@@Thomamps , we both had so little money a lot of our dates were just driving around or watching TV and talking. I was a student and he was in the Navy. After we married, our nights out were at a friend’s house playing cards or, if we had accumulated enough in the change jar, we would go to a pizza place that showed old movies and split a pizza and each get something to drink.
I stopped dating for a year didn't realize I could save enough money and I bought a nice used Corvette thought about going on a date Drove by the furniture store and bought 2 chairs instead
Any woman who is expecting a guy to cover her personal expenses is the one who is broke. That is why they chase guys with money. So, who is the actual broke one in that situation?
I spend an average of three to four hundred dollars feeding birds every month and I feel so content because they trust and wait my arrival and put a smile on my face. What do you get out of these demanding women. Stress and anxiety.
$478 dollars in PRE and POST date expenses? I'd love to see the itemization here. Was she having him pay for a massage the next day to "recover"? What the f are "post-date expenses"? Is she charging for the soap she uses in the shower?
I don’t ever remember dating being this expensive back in the 80s. Or the 90s or the beginning of 2000. These so-called women have gone crazy. No thanksdon’t need any of that.
What is this "when MODERN women expect you to pay when you ask them out" BS!?!? Thats the way it was, at least when *I * was dating. Nothing modern about it. Whomever asks the other person out, pays. That being said, I used the "You go ahead and order....I'm still deciding", and when he placed his order, I'd choose something equal or less in price. If I suspected it might be a "I bought you dinner, so you owe me" crap, I'd insist upon meeting him at the restaurant and then insist on paying my half of the dinner. When I began to date my now- husband, we usually split the bill or treated each other. I kmew he didn't have a lot of money as he was a single dad raising 3 kids by himself. I already knew I'd live on a pile of rocks for him, so I considered every penny i spent as an investment on my future life. And that's all the rambling you're going to get from this old woman today.
This is why I married my wife because she didn't ask me to pay for anything. She always shared 50% when we went on dates and that's why she's my wife today and she still does that to this day
Back when I was dating, if we met at a restaurant. I always let the woman order first. Then after she has ordered the most expensive meal, I knew to have the Waiter/Waitressdo Separate Checks. It weeds out those women out for a Free meal.
Imagine if these conversations were flipped so that women would need to justify how many sexual favors they provided on a first date without looking like a gold digger. What is so special about women that the men are the only ones expected to make an effort or to spend money?
Growing up I was taught that if you are invited out to eat (their treat) then I should order something equal to or less than what they ordered. Also was taught to bring my own $, be grateful, and not be rude. I’ve been married for 27 years; our first date was Taco Bell. He asked what I wanted to eat and that was the cheapest thing I could think of.
Pre and post date expenses???? I would have back charged her for my time, and /or gas used to meet/ pick her up, and ANYTHING else I could come up with. Once she opens the door to stupid-- we BOTH can walk down that hallway.
Back when my wife and I were dating I would spend around 20 to 40 dollars on a date, wow time has changed! We have been married for 32 years now. Just had a date night this past weekend and spent 72$. We live with in our means. Good luck younger people.
A first date when my mom and grandma when they were young was to the diner/Soda shop or to the movies and I am a teenager of the 80s and it was still similar but today OMG. Thank God I've been married almost 30 years and don't have to deal with this crazy stuff.
Good lord, if this is the first date why would you expect someone to hand over that kind of money. You can tell if there is something there going to a nice cafe and ordering something simple. And these ladies are screaming because they are single, honestly it's their own fault.
$300 on a first date? My husband and I don’t spend that much on any date even after 19 years. We MIGHT spend that much on a weekend with out our kids…. And that’s if we go to a hotel.
I'd like to see the receipts for the $300 date she took herself on. Charged to her account , of course. The c&nt that gave a man a bill for expenses is insane. I would've torn it up and walked out and left with the bill for dinner and to find her own way home.
LOL Pre and post expenses? She obviously wanted a free meal but made sure he would leave her alone afterwords. He should have laughed, "I invited you on good faith. But now that I know what you are, we’re just haggling over the price."
No matter how much money a man has, he should always be austere in getting to know somebody. I consider my financial situation as 'privileged' information and there's only one kind of commitment where she needs to know anything about it (or have access to it)... and that's creating family with kids... otherwise, none of her business and no access to it.
Hahaha you in the US have a real problem. In Spain we ALWAYS split the bill in the first dates.... The truth is first meet is not an expensive restaurant but a walk in a park, a coffee, going to beach and share a home made sandwich, going to a trek or similar
They will find themselves in the presence of their date. Mr. Nobody. What the heck were the pre-date charges, the plastic surgery on the lips and who knows what else or the gender reassignment surgery?
I would think meeting for coffee or drinks or a fun activity for a first date would be preferable for first dates for both parties as it provides an easy out if the chemistry isn't there.
So, a real date with a 3 or 4 is now $300? I'd be in serious violation of rule #2 of my 2 rules of happiness. The first date with my wife cost less than $30 in 2003, so, maybe $50 now. 3rd date was a bit more at a nice Japanese restaurant once I knew she was worth pursuing.
I’m sorry but what’s wrong with just meet over a coffee and get to know one another in a inexpensive simple way? I have NEVER been on a dinner date and honestly I wouldn’t go on one either. I can cook for him at home if he’s hungry. I really don’t need a guy to spend a load of money on me, can’t see any reason to why he should.
I am not a part of these crazy ass women today, I would be happy with a nice date walking along the beach or coffee date. Why does it have to be about money? It’s supposed to be about getting to know each other ..
Born in 1970 when I was dating in the 90’s it was common to meet girls out for a drink on me then head to dinner if it went well…$300 off the rip lol nope
If you know you are going to pay $300 and more on a first date that might not work out, you might as well pay an escort, because for $300 (or $479) you will spend the night with a beautiful woman !!!
It's called prostitution when you charge for companionship.
Depends Look at Stormy she's a paid prostitute in actor that's not illegal cause it's called ACTING but street corner is illegal cause it's not acting
AGREED ENTIRELY.
"Companionship" ... 😂
Only if s3x ect. is involved. She's charging quality escort prices when she's average.
Lol, yeah. Its prepaid....kinda like prepaid call.
If you’re not going to pay $300 to date me, ‘just leave me alone’. Your terms are acceptable.
And accepted
Every first date should be dutch. No pressure. No expectations. Relaxed atmosphere. Best way to get acquainted.
My wife and I did all our dating Dutch.
@@Thomamps , we both had so little money a lot of our dates were just driving around or watching TV and talking. I was a student and he was in the Navy. After we married, our nights out were at a friend’s house playing cards or, if we had accumulated enough in the change jar, we would go to a pizza place that showed old movies and split a pizza and each get something to drink.
Pay your own expenses it's not my responsibility. 💯
Or she could just beg her parents to do I since that's THEIR responsibility and duty
I stopped dating for a year didn't realize I could save enough money and I bought a nice used Corvette thought about going on a date Drove by the furniture store and bought 2 chairs instead
That makeup is gross
Yeah, but it has a big job covering up all that...
I like this comment but I will not add a thumbs up because I can't mess up the likes.
Those lips 💋
Those...Those lips...WTAF?
Can’t believe she wanted a guy to cover her clown college.
Any woman who is expecting a guy to cover her personal expenses is the one who is broke. That is why they chase guys with money. So, who is the actual broke one in that situation?
If a man denies them, they are either 'broke' or 'afraid'. I guess only the SIMPleminded fall for that not-so-subtle reverse psychology.
LadyJ is spot on as usual.
She's just hustling from the other side. Tons of makeup and look how she always dresses for the videos.
What the women meant to say was "That's the price, leave it on the dresser."
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She isn't worth 10 cents. "Helloooooo" 🤣
Yeah; $3.04
These things are so entitled I would not spend two pennies and a dime on this trash
She's charging for 100% of all her products, nails, hair, and outfits because they don't know how to amortize😂
he should have unzipped his pants and said I need some things covered too
I spend an average of three to four hundred dollars feeding birds every month and I feel so content because they trust and wait my arrival and put a smile on my face. What do you get out of these demanding women. Stress and anxiety.
1st one. Who punched her in the lips. Call the cops.
The same person who stole your question mark at the end of a question.
I’d rather give $300.00 to a homeless person on the side of the road.
$478 dollars in PRE and POST date expenses? I'd love to see the itemization here. Was she having him pay for a massage the next day to "recover"? What the f are "post-date expenses"? Is she charging for the soap she uses in the shower?
She looks like she eats three hundred dollars worth of food.
I don’t ever remember dating being this expensive back in the 80s. Or the 90s or the beginning of 2000. These so-called women have gone crazy. No thanksdon’t need any of that.
What is this "when MODERN women expect you to pay when you ask them out" BS!?!?
Thats the way it was, at least when *I * was dating. Nothing modern about it.
Whomever asks the other person out, pays.
That being said, I used the "You go ahead and order....I'm still deciding", and when he placed his order, I'd choose something equal or less in price.
If I suspected it might be a "I bought you dinner, so you owe me" crap, I'd insist upon meeting him at the restaurant and then insist on paying my half of the dinner.
When I began to date my now- husband, we usually split the bill or treated each other. I kmew he didn't have a lot of money as he was a single dad raising 3 kids by himself. I already knew I'd live on a pile of rocks for him, so I considered every penny i spent as an investment on my future life.
And that's all the rambling you're going to get from this old woman today.
Wish granted…you will be left alone…
A place she's never been before... The Kitchen!
Get coffee and walk in the park! 😂😂
Ahh, all of these entitled women expect men to pay more for them and their meals than they are worth.
Better hire guest relationship officer than dating them
304! These women are used cars and as such you need to take them on a test drive before any money changes hands.
Good explanation of the purpose of a first date. It's like minimum wage; it was never intended to be a living wage, but a starting point.
This is why I married my wife because she didn't ask me to pay for anything. She always shared 50% when we went on dates and that's why she's my wife today and she still does that to this day
$300 date just "to see if something is there." This is crazy
I blame the Internet for the way some women act these days...they want equality until the check comes out 😂
If she can’t put up the money don’t waste the guys time!
These are the types that wonder why they’re all alone in their 30’s with 10 cats and no one wants them 😂😂😂
Modern women are out of their minds with these expectations.
What are some signs " That she'll be homeless and with a few cats very soon " .... 😂😂😂 ???
as a woman, I am shocked at these women, if I cannot pay for myself, then I do not go. First date is a 50-50 thing imo!
who the f*** would go out on date with that thing???
She is a 90 year old woman, and the pre-date expenses is for all the spak filler that she bought from all the hardware stores in town.
what kind of women do I date? Sane Women!
I would never meet her because I guarantee we don't travel in the same circles.
Back when I was dating, if we met at a restaurant. I always let the woman order first. Then after she has ordered the most expensive meal, I knew to have the Waiter/Waitressdo Separate Checks. It weeds out those women out for a Free meal.
Imagine if these conversations were flipped so that women would need to justify how many sexual favors they provided on a first date without looking like a gold digger.
What is so special about women that the men are the only ones expected to make an effort or to spend money?
Youre a stranger, you don't deserve a meal, just a coffee
Growing up I was taught that if you are invited out to eat (their treat) then I should order something equal to or less than what they ordered. Also was taught to bring my own $, be grateful, and not be rude. I’ve been married for 27 years; our first date was Taco Bell. He asked what I wanted to eat and that was the cheapest thing I could think of.
Pre and post date expenses???? I would have back charged her for my time, and /or gas used to meet/ pick her up, and ANYTHING else I could come up with. Once she opens the door to stupid-- we BOTH can walk down that hallway.
Feminism says separate checks. Yuinz are checking each other out.
Back when my wife and I were dating I would spend around 20 to 40 dollars on a date, wow time has changed! We have been married for 32 years now. Just had a date night this past weekend and spent 72$. We live with in our means. Good luck younger people.
My only response is, "Do you have change for a penny?"
If she paid for that makeup, she needs to get her money back!
You dodged a bullet there, buddy.
She wants him to take her where she never have been before - what’s about …. kitchen
Classic Rodney Dangerfield !
No fathers= $300 dates, because that’s what mom taught them
If the guy says he can't cover this he is a broke SIMP because a real man would say I wouldn't even consider covering this.
😂 This woman hit the Wall and didn't know it.
Ladies of the night know they will hit a point where they can't charge top dollar.
This thing will never have a husband , pay your own bill
Ms pre and post date $$$ - that ‘o’ screams Baltimore. Give her a bill for wasting your time.
Simple solution. She can take him out on a $300 date. Experience how that feels. That assumes she has it.
Inflation, it's everywhere.
Not my expenses? NOT MY PROBLEM!
She should charge by the pound & not by the slice.
a 300 dollar date. ah hell nah. Aint no single woman out there worth a 300 dollar date. an ladies thats a fact
A first date when my mom and grandma when they were young was to the diner/Soda shop or to the movies and I am a teenager of the 80s and it was still similar but today OMG. Thank God I've been married almost 30 years and don't have to deal with this crazy stuff.
Good lord, if this is the first date why would you expect someone to hand over that kind of money. You can tell if there is something there going to a nice cafe and ordering something simple. And these ladies are screaming because they are single, honestly it's their own fault.
Ladies… If you are broke just say so 😂😂😂😂
Kings, know ya worth. Stop simping and stop committing to single moms
Most of them don't eat that day unless a man pays for it
Who complains about shake shack for lunch? Shake shack is damn good for lunch.
What in hell are post date expenses? This is a real question
$300 on a first date? My husband and I don’t spend that much on any date even after 19 years. We MIGHT spend that much on a weekend with out our kids…. And that’s if we go to a hotel.
I'd like to see the receipts for the $300 date she took herself on. Charged to her account , of course. The c&nt that gave a man a bill for expenses is insane. I would've torn it up and walked out and left with the bill for dinner and to find her own way home.
Nose ring tells me everything I need to know.
LOL Pre and post expenses? She obviously wanted a free meal but made sure he would leave her alone afterwords. He should have laughed, "I invited you on good faith. But now that I know what you are, we’re just haggling over the price."
Don't go there. Just know the one from the street corner would be cheaper in the long run and easier to change out.
That pre and post date broad is definitely from Baltimore or Philly 😂😂
I have never taken a woman out on a date and paid. We either go dutch or I invite them back to my house for drinks and music.
Pre date bill? You mean he has to pay for your dress, nails, hair and make up? H No.
If I paid for it I'm taking it with me at the end of the date.
So her salon bill and spa treatments were $$$ and she wanted him to pay.
An escort tells you the cost up front. All i can say is this woman is delusional and going to be alone for a long time
Looks like she's been on a bunch of $300 McDonalds dates
No matter how much money a man has, he should always be austere in getting to know somebody. I consider my financial situation as 'privileged' information and there's only one kind of commitment where she needs to know anything about it (or have access to it)... and that's creating family with kids... otherwise, none of her business and no access to it.
Those reciepts were probably written on a napkin from the 🪨 dealer down the street. 🤫
Hahaha you in the US have a real problem. In Spain we ALWAYS split the bill in the first dates.... The truth is first meet is not an expensive restaurant but a walk in a park, a coffee, going to beach and share a home made sandwich, going to a trek or similar
Who would want to date her 😮
I'm wondering how the food was at the shake shack? Never mind the ungrateful entitled "princess"... Did you get fries too?
They will find themselves in the presence of their date. Mr. Nobody. What the heck were the pre-date charges, the plastic surgery on the lips and who knows what else or the gender reassignment surgery?
I would think meeting for coffee or drinks or a fun activity for a first date would be preferable for first dates for both parties as it provides an easy out if the chemistry isn't there.
People these days are pathetic. I’d be totally happy with a homemade picnic or McDonald’s. 🙄
Learn to avoid a future divorce.
You know, men used to get a dowry.
300 dollar date with that i wouldn't do it for 3 bucks 😅😅😅😅😅
Why would a guy want to finance her botox lip treatments?
If it costs her $475 to look like a 3 what does she look like without all that fake up?
Think Halloween trick or treat .
Yep. T R I C K .......
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pre and post date...WHAAAA?.......PFFT!! get OVER yourself girl!! You are not all THAT anyway!!
Greedy people are repulsive
So, a real date with a 3 or 4 is now $300? I'd be in serious violation of rule #2 of my 2 rules of happiness.
The first date with my wife cost less than $30 in 2003, so, maybe $50 now. 3rd date was a bit more at a nice Japanese restaurant once I knew she was worth pursuing.
Just don't argue when presented with this crap, turn around and leave.
I’m sorry but what’s wrong with just meet over a coffee and get to know one another in a inexpensive simple way?
I have NEVER been on a dinner date and honestly I wouldn’t go on one either. I can cook for him at home if he’s hungry.
I really don’t need a guy to spend a load of money on me, can’t see any reason to why he should.
Always the average broke women wanting the most out of men they just meet😂😂
"Pre and post date expenses", there is a word for that its called "prostitution".
I am not a part of these crazy ass women today, I would be happy with a nice date walking along the beach or coffee date. Why does it have to be about money? It’s supposed to be about getting to know each other ..
Born in 1970 when I was dating in the 90’s it was common to meet girls out for a drink on me then head to dinner if it went well…$300 off the rip lol nope
If you know you are going to pay $300 and more on a first date that might not work out, you might as well pay an escort, because for $300 (or $479) you will spend the night with a beautiful woman !!!