Learned that the hard way as a young guy, it was only a joint bill paying account, I kept my own account and insisted she kept hers. She just about cleaned it out when out with her gaggle and drunk because she had put money in there so in her eyes it was her's. Of course her account was just about empty. Had to work another evening job to keep the wolves from the door. There was perpetual whining because I wouldn't give her what was in my account, didn't care that she ate because of that money, that was just boring. When I got paid from both my jobs I left half of the outstanding bill money, ditched her and moved in with friends across town. I had a great time, hadnt had so much money since I moved in with her, it definitely wasn't "boring".
@josephhelp87 since you said that, funny story for ya my neighbor is a female & she pretty much lost all of her money dating a guy for a few months and had conjoined bank accounts he straight up used her & took all her money. 😂 I laughed at her stupidity
Wouldn't have argued with her. She would have mysteriously received divorce papers, and yes, that money would've been in the settlement. Avenue of escape closed off.
I doubt he would see a single dime in a settlement. If she took from a joint account and her name is on it, technically she can legally take whatever she wants from it for whatever purpose she desires by law. That's why you don't put any more money than needed into a joint account to pay off bills , etc...and you monitor the accounts for anything wrong. How I would handle it is to snoop around and see if she has a hidden account and try to find the password and transfer the stolen money back into the joint,and then back into mine. Without her knowing. Then I would give her divorce papers.
@@wendigos_eat_people7177 Sadly, you're right. That's why I don't believe in joint accounts and there's no way I'm giving a woman access to my financials.
Same s*** happened to me before where my ex was stealing money and thinking she was slick when we were together and now that's why I shake my act and she thought she was slick
what she does not realize is that she is in fact "stealing" from the family, and in essence "hiding" money from the spouse, which is supposed to be a huge negative in divorce court. of course modern judges may tell her good job stealing from the family for her personal benefit.
Wow. That first harpy is absolutely amazing. She actually tried justifying her b.s. She literally said "You are making money for us. I'm taking money away to give it only to me." If it were me, I'd open a separate account just for me, have all my paychecks put into that account and not put another dime into the joint account. She can live on what she already stole.
I damn sure would make it so that there was no more money in the account she has access to. Give her an allowance just enough to pay for the groceries!
Joint accounts work .. if the woman is trustworthy. I created our joint account after 20 years of being married. 😂. She has proven to be a wife after 2 decades I guess...
Yup. If they had a joint account for paying bills or putting money towards a vacation or something and they each had separate accounts then that'd be one thing. Straight up stealing $22k and acting like it's not a big deal is insane.
All the times you were stressed out about a bill or had to cut spending, meanwhile she was hiding all this money. If she wasn't doing anything wrong, why keep it secret?
@@ThrifterGuy He should have filed for divorce with the evidence of her syphoning funds into her own account with the assumption of the marriage ending. She's got someone she's interested in.
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Doesn't matter, the courts will side with her on some legal technicality (he said she said). After that they'll issue her custody, the home or apartment which he will continue to pay for, and child support. Best case scenario she keeps the house and half of everything, they get split custody and he continues to pay her child support.
Bruh this conversation is going far too long. Get that money back in the account and get a lawyer, get a divorce and get gone. U came in from work and she sitting in the bed doing absolutely nothing in the damn daylight.....and I aint heard a single child around
@@tommygunn2782lets be real here my guy.......generally speaking you would be correct.....but has your wife ever stolen 22k from you???? There is gonna be words exchanged about that,just from the anger alone. Id give him a pass. But id definently call the lawyer immediately afterwards.
@@tommygunn2782No we arguing about that money and she better put it back or at $22,000 dollars there’s going to be some serious furniture moving happening around that house. Edit: Also that joint account is going to be closed prior to me returning to the home. She better stretch that money out because she wouldn’t see another penny until the divorce was settled. Hopefully she will have to return the stolen money and children in divorce court.
@@tommygunn2782 Unfortunately I know, but stealing $22,000 dollars will probably illicit that response out of me. That being said you’re right, but…🤷🏾♂️
If she wants to have an "escape account" here's a thought. Get a job and put some of the money that you earned on your own into that account. Don't sneak it out of a joint account that your husband reasonably expects will be available for paying bills and meeting household expenses. It is not to fund your escape account.
She’s not struggling, he is struggling😂😂😂 fellas stay away from this toxic women. I’ve been single for about 15 years. The best thing I have ever done! I got paid off Mercedes-Benz, I got all the guns that I want, I even got $4000 night vision monocular because I could so I got it! Guys stop wasting your time and your money and effort these ungrateful women.
financial abuse. they break all types of laws. crimes committed and they still not held to the fire. stay single, men. keep your money and the emphasis on YOUR. her money is hers, your money is hers and yours. nonsense does not add up. walk away, men
The woman who took $22K she's saving for herself, not the family or the kids just herself. If she wasn't her husband would have been informed of the money. While I do agree with the one comment regarding needing more back story her comment about how she needs to be okay rather than saying the kids and her is very concerning.
I know blk guys right now who date these kind of wmen, call themselves male-fmnsts, and make all kinds of excuses when their girlfriends disrespect them. Surprise, surprise, these guys are from single mohter homes.
Women like this is easy to combat keep your mouth shut reclaim your founds put everything in your moms name File for divorce ( she finds out only when the papers come ) Then you tell her she will find out what's it all about in court End of conversation 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yeah, that was my main problem with this. Contact a divorce lawyer and keep a cool head about everything. Let her try to explain stealing $22k to the judge. And even if the judge takes her side it's better to get out of that toxic relationship and move on.
I served in the army. And i learned from the other soldiers that got screwed to never let a woman manage your finances. They'll just take it for themselves.
20% of men initiate divorce. This guy should be in the 20%. Do it today. Something like this happened to me. I was simpin' working 2 jobs for a woman. Got to wondering where the money was going. Found out the girl owed her employer $5000 in advances that was coming out of her paycheck every 2 weeks. Never told me until, get this, somehow she bought $2500 motorcycle, when she actually needed a car. You can't make this ish up.
They are fine anyway. Once trust is destroyed it’s almost impossible to get it back. She’s being sly and lying by omission and stealing money for herself. She’s leaving anyway. He should get a private detective in her she’s probably having an affair.
No matter how much she whines and cries and complains DO NOT LET HER HAVE ACCESS TO YOUR ACCOUNT and no matter how much she says it hurts her feelings that you don't trust her GET A PATERNITY TEST BEFORE YOU SIGN A BIRTH CERTIFICATE Her feelings are hurt? Weigh that against having your life's work stolen, or being forced to pay 18 years for a child you find out you didn't make. DO NOT FALL FOR THE WATERWORKS if she threatens to leave, she'd be doing you a favor.
She’s wrong in any way at all. There should’ve been discussion about it $22,000 is a lot of money. If I was him, I would tell her I’m cutting back the eight hours a day you’re getting a job.
She's clearly planning on leaving him. Typical tactic. Also why are these men listening to these shrews talk and then deciding hey i want to hear this nail on chalkboard voice for the rest of their lives 😵😵
The last girl was a perfect example of today's society. So many know the buzz words and the key words and tricky phrases, but they don't really understand them. When you challenge them, they either go deranged trying to argue both sides or they go silent as they start to recognize they are screwed up.
I think this type of accounting is widespread 😂 I suspect my ex did this and would complain about finances. Good thing she didn’t know about the 10 year rule that enables one to take some of your retirement funds…we divorced at 9.5 years.
He said he's struggling but she's saying to him they need more money that's why he's working so much because she's putting money somewhere else 22 grand is enough to start a business!
Betting she’s got a side piece she’s planning an escape with. She’s prepping for when he would inevitably catch her cheating and divorce her, so she needs her divorce fund ready.
There is no 50/50 in a marriage. If one spouse puts in 50% and the other spouse puts in 50%, that marriage only produces 50% worth. Not 100%. The average for that marriage is 50%. 50% each simply means that both spouses have half their bodies outside of the marriage. They are not acting as a whole marital unit. Only when both spouses contribute 100% each do we see a marital unit of one working together as a whole. This 50-50 is nonsense as they're both looking towards divorce. You never give half and expecting 100% as a marriage. That is insane!!!
Every week, I tell guys that the woman that tells him they love him, and sleeps with him, *will* be his enemy later. the probability is over 60%, and women lost their souls. Something snapped in modern women. It's bizarre. You can see this *all* day, on many platforms, and with friends. It's not a small anomaly. I suppose that feminism won, and destroyed marriage. My wife was born in Shanghai, and the difference with her and her friends, vs our US friends is stark. My close buddies are in Russia, the Philippines, and Vietnam. The difference in culture is shocking. A Western woman seems to be the maturity level of a nine year old, and cant even cook. LOL Well, here we are. I'll be back in Malaysia in four months. I'm staying there. Keep your eyes open, brothers.
This woman is selfish and does not have any respect for her husband. You should make sure that rainy day she saving for happens sooner rather than later sir....let her see how far that 22k will take her
I trusted my daughter with the finances by the time she was four by the time she was 7 our house had so much money and she didn't give her mom a lick we had it all because we worked for it
She has to make sure 'she's good'...so why doesn't she get a job to do it? Does HE have any savings? And if they 'break up' today? Who cares what happens to her that's her problem.
This is why so many men are afraid of marriage. This woman quite literally has one foot out the door and is trying to cheat her husband out of money. He should immediately file a petition to freeze all marital assets and then divorce her because that is a new level of selfishness
This guy needs to recover his 22K. First, he must go to the bank and block her access to his account. Then he needs to report this to the police and make a report. Then he must have her criminally charged, tried, sentenced, and jailed.
Brother, divorce her now!!! It might hurt but she's a thief and setting up her exit!!!!so selfish and she doesn't care!!! RUN BROTHER RUN!!!!
Forget a hurt, he will be alright. Showing feelings and emotions after a divorce is a simp crybaby move.
Don't know the living circumstances. But instead of taking her husband 's money . She could get a job and set up her own savings account.
He cant run far. They have kids.
Not divorcing her will hurt more.........she was stealng from their own provider.
@jonthomson9262 Then going to court she would more than likely ask him for more money. Your right 💯.
This woman is cheating. He should file for divorce immediately.
A cheating thief........stealing from her own provider.
100%
Yep. 22k is not nail money got to love how other women support this behavior.
The audacity it takes to be angry someone is confronting you for stealing 22k
She is a narcissitic sociopath.
He would be in deep s**t if he did that. He'd have a lawyer digging through his history looking for other hidden accounts.
If she saved an allowance or whatever but if have big bills like it sounds that’s fux up
She is the one planning to leave. Immediately file for divorce!
That’s too much talking. I’d leave and call a divorce attorney right then and there.
No say nothing transer everything into your moms name
When she is ready for divorce nothing for her to get
There's no WAY I that I could trust her ANOTHER day AFTER THAT!
Exactly. Wife or not, I am not getting a joint account with nobody.
I might do more than that..............imagine STEALING FROM YOUR PROVIDER. BITING THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU??????
Get the hell out !
Never let a woman have control of the finances. I learned that the hard way.
Bingo🎯
Learned that the hard way as a young guy, it was only a joint bill paying account, I kept my own account and insisted she kept hers. She just about cleaned it out when out with her gaggle and drunk because she had put money in there so in her eyes it was her's. Of course her account was just about empty. Had to work another evening job to keep the wolves from the door. There was perpetual whining because I wouldn't give her what was in my account, didn't care that she ate because of that money, that was just boring. When I got paid from both my jobs I left half of the outstanding bill money, ditched her and moved in with friends across town. I had a great time, hadnt had so much money since I moved in with her, it definitely wasn't "boring".
@josephhelp87 since you said that, funny story for ya my neighbor is a female & she pretty much lost all of her money dating a guy for a few months and had conjoined bank accounts he straight up used her & took all her money. 😂 I laughed at her stupidity
NEVER!!!!!!!
100%
Divorce her now. She is going to clean the account out.
Hopefully he already closed that account.
@@jonthomson9262 Legally, he can't.
Wouldn't have argued with her. She would have mysteriously received divorce papers, and yes, that money would've been in the settlement. Avenue of escape closed off.
I doubt he would see a single dime in a settlement. If she took from a joint account and her name is on it, technically she can legally take whatever she wants from it for whatever purpose she desires by law. That's why you don't put any more money than needed into a joint account to pay off bills , etc...and you monitor the accounts for anything wrong.
How I would handle it is to snoop around and see if she has a hidden account and try to find the password and transfer the stolen money back into the joint,and then back into mine. Without her knowing. Then I would give her divorce papers.
@@wendigos_eat_people7177 Sadly, you're right. That's why I don't believe in joint accounts and there's no way I'm giving a woman access to my financials.
She prefers to take his money instead of work
This is every woman’s entire game 😂. Why is everyone’s acting like this isn’t the dynamic between men and women?
@@JohnDoe-pd4jo there are assassinations everyday so we should be insensitive by now
Don't know if she was a stay at home mom. But she should have thought about making her own money.
He was providing for the enemy..........
@@JohnDoe-pd4jothen why do men get married?????
She's a Typical Modern Woman , the way she jumped in his Face when he walked in the Room.
Modern women are not the only women that do this. I know older women who do this I’m talking about old enough to be your grandma.
"They need to get a job." Wow, she needs to get a job!!!! Period and be quiet!
First woman has a side-dude and is planning her escape with the side dude.
And maybe the "side dude" will rip her HER off. What goes around, comes around.
Try that shady crap in a business partnership and the courts have a name for it, Embezzlement.
She’s just looking out for herself. Wow. What a shocker.
She just STEALING..........from her own provider.
Same s*** happened to me before where my ex was stealing money and thinking she was slick when we were together and now that's why I shake my act and she thought she was slick
This is why you DON'T give in to having a joint account. Keep your finances separated, don't get joint credit cards. Protect yourself at ALL TIMES!!
what she does not realize is that she is in fact "stealing" from the family, and in essence "hiding" money from the spouse, which is supposed to be a huge negative in divorce court. of course modern judges may tell her good job stealing from the family for her personal benefit.
She does realize it........she just doesnt give a damn like any common theif. She is a narcissistic sociopath.
You are unfortunately correct here. I like how you worded things.
She was planning her exit and its disgusting.
Wow. That first harpy is absolutely amazing. She actually tried justifying her b.s. She literally said "You are making money for us. I'm taking money away to give it only to me." If it were me, I'd open a separate account just for me, have all my paychecks put into that account and not put another dime into the joint account. She can live on what she already stole.
I would make sure I get my money back even if the lawyers cost more than the money stolen. Its the principle too.
I damn sure would make it so that there was no more money in the account she has access to. Give her an allowance just enough to pay for the groceries!
Damn!!! That dude better get a paternity test today... Shes proved that she is willing to lie to him.
You can see in her eyes that she is a liar and cheater, leave her immediately
Never have a joint account.
Joint accounts work .. if the woman is trustworthy. I created our joint account after 20 years of being married. 😂. She has proven to be a wife after 2 decades I guess...
Never get married
@@krpinckneyi guess.........
Good that it works for you, but didn't work for many unfortunately@@krpinckney
Joint house account makes sense
She's stealing his money. It would be one thing she had her own earned money
Yup. If they had a joint account for paying bills or putting money towards a vacation or something and they each had separate accounts then that'd be one thing. Straight up stealing $22k and acting like it's not a big deal is insane.
All the times you were stressed out about a bill or had to cut spending, meanwhile she was hiding all this money. If she wasn't doing anything wrong, why keep it secret?
I bet she's already cheating
Truth.
And that money 💰 was supposed to go to her down payment for a new house.😂😂😂
FACTS!!!!!
He should have filed for divorce, use the bank statement against her in court.
The courts wouldn't care about that. Unfortunately.
@@ThrifterGuy He should have filed for divorce with the evidence of her syphoning funds into her own account with the assumption of the marriage ending. She's got someone she's interested in.
And this video!
@@Rudromukherjeenerv Yep, He has evidence.
@@winniethepoohandeeyore2 Doesn't matter, the courts will side with her on some legal technicality (he said she said). After that they'll issue her custody, the home or apartment which he will continue to pay for, and child support. Best case scenario she keeps the house and half of everything, they get split custody and he continues to pay her child support.
Sorry darling 20,000 dollars is not a LITTLE money on the side. Also, if she isn't working then it's not her money to take anyway
Bro, the chick with the 22 racks snatch from the husband talking about if we break up today …. ain’t no if “we done” bih you got to go!
Bruh this conversation is going far too long. Get that money back in the account and get a lawyer, get a divorce and get gone. U came in from work and she sitting in the bed doing absolutely nothing in the damn daylight.....and I aint heard a single child around
@@tommygunn2782 exactly bro
Stealing.........from her own provider. Biting the hand that feeds her.
@@tommygunn2782lets be real here my guy.......generally speaking you would be correct.....but has your wife ever stolen 22k from you???? There is gonna be words exchanged about that,just from the anger alone. Id give him a pass. But id definently call the lawyer immediately afterwards.
@@tommygunn2782No we arguing about that money and she better put it back or at $22,000 dollars there’s going to be some serious furniture moving happening around that house.
Edit: Also that joint account is going to be closed prior to me returning to the home. She better stretch that money out because she wouldn’t see another penny until the divorce was settled. Hopefully she will have to return the stolen money and children in divorce court.
@@tommygunn2782 Unfortunately I know, but stealing $22,000 dollars will probably illicit that response out of me. That being said you’re right, but…🤷🏾♂️
If she wants to have an "escape account" here's a thought. Get a job and put some of the money that you earned on your own into that account. Don't sneak it out of a joint account that your husband reasonably expects will be available for paying bills and meeting household expenses. It is not to fund your escape account.
He married a bird. This is how birds respond. She's not taking any accountability.
what are the odds he's from a single mohter home, and thinks this level of disrespect is normal.
She belongs to the street!
From the streets she came ,to the streets she shall return.
She’s not struggling, he is struggling😂😂😂 fellas stay away from this toxic women. I’ve been single for about 15 years. The best thing I have ever done! I got paid off Mercedes-Benz, I got all the guns that I want, I even got $4000 night vision monocular because I could so I got it! Guys stop wasting your time and your money and effort these ungrateful women.
Now he knows where that second job money was going.
He found her in bed when he came home. That says it all.
Divorce her immediately.
financial abuse. they break all types of laws. crimes committed and they still not held to the fire. stay single, men. keep your money and the emphasis on YOUR. her money is hers, your money is hers and yours. nonsense does not add up. walk away, men
3:14 you’re something is interesting when you go to divorce court a man can’t hide his money yet she can hide hers
Damn...ill NEVER EVER....GET MARRIED...
The woman who took $22K she's saving for herself, not the family or the kids just herself. If she wasn't her husband would have been informed of the money.
While I do agree with the one comment regarding needing more back story her comment about how she needs to be okay rather than saying the kids and her is very concerning.
She would have disappeared at that point why these dudes open joint accounts with these women is beyond me.
Why men still get married is beyond me.
They see other couples married or not doing the same thing and think it's normal or natural thing to do.
That’s what happens when you pick a ratchet woman 😂
he's flabbergasted that she'd do this to him. shocked. befuddled.
why does she have access to HIS income/money.? Hell NO!!! time to go. Bye Felecia
I blame the husband, why get married to this low quality under these sexist laws?
guys are dumb
She put on a facade and masked her flaws. If he don’t leave now. He’s a special kind of stewpid and a simp.
This is most women do to beta male providers..........
The fact that this beta chump is sitting there arguing with her shows he’s too beta and emotional. I’d calmly walk away and be gone
I know blk guys right now who date these kind of wmen, call themselves male-fmnsts, and make all kinds of excuses when their girlfriends disrespect them. Surprise, surprise, these guys are from single mohter homes.
Women like this is easy to combat keep your mouth shut reclaim your founds put everything in your moms name
File for divorce ( she finds out only when the papers come )
Then you tell her she will find out what's it all about in court
End of conversation 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Yeah, that was my main problem with this. Contact a divorce lawyer and keep a cool head about everything. Let her try to explain stealing $22k to the judge. And even if the judge takes her side it's better to get out of that toxic relationship and move on.
She straightened betrayed him out with divorce and leave her
😂 she wasn't given money, she stole money.
You know, women sometimes end up "taking off" or disappearing and the men end up with empty hearts and empty wallets
I served in the army. And i learned from the other soldiers that got screwed to never let a woman manage your finances. They'll just take it for themselves.
She is already gone...
That’s Why Men Should Never Give A Woman Access To His Money, Credit Cards, Investments,Etc! 🤦🏾♂️
They have no fuckn logic i swear.
the word is accountability. They have logic, they just pick and choose when to apply it.
20% of men initiate divorce. This guy should be in the 20%. Do it today.
Something like this happened to me. I was simpin' working 2 jobs for a woman. Got to wondering where the money was going. Found out the girl owed her employer $5000 in advances that was coming out of her paycheck every 2 weeks. Never told me until, get this, somehow she bought $2500 motorcycle, when she actually needed a car. You can't make this ish up.
She's gotta go. Consider that 20k a small price to pay her to leave.
The gaslighting is strong in this one. Leave her immediately. She is saving enough to leave your ass.
Shame on her. Pres charges on her!
That’s enough money to make her disappear to the upper room.
They are fine anyway. Once trust is destroyed it’s almost impossible to get it back. She’s being sly and lying by omission and stealing money for herself. She’s leaving anyway. He should get a private detective in her she’s probably having an affair.
Sounds like the woman who moved $22,000 to an alternate bank account without her husband's knowledge is already considering leaving her husband.
Women these days just built different. Everything she do for him? King, it's cheaper to hire a maid AND a chef.
Selfish and disrespect on so many levels.. this marriage is not going to last
No matter how much she whines and cries and complains
DO NOT LET HER HAVE ACCESS TO YOUR ACCOUNT
and
no matter how much she says it hurts her feelings that you don't trust her
GET A PATERNITY TEST BEFORE YOU SIGN A BIRTH CERTIFICATE
Her feelings are hurt?
Weigh that against having your life's work stolen, or being forced to pay 18 years for a child you find out you didn't make.
DO NOT FALL FOR THE WATERWORKS
if she threatens to leave, she'd be doing you a favor.
She was lying in the bed.
Don’t get married.
Better to stay single than it is being with these kind of women
“If you’re making 100k, how much does your man need to make?”
Equal or more?? How about when you lose your income and are making ZERO???
Don't "EVER" open up a joint account with anybody else! You need to keep your own account.
She’s wrong in any way at all. There should’ve been discussion about it $22,000 is a lot of money. If I was him, I would tell her I’m cutting back the eight hours a day you’re getting a job.
Inherently, what she did is considered embezzlement... Which is a felony...
Too many people are agreeing with her. Wonder how many would agree if it was their money being stolen?
She's clearly planning on leaving him. Typical tactic. Also why are these men listening to these shrews talk and then deciding hey i want to hear this nail on chalkboard voice for the rest of their lives 😵😵
Grand Larceny.
Call the police, make a report, go to divorce attorney, and so on.
She violated him.
I remember hearing about this. Men and women both need separate accounts and one account for the bills.
#1 - she has been planning to divorce him.
The last girl was a perfect example of today's society. So many know the buzz words and the key words and tricky phrases, but they don't really understand them. When you challenge them, they either go deranged trying to argue both sides or they go silent as they start to recognize they are screwed up.
I think this type of accounting is widespread 😂 I suspect my ex did this and would complain about finances. Good thing she didn’t know about the 10 year rule that enables one to take some of your retirement funds…we divorced at 9.5 years.
He said he's struggling but she's saying to him they need more money that's why he's working so much because she's putting money somewhere else 22 grand is enough to start a business!
Your soulmate is your teammate! That young lady is spittin! Protect her at all costs.
She needs to get a job😳😱
Betting she’s got a side piece she’s planning an escape with. She’s prepping for when he would inevitably catch her cheating and divorce her, so she needs her divorce fund ready.
I would've never married that woman let alone share a bank account.
Instant divorce .
Love the, "what's yours is ours and what's mine is mine" mentality. My last GF had the same thing going and it was incredibly toxic.
That’s why you never put your spouse, girlfriend, or domestic partner on your account.
There is no 50/50 in a marriage. If one spouse puts in 50% and the other spouse puts in 50%, that marriage only produces 50% worth. Not 100%. The average for that marriage is 50%. 50% each simply means that both spouses have half their bodies outside of the marriage. They are not acting as a whole marital unit. Only when both spouses contribute 100% each do we see a marital unit of one working together as a whole.
This 50-50 is nonsense as they're both looking towards divorce. You never give half and expecting 100% as a marriage. That is insane!!!
Right it's 100/100 or nothing
@real-h1739 it's basically saying to each spouse half their foot is out the door. A marriage cannot exist peacefully in such situation.
All I heard from her is Me me me me me…. She is cheating on him 💯.
Every week, I tell guys that the woman that tells him they love him, and sleeps with him, *will* be his enemy later. the probability is over 60%, and women lost their souls. Something snapped in modern women. It's bizarre. You can see this *all* day, on many platforms, and with friends. It's not a small anomaly. I suppose that feminism won, and destroyed marriage. My wife was born in Shanghai, and the difference with her and her friends, vs our US friends is stark. My close buddies are in Russia, the Philippines, and Vietnam. The difference in culture is shocking. A Western woman seems to be the maturity level of a nine year old, and cant even cook. LOL Well, here we are. I'll be back in Malaysia in four months. I'm staying there. Keep your eyes open, brothers.
How is she not to blame? She could get a job and save her own money.
Aside from getting married (a horrible deal for men), his mistake was giving her access to his finances. Men should NEVER do that.
Infuriating 🤬🤬🤬
This woman is selfish and does not have any respect for her husband. You should make sure that rainy day she saving for happens sooner rather than later sir....let her see how far that 22k will take her
While 20 G isn’t a huge amount, it’s still a clear sign she’s looking for a bigger better deal.
I trusted my daughter with the finances by the time she was four by the time she was 7 our house had so much money and she didn't give her mom a lick we had it all because we worked for it
Stay single fellas and save yourselves, protect your money, resources, seeds and time at all cost.
She has to make sure 'she's good'...so why doesn't she get a job to do it? Does HE have any savings? And if they 'break up' today? Who cares what happens to her that's her problem.
That account is a marriage asset and he can incorporate it into the assets to divide. She didn’t plan on getting caught.
This is why so many men are afraid of marriage. This woman quite literally has one foot out the door and is trying to cheat her husband out of money. He should immediately file a petition to freeze all marital assets and then divorce her because that is a new level of selfishness
The appalling thing is they don't think they have done anything wrong and want to argue about the Rights!
STOP.. GETTING.. MARRIED!!!
darn that 1st wife with the savings is a trash person I hope he got his money and left her
His only mistake was wasting his time discussing this with her and not dumping her on the spot. After taking back HIS money, of course.
This guy needs to recover his 22K. First, he must go to the bank and block her access to his account. Then he needs to report this to the police and make a report. Then he must have her criminally charged, tried, sentenced, and jailed.