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Signs That God is Preparing You For Marriage!
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- Опубликовано: 17 авг 2024
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🕘 Timestamps:
00:00:00 Introduction
00:02:36 Your Biggest Problem in Marriage
00:05:06 The Real Reason for Marriage
00:09:39 Practical Ways to Prepare for Marriage
00:13:58 Is Marriage TOO Risky In 2023?
00:21:22 Dating 101: VISION vs VALUES
00:32:32 Men & Women Need Each Other
00:42:35 Can Man Love A Woman TOO MUCH?
00:46:40 Dr Jermone Glenn Talks Monogamy
00:51:10 Signs You’re in a Toxic Relationship
00:57:20 Finding Your Spouse !!
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I love when the host asked “What’s wrong with falling in love?” And the man of God said “When you fall in, you can fall out. Love is a decision.” That challenges every thing we’ve been taught about how love starts and grows.
This was really good and it made a lot of sense. I don’t consider myself “Christian” but I was talking to a mentor that knew this about me and I told her that I wanted to get married and she said “why do you want to get married if you’re not Christian?” I was confused then laughed then thought she was hating 😂😂😂 but now I see I was lost all along. He is absolutely right we want our own version of it … that’s why it’s not working. We have become a society that tries to adjust the universe to fit us instead of adjusting to fit what is already written. Powerful lesson!!!! Masterful 👏🏾🙌🏾❤
Marriage is a spiritual entity, not a legal entity. You want a kingdom spouse that’s much different from a legal spouse.
Greatly said!
so why do u want to get Married ???????????
I'm I that woman you laughed at because I ask many this question. Thank God something brought revelation to you on this subject.
@@kaylaEA_Amen
"She doesn't want to lose herself in being led" - beautiful
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His discussion on vision vs. values is pure gold! People connect on everything visual and routinely overlook peoples core values! Core values last over time!!
Great convo! I met my husband in a library and our first date was a day at the park, food tasting, golf, and quite dinner. He’s dropping gems.
That sounds like an amazing first date idea
Unless you were a virgin, your husband definitely got played lol
EXCELLENT EPISODE!!! I love to hear kingdom men speak because the perspective is from God! I pray that God raise up men and women that seek to glorify HIM by living intentional!
Amen
Yesssssss!
YES!! Let's keep talking about dating with intention to marry! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Best comment hear!
PLEASE‼️
This podcast has been popping up on all my feeds and i wont ignore it. Keep blessing us with videos that can help us become better men and women.
Facts
IKR only a few minutes in & it's good this far!
Yes these episodes are amazing ❤
That part about it a man feels like he will lose more than gain is powerful yes stay single!!! Leave us ladies alone who know what they want and need!!!
This is one of the best talks on marriage I've heard. These conversations need to be had in our schools and churches.
Same!!!!
You love this conversation because it doesn't require women to be accountable, it's all on God to get you ready and pick the perfect man with the perfect career or business.
Exactly
Agree, straight facts.
@@DeaconChrissyour perspective is tainted. Pray on it.
Mature healed women will totally understand this. I absolutely love this.
❤Totally agree 🙌
♥️♥️♥️ Amen.
"Curious about who I am and not just what I have and is interested in me and not just what I can do" soooooo good!!
I watch content like this every day but not every day I hear something that hits me as hard as this. Look for values rather than vision.
I could listen to him all day. He is a wealth of knowledge
I finally got through this episode but let me tell you, I used to ask all these types of questions in the first couple of dates! People used to tell me I was crazy because I would “scare” them EXCEPT for the married people I knew and then my husband found me! The conversations we had, the time we spent getting to know each other before dating. Met March 2020, started dating May 2020, engaged December 2021 and and got married November of last year! If you both know there’s no question! New subscriber! Keep up the great work!
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Amen and God bless.
ABSOLUTELY! I would LOVE a date where we can have conversation!
SAME! #Felt 💯
I just want to say thank you for having the caliber of men on the show that you have had lately. Much needed insight for men and women.
❤Absolutely
I say that frequently "I want someone to be curious about me”.
His answers are
Like my mentor. They answer questions with questions or give you guidelines so you can find the answer. It’s annoying but the most effective way to grow
Is anyone on this panel married? I was married and divorce twice. I had a lot to learn but I got it now friends. Its all about communication, me resting in my womenhood and feeling safe enough to trust my husband. Its sooo deep friends. That didnt happen. Marriage is amazing and sent from God! Its nothing to play with or take lightly. Be blessed yall in these streets. In the Bible that’s the only relationship that is spoken of.
Dr Glenn is married
There is a message for younger women that is relevant and older women that is relevant. You’re not marrying vision over 40; you’re marrying value and sharing vision as you grow old together.
You should be marrying that no matter what age. Women are not tabula rasa before men. We have values and mission irrespective of men, and so both must be aligned for a relationship to work.
This is a masterclass that EVERYBODY needs to listen to. Even if you desire long term partnership instead of marriage, still listen! 💎💎💎
A woman watching and piping in… what a great podcast. I have been all over the spectrum with a 10 yr, 7 yr, 3yr, two 1 yr relationships and many casual and what I have realized is love is a decision daily. I agree not everyone is meant for marriage or not ready for it now. There is nothing wrong with being where you are at. Just make yourself more valuable personally during that time. I am intentional now but even when I wasn’t I always looked for honesty at where you are at. When I needed to be free I looked for the guy that was up front and honest and in the same place. For me personally I know God wants me to be married so now i have to be healed . during this time single I have to start being a wife. I also agree a woman shouldn’t search for a man. A man should pursue. A woman can’t submit to a man that she is having to carry. Neither party will feel at peace and feel respect in this position. Also want to say there is a misconception about all women looking for a expensive date. My favorite dates were walking at a park, hiking, off roading or just driving and seeing where the road takes you. Don’t take me to the movies until at least 3 dates in. Keep up the good work you are doing
We obsess with the institution of marriage, and still cannot get it right! I agree marriage, is not for everyone. Why cannot we preach alternatives as well. There are many living their lives healthy, and happy without marriage, and not a damn thing wrong with them. Look, we need to stop this obsession with marriage! You happen to have it, make it work! This guest, is speaking from the Bible that's great! Love that. Too many on RUclips, voicing about marriages and relationships, some fake and some Google knowledge it! Too many fakers flying around. We have to use our own judgements and common senses. You mentioned marriages, not about love, that it is a part of it, but it mainly about partnership. Yes, that's so important, but does that mean if love, dies, ignore the situation and still hang in there for tge sake of partnership? ❤
Tho my personal journey had trauma attached at young age I always what n gave honesty n heart felt affection i showed up sometimes doing to much realizing that I needled therapy at older age it helps communication skills n better ears to listen n having consistency God ❤i know thats what kind of i tension all relationships i what
Crazy because my pastor recently pointed out that it’s in scripture stating that God does not call everyone to marriage. Nonetheless, loved this episode.🔥So many gems
God indeed didn't call every man and women to marriage because it's a calling with a certain grace that sustains marriage. Hence why not all men are called to be husbands and not all women are called to be wives.
Everyone gets his or her own understanding from the Bible.
Also, those people that God didn’t call to marriage don’t have the desire to be in relationships. Apostle Paul didn’t have that desire because that’s not what God called him to do.
Not sure if it’s intentional or not, but I really appreciate the lack of profanity with guests of religious faith. The Holy Girls wanna listen too but the language chilldddd🥶🤣… But this was 🔥!!!!!
🎉🎉🎉AMEN SISTER 🎉🎉🎉
Yes and amen
So many gems are dropped in this podcast. The preacher is on point! I'm definitely saving this video.
Yesssssssssssssssssssssss real women want things outside of nice things. I love walks and a man that is interested in more than the outside looks.
"She saw herself in my goals"
That's powerful
27:50 Actually, I am one of the few women who encourage 1st dates at the coffee shop or the park. I’ve been really discouraged from doing this from both well meaning men and women in my life, but I’m glad to hear a solid argument outlining why I lean towards this.
Same
I always enjoy going for a walk on a date. It was a bonus if he ask to go for a walk. Because he took the time to learn about me, I enjoy going for walks and doing outdoor activities.
It's all about intentions. Also, courting with the intention to detemine compatibility for marriage sets the packs a part.
BEST interview yet! I’ve been watching for about a month and have seen lots of the “how to be feminine” videos. I am definitely operating from my masculine most of the time. This is the first video that’s made me want to operate from my feminine! The value questions were ON point and so good. I wish I would’ve known this info when I was in my 20s. Love you two and this podcast!
When the STUDENT is READY, the TEACHER will APPEAR. What I love about this episode and the engagement in the comments is there are many persons READY or CONSIDERING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. You gentlemen are ADDING VALUE with guests and discussions being had on your Podcast. Kudos to Both of You!!!!! #IntentionalRelationships
“I think she wanna know that you wanna know her” That is so true it’s crazy! This man really knows what he’s talking about.
I love what he is saying. He is right on it. I pray we all get back on track with loving each other correctly.
This man is speaking on so many values and perspectives!!! I love this! Deep conversations!
Also I think his answer to “what about a man that doesn’t see the value in marriage do?” Was so spot on … it needs to be played on repeat. No one should have to convince you or prove to you that marriage is valuable! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you either Believe or you don’t! I think many ppl miss that …. There is a man that should not get married .. more men need to decide which side of the fence they want to be on and stop confusing everyone ….of course there are some women that should not as well but all this talk trying to make it fit our ideas that’s what’s really messing up the Union and value … it’s not the marriage it’s the ppl in it and reality that’s been the problem all along!!
Increase your value as a single person, as a single man or woman!!! Word🗣️
For years I have been looking for a lady to be my wife. It seems like I am losing hope as cheating is the main cause of turmoil in a relationship these days. Cheating is like a cancer that metastasizes and destroy the core foundation of a relationship while letting the kids hanging on a cliff. Sad but it's real.
Man... cheating, lying and just wanting it easy. Nobody wants to work at anything these days.
Sad, but True!
I feel the same lol
Cheating is not the only factor in today relationship! Baggage, brokenness, toxicity and just plain out disrespect and boyish actions of a man whom believe he’s mature! No financial conversation, no building and just one person carrying the weight ! Meaning there could never be any wealth building as life itself it to expensive to live! Reading, research, maturity and discipline is the start to achieving and attracting the right energy!
For a woman cheating isn't usually the result of lust. It's usually lack of emotional connection.
1:01:09 “‘cause girlfriend literally means I’m having sex with you exclusively with no intentions.”
“So you can’t wanna be a wife if you’re acting like a girlfriend, and if he’s treating you like a girlfriend, then he’s definitely not wifing you.”
Lord have mercy! Lord, please keep providing these young men revelations of You and your design 👏🏾🙌🏾
Excellent questions and great responses. Very good podcast today. Thank you!!
I mean he is right on on all points!!! The only thing I would like to know is what happened in his first marriage that caused it to fail? I want to know what to learn from it.
"Hey interview this one"... omg hilarious but straight up 😂😂
I needed this one. Im in tears. Man. This podcast is a godsend.
God said his ppl perish because of a lack of knowledge! This episode was loaded with it!! I have never heard of the guest speaker but i immediately went and subscribed to him. I must purchase those books. I can’t wait to further glean from him!! Ya’ll thank u sooo so much for having him!! I got off work and listened to this in its entirety and it’s now 2:48a!! I needed every gem dropped and gone watch it again to jot some notes down!!! Wonderful dialogue fellas, plz keep it up!!! Keep it coming!! Yeeees!!! ✨🙌🏾💎💪🏾✨
“Purpose is interdependent!” YES! THANK YOU
My first dates are almost always breakfast, lunch, ice cream or tapas. I always decline dinner as a first date. This man is totally right. I only care about your values and that takes care of everything else.
Ngl I am only 9 min in and this man has literally unlocked my perception . I have definitely viewed marriage wrong . I can’t really explain it but I can see me moving different moving forward but ima continue 😂
This is 🔥🔥🔥 He is so knowledgeable and authentic!!! He should do a conference. I have learned so much 👏🏽
I Love This❤️ “There IS a MAN that SHOULD be ALONE and there IS a MAN who SHOULD NOT be ALONE and ONLY YOU KNOW if You are THAT MAN or NOT!!!” - Jermone Glenn
1:04:03 yesssssss! Men take much longer to be ready for marriage. My brother just woke up one day at 35 and said hey I'm ready now. Lol
If I could reach out and hug this speaker i would! he is not only creating his own legacy. He is changing the world with his impeccable heart for God and words to those of us who are so desperately thirsty or REAL love and life, thank you young men, you are bringing on amazing guests
As a woman, I was initially skeptical about tuning into your podcast. I assumed it was gonna give "red-pill) But a couple episodes in (including this one) it has blessed my life. I love the topic. The value of marriage was beautifully articulated. You're got a new subscriber gentlemen. 🙏🏾
I absolutely loved the episode gentleman! He took us all to school. Thank you all for being open. This really blessed me and gives me hope.
this interview was soul stirring... I loved all the insight he gave on both Men and Women.
I listen to pastor Glen @ New Life Covenant Church with pastor John Hannah Awesome Speaker!!
Well this was really a great one. You did it again. Nuff respect for that . Ladies keep holding the cookie until he has shown you his vision your shared values and his strong intent to choose to love you and only you through anything. That's the revolution we need. Otherwise they will procrastinate. Eight years to eighteen years don't make a difference to them, only us. Let's do this. #womensdayishyea
Best episode yet! So many gems dropped 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
That's a WISE Man! Listen and Learn wonderful black people and let's build healthy black generations!
Get deep then sir !💯🙌🏾So happy you touched on people and their purpose being integrated , and how you even paralleled that to our bodies and so on. 👌🏽😮💨
This was the best interview on their podcast!!! Jermone Glenn nailed it on marriage!! - Thank God finally!!!
That was a great episode! What I feel we need to be reminded of more, the purpose, importance and value of marriage! When dating know yourself first ( values, mission, vision) so you know what to look for in a spouse and know what fits with you. Like a puzzle. Date with purpose and be intentional in getting to know someone’s mind and heart. Don’t marry vision, marry values. Marry someone who will add value to your life and can build with. Build as a team.
Our world is dating wrong and broken marriages show it. This was a breadth of fresh air.
This is great. I wish I can send this to every man that’s going to try to talk to me 😅😅. But the gems here….um!
I love this!!!! Maturity entered the chat!! He was dropping jewels.
I love everything about this video. Jerome Glenn is a healed man and spoke so many truths.
Keep up these great interviews!
Dr.JermoneGlenn👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽POWERFUL
Of all the 20 plus podcasts of hardly initiated that I have watched this is the one I most connect with! Your guest pretty much described me and my thoughts! I felt as though I was in church and the pastor was speaking to me in sermon! It was very refreshing to listen to a strong Black man that actually got me! I find that not many men get me! “I want to be led but do not want to loose myself in being led”! I am very strong and independent by force not choice! To know me is to understand me! To hear this man speak exactly how I feel and how I am at this point in my life is extremely rewarding! So I am grateful to have taken time to find and listen to this podcast! I will look him up and follow for sure! By the way hardly initiated is the best podcast on RUclips and I also appreciate what you young men are doing for us as a people! Hearing different perspectives are very important for us as a people! Most are centered around remaining spiritually grounded and I appreciate that! Thanks again for all you do! 🙏🏾❤️✊🏾👌🏾👍🏾🔥🙏🏾☺️
I see the hosts are preparing themselves to become husbands so much growth in their mindset and spiritual growth 🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💓💓
#word, he just nailed it, we the women who have gotten ourselves together, yes we do want to be led, but not at the cost of losing ourselves or being diminished. The first thing we encounter is when they see you are well put, and know what you desire,they try to diminish your values and thoughts. Its like you being written off with this masculine vs feminine. 🤦🏿♀️
Beautiful session. Going back to the blueprint...the originator of marriage. Thanks Dr Glenn
That was fire 🔥 wisdom on wisdom
I'm loving this! It's good to know there are still high value men who believe in God and understand the sanction of marriage and it's True meaning of it.
There are so many gems dropped in this, it should broadcasted on every medium. Mr. Glenn, you’ve confirmed so many things that God placed in my spirit some time ago. It’s so refreshing to actually hear it from someone else!
God designed me to move a husband and his kingdom forward...that man will seek and find me soon. I want him to know that I exist and that I am increasing my value to be his greatest asset, more value than rubies as stated in Proverbs 31:10. I want him to know that God tucked me deep into his heart space for this reason...because he is worth it, and I am worth it. I am a part of his inheritance from the Lord Almighty and I am waiting and ready to be found. I declare this decree in Jesus' name. Amen
Thank you Sir! for speaking correctly of US grown woman. In particular that we DO want you to get to know us..that walk in the park. We DO know what want we need something to build on. Give us that foundation! We help & nurture. Whew. Say it! Teach them!!
Any man that’s afraid of losing in marriage should get a prenuptial agreement and stop complaining about it
This conversation is on point and very necessary, but it takes a lot of wisdom, life experience or self awareness to reach this point. I’m not sure how many 25 and 30 year olds are ready for marriage based on this criteria (which is to some degree why there are so many divorces).
I loved this episode too, but this is great to see which of your guest speakers, speak to certain viewers. This speaker and Ken Canion I resonate mentally with. I feel inspired and I felt like I learned something
The most simple things in life are the best in life. The things people take for granted are the things I appreciate most. The park, free things like the zoo, anything just to show genuine interest of me goes sooooo far!!! ❤❤
Dr/Lady Glenn has so much wisdom. And they can apply it with scriptures. Great interview!!!
Straight to the core. Growth-minded conversation for anyone serious about becoming true marriage material both men and woman. WOW!!!! Love this
Very good episode. One thing in my opinion is that I really don’t want a man to choose to Love me. I want him to have such a connection with me that he can’t help but love me.
This is 1 of the best open,& honest podcast I've heard in a long time. This is something that should be implemented into a pre- marriage counseling process/ class.
Thanks for your teachings, & help. Much appreciated my brothers 👏👏👏👏
Wow I just came across your site and the title interest me, so I decided to listen in. I was so bless to hear this brother breaking down all the aspects of marriage, The real value of what marriage is how you should ask the right questions and be more eager to really know the core of the person. It was such a breath of fresh air because usually women are having these conversations and rarely do you hear a group of men having these deep conversations. We as women are so easy to expose our souls but men are so different when it comes to things that may seem to put them in a vulnerable state. I enjoyed this session and it gave me also tools in really investing in men that want to have these conversations. Unfortunately I been dealing with the ones that should definitely stay single.
This guy said the best advice I've heard so far of all your guests that you have had on HI. He said"The woman fears that the man will just be a ceiling but not a catalyst. She doesn't want to loose herself in him . Whew! That hit it on the head!
This brother here… woo wee the conversation just feels poetic! So good ❤
This is our senior pastor at my church in Chicago. Talk about a master consciousness,he brings the word and breaks down for all understand. I just started listening to young men 3 days ago. And to see Pastor Glenn is just great. I wish you guys the best.
He has Ryan and Ty reconsidering their life choices😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Rofl at their facial expressions while he's speaking. I view reflection in their eyes😂😂😂😂
This was such a refreshing episode and opended the doors to more discussions around why people in our day in age are not getting married. I thank God for these conversations and also pray that it continues to shift how we view marriage. Its a beautiful thing!
Since listening more to this channel, I can honestly say I have heard from many intelligent and wise men and women whom I would like to listen to more. I can tell Ryan and Ty are learning a lot alongside the audience.
After 1-2 lunch/dinner dates a park or hike date is a requirement for me. It tells me so much about the person physically, mentally, emotionally, hiw a man handles fatigue and uncomfortable situation responses, etc
A hike/park date in a public, not private place?
Pastor Glenn! Thank you. I pray this goes viral to countries!! I enjoyed your knowledge and wisdom that was poured out and so glad to be connected and have heard your teaching for years now. Love all of it!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This podcast is soooooo good.i'm hooked!!!!!.Mr.Glenn spoke with great certainty and poise.Everything he said made sense.Words of wisdom and experience.
Yes
Yes
Yes
I agree, let’s meet up at the park or Small coffee shop and get to know each other. Let’s see if the vision & values align.
Am all in on that
Ps.
I shared this with 20 people in my contacts. That’s how valuable the content was to me
God bless y’all
Goodness the 1st sentence......people date vision but they marry values.....🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️ let me go finish watching the rest of the hour and nine minutes...lol
This was a good session. I'm glad I'm around intentional women and men. I see the world but I refuse to be a part of the confusion. Once you start doing better, you surround yourself around better and you'll find better.
Pastor Glenn thank you! Thanks for having my Pastor❤.... Nuggets: Value system, chose to love, naked truth, and a man findeth a good thing and findeth favor.❤❤❤
COLD: "That men should stay single..." They are struggling with that.
This was AMAZING. He needs to go on a nationwide tour!!!
I really believe that lack of curiosity is hurting men more than their lack of money. . If you have no interest in getting to know a woman ( careers, dresms, etc,) youve Lost? This is a woman who's not a gold digger
Yesss! Some men are just choosing a piece of flesh to lay with to not feel lonely!
Powerful 🎉🎉🎉🎉 I have listened to many people talk about marriage and becoming marriage ready but none has offered Practical tools to get there like this episode. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙌🏾🙌🏾