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  • @ayde92829
    @ayde92829 Год назад +509

    17 made me so freaking angry. That horrible person didn't just destroy important and symbolic family heirlooms, but from what was said about them: important historical artifacts. HOW COULD SHE LIVE WITH HERSELF.

    • @paulastiles5507
      @paulastiles5507 Год назад +51

      Imagine being the kids, looking into their family history and finding out what she did. She's gonna pay for that one, guaranteed.

    • @jeffclarke929
      @jeffclarke929 Год назад +38

      ngl, would probably lose my shit on her and the judge for that

    • @natashabrooks4188
      @natashabrooks4188 Год назад +9

      Ikr! Just VILE

    • @NogginNogs
      @NogginNogs Год назад

      women are evil

    • @ianriddle6104
      @ianriddle6104 Год назад

      That judge was a POS

  • @Randommnes_
    @Randommnes_ Год назад +1188

    Story 17 is just so messed up like why would you destroy something that survived the holocaust and it was his grandmothers

    • @GiordanDiodato
      @GiordanDiodato Год назад

      4 is equally as messed up. imagine not bringing your kids to see their dying grandmother all because your mom's a wench who took him to court over using a third party. AND HOW THE FUCK DID THE COURT AGREE WITH THE MOTHER?

    • @pihermit7724
      @pihermit7724 Год назад +179

      I don't wish upon anyone to go to Hell, since I don't wish eternal suffering on anyone. But for people like this with a rotten heart, I wish they get to spend several thousands of years suffering in Purgatory.

    • @chirone_
      @chirone_ Год назад +37

      so is story 23, especially the ending... it's just sad

    • @mantisshrimp3711
      @mantisshrimp3711 Год назад +51

      @@chirone_ for the guy she screwed him over by stealing his money and kicked him out of his own house now the daughter is sad but the ex deserved it tbh

    • @TheSmokinPotato
      @TheSmokinPotato Год назад +15

      Wemon lmao

  • @adamb89
    @adamb89 Год назад +221

    One of the best stories I ever heard was a guy who was the main breadwinner and discovered his stay-at-home wife was cheating on him. It was a no fault divorce state so even though she was the one cheating, if they split she'd get half of everything, plus probably custody of the kids as she was the primary caregiver. So over the course of several years he hid his knowledge, and encouraged her to go back to school to get a degree in nursing. A high-paying job. Once she got her high-paying job, he magnanimously volunteered to become a stay-at-home dad in order to support her career. After several years he'd managed to flip the script to where now SHE was the high earner, while HE was the primary caregiver. See where this is going? Yup! He got the kids, the house, and the alimony. This caused her to end up working a lot more, which made her seem "boring" to her side piece and he ended up dumping her for a younger model too.

    • @blending_in
      @blending_in Год назад +39

      Pretty smart but it sounds horrible having to wait all those years. Can't imagine how he felt.

    • @papi7953
      @papi7953 Год назад +35

      ​But still better than losing everything

    • @toddpartain6606
      @toddpartain6606 Год назад +8

      Pure genius.

    • @anonymouscausewhynot
      @anonymouscausewhynot Год назад +3

      Proud of that guy!

    • @Mo-vo4vo
      @Mo-vo4vo Год назад +8

      I always believe that people who do this are very deceitful. I can't imagine hiding my feelings like that.

  • @mindmaster323
    @mindmaster323 Год назад +687

    Stories 4 and 17 are genuinely evil. If something like this happened to me I'd definitely be in jail very soon afterwards.

    • @1mol831
      @1mol831 Год назад

      Just take the kids and go to China before the spouse manages to get their hands on the kids, they can do nothing about it. And when the kids are adults, then you stay in China and the kids can go wherever they want.

    • @notmyrealname5865
      @notmyrealname5865 Год назад +52

      I heard Satan is building a second Hell just for these people.

    • @staff4226
      @staff4226 Год назад +30

      @@notmyrealname5865 nah bruh, the second is for karens, for these people he is building a third

    • @cecejamesable
      @cecejamesable Год назад +26

      The supposed women in 17 really is something huh? And some people wonder why men off their wifes, especially if they're like that.

    • @tiefblau2780
      @tiefblau2780 Год назад +13

      The female dog one.... *NICE* *AHAHAHAHAHAA* I cant stop laughing
      *Tbh* *u* *lost* *all* *your* *wealth* *so* *its* *only* *Fair...* Wayy too generous XD

  • @kellycline9126
    @kellycline9126 Год назад +103

    Four and 17 or absolutely traumatic. Although in for the other, she will fall when the kids get older. And realize that they didn't get to say goodbye to Grandma and their father was a jailbird because their mom is a petty monster. And destroying somebody else's property because you're in a mood, especially something that belong to a grand parent, I feel like both of those divorced people deserve the karma they earned.

  • @Enkidone
    @Enkidone Год назад +70

    (UK Here) The parents of a friend of mine got a divorce after the wife cheated on the husband. Wife has not worked a day in her life. Husband is self-employed but makes decent money.
    Wife wants everything (the house, the pets, the furniture, everything), including custody, and has no intention to negotiate.
    Wife then admits IN COURT NO LESS that the only reason she wants custody is so she can claim benefits and has no intention of finding work. Daughter wants to nothing to do with her mother as she was the one that cheated and was generally a poor parent.
    Husband gets full custody and a few other items (the wife got the House), and asks for the pets (two perfectly healthy cats), and offered to straight up BUY them when she refused.
    Wife proceeded to have both cats put down. Husband and Daughter now have nothing to do with her, to the point that Daughter refers to her mother as 'that woman'.

    • @drag9105
      @drag9105 Год назад +17

      Put the cats down!!! Why can’t the legal system notice the inequality

    • @princessqueen6881
      @princessqueen6881 Год назад +2

      Put thw cats down was bs

    • @paulastiles5507
      @paulastiles5507 Год назад +30

      Exes who have pets put down out of spite are right down there with child abusers. The daughter was wise to go no contact.

    • @letsseetofindout2560
      @letsseetofindout2560 Год назад +2

      I'm curious, so how has the law been made that the wife can demand everything the Huband bought? Why can't the husband do the same?

    • @murasakisairen4491
      @murasakisairen4491 Год назад +3

      Gotta sign a prenepual agreement otherwise any party can get screwed over in the divorce.

  • @anullojoe
    @anullojoe Год назад +288

    Story 4 was just sad and frustrating
    Imagine being that spiteful

    • @Claudia-lq3ns
      @Claudia-lq3ns Год назад +34

      This story is disgusting. Shame on that woman. I hope the kids grow up to resent not saying goodbye to their grandmother while on her deathbed.
      Shame on the court, too, for the callous judgement. I've seen people get away with a lot worse when contempt of protection orders.

  • @mckenziejones4269
    @mckenziejones4269 Год назад +526

    Having to pay child support for a child that isn’t even yours would be insane. Best interest of the kid? How is that fair?

    • @colleens1107
      @colleens1107 Год назад +54

      Unfortunately, the courts ONLY CARE about the best interest…ie FINANCIAL INTEREST… of the kid. If the individual has been providing for this kid, the court will order them to continue. I genuinely feel for the guy or girl but please imagine if the spouse learns YEARS LATER that the child isn’t theirs. They cut the child out of their lives except for child support. THATS ALSO SHITTY as the kid sees that person as their parent and suddenly NOPE FUCK YOU.

    • @thematrix2661
      @thematrix2661 Год назад +88

      More like violating the rights of the man by making him pay for an act he did not commit

    • @GroinFaceGroin
      @GroinFaceGroin Год назад +54

      It's because not all of that money goes to the mother. The government gets a cut

    • @immortalsofar5314
      @immortalsofar5314 Год назад +29

      @@colleens1107 Kind of - the state makes the rules and, if anyone is going to pay for it, it's not going to be them. This was actually codified into law in the US when DNA tests arrived paternity became a standard practice in divorce. They might as well have called it the "we don't care" bill.

    • @wclark3196
      @wclark3196 Год назад

      It's reparations for the patriarchy! He has a penis and must be punished.

  • @edwardscott3262
    @edwardscott3262 Год назад +154

    I sat in court once while a guys case was being heard in relation to his violating a restraining order. The guy didn't harass the woman or anything. He didn't call her and say mean things.
    What he was sent to jail for was not hanging up on his ex immediately. He made the mistake of explaining to her that her that he couldn't violate the order by talking to her. He spent long enough doing it he went to jail.
    His ex received no punishment for her violation of the order. No punishment for calling him.
    The woman was smiling and happy the whole time. She got her way. In her mind she was smart and used the system against him.

    • @basillah7650
      @basillah7650 Год назад +50

      and that is why violence against women is a thing because the court not being fair to do it the non violent way.

    • @SenseiRaisen
      @SenseiRaisen Год назад +32

      Honestly i would jump and said: "Sorry! You don't see the BS here? She is getting away when she is the one who violated it" or just recorded and plaster it all over social media to show how much the system is rigged .... AND THEN PROCEED TO BEAT THE CRAP OF HER AFTER.

    • @MiraTheWarlock
      @MiraTheWarlock Год назад +34

      @@SenseiRaisen You'd be thrown in jail for contempt of court, but...frankly I'd do the same and it'd be worth it

    • @SenseiRaisen
      @SenseiRaisen Год назад +16

      @@MiraTheWarlock yeah! that is the downside ... but damm!!! people like this deserves some good old beat up karma as well.

    • @jjohnsengraciesmom
      @jjohnsengraciesmom Год назад +5

      This( if a woman calls a man and there is a protection order) is terrible and happens more than it should.

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 Год назад +269

    The 4th story is just downright evil- I'd understand if the man was dangerous, but she prevented both him and his children from saying their final goodbyes-
    Also it will never fail to piss me off seeing cases where a parent who isn't biologically related to a child, is expected to pay for that child (the exception being adoption) after a divorce.
    Why not go after the real fricken' dad?? Also, that "best interest in the child" part is BS in a lot of cases
    Also Story 17 reminds me so much of my mom- How can people be so goddamn evil??

    • @dubreil07
      @dubreil07 Год назад +12

      She’ll get her karma when the kids get older

    • @notscorchingsands9718
      @notscorchingsands9718 Год назад

      Maybe the husband and his mother are shity

    • @nightmarerex2035
      @nightmarerex2035 Год назад +6

      ALL times government says "think of the children/elderly/both" it means they grabbinb more POWER.

    • @fluffysnowgryph4527
      @fluffysnowgryph4527 Год назад +6

      The state (depending on the state) gets a cut out of child support payments (percentage dependent on what state you are in) and the courts decision for the most part is not in the best interest of the child or couple but actually in the best interest of the state due to that percentage cut, this is unfortunately a huge incentive for the court to screw over the husband or wife depending on who has the most income and assets. In the case of cheating, the court won't go after the biological father if he is a broke deadbeat and instead go after the soon to be ex-husband that is already being processed by the court. "In the best interest of the child" nah, more like the best interest of the court, state, and involved law firms. Now this don't happen all the time and is entirely dependent on the state, courts, and various firms handling the case, but it is unfortunately a common enough occurrence.

    • @regirock7313
      @regirock7313 Год назад

      @@dubreil07 doubtful but it’s good to stay hopeful

  • @crazyt1483
    @crazyt1483 Год назад +83

    I do think there should be some sort of protection on disputed divorce assets where basically if you go after a asset for a malicious porpoise then the property reverts back to the other party and destruction charges can be filled

    • @GroinFaceGroin
      @GroinFaceGroin Год назад +8

      Malicious porpoise? Is that like a devilish dolphin?

    • @philosophicaljock
      @philosophicaljock Год назад +2

      ​@@GroinFaceGroin No. It's much, much worse!

  • @BruceKnapp-n4q
    @BruceKnapp-n4q 7 месяцев назад +81

    Let's stop taking love, relationships and family for granted. Today i wish i paid more attention to my wife. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q 7 месяцев назад

      Awesome. I would like to meet this counselor you speak of. How can I?

    • @BruceKnapp-n4q
      @BruceKnapp-n4q 7 месяцев назад

      Ok. Thanks. I just looked her up

    • @I_am_a_pice_of_toast
      @I_am_a_pice_of_toast 6 месяцев назад

      There there it's over now

    • @mariuszmoraw3571
      @mariuszmoraw3571 6 месяцев назад

      Your love is not worth her.

    • @CyndiCalista
      @CyndiCalista 2 месяца назад

      I'm sorry that happened. I hope things will get better for you soon. I agree that we often take our spouses and families for granted

  • @amiyrbarclift1640
    @amiyrbarclift1640 Год назад +64

    Story 17 she did all that work and racked up all the lawyer fees just to be petty and burn the journal and the vase.

    • @adamb89
      @adamb89 Год назад

      Oh I'd have killed her. Under the circumstances I could have a pretty solid shot at getting a plea for a lesser charge, and be out in 10.

    • @bensoncheung2801
      @bensoncheung2801 Год назад

      Yes, and also bragging rights for friends with similar dispositions.

  • @pawncube6787
    @pawncube6787 Год назад +50

    I think it says something about the system when the stories about the wife involve her getting almost everything and stories about the husband involve him spending everything that she would have recieved so she can't get it.

    • @horusluprecal1144
      @horusluprecal1144 Год назад

      Perhaps it's a little reminder that as a man, you have nothing to gain from getting hitched & are inviting government to have more control over your life to where they can (and will) take everything from you.

    • @shadenox8164
      @shadenox8164 15 дней назад

      It says how spiteful both parties are? The system by the way isn't "give the wife everything" the system is based on who has the least assets to support themselves. Traditionally this is women due to certain marital expectations, but can in fact be men as well. We even have an example of it in this video.

  • @mousepariah3884
    @mousepariah3884 Год назад +132

    Everyone one is (rightly) mad about what the Ex did in story 17 but frankly I want to ask the judge what the actual fuck he was thinking when he awarded those items to the wrong person. I just cannot fathom one single good reason those items did not go to the biological relation of the owner, the journal at the least since I should think it was not of a provable significant monetary value.

    • @arthurmarshall6825
      @arthurmarshall6825 Год назад +29

      I think the judge was thinking since she had the kids and those items are important part of their history, she should get them as their cartaker. I can't see any other reason why she should get them. I just hope that when the kids grow up and learn what their mother did give her the proper karma she deserves.

    • @Spartan3D213
      @Spartan3D213 Год назад +12

      Was the judge a woman, that would explain it.

    • @paingain100
      @paingain100 Год назад +6

      I think number 17 is outrage porn but is still probably true, I've heard worse.

    • @srij0n316
      @srij0n316 Год назад +3

      @@Spartan3D213 yup 100% woman

    • @yasmin7903
      @yasmin7903 7 месяцев назад +1

      No it would not! @@Spartan3D213

  • @SilveredRaven
    @SilveredRaven Год назад +76

    Story 17. If I could sue that judge into permanent homelessness and poverty. I think that'd be the only way he could pay for giving her everything despite being the cheater.

    • @jasminelav.332
      @jasminelav.332 Год назад +11

      There is no legal or financial reason why she should get everything, including heirlooms belonging to HIS side of the family. Even if you argue that it’s the kid’s right to have it, that doesn’t necessarily mean they own it yet - especially if the other spouse has already been hosed for everything they’re worth. That reeks of judicial corruption.

    • @shadenox8164
      @shadenox8164 15 дней назад

      She didn't get everything? It is shitty she abused a system designed to keep her from being destitute though.

  • @EllpaFox47
    @EllpaFox47 Год назад +106

    The only thing I can say in response to #17 without flying into a rage
    “IT BELONGS IN A MUSEUM!”

    • @siroglethorpe311
      @siroglethorpe311 Год назад +6

      Yess

    • @BandidFourLife
      @BandidFourLife Год назад +15

      If I knew the guy I would of stolen it and then hand it back after the divorce.
      If I had a time machine I would tell him to put in a museum or at least in a safe in a bank and never ever tell anyone about it. But preferably a museum since it be safer.

    • @sammywilliam8156
      @sammywilliam8156 Год назад

      😮 Taking something from someone that survived what killed 8 million people and burning it the f****** a** you know the same way that his grandma's family was killed. But you five bucks his c*** of an ex wife has a eight foot nine foot photo of adolf hitler

  • @agalie7139
    @agalie7139 Год назад +8

    Been there done that. My wife cheated on me after 13 years of good marriage, she was bored and the guy ( married also) spent a lot with her in romantic getaways. I started to question her" job" travels and she quickly asked for divorce (before I could caught her in act) pretending to the others that I am verbally violent and domineering ...
    Evidently that the law and the friends never ask for proof when a woman says-so. She got the house and the kid. Then she dated a policeman and she told him that I am the worse liar, bad and violent.
    He provoked me many times refusing my right to visit my kid, put his colleagues to question me , she made a phony complaint for harassment... it was hell for me because I was innocent.
    But one day by chance I saw my ex-wife car on the road and inside: her and the previous lover.
    I texted a message to the cop : "I know you are on duty because she is having a lot of fun with the non existing lover I told you about". He tracked her , find out the truth, first beating of her life ( she officially had an accident in the stairway) and all charges on me were dropped.
    Eventually the family and friends got also the info.

  • @reidsaltzman5422
    @reidsaltzman5422 Год назад +78

    I turned this off at story 17 that was the most disgusting and vile thing I’ve ever heard anyone do.

    • @BandidFourLife
      @BandidFourLife Год назад +33

      Worst thing is that judge allowed it.

    • @dajam9035
      @dajam9035 Год назад +3

      Seriously! That judge and his ex wife both have a death wish. I wouldn't be surprised if something bad happened to the both of them!

    • @rodneyjones1990
      @rodneyjones1990 Год назад +1

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  • @yestfmf
    @yestfmf Год назад +50

    My brother knew a guy in the military who, just prior to his retirement, his wife decided to divorce him. Her plan was to get half of his retirement (after 20ish years of military service). She was gloating, money in the bank, nothing he could do.
    Except he did.
    He left the military just a short time before his retirement date. He got no retirement benefits, and neither did she. She. Was. PISSED. No more easy money.
    If she was smart, she would have waited until he retired.
    He just laughs about it. He got a good job after the divorce. He makes good money, and he doesn’t have to give it to her.
    BOOM

  • @amitamaru
    @amitamaru Год назад +26

    Could he sue her over destroying the vase and journal as a hate crime? Are they pieces of Jewish history for the Holocaust connection?

    • @axonice
      @axonice Год назад +8

      Legally. it's hers, so he can't, but she deserves a lifetime scentense in jail for that.

  • @juanderuano8969
    @juanderuano8969 Год назад +217

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Год назад

      @jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Год назад

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    • @someone3187
      @someone3187 Год назад

      Does she know this?

    • @juanderuano8969
      @juanderuano8969 Год назад

      @@someone3187 trust me, she knows how much i love her

  • @axonice
    @axonice Год назад +86

    Story 17 is legitimately the most depressing story here. I'm normally unaffected by these stories (mostly because I don't really care) but that story. That one story. I'm Jewish, and hearing that one story got me. I'm in shock for that. If I was the husband, I would be in jai already.

    • @pumpkin7388
      @pumpkin7388 Год назад +20

      Story 17 is when you go tell your friends, put on all your hockey masks and smash the c*nt up in the middle of the night.

    • @alexanderzack3720
      @alexanderzack3720 Год назад +15

      @@pumpkin7388 don´t forget the judge.... somehow he/she came to the conclusion that the ex-wife should get those items

    • @GeninGeo
      @GeninGeo Год назад +3

      yea if 17 happens you deserve whats comming to you. judge too

    • @Folkvarart
      @Folkvarart Год назад

      @@alexanderzack3720 yeah. How the fuck does that happen.

  • @MrCrunchytime
    @MrCrunchytime Год назад +56

    Story 23 - I don't condone murder, but I get why the guy did what he did. The wife and stepdaughter blew all of his money, destroyed his life, and cost him his home, then to find them at his friend's house like nothing had happened... yeah, there'd be few people who wouldn't snap.

    • @notscorchingsands9718
      @notscorchingsands9718 Год назад +8

      You only heard 1 side

    • @MrCrunchytime
      @MrCrunchytime Год назад +7

      @@notscorchingsands9718 Also true.

    • @LouisWinthorpe3
      @LouisWinthorpe3 Год назад +11

      I fully condone what he did

    • @letsseetofindout2560
      @letsseetofindout2560 Год назад +14

      @@notscorchingsands9718 I heard both sides. One turned to a greedy low life the instant they saw money.

    • @adamb89
      @adamb89 Год назад +10

      Oh I condone the hell out of it. I'd also have pulled the trigger until it goes click.

  • @mizu7662
    @mizu7662 11 месяцев назад +4

    Story 1: Why the hell would you build your house right next to someone you just divorced in the first place?

  • @rickjensen2035
    @rickjensen2035 Год назад +11

    The more I hear about the horror stories of marriages falling apart for various reasons makes me wary of getting married myself. I have had many married men tell me to not get married and to stay single as long as I can and they wished that they never got married themselves. The one thing that I have heard, that makes some kind of sense, is that before you propose to a girl, go on a trip with just her to wherever and see what she is really like before popping the question. I was told this by at least 2 guys and they said that this was an eye opener for them and they were glad that they did it cause it saved them from asking the question cause they saw who those girls were really like.

    • @horusluprecal1144
      @horusluprecal1144 Год назад +2

      just make sure that trip lasts at least ten years...

    • @Claudia-lq3ns
      @Claudia-lq3ns Год назад

      Prenuptial agreement.

    • @feistsorcerer2251
      @feistsorcerer2251 Год назад

      Prenup, take a trip, and deal with some kind of crisis at least once before marriage.

    • @Milktube
      @Milktube Год назад +3

      @@Claudia-lq3ns Judges routinely throw out prenups if they feel they disadvantage the woman too much. It's entirely up to the judge's discretion. You know how badly most male judges are white-knight simps who can't imagine a female ever doing anything wrong, now consider how bad the female judges are. They can also say that the woman signed the prenup "under emotional duress" even with 2 party's lawyers present so it's not legally binding. But don't just take my word for it, you can look up all of this yourself for more information and (hopefully) some ways to counter it depending on your state's laws.

    • @shadenox8164
      @shadenox8164 15 дней назад

      @@Milktube It's not "the woman" its the party with lower income/assets. Which is typically a woman due to cultural reasons.
      Following the system the way its set up doesn;t make them simps. But I suppose we can't expect logic from someone who doesn't even know how the system they're complaining about works and is just using it as an excuse to insult women. There's literally a story in this video of a man taking advantage of the rules to get the same sort of treatment.

  • @Oddballkane
    @Oddballkane Год назад +12

    I heard a story of a woman who fought for the house where her and her ex lived. She won the house but he destroyed the ground around the house so nothing at all would grow.

  • @82dorrin
    @82dorrin Год назад +7

    If something like the stories for #4 or #17 happened to anyone I'm close to, I would likely be going to jail shortly thereafter...

  • @repreach9668
    @repreach9668 Год назад +4

    I feel like most of this stuff is just ppl favoring women, that burning a holocaust survivor’s book should be reckonized as a hate crime.

    • @shadenox8164
      @shadenox8164 15 дней назад

      Nope. It's favouring the partner with the lower income/assets. Which is typically women. Ain't hard to find out what the rules are. It definitely needs fixing, but acting like its about favouring women is just not reality listen to the other story. Guy literally reversed the situation and was favoured. Maybe it was a different video though.

  • @GlucoseGuy
    @GlucoseGuy Год назад +10

    It's it great how love and partnerships can become so petty and vindictive?

    • @Falcodrin
      @Falcodrin Год назад

      Well I like pizza but if I tried to eat pizza every day for decades I would be petty and vindictive too

  • @gokuxsephiroth4505
    @gokuxsephiroth4505 8 месяцев назад +2

    Okay, but #1 cheered me up immensely. Friggin brilliant

  • @mikebell2112
    @mikebell2112 Год назад +16

    #10 Imagine the Court spending so much time tearing a woman a new one no matter how bad the situation.

  • @sapphirewingthefurrycritic985
    @sapphirewingthefurrycritic985 Год назад +5

    I will never forget my boss talking about a family law case where the wife was beating and cutting off the oxygen of her war vet husband. I work for a legal messenger group and we serve legal papers to people. There were more than a few times that none of the process servers would go near because of fear of their safety, a lot of these are family law related.

  • @permanentbanned1520
    @permanentbanned1520 Год назад +15

    #23 is the perfect example of just dont get married. perfectly cozy life insert woman and boom instantly life ruined.

    • @aleksandarvil5718
      @aleksandarvil5718 Год назад +4

      Don't Forget #17

    • @dimoned123
      @dimoned123 Год назад +1

      not all women are like this, also that guy is not innocent either sense he killed a teenager who was most likely innocent.

    • @kurtpunchesthings2411
      @kurtpunchesthings2411 Год назад

      @@dimoned123 doesn't matter they stole his money took everything from him you think that girl spent even a second remorseful for all the shit they stole ?

    • @dimoned123
      @dimoned123 Год назад

      @@kurtpunchesthings2411 no I don’t think she did feel bad.
      Also ‘they’?Last I checked it was only the mother that stole the money, we don’t know the full extent of the daughter role in this so as far as I can tell, she’s innocent. Also, taking a life is way worse than stealing money, it would have been one thing if he did to for self-defense, or he caught her while stealing the money but none of that happened. So yeah I don’t like the fact that she stole the money, but what he did was way worse and you can’t change my mind on that.

  • @M1GarandMan3005
    @M1GarandMan3005 Год назад +11

    Relating to someone I know who essentially grew up next to me, she eloped with this guy in the Marine Corps., probably weren't even married two years, claims he cheated on her (though later I suspect that SHE cheated on him), took his GI benefits, probably half, if not three-quarters of his money, and decided to go back to college and buy a house at the same city where she was going to college. She claims her divorce was "really, really, bad" and that she didn't want to date for a very long time. Next thing you know, around the time she's going to college (for another degree in something, IDK), she already has a new boyfriend, probably not even four years after her "really, really bad" divorce. Since then, the guy she was married to has deleted his Facebook page probably because no one would believe him, and who knows, he probably committed suicide, or is living a life of ruin and shambles. She's a definite cheat, a liar, and a swindler.
    It just goes to show that even those who were raised and grew up next to you (and to add she was raised by a religious family), are even capable of pulling such heinous shit.
    UPDATE: The man is still alive, and working as an engineer for some information technology center. I wouldn't doubt he has some PTSD from that divorce.

    • @letsseetofindout2560
      @letsseetofindout2560 Год назад +1

      Greed and money are what have destroyed this earth. It's depressing.

  • @punprincess3214
    @punprincess3214 Год назад +3

    With the thumbnail, I just imagined Phoenix Wright being the lawyer for some of these people and he's getting more of an aneurysm than his usual crazy cases😂

  • @kalcibone
    @kalcibone Год назад +6

    That journal-vase one. I would have gone to the news about it. let everyone know what the judge did and what the ex-wife did. Seriously.. fuck.

  • @stuff66
    @stuff66 Год назад +6

    I like just grinding on a game while listening to am I the jerk and am I the genius

    • @simiktek
      @simiktek Год назад

      What game are you playing right now??

    • @stuff66
      @stuff66 Год назад

      super auto pets

    • @mrnukes797
      @mrnukes797 Год назад

      ​@@simiktek Me: black screen the video game

  • @NylonEpoxy
    @NylonEpoxy Год назад +5

    if 4 or 17 ever happened to me, I'd be put to death already for the things i'd do

    • @princessqueen6881
      @princessqueen6881 Год назад +2

      Same here cause aint no way I'm letting someone get away with doing that to me

  • @JamesSmith-gm7fm
    @JamesSmith-gm7fm Год назад +4

    What state was story #17 in because from what I can recall family heirlooms are not allowed to be transferred to another party in divorce procedures in certain states due to certain guidelines and federal laws in those states. Not only that but that vase and journal would be considered historical artifacts and therefore should also be protected by law though I can't remember the name of the law

  • @krazykat6066
    @krazykat6066 Год назад +3

    Story 1# isn't the worst you can do to an ex. Had me laughing

  • @bch5513
    @bch5513 Год назад +4

    Just goes to show you that the court systems are in favor of women 99.9% of the time the one about his mothers vase and journal are ridiculous.

  • @SirGtfd
    @SirGtfd Год назад +2

    Paying child support for kid that isn't yours is simply an extortion and should be treated as such...
    10th story is "so wrong on many levels" because the man is receiving support, nothing else. Good for the man!

  • @marmot418
    @marmot418 Год назад +5

    Story 14, i completely agree with the husband

  • @HisShadowX
    @HisShadowX Год назад +2

    6:15 Yet if it was a woman doing the same thing she’d be considered strong, independent, and brave

  • @lightsidesoul
    @lightsidesoul 3 месяца назад +1

    Why the heck are so many cheaters getting things they aren't entitled to? Story 17, yes, the vase and the journal are family heirlooms, but why the heck was the wife *also* getting the house, the kids, *and* a chunk of his income?

  • @adamgarrick3778
    @adamgarrick3778 Год назад +3

    I can't comment on other states, but in the state I live in the court really doesn't give a damn about the paternity of the man ordered to pay it. Most of the money goes to the state, not the child. Also the court doesn't care about the fact that they are very likely preventing him from having his own biological child because he likely can't afford it.

  • @zombathinlostleghackercat5233
    @zombathinlostleghackercat5233 Год назад +2

    2:16 Court should let him off with a warning with this one.

  • @NeoRazgriz
    @NeoRazgriz Год назад +3

    Story 10: is at the age old story that women do to men all the time in court? So how is he somehow the “bad guy“?
    At least the guy knows the kids are his … hopefully

  • @prospect2664
    @prospect2664 Год назад +2

    Story 9 shows why as a father you always have to do the test as soon as the child is born....

  • @snafuthegreat
    @snafuthegreat Год назад +1

    I knew a guy who about 15 years ago, he was about to be taken to the cleaners, until his ex's brother was a person of interest in a homicide investigation. The guy had proof that her brother was innocent, but he was being thrown under the bus by the gunman. So my friend made his ex an offer she couldn't refuse: he gets everything in the divorce, or her brother gets sent to death row. She agreed to the demands, and after the divorce was made official, my friend cleared his ex-brother-in-law's name.

  • @akg_table
    @akg_table Год назад +3

    Story #10 5:37 is brilliant. The shoe is finally on the other foot and fucking everyone including the judge freak out.

  • @1sttimegunowner
    @1sttimegunowner 7 месяцев назад +1

    The story about the guy having to pay child support for a kid not his. Is literally whats wrong with the courts and why men are really against marriage now. They did that so that they can still get their tax money off the child support. This same thing happened to by best friend whos wife cheated while he was on deployment. really fucked up

  • @Cheezamer
    @Cheezamer Год назад +6

    I’ve never clicked on these videos faster than today. Am I the genius is one of the best channels I have seen. It is so interesting seeing people’s stories and to know that Am I the jerk is always a second option (chefs kiss) anyways I wanted to thank you for the content I get nearly daily. Really thank you so much.

    • @straitdik
      @straitdik Год назад

      I believe you're supposed to say "sponsored post", possibly even legally. If not, just ethically.. like..ask your neighbor for the sugar, don't break their door down and take it.

    • @Cheezamer
      @Cheezamer Год назад

      @@straitdik what

  • @DezGrowSpot
    @DezGrowSpot Год назад +2

    6:00 don't women ask for spouse support if they make less than the man. The judge proves that the court system is biased against men.

  • @johnyzero2000
    @johnyzero2000 5 месяцев назад +2

    Videos like this are throwing gas in the MGTOW movement.

  • @justinthebeau2590
    @justinthebeau2590 Год назад +3

    This is basically a booster for the RP community until the laws change we are out

  • @d3lllt
    @d3lllt Год назад +1

    Story 13 happened to my brother exactly! He was so upset he called husband #1 asking him if he wants back custody of his son, he said “nah I’m good”! 🤣🤣 my brother deserves it for being a sucker. We warned him but he knew best lol

  • @DL-idk
    @DL-idk Год назад +2

    Divorce really is one of the perfect showcases of how ugly and vile people could be when they hate each other.
    Probably better stay single 😂

  • @0LeeMann0
    @0LeeMann0 Год назад +3

    Story 17 that's so fucked up I feel bad for him

  • @Mario87456
    @Mario87456 Год назад +1

    This is why getting married is a bad idea.

  • @axonice
    @axonice Год назад +10

    I really, really just want 1 person here to agree with the wife on story 17. That's how I know wo to hate before meeting them in person.

  • @mrmrmryes
    @mrmrmryes Год назад +2

    story 17 is a free ticket to jail for murder

  • @LouisWinthorpe3
    @LouisWinthorpe3 Год назад +1

    #17 was hilarious

  • @gentlemanghost5993
    @gentlemanghost5993 Год назад +3

    10 happens all the time when the roles are reversed. Still bad

  • @NickMagnuson
    @NickMagnuson Год назад +2

    Story #17.... WTF??

  • @teubert2
    @teubert2 Год назад +1

    As someone who just completed the first Phoenix Wright game I must say I love the thumbnail for this video lmao.

  • @VanessaTheDumbassMtfEeveeUWU
    @VanessaTheDumbassMtfEeveeUWU Год назад +37

    That first story is just hilarious

  • @Pat097
    @Pat097 Год назад

    Number 19 😭 It’s why you gotta double check and make sure yourself that the papers are in order. I don’t even get why he did that in the beginning…

  • @1ts_Nxthan1el
    @1ts_Nxthan1el Год назад +2

    You just earned a sub for covering some Reddit drama 🤯😃

  • @jackdawjohnson7436
    @jackdawjohnson7436 7 месяцев назад

    18:41 My Dad and his ex were like this (he was all my older siblings sole caregiver until about six or seven when she could finally sorta tolerate them.) They get divorced. She hires a lawyer only when it comes to child custody, gets primary custody of them all, the one thing my dad truly cared about after years of abuse.
    (My mom (his 2nd wife) thinks that this is why my Dad’s old cat was so important to him (she was abandoned as a kitten only for my uncle to find her and give her to my newly alone and missing his kids father.)

  • @glucen4408
    @glucen4408 Год назад

    bro sunset overdrive was honestly one of the best games ive ever played. wasnt expecting to see people still playing it after all this time tho

  • @Higgy_ZA
    @Higgy_ZA Год назад +4

    Sounds like getting married in America is suicidal and insane. Really feel for those that get screwed by the judges and system.

  • @seancullen7907
    @seancullen7907 Год назад +1

    10 is fucked cause if a chick did the same thing no one would bat an eye, if its true that judge is extremely unprofessional

  • @amyd2203
    @amyd2203 Год назад

    The vase and journal broke my heart 😭😭😭

  • @nghakabeita3198
    @nghakabeita3198 Год назад +1

    Some of these people doesn't deserve to be treated as human, after listening to this story, It's hard to put your complete trust in the law and those judges who are supposed to uphold justice and logic.

  • @ButcherBird-FW190D
    @ButcherBird-FW190D Год назад +1

    My Ex and I fought viciously for three years over custody of our eldest. I wound up prevailing, but yowza. We each spent roughly $30,000 in the process, and that was in 2006-2009, so call that about $60k each now. And that was with us acting as our own attorney's part of the time on the easy parts. Just a mindless waste of resources for no true, real reason. He was already 14 when we started, and he was almost 18 by the time she finally capitulated.

  • @douglasbullet6456
    @douglasbullet6456 Год назад

    The first story killed me😂

  • @leadingauctions8440
    @leadingauctions8440 Год назад +1

    Story #13:
    Hahahahaha. THIS is why you never even date a Damaged Single Mother?

  • @MadAdam93
    @MadAdam93 Год назад +1

    my brother was the victim in that joint credit card thing his ex-wife stuck him with $18,000 in credit card debt he didn't know about, she was also the one filing for divorce to this day about 6 years later, we still don't even know what she bought with that $18,000 because she is god awful with finances even still

  • @MelanieThibodeauMellythibs
    @MelanieThibodeauMellythibs Год назад +3

    4, 17, and 22 are just evil and sad on all levels.... though most of these stories are just sad :(

  • @mustanguy102
    @mustanguy102 Год назад

    Some of those spouses deserve lead.

  • @scottsommer9843
    @scottsommer9843 Год назад +3

    The one story about the guy who went after the breadwinner wife's money is not an uncommon thing in men's position. The judge can say hurtful things all he wants, but his hands are tied. It is funny how people enjoy the system when women benefit from it, but the moment a man benefits from it it becomes a problem. It should be a problem no matter what.
    That's why I say if people want abortion to be legal, then they need to get rid of child support system entirely.

  • @_Circus_Clapped_
    @_Circus_Clapped_ Год назад +1

    Some of these asset splitting stories can be avoided if they transfer assets to their parents without notice as the court can't go outside of the case to find out where it went either defendant has it or they dont

  • @johnyzero2000
    @johnyzero2000 5 месяцев назад

    Divorce and family courts need serious reform!

  • @Lancelot0311
    @Lancelot0311 11 месяцев назад +1

    Women need to stop being favored so heavily in court.

  • @IamNoOne-001
    @IamNoOne-001 Год назад

    8:02 STORY #13: AND THAT, MY FRIENDS, IS WHY YOU NEVER, EVER, ADOPTS THE OTHER MAN'S CHILD.

  • @OriginalCindy8
    @OriginalCindy8 Год назад +3

    Story 4: if you have a restraining order on someone they are not safe to be around you or your children. I don’t know about the dying mother, but the ex wife could’ve had a very valid reason not to want the children to see that woman.

    • @mlmii1933
      @mlmii1933 Год назад +1

      That would be true if lawyers didn't routinely advise thier clients to file for frivolous restraining orders and if courts didn't simply rubber stamp them.
      The sad thing is that women weaponizing the system (and the flying monkeys who blindly believe them) only serves to hurt people who are actually being abused.

    • @chinookh4713
      @chinookh4713 Год назад

      Doubt it, she file a restraining order against the husband no one else so it basically tell me that if anything the husband was the one that could pose a danger. However it not uncommon for that stuff to occur out of spite.

    • @MsAnimefan95
      @MsAnimefan95 Год назад

      @@chinookh4713 And, given everything else about the story, it's very likely that she did file it out of spite. Even if the husband had violated the order, she still could have taken the kids to see the grandmother so at least THEY could see her.

  • @everves
    @everves Год назад +2

    #10 good, the more situations like these the more likelihood that such cases will cease to exist, there are tons of women who do just that and fuck the judge for being irate.

  • @drexorakarobert9218
    @drexorakarobert9218 Год назад +1

    Shrimp story is literally from a stand up comedy routine by Al Madrigal

  • @VVen0m
    @VVen0m 7 месяцев назад

    This is depressing. How can people be so cruel. And to the people they used to love not too long ago. AND to their children holy fuck...

  • @nopenopenope14
    @nopenopenope14 Год назад

    Story 1 made me wheeze. 😂

  • @michaelbutler1619
    @michaelbutler1619 Год назад +1

    My paternal uncle (my dad's fraternal twin brother) has an ex-wife that definitely belongs on this list. She took his last name after the wedding (as is tradition), and they had a daughter a few years later. A few years after their daughter was born, she divorced him. Oklahoma divorce court was biased towards the ex-wife back then, so she was awarded primary child custody. She then worked unpaid overtime during the weekends to cheat my uncle out of the supervised weekend visits he was allowed. This led to my cousin developing severe abandonment issues that continue to affect her to this day by making it so she has trouble keeping a boyfriend and moving out of my uncle's house. When my uncle married his second wife (my aunt), he asked her to keep her maiden name so that he wouldn't be reminded of the bitch that used to share his last name. The two daughters they had together have my aunt's maiden name instead of my uncle's last name because of it. To this day, my Uncle still refers to his ex-wife as "it" instead of her real name, and I don't blame him.

  • @MangaMaster15
    @MangaMaster15 Год назад

    Just seeing Sunset Overdrive in this background makes me happy. I love that game.

  • @ifyourepeatalieoftenenough8500

    Narcsist like me love ballet, nancy sinatra's "bangbang" and onepiece. So many spoilers 😂😂😂. Tey said "vandalism is more fun when you know what to write" 💯💯💯

  • @MrPjhdejong
    @MrPjhdejong Год назад +1

    Story #1 Epic I can't stop laughing. Naming you're dog the same as you're ex-wife

  • @demondogmom7221
    @demondogmom7221 Год назад +1

    Couple getting divorced, no kids, but a pair of lovely Siamese cats. She brings the cats in and demands they get euthanized because they can't agree about who gets the cats.
    She refuses to separate the pair, and declares they can't live without her. So.. wants them killed. She didn't want their remains.
    The staff kept refusing to assist in putting the cats down. Finally both vets were going to be in the clinic on the same day.
    A terrible thing happened the night before...Both cats went missing. Darn. They must have "accidentally" gotten out.
    Rumor has it they were perfectly happy without the wife.

  • @MattAero
    @MattAero Год назад

    These stories are my workout playlist

  • @dustintapp5230
    @dustintapp5230 11 месяцев назад +1

    Family and divorce court is almost comically biased against me. Shit has to change if the government wants marriage rates to rise again

  • @Pixel22-fs3tt
    @Pixel22-fs3tt 2 месяца назад

    I know story 21 is about someone from India, but I'm just imagining a Hylian from the LoZ series doing that. It makes me laugh just picturing a Hylian man getting 3000 green rupees and giving it to his ex-wife and getting his clearly large wallet back after giving her all the rupees 🤣🤣🤣