MY (updated) COMING OUT STORY | LGBTQ+
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
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Hello! I took a break last week because it didn't feel right to post with everything that has been going on. Like I said in my community post, you will still be getting four pride related videos this month. This is the first, and I will be posting the second this Saturday! After that I will be going back to weekly uploads every Wednesday. I hope you all enjoy hearing my coming out story! Thank you for watching!
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To all the shiny, new little *_gaybies_* who happened to stumble across this video while doing a "coming out" search during pride month...never forget that you are valid and loved. Even if your own coming out story doesn't go as well as Heather's, you are a fiercely loved and supported part of this amazing LGBTQ+ family and we got your back. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Sarah Sloan
Thank you for saying that.
But nobody never really said that to me before.
And I find that very sweet and touching.
But thank you for saying that anyway.
Sarah Sloan 🥺🥺🥺
@@Zanderren hang in there girl...you are beautiful and amazing and stronger than you can ever imagine. There's an incredible place for you in this world, even if it takes a little time and some heartbreak to find it! 🤗
Sarah Sloan aww I have had I feel heartbreak but it made me stronger thank you for your kind words that has really cheered me up (Crying right now) you are so sweet and all the best to you🤗🥺
OMG, you are literally my hero. I felt the same way. I would date boys but I would never want to talk to them. Then I thought I was bisexual but I would cry every night because I was still confused. I thought I was the only one that thought boys were good looking but couldn't picture myself dating them but I could picture myself with a girl. This video literally made me cry cause it made me realize that I'm gay and that other people feel the same way I do. Thank you so much, you have no idea how much pain and suffering you saved me from.😥😔
The struggle with ownself when you’re confused with your sexuality really does take a toll but, I’m super glad you’re over that and happy with yourself now. This is a moving and an amazing video if you struggle or feeling confused and unsure of what to do. Another great video, as always!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
i just came out to my whole school on my snap😌✨
I’m so proud of you lol. That’s amazing
congratulations!! i hope it went well! :)
Congratulations! Omg
SAME
Same! After I came out to everyone I wanted to sit down and talk with I made a private snap story with people I had yet to tell and just said it.
I FaceTimed this evening with my brother (bisexual) and his best friend (lesbian).
I am pansexual, but still in the closet to the most people, also to my brother. I already came out to his best friend, but not to him.
I wanted to come out to my brother this evening. To introduce the topic a little I started talking a little about pansexuality and asked if they know pansexual people and what they think about it. My brother said that he understands being gay or bisexual, but from his point of view pansexuality, asexuality, genders besides male & female etc. are just trendy things. He said that he doesn’t believe in more than 2 genders and it must be a trend because it all started in the last years that topics regarding more than 2 genders get more attention.
His best friend, who already knew that I am pansexual, didn’t react as radical as my brother, but she said that from her point of view being pansexual etc. are kind of trends too.
This hurts so hard! I was about to tell my brother about my pansexuality but now I think I won’t do it in the next years. And I am shocked how his best friend who knew that I am pan, reacted and supported my brothers point of view.
I am pansexual. It is not a trend, it is not a phase. It is me!!! 😭
While I don't know you, I want to validate you and your experience. You are exactly who you are, you know yourself. Your sexuality is not a trend. You are who you are, and that is good. And while some people around you might not understand, as a stranger on the internet, I support you and I believe you.
That must be really hard. I obviously don’t know your brother or his friend but maybe you could work on educating them? If they are already supportive of some parts of the lgbtq+ community it is probable that with a little more understanding they would be more excepting. Best of luck and just do whatever you feel comfortable with!
i am so, so sorry to hear this. it wasn’t fair for them to invalidate you like that - especially because they should understand the struggles that lgbtq+ people go through considering they’re both in the community! hopefully once you actually come out to them they’ll try to understand it a bit more. for right now, just try to find friends/other people who you can lean on for support and who will make you feel loved and accepted! your pansexuality is totally real and totally valid! don’t let anyone else tell you differently! ❤️
oh:( I'm so sorry, I know I dont know you but just wanted to let you know that you ARE valid and there's a huge community out there that support you! just give them some time, im sure that they would understand if you try to educate them. Good luck!, you are loved💕
Bisexuality doesn’t mean you’re only attracted to 2 genders
Happy Pride Month!!
You too! 🏳️🌈🌈
Happy pride!🌈
You to!! 🏳️🌈 🌈 🏳️⚧️! PRIDE4LIFE
this is random, but i love the way you articulate your words, you are really good at it
also really love your vids and you and aliah (hope i spelled her name right) are soooooo cute!
this is such a compliment! thank you so much! ❤️
Nobody:
Confused me in 4th grade: Wait.... Nonono... I can’t be g a y, I had a boyfriend in kindergarten!
I'm not sure if you have mentioned this in your previous videos (I've watched them all if I can remember) but did anyone ever ask you or mention things about boys to you, like, "how's you boyfriend?" Or statements that made you uncomfortable or not easy to come out to everyone? I don't know if you could do a video more in depth about you being uncomfortable coming out but it's a suggestion haha! Also would like to see another Q&A:)
Yes I’d really want to see that. She should make a video about what it was like being in the closet. I know that for me it’s always really awkward when my friends talk about guys and I don’t know what to say.
this is a great idea!! i’ll add it to my list, thank you! :)
@@heatherwotherspoon7313 ahhh awesome!
I came out to my mom and sister a few years ago but it wasn’t until yesterday that I had the courage to come out to everyone I knew. I posted it to Facebook to tell everyone at once. And the weight that has been lifted of my shoulders is huge. I was so scared to do it but I knew I was ready. I was lucky because I’ve gotten nothing but love and support from my friends and family. Love your video! And happy pride!!!
🏳️🌈Happy pride month girl🏳️🌈
This was such a heartwarming story 🥺🥰 and thank you for taking the time to address what’s been going on in the world lately in your intro. Glad you’re supportive of black lives matter. I love watching your videos. You have a beautiful soul 💖
Heather you might think that your old coming out video is bad but it has helped me so much. I literally watched it like 5 times haha because it was the only coming out video I have related to on RUclips. Lysm and thanks for using your platform to speed awareness about BLM.
that makes me so happy to hear! ❤️❤️❤️
@@heatherwotherspoon7313 I had a girl friend. I broke up with her becouse she is a lesbian. Then I belonged to an anti gay sect! Can you give me some advice please?
Happy pride everyone 🏳️🌈
thank you for this! I'm thinking about coming out to my family soon too, it makes me so anxious because I don't want to be grouped into the lesbian stereotype at all. Seeing other femme girls being out though really helps so thank you and I'm really glad your coming out went so well!
It's amazing, that your family and friends reacted so great when you came out! There are also stories where the family or friends start becoming more and more distanced...
But the thing with the letter is really good! I used to do this with 16 when I tried to tell my mum something what happened to me and I didn't dare to speak out loud. And she reacted similiar like yours. (No, I wasn`t pregnant, comming out or something like this :D But it was something hard to tell)
So, happy pride month and thank you for sharing your story :-)
"I started to think that I was bisexual"
*immediately throws up the peace sign*
🌈❤Happy Pride Month to you Heather, you're a wonderful person and a lesbian and I support you❤🌈
hi heather, i love your videos so much xx
also happy pride everyone, this is my first pride month out of the closet xx
Happy pride month Heather!
Be yourself is always the most important thing🌈✨
Happy Pride month all 🏳️🌈
Heather Thanks for sharing your story!! u inspired me a lot😊
I love your channel, it's so cute and fun and just honest
Im going through everything you went through which is good i think because you could anwser my questions!!!!
hello heather, well come back🙂😃 you have such a golden heart..I really like your personality for expressing your inner self..😍🙂 I'm your fan and friend from the far away land of Asia here😊
I am questioning and this was a really informative video! Also Idk if anyone has commented this but is your ear okay?
omg yes lmao i had just straightened my hair so it made my ear hot/red.
I love this and I wish my closeted agender ass could have a coming out story that didn't have an epic fail :(
who tf disliked this-
ur an angel and deserve the world.l I get you so much bc I am lesbian.
I want to say THANK YOU really. I also watched your video "how i knew i was gay" and it helped me a lot to accept myself. I always doubted am i like only girls but i find boys attractive but don't wanna kiss them/etc. So now I have more confidence that i like only girls. Thank you. I am very glad that I found your channel. You are amazing!
Hey, was wondering if you could like do a reaction video of Citizen Queen? I know its not your usual type of content but I'd love it.
my mom called me discusting for it and said i was a disappointment 👁👄👁✋🏼...
i never actually came out my parents just figured it out
I’m not very scared to come out to my parents I think my mom kinda got hints bc she got mad at me and grabbed my phone and I was texting in a lgbtq gc but she never talked abt it.Then yesterday my dad said “there is nothing in the entire world that can stop me from loving you” then that kinda made me feel more confident and then my mom asked my brother “do you have a girlfriend..or a boyfriend” he said “mom I’m not gay” but that kinda lets me know she’d be ok with it
I literally hate how I came out lmao. my sister randomly said that she had no gay friends and I said "you have me 👉👈" and everyone was cool. I've only properly come out to my sisters and my mom and my gay cousin. my sister and I talk about gay stuff in the same room as my dad but he's never said anything.
I am pansexual/bisexual (not completely sure) and my birthday is in June!
I love how you are the same age as me and did all of this in high school and I'm only just now figuring out I'm gay 😂😂
Another great video happy pride
Happy pride , I support you
we have a similar story!!
I want to come out to my parents, I'm sure they'll understand, but the thing is that I'm too much shy and idk how to do it, so I just let them to figure out by themselves... but it's taking longer than I spected...
Very pretty❤️
You look so damn beautiful girl!!
Good girl
Amazing video 🥰🥰
Speaking about: Coming Out Stories.
Me: to be perfectly honest with y’all my coming out story never really happened, because I was just scared 😱 of coming out and so I stayed hidden in the closet like never really coming out of it completely.
And I’m still am in that way now.
But I never really came out at all, because I was just scared 😱 of coming out and I’m even more scared 😱 because I’m not so sure who would love me.
Because I’m honestly looking for a girlfriend of my own of my life.
But I never really showed any signs of being as a lesbian, but I just wish to have a girlfriend so that way I can really just be myself.
But I’m just not really ready to come out completely yet, but I will be like once I have a girlfriend of my own of my life.
But I’m not so sure if I do have anxiety too.!
u sooo pretty
I‘m gay and I told my brother a few weeks ago because we are actually very close and he told me that I shouldn’t tell anyone in my school because they could react negative and use it against me. I don’t know why that hurt so bad I just can’t tell anyone. I feel like I am never going to be happy😔
you will be happy, i promise! and you get to choose whether or not you come out, not your brother. so if you want to and you feel it's safe to do so, do it. it's your journey, not any one else's.
Heather Wotherspoon Thank you❤️
@@heatherwotherspoon7313 Please Heather I have homofobic can you gave me some advice?
What if your like secretly LGBTQ+? And like no one knows. Also I just learned was ase means so idea what sexuality I even am anymore. And I did try telling my mother I was crushing on my best friend. (We're both girls) and she said I was confused. What's hold I do forboth. Because only my friend knows. She supports me to. And I did tell her I was crushing on my bff,
happy pride month luvs ❤❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️
My friend started dating a girl and she told me and then she told my parents and they said i know
Thank you so much for sharing story, me l feel so guilty coz my parents didn't know that lm guys 😔 l'm hiding every day hiding my real me coz l'm affraid so much. I hope someone help me too,
i’m so sorry to hear that you have to hide who you are! i promise it won’t be like that forever. sending my love! ❤️
@@heatherwotherspoon7313 Find a boyfriend!
Great story, well told! Shame you had to go through the mental health issues and 'vomit' stage but teenage years can be like that - whether hetero, gay or whatever. It's almost like a survival course that has to be endured before you can get on with enjoying life :-)
My dad guessed it and I said fine yes
lesbians>my soul
Whoa I'm early
New watching your channel here😍
i didnt want my coming out story to bebig so i just asked my mom to buy a pride flag, it omes in a month (im bisexual) my ister and dad still dont know yet i just told my mom two days ago, she accepts me dont worry!!
I can’t decide what’s worse homophobia or racisim
here at 69 veiws hehe
Hi and how are you doing and be safe
Girl what are you talking about? Lesbians don't have crushes on boys. I'm pretty sure you're bi