My gf had her 1st diagnosis 21 years ago...she was good for 10 years..then it came back stage 2...then 5 years later stage 3....then stage 4..she has been stage 4 for about 5 years now....she is a warrior..❤
I just finished my treatment and operation for BC stage 3, and just want to tell you I spent a few nights in hospital with a woman who had BC stage 4 for almost 20 years. She has kept it in check with new medications, radiation and immune therapy and at the same time traveled the world. Wishing you the very best and still a long and exciting life! 10-15 years is not rare nowadays, 20 years is even better, and who knows which medications exist by then! Keep the hope ❤❤
@@DeeDoherty Targeted therapies have really come a long way. My type of cancer was HER2+, hers was estrogen+. She was the most amazing woman I’ve ever met, probably in her 70’s. She was telling me all about her travels and how she found so much joy from them and also her garden and nature. She also had an awesome sense of humour - she said: even if you have stage 4 cancer you can let your hair out and enjoy life to the fullest - well you can’t she said - pointing at my bald head. 😂 Will never forget her. As far as I know she’s still going strong. Our hospital stay was this summer.
I was diagnosed with the same breast cancer as you almost exactly in 2019. Your videos were SO helpful and comforting. My cancer came back this year and I am stage 4 now too. Processing this has been a wild ride of terror, acceptance, developing a dark humor that freaks my family out and just plain sadness sometimes. Thanks so much for putting yourself out there candidly. I know you've helped thousands of other women. Long live us!! 🙏
It’s funny the dark humour has already come RIGHT back! We’re allowed! Sending you lots of love ❤️ thank you for your support and I hope we get to keep doing this for a long time xx
Be Holy as God is Holy everyone.Sin shortens life, because of our sins we are separated from God. Everyone have an expiration date and this world have an expiration date.There is nothing in this world worth going to hellfire for, depart from worldliness everyone. It's NOT about religion/denomination, it's about a relationship with Jesus Christ by praying everyday, reading the Bible everyday, believe the gospel, While you are still alive repent of all of your sins and be born again. Rapture is imminent, do not be left behind. Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, get yourselves ready. This WORLD is TEMPORARY and HEAVEN is PERMANENT, Choose wisely everyone.
Omg :( I'm sorry to hear that. You really inspired me with my very early diagnostic of best cancer HER2-positive in 2019. I saw all your videos and helped me to deal with my chemotherapy and radiation treatments. So, did you was under tamoxifen hormonal therapy ? When they found your cancer back ? How do ypu found it? Do you feel sick or in any pain ? I feel very bad for stopping with the tamoxifen two months ago. Because doctors found some polyps in the endometrial walls. I was so scare to develop endometrial cancer after that beside tamoxifen side effects could cause cancer. I don't know at this point if was a big mistake or not. But I feel that its not good to live with all side effects and the quality of lives its very important. So dealing with gaining weight, hair lost. Vaginal pain during sex. Sadness and not happy to live my live with a anti depression pills...to not look al the struggles tha cancer caused me. I feel scare too for not continuing with the tamoxifen treatment . My case it is just exactly the same like your. So I don't know what going to happen but I can not continue with a treatment with not guarantee that cancer will not return. Because the side effects are dangerous too and emotionally its affect my life , my marriage and my family . I just want to stop breaking in more pices year by year under tamoxifen treatment. If back with cancer its is there again waiting for me in the future I want to enjoy the time before that happens. I wish you with the bottom of my heart that you continue living with all your positive vibes and love for your family and all people around ypu..in special all the women you touch their life with your brighter light. 😘 please keep in touch and continue updating your process and health experience. You are a truly inspiration. Take care ❤ I apologized .. my primary Language is Spanish so I tried my best writing you this message.
I have had a Stage 4 metastatic cancer diagnosis since Aug 2015. I have done radiation, strong chemo, and now for the past 7 years immune therapy every 3 weeks for the past 7 years. Last treatment day I got the news that the original tumor has started growing again. I don't understand why surgery was pulled off the table once they had discovered the cancer was already every in my bones. Maybe if they had removed the original tumor I wouldn't be seeing it growing again. I have invasive ductal, HER 2 positive cancer which is very aggressive. The treatments do such damage to us that no one understands! My husband is so tired of this journey with me. He admitted yesterday that for the second time he has signed up on an online dating site looking for a healthy, sexual woman. I am devastated! We who battle cancer did not choose this! I have been a good faithful wife for 46 years! Prayers and virtual hugs for your journey!
I am a breast cancer survivor of 26 years. I just read your post to my husband of 40yrs and he was totally blown away by the your husband’s behavior….. so cold and callous to act in such a manner.. makes me sick 🤮
I was 7 years clear now I'm terminal. 5 years is normally the 'danger window'. This is my third battle with it now. First diagnosed in 2000. Got it again in 2016. This disease is so unpredictable and insidious!! I'm not going to say I know how you're feeling as everyone processes it differently. Subbed.
Unfortunately with breast cancer, the danger window never closes. It becomes significantly smaller after 12 years, especially with grade 3 cancers, but the little men with the hoodies can always be hiding.
You need to know that I too relied on your videos to educate me and give me hope 3 years ago as I fought lung cancer. My heart sank when I read the title of your new video. Please continue posting and know there are lots of people praying for you. - Mike
I’m so sorry your cancer returned. I know they say that once you’ve had cancer you can never really consider yourself cured, but if you make it to the 5 year mark your chances are better. It’s possible you were likely feeling that your chances of not getting it again as each year passed put you more at ease. Then wam, that evil cancer raised its ugly head and is sending you spinning. I love how you described things. You do explain things well. I do hope you will take us on your journey. It will be so helpful to so many people. Wishing you the best of luck.
I’m so sorry Dee! This doesn’t give me hope! I’m one year out from having a mastectomy in my left breast and lymph nodes removed. Ramble all you want. We will be here for you through it all. I will pray for you every day.
@@JANAlifestylevloggerI asked to have both breasts removed here in the UK England, but was told no, just single mastectomy. Stage 3, feel like I'm waiting and worrying with a 4yr old
I'm so sorry. Your videos helped me immensely when I was diagnosed last year. There's no cancer history in my family and I don't know anyone that ever had cancer. You videos made me feel less alone and I'll be forever grateful. I'm rooting for you!
I got two cancers a couple of years ago and have been NED for a little over a year. One was Stage 3 and the other Stage 4. I am just waiting for it to come back, I watch these videos to try and get my head ready for the inevitable. Sorry that you are at this stage now, it is the nightmare that never ends.
Dee, I'm so sorry. You are so right about "what's the point" feeling after having stage 3 breast cancer. I found your videos when I got diagnosed with breast cancer 4 years ago. They helped me so much. Last week I went to get checked at the breast clinic because of pain in my ribs on the side of my mastectomy. I wasn't too worried until I saw consultant's face. He gave me an appointment for the nuclear bone scan the next day. I'm waiting for the results now and having panic attacks non stop. No one knows how it feels like until you've been there. I hope you will be able to record your journey this time again and I hope that the journey will be a very very long one. There is so little out there about the metastatic breast cancer. Thank you for doing this and good luck.
Oh Dee…. Your story helped me get through my own diagnosis in 2021. We chatted on Instagram about it and I just saw this come across my notifications and I’m floored. You are in my prayers sis. ❤❤❤
I work at a Breast Cancer treatment center and stumbled upon your video. It gave me more insight about what our patients are feeling and going through. Sending you positive energy and wishing you the best outcomes on your journey. 💓
I have so many emotions going through my head. I am very sorry for your recent diagnosis. People who have never experienced cancer can’t understand the anxiety. I have been diagnosed twice with breast cancer. Both were as stage 1 but every time I go to my oncologist I am on pins and needles. Sister hugs from New Jersey. I will pray for you and support your journey.
Whoever has stage 4 breast cancer please please ask your doctor for MRI brain scan from time to time even though you don't have any symptoms from brain...My mum died 2 weeks ago from stage 4 breast cancer which spread to her bones. She was fighting for over 2 years with that stage but suddenly turned out she got leptomeningeal disease without any warning ;( and it took her life in 10 days
I’m absolutely gutted that this is happening to you. I was diagnosed in 2019 and watched every single one of your videos and found them so incredibly helpful. I’m so sorry that you are going through this again. We are all here for you ❤️. You are strong. Sending love and best wishes xx
You are the strongest women I know. You have no idea how much you have helped me over the last five years in my journey. I live in the US, yet feel so connected to your journey. Thank you for being YOU. You have made a difference for me- and we all have a breast cancer and reoccurrence journey.
I was so shocked with the Insta post!! I was crying & told my husband how you helped me through my treatment in 2021 and gave me hope!! I’m really happy your in a good mental state! Your strength is inspiring! Thank you so much! You have a lot of internet friends that care so much about you!!❤ sending you positive vibes & big hugs!!
Dee, I am so sorry to hear it’s come back. I got diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in January of 2020. I went through surgery, chemo, and radiation during the pandemic. Watching your videos made such a difference in my journey. I didn’t feel alone & you gave me so much hope. Thank you for always sharing your honest and very real perspective. Know that so many of us are in your corner & praying for you! 💗💗💗
Be Holy as God is Holy everyone.Sin shortens life, because of our sins we are separated from God. Everyone have an expiration date and this world have an expiration date.There is nothing in this world worth going to hellfire for, depart from worldliness everyone. It's NOT about religion/denomination, it's about a relationship with Jesus Christ by praying everyday, reading the Bible everyday, believe the gospel, While you are still alive repent of all of your sins and be born again. Rapture is imminent, do not be left behind. Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, get yourselves ready. This WORLD is TEMPORARY and HEAVEN is PERMANENT, Choose wisely everyone.
I have been doing treatment since June and I remember frantically searching the internet for information and came across your vidoes, it got me through my first chemo and some of the most scary days of my life, devastated to hear your news but you look strong! I am with you! ❤
You have helped so many people get through a dark time in their life while dealing with a Cancer diagnosis, including myself. I am 4 years out and have always felt really positive that I will be fine. There is no other way to feel for me because constantly worrying is not a way to live. I am grateful for the time I have had and hope for many more years to enjoy my family. It has helped me to be a better grandmother for sure because I want my grandkids to have good memories that they have made with me. God is mindful of you and I and I pray that he will help you through this. I am so grateful for you and your outlook and perspective. I will be following and hoping for the best for you and your family.
What an excellent analogy of how sneaky cancer cells spread. You are amazing! ❤ Your attitude is so great. I think you’ve got this. Sending prayers and strength your way ❤
I watched your videos religiously/daily when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020 (in the early days of the pandemic). It helped me so much in preparing for the different steps of chemo and radiation. Seeing you thriving after completing treatment, gave me hope in my darkest days. I am beside myself seeing this video. My heart aches so much. Like you, I am a mom to two young kids and your comment about thinking of your kids first, speaks so much to me. As moms, that is what we worry about most. I will be thinking, praying, and following your posts. Thank you for your honesty and the genuineness in all of your posts. I hope to meet you one day.
I can so relate. Mum of a 4yr old, I'm stage 3bc. My little one starts big school tomorrow and I won't get to pick her up at the end of the day as I'm having a scan. I nearly cancelled it as it breaks my heart. Waiting for a CT Pet scan.
Hey Dee, so sorry. I was also diagnosed with Stage 3 breast cancer and have had mastectomy with all lymph nodes removed. My cancer also relapsed this year in the liver and now bones. Your videos gave me so much strength girl, thank you so much for sharing your journey that gives us a path ahead. I am in this journey with you. I have a 12 year old and my heart breaks a million times even imagining the worst for him and my hubby. I want to believe, we all brave fighters will be here with our family and loved ones for as long as possible....praying for you and all the brave fighters out there. Lots of love.❤
Im so sorry to here of this! Fuck Cancer! Your videos lead me to your IG and as i watched your journey you helped me with mines. I felt a sort of sisterhood & you responded to me in my DM's I was diagnosed w/ stage 2 breast cancer & also went thru chemo, radiation & still on hormone treatment it sucks to hear this afraid mines may come back because the doctors said it was a aggressive tumor on the oncotype test. May God give you the strength my warrior sister! Im so sorry to hear this....
Dear Dee, I am so sorry to hear this. All I know is that you are an incredibly strong woman, who is standing out there like a brave warrior fighting everything that comes. Thinking about you and sending lots of love, dear Dee!
Dee. I'm so terribly sorry. I have no words, truly. But I do want to say thank you for sharing. You were one of the first channels I power watched when I was diagnosed and was hunting for information. It was people like you who led me to share my own story bc of how beneficial it was to me. So again, thank you for sharing - it's amazing for the cancer fam. Sending you so much love and light through this next chapter 🫶
You helped me so much during (my own cancer journey. Every description you gave for the treatment and what to expect was spot on. You spoke about how they felt and made you feel and I found I had pretty much the same experience. I am so sorry you are having to go through this again. I will be praying for you as you fight this again.
Cancer F’ing sucks! Never give up, and please know your videos were soo helpful and inspiring during my treatments. Love seeing you again, hate the reason you’re back. You can do this!
My heart dropped when I read the title of this video. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. You also helped me through my battle of Stage 3 breast cancer in 2018. I found answers and comfort in your videos. I’m praying for you! God Bless you 🫶🏽
Hi Dee.. I’m right beside you! I’m 38, diagnosed with the same cancer you have, stage four that’s spread to my bone at 37. I did 16 rounds of chemotherapy, had my right breast removed, and now I’m doing 6 weeks of radiation. ❤
Dee im so so sorry to hear this news 😢 like so many people here in the comments you helped me get through my bc stage 3 treatment. thank you for your honesty and for sharing. sending you and your lovely boys huge love ❤
I’m so sorry for your diagnosis, I was just diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma and I’m completely shocked. Feel amazing…don’t feel sick….just started treatment and preparing for surgery…. I wish you a speedy recovery.
Oh honey. I’m so sorry to hear this. 😢 I stumbled across your channel a few days ago, as I am also dealing with a reoccurrence. You will get through this and we will get through it together! Sending prayers for strength and for comfort. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Dee, you were a pivotal part of my cancer journey I was diagnosed 2021 so your videos were already out for some time you prepared me for chemo got me through the hair loss even doing my non existent eyebrows and make, wigs ext. there so many others ,I never got bored! It even inspired me to vlog. To hear that this has happened to you I’m so sorry , I’m 41 with 4 kids from 22-12 . When my cancer was staged it was already stage 4. Last year I attempted surgery only to be awakened and told I was inoperable. I feel your pain I’m walking in the same ugly shoes! I’m not glad that your here for this but, I will be here this time around. I have managed to be stable the past 9 months without treatment . I’ve only been offered palliative Maintenance chemo , and RN I’m doing metabolic treatment for as long as I can . I’m praying for you ,not only the cancer ,but for your mental health, it’s bad enough you suffered through this once but twice Sheesh really hard pill to swallow. So sad to hear this. Be careful how far you allow your mind to take you, you are here right now that’s all that matters. I get that working and routine help your mental health , but if your spending more time at work or your working outside of there school hours , reconsider , what you have is now, your time is now, you wanna spend all the happy healthy time you have with them. Your going to fight the good fight, you got it!!
I want to say thank you for posting this. So many are going through what you are going through and your insight in so valuable. The subway analogy was spot on. I’m sorry this has happened to you and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I can tell you are a great teacher! You are very good at explaining how cancer spreads and the process. I wish you success in treatment and am going to keep you in my prayers❤
Wow.... So sorry to hear this. After my wife's breast cancer diagnosis your videos were a great help for us in understanding treatments. We have a couple of friends that went stage 4 with similar diagnosis to yours, and they're still doing okay. Thanks for your bravery for posting these videos as they help so many. Wishing you the best!
Thank you so much for sharing! I had inflammatory breast cancer HER2+ stage 3b in 2020. I keep waiting for the cancer to return while working, hiking, swimming and spending time with my family in the meantime. I found so many of your comments to perfectly align with how I am feeling and how I see the world as a past cancer patient. I feel so much better knowing someone else has similar views. Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
I’m so saddened to hear this news. What an incredible role model you have been to so many people. Your videos helped me to be be strong while I went through my breast cancer treatments in 2020-2021. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Dee I'm so sorry to hear this. I was diagnosed with tnbc 2 years ago stage 2. Your videos were so helpful and I wondered how you were doing. So pleased you're in an OK head space to deal with this new diagnosis. Good luck with treatment. If you're able, I'd really like you to continue to update us from time to time. But go with how you feel. You need to look after you and your family
I’m so sorry that you received this awful news! You’re such an inspiration for some many women who are going through this. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.❤
I had to take care of my mother during her treatment 2 years ago. You're videos really gave such a sense of comfort and familiarity with the whole process, it made it less overwhelming when we had to go through everything. Sending you all the support with your treatment again. Just know that we appreciate you so much and are wishing you the best! 🥺
I’m so sorry. Mine came back too. I only had 3 mos between ending original treatment and stage 4. Been on Ibrance & Fasolodex shots for 3 years. There are a lot of treatments. Stay focused.
Oh Dee i am so sorry. You were my inspiration when I was diagnosed with serous carcinoma in 2019. I have had two recurrences but am currently NED. Stay strong. You can beat this! Wishing you the best😘
I'm so sorry. I'm a 6 year survivor and yes, we do live in daily fear for those 5 years...but know it can come back anytime even after that. I wish you strength to fight this beast again🙏🎗
I am sending prayers and love to you and your family. I am so so sorry this is happening to you! Your video really helped me and inspired me while I battled me own breast cancer diagnosis over a year ago. Your new diagnosis has inspired me to continue pushing for a routine scan with my oncologist. Sending hugs ❤
Prayer heals all! The Father healed my metastasized stage 4, triple positive breast cancer!! FAITH CANCELS FEAR! Believe!! Prayers for you sister and I'd NEVER do chemo again!! Blessings 😘💕❤️
@@venusserafico1161 I am happier and healthier than I ever have been in my life! Being filled with the holy Spirit is like having a superpower! There's nothing greater on earth. Thank you so much for asking and may the Most High bless you and yours eternally. ❤️💕
@@venusserafico1161 My email address is on my about page. Feel free to contact me. I passed out three times and we didn't know why that was happening. I went to have my very first mammogram because my cats would step on my right boob when I was laying in bed and it gave me great pain. Turns out my right side was just fine but the left side had stage two invasive, triple positive breast cancer. Very aggressive. I went through 3 months of chemo and they shrunk it down to a little tiny lump and my lumpectomy was put off due to COVID hitting. Evidently that was a elective surgery...😄 The tumor tripled in size and attached to my chest wall in the 3 months I was postponed for surgery. It then became stage 4 metastasized breast cancer. The Cancer center told me they couldn't do anything for me and I needed to find a team at a larger hospital in a larger city and that I still would probably not survive. I completely cleaned up my life. My food, my water, and my mind. Stress is a killer. I now filter my water, I stopped eating meat and I eat only organic fresh fruits and vegetables. I've never been as healthy or happy as I am now. I had a lot of down time where I researched the Bible and I was actually visited by the MOST HIGH God. There's no doubt in my mind. I am not a believer, I am a KNOWER!! Blessings to you sister!
I am so sorry you are going through this. I had breast cancer 22 years ago and was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in September 2021. Lost my mom to breast cancer. My heart feels for you. ♥️
I just saw this a few minutes ago and I am feeling sooo sorry that this has happened to you (or anyone else ) again! You are such a lively sprite and so helpful to others that I literally feel stunned right now. But us mama bears will fight on for those we love ❤ with everything we have!! Wishing you all the well wishes 17:19 in the world and to your family as well. Take care!
Oh hon. I was starting my cancer treatment in 2019 and I found your page talking about your experiences and it really helped me through everything. I am so very sorry to see you in my feed with this news. It's not fair, and cancer does not discriminate and I am so mad for you.
MY HEART IS WITH YOU. Your older videos helped me so much during my chemo a few months ago.Your story stuck with me. I am so sorry you are facing this again. YOU DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. this is your life and you face and decide treatments based on your needs (and your fam). MY heart is with you.
I was diagnosed October 2023 and I don't know how you felt but all of a sudden out of nowhere I started feeling very very very very very tired and I just noticed I stopped wanting to eat I stopped wanting to hang out with people and I even stopped wanting to have sex the only thing I wanted to do was sleep I looked at my friends and I'm like I'm I'm dying looked at me people started laughing I went to the doctors and sure enough diagnosed with a life-threatening illness that's killing me! Now i just feel so lost at time's. And it's medicine and doctor visits like you wouldn't believe!
Seeing you how you spoke about your kids breaks my heart. I can relate 100%. You explained how cancer is spread so well. Thank you and best wishes for you from Australia.
You will be in my prayers . Praying for strength and peace from the Lord Your videos were a blessing to me. You are a beautiful woman , and you have those wonderful children to fight for Hugs sister
You really are amazing, thank you so much for sharing. It’s incredible valuable, to those and those close to those experiencing cancer. Congratulations on your mental health, that is incredible!!! An illness so few can manage - you are an inspiration. Sending love, health and strength x
I watched all your video's through my diagnosis in 2021and treatment in 2021/22 , been a yr clear since April this year . You fought it once and the help you can get to manage the cancer to make sure you won't get Dday is so advanced now - sending much love xx
Dee, You are the only real, straightforward, and honest person to give me the answers you had already. I’m feeling your anguish, and worries, but I am also hoping for us all that modern medicine will do it’s job, and give us that freedom from this. Thinking of you.
Most of all of my family has died from cancer, i have been told no matter how long it stays gone it will always come back, my prayers to you and everyone that suffers from this awful disease
My mother survived three cancers and died of a stroke at 85. I'm a 32 year survivor of breast cancer myself. Thanks to modern medicine, many people are cured of cancer today.
@@19th-Nervous-Breakdown Would you be willing to share what treatments you had? And do you still go to check-ups regularly or are considered healed. I am happy for you that you are doing good after 32 years.
I'm sorry your cancer returned. Your videos have helped me so much through my cancer journey. Thank you for posting your journey. We live in 2 different countries so we will never meet, but I feel like I know you and like a friend who opens their heart to another friend, that's what you have done for me. You are in my prayers. Brenda
You are an inspiration. I’ve been watching your earliest videos and can’t tell you how much it means to those of us starting our journey. Knowing about how I might feel or what side effects I might have, has been so comforting. Bless you and yours. ❤
Oh man, what a sad YT notification! I'm so sorry, Dee! HOWEVER, I have heard of MANY people who have lived for a long time with stage 4 cancer, so I hope you have many good years left with your friends and family. Please keep seeing that therapist too. It sounds like she helped a lot! ❤
This made me cry so much. I was diagnosed in early 2019 stage 3 I love your videos they are so real and honest. I was happy to see you living life. I've been in a state of anxiety since cancer treatment ended. I haven't been happy. I've been so scared that when that moment comes and I do decide to be happy and live life it's going to come back and no one else understands the fear except those who have gone through it cancer is torture mentally 😢💔 thank you for continuing to make videos I appreciate your channel so much Dee 🩷
Big hugs Stephanie x I really hope you somehow manage to get there where you can be free of the anxiety! I know it’s so easy to say. But believe me if I can do it (the worlds most anxious person) you can! ❤
Dee - You are an amazing human being. You helped me immensely through my journey in 2021. You were my friend who helped guide me through the process. I’m so sorry you are going through this again. Much love to you and your boys. ❤
You helped me process and understand what was happening to me during my diagnosis and treatment in 2020 for TNBC. Your journey helped me through the darkest moments and made me feel like I could take control over the shit show that was happening to me. I’m sorry to hear that yours has come back but know that your resilience this time round will be ten fold, not only because of what you’ve been through but we’ve all got your back and are here in the background wishing you strength all the way ❤
I can't tell you how much your videos helped me when I was diagnosed in 2021. I finished my active treatment in May and have my first post-chemo scan on Thursday. I have not been worried about recurrence at all until the scanxiety kicked in - now I have a sinking feeling it's not going to be good news. Thank you for sharing your story again. I'm rooting for you (and your kids) so hard
I’m so sorry to hear this. Just want to say that when I was going through my breast cancer journey I watched your videos and they really helped me. Sending you positive thoughts!❤
You are a very brave and strong woman, thank you so much for sharing and being so honest. Your videos helped me a lot before and during my treatment. Since then I can see how your life has changed and how big your boys are. You have a beautiful family and as you said, the love that you have for them will help you overcome this and never give up. Big hugs and thank you
I am so sorry to hear this!!! I was diagnosed with stage three breast cancer this February!! Your videos have been so helpful!! I will keep you in my thoughts!!
One of your newest videos popped up on my timeline and I was surprised as it had been so long! Then I found this on your channel. Stunned and sorry you have to go through this again; but you are a warrior and will kick ass
When you posted on your stories on insta my stomach dropped, I too was convinced you were never going to be back doing these kinds of vids. I'm absolutely gutted. Your analogy of the black hoodie cancer guys helped explain it so well so thank you for that. Sending you so much love Dee xx 💖💖
Dee so sorry to hear this news. I'm a couple of months behind you on your cancer journey, coming up in Nov. on my 5yr. You have been a great inspiration to me as with so many others.🙏❤️
Oh Dee I’m heartbroken to hear this awful news. You’re RUclips videos were what gave me so much strength and hope when I was diagnosed in 2019 and Ive followed you on insta since then. As a mum of 2 ( older boys) I know exactly how much you love your boys and how you want this to look for them. I feel like you held my hand ( virtually!) throughout my cancer and you need to know that I am here now to do that back to you. Please know that you are loved so much and you have so much support here on YT and insta. Thank you for sharing your story you are truly amazingly brave. Sending you a massive hug and lots of love from Manchester Jo xx
Your earlier videos helped me immensely when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2019. I appreciated your honesty and information more than I can say. In 2021, I learned that my BC has metastasized to my mediastinal cavity and bones. I hate that you have stage 4 BC. That being said, I am so glad you’re documenting your journey. Thanks so much.
You are right when you say your videos have helped others. They helped me tremendously. I applaud your bravery to be so open with everything. I love knowing that it helps you too. Sending lots of love. ❤❤❤
Dee, I am so sorry and I am soo sad. I’ve been thinking about you after I saw your insta story for this past couple days now and I just can’t get my head wrap around it. You’ve been a huge help when I went through my breast cancer journey 4 years ago and I’m still on treatment until now. You have no idea how much You have helped me so much mentally and emotionally. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Be strong!! I know you got this!! XOXO ❤️❤️❤️
My gf had her 1st diagnosis 21 years ago...she was good for 10 years..then it came back stage 2...then 5 years later stage 3....then stage 4..she has been stage 4 for about 5 years now....she is a warrior..❤
She sounds amazing! ❤ I’m so glad to hear this!
Oh my. Tough lady!
My friend's mom has had stage 4 breast cancer for as long as I've known her - over 20 years! Stay strong!!
This is unbelievable, usually breast cancer don't come in successive stages.
@@alexam1848Yes, it is non sense
My aunt had her first diagnosis of cancer at 31 and her second one at 37. She’s 53 and still cancer free.
Woo! That’s me!!
im happy for her. ✌
I just finished my treatment and operation for BC stage 3, and just want to tell you I spent a few nights in hospital with a woman who had BC stage 4 for almost 20 years. She has kept it in check with new medications, radiation and immune therapy and at the same time traveled the world. Wishing you the very best and still a long and exciting life! 10-15 years is not rare nowadays, 20 years is even better, and who knows which medications exist by then! Keep the hope ❤❤
Thank you, this gives me hope x
This is amazing news! ❤
@@DeeDoherty Targeted therapies have really come a long way. My type of cancer was HER2+, hers was estrogen+. She was the most amazing woman I’ve ever met, probably in her 70’s. She was telling me all about her travels and how she found so much joy from them and also her garden and nature. She also had an awesome sense of humour - she said: even if you have stage 4 cancer you can let your hair out and enjoy life to the fullest - well you can’t she said - pointing at my bald head. 😂 Will never forget her. As far as I know she’s still going strong. Our hospital stay was this summer.
Love this positivity you bring to her and the comments. We need this kind of attitude. Thank you
@@Cherubx Thank you for the nice comment ❤️
I was diagnosed with the same breast cancer as you almost exactly in 2019. Your videos were SO helpful and comforting. My cancer came back this year and I am stage 4 now too. Processing this has been a wild ride of terror, acceptance, developing a dark humor that freaks my family out and just plain sadness sometimes. Thanks so much for putting yourself out there candidly. I know you've helped thousands of other women. Long live us!! 🙏
prayers for all of you strong woman. My daughter in law passed in May 2023 of colon cancer stage 4 a month after diagnoses at 27 years old.
Praying for you!
It’s funny the dark humour has already come RIGHT back! We’re allowed! Sending you lots of love ❤️ thank you for your support and I hope we get to keep doing this for a long time xx
Be Holy as God is Holy everyone.Sin shortens life, because of our sins we are separated from God. Everyone have an expiration date and this world have an expiration date.There is nothing in this world worth going to hellfire for, depart from worldliness everyone. It's NOT about religion/denomination, it's about a relationship with Jesus Christ by praying everyday, reading the Bible everyday, believe the gospel, While you are still alive repent of all of your sins and be born again. Rapture is imminent, do not be left behind. Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, get yourselves ready. This WORLD is TEMPORARY and HEAVEN is PERMANENT, Choose wisely everyone.
Omg :( I'm sorry to hear that. You really inspired me with my very early diagnostic of best cancer HER2-positive in 2019. I saw all your videos and helped me to deal with my chemotherapy and radiation treatments.
So, did you was under tamoxifen hormonal therapy ? When they found your cancer back ? How do ypu found it?
Do you feel sick or in any pain ?
I feel very bad for stopping with the tamoxifen two months ago.
Because doctors found some polyps in the endometrial walls.
I was so scare to develop endometrial cancer after that beside tamoxifen side effects could cause cancer.
I don't know at this point if was a big mistake or not. But I feel that its not good to live with all side effects and the quality of lives its very important. So dealing with gaining weight, hair lost. Vaginal pain during sex. Sadness and not happy to live my live with a anti depression pills...to not look al the struggles tha cancer caused me.
I feel scare too for not continuing with the tamoxifen treatment . My case it is just exactly the same like your.
So I don't know what going to happen but I can not continue with a treatment with not guarantee that cancer will not return. Because the side effects are dangerous too and emotionally its affect my life , my marriage and my family .
I just want to stop breaking in more pices year by year under tamoxifen treatment.
If back with cancer its is there again waiting for me in the future I want to enjoy the time before that happens.
I wish you with the bottom of my heart that you continue living with all your positive vibes and love for your family and all people around ypu..in special all the women you touch their life with your brighter light.
😘 please keep in touch and continue updating your process and health experience. You are a truly inspiration.
Take care ❤ I apologized ..
my primary Language is Spanish so I tried my best writing you this message.
I often think about you. Youre such a special person.
I have had a Stage 4 metastatic cancer diagnosis since Aug 2015. I have done radiation, strong chemo, and now for the past 7 years immune therapy every 3 weeks for the past 7 years. Last treatment day I got the news that the original tumor has started growing again. I don't understand why surgery was pulled off the table once they had discovered the cancer was already every in my bones. Maybe if they had removed the original tumor I wouldn't be seeing it growing again. I have invasive ductal, HER 2 positive cancer which is very aggressive. The treatments do such damage to us that no one understands! My husband is so tired of this journey with me. He admitted yesterday that for the second time he has signed up on an online dating site looking for a healthy, sexual woman. I am devastated! We who battle cancer did not choose this! I have been a good faithful wife for 46 years! Prayers and virtual hugs for your journey!
Jesus!!! Get rid of him!! Tell him to move out and let you get on with your life! What an ass.
I am a breast cancer survivor of 26 years. I just read your post to my husband of 40yrs and he was totally blown away by the your husband’s behavior….. so cold and callous to act in such a manner.. makes me sick 🤮
I am so truly sorry 😢for what you are going through. Cancer is such a nightmare and then to find 😪 out about your husband 😢😢😢😢 truly horrible
May Jesus help you find some comfort in your life.🎉❤😢😢
His actions are not okay, no matter how tired he is.
You helped me through my cancer 2 years ago. So sorry for this.
Me too❣️
I was 7 years clear now I'm terminal. 5 years is normally the 'danger window'. This is my third battle with it now. First diagnosed in 2000. Got it again in 2016. This disease is so unpredictable and insidious!! I'm not going to say I know how you're feeling as everyone processes it differently. Subbed.
Praying for you 🙏
Unfortunately with breast cancer, the danger window never closes. It becomes significantly smaller after 12 years, especially with grade 3 cancers, but the little men with the hoodies can always be hiding.
@@ellietenenbaum3486 Yea my Mum died of it. Was 3 years clear then it came back in her brain. I have prostate and lung, originated in my bowel.
You need to know that I too relied on your videos to educate me and give me hope 3 years ago as I fought lung cancer. My heart sank when I read the title of your new video. Please continue posting and know there are lots of people praying for you. - Mike
I’m so sorry your cancer returned. I know they say that once you’ve had cancer you can never really consider yourself cured, but if you make it to the 5 year mark your chances are better. It’s possible you were likely feeling that your chances of not getting it again as each year passed put you more at ease. Then wam, that evil cancer raised its ugly head and is sending you spinning. I love how you described things. You do explain things well. I do hope you will take us on your journey. It will be so helpful to so many people. Wishing you the best of luck.
I’m so sorry Dee! This doesn’t give me hope! I’m one year out from having a mastectomy in my left breast and lymph nodes removed. Ramble all you want. We will be here for you through it all. I will pray for you every day.
Just have both breasts done, to be on the safe side. Mine is due soon x
Same here Maggie. Left breast mastectomy 3 years ago ❤
@@JANAlifestylevloggerI asked to have both breasts removed here in the UK England, but was told no, just single mastectomy. Stage 3, feel like I'm waiting and worrying with a 4yr old
I was told no also. I was stage 3 as well. @@tarat26
I'm so sorry.
Your videos helped me immensely when I was diagnosed last year. There's no cancer history in my family and I don't know anyone that ever had cancer. You videos made me feel less alone and I'll be forever grateful.
I'm rooting for you!
I hope you're doing well. I will keep you in my thoughts ❤
I got two cancers a couple of years ago and have been NED for a little over a year. One was Stage 3 and the other Stage 4. I am just waiting for it to come back, I watch these videos to try and get my head ready for the inevitable. Sorry that you are at this stage now, it is the nightmare that never ends.
Dee, I'm so sorry. You are so right about "what's the point" feeling after having stage 3 breast cancer. I found your videos when I got diagnosed with breast cancer 4 years ago. They helped me so much.
Last week I went to get checked at the breast clinic because of pain in my ribs on the side of my mastectomy. I wasn't too worried until I saw consultant's face. He gave me an appointment for the nuclear bone scan the next day. I'm waiting for the results now and having panic attacks non stop. No one knows how it feels like until you've been there.
I hope you will be able to record your journey this time again and I hope that the journey will be a very very long one. There is so little out there about the metastatic breast cancer. Thank you for doing this and good luck.
Saying a prayer for you! Hoping for the best case scenario for you and all who are going through this.
Thinking of you and sending positive vibes .
Take care.
Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xxx
Just wanted to say I’m thinking of you sending positive vibes …. My breast cancer has come back but was triple x now hormonal ❤❤
I hope your scan came normal.
Cancer is a best.
Stay safe.
@@CarlaCaires-xc6zo bone scan was clear. I'm now waiting for a CT scan appointment and then results.
Thank you for caring
Oh Dee…. Your story helped me get through my own diagnosis in 2021. We chatted on Instagram about it and I just saw this come across my notifications and I’m floored.
You are in my prayers sis. ❤❤❤
You should stick to a high turmeric based , diet with omega oil , vitamins etc as cancers have a high return rate ,
I work at a Breast Cancer treatment center and stumbled upon your video. It gave me more insight about what our patients are feeling and going through. Sending you positive energy and wishing you the best outcomes on your journey. 💓
Thank you Ashley! This is soooo nice! You’re obviously very invested in your patients wellbeing, very lucky patients to have you on their side!
I have so many emotions going through my head. I am very sorry for your recent diagnosis. People who have never experienced cancer can’t understand the anxiety. I have been diagnosed twice with breast cancer. Both were as stage 1 but every time I go to my oncologist I am on pins and needles.
Sister hugs from New Jersey. I will pray for you and support your journey.
Whoever has stage 4 breast cancer please please ask your doctor for MRI brain scan from time to time even though you don't have any symptoms from brain...My mum died 2 weeks ago from stage 4 breast cancer which spread to her bones. She was fighting for over 2 years with that stage but suddenly turned out she got leptomeningeal disease without any warning ;( and it took her life in 10 days
Have already asked! Been having bad headaches for months! Thanks Klaudia
@@DeeDoherty - Oh no! Did they schedule a brain MRI yet?
I’m absolutely gutted that this is happening to you. I was diagnosed in 2019 and watched every single one of your videos and found them so incredibly helpful. I’m so sorry that you are going through this again. We are all here for you ❤️. You are strong. Sending love and best wishes xx
You are the strongest women I know. You have no idea how much you have helped me over the last five years in my journey. I live in the US, yet feel so connected to your journey. Thank you for being YOU. You have made a difference for me- and we all have a breast cancer and reoccurrence journey.
Thank YOU so much! I am sooo glad you find this helpful, and I totally understand the connection feeling 🫶 I hope you’re doing ok xx
Love your accent. I could listen to you talk all day! You seem to be a warrior. You will beat this. Prayers to you and yours.
Haha you’re very kind! Thank you!
I was so shocked with the Insta post!! I was crying & told my husband how you helped me through my treatment in 2021 and gave me hope!! I’m really happy your in a good mental state! Your strength is inspiring! Thank you so much! You have a lot of internet friends that care so much about you!!❤ sending you positive vibes & big hugs!!
I’m a very lucky lady 😊😊😊❤❤❤
Dee, I am so sorry to hear it’s come back. I got diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in January of 2020. I went through surgery, chemo, and radiation during the pandemic. Watching your videos made such a difference in my journey. I didn’t feel alone & you gave me so much hope. Thank you for always sharing your honest and very real perspective. Know that so many of us are in your corner & praying for you! 💗💗💗
Be Holy as God is Holy everyone.Sin shortens life, because of our sins we are separated from God. Everyone have an expiration date and this world have an expiration date.There is nothing in this world worth going to hellfire for, depart from worldliness everyone. It's NOT about religion/denomination, it's about a relationship with Jesus Christ by praying everyday, reading the Bible everyday, believe the gospel, While you are still alive repent of all of your sins and be born again. Rapture is imminent, do not be left behind. Jesus Christ is coming back everyone, get yourselves ready. This WORLD is TEMPORARY and HEAVEN is PERMANENT, Choose wisely everyone.
@@MaryLovesJesus That was wonderful encouragement Mary and very true words! There is nothing more important!
I have been doing treatment since June and I remember frantically searching the internet for information and came across your vidoes, it got me through my first chemo and some of the most scary days of my life, devastated to hear your news but you look strong! I am with you! ❤
You have helped so many people get through a dark time in their life while dealing with a Cancer diagnosis, including myself. I am 4 years out and have always felt really positive that I will be fine. There is no other way to feel for me because constantly worrying is not a way to live. I am grateful for the time I have had and hope for many more years to enjoy my family. It has helped me to be a better grandmother for sure because I want my grandkids to have good memories that they have made with me. God is mindful of you and I and I pray that he will help you through this. I am so grateful for you and your outlook and perspective. I will be following and hoping for the best for you and your family.
Sending healing energy and manifesting the best possible outcome for you, Dee. You are loved by so many of us:-)
What an excellent analogy of how sneaky cancer cells spread. You are amazing! ❤
Your attitude is so great. I think you’ve got this. Sending prayers and strength your way ❤
I watched your videos religiously/daily when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2020 (in the early days of the pandemic). It helped me so much in preparing for the different steps of chemo and radiation. Seeing you thriving after completing treatment, gave me hope in my darkest days. I am beside myself seeing this video. My heart aches so much. Like you, I am a mom to two young kids and your comment about thinking of your kids first, speaks so much to me. As moms, that is what we worry about most. I will be thinking, praying, and following your posts. Thank you for your honesty and the genuineness in all of your posts. I hope to meet you one day.
I can so relate. Mum of a 4yr old, I'm stage 3bc. My little one starts big school tomorrow and I won't get to pick her up at the end of the day as I'm having a scan. I nearly cancelled it as it breaks my heart. Waiting for a CT Pet scan.
Hey Dee, so sorry. I was also diagnosed with Stage 3 breast cancer and have had mastectomy with all lymph nodes removed. My cancer also relapsed this year in the liver and now bones. Your videos gave me so much strength girl, thank you so much for sharing your journey that gives us a path ahead. I am in this journey with you. I have a 12 year old and my heart breaks a million times even imagining the worst for him and my hubby. I want to believe, we all brave fighters will be here with our family and loved ones for as long as possible....praying for you and all the brave fighters out there. Lots of love.❤
Praying for you and your family ❤
Im so sorry to here of this! Fuck Cancer! Your videos lead me to your IG and as i watched your journey you helped me with mines. I felt a sort of sisterhood & you responded to me in my DM's I was diagnosed w/ stage 2 breast cancer & also went thru chemo, radiation & still on hormone treatment it sucks to hear this afraid mines may come back because the doctors said it was a aggressive tumor on the oncotype test. May God give you the strength my warrior sister! Im so sorry to hear this....
Dear Dee, I am so sorry to hear this. All I know is that you are an incredibly strong woman, who is standing out there like a brave warrior fighting everything that comes. Thinking about you and sending lots of love, dear Dee!
Dee. I'm so terribly sorry. I have no words, truly. But I do want to say thank you for sharing. You were one of the first channels I power watched when I was diagnosed and was hunting for information. It was people like you who led me to share my own story bc of how beneficial it was to me. So again, thank you for sharing - it's amazing for the cancer fam. Sending you so much love and light through this next chapter 🫶
I'm so sorry 😢😢 I saw the story on Instagram and it shocked me. I praying for you.
You helped me so much during (my own cancer journey. Every description you gave for the treatment and what to expect was spot on. You spoke about how they felt and made you feel and I found I had pretty much the same experience. I am so sorry you are having to go through this again. I will be praying for you as you fight this again.
Cancer F’ing sucks! Never give up, and please know your videos were soo helpful and inspiring during my treatments. Love seeing you again, hate the reason you’re back. You can do this!
My heart dropped when I read the title of this video. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. You also helped me through my battle of Stage 3 breast cancer in 2018. I found answers and comfort in your videos. I’m praying for you! God Bless you 🫶🏽
"MY" cancer came back, words are powerful, don't claim it!!! "THE cancer is back.
I'm one of the lucky ones. My breast cancer was caught very early and I've been cancer free for 32 years.
Hi Dee.. I’m right beside you! I’m 38, diagnosed with the same cancer you have, stage four that’s spread to my bone at 37. I did 16 rounds of chemotherapy, had my right breast removed, and now I’m doing 6 weeks of radiation. ❤
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Dee im so so sorry to hear this news 😢 like so many people here in the comments you helped me get through my bc stage 3 treatment. thank you for your honesty and for sharing. sending you and your lovely boys huge love ❤
I’m so sorry for your diagnosis, I was just diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma and I’m completely shocked. Feel amazing…don’t feel sick….just started treatment and preparing for surgery…. I wish you a speedy recovery.
Oh honey. I’m so sorry to hear this. 😢 I stumbled across your channel a few days ago, as I am also dealing with a reoccurrence. You will get through this and we will get through it together! Sending prayers for strength and for comfort. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
Dee, you were a pivotal part of my cancer journey I was diagnosed 2021 so your videos were already out for some time you prepared me for chemo got me through the hair loss even doing my non existent eyebrows and make, wigs ext. there so many others ,I never got bored! It even inspired me to vlog. To hear that this has happened to you I’m so sorry , I’m 41 with 4 kids from 22-12 . When my cancer was staged it was already stage 4. Last year I attempted surgery only to be awakened and told I was inoperable. I feel your pain I’m walking in the same ugly shoes! I’m not glad that your here for this but, I will be here this time around. I have managed to be stable the past 9 months without treatment . I’ve only been offered palliative Maintenance chemo , and RN I’m doing metabolic treatment for as long as I can . I’m praying for you ,not only the cancer ,but for your mental health, it’s bad enough you suffered through this once but twice Sheesh really hard pill to swallow. So sad to hear this. Be careful how far you allow your mind to take you, you are here right now that’s all that matters. I get that working and routine help your mental health , but if your spending more time at work or your working outside of there school hours , reconsider , what you have is now, your time is now, you wanna spend all the happy healthy time you have with them. Your going to fight the good fight, you got it!!
Thank you so much xx
I want to say thank you for posting this. So many are going through what you are going through and your insight in so valuable. The subway analogy was spot on. I’m sorry this has happened to you and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I can tell you are a great teacher! You are very good at explaining how cancer spreads and the process. I wish you success in treatment and am going to keep you in my prayers❤
Wow.... So sorry to hear this. After my wife's breast cancer diagnosis your videos were a great help for us in understanding treatments. We have a couple of friends that went stage 4 with similar diagnosis to yours, and they're still doing okay. Thanks for your bravery for posting these videos as they help so many. Wishing you the best!
Thank you so much for sharing! I had inflammatory breast cancer HER2+ stage 3b in 2020. I keep waiting for the cancer to return while working, hiking, swimming and spending time with my family in the meantime.
I found so many of your comments to perfectly align with how I am feeling and how I see the world as a past cancer patient.
I feel so much better knowing someone else has similar views.
Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
We’re all in it together x it’s so great you’re living life to the fullest and not dwelling on what ‘could’ be xx
I’m so saddened to hear this news. What an incredible role model you have been to so many people. Your videos helped me to be be strong while I went through my breast cancer treatments in 2020-2021. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh Dee I'm so sorry to hear this. I was diagnosed with tnbc 2 years ago stage 2. Your videos were so helpful and I wondered how you were doing. So pleased you're in an OK head space to deal with this new diagnosis. Good luck with treatment. If you're able, I'd really like you to continue to update us from time to time. But go with how you feel. You need to look after you and your family
I’m so sorry that you received this awful news! You’re such an inspiration for some many women who are going through this. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.❤
I'm sorry to hear this, Dee. I pray God gives you the strength to fight. Sending prayers and love ❤️
I had to take care of my mother during her treatment 2 years ago. You're videos really gave such a sense of comfort and familiarity with the whole process, it made it less overwhelming when we had to go through everything.
Sending you all the support with your treatment again. Just know that we appreciate you so much and are wishing you the best! 🥺
Your very inspiring. I do pray you kick cancers butt. Never give up
I’m so sorry. Mine came back too. I only had 3 mos between ending original treatment and stage 4. Been on Ibrance & Fasolodex shots for 3 years. There are a lot of treatments. Stay focused.
Oh Dee i am so sorry. You were my inspiration when I was diagnosed with serous carcinoma in 2019. I have had two recurrences but am currently NED. Stay strong. You can beat this! Wishing you the best😘
I’m praying for you and your children. You have such a lovely way about you and I know you will beat this once again!
I'm so sorry. I'm a 6 year survivor and yes, we do live in daily fear for those 5 years...but know it can come back anytime even after that. I wish you strength to fight this beast again🙏🎗
Thinking of you and your family ❤️ I was diagnosed stage 4 Dec 22 standing alongside you xx
I am sending prayers and love to you and your family. I am so so sorry this is happening to you! Your video really helped me and inspired me while I battled me own breast cancer diagnosis over a year ago. Your new diagnosis has inspired me to continue pushing for a routine scan with my oncologist. Sending hugs ❤
Prayer heals all! The Father healed my metastasized stage 4, triple positive breast cancer!! FAITH CANCELS FEAR! Believe!! Prayers for you sister and I'd NEVER do chemo again!! Blessings 😘💕❤️
How are you?
@@venusserafico1161 I am happier and healthier than I ever have been in my life! Being filled with the holy Spirit is like having a superpower! There's nothing greater on earth. Thank you so much for asking and may the Most High bless you and yours eternally. ❤️💕
@@Playsinthedirt may I know what was your symptoms when you got diagnosed? How can I reach you?
@@venusserafico1161 My email address is on my about page. Feel free to contact me. I passed out three times and we didn't know why that was happening. I went to have my very first mammogram because my cats would step on my right boob when I was laying in bed and it gave me great pain. Turns out my right side was just fine but the left side had stage two invasive, triple positive breast cancer. Very aggressive.
I went through 3 months of chemo and they shrunk it down to a little tiny lump and my lumpectomy was put off due to COVID hitting. Evidently that was a elective surgery...😄
The tumor tripled in size and attached to my chest wall in the 3 months I was postponed for surgery. It then became stage 4 metastasized breast cancer.
The Cancer center told me they couldn't do anything for me and I needed to find a team at a larger hospital in a larger city and that I still would probably not survive.
I completely cleaned up my life. My food, my water, and my mind. Stress is a killer.
I now filter my water, I stopped eating meat and I eat only organic fresh fruits and vegetables.
I've never been as healthy or happy as I am now. I had a lot of down time where I researched the Bible and I was actually visited by the MOST HIGH God. There's no doubt in my mind. I am not a believer, I am a KNOWER!! Blessings to you sister!
@@Playsinthedirt may I know how can I reach you and what was your initial symptoms when you got diagnose?
Hi dee I’m so sorry that your cancer came back! I will pray for you dee on strength and positive vibes!
I am so sorry you are going through this. I had breast cancer 22 years ago and was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in September 2021. Lost my mom to breast cancer. My heart feels for you. ♥️
So sorry to hear this xx
My mum has terminal breast cancer. Bless you and sending you positive energy ❤
I just saw this a few minutes ago and I am feeling sooo sorry that this has happened to you (or anyone else ) again! You are such a lively sprite and so helpful to others that I literally feel stunned right now. But us mama bears will fight on for those we love ❤ with everything we have!! Wishing you all the well wishes 17:19 in the world and to your family as well. Take care!
I’m so devastated about this . I watched your videos when I found out I had cancer 3 years ago . You’re such an inspiration!!
Oh hon. I was starting my cancer treatment in 2019 and I found your page talking about your experiences and it really helped me through everything. I am so very sorry to see you in my feed with this news. It's not fair, and cancer does not discriminate and I am so mad for you.
Dee, I am so sorry that it came back. You and your family will be in my prayers.
MY HEART IS WITH YOU. Your older videos helped me so much during my chemo a few months ago.Your story stuck with me. I am so sorry you are facing this again. YOU DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. this is your life and you face and decide treatments based on your needs (and your fam). MY heart is with you.
I was diagnosed October 2023 and I don't know how you felt but all of a sudden out of nowhere I started feeling very very very very very tired and I just noticed I stopped wanting to eat I stopped wanting to hang out with people and I even stopped wanting to have sex the only thing I wanted to do was sleep I looked at my friends and I'm like I'm I'm dying looked at me people started laughing I went to the doctors and sure enough diagnosed with a life-threatening illness that's killing me! Now i just feel so lost at time's. And it's medicine and doctor visits like you wouldn't believe!
So sorry to hear this!
@@DeeDoherty I really hope that you get well. I'll be praying for you!🙂 ("Thank you!")
Seeing you how you spoke about your kids breaks my heart. I can relate 100%. You explained how cancer is spread so well. Thank you and best wishes for you from Australia.
You will be in my prayers . Praying for strength and peace from the Lord
Your videos were a blessing to me. You are a beautiful woman , and you have those wonderful children to fight for
Hugs sister
You really are amazing, thank you so much for sharing. It’s incredible valuable, to those and those close to those experiencing cancer. Congratulations on your mental health, that is incredible!!! An illness so few can manage - you are an inspiration. Sending love, health and strength x
I watched all your video's through my diagnosis in 2021and treatment in 2021/22 , been a yr clear since April this year . You fought it once and the help you can get to manage the cancer to make sure you won't get Dday is so advanced now - sending much love xx
❤️ In a sea of strong, brave women you are a beacon! Keep shining - you’ve got this! ❤
Dee, You are the only real, straightforward, and honest person to give me the answers you had already. I’m feeling your anguish, and worries, but I am also hoping for us all that modern medicine will do it’s job, and give us that freedom from this.
Thinking of you.
You have a gift in explaining things.
Most of all of my family has died from cancer, i have been told no matter how long it stays gone it will always come back, my prayers to you and everyone that suffers from this awful disease
It's a horrible fear knowing it may come back. I pray that we have a cure in our lifetime....keep spirits up no matter what...much love to you.
My mother survived three cancers and died of a stroke at 85. I'm a 32 year survivor of breast cancer myself. Thanks to modern medicine, many people are cured of cancer today.
@@19th-Nervous-Breakdown Would you be willing to share what treatments you had? And do you still go to check-ups regularly or are considered healed. I am happy for you that you are doing good after 32 years.
I'm sorry your cancer returned. Your videos have helped me so much through my cancer journey. Thank you for posting your journey. We live in 2 different countries so we will never meet, but I feel like I know you and like a friend who opens their heart to another friend, that's what you have done for me. You are in my prayers. Brenda
Dee, I followed your RUclips/IG since I was diagnosed in 2019. I am on the same boat except I never had remission. I send you positive vibes and hugs.
You are an inspiration. I’ve been watching your earliest videos and can’t tell you how much it means to those of us starting our journey. Knowing about how I might feel or what side effects I might have, has been so comforting. Bless you and yours. ❤
Thank You for sharing your life, your journey. Sending you healing vibes your way Dee 🩷
Oh man, what a sad YT notification! I'm so sorry, Dee! HOWEVER, I have heard of MANY people who have lived for a long time with stage 4 cancer, so I hope you have many good years left with your friends and family. Please keep seeing that therapist too. It sounds like she helped a lot! ❤
This made me cry so much. I was diagnosed in early 2019 stage 3 I love your videos they are so real and honest. I was happy to see you living life. I've been in a state of anxiety since cancer treatment ended. I haven't been happy. I've been so scared that when that moment comes and I do decide to be happy and live life it's going to come back and no one else understands the fear except those who have gone through it cancer is torture mentally 😢💔 thank you for continuing to make videos I appreciate your channel so much Dee 🩷
Big hugs Stephanie x I really hope you somehow manage to get there where you can be free of the anxiety! I know it’s so easy to say. But believe me if I can do it (the worlds most anxious person) you can! ❤
Dee, I wish you all the healing, love and blessings in the world
Dee - You are an amazing human being. You helped me immensely through my journey in 2021. You were my friend who helped guide me through the process. I’m so sorry you are going through this again. Much love to you and your boys. ❤
You helped me process and understand what was happening to me during my diagnosis and treatment in 2020 for TNBC. Your journey helped me through the darkest moments and made me feel like I could take control over the shit show that was happening to me. I’m sorry to hear that yours has come back but know that your resilience this time round will be ten fold, not only because of what you’ve been through but we’ve all got your back and are here in the background wishing you strength all the way ❤
I can't tell you how much your videos helped me when I was diagnosed in 2021. I finished my active treatment in May and have my first post-chemo scan on Thursday. I have not been worried about recurrence at all until the scanxiety kicked in - now I have a sinking feeling it's not going to be good news.
Thank you for sharing your story again. I'm rooting for you (and your kids) so hard
I’m so sorry to hear this. Just want to say that when I was going through my breast cancer journey I watched your videos and they really helped me. Sending you positive thoughts!❤
You are a very brave and strong woman, thank you so much for sharing and being so honest. Your videos helped me a lot before and during my treatment. Since then I can see how your life has changed and how big your boys are. You have a beautiful family and as you said, the love that you have for them will help you overcome this and never give up. Big hugs and thank you
I am so sorry to hear this!!! I was diagnosed with stage three breast cancer this February!! Your videos have been so helpful!! I will keep you in my thoughts!!
One of your newest videos popped up on my timeline and I was surprised as it had been so long! Then I found this on your channel. Stunned and sorry you have to go through this again; but you are a warrior and will kick ass
You helped me get through it so much Dee - sending all my love to you xxx
You helped me so much. Rooting and praying for you Dee.
When you posted on your stories on insta my stomach dropped, I too was convinced you were never going to be back doing these kinds of vids. I'm absolutely gutted.
Your analogy of the black hoodie cancer guys helped explain it so well so thank you for that. Sending you so much love Dee xx 💖💖
Dee so sorry to hear this news. I'm a couple of months behind you on your cancer journey, coming up in Nov. on my 5yr. You have been a great inspiration to me as with so many others.🙏❤️
Im so sorry Dee sending prayers and hugs xxx
Oh Dee I’m heartbroken to hear this awful news. You’re RUclips videos were what gave me so much strength and hope when I was diagnosed in 2019 and Ive followed you on insta since then. As a mum of 2 ( older boys) I know exactly how much you love your boys and how you want this to look for them. I feel like you held my hand ( virtually!) throughout my cancer and you need to know that I am here now to do that back to you. Please know that you are loved so much and you have so much support here on YT and insta. Thank you for sharing your story you are truly amazingly brave. Sending you a massive hug and lots of love from Manchester Jo xx
Your earlier videos helped me immensely when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2019. I appreciated your honesty and information more than I can say. In 2021, I learned that my BC has metastasized to my mediastinal cavity and bones. I hate that you have stage 4 BC. That being said, I am so glad you’re documenting your journey. Thanks so much.
You are right when you say your videos have helped others. They helped me tremendously. I applaud your bravery to be so open with everything. I love knowing that it helps you too. Sending lots of love. ❤❤❤
Thank you for documenting your journey!!! You have no idea how helpful your information is! Sending you prayers and healing thoughts 🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰
Dee, I am so sorry and I am soo sad. I’ve been thinking about you after I saw your insta story for this past couple days now and I just can’t get my head wrap around it. You’ve been a huge help when I went through my breast cancer journey 4 years ago and I’m still on treatment until now. You have no idea how much You have helped me so much mentally and emotionally. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Be strong!! I know you got this!! XOXO ❤️❤️❤️