She thought she was so special that after such a short relationship, that she should already be the center of his world. Uhh...join the real world. Just keep searching for that noodle you're looking for. You might find him, but not this guy.
The method used by someone to handle others is a very accurate gauge of character. If she invites your participation through communication, consideration, and reason, she's a keeper. If she uses threats, manipulation, ultimatums - get away as fast as possible.
The woman who left because he wouldn't take her on the trip: Sounds like a gold digger to me. She said she had all the time in the world, and she wants to travel with him. Is he paying??? So she wants him to pay for her to travel. Yeah, dump her. Ladies: If you want to use ultimatums to get what you want, find a simp. A real man won't take that sh!t That last woman is so angry that no self-respecting man will ever want her. Who wants to deal with a loud, miserable, and angry woman? Heck, even the most desperate of simps probably wouldn't go for that.
Even when you can see that a guy is crushing it, having fun, extremely happy, I've never heard a man say "it's the happiest I've ever been". Women will be crying and upset while screaming "I'm so happy". Something doesn't add up!
This is why I don't date broke witches. It's the 21st century. The days of supporting a family of 12 on a factory wage are long gone. Pay your own way in life ladies. There's no such thing as a free lunch.
That Screaming Hyena is 100% wrong about single Men being more depressed than single women. All of the Single Men that I know are Happy and Content in their lives. Meanwhile, most single women are trapped in a depressive state and lone and pine for the attention of Men. -Period!
I had a company owner threaten everyone with either signing a non-compete agreement or he was starting termination paperwork. We told him to get his pen warmed up. He had more to write than we did. He was pissed. We were supposed to cave in just like in his fantasy….
That man and Steve are gonna have a great time on that trip especially with her out of the picture. No calls, no texts, and no gaslighting from some old hot pocket. Entitlement is always repugnant.
The minute she pulls out her phone BEFORE talking to you you know you are in trouble, This is her ego boost for the day and has nothing to do with you to the future together. Walk away, politely, but quickly.
0:25 - 3 months???? Over a year, and you want to know where you stand, I get it. An ultimatum does make sense after a certain period of time. If he isn't committed, move on. 3 months is a joke. Any self-respecting man would outright reject that lady. She's trying to rush you into a bad situation.
Ultimatums NEVER make sense as they are a Power game/play. If you give in, it's going to happen again and keep happening until you put your foot down Once an ultimatum is given, it's best if you refuse to play her game aka: put your foot down. There may be a couple of bruised toes, but you'll both be happier in the long run.
Woman who yells about being out of a relationship for the first time and being the happiest she has ever been is the angriest happy person I've ever seen 🤣
Ultimatums sound too much like a punishment for breaking her rules. My wife tried that shortly after we got married 36 years ago. She got mad and actually had the gall to tell me I was "cut off" for a couple of days. She wanted to give in after one night, but I rejected her, telling her how disappointed I was that she folded so quickly, let me show how it's done. I coldly rejected her for about a week. It wasn't until she had cried and accused me of not loving her anymore, and finally apologizing several times, before I let it go. Then I told her, "Don't ever think you are going to pull that thing on me like a gun. If you don't want fun time just say no, but don't ever think that you can threaten me with it again. She hasn't. She once suggested that I sleep on the couch over some argument. I told her it would be a cold day in h*ll before I slept somewhere besides my bed unless I decided to. I told her she could lay there mad and watch me sleep all night or she could sleep on the couch, but she wasn't ever going to kick me out of my bed. That put an end to that too. Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not perfect and I have made lots of mistakes. But I am a man that can be argued with, not a child to be punished, and when given an ultimatum I will always choose the "or else".
PREACH IT, BROTHER! My wife tried this some 30 years ago. I slept in our bed and SHE wound up sleeping on the couch. When she discovered, in the morning, that I was well rested and SHE was the one looking haggard, sleepy and a little grumpy, I too looked her straight in the eye and told her "ultimatums are games and I refuse to play games with you. Don't do it again." We've been married for 44 years.
This is the problem, the woman in the car is risking her relationship to prove to her girlies on social media that she's a "Boss Babe and will keep trying to test her man and embarrassing him to show her followers that she's the "Prize"
Three month relationship, and she drops an ultimatum on a radio podcast that he must take her on the trip or he will never see her again!? Dude dodged a Howitzer!
😂 35yrs still married my husband takes our 4 live-in grandkids on holiday and leaves Drama Queen Me at home 😂...even ducking into town the grandkids exit our farmhouse in different directions, meet up at the gate as hubby is race-reversing down the driveway to pick them up 🤣 then one of the grandkids will ring me and ask if I need anything 😆
Good Sunday, People. Hope y’all have a blessed one today. That dude that walked around the entire opening & closing doors was funny as hell. He understood the assignment. She fucked around & found out 😂. But on a serious tip, I don’t respond well to ultimatums. Ultimatums are basically threats. For example, like the chick on the radio 📻, “If you don’t take me on this trip, I’m leaving you”. I will not hesitate to choose the opposite.
I have done the same thing when given an ultimatum. I told her, “cool I have options, I don’t like playing games.” I was told several times, “no one will never love you as I have “, before I was given an ultimatum.
The girl that dropped the ultimatum about the trip: Her reaction at the end was typical. She screwed up, but she will not admit she screwed up and she blamed him and the call in hosts for her screw up.
" Happy " people always rant & rave like a lunatic off their meds , while cussing and screaming slurs & profanities... c'mon everybody knows this about " happy " people ! Can't make this stuff up fellas.
“I can call the spirits from the vasty deep.' Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man; But will they come, when you do call for them?” People who cite statistics to bolster their argument should give the source, Anything else is just calling spirits.
My GF driving "you should change or together its finished" Me "stop the car its done" Her "really?" Me "yes all done " Her since 5 years "i regret to let you leave..it was my biggest mistake ever" Me "bloques " 2 years of relationship end up cause she thought i will accept that 😂
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
I know of exactly one case in which an ultimatum was justified: he didn't want to be helped, became more addicted to alcohol and she gave him an ultimatum to get help or she would leave with the child. He understood that, but she also helped him in every way to get sober, which he still is today. The rest of the ultimatums I heard were much more like "I want this for MYSELF".
Years ago I won a competition for an all expenses paid trip to Barcelona, and two tickets to see FC Barcelona, whilst Messi was still playing for them. I chose to take my best friend, a fellow soccer fan. My ex was furious I didn’t pick her. I knew her plan was for us to go to Spain, then ditch the game to explore Barcelona. No chance! She gave me an ultimatum. Take her or we were done. Easiest decision I ever made. Best friend and I had the best time watching the GOAT!
the weird thing with online dating its no patience, its go go go from the start, gone are the days of getting to know eachother, there seem to be a rush to go from friends-lover-relationship, days-weeks-months of courting is gone , everyone is in a hurry
The crazy lady at the 10-minute mark, we have no doubt to why she is single. Maybe if all these women who are single who would just worry about their situation and not concern themselves with what every other woman and their business, maybe they can find someone. This woman is trying to destroy marriages because Her's didn't work out.
The way she turned it around on him after making it clear she would leave, but when he does close the door, she then puts it in his court. Now, it's about whether he wants the relationship. It's about power. I'm sure she'll claim it was a joke, but what she showed him is that she will stay regardless, and that's not good for her.
The girl who didn't get invited on the trip sounds like the control freakiest of control freaks. It's not the most original response, but: bullet dodged. _"I'M THE HAPPIEST I'VE EVER BEEN!!!!"_ 😡😡😡 Okay then. 🤣
That's her happy?!?! Holy Hell! And what are we supposed to be "looking up"? Happiness cannot be tabulated, derived or measured. It's completely subjective.
Having done psychology the only time an ultimatum should be given is when a person is behaving in away that will ultimately destroy the relationship. For example, alcoholism... this will not only destroy the life of the alcoholic, but the lives of everyone around them. If it's these types of selfish, self-centred, self-righteous ultimatums, yeah, kick their arse to the kerb. People with type B personality disorders like NPD make these types of demands.
Men are never more depressed than women being single. We are not whining on the internet. We are not screaming on RUclips about being happy trying to convince ourselves of our happiness, lol.
"Do you want to be with me or no?", um I'm guessing no, how many times did he close the door? Next words out of his mouth should be " Get TF out of my car."
If it's a fact that older single women are the happiest (that has been debunked, I know) then why do they absolutely dominate the antidepressant market?
I believe that sometimes ultimatums are appropriate. Real case: A friend of mine is badly allergic to the dander from ferrets. Through an allergist his allergy was determined. Then his wife went out and got a ferret! He started getting sick. He told his wife they would need to rehome the ferret. She refused. He said, "I refuse to live like this. I will not be sick all the time." His wife lost her schitt. They were separated about two days later. She chose the ferret over him.
Every time I hear a woman give an ultimatum like this, all I hear is Pink Floyd. "If you don't eat your meat, you can't have any pudding! How can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?" We ain't 8 years old and you can't blackmail us into doing what you want.
Men who jump through hoops are living in a circus!
They’re Simps
You're giving me an ultimatum only 3 MONTHS into the relationship?!
She thought she had him hooked. She got a nasty wake-up call there
Her time is running out 😂
She thinks he’s going to Ibiza 😂
She thought she was so special that after such a short relationship, that she should already be the center of his world. Uhh...join the real world. Just keep searching for that noodle you're looking for. You might find him, but not this guy.
The method used by someone to handle others is a very accurate gauge of character.
If she invites your participation through communication, consideration, and reason, she's a keeper.
If she uses threats, manipulation, ultimatums - get away as fast as possible.
Perfect. Great advice, well said!!👍👍
The woman who left because he wouldn't take her on the trip: Sounds like a gold digger to me. She said she had all the time in the world, and she wants to travel with him. Is he paying??? So she wants him to pay for her to travel. Yeah, dump her.
Ladies: If you want to use ultimatums to get what you want, find a simp. A real man won't take that sh!t
That last woman is so angry that no self-respecting man will ever want her. Who wants to deal with a loud, miserable, and angry woman? Heck, even the most desperate of simps probably wouldn't go for that.
Both of them agreed with the guy about the trip. And her response is to trash them for that! Immature piled on top of entitled and whiney.
Even when you can see that a guy is crushing it, having fun, extremely happy, I've never heard a man say "it's the happiest I've ever been". Women will be crying and upset while screaming "I'm so happy". Something doesn't add up!
If she gives you an ultimatum, never bend to her.
If you give me an ultimatum thats that , it doesn't even matter what it is , hell I may even want to do it, but will refuse if it is an ultimatum.
If I ever get that thrown to me. I’m out
Loving, caring, unselfish women don't give their men ULTIMATIUMS...run like the wind if an entitled, spoiled little bratty gal does!!!!!
Never deal out ultimatums and then be surprised when he walks. As he should.
Don't push with an ultimatum because you will get pushed out the door.
@@bunkyman8097 yaaaaappppp
7:39
She calls that the happiest she’s ever been.
Must be without her medications.
I don't know if she gained more respect for him, but he likely lost the respect he might had for her.
She probably did; realized he is a strong centered man. But at a high price for her.
I’m the same way, I don’t respond to ultimatums well. I will do the exact opposite of what they want on purpose. I refuse to be pressured by anyone
To the lady on here, us men are not oppressed, us men do not care. Period!
The trip girl is a gold digger.. They have only been dating 3 months. She will be doing him a favor by breaking up.
This is why I don't date broke witches.
It's the 21st century.
The days of supporting a family of 12 on a factory wage are long gone.
Pay your own way in life ladies.
There's no such thing as a free lunch.
"If you close the door, we're done". Bish don't threaten me with a good time. Bye Felicia.
Slammed all 4 foors to make sure she understood. She still didnt understand what she did.
Did she say 'you'll never see me again"- great. There's always another one that's better and younger then she is. Ultimatums are fun.
Ultimatums are a dare. Men are kings at dares,remember as a kid your buddies daring you to do something crazy?
I don't do ultimatums. Automatic "See ya never."
And she's awfully irate for someone who's "the happiest she's ever been."
When those legs spread it must have been the best ever, but let's ask the other 2700 guys their opinion ?
Anger and rage. Cannot get over how angry and bitter she is. Glad I'm not the only one to feel this way about her.
She sure sounds happy doesn't she?!
That Screaming Hyena is 100% wrong about single Men being more depressed than single women. All of the Single Men that I know are Happy and Content in their lives.
Meanwhile, most single women are trapped in a depressive state and lone and pine for the attention of Men. -Period!
Exactly
And we'll said!!👍👍
When a woman or even my boss says either or. I always take the or. I don't take kindly to ultimatums
Always 😂😂😂
I had a company owner threaten everyone with either signing a non-compete agreement or he was starting termination paperwork. We told him to get his pen warmed up. He had more to write than we did. He was pissed. We were supposed to cave in just like in his fantasy….
Peace and quiet is the ultimatum and i love em both more than any whaling banshee!
That man and Steve are gonna have a great time on that trip especially with her out of the picture. No calls, no texts, and no gaslighting from some old hot pocket. Entitlement is always repugnant.
That last broad was extremely happy😅😂
🤣
@7:30 - Your typical 'happy to be single" woman. Wow, the level of anger in her.
Thats the happiest she will ever be.🤣
The minute she pulls out her phone BEFORE talking to you you know you are in trouble, This is her ego boost for the day and has nothing to do with you to the future together. Walk away, politely, but quickly.
"she just learned an important life lesson" - no, I don't think she actually did.
She played the fuck around and find out game
Losing no woman is my biggest fear, the only thing I'm afraid of losing in this life is my children
When someone gives you an ultimatum, make then regret it.
Works 100% of the time, my x wife learned this the hard way
The ultimatum itself told him how much SHE valued the relationship - ie, none.
7.45. That explains an awful lot about women if thats what a really happy one looks like .....
My ex wife gave me an ultimatum 😅😅 Now she's single & upset 😂
There should be a song out of these lyrics.
Can concur. I had an ex-GF give me an ultimatum about marrying her. When I refused, she moved out 2 weeks later. Best decision ever!
He should have shut the door, opened it, told her to get out and left.
When he opened her door, he should have told her to get out and find her OWN f'@#$in way home
She was trying to use him for a free trip
0:25 - 3 months???? Over a year, and you want to know where you stand, I get it. An ultimatum does make sense after a certain period of time. If he isn't committed, move on. 3 months is a joke. Any self-respecting man would outright reject that lady. She's trying to rush you into a bad situation.
Even a year is still too soon , 3 years now we are talking
Ultimatums NEVER make sense as they are a Power game/play. If you give in, it's going to happen again and keep happening until you put your foot down
Once an ultimatum is given, it's best if you refuse to play her game aka: put your foot down. There may be a couple of bruised toes, but you'll both be happier in the long run.
Stay single guys now you know why.
Woman who yells about being out of a relationship for the first time and being the happiest she has ever been is the angriest happy person I've ever seen 🤣
Why would he take her on ANY trip in 3 months? Sounds entitled to me. He's probably going on a trip that she probably can't afford
Ultimatums sound too much like a punishment for breaking her rules. My wife tried that shortly after we got married 36 years ago. She got mad and actually had the gall to tell me I was "cut off" for a couple of days. She wanted to give in after one night, but I rejected her, telling her how disappointed I was that she folded so quickly, let me show how it's done. I coldly rejected her for about a week. It wasn't until she had cried and accused me of not loving her anymore, and finally apologizing several times, before I let it go. Then I told her, "Don't ever think you are going to pull that thing on me like a gun. If you don't want fun time just say no, but don't ever think that you can threaten me with it again. She hasn't.
She once suggested that I sleep on the couch over some argument. I told her it would be a cold day in h*ll before I slept somewhere besides my bed unless I decided to. I told her she could lay there mad and watch me sleep all night or she could sleep on the couch, but she wasn't ever going to kick me out of my bed. That put an end to that too.
Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not perfect and I have made lots of mistakes. But I am a man that can be argued with, not a child to be punished, and when given an ultimatum I will always choose the "or else".
Damn right. If I'm the only one paying for the house, then you can drag me to the couch physically if you want me to sleep on it that badly
PREACH IT, BROTHER! My wife tried this some 30 years ago. I slept in our bed and SHE wound up sleeping on the couch. When she discovered, in the morning, that I was well rested and SHE was the one looking haggard, sleepy and a little grumpy, I too looked her straight in the eye and told her "ultimatums are games and I refuse to play games with you. Don't do it again." We've been married for 44 years.
“I’m the happiest I’ve ever been”
She gaslighting herself.
This is the problem, the woman in the car is risking her relationship to prove to her girlies on social media that she's a "Boss Babe and will keep trying to test her man and embarrassing him to show her followers that she's the "Prize"
And, her saying he'd best not be opening her door? Her name best be on the title, or she's being told ONCE to get out before being pulled out.
Three month relationship, and she drops an ultimatum on a radio podcast that he must take her on the trip or he will never see her again!? Dude dodged a Howitzer!
😂 35yrs still married my husband takes our 4 live-in grandkids on holiday and leaves Drama Queen Me at home 😂...even ducking into town the grandkids exit our farmhouse in different directions, meet up at the gate as hubby is race-reversing down the driveway to pick them up 🤣 then one of the grandkids will ring me and ask if I need anything 😆
That hen screaming is proving to ALL of us that she is indeed happy.😂😂😂
He wasnt done making you look like a fool!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She wants control of the relationship.
I don't give in to blackmail.
My man shut ALL 4 doors. My Mann!!!
Ultimatums don't work....
Especially when no f*cks are given. 😂
That chick yelling sound real happy
Plus his buddy would have paid his own way his girlfriend will expect him to pay for everything
Sitting in passenger seat talking about close the door we done 😂
Good Sunday, People. Hope y’all have a blessed one today. That dude that walked around the entire opening & closing doors was funny as hell. He understood the assignment. She fucked around & found out 😂. But on a serious tip, I don’t respond well to ultimatums. Ultimatums are basically threats. For example, like the chick on the radio 📻, “If you don’t take me on this trip, I’m leaving you”. I will not hesitate to choose the opposite.
The key word in any relationship ladies, is "partner". Not slave, not servant, not your child. Partner, as in equals.
I have done the same thing when given an ultimatum. I told her, “cool I have options, I don’t like playing games.”
I was told several times, “no one will never love you as I have “, before I was given an ultimatum.
Yo bro, open the closing the doors is next level! Salute to that king! low-key told her ain’t nobody coming to see you, Otis
Men don’t take ultimatum’s,we use them.
The girl that dropped the ultimatum about the trip: Her reaction at the end was typical. She screwed up, but she will not admit she screwed up and she blamed him and the call in hosts for her screw up.
" Happy " people always rant & rave like a lunatic off their meds , while cussing and screaming slurs & profanities... c'mon everybody knows this about " happy " people !
Can't make this stuff up fellas.
7:52 the study she’s referencing is flawed. it includes men who are divorced, which heavily skews the numbers
My favorite parts are when the guy already ends it, then the woman says “it’s over” after that.
It was already over, you loserette
I never played that ultimatum bull 💩. Bye Felisha !
She just wanted a free vacation. The fact that it was with him was immaterial. She'd probably be looking for his replacement too.
“I can call the spirits from the vasty deep.'
Hotspur: Why, so can I, or so can any man;
But will they come, when you do call for them?”
People who cite statistics to bolster their argument should give the source, Anything else is just calling spirits.
My GF driving "you should change or together its finished"
Me "stop the car its done"
Her "really?"
Me "yes all done "
Her since 5 years "i regret to let you leave..it was my biggest mistake ever"
Me "bloques "
2 years of relationship end up cause she thought i will accept that 😂
Women also try to make guys jealous by saying they might go out with someone else. i say "Have a good time. Dont bother me again."
Don't play poker unless you are willing to be called out and LOSE.
The answer to every ultimatum should be "Have a nice life".
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
Please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
You can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
I know of exactly one case in which an ultimatum was justified: he didn't want to be helped, became more addicted to alcohol and she gave him an ultimatum to get help or she would leave with the child. He understood that, but she also helped him in every way to get sober, which he still is today. The rest of the ultimatums I heard were much more like "I want this for MYSELF".
Years ago I won a competition for an all expenses paid trip to Barcelona, and two tickets to see FC Barcelona, whilst Messi was still playing for them. I chose to take my best friend, a fellow soccer fan. My ex was furious I didn’t pick her. I knew her plan was for us to go to Spain, then ditch the game to explore Barcelona. No chance!
She gave me an ultimatum. Take her or we were done. Easiest decision I ever made. Best friend and I had the best time watching the GOAT!
7:32 Everytime I see this woman she's yelling. Who wants to deal with that?
He shld have told her she can come if she pays her own way and contributes equally….
the weird thing with online dating its no patience, its go go go from the start, gone are the days of getting to know eachother, there seem to be a rush to go from friends-lover-relationship, days-weeks-months of courting is gone , everyone is in a hurry
The crazy lady at the 10-minute mark, we have no doubt to why she is single. Maybe if all these women who are single who would just worry about their situation and not concern themselves with what every other woman and their business, maybe they can find someone. This woman is trying to destroy marriages because Her's didn't work out.
Wow-girl who gives ultimatum lose opportunities
The way she turned it around on him after making it clear she would leave, but when he does close the door, she then puts it in his court. Now, it's about whether he wants the relationship. It's about power. I'm sure she'll claim it was a joke, but what she showed him is that she will stay regardless, and that's not good for her.
I would ask her to leave my car. The relationship should be based on mutual respect, not threats and I WILL RESPOND ACCORDINGLY
4:45 'And I actually hate you all'. That is literally what a 6 year old would say 🤯
Man are the leader in relationship while Woman nothing more but advisor.
The girl who didn't get invited on the trip sounds like the control freakiest of control freaks. It's not the most original response, but: bullet dodged.
_"I'M THE HAPPIEST I'VE EVER BEEN!!!!"_ 😡😡😡
Okay then. 🤣
Only "SITH" deal in absolutes!!
He should have gotten back in, shut his door, opened hers and told her to get out of his car.
No. Therapy is a scam.
It's called grow tf up.
Whining is for children.
She sounds very happy
My response to the garden took on the radio would be: “Serena, I am not taking an ex girlfriend on a trip. Step off, bish.” Then block and ghost.
Ultimatum's are a fools game
That's her happy?!?! Holy Hell!
And what are we supposed to be "looking up"? Happiness cannot be tabulated, derived or measured. It's completely subjective.
Having done psychology the only time an ultimatum should be given is when a person is behaving in away that will ultimately destroy the relationship. For example, alcoholism... this will not only destroy the life of the alcoholic, but the lives of everyone around them.
If it's these types of selfish, self-centred, self-righteous ultimatums, yeah, kick their arse to the kerb. People with type B personality disorders like NPD make these types of demands.
You get an ultimatum from a girl, you immediately walk away. It's a losing situation.
Yup, been there done that, not like the door thing😅😅
But in a different scenario..😊😊
I like the voice of the older cartoon guy. Sounds so British.
Why the anger if you feel happier!
OMG #3 shut it !! She’s talking 💩💩💩. Yeah she really looks happy. 😂😂
Naw...you guys aint sorry serena hung up. YOU ARE ACTUALLY MORE HAPPY FOR THE GUY WHO SET BOUNDRIES. BOTH OF YOU. ME TOO.
Men are never more depressed than women being single. We are not whining on the internet. We are not screaming on RUclips about being happy trying to convince ourselves of our happiness, lol.
"Do you want to be with me or no?", um I'm guessing no, how many times did he close the door? Next words out of his mouth should be " Get TF out of my car."
Why should he care MORE about the relationship than she does ?
If it's a fact that older single women are the happiest (that has been debunked, I know) then why do they absolutely dominate the antidepressant market?
She won't learn anything from this. Given another opportunity she will try it again and will bad mouth the guy and won't accept any responsibility.
If you bend to her ultimatum once she will do it again as a way to gaslight, manipulate you and control the relationship.
I believe that sometimes ultimatums are appropriate.
Real case:
A friend of mine is badly allergic to the dander from ferrets. Through an allergist his allergy was determined.
Then his wife went out and got a ferret! He started getting sick. He told his wife they would need to rehome the ferret.
She refused.
He said, "I refuse to live like this. I will not be sick all the time."
His wife lost her schitt. They were separated about two days later.
She chose the ferret over him.
Great video
Every time I hear a woman give an ultimatum like this, all I hear is Pink Floyd.
"If you don't eat your meat, you can't have any pudding! How can you have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?"
We ain't 8 years old and you can't blackmail us into doing what you want.
3 months - 3 years does not matter.
Give me a ultimatum and I am gone.