Missing my brother’s wedding, family boundaries, and red flags w/ my sister-in-law x2 | Ep. 85

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  • Опубликовано: 2 янв 2025

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  • @sl2094
    @sl2094 3 месяца назад +154

    PLEASE make this a regular thing with all the sisters-in-law! I love your guys' personalities, and it's so lovely to see a healthy conversation of listening to each other, respecting each other, and loving each other

  • @a173-i3k
    @a173-i3k 3 месяца назад +193

    HANDS DOWN my favorite episode of the podcast ever! It was so uplifting. I want more of these. The girls should have their own podcast or at least do a quarterly episode!!

  • @katharinehart9333
    @katharinehart9333 3 месяца назад +192

    I love this!!! Can we please have a quarterly/half a year “what’s up ladies” and a “what’s up bros” episode?!?!!?

  • @bella3265
    @bella3265 3 месяца назад +168

    Abigail is so sweet and fun! She seems a person to have those conversations filled with laughter but also serious ones where you can get emotional and feeling supported/loved by her💛

    • @PollyWannaCracker21
      @PollyWannaCracker21 3 месяца назад +8

      Yes!! I seriously think she seems so cool. I want her as my older sister.

    • @pearlesme8561
      @pearlesme8561 3 месяца назад +4

      Love Abigail! She also has a channel. They def need more episodes together ❤

    • @zeniaplays
      @zeniaplays 3 месяца назад

      Edgy 😂

  • @PatrickClark1998
    @PatrickClark1998 3 месяца назад +248

    We need more of this like a sister-in-law podcast

    • @a173-i3k
      @a173-i3k 3 месяца назад +5

      Yes please!!! I would love a sister in laws podcast! Or at least more episodes

  • @sl2094
    @sl2094 3 месяца назад +160

    This should be re-titled as "Abby, Abby, and Addy complimenting each other for 1 hr and 57 mins" 🤣

    • @kalyowaglad7621
      @kalyowaglad7621 3 месяца назад +5

      Abby Addy Abby

    • @pearlali136
      @pearlali136 3 месяца назад

      This is the best podcast ever. I mean of all the podcast ever! The best

    • @cindyalberts3095
      @cindyalberts3095 3 месяца назад

      Hype episode for sure 😮

  • @joannagraham289
    @joannagraham289 3 месяца назад +96

    Having a close, healthy, and emotionally intelligent relationship with sister in laws is such a blessing and it is rare. Be grateful for that connection everyday because there are so many people that wish they could have that kind of closeness and understanding without having to sacrifice their mental and emotional wellbeing.

  • @JustinHepfler
    @JustinHepfler 3 месяца назад +69

    Now we need a Matt, Caleb, and Blake podcast episode!!!! Who is with me?!

  • @englarian1017
    @englarian1017 3 месяца назад +103

    1:02:11 being "non-offended people" is ABSOLUTELY a lost art! Love this!!

    • @belindanavarro7666
      @belindanavarro7666 3 месяца назад

      Love this wish more people would act this way, I just love that they have boundaries and respect them and are considerate about each other

    • @paigegarner2821
      @paigegarner2821 3 месяца назад

      So true

  • @sophiacenova4293
    @sophiacenova4293 3 месяца назад +189

    Idk about everyone else.. but I think there should be an episode with the brother-in-laws!! I LOVED this episode!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @a173-i3k
      @a173-i3k 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes I want this too! It would be sooooo good!

    • @katleslie3168
      @katleslie3168 3 месяца назад

      Yeeees!

    • @JCHartin
      @JCHartin 3 месяца назад

      Yes!!!

  • @katialing5557
    @katialing5557 3 месяца назад +16

    The episode we all wanted. Love Abby hosting her own pod❤️❤️❤️

  • @vanessag8865
    @vanessag8865 3 месяца назад +219

    Abbigail gives such edgy/cool big sister vibes ❤

  • @melissamoskau5667
    @melissamoskau5667 3 месяца назад +55

    Best “unplanned podcast” ever!

  • @emilymaynard7249
    @emilymaynard7249 3 месяца назад +57

    Loved this episode! Felt like it was just a chat with the girls. I would love more girl chats like this in the future.

  • @TravelingKristin
    @TravelingKristin 2 месяца назад

    I love the individual personality/supportive strength from each of these woman. Great examples of in-laws loving life together. Please share more of this!

  • @StrandsofGrace
    @StrandsofGrace 3 месяца назад +4

    Great episode! Loved seeing all of y’all interact and uplift each other. Abigail has so much Godly wisdom and it’s really cool to hear her heart.

  • @isabellali2747
    @isabellali2747 2 месяца назад

    I have always loved the fact that their relationship is so genuine and pure, and the fact that they might be in-laws, for example between Abby and Addy. It is so sweet for Matt and Abby to hire their sister in law as an assistant, and always a good work life balance, and picking up a good boundary line between each other, which is very necessary.

  • @user-rp5gi6vo4c
    @user-rp5gi6vo4c 3 месяца назад +11

    Abigail more people then you know are in the position that you were in congratulations on making it to a better place!!!I’m very interested in your story would love to hear your perspective and how you handled things I’m in the situation now and no one talks about it so this was great to hear! ❤

  • @lyndseyward1384
    @lyndseyward1384 Месяц назад

    I love that yall not only were so dang genuine with your compliments but thw fact yall know how to ACCEPT a compliment and appreciate it❤ loved this ❤️

  • @truesdelly
    @truesdelly 3 месяца назад +14

    Abigail is such a beautiful person. Christ is so evident in her!

  • @kalistacedillo9746
    @kalistacedillo9746 2 месяца назад

    Love how you spoke about struggling in arguments and trying to communicate I feel like I struggle so much and this made me feel like I wasn’t alone 🫶 love the girls pod

  • @lovingnicole4
    @lovingnicole4 3 месяца назад +4

    I love that abby talks about how its okay to do things because you need to save money. My bf and I are looking at lab grown rings because we will be able to do more for a wedding and a house! Idc about jewelry but people have big opinions on it.

  • @connorg.563
    @connorg.563 3 месяца назад +24

    I resonate so much with Addy on wanting to be a working mom. I got my pregnant at the end of my OT Doctorate program and clearly envisioned myself working with patients part-time and having something to focus on outside of kids. Then once my son was born and I had to go back to work at 4 months PP I realized how much I didn’t want that anymore! It’s totally ok for your wants to evolve, and kids will only be babies for so long. If you end up changing your feelings Addy - your job will always be there ❤

    • @aliciajago
      @aliciajago 3 месяца назад +3

      Currently in my last year of my doctorate to become a nurse practitioner and just gave birth to our first child. Before our daughter I was all about being a girl boss and was driven by career and now I just want to be a stay at home mom 🥲

    • @mrsgoemans-leith
      @mrsgoemans-leith 3 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely agree. We just had our first baby in April and I can't imagine having to hand him over to someone every day so I can go work. Being home with him everyday isn't easy but I wouldn't have it any other way

    • @connorg.563
      @connorg.563 3 месяца назад +2

      @@aliciajagoit’s crazy how fast the desire can shift, but I feel like there is so much power in listening to your gut and following that instinct. Patients will literally always be there right? That’s what I tell myself. We can be bosses one day but what’s more important than being fully present as a mom? 🫶🏽 congrats on your baby and your program! So cool.

    • @connorg.563
      @connorg.563 3 месяца назад

      @@mrsgoemans-leithso so worth it! ❤ more than we know or is even researched I think.

  • @jodil1209
    @jodil1209 3 месяца назад

    You guys should do this more often. I'm a couple weeks behind on watching the podcasts. I really liked this one. It's nice to have great sisters in law!!

  • @tianamarie7930
    @tianamarie7930 3 месяца назад +48

    I was Addy - a corporate girly! Got my masters, loved working in corporate until I got pregnant :D and I have ZERO desire to be a corporate girly as it is so demanding, constant traveling and realistically either work or child or home (sleep, marriage, housework) will get less attention and now I want to just be with my baby!!! I left my corporate job right before I gave birth and got a more flexible, home office, less demanding job

    • @VanillaCokeFriends
      @VanillaCokeFriends 3 месяца назад +1

      Honestly same! My baby is due any day, but as soon as I got pregnant my brain flipped a 180. I used to not be able to comprehend someone wanting to be a stay at home mom, now all I want is to stay at home and raise my baby. It's wild.

    • @heytheresacha
      @heytheresacha 3 месяца назад

      It is so crazy how your brain flips!! I am the same!

  • @ninalewis9371
    @ninalewis9371 3 месяца назад +6

    Abigail you’re so freaking genuine. Keep it up ❤

  • @jiwankaur9175
    @jiwankaur9175 3 месяца назад +17

    I think Abigail should do a podcast about budgeting ❤

  • @rebeccabroadbent87
    @rebeccabroadbent87 3 месяца назад +5

    This was my favorite episode y'all have ever done

  • @AliceIbrahim-gu1pz
    @AliceIbrahim-gu1pz 3 месяца назад +27

    I FOR ONE LOVED THE PODCAST IN MY HUMBLE OPINION 😂❤

  • @IKRAMHOFFMAN
    @IKRAMHOFFMAN 3 месяца назад +2

    Loved this podcast!!!!! more of them with the girls!!

  • @CamieCoulombe
    @CamieCoulombe Месяц назад +1

    The way I screamed "Whatsup dudeee" in the intro and then jumped LMAO

  • @misslora3896
    @misslora3896 3 месяца назад +42

    My sister in-law and I have the same 1st name, just spelled differently, and married identitcal twin brothers. When family is speaking about us we're "Pete's Laura" or "Pat's Lora" to clarify who they're speaking about.

  • @paigegarner2821
    @paigegarner2821 3 месяца назад

    Super interesting to kind of learn more about the work/family balance. Working with family can be super stressful and at times not end well. I love that you've found what works for all involved ❤

  • @meme-ep6hj
    @meme-ep6hj 2 месяца назад

    It's so beautiful 3 girls just sitting down and pouring their hearts out ❤. I wish I had such people in my life...

  • @emmkrugger
    @emmkrugger 3 месяца назад

    WHAT’S UP DUDE… Hey Matt and Abby , I hope you are doing amazing. I love your podcast and I love watching/listening to y’all talk about anything and everything and I love how the conversation changes throughout the episode. Sometimes I wish I could like call in and ask you a question or have you elaborate on the topic your on. But I’m more of a silent listener and I just wanted to share my appreciation to you and your family business. Keep being you!! ❤ sending much love!!

  • @pmabe14
    @pmabe14 3 месяца назад

    This is definitely one of my top FIVE favorite episodes. I would love to see more of these. The marriage conversation was SO good!!!!

  • @JuliMariDreams
    @JuliMariDreams 3 месяца назад +9

    13:06 the cousin talk, for my cousins, we were so close. Some of them lived really close others across the country, but we lived near my grandparents so we got to love near them when the cousins visited. We had so many!

  • @Chocsypop
    @Chocsypop 3 месяца назад +27

    I was so quiet around my in laws too, and I’m never quiet 😂😂

  • @sharonmartin1223
    @sharonmartin1223 3 месяца назад +11

    I loved every minute with my kids. Every age i made sure i absolutely enjoyed and now im getting grandkids. Its a joyful time every stage

  • @chelsiemccray7430
    @chelsiemccray7430 3 месяца назад +8

    LADIES WE NEED YOU TO START A PODCAST PLEASE!

  • @_pandacecelya_
    @_pandacecelya_ 3 месяца назад +1

    I can so relate to Abigail and her personality/wisdom! I feel like we’re on the same wavelength with convictions and things. Loved this girl podcast. I had to watch it vs listen on Apple Podcasts so I could know who’s talking and it was much more fun this way 😅

  • @marielpindar6312
    @marielpindar6312 3 месяца назад +16

    I love this so freaking much! Yall are so supportive of each other and I couldn’t love this more!

  • @KristinFred2014
    @KristinFred2014 3 месяца назад +10

    Living for this longgg and girly episode!! Abby needs her own podcast!

  • @christinag1217
    @christinag1217 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m so jealous 😢, I am an only child and never found a guy and I’m 38 years old and will never be able to have people like you guys have in my life!!!! YOU GUYS ARE SO LUCKY!!!

    • @mary-hs2jy
      @mary-hs2jy 3 месяца назад +2

      You will find a wonderful guy! 🤗 Don’t give up!

  • @cfoster1020
    @cfoster1020 3 месяца назад +3

    So many "mmmm"s and "mmhmmmm"s through this conversation. It's too funny. This was lovely to listen to.

  • @kaytlynnhoward9234
    @kaytlynnhoward9234 Месяц назад

    Loving this girl talk episode!! 🩷

  • @JessicaHindmarsh-n5z
    @JessicaHindmarsh-n5z 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow I loved this episode!! Felt like I was listening to some girl friends have a chat. I felt like you girls had some golden nuggets of wisdom to impart and I feel like I took a lot away to implement into my own life :)

  • @jiwankaur9175
    @jiwankaur9175 3 месяца назад +6

    Love what Abigail was talking budgets

  • @ioanaandreea6498
    @ioanaandreea6498 3 месяца назад +1

    THAT was awesome girls' chat, I want more. They are all so sweet

  • @mapalo.chibangula
    @mapalo.chibangula 3 месяца назад +7

    This is such a well of wisdom..its like iron sharpening iron and so relatable. Love from Zambia🇿🇲

  • @oliviab4412
    @oliviab4412 3 месяца назад

    Loved this episode!! You all do so well keeping each other included im the conversation!

  • @BipolaranticMallory
    @BipolaranticMallory 3 месяца назад +13

    We need more with just the three of yiu

    • @bolivia.j
      @bolivia.j 3 месяца назад

      @@Truechildofgodhe’s not tho

  • @maritzah.4039
    @maritzah.4039 3 месяца назад +4

    Haha my husband is so similar to Abigail’s husband! Very straight forward and doesn’t sugar coat anything LOL. Must be a “oldest brother” type of personality 😂 I love it though because I know he’s always honest!

  • @robinhorsford3598
    @robinhorsford3598 3 месяца назад +14

    Loved this podcast! we love a good girls chat

  • @MirandaHostettler
    @MirandaHostettler 3 месяца назад

    One of my faves! I know Abby likes more of the back seat approach but I LOVE episodes like this!

  • @emilyheather328
    @emilyheather328 3 месяца назад

    Y'all are blessed to have each other bc it's hard to find good friends these days

  • @crystaljacobs9720
    @crystaljacobs9720 2 месяца назад

    I loved this soo much!! I missed Matt of course 😂 but loved this episode!

  • @presleypennartz6269
    @presleypennartz6269 3 месяца назад +2

    By far my FAVORITE episode

  • @jessicamullins9655
    @jessicamullins9655 3 месяца назад

    I absolutely enjoyed this episode!!! I had a close relationship with my sister in law and mother in law and unfortunately the whole family got in a disagreement and we never fully recovered from it. I sill cry thinking of the visions I had of the kids growing up as close cousins and knowing it won't happen just breaks my heart for my kids as I was close to mine.

  • @JessicaLoos14
    @JessicaLoos14 3 месяца назад +1

    Love!!! We need more episodes like this 🤍🫶🏼

  • @AlwaysBeKind14-io3hl
    @AlwaysBeKind14-io3hl 3 месяца назад

    Loved this episode! Watched it all the way through to the end! ❤
    I love watching your guys’ podcasts while doing something productive like today I did my nails and made a bracelet during this episode. 😊

  • @Sierra1708
    @Sierra1708 3 месяца назад

    The best podcast episode yet

  • @mckennaharvey4116
    @mckennaharvey4116 3 месяца назад +1

    As someone who went to MSU and didn’t really go out, I FINALLY understand the difference between Club Rodeo and Midnight Rodeo, thank you😂

  • @isingsingsing
    @isingsingsing 3 месяца назад +5

    This is one of my favorite podcasts you guys have done yet! Needed the girl talk!

  • @SamNicDur
    @SamNicDur 3 месяца назад +5

    I had my first 6.5 years ago. Then two more kiddos followed. I’m just now starting to figure out what I enjoy, used to enjoy etc. we don’t have family close by, we don’t have a village and I do think that makes such a difference.

  • @JewelandHart
    @JewelandHart 3 месяца назад

    One of my favorite episodes yet and I've watched them all. I so relate.

  • @MiaCloud-ko1wd
    @MiaCloud-ko1wd 3 месяца назад +3

    This was great! Can you start adding time stamps?

  • @alyssameyers3593
    @alyssameyers3593 3 месяца назад

    LOVED this! Have the girls back for sure 🥰💗

  • @jeannegaddis6863
    @jeannegaddis6863 3 месяца назад +3

    Have you 3 notice how many times you say the word "like" 😂😂
    I enjoyed your podcast 😊

  • @gloriaogunfowokan8344
    @gloriaogunfowokan8344 3 месяца назад +3

    I really want to know more about abby''s budgeting and podcast on that and addy's time management skillsand displined

  • @sarahmarie5660
    @sarahmarie5660 3 месяца назад +8

    I love this friendship! The compliments and learning is really inspiring.

  • @jfa1112
    @jfa1112 3 месяца назад +3

    This has been my favorite episode! Such wisdom from all of you in many different areas! Love seeing y’all’s relationships with each other and how you all build each other up in truth and love!

  • @Horse-23M
    @Horse-23M 3 месяца назад +2

    HOLY CRAP ADDIE LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE EMMA MYERS!!

  • @DanielleMyers-jl6qw
    @DanielleMyers-jl6qw 3 месяца назад

    I love the girl talk. So refreshing ❤

  • @whitmorgan
    @whitmorgan 3 месяца назад +5

    Yes more solo Abby episodes. The vibes are just way more positive.

  • @vickycorey8195
    @vickycorey8195 3 месяца назад

    I really enjoyed this video! You can do this more often! Love you guys!!❤❤

  • @samanthaetcitty4741
    @samanthaetcitty4741 3 месяца назад +10

    Guys does anyone see Hailey Bieber in Abigail howard????? I do! She lowkey favors her and her demeanor? Love this trio

    • @Truechildofgod
      @Truechildofgod 3 месяца назад +1

      Probably in the fact that the poor girl was getting ignored smh I get it that the two Abby’s may have more in common but they could’ve did better to ask her questions

  • @cassie456
    @cassie456 3 месяца назад +5

    Really loved this episode. You guys have an amazing bond. It's really encouraged me to reach out and make more of an effort in my social life. Thanks for that 😊

  • @LudyMoody
    @LudyMoody 3 месяца назад +8

    We need more of these!!! Make it a series...please

  • @avagrace34
    @avagrace34 3 месяца назад +7

    I loved this episode! ❤

  • @katiemanuel4719
    @katiemanuel4719 3 месяца назад

    LOVED this episode!! Love the all girls episode, and there should be a boys episode!!

  • @jamiehlchen
    @jamiehlchen 3 месяца назад

    next podcast: abby, abby, and addy!

  • @ashlienovak.00
    @ashlienovak.00 3 месяца назад

    Y’all need your own pod

  • @aep7113
    @aep7113 3 месяца назад +12

    Matt’s mom being like that is exactly why he acts how he does

    • @nm6857
      @nm6857 3 месяца назад +3

      Spoiled?

  • @haylieclark2510
    @haylieclark2510 3 месяца назад

    I love this podcast! ❤️ Love these ladies! ❤️

  • @NofilarosaLyngdohNongpiur
    @NofilarosaLyngdohNongpiur 3 месяца назад +2

    You guys should invite Alanna and Ivor in your podcast

  • @bayleenitafan2013
    @bayleenitafan2013 3 месяца назад +1

    loved this!! I hope you three do more girl only podcasts!!

  • @SarahButler-qj1zh
    @SarahButler-qj1zh 3 месяца назад +6

    How do you not know what happens at a strip club? Her innocence as an adult shocks me sometimes. Maybe this is what growing up in a healthy family is like but I felt that was common knowledge once you’ve been an adult for awhile.

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 Месяц назад

    More girl time! please. So fun.

  • @maryinneo7285
    @maryinneo7285 3 месяца назад +8

    Would love to make this a recurring group for the podcast! Maybe once a quarter or something I know you ladies are busy

  • @isabellamocciavlogs9687
    @isabellamocciavlogs9687 3 месяца назад +2

    you girls need a podcast the sister podcast I love the unplanned podcast I like matt he funny, but these three girls are my favorite podcast now.

  • @kasthumathanalingam8940
    @kasthumathanalingam8940 3 месяца назад

    loved this podcast! We need the ladies on more often 😊♥️

  • @jaimebarber3359
    @jaimebarber3359 3 месяца назад

    I loved this!! Thanks for sharing !!

  • @kimdrury6184
    @kimdrury6184 3 месяца назад

    You girls are very lucky!!!! Enjoy each other!!!!!

  • @lydiajohnson2156
    @lydiajohnson2156 3 месяца назад +7

    Love what y’all said about husbands and respect. Not a common view in our day and age, but it is so important to respect our husbands and not let other people disrespect them.

  • @AmyGentilee
    @AmyGentilee 3 месяца назад +1

    Such a great conversation and outlooks 💜

  • @Itsbrittanytaylor
    @Itsbrittanytaylor 3 месяца назад +10

    This is was a fun episode! I loved it ❤

  • @chelseetyler1003
    @chelseetyler1003 3 месяца назад +1

    Love this girl talk 😊

  • @donnalwashburn
    @donnalwashburn 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m shocked the two Abbys are alike - I assumed the opposite. I love this podcast!

  • @bolivia.j
    @bolivia.j 3 месяца назад

    I’m only 35 minutes in and this is the sweetest podcast. You guys are very much like me and my sister in laws