I friendzone them back. Just friends only. No protection, no emotional dumping , no outings payed for , no borrowing of money etc . Shows them if I don’t get what I want you won’t get what you want. Let’s just be friends And share a beer and talk about ways to make more money.
This dude waiting 4 years but he could've found and spent time with someone that actually wanted a relationship. Can't get that time back, bro. Father Time will always be undefeated.
What makes it worse as they always stay in that position so long with the most non-special looking women. Anyone willing to do that doesn't love themselves.
More like Chrysler. I worked for pepboys twenty one years ago and most of the cars that needed engine and transmission work was two and three year old Chryslers .
Happened to me, only lasted for 3 months and I chose to walk away, I stopped talking to her and cut all ties with her after I found out she friendzoned me.
@@jcruz2255 facts, you live and you learn, I bet once she find out and good things happening she will crawl back and beg to want me to be in a relationship with her she will be thinking I would wait with an open arm when in reality, she will get a big fat rejection.
Fun fact, if a woman finds you attractive and wants to be with you, she will know whether or not she wants to sleep with you within a day or two at the most. When I was dating, if I wasn't in bed with her within 2 weeks of meeting her, I would cut her off and move on. Never allow a woman to friend zone you, that means she just wants you around so she can use you. Plus, a woman never respects a man who allows himself to be put in a friend zone.
I was friendzoned, once I figured it out, I slept with her sister, then I slept with her best friend. She was always hanging around the house once I started dating her best friend. I think she was jealous, because I had spent almost 2 years chasing her. When we first started dating, we spent time together. We kissed and all that, slept in the same bed, but she didn’t want to go the rest of the way. After 3 more times like this, I was done with her, it was a game she was playing. The next weekend I slept with her sister. I mean I even met her parents and all that, I would even see them regularly. This girl was playing me bad, teasing me, kissing me, but get to the bedroom and say no after 4 times, nope, I’m out! She’s still not married to this day and lives at home.
@@moderndatinghere I know, but she’s beautiful, better than her sister or her best friend. I got to know her, and she was fun to be with, we both made each other laugh, and she was pretty, I was just trying to show her that I wanted only her, but after 4 times of getting me in bed and not doing anything after getting me there in the first place, it was frustrating.
A female "friend" of mine asked me to buy her a drink at the bar the other night. I told her: "Ask your man to buy your drinks!" She says: "He's broke." LOL. That's a YOU problem, sweetie!
if i have interest in a woman and she says she only sees me as a friend its not a big deal. it only becomes a problem when they realize im going to treat tthem like i treat my friends. they usually lose interest in being a "friend" when there is nothing to be gained for them.
Exactly. If she says you are her friend, then treat her just like a friend. No special treatment, attention, validation and no "dates". That is the s**t test a guy can put her through to see if she really only wants to be true friends. And most will fail it
@@gabem6863you don't do that with your friends you be real with them and they'll be real with you that's how it's supposed to be you don't validate them or give them special attention that's something you only do to a significant other
@rogersepeda what's worse older women play the friend zone game 40s and 50s if a woman hasn't grown out of having male friends when she graduate high school then she will be alone and can't take her serious
As soon as he has a woman that calls him her man, she will be jealous. That doesn't mean she will have a relationship with him. It just means she will be jealous and try to bust up his relationship.
I was DMing a chick on Reddit who told me that she decided to marry a guy who had been in her friendzone for 15 years. Talk about cruel on her part and stupid on his part.
Need maintenance?! Okay, I’m a maintenance technician; my job is literally to fix what is broken. That is what maintenance means to me. That is the biggest red flag I have ever seen!
Girls don't put guys in the friendzone, guys just allow it to happen. If he wants more and she doesn't, and they both know it, what's even the point of hanging around? Free yourself and move on.
Thats not always the case, some women ( im guessing a small %) are just bad ppl. I had this girl /women from my past ( a long time ago) send one of her male simp friend ( that was also rejected by her😅) send me her number all the way to my job at the time. And proceded to make me believe she liked me. We would talk on the phone, flirt, exchange poems, love songs etc. All of this, to make long story short so that we could only be "friends". She obviously liked me, but thinking 'she was all that' was more important. So I said, nope find your self another dumb dumb to be "friends" with. And recently, she popped up on my social media out of the blue. Which make things even more confusing as to what she ever wanted/wants with me. At this point all I can say is she needs to stop wasting ppls time and just go her own way.
Fellas you never get out of the friend zone...it's gotta be special circumstances. You gotta save her life or take care of her kids and bills for like a decade or sometimes it's rare but like after 20 years if your consistent she will lift the zone but she probably won't be fine anymore past her prime and have teenage kids.
Thats not how you treat a friend. Thats why men cannot be platonic friends with women unless they are your sisters. A lot of women dont understand the meaning of a friend. Your bros are your friends.
That first dude is 100% going to get out of the friend zone. After she’s ran through several hundred men and she’s in her 40s she’s going to come calling because she has no more options and it’s looking for that retirement set up. Stay strong friend zone Bros!!! 😂😂😂
I found myself in a relationship where, for a month, we spent our time watching movies, drinking wine, and just relaxing together. But after that month, I decided to leave. Later, I heard from a mutual friend that she missed my company and being her movie buddy. I told the friend, "That's exactly why I left. I got the hint, and I refuse to be played." Afterward, I started dating her cousin. When the friend found out, she asked, "Why did it have to be her?" I explained that it wasn't intentional. We just naturally gravitated towards each other, and one thing led to another, and now we're a couple. Since then, the friend has stopped talking to me. If there are any family or friend's gathering where I'm invited, the friend either doesn't show up or makes a quick appearance, and as soon as she sees my girlfriend and me there, she makes up an excuse to leave.
Once in the friends zone I would just move on . Not worth my time . Women want the best of both worlds, to be friends with a guy and have him pay for everything.
I was a simp when I was younger I didn’t know any better. Finally got smart and walked away from it glad I did those women are a mess now. Multiple marriages overweight and massive debt definitely dodge a bullet with those particular women😂
Man, I'd like to know exactly how much he has spent on her, in total. I bet it is 5 figures. Shoulda just bought a motorcycle and enjoyed yourself without regret.
Never been stuck in the friend zone. If it wasn't going to happen I would move on. It's amazing what happens after you move on. They all of a sudden are interested and by then I've moved on. Talk to the hand.
I feel like this was a fast lesson i learned in my late teens and just moved on when i was getting the run around and got plenty of other girls and gf after that cuz i corrected my approach and confidence. Respect yourself and set boundaries, they break them then you walk.
Overweight, metal in the face, tattooed, fake colored hair, long nails, high maintenance etc. etc. No red flags at all. Ignore her and go find another woman to spend time with and i believe 100% she will be calling and begging for his attention. Simps make me just shake my head in disgust.
I was lucky enough to get through the friendzone, our parent's advice on how to treat women, etc. back in school/college years. Now that I know what the world really is like, I can grind, grow and thrive and by the time I hit my prime at 35, I'll have all the stuff sorted out living my best life.
My dad always told me to run if a girl asked me how much I make on a first date, because all she should be concerned about is the hot meal and appropriate conversation
Good for dude who refused to pay that 120, imagine a man saying I need you to pay for my cut and my Jay's, NO WOMAN on a first date is going for that so to think a man is going to do this for her is beyond me
Wish my late teens and 20s self had the self respect to know that :/ I'm in my 30s now and being spineless enough to allow the friendzone all those years has filled me with nothing but bitterness, anger, resentment, etc.
i was friend zoned i still hang out whit the girl then i got her prettier friend to go out whit me and believe me the satisfaction it gives after a couple weeks of going out whit her friend .At a nightclub one night i go out for smoke and then she pull a move on me telling me how good i was and leaning on me at the same time . I told her thanks bro for introducing me to her friend and leaving her whit a smoke she bummed me alone .
Nothing wrong with being in freind zone. Just dont expect to get out. Also dont be a chump and paying for her stuff and listening to her ranting about her boyfriend.
If you're still allowing women to put you in the friend zone after high school, you clearly didn't have your father in your life to show you how to be a man and prioritize yourself over acquaintances. A woman knows exactly what she wants from a man within a few moments of meeting. Women that put men in the friend zone, legitimately don't see those men as men that can get women. Hence the reason they show absolutely zero interest in you until you actually have a girlfriend. If you do get a girlfriend and have a female that puts you in the friend zone. She's either going to profess her love to you to pursue a relationship, only to break up with you when she realizes that you did it for the wrong reasons. Leading to her saying that she thinks you guys should just go back to being friends. Or she's going to try to manipulate you into believing that the woman that you're currently with, is not the right woman for you. Both scenarios end up with you being single and back under her control.
The thing about the friendzone is that if the chick suspects that you are about to ditch her. She will do something extreme enough to make you believe that you still have a chance like kiss you or maybe even give it up especially if she relys on you to pay for her stuff. But thats all manipulation tactics to keep you in her trap. Don't be fooled fellas. If she hangs around you but is dating other men. Its time to bounce.
I started my 38 year life with NO FRIENDS. ALL of them are narcissistic, controlling,selfish, OBSESSED with beauty,money, SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE,always getting in trouble and HOPE that I save them. They had tickets for the Titanic...they chose to DROWN. I'm NOT SORRY.-(Demi Lovato. 2017) I'll start from SCRATCH alone...
Brothers women who do this manipulating behavior are awful people. If they in any way cared they wouldn’t do this to you your emotions and feelings and pursuit of happiness are just as important. More and more research is showing 1 in 10 people (women to) are either psychopathic, sociopathic, or narcissistic. You are allowing yourself to be an object trapped in their psychopathy.
I once had a woman ask me to "simp" for her. I told her no. If I ask a girl out and she says we should be just friends. I tell her I have enough friends and walk away. I leave her alone from then on.
I have a couple female friends, the difference is that I have no interest in dating them, both of them have very manly personality and I just treat them like my male friends, I am only attracted to traditional feminine women.
I'm so happy to hear you say its the simps fault... I'm tired of people blaming women when these simps are ruining these women and making them believe they have to get and not give... simps are a joke... hopefully these simps will get it together but I don't see that happening.. its to many desperate men out here
People look at the “simp” and not the girl friendzoning. She can stop asking for things and be an actual friend and just be unavailable and when he asks why tell him he still does not have a gf that is not her. He has poor emotional intelligence but she has no empathy or is greedy.
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The minute he meets another woman and starts dating, watch her get pissed.
or even speak of another one, they get a distant look in the eye, and you can kind of feel they are ticked
After 4 years of willingly being her b***, he deserves the humiliation, and now everyone in his life knows about it.
🤨
How to get woman to stay; drop hints that even after 10 years, you still have options.
Because the attention, and focus is off of her now, that's why she'll be pissed.
Stop calling it the FRIENDzone and call it what it is: the FOOLS zone.
Absolutely, she is not your friend, she is using you. You are the first to call it what it truly is.
Simpzone
@@marathoner43 facts
The simpzone
I know, I feels sorry for those guys wasting their time and resources
I dont friend zone women I block them, simple
so true, at the first signof its not moving forward or friendzoned, im gone, shes blocked.
Me 2.
You can friendzone them as well, they can lead you to another woman. They are great on that.
@@moderndatinghere no need im rich they come to me
Smart man.
Play stupid games. Win stupid prizes. These ladies know EXACTLY what they're doing.
You’re a FRIEND- it’s not a date! Step away from your entitlement
It's difficult for the entitlement to end because simps keep feeding it.
I friendzone them back. Just friends only. No protection, no emotional dumping , no outings payed for , no borrowing of money etc . Shows them if I don’t get what I want you won’t get what you want. Let’s just be friends
And share a beer and talk about ways to make more money.
Thats exactly what I do😂😂😂@@speedlife301
friend, my butt, you a SIMP!
Look at the chick. She’s probably been with 20 dudes in 4 years.
And he is still there waiting for his turn. Its just sad
With 20 dudes at once? :)
20!😂
@@ДмитрийКарпич Google employees commenting now?
20 in 4 weeks😂
This dude waiting 4 years but he could've found and spent time with someone that actually wanted a relationship. Can't get that time back, bro. Father Time will always be undefeated.
This exposure is probably needed.
I feel sorry for him, 4 years is too long. He should be almost engaged if he wasn't focused on the girl who placed him in that spot.
@@moderndatinghere i dont feel sorry for him. he is the one that has been stupid enough to chase someone that will never get with him.
What makes it worse as they always stay in that position so long with the most non-special looking women.
Anyone willing to do that doesn't love themselves.
The WALL Also Remains UnDefeated!
Her: I require Maintenace.
Me: What are you a fucking Buick?
Buick? That's cheap. How about a Range Rover
More like Chrysler. I worked for pepboys twenty one years ago and most of the cars that needed engine and transmission work was two and three year old Chryslers .
Maintenancing a car you don't even get to drive while others do 🤣
@Coincollector81 we're not talking about cars bro 😂
Easy now, let’s go with Ford always breaking down and needing maintenance
He'll get out of the friend zone by walking away from her for good and never looking back!
This is the best thing to do as there isn't any benefit for being in that spot
friendzoned for 4yrs? she must have been giving him false hope.
Definitely! She keeps giving little signals to make him think he might have a chance. They know what to do to keep a guy trapped like that
He is a sucker and doesn't value his time
Or he was raised by a single fefaile.
It's why the only female friends I have are playing for the other team.
Some dudes are just weak like that
Friendzone is just another addition to their roster don't simp just walk away gracefully
Well said, just move on
GHOST 👻
Happened to me, only lasted for 3 months and I chose to walk away, I stopped talking to her and cut all ties with her after I found out she friendzoned me.
Smart. That's 3 months you'll never get back but at least it's not 4 years of your life.
@@jcruz2255 facts, you live and you learn, I bet once she find out and good things happening she will crawl back and beg to want me to be in a relationship with her she will be thinking I would wait with an open arm when in reality, she will get a big fat rejection.
Fun fact, if a woman finds you attractive and wants to be with you, she will know whether or not she wants to sleep with you within a day or two at the most. When I was dating, if I wasn't in bed with her within 2 weeks of meeting her, I would cut her off and move on. Never allow a woman to friend zone you, that means she just wants you around so she can use you. Plus, a woman never respects a man who allows himself to be put in a friend zone.
Well done, that was the best you could have done. I wish more guys had a similar mindset
@@moderndatinghere yup, thanks and I agree.
"I require maintenance...." LMFAO!!! These girls are WILD with the entitlement.
I was friendzoned, once I figured it out, I slept with her sister, then I slept with her best friend. She was always hanging around the house once I started dating her best friend. I think she was jealous, because I had spent almost 2 years chasing her.
When we first started dating, we spent time together. We kissed and all that, slept in the same bed, but she didn’t want to go the rest of the way. After 3 more times like this, I was done with her, it was a game she was playing.
The next weekend I slept with her sister. I mean I even met her parents and all that, I would even see them regularly. This girl was playing me bad, teasing me, kissing me, but get to the bedroom and say no after 4 times, nope, I’m out!
She’s still not married to this day and lives at home.
I can see that you are a better player at this game, but 2 years was a long time tho...
@@moderndatinghere I know, but she’s beautiful, better than her sister or her best friend. I got to know her, and she was fun to be with, we both made each other laugh, and she was pretty, I was just trying to show her that I wanted only her, but after 4 times of getting me in bed and not doing anything after getting me there in the first place, it was frustrating.
Good for you
You didn't want a woman, you just wanted sex
A female "friend" of mine asked me to buy her a drink at the bar the other night.
I told her: "Ask your man to buy your drinks!"
She says: "He's broke."
LOL.
That's a YOU problem, sweetie!
EXACTLY. Only time I pay for female friends is the same reason as my guy friends; if they paid for me last week
Once you’re in the friend zone, you won’t get in the end zone
(Sun Tzu, The art of Rizz 1459)
if i have interest in a woman and she says she only sees me as a friend its not a big deal. it only becomes a problem when they realize im going to treat tthem like i treat my friends. they usually lose interest in being a "friend" when there is nothing to be gained for them.
Exactly. If she says you are her friend, then treat her just like a friend. No special treatment, attention, validation and no "dates". That is the s**t test a guy can put her through to see if she really only wants to be true friends. And most will fail it
@@gabem6863you don't do that with your friends you be real with them and they'll be real with you that's how it's supposed to be you don't validate them or give them special attention that's something you only do to a significant other
Bro has been in the friend zone for four years and there ain’t no way he getting out of it
I share the same opinion, he needs to move on.
He can definitely get out of it. But moving on and letting this girl go.
@@jcruz2255 well I suppose that’s true but he’s been there 4 years
@@jcruz2255 I suppose that is true
He is in fool zone not friend zone
Men: "let's just be friends" = "I don't find you attractive, you're never going to get any"
I know some women put guys in the friends zone and get upset when the guy finds someone.
That means she loses the attention and other stuff she is scamming him for
@@russosentowski6113 pretty much
@rogersepeda what's worse older women play the friend zone game 40s and 50s if a woman hasn't grown out of having male friends when she graduate high school then she will be alone and can't take her serious
@@russosentowski6113 it ain’t my problem lol I could care less 😂 if they are alone or not has nothing to do with me .
She requires maintenance like an old car. It's time to get a new car, this one's old, rusty and crusty.
Maintenance? What are you, a car? You come with a warranty?
She said " I require maintenance " that alone would make me leave
So do my car, but the difference is, I can drive it, and it's very reliable.
@@iseehowitis9382the car will take you from point a to point b. Keisha gonna leave you broke down on the shoulder if the highway
I would have left right then and there. She can call Pookie or Ray-Ray to come get her.
If she 'gave him a chance', it would only be temporary anyway.
And she knows that. Her game lasts longer only if he is friendzoned and being given little false signals now and then
When a woman puts you in the friend zone, put them in the phantom zone.
Sounds like the first Brother is doing a prison sentence...😳
4 years, that is a long time
These kind of guys are one of the causes why these women are delusional. Doesn't have the spine to just move on.
As soon as he has a woman that calls him her man, she will be jealous. That doesn't mean she will have a relationship with him. It just means she will be jealous and try to bust up his relationship.
She will be jealous of the other girl getting his attention, not him.
Yep
friend zone is a good sign to dodge the bullet with mind games women! Run!
I ALWAYS accept the Friendzone, but they never want to stay friends as soon as I treat them as JUST a friend, which is immediately
I was DMing a chick on Reddit who told me that she decided to marry a guy who had been in her friendzone for 15 years.
Talk about cruel on her part and stupid on his part.
And will leave him within 3 years and clean him out. Oh yeah, and has been unfaithful during those 3 years!
She saw he was finally making money. She'll monkey branch.
@@patrickluchycky1172 Mo, I think she knew she was running out of time and Chad wouldn’t commit. Chad is a evvill bastard.
15 years… 😢😢😢
Need maintenance?!
Okay, I’m a maintenance technician; my job is literally to fix what is broken. That is what maintenance means to me.
That is the biggest red flag I have ever seen!
Do not pay for lashes and crap even if you are their boyfriend. That is their choice.
For real. Economy sucks and I can't eat fake eyelashes
Some chick I know is trying to put me in the friendzone… I’m about to put her on blasts.
stop giving them attention and move on, its the best you can do.
Play the game. It’s fun. Have a girlfriend and just turn up with her. 😂
Girls don't put guys in the friendzone, guys just allow it to happen. If he wants more and she doesn't, and they both know it, what's even the point of hanging around? Free yourself and move on.
Friendzones are situationships, minus the sex.
Thats not always the case, some women ( im guessing a small %) are just bad ppl. I had this girl /women from my past ( a long time ago) send one of her male simp friend ( that was also rejected by her😅) send me her number all the way to my job at the time. And proceded to make me believe she liked me. We would talk on the phone, flirt, exchange poems, love songs etc. All of this, to make long story short so that we could only be "friends". She obviously liked me, but thinking 'she was all that' was more important. So I said, nope find your self another dumb dumb to be "friends" with. And recently, she popped up on my social media out of the blue. Which make things even more confusing as to what she ever wanted/wants with me. At this point all I can say is she needs to stop wasting ppls time and just go her own way.
Fellas you never get out of the friend zone...it's gotta be special circumstances. You gotta save her life or take care of her kids and bills for like a decade or sometimes it's rare but like after 20 years if your consistent she will lift the zone but she probably won't be fine anymore past her prime and have teenage kids.
Thats not how you treat a friend. Thats why men cannot be platonic friends with women unless they are your sisters. A lot of women dont understand the meaning of a friend. Your bros are your friends.
That first dude is 100% going to get out of the friend zone. After she’s ran through several hundred men and she’s in her 40s she’s going to come calling because she has no more options and it’s looking for that retirement set up. Stay strong friend zone Bros!!! 😂😂😂
Its neither the "Friendzone" nor the "FOOLSzone" its the Simpzone
Men and women can be friends, hang out and chill etc, but do NOT expect girlfriend benefits! Meals and drinks split 50/50, because we are not dating.
Hold the line gents…are actions today will guide how the future goes
I found myself in a relationship where, for a month, we spent our time watching movies, drinking wine, and just relaxing together. But after that month, I decided to leave. Later, I heard from a mutual friend that she missed my company and being her movie buddy. I told the friend, "That's exactly why I left. I got the hint, and I refuse to be played."
Afterward, I started dating her cousin. When the friend found out, she asked, "Why did it have to be her?" I explained that it wasn't intentional. We just naturally gravitated towards each other, and one thing led to another, and now we're a couple.
Since then, the friend has stopped talking to me. If there are any family or friend's gathering where I'm invited, the friend either doesn't show up or makes a quick appearance, and as soon as she sees my girlfriend and me there, she makes up an excuse to leave.
Once in the friends zone I would just move on . Not worth my time . Women want the best of both worlds, to be friends with a guy and have him pay for everything.
I was a simp when I was younger I didn’t know any better. Finally got smart and walked away from it glad I did those women are a mess now. Multiple marriages overweight and massive debt definitely dodge a bullet with those particular women😂
"IF YOU KNOW WHEN SOMEONE WANTS YOU,THEN YOU KNOW WHEN THEY DONT"
4 years in the friend zoon????. Bro, move on because that's not healthy for your testosterone levels.
I know, he just wasted 4 years of his life for nothing. He would be better off redirecting his attention to another woman
Man, I'd like to know exactly how much he has spent on her, in total. I bet it is 5 figures. Shoulda just bought a motorcycle and enjoyed yourself without regret.
I know how much he spent on lotion and vaseline. A lot.
I don't think you have a proper understanding of testosterone and where it comes from because that makes zero sense
@@Farce13 You clearly don't understand when one is being sarcastic. Becarful sounding feminine because that can damage your testosterone levels 🤣
Just don't simp guys. Save your money. Work on yourselves. Live on your terms and don't be thirsty
She knows exactly what shes doing, hes her pay for everything when we go out "friend"
Never been stuck in the friend zone. If it wasn't going to happen I would move on. It's amazing what happens after you move on. They all of a sudden are interested and by then I've moved on. Talk to the hand.
This is a great lesson for men
That man said “I ain’t get no 💆🏽♀️ or NOTHING” 🤣🤣🤣
He was trying to let her know that it's not a good deal for him
@@moderndatinghere I concur it was all bad 🤣
I feel like this was a fast lesson i learned in my late teens and just moved on when i was getting the run around and got plenty of other girls and gf after that cuz i corrected my approach and confidence. Respect yourself and set boundaries, they break them then you walk.
Too much opinion and not enough rejection.
They literally want us to pay and not even give any affection.
I pick up on that friend zone $hit quick. When i see it, i move on. Homey dont play that.
4 years??? She aint that attractive
""my little lashes"" well , go pay for it !!
Overweight, metal in the face, tattooed, fake colored hair, long nails, high maintenance etc. etc. No red flags at all. Ignore her and go find another woman to spend time with and i believe 100% she will be calling and begging for his attention. Simps make me just shake my head in disgust.
She ‘requires maintenance’ bić ain’t you supposed to be already put together 😂
Sad thing is... The dude looks good and seems iced out and has money. He's just chasing the cat with no return.
There is a sucker born every minute and they will find him, its sad but true
The Names Tucker, Not Sucker. Better Chance of Playing LOTTO Than Playing Me. 😂🤣
friendzone is another word for acquaintance.
I don't put in effort for acquaintances.
And sure as hell don’t buy shit for them
Men! Please! There is nothing more unworthy than staying in the friendzone! You get nothing out of it
Yep accepting the friendzone will fill you with nothing but bitterness, anger, resentment, etc. for being so spineless:/
What these girls expect from a man they hardly know is appalling and even if they've been together awhile. What the hell happen to "team" work?
Maintenance is done on a car or house...not on any woman.
pay your own way lady.
I was lucky enough to get through the friendzone, our parent's advice on how to treat women, etc. back in school/college years. Now that I know what the world really is like, I can grind, grow and thrive and by the time I hit my prime at 35, I'll have all the stuff sorted out living my best life.
My dad always told me to run if a girl asked me how much I make on a first date, because all she should be concerned about is the hot meal and appropriate conversation
Friends zone means she's using you & she's blocking you from meeting the woman that really Likes you.
Good for dude who refused to pay that 120, imagine a man saying I need you to pay for my cut and my Jay's, NO WOMAN on a first date is going for that so to think a man is going to do this for her is beyond me
Guys dont be a simp in the friendzone.
Wish my late teens and 20s self had the self respect to know that :/ I'm in my 30s now and being spineless enough to allow the friendzone all those years has filled me with nothing but bitterness, anger, resentment, etc.
First dude waiting for that one “broken heart “ call from her and he’ll play the captain save-a-ho
i was friend zoned i still hang out whit the girl then i got her prettier friend to go out whit me and believe me the satisfaction it gives after a couple weeks of going out whit her friend .At a nightclub one night i go out for smoke and then she pull a move on me telling me how good i was and leaning on me at the same time . I told her thanks bro for introducing me to her friend and leaving her whit a smoke she bummed me alone .
He's good enough to pay for dinner lol
Yeah bro you're 1000 percent playing yourself 😅
Even if he is your boyfriend, you can work just as easily as he can, it's legislated into law. pay for it yourself.
As soon as i make my intentions known,if she's not feeling that,then im gone.
If she ain't your wife, why are you paying?
Nothing wrong with being in freind zone. Just dont expect to get out. Also dont be a chump and paying for her stuff and listening to her ranting about her boyfriend.
cut off the funds and see how she truly is
Keep going MGTOW Gentlemen
There are two ways to get out of the friendzone. You become her boyfriend, or you stop being her friend and cut all ties.
men they use u keeping you in friendzone
I don't feel for simps they made their bed they better sleep in it. 4 years?!!! Damn.
Dude on the sidewalk waiting, leave now, save yourself.
To any woman that has male friends she’s just trying to have options on the table in case it don’t work out
Happened to me, about eight years ago. She basically got a free meal out of me, an my good friend told me thus. It never happened to me again
If I ever get out of it lol. Absolute simp 😂😂😂😂
If you're still allowing women to put you in the friend zone after high school, you clearly didn't have your father in your life to show you how to be a man and prioritize yourself over acquaintances. A woman knows exactly what she wants from a man within a few moments of meeting. Women that put men in the friend zone, legitimately don't see those men as men that can get women. Hence the reason they show absolutely zero interest in you until you actually have a girlfriend. If you do get a girlfriend and have a female that puts you in the friend zone. She's either going to profess her love to you to pursue a relationship, only to break up with you when she realizes that you did it for the wrong reasons. Leading to her saying that she thinks you guys should just go back to being friends. Or she's going to try to manipulate you into believing that the woman that you're currently with, is not the right woman for you. Both scenarios end up with you being single and back under her control.
Four years in the friend zone. Four years she is being pumped by other guys during this time, and he is on the waiting mode?
A gentleman always pays for dates.
When you find a gold digger, give her fools gold.
I have many female friends but I would never simp to any of them
Four years and she isn't even a ten or five
The thing about the friendzone is that if the chick suspects that you are about to ditch her. She will do something extreme enough to make you believe that you still have a chance like kiss you or maybe even give it up especially if she relys on you to pay for her stuff. But thats all manipulation tactics to keep you in her trap. Don't be fooled fellas. If she hangs around you but is dating other men. Its time to bounce.
Pump & Dump men, thats all they are worth.
I started my 38 year life with NO FRIENDS. ALL of them are narcissistic, controlling,selfish, OBSESSED with beauty,money, SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE,always getting in trouble and HOPE that I save them. They had tickets for the Titanic...they chose to DROWN. I'm NOT SORRY.-(Demi Lovato. 2017) I'll start from SCRATCH alone...
Brothers women who do this manipulating behavior are awful people. If they in any way cared they wouldn’t do this to you your emotions and feelings and pursuit of happiness are just as important. More and more research is showing 1 in 10 people (women to) are either psychopathic, sociopathic, or narcissistic. You are allowing yourself to be an object trapped in their psychopathy.
I once had a woman ask me to "simp" for her. I told her no.
If I ask a girl out and she says we should be just friends. I tell her I have enough friends and walk away. I leave her alone from then on.
I have a couple female friends, the difference is that I have no interest in dating them, both of them have very manly personality and I just treat them like my male friends, I am only attracted to traditional feminine women.
That's why women hate Sigmas; they'll just calmly walk away, because they have focus on what matters to them the most...
I'm so happy to hear you say its the simps fault... I'm tired of people blaming women when these simps are ruining these women and making them believe they have to get and not give... simps are a joke... hopefully these simps will get it together but I don't see that happening.. its to many desperate men out here
People look at the “simp” and not the girl friendzoning. She can stop asking for things and be an actual friend and just be unavailable and when he asks why tell him he still does not have a gf that is not her. He has poor emotional intelligence but she has no empathy or is greedy.