoyed by the speaker. People don't need to learn how to speak properly. People need to learn how to fuck off.

  • @Klutch_Undercover
    @Klutch_Undercover 2 года назад +300

    When I was 18 years old, as a private in the United States Army, I listened to a speech given by my Brigade Commander. I was moved by that speech but found myself perplexed that I didn't completely understand some of the words he had used in the speech.... After the speech, I ran into him and exchanged a few brief words.... Again, He used a couple words that I didn't know... I felt dumb. I nodded and smiled while my face grew red with embarrassment but I wouldn't dare to ask him what his words meant. However, I think he recognized my confusion.
    That night, I went to Wal-Mart and purchased a dictionary. I looked up each word so that I could understand what his message was, in it's entirety. That was the first domino in a series that would take me from challenging myself with a vocabulary list weekly, in which, I would challenge myself to use the words I would learn in a sentence to doing Public Speaking in various capacities throughout my career.
    Broadening my vocabulary has contributed so significantly to my self confidence. 🔥 I love what you're doing here!

    • @shylaboostartsover4895
      @shylaboostartsover4895 2 года назад +4

      I will do this myself

    • @CuttySobz
      @CuttySobz 2 года назад +1

      You should have asked him right there and then.

    • @dennisk.7574
      @dennisk.7574 2 года назад +5

      Did he yell something like "Bullshit, I can't hear you, Private Klutch!"

    • @chancimoore4865
      @chancimoore4865 2 года назад +16

      @@coolbreeze3793 …this person was brave enough to share how they improved their lexicon…and…you came in with assumptions on what era did they serve, assumed they went to war, and subjectively gave your perspective on said war(s)…

    • @chancimoore4865
      @chancimoore4865 2 года назад +2

      @@shylaboostartsover4895 It’s worth it. I did this several years ago, and now I do actual public speaking engagements. When you’re able to display a great lexicon, it can help you immensely in various situations/ways!

  • @edanuryilmaz8273
    @edanuryilmaz8273 2 года назад +4

    "You should stop saying I know"
    Monica: I know!!

  • @hunvornofangmar1608
    @hunvornofangmar1608 2 года назад +8

    The end homework: 1. I appreciate the information. 2. I mixed up which drink went to whom.

  • @Timoteo4
    @Timoteo4 3 года назад +248

    I've found that when someone constantly says "I know" when you're speaking to them, it's often a defense response. They feel you're treating them as if they were ignorant, and they feel the need to show that they already know the information. It's rooted in their ego, and they aren't recognizing that this person has no idea of what knowledge they may have. So instead of either just listening and saying thank you, or replying with a different, less defensive phrase, they strike back and shut the other person down.

    • @madelineasmr926
      @madelineasmr926 2 года назад +13

      Good observation, and definitely something I could work on. Spot on.

    • @tashboog
      @tashboog 2 года назад +23

      We cannot assume innocence in whoever is receiving the “I know.” Sometimes people genuinely bring ignorance and bias into their interactions and insult others with disclosures of very rudimentary concepts. I.e. the white guy in the room who constantly assumes minorities need them to explain things. Reminds me of the time I did jury duty and the one blonde haired, blue eyed male in the room felt the need to repeat the concept of whether something was proven beyond the shadow of a doubt while everyone was merely thinking through the case. The judge shoved the concept down our throats beforehand and everyone was clear but he designated himself the one to keep explaining this and that in spite of anyone giving him any proof it wasn’t understood. The frequent “I knows” he received was him being spared the verbiage he genuinely deserved in that situation.

    • @lenar3457
      @lenar3457 2 года назад +5

      Literally me, sadly...

    • @whonose3726
      @whonose3726 2 года назад +2

      ANYTIME I have ever heard an individual say "I know" after hearing an explanation or data this has been the case. You often see this in the medical field with patients (who have done their own research and "THEY KNOW!") As soon as I see this response I immediately see they are often extremely ignorant on the topic. This is something that medical providers can very much relate to. -Dr. Ryan

    • @dawolf856
      @dawolf856 2 года назад +3

      Couldn't have said that any better. You're absolutely correct!
      At my job, had to instruct someone on the proper way to use some heavy duty machinery, for day in day out usage. Young man thought he knew everything... and knew absolutely nothing !
      During course of the day, I'd point out his weak points and what he was doing wrong. I'd always hear, "I know, I know!" and he'd go back to doing "wrong" again. Finally, I said to him... "listen... we're all grown. We don't like being told what to do. But the fact of the matter is, if you knew what you were doing they wouldn't have placed you with me. So just listen."
      He'd listen for all of 4 minutes, and wound up doing wrong in the process. Goofing up again....

  • @Jeberdiah
    @Jeberdiah 2 года назад +590

    This guy makes learning fun I'm actually watching these for entertainment and to learn, its depressing to recognize I will never get a teacher as superb as him

    • @classicman9753
      @classicman9753 2 года назад +4

      I agree

    • @sadaghaliza9816
      @sadaghaliza9816 2 года назад +44

      i bet u have watched "stop saying very" XD

    • @bokirtua5231
      @bokirtua5231 2 года назад +7

      @@sadaghaliza9816 very good>superb

    • @keaudretoler
      @keaudretoler 2 года назад +1

      How you know you won’t get someone like this in your life to teach you anything ? That was a broad statement

    • @clipthat3152
      @clipthat3152 2 года назад

      Same

  • @iamrocharafael
    @iamrocharafael Год назад +1

    Now I really know what I know mean, and other ways to day the same and have a better conversation with English natives and also people that are learning English! Thanks a lot man! You have the best RUclips channel related to tech English! I am really grateful for your iniciative and for your life!

  • @karanbiswas2898
    @karanbiswas2898 2 года назад

    Somehow my mind was refreshed that if you know you know and this dude doing a great job literally u know....

  • @tbay1773
    @tbay1773 2 года назад +224

    I always pretend I don’t know even tho I do when someone explains something to me. I look at it as someone going out of their way to help me. And I appreciate it.

    • @RealmDesigner
      @RealmDesigner 2 года назад +24

      It's also interesting to see how something you do know about is explained by another person. Can make you re-evaluate what you think you do know.

    • @fabiomino3506
      @fabiomino3506 2 года назад +3

      My friend used to try to explain everything and it felt like a condescending lecture but I understand “going out of their way to help me”

    • @r0mediddy
      @r0mediddy 2 года назад +2

      I don’t always do that but I do sometimes. If I truly “know” what another person is telling me (and I don’t particularly want to hear it again lol), I’ll say “right, right”. Or “got it”.

    • @MCIglobal1
      @MCIglobal1 2 года назад

      I do the same. Are you a Capricorn?

    • @mac6417
      @mac6417 2 года назад

      @@MCIglobal1 please explain how your birth month has anything to do with this, do people really think the month you’re born in has anything to do with your personality and way u act

  • @TheMilkman04
    @TheMilkman04 3 года назад +316

    I didn’t even realize I wanted to learn my own native language even more, hated it in hs but now in my mid twenties, these lessons are extremely entertaining and interesting.

    • @Bosse_C
      @Bosse_C 3 года назад +21

      l think it’s because of the teacher

    • @vbigboss3737
      @vbigboss3737 3 года назад +13

      Same idk how we got here it just popped up in my recommended and didn’t disappoint

    • @Cow1337Saver
      @Cow1337Saver 3 года назад +7

      I hear what you're saying.

    • @Dark33_Qc
      @Dark33_Qc 3 года назад +3

      And also because you can choose the lesson

    • @marioionion2
      @marioionion2 3 года назад +2

      You know, we know "how" to speak it meanwhile we don't "know" it . We need to learn grammar, and difference about some things we never thought to need to learn about it

  • @ohSOnina
    @ohSOnina 2 года назад +2

    I know, is sadly my favorite word when acknowledging, “I understand”. 😅😅 thanks for the video!

  • @drenarichmond4443
    @drenarichmond4443 2 года назад +1

    I never thought about " I know " before this lesson very informative.

  • @chw.icu.15.4
    @chw.icu.15.4 2 года назад +426

    Please have a lesson on, how to stop saying "like", twenty five times prior to completing one sentence. This lesson reminds me of a coworker, they always repeat this, after we tell them, they were wrong. Sharing this, and thank you, very informative.

    • @hankppecker
      @hankppecker 2 года назад +30

      fr like i idk why people always are saying like it’s not professional like to me i think everybody should know that just a full sentence is way better then like being all in between and awkward you know

    • @munzieduh
      @munzieduh 2 года назад +4

      @@hankppecker The Petty lolzz

    • @foolishyish
      @foolishyish 2 года назад +1

      Watch love island. Lmao

    • @Nytemare111
      @Nytemare111 2 года назад +1

      You're confusing people not knowing how to talk with people choosing to talk a certain way so I think it's you who need the grammar lessons

    • @skrtskrrrttt8940
      @skrtskrrrttt8940 2 года назад +2

      Like what the frick bro

  • @yurrrrpyurrp9577
    @yurrrrpyurrp9577 2 года назад +182

    I say I understand more than I know, because “I know” sounds extremely annoying. I’m glad I clicked on this video it is very informative.

    • @nonexistent2335
      @nonexistent2335 2 года назад +10

      @@karolinapatrycjasobczyk163 Since when did someone finding the phrase, “I know” annoying, have to do with religion? In some cases, saying, “I know” means that you don’t care about what the other person is talking about; basically you just want them to stop talking because you don’t care. I believe that’s the point of this video.

    • @WynIcezelAVega
      @WynIcezelAVega 2 года назад +5

      Yes true i find “i know” a bit rude and annoying my friends do this to me all the time, now i dont wanna talk anymore bc of it....

    • @JonathanEvans1977
      @JonathanEvans1977 2 года назад

      How does "I know" sound annoying? Wow people like YOU are annoying lol. You must wake up looking for something to complain about.

    • @WynIcezelAVega
      @WynIcezelAVega 2 года назад +5

      @@JonathanEvans1977 isn’t that what you’re doing tho? Complaining something about someones opinion. You’re really annoying lol🤣

    • @ptolemaic3238
      @ptolemaic3238 2 года назад

      @@JonathanEvans1977 ironic

  • @SherryMathews
    @SherryMathews 2 года назад +2

    I think you made me figure how to talk to my partner properly now. I use I know quite often, I now recognise and understand. 😅 Thank you!

  • @AJ-rc5lr
    @AJ-rc5lr 2 года назад +25

    Teacher: Do you know the answer to this question?
    Student: I do appreciate the fact that you are asking me to check if i am able to answer the questions that you gave me, but the answer is, i don't know
    Teacher: FFF

  • @1812oadg
    @1812oadg 3 года назад +237

    When my mom and I first came to the United States I picked up that “I know” phrase and I quickly dropped it because my mom didn’t know English and she told me that I needed to do the dishes and I replied with I know and she almost beat me lol since “I know” sounds a lot like “ai no” in Spanish meaning something like hell no. If it wasn’t for my English speaking aunt being there I would have gotten a good ol fashion butt whooping lol 😂

    • @wesldf
      @wesldf 3 года назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @user-xm6ro1ep5d
      @user-xm6ro1ep5d 3 года назад +3

      LOL!

    • @zebrahead8727
      @zebrahead8727 3 года назад +3

      Lol this made me giggle 😂

    • @pak3ton
      @pak3ton 3 года назад +4

      Ah que no.... tome su chancletaso :v

    • @KEVERIANC
      @KEVERIANC 3 года назад +2

      Lol that's funny

  • @nastypenguine1318
    @nastypenguine1318 2 года назад +536

    I'm a native English speaker and I tend not to communicate well. So this was extremely helpful and hopefully I get into a habit of speaking in a way others can understand.

    • @noname_noname_
      @noname_noname_ 2 года назад +3

      I know right!

    • @melxenoka3818
      @melxenoka3818 2 года назад +1

      native english speaker AKA European 🤮

    • @alexandertaddy4639
      @alexandertaddy4639 2 года назад +26

      @@melxenoka3818 Imagine hating on where someone is from.

    • @Pandomania
      @Pandomania 2 года назад

      @@noname_noname_ or do you ‘know’

    • @melxenoka3818
      @melxenoka3818 2 года назад

      @@alexandertaddy4639 or is it Alissa Taddy (weeehhhs 😩) lol. Gick bk, its called being extra*

  • @adegokeoluwatosin1605
    @adegokeoluwatosin1605 2 года назад

    Thanks for this man. I hope you are still excited about doing this for a very long time. You are a huge blessing !

  • @alexanderf514
    @alexanderf514 2 года назад +4

    I really appreciate the knowledge you have given us via the RUclips video. My wife advised me to watch this video. We have a 10 yr old that has the bad habit of saying “ I know” all the time! This was a great video for adults but theirs a few references in it “ the bunnies in the summer, and vodka and gin” are to adult for a kid. I will have analogy when it comes to those parts.

  • @cantucodes
    @cantucodes 3 года назад +404

    He's like the Bob Ross of English lessons.

  • @yousifabualnaja3098
    @yousifabualnaja3098 2 года назад +122

    perfect speech ✅ amazing lesion ✅ calming voice✅ fantastic teacher✅ you're a great teacher Mr. James, learned a lot from you!!! excellent work!!🥳♥♥

    • @NekoMoN1337
      @NekoMoN1337 2 года назад +1

      Agreed. Definitely.😊

  • @rockrips
    @rockrips 2 года назад

    A man I worked with years ago (RIP) used to say "Those people who say they know it all are really p*ssing off those of us who do!" He usually said this when the know-it-all in the room started bragging - truth is- when it came to that job, he did know it all. Loved this video!

  • @katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364
    @katrinkasanfranciscobayare7364 2 года назад +7

    "The loneliest people are the kindest,
    the saddest people smile the brightest,
    and the most damaged people are the wisest.
    All because they don't wish to see others suffer like they do"
    ~ anonymous ~

    • @djantouahmed7319
      @djantouahmed7319 2 года назад

      Narcissists, sociopaths and emotionally unstable people.

  • @mashamendez2012
    @mashamendez2012 3 года назад +34

    I recently said "i know" to something a coworker said to me. I was met with "oh im sorry". In a rather sarcastic tone. I have been thinking about this for a couple days now.
    Thanks for this.

  • @McYeroc
    @McYeroc 2 года назад +161

    Replace "I know" with "i don't know' and watch that convo melt into sheer awkwardness

    • @davidjd123
      @davidjd123 2 года назад +2

      remember on forest gump when jenny was singing naked on stage? " i dont know" well its like in the middle of the movie " i dont know" um have u seen the movie " i dont know" oh uh nevermind.

  • @nancygermain2996
    @nancygermain2996 2 года назад

    James, you’re in my head, every sentence! Thank you for your channel, it’s so very helpful. At 72, it’s been a very very long time, I forget. Thanks for sharing. You have an very excellent show. I learn, I laugh, I enjoy, very pleasant in every way. The very word very was very very problematic but I over came it! Thanks James

  • @andreab5356
    @andreab5356 2 года назад

    I'm not ESL but I enjoy your videos for making me think about the language I use and how I want to be perceived.

  • @ed-mh7zl
    @ed-mh7zl 3 года назад +237

    I just learned more about the English language than I did the entire time in high school.

    • @JusZard
      @JusZard 3 года назад +4

      I know right

    • @ovuzajemuta7935
      @ovuzajemuta7935 3 года назад +3

      That cannot be true. If you replaced all of your English education with thus, you'd be worse off. The hate we have of institutions shouldn't blur the truth.

    • @uziboozy4540
      @uziboozy4540 3 года назад +1

      @@ovuzajemuta7935 but it's the truth lol

    • @ed-mh7zl
      @ed-mh7zl 3 года назад +12

      @@ovuzajemuta7935 I disagree. We mainly learn to communicate through person to person interaction. English classes teach us how to write formally. I was never taught through the public school system how to converse with others in a way that conveyed and articulated my thoughts in a stronger manner.

    • @ovuzajemuta7935
      @ovuzajemuta7935 3 года назад +1

      @@ed-mh7zl That's what you think. Compare the formally educated chap to one who learnt purely from informal communication. Compare the vocabulary. I'm pretty sure none of these words are new to you but thwy would be to the not so educated. The schools give generic blanket education. The onus is on you to dwell on certain topics.

  • @infin8one
    @infin8one 2 года назад +251

    Anyone else here a so-called natural English-speaking person finding this lesson absolutely brilliant? Thanks James, I stumbled upon this lesson after tweaking the RUclips algorithms and could not be more joyful after doing so! In short, you just got one more subscriber!

    • @hughjaanus6680
      @hughjaanus6680 2 года назад +4

      I'm a native English speaker, here are the faults I find in 12 minutes (bed time).
      You are teaching English and you say "wanna" not want to.
      @ 5:23 You say "movemen" not movement.
      Just because it's raining doesn't mean the weather is bad, it's weather and we need rain.
      @ 8:26 "something differen" not different.
      @ 11:39 "to look at an apartmen" not apartment.
      Americans don't pronounce the T at the end of words, Momen, governmen, fron, enforcemen.

    • @ismokealone1873
      @ismokealone1873 2 года назад +2

      @@hughjaanus6680 he knows

    • @MegaCoolman234
      @MegaCoolman234 2 года назад +2

      @@hughjaanus6680 I mean every single American in my city pronounces the T sound you just mentioned so this is files

    • @paintinhand2753
      @paintinhand2753 2 года назад +1

      @@hughjaanus6680 Yes, we do use the 't'....

    • @hughjaanus6680
      @hughjaanus6680 2 года назад +1

      @Emily R Curiosity Killed the cat.
      I'm Irish, I'm picky about our own pronunciations also. Most say "Irelant" not Ireland (Americans say "Iurland").
      It's just lazy diction, I'm not highly educated BTW.

  • @epifaniacabangontongol3748
    @epifaniacabangontongol3748 Год назад +1

    Can we tell- u are such a great teacher. Engaging,entertaining and absolutely relatable! I so enjoy all your presentations.😃

  • @kimmerzlavin1427
    @kimmerzlavin1427 2 года назад +4

    " i catch your drift, and i see, and i see how my perspective has been mixed up & i now see & recognize and have gained some knowledge & understanding on how to better communicate with people . in return i say to you as well thank you for teaching this coarse .

  • @waitingisfun
    @waitingisfun 2 года назад +300

    James: you can use other phrases to replace "I know."
    Monica Geller: I know

    • @rester420
      @rester420 2 года назад +6

      Not many will understand this joke but i like it

    • @aaA-on3ie
      @aaA-on3ie 2 года назад

      😂😂

    • @leoo5552
      @leoo5552 2 года назад +3

      I know!

    • @sukhWins
      @sukhWins 2 года назад

      Haha

    • @Praise___YaH
      @Praise___YaH 2 года назад

      Guys, HERE is Our Savior
      YaH The Heavenly FATHER HIMSELF was Who they Crucified for our sins and “HERE IS THE PROOF”
      From the Ancient Semitic Scroll:
      "Yad He Vav He" is what Moses wrote, when Moses asked YaH His Name (Exodus 3)
      Ancient Semitic Direct Translation
      Yad - "Behold The Hand"
      He - "Behold the Breath"
      Vav - "Behold The NAIL"

  • @leslieb5836
    @leslieb5836 3 года назад +98

    Assignment:
    1. I appreciate the information.
    2. I mixed-up which drink went to whom.

  • @gedi4071
    @gedi4071 2 года назад

    I would say that "The lesson that would make me thanks to you was the lesson learned because I see that it would really help not also on me but also in everyone who was struggling on speaking and learning english"

  • @pumpkinpie7280
    @pumpkinpie7280 2 года назад +2

    I always felt like there was something wrong with "I know", so whenever someone tells me something that I understood of, I'd say "Ooh yes, I've heard of that"

  • @brandontooeasy1559
    @brandontooeasy1559 2 года назад +519

    I go to the gym everyday. I stumbled upon this accidentally today and decided to listen to it in my earbuds while I worked out. I definitely didn't get an angry Hulk mode lift in, but eternally grateful for the gain of knowledge. Thank you Mr. J. I love nothing more than good grammar and really appreciate your teachings.

    • @Prexo23
      @Prexo23 2 года назад +22

      I know!

    • @illbilly718
      @illbilly718 2 года назад +16

      I know right 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @sfg4571
      @sfg4571 2 года назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @09NXN06
      @09NXN06 2 года назад +1

      Indeed

    • @janosmerc667
      @janosmerc667 2 года назад +2

      I hear you

  • @Branziman
    @Branziman 3 года назад +81

    I'm a native English speaker, but here I am listening. He is an excellent teacher. Best of luck to everyone learning English!

  • @mariadealmeida9273
    @mariadealmeida9273 2 года назад +1

    I love the way you explanations
    I came to this country without knowing how to speak and writing any English and I still not knowing a lot! I understand well listening than to speak!
    Your CLASSES ARE SO HELPFUL! Thank you so much 😊!!🙏🙏

  • @ThePurplePillPerspective
    @ThePurplePillPerspective 2 года назад

    “Knowing and understanding are two different things “. Facts

  • @lavosiertomson4381
    @lavosiertomson4381 3 года назад +115

    I recognize that this was one of the better class on the internet. From my perspective the professor is more than a teacher is a educator. I deeply appreciate the way you teach us, I see all the kindness in your words and that make me thankful.

    • @ann-marietucker2414
      @ann-marietucker2414 3 года назад +3

      You're absolutely right

    • @justicefrench4485
      @justicefrench4485 3 года назад

      That's true.. I hope your day is going well . We haven't formally met. The reason I'm reaching out to you is because I'm just curious, would you be interested in a side project, if it didn't interfere with what you're already doing?

    • @justicefrench4485
      @justicefrench4485 3 года назад

      @@ann-marietucker2414 That's true.. I hope your day is going well . We haven't formally met. The reason I'm reaching out to you is because I'm just curious, would you be interested in a side project, if it didn't interfere with what you're already doing?

    • @2023roadstervet
      @2023roadstervet 3 года назад

      Well Done.. I see what you did lmmfao

    • @justicefrench4485
      @justicefrench4485 3 года назад

      @@2023roadstervet I hope your day is going well . We haven't formally met. The reason I'm reaching out to you is because I'm just curious, would you be interested in a side project, if it didn't interfere with what you're already doing?

  • @officiallyari8051
    @officiallyari8051 3 года назад +406

    If my teachers was like this I would actually enjoy school.
    *appreciate*

    • @kingfield7682
      @kingfield7682 3 года назад +6

      No cap 😂

    • @fatboyjimmy8186
      @fatboyjimmy8186 3 года назад +5

      Facts

    • @SkyDaLimit925
      @SkyDaLimit925 3 года назад +4

      Right I used to stare at the clock all the time and be like when is this class going to be over LOL

    • @larochejaquelein3680
      @larochejaquelein3680 3 года назад +5

      Usually the young english teachers are very much like this guy. The old ones are horrible

    • @hollowfist9072
      @hollowfist9072 3 года назад +4

      "Were like this"

  • @sophh04
    @sophh04 2 года назад +1

    Wow! Thanks so much! now I know how to stop saying I know how! 🤯⁉️

  • @erikbynke5974
    @erikbynke5974 2 года назад +1

    From my perspective i really appreciate you taking your time to giving me this knowledge

  • @jessicamarieporter5391
    @jessicamarieporter5391 3 года назад +42

    Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care 🥰 Love that!

  • @bhorlholoi3118
    @bhorlholoi3118 3 года назад +43

    I recognize that James is delivering the lessons normally like students are listening in a classroom discussion. And that makes him so interesting!

    • @IamMuldeh
      @IamMuldeh 3 года назад

      I imagine that many ESL teachers jsut play his videos in class instead of teaching themselves.

  • @RyzePPsh
    @RyzePPsh 2 года назад

    Im French and i could understand what u saying cuz u speak really well, and i understand that word make sense a lot, thank u for this lesson

  • @lucasgregorio8701
    @lucasgregorio8701 Год назад

    U're such a great teacher James, I'm very thankful to having your videos on YT.

  • @thex1996
    @thex1996 3 года назад +83

    this guy actually enjoys teaching and i love that

  • @iluvsqurriels
    @iluvsqurriels 2 года назад +226

    English is my native language & never really considered this, or tried much to improve my grammar (other than big words here & there) but now I’m determined to not say “ I know “. Amazing teacher, super intriguing!

    • @stevenjohnson8507
      @stevenjohnson8507 2 года назад +6

      Maybe that partially explains why you're stuck in this world as a common laborer and no more.

    • @esther.a.3611
      @esther.a.3611 2 года назад

      Savage comment section

    • @TheGameoverse
      @TheGameoverse 2 года назад +20

      @@stevenjohnson8507 damn, what did he ever do to you

    • @InfinityReptar
      @InfinityReptar 2 года назад +12

      @@stevenjohnson8507 assumptions

    • @ISAACreate
      @ISAACreate 2 года назад +10

      @@stevenjohnson8507 as if you're any better

  • @hle7767
    @hle7767 2 года назад

    I’m not too sure how this came in my feed, but I have gotten defensive with the “ I Know” response and its gotten me nowhere, and created arguments, so this was helpful.

  • @audiofilosperuaudiomaniaau5942

    Following your channel for the last 10 years and something
    Thank you so much
    I really appreciate your work

  • @NoName-zd8zj
    @NoName-zd8zj 2 года назад +92

    This makes my college essay longer
    Before watching: "I know"
    After watching: "it is to be heard to thy hearer that known is by me "

    • @dreviewer9228
      @dreviewer9228 2 года назад +2

      Yes I know I know

    • @madishah1541
      @madishah1541 2 года назад

      I see what u did there

    • @ethanlargo1150
      @ethanlargo1150 2 года назад

      Naww. Think more words make it look long

    • @HaileyRainStorm
      @HaileyRainStorm 2 года назад

      🥳😎

    • @PatriciaOconnelllovepat
      @PatriciaOconnelllovepat 2 года назад

      @@ethanlargo1150 I agree Son,That sounds REALLY good. Maybe TOO good, is all. Correct your English skills. But always be yourself

  • @zzz_alxxis5681
    @zzz_alxxis5681 2 года назад +42

    i like how everybody love him and give him the respect he deserves

  • @AestheticWannabe
    @AestheticWannabe 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this! I don’t take English classes or anything but I do have a small vocabulary due to being uncomfortable with speaking, I have a accent I guess?, that takes a while for people to understand what I’m saying and I just am afraid to increase it because I want people to understand me. Even though I want people to understand me, because of my short vocabulary I’ve actually started not understanding myself if you know what I mean. Sometimes I have problems believing myself because I’ve had to change me for other people. This definitely made me more confident and determined to increase my vocabulary! Even if it might be scary and new at first, little steps to understanding is better then saying something not even you believe :)

  • @soniagr3940
    @soniagr3940 2 года назад

    I can’t believe I found your channel. Thank you for your classes!!! Greetings from Mexico.

  • @frandeleon5237
    @frandeleon5237 2 года назад +340

    “I pick up what you’re putting down” has always been my go to and it’s uncommon

    • @lance1625
      @lance1625 2 года назад +11

      I'm hitting what you're pitching works great.

    • @louieb875
      @louieb875 2 года назад +2

      I'm picking up

    • @trippytofu
      @trippytofu 2 года назад +19

      “i’m smelling what you’re wafting” is another classic

    • @Nayo68
      @Nayo68 2 года назад +5

      Really??....are you a homeless person??

    • @iveyguzman3904
      @iveyguzman3904 2 года назад +9

      mine is i’m catching what you’re throwing

  • @ate0844
    @ate0844 2 года назад +223

    I speak English as a first language but this video was still very interesting and informative. To be honest I could listen to him explain just about anything, his excitement toward teaching is amazing.

    • @snd7622
      @snd7622 2 года назад

      This guy speak English as first language but he isn't English.

    • @neoncreeper2956
      @neoncreeper2956 2 года назад +3

      I know

    • @yoswag7380
      @yoswag7380 2 года назад

      I know

    • @cheekypiper512
      @cheekypiper512 2 года назад +2

      @@snd7622 As are many English speaking people. Do you have a point?

    • @RobimusPrime
      @RobimusPrime 2 года назад

      Now I know. Knowing is half the battle. GI JOE!!!!!!

  • @thotslayer8677
    @thotslayer8677 2 года назад

    I know this video is a year old but I’m glad I watched it, helped me a ton!

  • @bananoflove
    @bananoflove Год назад

    Man you're such a good teacher, I'm blown away

  • @luluciferia1948
    @luluciferia1948 2 года назад +306

    This is good shit, I do tend to say "I know" a lot and RUclips is here calling me out lol. Thanks for a great video!

    • @thefrenchy4977
      @thefrenchy4977 2 года назад +5

      I'm saying these words multiple times every day: "I Know" "Crazy" and "Perfect"
      At the point that I'm obsessed trying to stop saying them, without success!

    • @crxzy2194
      @crxzy2194 2 года назад +1

      fax lmfao

    • @Godzilla-zv6rv
      @Godzilla-zv6rv 2 года назад

      @@crxzy2194 ye

    • @realindianahmad1594
      @realindianahmad1594 2 года назад

      हिन्दू

    • @realindianahmad1594
      @realindianahmad1594 2 года назад

      का-फ़ि-र

  • @notmychannelname42
    @notmychannelname42 2 года назад +89

    My solution to the, "I know" thing I used to do when I was younger is to instead say, "you're right". Works 100% of the time without offending anyone.

  • @justicen.5800
    @justicen.5800 2 года назад

    You're a natural Mr. James
    I thank you.

  • @user-bishamonten1
    @user-bishamonten1 2 года назад

    it is the perfect native speaking teacher! It is a place to level up your english. Thak You!

  • @FlyySlyyGreen
    @FlyySlyyGreen 2 года назад +93

    I appreciate life skill videos like this at 31 years old i can never stop learning thank you 🙏🏿

  • @UmiNoArashi
    @UmiNoArashi 3 года назад +317

    James, would you be able to create a video explaining to us, how to not say “Like” so many times during a conversation?

    • @nyssapozo4699
      @nyssapozo4699 3 года назад +9

      Yeees it would be great !

    • @itskoucvjk1663
      @itskoucvjk1663 3 года назад +1

      Yeah it would

    • @juniort0451
      @juniort0451 3 года назад +3

      Like duhhh

    • @albertofranco2296
      @albertofranco2296 3 года назад +6

      I like that

    • @donghunsbeautifuleyes7692
      @donghunsbeautifuleyes7692 3 года назад +20

      Try
      for example/for instance...
      To give you/provide you with an example...
      What I'm trying to say is...
      My point is...
      So...
      Depends on what you want to say

  • @hollyviolet4862
    @hollyviolet4862 Год назад

    Even a British citizen I’ve got terrible vocabulary it’s really nice you do this, your other video on saying ‘very’ too often… UGHH I do that too much it’s frustrating 😂

  • @liznewsome4182
    @liznewsome4182 2 года назад

    I inadvertently ran across your video, you’re awesome and i appreciate your lesson