The hardest and scariest month of my life! Why I've not been posting videos...

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
  • I wish I wasn't making this video!
    I wasn't originally going to share this story as it was hard enough to go through it as it was without strangers on the internet having an opinion!
    However if this video can help one person feel less alone with their experience then it will be worth it.
    Plus I have beaten myself up enough about what he went through and feeling like an awful mother for not seeing the seriousness sooner so there is nothing trolls can say that will make me feel any worse than I already do!
    This is Sol story of what he went through and how I almost lost my littlest baby...

Комментарии • 45

  • @S-K.456
    @S-K.456 5 месяцев назад +9

    I'm Paediatric Ventilation Nurse, bronch babies are my daily bread and butter. I reassure parents every day that everything will be fine but watching you telling the story from a parent perspective just made me cry a lot! RSV is very common in the winter season so please please don't blame yourself, you haven't done anything wrong, you are an amazing loving mother ❤ Take time to rest and recover. Thank you for sharing your story and spreading awareness.

    • @ameliasfrugallife
      @ameliasfrugallife  5 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! Your comment also make me cry! 😂
      I really appreciate it!

  • @Caroline-Ann1509
    @Caroline-Ann1509 5 месяцев назад +2

    Oh my goodness what an awful and scary time you’ve had 😢
    All my babies are adults now but I went through a scary time too when one of them was a baby. He is now a strong and strapping 18 year old!
    Sending you a big hug ❤

  • @anastasiabondsfield1709
    @anastasiabondsfield1709 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sending so much love! I'm glad to see him getting better and I hope you all get some well deserved rest :)

  • @hayleygrimston51
    @hayleygrimston51 5 месяцев назад +2

    So glad all ended well and he’s on the road to recovery ☺️. X

  • @nancykaufman1645
    @nancykaufman1645 5 месяцев назад +3

    Poor little thing, what a traumatic experience for all of you! Rest and recover, I will keep you in my prayers ❤

  • @user-iu2ek5vt7e
    @user-iu2ek5vt7e 5 месяцев назад +2

    Glad you’re both doing well. Sorry to hear your little man has been so unwell. ❤

  • @lindastone9385
    @lindastone9385 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wow!!! Thankyou for sharing what has been such a scarey time for you all. Sending up a special prayer for little man and for the rest of you. ❤🙏

  • @carolking4124
    @carolking4124 5 месяцев назад +2

    wow. that is quite a trauma to have, glad you got through and take your time, family is number one, Heal and post when your ready, all you mention sound fine topics to do X

  • @edus82
    @edus82 5 месяцев назад +1

    What a horrific experience, I’m really sorry! ❤

  • @Dianne-ut5vr
    @Dianne-ut5vr 5 месяцев назад +1

    How scary. I am glad he is home and recovering. Take care all of you.

  • @QueenAmethyst55
    @QueenAmethyst55 5 месяцев назад +1

    How traumatic for you all. So sorry Amelia you experienced such an awful time. Im so glad he's ok now. God bless you all. Also thanks to our NHS for all they do

  • @thesmithfamily4224
    @thesmithfamily4224 5 месяцев назад +1

    I know how scary this can be, iv had baby in resus with sepsis and it’s sooo hard and painful to watch, and feel helpless. My twins also suffer with asthma and get hospitalised a lot. Glad he’s on the mend. And don’t doubt yourself we can only ever do what we believe is best at the time. ❤

    • @ameliasfrugallife
      @ameliasfrugallife  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you!
      Oh Mann, sorry you’ve experienced this too!

  • @LisaSchubert13
    @LisaSchubert13 5 месяцев назад +1

    Omg!! You have certainly been through such a difficult time- glad he is feeling better now ❤

  • @susanapereira5983
    @susanapereira5983 5 месяцев назад +1

    I’m glad is feeling better now ❤

  • @laurenbenjamin7849
    @laurenbenjamin7849 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing your experience, it sounds so scary for the whole family 😢 so pleased you're on the road to recovery now xxx

  • @Sweetie8387
    @Sweetie8387 5 месяцев назад

    How terrifying for you and your family. I had similar situation and the ptsd afterwards takes time to heal from and can take professional help. Take care

    • @ameliasfrugallife
      @ameliasfrugallife  5 месяцев назад

      Yes I feel like a different person afterwards!

  • @HappyAtHomeGirl
    @HappyAtHomeGirl 5 месяцев назад

    I wish I could hug you. Thank the Lord that you’re home and it ended the way it did. I’ve been there and it’s grim. I’ve realised that the most frightening thing in the world is a doctor that looks frightened. We nearly lost our daughter when she was 4 and I look back and can only put it down to a miracle that we didn’t. Please be really gentle on yourself. Events like these leave their marks on our hearts and it took a really wise GP and the support that he offered as well as some trauma therapy to help me heal. It will take time but you will put this behind you. As a Christian sahm myself I’m praying for you and your family my love. 🤗 Claire x

    • @ameliasfrugallife
      @ameliasfrugallife  5 месяцев назад

      So true what you say about doctors looking scared!!!
      Thank you so much for the love!

  • @Val-Lullycat
    @Val-Lullycat 5 месяцев назад

    Oh my goodness how scary for you all. Sending you lots of love xxx

  • @natalielong7804
    @natalielong7804 5 месяцев назад

    Glad it all turned out well in the end. I can only imagine how scary it must of been for you all. Lovely to see you back, you have been missed ❤x

  • @zsuzsannabalogh1702
    @zsuzsannabalogh1702 5 месяцев назад

    OMG! I'm glad he's well now. ❤

  • @Happylife10101
    @Happylife10101 5 месяцев назад

    Hi oh my gosh my prayers for you and baby pray God he gets better and strong little man congratulations on your new man 👶🏻❤️🙏🎉

  • @stephjones5560
    @stephjones5560 5 месяцев назад

    The doctor waa telling you the truth when she said they probably would have sent him home. My 4mo had rsv at 4 weeks old and the childrens hospital tried to send her home but a couple of hours later she deteriorated and ended up staying for 8 days on oxygen. Its hard to tell when they are that small. Try not to beat yourself up about it even doctors get it wrong sometimes. Glad to hear he is on the mend x

    • @ameliasfrugallife
      @ameliasfrugallife  5 месяцев назад

      Wow so sorry for you! But thank you for the comforting words.

  • @tracydunne3158
    @tracydunne3158 5 месяцев назад

    .so scary yes my son 17 now born in Sept was a bronchu baby at 3 months exactly same as your storey thinking everything OK mucus coming up with feed etc ending up on c pap and thankfully he recovered quickly but I will never forget it watching his tummy working so hard to breath but he doesn't remember and nor will your little man, but I did have separation anxiety after this and I think he was 11 when he finally slept in his own room especially when he got cold or cough again growing up I wanted him next to me and would stay awake watching his every breath😂 so no don't think what if your amazing mom and just carrying on on the up my son hardly ever gets bad cough or cold now he built his amenity and thankgod is healthy now ❤❤❤❤

    • @ameliasfrugallife
      @ameliasfrugallife  5 месяцев назад

      Wow sorry to hear you experienced similar! Though I would never wish this on my worse enemy it is comforting hearing that other people have been through similar and their little ones are now fully grown big ones!

  • @elleste3399
    @elleste3399 5 месяцев назад

  • @mariar3597
    @mariar3597 5 месяцев назад