She thought she was so special that after such a short relationship, that she should already be the center of his world. Uhh...join the real world. Just keep searching for that noodle you're looking for. You might find him, but not this guy.
The minute she pulls out her phone BEFORE talking to you you know you are in trouble, This is her ego boost for the day and has nothing to do with you to the future together. Walk away, politely, but quickly.
I have done the same thing when given an ultimatum. I told her, “cool I have options, I don’t like playing games.” I was told several times, “no one will never love you as I have “, before I was given an ultimatum.
Good Sunday, People. Hope y’all have a blessed one today. That dude that walked around the entire opening & closing doors was funny as hell. He understood the assignment. She fucked around & found out 😂. But on a serious tip, I don’t respond well to ultimatums. Ultimatums are basically threats. For example, like the chick on the radio 📻, “If you don’t take me on this trip, I’m leaving you”. I will not hesitate to choose the opposite.
Men are never more depressed than women being single. We are not whining on the internet. We are not screaming on RUclips about being happy trying to convince ourselves of our happiness, lol.
Having done psychology the only time an ultimatum should be given is when a person is behaving in away that will ultimately destroy the relationship. For example, alcoholism... this will not only destroy the life of the alcoholic, but the lives of everyone around them. If it's these types of selfish, self-centred, self-righteous ultimatums, yeah, kick their arse to the kerb. People with type B personality disorders like NPD make these types of demands.
He should have closed the door, opened HER door, told her to get the hell out of HIS car as he doesn't negotiate with terrorists. You wanna run something, run them streets, I'm gone.
When one half of the relationship gives an ultimatum to the other half, the relationship is over...period. If this guy had given in to his girl's ultimatum, she'd have just kept using the same threat every time. That isn't a healthy relationship. If my wife gave me an ultimatum like that, it would be over. That sort of thing is so disrespectful it isn't funny.
3 months. 90 days. 2160 hours. I can't with this foolishness. They both probably slept with the guy already and he's still moving cautiously while she's sprung..... smh
Based on the limited amount of information we were given on their situation, I gotta side with Serena on the travel thing. Three months of being in a committed relationship is more than enough time to travel together. My guess is that ol Rich is using the 'three months' as a flimsy excuse not to take her because he's either really not that into her or he wants to be free to act as a single guy on his trip....or both.
The woman who left because he wouldn't take her on the trip: Sounds like a gold digger to me. She said she had all the time in the world, and she wants to travel with him. Is he paying??? So she wants him to pay for her to travel. Yeah, dump her. Ladies: If you want to use ultimatums to get what you want, find a simp. A real man won't take that sh!t That last woman is so angry that no self-respecting man will ever want her. Who wants to deal with a loud, miserable, and angry woman? Heck, even the most desperate of simps probably wouldn't go for that.
This is why I don't date broke witches. It's the 21st century. The days of supporting a family of 12 on a factory wage are long gone. Pay your own way in life ladies. There's no such thing as a free lunch.
I had a company owner threaten everyone with either signing a non-compete agreement or he was starting termination paperwork. We told him to get his pen warmed up. He had more to write than we did. He was pissed. We were supposed to cave in just like in his fantasy….
That Screaming Hyena is 100% wrong about single Men being more depressed than single women. All of the Single Men that I know are Happy and Content in their lives. Meanwhile, most single women are trapped in a depressive state and lone and pine for the attention of Men. -Period!
Even when you can see that a guy is crushing it, having fun, extremely happy, I've never heard a man say "it's the happiest I've ever been". Women will be crying and upset while screaming "I'm so happy". Something doesn't add up!
The method used by someone to handle others is a very accurate gauge of character. If she invites your participation through communication, consideration, and reason, she's a keeper. If she uses threats, manipulation, ultimatums - get away as fast as possible.
0:25 - 3 months???? Over a year, and you want to know where you stand, I get it. An ultimatum does make sense after a certain period of time. If he isn't committed, move on. 3 months is a joke. Any self-respecting man would outright reject that lady. She's trying to rush you into a bad situation.
That man and Steve are gonna have a great time on that trip especially with her out of the picture. No calls, no texts, and no gaslighting from some old hot pocket. Entitlement is always repugnant.
Ultimatums sound too much like a punishment for breaking her rules. My wife tried that shortly after we got married 36 years ago. She got mad and actually had the gall to tell me I was "cut off" for a couple of days. She wanted to give in after one night, but I rejected her, telling her how disappointed I was that she folded so quickly, let me show how it's done. I coldly rejected her for about a week. It wasn't until she had cried and accused me of not loving her anymore, and finally apologizing several times, before I let it go. Then I told her, "Don't ever think you are going to pull that thing on me like a gun. If you don't want fun time just say no, but don't ever think that you can threaten me with it again. She hasn't. She once suggested that I sleep on the couch over some argument. I told her it would be a cold day in h*ll before I slept somewhere besides my bed unless I decided to. I told her she could lay there mad and watch me sleep all night or she could sleep on the couch, but she wasn't ever going to kick me out of my bed. That put an end to that too. Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not perfect and I have made lots of mistakes. But I am a man that can be argued with, not a child to be punished, and when given an ultimatum I will always choose the "or else".
This is the problem, the woman in the car is risking her relationship to prove to her girlies on social media that she's a "Boss Babe and will keep trying to test her man and embarrassing him to show her followers that she's the "Prize"
😂 35yrs still married my husband takes our 4 live-in grandkids on holiday and leaves Drama Queen Me at home 😂...even ducking into town the grandkids exit our farmhouse in different directions, meet up at the gate as hubby is race-reversing down the driveway to pick them up 🤣 then one of the grandkids will ring me and ask if I need anything 😆
Three month relationship, and she drops an ultimatum on a radio podcast that he must take her on the trip or he will never see her again!? Dude dodged a Howitzer!
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
The crazy lady at the 10-minute mark, we have no doubt to why she is single. Maybe if all these women who are single who would just worry about their situation and not concern themselves with what every other woman and their business, maybe they can find someone. This woman is trying to destroy marriages because Her's didn't work out.
" Happy " people always rant & rave like a lunatic off their meds , while cussing and screaming slurs & profanities... c'mon everybody knows this about " happy " people ! Can't make this stuff up fellas.
“I can call the spirits from the vasty deep.' Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come, when you do call for them?” People who cite statistics to bolster their argument should give the source, Anything else is just calling spirits.
Years ago I won a competition for an all expenses paid trip to Barcelona, and two tickets to see FC Barcelona, whilst Messi was still playing for them. I chose to take my best friend, a fellow soccer fan. My ex was furious I didn’t pick her. I knew her plan was for us to go to Spain, then ditch the game to explore Barcelona. No chance! She gave me an ultimatum. Take her or we were done. Easiest decision I ever made. Best friend and I had the best time watching the GOAT!
My GF driving "you should change or together its finished" Me "stop the car its done" Her "really?" Me "yes all done " Her since 5 years "i regret to let you leave..it was my biggest mistake ever" Me "bloques " 2 years of relationship end up cause she thought i will accept that 😂
I know of exactly one case in which an ultimatum was justified: he didn't want to be helped, became more addicted to alcohol and she gave him an ultimatum to get help or she would leave with the child. He understood that, but she also helped him in every way to get sober, which he still is today. The rest of the ultimatums I heard were much more like "I want this for MYSELF".
The girl that dropped the ultimatum about the trip: Her reaction at the end was typical. She screwed up, but she will not admit she screwed up and she blamed him and the call in hosts for her screw up.
Woman who yells about being out of a relationship for the first time and being the happiest she has ever been is the angriest happy person I've ever seen 🤣
The girl who didn't get invited on the trip sounds like the control freakiest of control freaks. It's not the most original response, but: bullet dodged. _"I'M THE HAPPIEST I'VE EVER BEEN!!!!"_ 😡😡😡 Okay then. 🤣
That's her happy?!?! Holy Hell! And what are we supposed to be "looking up"? Happiness cannot be tabulated, derived or measured. It's completely subjective.
1:05 I LOVE what this guy did!!! 4:40 Three months and she ALREADY gives him ultimatums. Very impatient, I would say ... 8:00 You wish!!! Just by the tone I see that it is not what she says and she does not like it ... 8:15 15 is too young!!! How old are you now ?
My now ex... gave me an ultimatum, that if I tried to move into the house I'd signed a lease on with her, she'd take out a RO on me. No problem. I ghosted her. I played head games with her and her attorney for a year. They went from demanding $350K in cash, which I didn't have, AND lifetime alimony, etc etc, to $1K, basically for her attorney's fee. I never talked to her after the divorce. Ever. She showed me who she was.
End our relationship because I won't be following your ultimatum... ummm buh-bye! Your not being in my life is not world ending. Will I be sad, maybe, but I'll get over it.
Every time I hear a woman give an ultimatum like this, all I hear is Pink Floyd. "If you don't eat your meat, you can't have any pudding! How can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?" We ain't 8 years old and you can't blackmail us into doing what you want.
You're giving me an ultimatum only 3 MONTHS into the relationship?!
She thought she had him hooked. She got a nasty wake-up call there
Her time is running out 😂
She thinks he’s going to Ibiza 😂
She thought she was so special that after such a short relationship, that she should already be the center of his world. Uhh...join the real world. Just keep searching for that noodle you're looking for. You might find him, but not this guy.
I don't do ultimatums. Automatic "See ya never."
And she's awfully irate for someone who's "the happiest she's ever been."
When those legs spread it must have been the best ever, but let's ask the other 2700 guys their opinion ?
Anger and rage. Cannot get over how angry and bitter she is. Glad I'm not the only one to feel this way about her.
My ex wife gave me an ultimatum 😅😅 Now she's single & upset 😂
There should be a song out of these lyrics.
Can concur. I had an ex-GF give me an ultimatum about marrying her. When I refused, she moved out 2 weeks later. Best decision ever!
The minute she pulls out her phone BEFORE talking to you you know you are in trouble, This is her ego boost for the day and has nothing to do with you to the future together. Walk away, politely, but quickly.
She was trying to use him for a free trip
I have done the same thing when given an ultimatum. I told her, “cool I have options, I don’t like playing games.”
I was told several times, “no one will never love you as I have “, before I was given an ultimatum.
Good Sunday, People. Hope y’all have a blessed one today. That dude that walked around the entire opening & closing doors was funny as hell. He understood the assignment. She fucked around & found out 😂. But on a serious tip, I don’t respond well to ultimatums. Ultimatums are basically threats. For example, like the chick on the radio 📻, “If you don’t take me on this trip, I’m leaving you”. I will not hesitate to choose the opposite.
Plus his buddy would have paid his own way his girlfriend will expect him to pay for everything
That chick yelling sound real happy
7:32 Everytime I see this woman she's yelling. Who wants to deal with that?
The key word in any relationship ladies, is "partner". Not slave, not servant, not your child. Partner, as in equals.
Women also try to make guys jealous by saying they might go out with someone else. i say "Have a good time. Dont bother me again."
My man shut ALL 4 doors. My Mann!!!
Men are never more depressed than women being single. We are not whining on the internet. We are not screaming on RUclips about being happy trying to convince ourselves of our happiness, lol.
3 months - 3 years does not matter.
Give me a ultimatum and I am gone.
Having done psychology the only time an ultimatum should be given is when a person is behaving in away that will ultimately destroy the relationship. For example, alcoholism... this will not only destroy the life of the alcoholic, but the lives of everyone around them.
If it's these types of selfish, self-centred, self-righteous ultimatums, yeah, kick their arse to the kerb. People with type B personality disorders like NPD make these types of demands.
She sounds very happy
He should have closed the door, opened HER door, told her to get the hell out of HIS car as he doesn't negotiate with terrorists. You wanna run something, run them streets, I'm gone.
When one half of the relationship gives an ultimatum to the other half, the relationship is over...period. If this guy had given in to his girl's ultimatum, she'd have just kept using the same threat every time. That isn't a healthy relationship. If my wife gave me an ultimatum like that, it would be over. That sort of thing is so disrespectful it isn't funny.
Yup, been there done that, not like the door thing😅😅
But in a different scenario..😊😊
3 months. 90 days. 2160 hours. I can't with this foolishness. They both probably slept with the guy already and he's still moving cautiously while she's sprung..... smh
Based on the limited amount of information we were given on their situation, I gotta side with Serena on the travel thing. Three months of being in a committed relationship is more than enough time to travel together. My guess is that ol Rich is using the 'three months' as a flimsy excuse not to take her because he's either really not that into her or he wants to be free to act as a single guy on his trip....or both.
Never Simp.
Lady has a serious attitude problem. He's better off without her.
That only works if he doesn’t come back. If he just gets back I. The car then it means nothing.
After the 3rd door slam it just became childish.
The skit where the simp keeps opening and closing the car door is stupid. He’s definitely coming back.
She's single.... Bwahahaha
I'm really happy I'm not with her😅
an Ultimatum from a woman? no chance the man is the prize not you
Why would she involve the relationship in her prank,i bet she has a male best friend
I would say to her, Ask me one more time😮....
Hell no is the correct answer
This voice over is so cringe.
Men who jump through hoops are living in a circus!
They’re Simps
The woman who left because he wouldn't take her on the trip: Sounds like a gold digger to me. She said she had all the time in the world, and she wants to travel with him. Is he paying??? So she wants him to pay for her to travel. Yeah, dump her.
Ladies: If you want to use ultimatums to get what you want, find a simp. A real man won't take that sh!t
That last woman is so angry that no self-respecting man will ever want her. Who wants to deal with a loud, miserable, and angry woman? Heck, even the most desperate of simps probably wouldn't go for that.
Both of them agreed with the guy about the trip. And her response is to trash them for that! Immature piled on top of entitled and whiney.
If she gives you an ultimatum, never bend to her.
If you give me an ultimatum thats that , it doesn't even matter what it is , hell I may even want to do it, but will refuse if it is an ultimatum.
If I ever get that thrown to me. I’m out
Loving, caring, unselfish women don't give their men ULTIMATIUMS...run like the wind if an entitled, spoiled little bratty gal does!!!!!
The trip girl is a gold digger.. They have only been dating 3 months. She will be doing him a favor by breaking up.
This is why I don't date broke witches.
It's the 21st century.
The days of supporting a family of 12 on a factory wage are long gone.
Pay your own way in life ladies.
There's no such thing as a free lunch.
Never deal out ultimatums and then be surprised when he walks. As he should.
Don't push with an ultimatum because you will get pushed out the door.
@@bunkyman8097 yaaaaappppp
7:39
She calls that the happiest she’s ever been.
Must be without her medications.
When a woman or even my boss says either or. I always take the or. I don't take kindly to ultimatums
Always 😂😂😂
I had a company owner threaten everyone with either signing a non-compete agreement or he was starting termination paperwork. We told him to get his pen warmed up. He had more to write than we did. He was pissed. We were supposed to cave in just like in his fantasy….
Peace and quiet is the ultimatum and i love em both more than any whaling banshee!
To the lady on here, us men are not oppressed, us men do not care. Period!
That Screaming Hyena is 100% wrong about single Men being more depressed than single women. All of the Single Men that I know are Happy and Content in their lives.
Meanwhile, most single women are trapped in a depressive state and lone and pine for the attention of Men. -Period!
Exactly
And we'll said!!👍👍
I don't know if she gained more respect for him, but he likely lost the respect he might had for her.
She probably did; realized he is a strong centered man. But at a high price for her.
I’m the same way, I don’t respond to ultimatums well. I will do the exact opposite of what they want on purpose. I refuse to be pressured by anyone
"she just learned an important life lesson" - no, I don't think she actually did.
She played the fuck around and find out game
Even when you can see that a guy is crushing it, having fun, extremely happy, I've never heard a man say "it's the happiest I've ever been". Women will be crying and upset while screaming "I'm so happy". Something doesn't add up!
@7:30 - Your typical 'happy to be single" woman. Wow, the level of anger in her.
Thats the happiest she will ever be.🤣
Did she say 'you'll never see me again"- great. There's always another one that's better and younger then she is. Ultimatums are fun.
Ultimatums are a dare. Men are kings at dares,remember as a kid your buddies daring you to do something crazy?
That last broad was extremely happy😅😂
🤣
The method used by someone to handle others is a very accurate gauge of character.
If she invites your participation through communication, consideration, and reason, she's a keeper.
If she uses threats, manipulation, ultimatums - get away as fast as possible.
Perfect. Great advice, well said!!👍👍
"If you close the door, we're done". Bish don't threaten me with a good time. Bye Felicia.
Slammed all 4 foors to make sure she understood. She still didnt understand what she did.
He should have shut the door, opened it, told her to get out and left.
Stay single guys now you know why.
0:25 - 3 months???? Over a year, and you want to know where you stand, I get it. An ultimatum does make sense after a certain period of time. If he isn't committed, move on. 3 months is a joke. Any self-respecting man would outright reject that lady. She's trying to rush you into a bad situation.
Even a year is still too soon , 3 years now we are talking
Ultimatums don't work....
Especially when no f*cks are given. 😂
7.45. That explains an awful lot about women if thats what a really happy one looks like .....
That man and Steve are gonna have a great time on that trip especially with her out of the picture. No calls, no texts, and no gaslighting from some old hot pocket. Entitlement is always repugnant.
Losing no woman is my biggest fear, the only thing I'm afraid of losing in this life is my children
The ultimatum itself told him how much SHE valued the relationship - ie, none.
When someone gives you an ultimatum, make then regret it.
Works 100% of the time, my x wife learned this the hard way
Ultimatums sound too much like a punishment for breaking her rules. My wife tried that shortly after we got married 36 years ago. She got mad and actually had the gall to tell me I was "cut off" for a couple of days. She wanted to give in after one night, but I rejected her, telling her how disappointed I was that she folded so quickly, let me show how it's done. I coldly rejected her for about a week. It wasn't until she had cried and accused me of not loving her anymore, and finally apologizing several times, before I let it go. Then I told her, "Don't ever think you are going to pull that thing on me like a gun. If you don't want fun time just say no, but don't ever think that you can threaten me with it again. She hasn't.
She once suggested that I sleep on the couch over some argument. I told her it would be a cold day in h*ll before I slept somewhere besides my bed unless I decided to. I told her she could lay there mad and watch me sleep all night or she could sleep on the couch, but she wasn't ever going to kick me out of my bed. That put an end to that too.
Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not perfect and I have made lots of mistakes. But I am a man that can be argued with, not a child to be punished, and when given an ultimatum I will always choose the "or else".
Damn right. If I'm the only one paying for the house, then you can drag me to the couch physically if you want me to sleep on it that badly
“I’m the happiest I’ve ever been”
She gaslighting herself.
This is the problem, the woman in the car is risking her relationship to prove to her girlies on social media that she's a "Boss Babe and will keep trying to test her man and embarrassing him to show her followers that she's the "Prize"
And, her saying he'd best not be opening her door? Her name best be on the title, or she's being told ONCE to get out before being pulled out.
Why would he take her on ANY trip in 3 months? Sounds entitled to me. He's probably going on a trip that she probably can't afford
😂 35yrs still married my husband takes our 4 live-in grandkids on holiday and leaves Drama Queen Me at home 😂...even ducking into town the grandkids exit our farmhouse in different directions, meet up at the gate as hubby is race-reversing down the driveway to pick them up 🤣 then one of the grandkids will ring me and ask if I need anything 😆
She wants control of the relationship.
Three month relationship, and she drops an ultimatum on a radio podcast that he must take her on the trip or he will never see her again!? Dude dodged a Howitzer!
He wasnt done making you look like a fool!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
My favorite parts are when the guy already ends it, then the woman says “it’s over” after that.
It was already over, you loserette
7:52 the study she’s referencing is flawed. it includes men who are divorced, which heavily skews the numbers
Men don’t take ultimatum’s,we use them.
No. Therapy is a scam.
It's called grow tf up.
Whining is for children.
7:31 Dude when did you shave off your Adams Apple??Your not happier,your more depressed,bitter,
angry & broke than ever.☕️
The crazy lady at the 10-minute mark, we have no doubt to why she is single. Maybe if all these women who are single who would just worry about their situation and not concern themselves with what every other woman and their business, maybe they can find someone. This woman is trying to destroy marriages because Her's didn't work out.
" Happy " people always rant & rave like a lunatic off their meds , while cussing and screaming slurs & profanities... c'mon everybody knows this about " happy " people !
Can't make this stuff up fellas.
Don't play poker unless you are willing to be called out and LOSE.
“I can call the spirits from the vasty deep.'
Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man;
But will they come, when you do call for them?”
People who cite statistics to bolster their argument should give the source, Anything else is just calling spirits.
Years ago I won a competition for an all expenses paid trip to Barcelona, and two tickets to see FC Barcelona, whilst Messi was still playing for them. I chose to take my best friend, a fellow soccer fan. My ex was furious I didn’t pick her. I knew her plan was for us to go to Spain, then ditch the game to explore Barcelona. No chance!
She gave me an ultimatum. Take her or we were done. Easiest decision I ever made. Best friend and I had the best time watching the GOAT!
My GF driving "you should change or together its finished"
Me "stop the car its done"
Her "really?"
Me "yes all done "
Her since 5 years "i regret to let you leave..it was my biggest mistake ever"
Me "bloques "
2 years of relationship end up cause she thought i will accept that 😂
I know of exactly one case in which an ultimatum was justified: he didn't want to be helped, became more addicted to alcohol and she gave him an ultimatum to get help or she would leave with the child. He understood that, but she also helped him in every way to get sober, which he still is today. The rest of the ultimatums I heard were much more like "I want this for MYSELF".
That hen screaming is proving to ALL of us that she is indeed happy.😂😂😂
The girl that dropped the ultimatum about the trip: Her reaction at the end was typical. She screwed up, but she will not admit she screwed up and she blamed him and the call in hosts for her screw up.
Wow-girl who gives ultimatum lose opportunities
Woman who yells about being out of a relationship for the first time and being the happiest she has ever been is the angriest happy person I've ever seen 🤣
I never played that ultimatum bull 💩. Bye Felisha !
Sitting in passenger seat talking about close the door we done 😂
I don't give in to blackmail.
Ultimatum's are a fools game
He shld have told her she can come if she pays her own way and contributes equally….
I would ask her to leave my car. The relationship should be based on mutual respect, not threats and I WILL RESPOND ACCORDINGLY
The girl who didn't get invited on the trip sounds like the control freakiest of control freaks. It's not the most original response, but: bullet dodged.
_"I'M THE HAPPIEST I'VE EVER BEEN!!!!"_ 😡😡😡
Okay then. 🤣
Women Id break up with him if he did that
🤦🏽♀️ You can't break up if he already broke up with you 😂
That's her happy?!?! Holy Hell!
And what are we supposed to be "looking up"? Happiness cannot be tabulated, derived or measured. It's completely subjective.
1:05
I LOVE what this guy did!!!
4:40
Three months and she ALREADY gives him ultimatums. Very impatient, I would say ...
8:00
You wish!!! Just by the tone I see that it is not what she says and she does not like it ...
8:15
15 is too young!!! How old are you now ?
My now ex... gave me an ultimatum, that if I tried to move into the house I'd signed a lease on with her, she'd take out a RO on me. No problem. I ghosted her. I played head games with her and her attorney for a year. They went from demanding $350K in cash, which I didn't have, AND lifetime alimony, etc etc, to $1K, basically for her attorney's fee. I never talked to her after the divorce. Ever. She showed me who she was.
End our relationship because I won't be following your ultimatum... ummm buh-bye! Your not being in my life is not world ending. Will I be sad, maybe, but I'll get over it.
Every time I hear a woman give an ultimatum like this, all I hear is Pink Floyd.
"If you don't eat your meat, you can't have any pudding! How can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?"
We ain't 8 years old and you can't blackmail us into doing what you want.
I am sure his friend Steve will be covering his own costs. Will his girlfriend pay her own costs?