Hehe, I knew I was bi from an unusual attraction to the same sex. One of my friends was impressed i proudly came out with confidence and admired me so much about it. And its ok for a princess to save another princess. Hope you and aliah get married.
I literally never fantasized about getting married but when my friend was trying to help me figure out my sexuality and they asked if I could picture myself getting married to a woman, it was all I could think about.
I should have realised I was sapphic when my ideal life would be with a wife/girlfriend and do about domestic cute things. Like cook together, lay in each other arms and just looking at her like she's the sunrise, stars and my moon.
It amazes me how much has changed for young lesbians. As an older lesbian, it’s incredible how you grew up with lesbian characters on tv. Every coming out story in my day was bitter sweet. Back then we all had to make the choice to pay the social costs of coming out, which meant losing important parts of your life, such as family members, close friends, church communities, faith, jobs. You had to be 100% ready to come out. Internal homophobia killed many of us. The military and half the states in the US still had sodomy laws that could include jail time. There were no lesbian role modals. No books, no movies. No one ever talked about it, except as an insult. Walking down the street holding hands, or under the table in a restaurant was looking for trouble. I’m so thrilled to watch these young lesbian videos and see how much easier for generation. It’s wonderful all the different styles lesbians have now, no need to dress like a lesbian to be recognized. My apologies to women who are still losing family, church, or faith. There are still many battles to go.
I congratulate you on being one of those rare lesbian unicorns who managed not to develop a crush on one of your straight friends in middle school or high school! 🦄🦄 I could fill a small arena with friends I silently simped for. Oh, and for me it was the first time I watched Jordana Brewster as Lucy Diamond in the movie D.E.B.S. 🤪
I think the biggest sign I'm bi was my absolute fixation on female characters like Maleficent (the Angelina Jolie ver.), Mulan, Jasmine, Elsa, etc. bc I thought they were so pretty. I also almost exclusively drew (and still draw) girls, and I always wanted to make them as pretty as I could 😆 also, when you talked about barbies, I remembered just sitting and staring at my barbies and just thinking about how pretty they were 😂
I remember in kindergarten I had these 3 best friends (all of them were girls) and when we played Family no boy wanted to play with us and we didn’t have anyone to be a father so I always been a “father” but they anyway referred to me as a she, so we basically were a lesbian couples
Ok so every time a boy would say he had a crush on me my anxiety would spike and I would avoid him at all costs. I would feel a little sick to my stomach and it was not fun. And I think I might have had those moments where I would wonder to myself how it would feel to kiss my female friends but idk if that means anything. I’m just trying to explore myself rn.
I always loved movies with gay and lesbian couples. Couldn't figure out why until it clicked lol And I have such an embarrassing teacher story. I was so obsessed with one of my teachers in the 7th grade, that when she said her little toddler loved a certain TV show and I knew I had a DVD collection of it, I told her I would give her the collection. And the next day, I did. All of them. She was so pretty 😭😂
The only strong signal I had in my childhood was when my friends saw images of cute boys on the internet and they liked them and I was just the weirdo who thought "well, this boy is supposed to be handsome but ... eww" and then I saw one Image of kristina pimenova, I was amazed that someone this pretty existed and I said "she is pretty, why do my friends focus on boys?" I was hypnotized watching her and I imagined her next to me for a few moments, also when my mother saw that i was playing with my dolls to make them hug, she asked me why I was doing that and I told her it was because they were sisters and then I was tempted to make they kisse but I couldn't hehehe
This happens to me too! All my friends are like: “Omg, he’s so cute! I would totally date him” and I’m there like: “Meh, he’s alright” But I look at almost every girl and OMG so beautiful
when i was like 6 yrs old, a few of my family friends (who were the same age as me) came over for a new years eve party and i rlly wanted to know what it felt like to have a new years kiss so one of the girls and i sat under a table and "made out" for like 5 minutes, and then my other friend who was a guy wanted to join in but i literally felt so disgusted by that n i was like "ew no" so he started kissing the other girl and i got really jealous LMAOSKJLDHA
SHFHSJ similar thing happened to me 😭 i was with my cousin (a girl) having a playdate at my house and we just randomly decided to kiss for some reason to see what it was
I also feel like that before even now that i have two kids i still love seeing two girls inlove to each other..not only sometimes but i always watching gay couple vlogs..i love u and your girlfriend..😘😘
When I played house, I always played the dog 😑(mostly cause my sister made me play that or the husband) And the sims, being gays is so me- All my sims are gay, and I can’t deny it-
Thank you for sharing your experience, I got to share it with someone who needs it. Also, your voice is beautiful. Reminds me of the person doing the Psych2Go voice overs. Maybe you can consider that too. Best wishes.
I figured myself out a year ago, a couple months after that, I downloaded the app “Episode” and I was looking at some of my old stories that I never finished from a while back, and I saw that my old character had a girlfriend and I was so shocked at how I didn’t know about myself sooner😂
Omg u so pretty love your videos. I knew I was pan cause I had this huge crush on my best friend and always got nervous and stuff. But most of my friends didn't know I was gay till they started seeing more signs. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Not me not really wanting kids at least not with a men. I don't want to marry one. When I dated one he asked me to come over to hang and I tried my best to avoid it at all cost. After he told my bff to stfu and tell her she was annoying I broke up with him the same day. I only dated him thinking he was nice and all. I don't see myself in the future with a men. I never found any interest in a heterosexual marriage. I see myself dating a girl marrying one and maybe getting a kid or more if she wants to. Like I came out as Bi. But it doesn't feel right. I mean I never had a girl crush beforI figured things out. I literally felt butterflies all over seeing that one girl. She was obviously gay my lesbian bff told me so I literally kept blushing and really wanted her number but my social anxiety said no sooo. I lost my chance and her 🤡
I have a boyfriend too, and I also avoid him at all costs as well..and I don’t know what to do about it, I know I should break up with him but I’m scared to.
When I was little I would play house and *laughing* I always made it that he dad was dead/left me and I was taking care of my child alone, hmmmm.... kinda suspicious if you ask me... and when I would play with my siblings I was the mom but like we still had no dad, and when I played with my friend and her little sister I WAS THE DAD. like I was married to my best friend and Her little sister was my daughter. The thing is her little sister assigned the roles, so she must have seen me as a guy or something? like I am fine with that but her making me like gay is just too much :) lol. And I am just recently coming into the community, so far as bisexual/pansexual I still don't really know, but I am me :).
I just realized that I always wanted to be gay in sims. My sister and I played together because we didn't have the money for another sims yk and we always made us in sims and one day we sat there and we were looking for a boyfriend for me and I just said that I could be gay because that would be so much easier and every guy that I saw there was so ugly lmao and she just looked at me so confused.... why didn't I remember this before?
I cannot believe I found someone who also wanted to be Mark from Cheaper by the dozen!!! I loved him so much and I thought he was so cool and cute that I just wanted to be him so bad! I loved your video btw, it's really comforting to have stories to relate to :)
"i STILL make my sims gay" sent me for no reason
I tought she said simps till i saw this comment lol
me getting girlfriends in movie star planet because I thought that sort of life wasn't possible in realty....
dude now it's a whole dating websits for teens and its suer toxic (I rejoined for nostalgia)
@@heyitsjackie959 any specific ones?
wdym?
@@heyitsjackie959 depends who you're talking to (cause I met some rly chill cool people) but it's pretty toxic
@Ivy Saro oh yeah Ive met some chill people too
Hehe, I knew I was bi from an unusual attraction to the same sex. One of my friends was impressed i proudly came out with confidence and admired me so much about it. And its ok for a princess to save another princess. Hope you and aliah get married.
Same
I literally never fantasized about getting married but when my friend was trying to help me figure out my sexuality and they asked if I could picture myself getting married to a woman, it was all I could think about.
More than 90% signs are relatable. No explanation needed😂
I should have realised I was sapphic when my ideal life would be with a wife/girlfriend and do about domestic cute things. Like cook together, lay in each other arms and just looking at her like she's the sunrise, stars and my moon.
It amazes me how much has changed for young lesbians. As an older lesbian, it’s incredible how you grew up with lesbian characters on tv. Every coming out story in my day was bitter sweet. Back then we all had to make the choice to pay the social costs of coming out, which meant losing important parts of your life, such as family members, close friends, church communities, faith, jobs. You had to be 100% ready to come out. Internal homophobia killed many of us. The military and half the states in the US still had sodomy laws that could include jail time. There were no lesbian role modals. No books, no movies. No one ever talked about it, except as an insult. Walking down the street holding hands, or under the table in a restaurant was looking for trouble. I’m so thrilled to watch these young lesbian videos and see how much easier for generation. It’s wonderful all the different styles lesbians have now, no need to dress like a lesbian to be recognized.
My apologies to women who are still losing family, church, or faith. There are still many battles to go.
I congratulate you on being one of those rare lesbian unicorns who managed not to develop a crush on one of your straight friends in middle school or high school! 🦄🦄 I could fill a small arena with friends I silently simped for. Oh, and for me it was the first time I watched Jordana Brewster as Lucy Diamond in the movie D.E.B.S. 🤪
she’s so pretty🥺.
IKR???
i used to make my dolls ✂️ HAHAHAHSHSH
omg same 💀✋
NOOO SAME 😭
I think the biggest sign I'm bi was my absolute fixation on female characters like Maleficent (the Angelina Jolie ver.), Mulan, Jasmine, Elsa, etc. bc I thought they were so pretty. I also almost exclusively drew (and still draw) girls, and I always wanted to make them as pretty as I could 😆
also, when you talked about barbies, I remembered just sitting and staring at my barbies and just thinking about how pretty they were 😂
My Sims are also all gay. Sometimes I even forget, that some Sims are hetero too...
I remember in kindergarten I had these 3 best friends (all of them were girls) and when we played Family no boy wanted to play with us and we didn’t have anyone to be a father so I always been a “father” but they anyway referred to me as a she, so we basically were a lesbian couples
I’m so sorry for my English I know it’s bad m(._.)m
You speak more English then I do whatever language you speak im assuming polish but pls correct me
Ok so every time a boy would say he had a crush on me my anxiety would spike and I would avoid him at all costs. I would feel a little sick to my stomach and it was not fun. And I think I might have had those moments where I would wonder to myself how it would feel to kiss my female friends but idk if that means anything. I’m just trying to explore myself rn.
same when a guy friend of mine confessed i would feel so anxious and nauseated whenever i would see them afterwards. then i would ghost them
vidia from tinkerbell.
that’s it.. that’s the comment.
(pretty sure i’m bi but still don’t know for sure 😩)
ugh I relate:( i hope we figure it out soonn💕
we’ll figure it out eventually ♥️✨
omg yes. 100%.
same i'm really confused whether i'm straight or bi
update: i’m definitely bi
So relatable heather,enjoy this video 💕💕💕
I would always play the dad when we played family hahah
Me too!
I always loved movies with gay and lesbian couples. Couldn't figure out why until it clicked lol
And I have such an embarrassing teacher story. I was so obsessed with one of my teachers in the 7th grade, that when she said her little toddler loved a certain TV show and I knew I had a DVD collection of it, I told her I would give her the collection. And the next day, I did. All of them. She was so pretty 😭😂
The only strong signal I had in my childhood was when my friends saw images of cute boys on the internet and they liked them and I was just the weirdo who thought "well, this boy is supposed to be handsome but ... eww" and then I saw one Image of kristina pimenova, I was amazed that someone this pretty existed and I said "she is pretty, why do my friends focus on boys?" I was hypnotized watching her and I imagined her next to me for a few moments, also when my mother saw that i was playing with my dolls to make them hug, she asked me why I was doing that and I told her it was because they were sisters and then I was tempted to make they kisse but I couldn't hehehe
This happens to me too! All my friends are like: “Omg, he’s so cute! I would totally date him” and I’m there like: “Meh, he’s alright” But I look at almost every girl and OMG so beautiful
I couldnt resist to laugh when i heard about what you did to your barbie dolls..seems like your naughty lil girl before😄 I enjoyed much your story. 🙂
"Don't believe anything too much, there will always be a moment when it isn't true."
when i was like 6 yrs old, a few of my family friends (who were the same age as me) came over for a new years eve party and i rlly wanted to know what it felt like to have a new years kiss so one of the girls and i sat under a table and "made out" for like 5 minutes, and then my other friend who was a guy wanted to join in but i literally felt so disgusted by that n i was like "ew no" so he started kissing the other girl and i got really jealous LMAOSKJLDHA
SHFHSJ similar thing happened to me 😭 i was with my cousin (a girl) having a playdate at my house and we just randomly decided to kiss for some reason to see what it was
@@chloepricesgirlfriend YOU’RE COUSIN!? 😂💀
@@lexTS89 YES LMAO I WAS LIKE 7 OK HUSJFGHDSDJDG
I have literally never related this hard to one of these!
I also feel like that before even now that i have two kids i still love seeing two girls inlove to each other..not only sometimes but i always watching gay couple vlogs..i love u and your girlfriend..😘😘
My first sign was looking at my brother’s playboys. The rest came pretty easy.
When I played house, I always played the dog 😑(mostly cause my sister made me play that or the husband)
And the sims, being gays is so me-
All my sims are gay, and I can’t deny it-
Gail Games all my sims are gay bc i cant make guy sims-
(but also bc i might be bi/gay who knows)
moonlight melodies I am bisexual-
So that might be my problem lol
sorry but for some reason the "i always played the dog" sent me into outer space i cannot 😭
i had a sim (of the already pre-made ones) get over divorcing her husband in 2 days and then marrying a girl in 1 day.....
@@iloveroses208 LMAO NOOOOOO
Thank you for sharing your experience, I got to share it with someone who needs it. Also, your voice is beautiful. Reminds me of the person doing the Psych2Go voice overs. Maybe you can consider that too. Best wishes.
Vidia from Tinker bell, Draculaura from monster High, and Red Ridinghood from Once Upon A Time. XD
I figured myself out a year ago, a couple months after that, I downloaded the app “Episode” and I was looking at some of my old stories that I never finished from a while back, and I saw that my old character had a girlfriend and I was so shocked at how I didn’t know about myself sooner😂
Omg nooo. I played a story about the Bachelor once, where I could choose between 10 girls 😂😂 Thought I was straight tho.
Thanks for the video. Btw love Grey’s Anatomy! -A questioning girl 🙂
Omg I was obsessed with the two twins in Cheaper by the Dozen and wanted to be them as a little girl so I can totally relate hahahah
11:29 I FELT THIS IN MY SOUL, especially now that I realized that im non-binary
too relatable omg ty for this 💖
This is something I've struggled with for years
I played with bratz until I was 12!! Let’s make a club! 💗
Love youu, I enjoyed it! 💕
in house games I would always be the grandma to kind of avoid the boys
one of my signs is I always remember what girl or ladies wear or say at any given time . but guys , was them even there . I don't think so .
Omg u so pretty love your videos. I knew I was pan cause I had this huge crush on my best friend and always got nervous and stuff. But most of my friends didn't know I was gay till they started seeing more signs. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
My first crush on a girl was Alison from Pll
Not me not really wanting kids at least not with a men. I don't want to marry one. When I dated one he asked me to come over to hang and I tried my best to avoid it at all cost. After he told my bff to stfu and tell her she was annoying I broke up with him the same day. I only dated him thinking he was nice and all. I don't see myself in the future with a men. I never found any interest in a heterosexual marriage. I see myself dating a girl marrying one and maybe getting a kid or more if she wants to. Like I came out as Bi. But it doesn't feel right. I mean I never had a girl crush beforI figured things out. I literally felt butterflies all over seeing that one girl. She was obviously gay my lesbian bff told me so I literally kept blushing and really wanted her number but my social anxiety said no sooo. I lost my chance and her 🤡
😉❤I love the video Heather, its very good❤😉
Girrrl how did you not realize haha😂💗
I have a boyfriend too, and I also avoid him at all costs as well..and I don’t know what to do about it, I know I should break up with him but I’m scared to.
if you aren’t feeling it i feel like it would be best for you and for him to end things. you’ll both be happier that way. you’ve got this!
Heather Wotherspoon thank you so much for the advice!! 😁💖
When I was little I would play house and *laughing* I always made it that he dad was dead/left me and I was taking care of my child alone, hmmmm.... kinda suspicious if you ask me... and when I would play with my siblings I was the mom but like we still had no dad, and when I played with my friend and her little sister I WAS THE DAD. like I was married to my best friend and Her little sister was my daughter. The thing is her little sister assigned the roles, so she must have seen me as a guy or something? like I am fine with that but her making me like gay is just too much :) lol. And I am just recently coming into the community, so far as bisexual/pansexual I still don't really know, but I am me :).
Ahhhhhhhhhh the first sign is me my whole life u have no idea how happy it makes me I'm not the only one ahhhhhhhh happiinneeessss
I only watched pretty little liars because of Emily
Oh yeah the teachers crush 😂
I had more Barbies than ken dolls.
Cool video.
Omg the PLL one made me realize too lol.
omg yes lol the gay sims, totally me
I just realized that I always wanted to be gay in sims. My sister and I played together because we didn't have the money for another sims yk and we always made us in sims and one day we sat there and we were looking for a boyfriend for me and I just said that I could be gay because that would be so much easier and every guy that I saw there was so ugly lmao and she just looked at me so confused.... why didn't I remember this before?
I had a crush on Britney Spears when i was a child😳
BRO, i mean it!! I did!!! 😳Lol
(Wrote this before she talked about the signs)
I cannot believe I found someone who also wanted to be Mark from Cheaper by the dozen!!! I loved him so much and I thought he was so cool and cute that I just wanted to be him so bad! I loved your video btw, it's really comforting to have stories to relate to :)
Omg I'm still upsets with that music video too
Leentje Van Houten I just watched it for the first time yesterday and it’s so CUTE!!!
I love Dogs!! I fell in love with it and girls
honestly same.
💙💙💙
I have a lot of these signs but idk
Same 😱
Leentje Van Houten I keep taking a bunch of tests online but they all say different things :(
I love Dogs!! Fr 😆
like i said, don’t stress too much! just because these were signs for me doesn’t mean they necessarily are for you!
I have a wife in the game Life if I’m with my best friend and my parents aren’t watching does that mean I’m gay? (I’m a girl) please help
I literally match VERY SINGLE ONE of these signs... perfectly... kinda creepy
7:01
We are conditioned to be though.
You walked by a fish market and got wet?