I completely blame the parents for this one. He's never had a fruit or vegetable since he's been born and only wants to eat bags of chocolate?! 100% the parents fault
We cannot jump to conclusions like that, that kid is aggressive. If the the parents somehow forced him to eat vegetable e.g. force feed, what do you think will happen? If you think I am wrong, what are your other solutions? I am not saying you are wrong but it's not entirely the parents fault...(But your point is kinda right)
n00b when it comes to his horrible eating habits, yea they are most definitely to blame. I'm a mom and I made my son's baby food for him which I know a lot of parents won't do and as a baby he couldn't be that aggressive to the point they just gave in completely and only fed him chocolate, that's ridiculous. If they wouldn't have given up and for example the fruit or veggies were his only option, he would've gotten hungry and eaten it, probably would've realized it's actually tasty and enjoyed it. But they never tried, he's never once had a fruit or veggie which means they never even cared to try to give him a healthy option
He is acting like a drug addict. They say sugar is a drug because it lights up the same pathways in the brain as heroin. He is crashing from his high so he becomes angry. 100% the parents fault.
@@violetliskey675 it definitely does .. in everyone .. just some people are more obvious with their reactions but that poor kid doesn't stand a chance to control his mood with that diet
Parents who are legitimately disappointed by the gender of their baby should not be having kids. Imagine if one of their kids had a serious disability--they wouldn't be able to handle THAT level of "disappointment!" You've got a 50/50 chance of having the gender you want: those are not great odds. If you can't handle the gamble, don't play the game. The stakes are far too high. Favoritism causes lifelong self-esteem problems.
*insert clever nickname here* I appreciate your honesty. But, how do you know? I think lots of people feel the way you do, and they have a baby with special needs and couldn’t bear for someone else to have them. Nobody wants to have a disability put on their child, but if they were, you may find you’d want that baby regardless. You may not, I’m just throwing it out there that they way you think you’d respond and how you’d actually respond might be different.
@@insertclevernicknamehere7637 what if they weren't born with a disability or had one develope later in life. Would you give your 4 year up just because they developed autism or were paralyzed in an accident.
You are totally right, but in this case it is particular : Mum was not happy having a boy because she had just lost a baby girl. Mum has not properly grieved and Dr Tanya will work with her about it this week
It's heartbreaking to say you hate your child and wish you'd never had them right in front of them. No wonder he's the way he is! I bet it's not the first time he's heard it.
Oh my god thats so true, working in child care i had 6 kids like this and the parents would accuse me of misconduct and tell me im the problem when i told them their child was acting out. They proceeded to baby the kid and their behavior never improved.
@Isa Ramzy we werent even understaffed we just werent allowed to give time outs because parents would get offended. The problem is parents are weak willed and see their children as gods, too perfect to be punished. This modern outlook is running rampant like disease but is utterly misguided and stupid. Children look to adults for guidance and need structure. If you never disipline them you simply teach them that they can behave any way they'd like and its acceptable. Ive seen way too much of it for my time and im done in childcare. If you dont want your child disiplined for their actions by someone else, watch them yourselves. Childcare providers have enough to deal with anyway.
I hope the mom that said she hates her kid in front of him gets some serious help not only for her but him too. Hearing stuff like that at a young age causes mental issues in the future.
So once again....I don't think the problem lies with young Harrison. I think the problem comes from Mom. She told Dr. Tanya that she was disappointed that her child was a boy....that she had wanted another daughter and she has a closer relationship with her daughter than she has with him. And when she is saying these things about her son "I HATE you....I wish you had NEVER been BORN....he's a MONSTER" and she's crying over him not eating or sleeping in his own bed, she claims he doesn't see it, but its clear to me he DOES. He hears those cruel, heartbreaking words his mother is saying about him and I would be willing to bet that this isn't the first time he's heard those words and this genuinely hurts him. Those tears weren't fake when he heard his mother and they CERTAINLY weren't brought on because "Mommy was upset". That's why he's really having trouble. Because as we saw when Dr. Tanya intervened at lunch, he was happy to eat for her. His father says "Oh I don't think he's sad....he has anything he could ever want. Maybe that is true as far as the material things....but he doesn't have his mother's love and that's the thing he desperately needs. As for the little girl....Kelsie,....again, I think the problem stems from Mom. During their initial introduction, all I heard her say to the child is "NO" Don't do this, don't do that, stay away from this, stop doing that" There is not a lot of fun or affection or breathing room in their relationship. Its just her telling her daughter no all the time. Its no small wonder it only takes 10 minutes to get the child to pre-school and an hour to get home....pre-school is probably the ONLY place Kelsie has any kind of fun or positive interaction with an adult. And I don't think her mother knows how to discipline her. Both times we have seen her try to discipline her daughter, she hasn't given her a proper time-out with a warning, having her sit there for the required time and then reiterating the reason and getting the apology. She has sat there and held her down and that just seems to make the problem worse. She also smacks her. She's not TEACHING her daughter anything but that negative behavior gets her Mommy's attention and that's exactly why Chelsie misbehaves. Calling her daughter a cow doesn't impress me either.
Did that mother seriously say she felt like she wish she never had him IN FRONT OF HIM?!?! I understand I’m sure every mum feels like that from time to time but to say that in front of him...does she understand how damaging that is to his self esteem? No wonder the poor boy was crying
It is. I bet evey mother (and of couse every dad) had had such a moment or minute in their life. Usually, nobody tells about such bad moments, cuz everyone will say "thats not okay! you have to love your child whatever happens! bad mother! bad bad mother!" but reality is different. Humans aren't like that, they aren't perfect and they have borders. If several bad days and nights follow each other, you don't have nerves left, then you can hate your child. No mother can tell me, she never had such feelings. As long they are temporaly, everything is okay and normal, yes humans do have bad thoughs sometimes and yes, own children aren't save of that. And of course those feelings need to be adressed and taken seriously! Tell your partner those feelings, cry, scream alone, take a break if possible. No parent should be judged by a bad emotional moment, as long as they don't bring it up in front of their children. Hateing you chilrdren for a minute or two doesn't make you a bad parent either and never tell people that it does. That's wrong and puts them down.
It’s not normal to feel hatred towards your child. Do not convince yourself or attempt to convince others that this is normal. This is a crisis of a mentally ill woman, NOT OK. She needs help, it’s not the child, she raised him this way. She should not be left alone with the boy at any point.
Slugdog if I could like this comment millions of times I would. You’re 100% accurate it is impossible to be Supermom everyday of your life. This Mom obviously hates the way he acts and is clearly getting help. Children don’t come with a freaking manual and everyone do not have a desire to be parents but if they just so happen to populate the Earth you can only take one day at a time. Grin and bare it I say
Harrison's problems are the results of lazy parenting. How is a grown man afraid to confront his small child? I can almost guarantee he's never been discipline.The funny part is they have the nerve to blame this child for being rambunctious when they've never enforced guidelines. These parents are pathetic, sorry not sorry.
Imagine having a child like Harrison in a regular education classroom of 27 first graders with no assistance? After three months and a bite requiring medical attention, I told my supervisor it was dismiss the child or look for another teacher. What does one do when a parent refuses to admit her child has a problem? The principal had no choice but to expel the child, but not until the authorities got involved when I showed up in the ER.
Wow the same thing happened to my mom when she taught. There was an extremely violent, malicious child with awful parents that she kept warning the school about but they didn't listen. Until one day he stabbed my mom in the arm with scissors he got off her desk. After that the kid was put in a psychiatric center.
I’m a retired inner city teacher who laughed when I read this! My classroom was filled with kids who were 100x worse than him every year! It was public school, so no expulsion, nothing. We were stuck with them all yr until they drove a different teacher insane the following yr.
Harry isn't crying because his mommy is upset. It's because she said she sometimes hates Harry and wishes that she never had him and she said it right in front of her 5 year old.
That's my exact thought, too. She said that like it's not a big deal. That will crush ur child's soul to the core. It broke my heart for that little boy and his brother.
Is it possible that Harrison's mom may have had PPD, and thinks she hates him because she was never able to bond and it's gone on this long and the effect is now out of the control of the parents to the point that it requires psychological intervention? She said she was disappointed that he was a boy when he was born, that she got on better with her older child, but it may have just been that she was just miserable in general after her second kid. I don't know her and I certainly don't agree with how she treats her kid, but how she acts seems very similar to others I've met with that particular problem.
No, you give her too much credit. She's just clueless on how to set appropriate limits with her child, you can see the dad and the sibling have the same problem.
Yes it might be because of her mental state or PPD. There’s a Facebook page called “I Regret Having Children” Its full of comments by parents that feel similar to her, it’s not uncommon just very taboo to talk about.
Potato Queen ya because people force women to be mothers. there is actually a tedex talk about one lady who doesn't want to have children and she was always told "you will change your mind". she even wanted her tubes tied but a lot of doctors refused her claiming she would regret it, or is being selfish. and go "what if your parent wants kids, or if you get a new partner and they want kids" then you have "kid" parents who want "new parent" attention and pretty much have a living doll to play with. cuz the new born and baby phase is the "fun" part as you can dress them in cute outside and get attention for how cute the baby is.
Relaxing on the settee, Mommy Dearest...who doesn't hesitate to say she hates her child, right in front of him no less...says "let's listen to our brat" on the monitor. A cruel, cold, selfish woman. And a clueless father, as he claims his child is not sad & that he has everything a kid could want. Some people just shouldn't have kids. My opinion.
Lemon Ade Seriously! He gets rewarded with chocolate for bad behavior, his mum says she hates him while he’s right next to him, his mum started the violent behavior by swiping at him, and they let him stay in bed with them but complain about it... The parents created this problem. Now they’re the ones who have to sort it out.
Harry is really lovely you can see it, he's just a lot sad because he never got the love of his mother as he wished. That moment she said that cruel things in front of him he first was crying next to dad, who he finds more comfort, then when Tanya said to cuddle with mommy he hugged her desperately, you can really see how guilty he feels about not being loved by his mother and the fact he feels lonely about it and doesnt know what to do to change it... So sad ❤
Can’t believe what that mother just said that she hates her son in front of him no wonder he goes of on one ☝️ where did he learn the way he swears and his behaviour is through the parents not being strong enough
I'm in absolute shock. Im a single mom who has one dad and one grandma, my daughter has me, mom, one grandpa and one great grandma. She is so sweet smart and kind. Im seriously so blessed. If my kid acted like this, the FIRST time she did this she'd be spanked and sent to her room. Id be damned if she had more power over me. Jesus. Unbelievable.
My son used to hit me when he was little, and I tried and tried everything and his father would not let me punish him. One day he hit me bad on the cheek, and I turned around and slapped him a good one. I'm 60 years old now, and that boy never hit me again after I popped him one. He needed to know exactly how it felt. That did it.
I watch these because I’m not a perfect parent, I struggle to know what’s the right way to approach a situation so my child will learn and grow within healthy boundaries. These families have laid there lives bare to get help, they may not be perfect but they are getting help which shows that they want to change & they want better for the children. Harrison appears to be a very sweet boy, look how he handled the little boy tipping toys and messing up his game. Good luck to these families and thank you for showing us real examples so we can all learn together.
So she cba to deal with Harry and hasn't fed him any fruit or veg since he was born? The kid has a choice eat what you are given or starve. No chocolate buttons simple as. Feeding him sugary treats got his bad behaviour ain't good
why not provide a choice for the kid, you pick two healthy foods and they get a choice. This helps kids realize they do have a voice and helps with choice making skills. Keep forcing kids to do things can be just as abusive, and latter in life they have poor choice making skills.
Sounds like Harry is having a panic attack with the fan being on in his bedroom because of his anxiety level :(. I'm so glad all these families have got the help they need and I love the ending they have by the end of the week :).
kid doesn’t eat anything but chocolate yet you get there and offer it to him without him asking for it? CRIMEDy im with you about yelling at the screen lol
Seeing Harry cry utterly broke my heart . Then they kept saying “we are gonna help make mommy and daddy not be sad” confirming in his mind that he made his parents sad because they *hate * him and wish he were never born
Most children just need more love, more cuddles and more listening. The adults seem to talk at them and don't really know how to relate to them. I know this isn't 100% achievable but you need to remember their little people who want to make their own decisions (choose between an apple and a banana). And I'm a sole parent who've brought my daughter up on my own from birth. She's 19 and I've sought as much parenting advice as I could and talking and listening and remembering to ask their opinions and thoughts so they feel heard is invaluable advice.
thank you i'm 33 but i recall my childhood vividly (mainly because of the abuse i've suffered) i wasn't allowed to make or have choices. Like i can't have cooked carrots, even since i was little id get headaches from boiled carrots. Some to the point id get very ill. Funny enough i LOVE carrots mainly raw or steamed neither case causes me head aches. When my step dad would make carrots he would boil them only. And some days he have some cut up for me. Most days he couldn't be arsed. :/ can't tell you how negative eating was, it got to the point where by the time i was 16 i just plain refuse to be around my family. I made my own food or eat my food alone in my bedroom and what i couldn't eat id just throw out. And that was never good enough -_-.
I know were quick to judge Harrisons parents BUT I reeeeealllllly think Harrisoss Mom had post partum depression and never got treatment. She never had the hormonal chemical bond that holds mother and child together. She littlerly dosent care beacuse subconsciously he's not her baby. He's just a parisite she got stuck with and is socially conditioned to care for...... Its reeeeeally sad. But dose definitely happen. Her first daughter is normal. So I really think its PPD that caused her to never be a 'mother'.
Nonsense. Men outright abandon their kids all the time without any social repercussions. On the rare occasion they get called out, the just say "my ex is crazy/evil/etc" and people accept that excuse.
You are so niave I hope you get to understand children with ADHD autism and behavioural problems that are beyond the fault of the parents, the parents are clearly at the end of their tether and clear screaming for help.
Jacqueline Hunt, show me the statistics that show hitting children is positive or beneficial. If anything it's only a temporary deterrent and causes long-lasting negative issues.
Why didn't I see children like this when I was growing up in Nigeria?? 🤔🤔Oh yeah, I know why 😊😊 Most of all, these parents aren't firm enough, don't set or follow through with boundries, let their children get away with way too much without consequences and are too scared to discipline their children.
@@RainyRunningRiver what difference does that make? In a lot of developing countries globally, children are taught to behave much better than children of say, the US or the UK. Respectful children and the state of the country are unrelated.
@@nelly11796 I have noticed many poor children seem to behave better than the rich ones. Not always, but often enough for me to notice a pattern. I joke with my daughters I'm doing them a favor by being poor.
Harry’s mother is odd. She wanted a girl and was disappointed. She never truly bonded with Harry. The first thing she does when she walks into the kitchen is show him the chocolate things and the bread! Good grief! And then she says she hates him and wishes he had never been born and the boy is standing right there! He will never unhear those words his mother said! Either she is seriously ill or seriously dumb! I have compassion for most of these parents but this woman is a nightmare.
Harrison has all these packs of goodies and she wonders why he acts out so much! I never let my young kids have anything such as that, not until they got older and in small portions as a treat.
Harrison isn't upset because he feels bad for his Mummy. He's upset because at 5 yrs old he hears regularly about his Mum's dislike of him. 😏 An entire house of all "out of control" mean (seemingly) kids. Where are the sweet children of weeks past? Usually at least 1 sweet one.... 🤔 Harrison doesn't like the younger child doing exactly what he does. This should be interesting... 😂 Speaking of Harrison, why at 5+, is he going to bed with a dummy? 😏
My son is 19 months old and he eats fruit and veg! Yes some he doesn't like but because I weaned him onto them he likes them. Harrison's mother is clueless
I don't understand how they introduced foods. Everyone I know introduced foods in pretty much the same order. If you introduce fruits to an otherwise bland diet, kids think they are amazing. Some kids have allergies and texture issues, but to get to a point where they only eat chocolate, bread, and chips? Craziness.
no offence a kid can dislike something and it be ok.... force a child to like something can be abusive and cause issues in the end like not being allowed to say no, or feel they can't make choices. I was raised like this and now i'm extremely indecisive, it takes me a while to make my own choices as i never had any. Any time i ever tried to make a choice it was always a no. add the fact i have autism, and add doesn't help.
My 6 and 10 year olds LOVES all fruit and veggies! They’ll eat a bell pepper like it’s an apple. They starting eating salads at a year old. I think it’s because from the time they could have solids I gave them to them starting with soft canned carrots, green beans, etc. instead of throwing cheeze-it’s on their tray open a can of veggies and give them that. It’ll make a world of difference in the future! They’ll develop their taste buds according to what they’ve grown up eating. You can’t expect to introduce vegetables at 6 years old and expect them to like them.
“He’s crying because I’m sad.” No, maybe he’s crying because you said you hate him and wish you never had him with him literally right next to you. No wonder this kid acts out.
Why these kids were ever allowed to disrespect their parents this way is beyond me. Parents these days are terrified of being the boss and being the PARENT. You can have well disciplined respectful children without hitting, without screaming, but they have to know from a very early age that mom and dad are the alphas. I don't know when parents became so afraid of upsetting their snowflakes with a firm no.
Maybe from other people who are too quick to judge and so slow to offer assistance. I give my two year old firm no's everyday. Have boundaries, are consistent and have discipline. I came from a family of seven and we all grew up on a tight leash in terms of behavioural standards. But Doesn't stop my toddler throwing himself down in a public place, and usually the least convenient moment occasionally and have a good old tantrum. It's not only mortifying but exhausting. It Also doesn't stop others eyeballs boring multiple holes in your head with their judgement of your parenting either. 😳
Ishi Lala Sometimes toddlers do throw themselves down in the middle of a public place, especially if once in a while it gets parents to change their mind. But even if parents are firm even with a tantrum, kids will try it once in awhile. My son did it to. Kids have to check and see if tantrums work. And parents get to decide if they will work or not.
If these parents can't control their young children what's going to happen when they're teenagers? Detention center? Prison when they are older? 😪 Take charge now.
Kelsey’s mother angers me more than I can bear. All she does is say no and aggravate the poor girl. Mother triggers them. No wonder the tantrums! So hateful the mom is. Needs to let her child alone.
I just don't understand why the parents reward there kid for bad behavior. In the first 4 minutes I saw that kid hit his mother and sister probably more then 20 time then next thing you know the kid gets to have all these treats and stuff. It's just absolutely mad.
Oh no, the boy who hits - I feel sorry, but am also totally frustrated by parents who allow that sort of thing. I think, no one intentionally allows it - but they clearly have no idea whatsoever how to be authoritative and give proper discipline. Thing is, parents think they are disciplining by saying "No, don't do that it hurts/it's bad" but it's all talk, talk, talk(and often they don't use a stern enough voice making the words just background noise for kids who haven't learned discipline). They are toddlers, talk isn't enough. You CAN avoid that sort of thing - but you have to have zero tolerance for it from the get go and make sure there is a discipline tactic in place.
Rosalina 90 he swore at the camera and how many minutes later he was being given a treat in the form of buttons. So she's offering him to food they wish he didn't eat when he doesn't even ask for it
Horrid parenting. They give these children all of the power in their household and then throw their hands up and go " we've tried nothing, and we're all out of ideas" complete failures as parents, Doormats shouldn't be raising kids. The "mother" claims that she doesn't say that in front of him but she sure did say "I hate you and wish you were never born" very casually didn't she? Like she enjoys inflicting the worst pain on him because she resents him and doesn't really love that boy. But of course SHE is the victim, then the phsyco consoles HIM for what just came out of her mouth, but makes his tears all about her! "He's crying because I'm upset".. WHAT?!?. I'm not a violent person but I seriously want to drop kick this woman.. multiple times.
What do they mean the child wont eat anything but this that and the other? If the child doesnt have allergies or a genuine phobia and what you are asking is reasonable the child may have some say in what they eat but it is certainly not going to be the same exact thing day in day out. Dont make a big to do about it. Sit the child down with his child friendly foods tell the child you expect two pieces of carrot, two bites of corn with 3 kernels at least and two chicken bites or whatever is appropriate for their age and activity and then they may get up and play before bath/ bed. They sit until they eat or if they choose not to eat until bath time and then strait to bed. In the morning here comes the chicken corn and carrot again. No yelling and no scaring the child. Keep it light and happy and dont make eating a punishment just something that must be done and should be without stress. You can even give them a choice between two foods before you make dinner if you like, let them have some control if there isnt a control issue.
I'm not against people not wanting children. I think it's ok. However, not all children are like this. It has nothing to do w/ not physically disciplining a child either.
Well it shouldn't. Just use common sense and don't put up with bad behavior. None of my 4 kids ever was like this. I simply wouldn't allow it, that's all.
If you start discipline early, like at 1 year of age showing them what you expect, stay consistent, and not be a lazy parent motherhood is a wonderful thing.
I can see why. Honestly there is no true connection of love in this family. This child is acting out to get ANY attention because his mother openly despises him. It turns into a vicious cycle. The more you hit or act aggressively towards a child the more they copy that behaviour and mimic at home and school. His diet is full of sugar and too many carbohydrates without actual necessary fats and vitamins for proper brain growth. He honestly can't function properly because his brain is in fight or flight mode 24/7.
This is disturbing. Can’t wait for my kids to get home from school . They are so sweet. I just want to kiss them and hug them. Thanks God. We are so blessed. They are the world to us. 🙏🏼
Im from Tennessee. We got our butts busted. We DID NOT hit our parents back. We were not abused, we just got a good whippin when we needed. We were well behaved kids and are well adjusted adults.
Beth Norrod don't kid yourself it is abuse, and you are not well adjusted if you think a 180 lbs adult hitting a 80 lbs child is ok. a basic physics equation would tell you the amount of force you apply the child feels it doubled. taking pride in being hit is just as bad. do some research on the subject.
There are children who sleep so soundly they don’t wake when they need to empty their bladder; my daughter struggled for some time around the age of 4. We got an alarm system they woke her whenever she wet her pjs, and within a week, the problem was solved. Our pediatrician told us letting older children wear nappies, unless there was an underlying physical issue, is not the answer but just lazy parenting. It’s annoying to have to change sheets in the middle of the night, but it was necessary to help my daughter learn to control her bladder at night. Like I said, it only took her a week or so to learn the signals and wake up.
no matter what happens if the mother is nicer or if things improve that child will never forget that his mom said she hated him and wished she never had him. every time she says she loves him he will question it. it'll haunt him for the rest of his life. i feel for the poor kid and wish him the best
This is what comes from lazy parenting and thinking 'oh they are only little, I can sort it out when they are old enough to understand'. Kids aren't just cute little morons. From day one you are raising a future adult, a future member of society. You have to be consistent. The first time you tell your child something and they ignore it and you let them get away with it, you have taught them that you have weak boundaries. By the time they get to the age you believe they can understand, it's too late, you have taught them the wrong way and you have a huge battle fight to change it up. Go into parenting realising what you are doing, you are raising our future generations.
How do people not feed their kids fruits and veggies as babies?! This was one of the most fun parts of watching my baby grow into a toddler! I always loved the funny faces they made and when they found something like they liked!
I remember sharing food with my nephews when they were babies. I’d make it fun showing them Elmo and Curious George loved bananas or whatever we were introducing. I would even sacrifice my vintage Jiminy Cricket puppet so they could “feed” him. They’re teens now and eat everything.
They’re filling him up with sugar 3 times a day. No wonder he acts up and can’t sleep. And too say you don’t like him with him in the room, no words......
I like the fact every one focused on the fact I hated my son , they edited a lot of the programming and I was suffering from post natal at the time . Harrison is now a strapping nearly 19 year old lad who is well loved eats lots of fruit , loves his sleep and his mum and dad love him very much along with his sister and his younger brother .
Why is the mom saying something like, Let's go listen for our little brat, etc.?!?! No wonder he has problems!!! I thought the expert would have advised the mom during the 2nd tantrum the little girl is having...
Ryan’s mom is ridiculous... he hits his brother repeatedly even says he is hurt daily all while mom looks on and says nothing or does nothing to stop him.
Our children are what we make them. From their genetic makeup which obviously comes from us to their life experiences which we need to be educated on prior to choosing to raise a child. I am a firm believer that child rearing is vital for a successful society to grow in a healthy manor. Regarding the hitting issue, in particular, I am ok with it and I know there will be some who will attack me on this but, if your child is physically hurting another child or pets showing the child what the pain feels like is a good tool for teaching. My own daughter was 2 when smacked five times in her life, the first was for biting another child on the cheek and the only way to get her to let go wass to lift her dress and give her a few wacks. The last time she was 14 and had called me a bad name. I don't allow disrespect. I don't give or take it.
I got two toddlers who are well...toddlers. Yes they irritate me sometimes but good god I can’t ever imagine saying or even thinking that I hate my children. I just cannot fathom feeling any kind of hate for my children.
I'm sorry, but the problems I'm seeing are extremely obvious, and they're not the children's fault in any way. Kids are really quite simple to deal with, I'm not surprised at all that they react to their parents the way they do. I can't imagine how I'd have turned out had I heard my mum say she hated me or wish she hadn't had me, or scolded me for everything I did, said "no" to every action, didn't feed me right, or wouldn't hug me when I needed it. They're being selfish. Kids aren't perfect, and they're products of their parenting. I just feel terrible for them. That uncertainty and coldness must cut very deeply.
"He knows I'm upset" the boy is upset he just heard mom say I hate Harry and wish I never had him. I can't imagine how devastating that is for a five year old. Every problem that kid has is because his parents are awful.
I think also the mom of Harry never understood or was never told that kids can be different, and boys especially are usually never super emotional in bonding with mothers until being much older. She'll be surprised when the relationships flip as her daughter tries to become more emotionally independent and he tries figuring out emotional connections more.
That’s completely false. Mothers and sons develop an iron bond starting as infants that only grows as time goes by. That’s why boys and men are so protective of their mothers. In many cases, that bond is stronger than the mother daughter bond.
Susan Swiader thank God. I was reading comments and thought everyone was saying how horrible the mom was but they just don't correct him. I thought I was the only one who thought what you said.
I completely blame the parents for this one. He's never had a fruit or vegetable since he's been born and only wants to eat bags of chocolate?! 100% the parents fault
Tatiana Steele it is their fault useless parents.
We cannot jump to conclusions like that, that kid is aggressive. If the the parents somehow forced him to eat vegetable e.g. force feed, what do you think will happen? If you think I am wrong, what are your other solutions? I am not saying you are wrong but it's not entirely the parents fault...(But your point is kinda right)
n00b when it comes to his horrible eating habits, yea they are most definitely to blame. I'm a mom and I made my son's baby food for him which I know a lot of parents won't do and as a baby he couldn't be that aggressive to the point they just gave in completely and only fed him chocolate, that's ridiculous. If they wouldn't have given up and for example the fruit or veggies were his only option, he would've gotten hungry and eaten it, probably would've realized it's actually tasty and enjoyed it. But they never tried, he's never once had a fruit or veggie which means they never even cared to try to give him a healthy option
Thanks for your opinion!
Right?! Toddlers can't shop for themselves
OMG chocolate buttons for every fricken meal! No bloody wonder that child is so moody!!!!
Yea it's a chocolate over load big time sugar rush
He is acting like a drug addict. They say sugar is a drug because it lights up the same pathways in the brain as heroin. He is crashing from his high so he becomes angry. 100% the parents fault.
I read a diet can affect behavior
@@violetliskey675 it definitely does .. in everyone .. just some people are more obvious with their reactions but that poor kid doesn't stand a chance to control his mood with that diet
Parents who are legitimately disappointed by the gender of their baby should not be having kids. Imagine if one of their kids had a serious disability--they wouldn't be able to handle THAT level of "disappointment!" You've got a 50/50 chance of having the gender you want: those are not great odds. If you can't handle the gamble, don't play the game. The stakes are far too high. Favoritism causes lifelong self-esteem problems.
Tbh I would refuse to take care of a disabled child
*insert clever nickname here* I appreciate your honesty. But, how do you know? I think lots of people feel the way you do, and they have a baby with special needs and couldn’t bear for someone else to have them. Nobody wants to have a disability put on their child, but if they were, you may find you’d want that baby regardless. You may not, I’m just throwing it out there that they way you think you’d respond and how you’d actually respond might be different.
@@insertclevernicknamehere7637 what if they weren't born with a disability or had one develope later in life. Would you give your 4 year up just because they developed autism or were paralyzed in an accident.
Those are the same people that force transgenderism on their kids forcing little boys to be girls and girls to be boys. It's disgusting truly.
You are totally right, but in this case it is particular : Mum was not happy having a boy because she had just lost a baby girl. Mum has not properly grieved and Dr Tanya will work with her about it this week
Seems like the parents need more treatment than the children....
That's always the case.
It's heartbreaking to say you hate your child and wish you'd never had them right in front of them. No wonder he's the way he is! I bet it's not the first time he's heard it.
After birth abortion should be allowed in cases like this. He's worthless.
I say it to my dog everyday.
I actually cried when he did after she said it. Absolutely horrible.
renee the d , Are you serious?
Lola Lopez i know
They might want to find another home for that poor cat.
You have to feel intensely sorry for the teachers who have to deal with kids like Harrison - and that's the parents fault.
That's a small part of it. Most of it is because he desperately needs spankings or time outs when he misbehaves.
Orange Blossom monster !!! My son was a Misunderstanding child who is now is strapping lovely 19 year old thanks no longer a MONSTER
Oh my god thats so true, working in child care i had 6 kids like this and the parents would accuse me of misconduct and tell me im the problem when i told them their child was acting out. They proceeded to baby the kid and their behavior never improved.
@Isa Ramzy we werent even understaffed we just werent allowed to give time outs because parents would get offended. The problem is parents are weak willed and see their children as gods, too perfect to be punished. This modern outlook is running rampant like disease but is utterly misguided and stupid. Children look to adults for guidance and need structure. If you never disipline them you simply teach them that they can behave any way they'd like and its acceptable. Ive seen way too much of it for my time and im done in childcare. If you dont want your child disiplined for their actions by someone else, watch them yourselves. Childcare providers have enough to deal with anyway.
AGREED!
I hope the mom that said she hates her kid in front of him gets some serious help not only for her but him too. Hearing stuff like that at a young age causes mental issues in the future.
freedom seeker she is just honest.
"Oh, look, Harry, BUTTONS!" No wonder the kid's only eating chocolate: his mom made it exciting and good!
The mom arrived to the home and she automatically went to look for the chocolates. Sweetheart no
So once again....I don't think the problem lies with young Harrison. I think the problem comes from Mom. She told Dr. Tanya that she was disappointed that her child was a boy....that she had wanted another daughter and she has a closer relationship with her daughter than she has with him. And when she is saying these things about her son "I HATE you....I wish you had NEVER been BORN....he's a MONSTER" and she's crying over him not eating or sleeping in his own bed, she claims he doesn't see it, but its clear to me he DOES. He hears those cruel, heartbreaking words his mother is saying about him and I would be willing to bet that this isn't the first time he's heard those words and this genuinely hurts him. Those tears weren't fake when he heard his mother and they CERTAINLY weren't brought on because "Mommy was upset". That's why he's really having trouble. Because as we saw when Dr. Tanya intervened at lunch, he was happy to eat for her. His father says "Oh I don't think he's sad....he has anything he could ever want. Maybe that is true as far as the material things....but he doesn't have his mother's love and that's the thing he desperately needs.
As for the little girl....Kelsie,....again, I think the problem stems from Mom. During their initial introduction, all I heard her say to the child is "NO" Don't do this, don't do that, stay away from this, stop doing that" There is not a lot of fun or affection or breathing room in their relationship. Its just her telling her daughter no all the time. Its no small wonder it only takes 10 minutes to get the child to pre-school and an hour to get home....pre-school is probably the ONLY place Kelsie has any kind of fun or positive interaction with an adult. And I don't think her mother knows how to discipline her. Both times we have seen her try to discipline her daughter, she hasn't given her a proper time-out with a warning, having her sit there for the required time and then reiterating the reason and getting the apology. She has sat there and held her down and that just seems to make the problem worse. She also smacks her. She's not TEACHING her daughter anything but that negative behavior gets her Mommy's attention and that's exactly why Chelsie misbehaves. Calling her daughter a cow doesn't impress me either.
If the kid's never had a fruit or vegetable it really is the parents fault for not getting him used to them!
Did that mother seriously say she felt like she wish she never had him IN FRONT OF HIM?!?! I understand I’m sure every mum feels like that from time to time but to say that in front of him...does she understand how damaging that is to his self esteem? No wonder the poor boy was crying
Isabelle Booth I agree horrible woman.
It is. I bet evey mother (and of couse every dad) had had such a moment or minute in their life. Usually, nobody tells about such bad moments, cuz everyone will say "thats not okay! you have to love your child whatever happens! bad mother! bad bad mother!" but reality is different.
Humans aren't like that, they aren't perfect and they have borders. If several bad days and nights follow each other, you don't have nerves left, then you can hate your child. No mother can tell me, she never had such feelings. As long they are temporaly, everything is okay and normal, yes humans do have bad thoughs sometimes and yes, own children aren't save of that. And of course those feelings need to be adressed and taken seriously! Tell your partner those feelings, cry, scream alone, take a break if possible.
No parent should be judged by a bad emotional moment, as long as they don't bring it up in front of their children. Hateing you chilrdren for a minute or two doesn't make you a bad parent either and never tell people that it does. That's wrong and puts them down.
It’s not normal to feel hatred towards your child. Do not convince yourself or attempt to convince others that this is normal. This is a crisis of a mentally ill woman, NOT OK. She needs help, it’s not the child, she raised him this way. She should not be left alone with the boy at any point.
Slugdog if I could like this comment millions of times I would. You’re 100% accurate it is impossible to be Supermom everyday of your life. This Mom obviously hates the way he acts and is clearly getting help. Children don’t come with a freaking manual and everyone do not have a desire to be parents but if they just so happen to populate the Earth you can only take one day at a time. Grin and bare it I say
Harrison's problems are the results of lazy parenting. How is a grown man afraid to confront his small child? I can almost guarantee he's never been discipline.The funny part is they have the nerve to blame this child for being rambunctious when they've never enforced guidelines. These parents are pathetic, sorry not sorry.
Imagine having a child like Harrison in a regular education classroom of 27 first graders with no assistance? After three months and a bite requiring medical attention, I told my supervisor it was dismiss the child or look for another teacher. What does one do when a parent refuses to admit her child has a problem? The principal had no choice but to expel the child, but not until the authorities got involved when I showed up in the ER.
Wow the same thing happened to my mom when she taught. There was an extremely violent, malicious child with awful parents that she kept warning the school about but they didn't listen. Until one day he stabbed my mom in the arm with scissors he got off her desk. After that the kid was put in a psychiatric center.
I’m a retired inner city teacher who laughed when I read this! My classroom was filled with kids who were 100x worse than him every year! It was public school, so no expulsion, nothing. We were stuck with them all yr until they drove a different teacher insane the following yr.
Harry isn't crying because his mommy is upset. It's because she said she sometimes hates Harry and wishes that she never had him and she said it right in front of her 5 year old.
That's my exact thought, too. She said that like it's not a big deal. That will crush ur child's soul to the core. It broke my heart for that little boy and his brother.
As someone studying to become an early help worker this breaks my heart
@@Crazycatlady71Same.
She is awful. And abusive.
Is it possible that Harrison's mom may have had PPD, and thinks she hates him because she was never able to bond and it's gone on this long and the effect is now out of the control of the parents to the point that it requires psychological intervention? She said she was disappointed that he was a boy when he was born, that she got on better with her older child, but it may have just been that she was just miserable in general after her second kid.
I don't know her and I certainly don't agree with how she treats her kid, but how she acts seems very similar to others I've met with that particular problem.
Ugh was thinking the exact same thing
I agree. PPD could last up to years. And she rejected her son from birth? That's also a factor. Children feel rejection
No, you give her too much credit. She's just clueless on how to set appropriate limits with her child, you can see the dad and the sibling have the same problem.
Yes it might be because of her mental state or PPD.
There’s a Facebook page called “I Regret Having Children” Its full of comments by parents that feel similar to her, it’s not uncommon just very taboo to talk about.
Potato Queen
ya because people force women to be mothers. there is actually a tedex talk about one lady who doesn't want to have children and she was always told "you will change your mind". she even wanted her tubes tied but a lot of doctors refused her claiming she would regret it, or is being selfish. and go "what if your parent wants kids, or if you get a new partner and they want kids"
then you have "kid" parents who want "new parent" attention and pretty much have a living doll to play with. cuz the new born and baby phase is the "fun" part as you can dress them in cute outside and get attention for how cute the baby is.
Relaxing on the settee, Mommy Dearest...who doesn't hesitate to say she hates her child, right in front of him no less...says "let's listen to our brat" on the monitor. A cruel, cold, selfish woman. And a clueless father, as he claims his child is not sad & that he has everything a kid could want. Some people just shouldn't have kids. My opinion.
and the father has no backbone.
The sound editing in this show is atrocious
THANK YOU
The editors fell asleep at their desk and sent it off anyway
I was about to comment the same thing. Can’t watch this thing without headphones on, or I’ll upset the neighbors with sudden blaring music.
I have to turn down the volume when that horrendous music is on.
well it was15 years ago
He gets in the house.. sticks his finger up and gets buttons as a reward
Lemon Ade Seriously! He gets rewarded with chocolate for bad behavior, his mum says she hates him while he’s right next to him, his mum started the violent behavior by swiping at him, and they let him stay in bed with them but complain about it... The parents created this problem. Now they’re the ones who have to sort it out.
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buttons she fuccin SEARCHED OUT that he knew nothing about and NOTIFIED HIM OF THE DAMN BUTTONS !
She said she HATED him in front of him!
Harry is really lovely you can see it, he's just a lot sad because he never got the love of his mother as he wished. That moment she said that cruel things in front of him he first was crying next to dad, who he finds more comfort, then when Tanya said to cuddle with mommy he hugged her desperately, you can really see how guilty he feels about not being loved by his mother and the fact he feels lonely about it and doesnt know what to do to change it... So sad ❤
Why even have children if you can:t love them.
Can’t believe what that mother just said that she hates her son in front of him no wonder he goes of on one ☝️ where did he learn the way he swears and his behaviour is through the parents not being strong enough
Imagine
Truly, parents you are the problem, not Harry!
I kinda blame the parents
Yeah I completely blame them
Not kinda, but plain BLAME THEM!
I'm in absolute shock. Im a single mom who has one dad and one grandma, my daughter has me, mom, one grandpa and one great grandma. She is so sweet smart and kind. Im seriously so blessed. If my kid acted like this, the FIRST time she did this she'd be spanked and sent to her room. Id be damned if she had more power over me. Jesus. Unbelievable.
My son used to hit me when he was little, and I tried and tried everything and his father would not let me punish him. One day he hit me bad on the cheek, and I turned around and slapped him a good one. I'm 60 years old now, and that boy never hit me again after I popped him one. He needed to know exactly how it felt. That did it.
I feel zero compassion for this parents, it’s 100% their fault, those poor kids deserve better, it’s heartbreaking.
This show is literal birth control
I watch these because I’m not a perfect parent, I struggle to know what’s the right way to approach a situation so my child will learn and grow within healthy boundaries. These families have laid there lives bare to get help, they may not be perfect but they are getting help which shows that they want to change & they want better for the children. Harrison appears to be a very sweet boy, look how he handled the little boy tipping toys and messing up his game. Good luck to these families and thank you for showing us real examples so we can all learn together.
So she cba to deal with Harry and hasn't fed him any fruit or veg since he was born? The kid has a choice eat what you are given or starve. No chocolate buttons simple as. Feeding him sugary treats got his bad behaviour ain't good
why not provide a choice for the kid, you pick two healthy foods and they get a choice. This helps kids realize they do have a voice and helps with choice making skills. Keep forcing kids to do things can be just as abusive, and latter in life they have poor choice making skills.
It's one thing thinking it but no mother should ever say that to their child
Sounds like Harry is having a panic attack with the fan being on in his bedroom because of his anxiety level :(. I'm so glad all these families have got the help they need and I love the ending they have by the end of the week :).
I cant watch this anymore. This mother makes me so mad, I am yelling at the computer. She is horrible. And they blame him????? OMG.
I completely agree
kid doesn’t eat anything but chocolate yet you get there and offer it to him without him asking for it? CRIMEDy im with you about yelling at the screen lol
Seeing Harry cry utterly broke my heart . Then they kept saying “we are gonna help make mommy and daddy not be sad” confirming in his mind that he made his parents sad because they *hate * him and wish he were never born
Most children just need more love, more cuddles and more listening. The adults seem to talk at them and don't really know how to relate to them. I know this isn't 100% achievable but you need to remember their little people who want to make their own decisions (choose between an apple and a banana). And I'm a sole parent who've brought my daughter up on my own from birth. She's 19 and I've sought as much parenting advice as I could and talking and listening and remembering to ask their opinions and thoughts so they feel heard is invaluable advice.
thank you i'm 33 but i recall my childhood vividly (mainly because of the abuse i've suffered) i wasn't allowed to make or have choices.
Like i can't have cooked carrots, even since i was little id get headaches from boiled carrots. Some to the point id get very ill. Funny enough i LOVE carrots mainly raw or steamed neither case causes me head aches. When my step dad would make carrots he would boil them only. And some days he have some cut up for me. Most days he couldn't be arsed. :/ can't tell you how negative eating was, it got to the point where by the time i was 16 i just plain refuse to be around my family. I made my own food or eat my food alone in my bedroom and what i couldn't eat id just throw out. And that was never good enough -_-.
Well done
I know were quick to judge Harrisons parents BUT I reeeeealllllly think Harrisoss Mom had post partum depression and never got treatment. She never had the hormonal chemical bond that holds mother and child together. She littlerly dosent care beacuse subconsciously he's not her baby. He's just a parisite she got stuck with and is socially conditioned to care for......
Its reeeeeally sad. But dose definitely happen. Her first daughter is normal. So I really think its PPD that caused her to never be a 'mother'.
Nonsense. Men outright abandon their kids all the time without any social repercussions. On the rare occasion they get called out, the just say "my ex is crazy/evil/etc" and people accept that excuse.
It’s weird seeing a second time mom have absolutely no clue what to do with a child so you’re probably right
Every single one of these families on this show and on similar shows, the problem is the parents. They fear discipline.
The answer is a good smacking
You are so niave I hope you get to understand children with ADHD autism and behavioural problems that are beyond the fault of the parents, the parents are clearly at the end of their tether and clear screaming for help.
tina andersen your right.
jess their spoilt brats who need their parents to be in charge I’m sick of people like you making excuses for bad behaviour.
Jacqueline Hunt, show me the statistics that show hitting children is positive or beneficial. If anything it's only a temporary deterrent and causes long-lasting negative issues.
ignore her when walking, when she stops just keep walking. once she sees that she's no longer getting the reaction she wants, she'll stop
Why didn't I see children like this when I was growing up in Nigeria?? 🤔🤔Oh yeah, I know why 😊😊
Most of all, these parents aren't firm enough, don't set or follow through with boundries, let their children get away with way too much without consequences and are too scared to discipline their children.
Yah... Hows Nigeria as a country right now?
@@RainyRunningRiver what difference does that make? In a lot of developing countries globally, children are taught to behave much better than children of say, the US or the UK. Respectful children and the state of the country are unrelated.
@@nelly11796
I have noticed many poor children seem to behave better than the rich ones. Not always, but often enough for me to notice a pattern. I joke with my daughters I'm doing them a favor by being poor.
Being a supernanny addict, it's soooo frustrating to know instantly what the parents are doing wrong!! But at least I've learnt something :P
Harry’s mother is odd. She wanted a girl and was disappointed. She never truly bonded with Harry. The first thing she does when she walks into the kitchen is show him the chocolate things and the bread! Good grief! And then she says she hates him and wishes he had never been born and the boy is standing right there! He will never unhear those words his mother said! Either she is seriously ill or seriously dumb! I have compassion for most of these parents but this woman is a nightmare.
Harrison has all these packs of goodies and she wonders why he acts out so much! I never let my young kids have anything such as that, not until they got older and in small portions as a treat.
They never talk to the kids when they are behaving good. They never say you are good girl or boy, just paying attention when kids behave bad...
The second kid (Kelsey) is actually giving me flashbacks. Kinda wish I would've gotten help back then lmao
Harrison isn't upset because he feels bad for his Mummy. He's upset because at 5 yrs old he hears regularly about his Mum's dislike of him. 😏
An entire house of all "out of control" mean (seemingly) kids. Where are the sweet children of weeks past? Usually at least 1 sweet one.... 🤔
Harrison doesn't like the younger child doing exactly what he does. This should be interesting... 😂 Speaking of Harrison, why at 5+, is he going to bed with a dummy? 😏
The kid whimpered twice and the dad went in to get to get him... He is not helping
My son is 19 months old and he eats fruit and veg! Yes some he doesn't like but because I weaned him onto them he likes them.
Harrison's mother is clueless
unfortunately so many parents are clueless... we're all a product of social engineering and "modern" life... it's a sad state of affairs
I don't understand how they introduced foods. Everyone I know introduced foods in pretty much the same order. If you introduce fruits to an otherwise bland diet, kids think they are amazing. Some kids have allergies and texture issues, but to get to a point where they only eat chocolate, bread, and chips? Craziness.
Why would she make that little smacking noise while offering him food. He's not a dog! Weird.
no offence a kid can dislike something and it be ok.... force a child to like something can be abusive and cause issues in the end like not being allowed to say no, or feel they can't make choices.
I was raised like this and now i'm extremely indecisive, it takes me a while to make my own choices as i never had any. Any time i ever tried to make a choice it was always a no. add the fact i have autism, and add doesn't help.
My 6 and 10 year olds LOVES all fruit and veggies! They’ll eat a bell pepper like it’s an apple. They starting eating salads at a year old. I think it’s because from the time they could have solids I gave them to them starting with soft canned carrots, green beans, etc. instead of throwing cheeze-it’s on their tray open a can of veggies and give them that. It’ll make a world of difference in the future! They’ll develop their taste buds according to what they’ve grown up eating. You can’t expect to introduce vegetables at 6 years old and expect them to like them.
“He’s crying because I’m sad.”
No, maybe he’s crying because you said you hate him and wish you never had him with him literally right next to you.
No wonder this kid acts out.
Why these kids were ever allowed to disrespect their parents this way is beyond me. Parents these days are terrified of being the boss and being the PARENT. You can have well disciplined respectful children without hitting, without screaming, but they have to know from a very early age that mom and dad are the alphas. I don't know when parents became so afraid of upsetting their snowflakes with a firm no.
Maybe from other people who are too quick to judge and so slow to offer assistance. I give my two year old firm no's everyday. Have boundaries, are consistent and have discipline. I came from a family of seven and we all grew up on a tight leash in terms of behavioural standards. But Doesn't stop my toddler throwing himself down in a public place, and usually the least convenient moment occasionally and have a good old tantrum. It's not only mortifying but exhausting. It Also doesn't stop others eyeballs boring multiple holes in your head with their judgement of your parenting either. 😳
Ishi Lala Sometimes toddlers do throw themselves down in the middle of a public place, especially if once in a while it gets parents to change their mind. But even if parents are firm even with a tantrum, kids will try it once in awhile. My son did it to. Kids have to check and see if tantrums work. And parents get to decide if they will work or not.
They need Super Nanny, Jo Frost. =/
Usagi Tsukino b i g f a c t s
If these parents can't control their young children what's going to happen when they're teenagers? Detention center?
Prison when they are older? 😪 Take charge now.
So clear that all these children need is some positive interaction & time spent NOT yelling, NOT screaming....
This was INCREDIBLY difficult to watch... heads up.
Noelle Pritchard Barkley 😂😂😂
That poor little boy, she's smiling at her husband when Harry says mummy thinks of him as the naughty boy 😭.
Supernanny wouldn't agree with a holding time out because that is still given attention
I think Harry is sad because his mom is over the age of 12 and is wearing pigtails.
I have waited literal YEARS to find this again
Kelsey’s mother angers me more than I can bear. All she does is say no and aggravate the poor girl. Mother triggers them. No wonder the tantrums! So hateful the mom is. Needs to let her child alone.
I just don't understand why the parents reward there kid for bad behavior. In the first 4 minutes I saw that kid hit his mother and sister probably more then 20 time then next thing you know the kid gets to have all these treats and stuff. It's just absolutely mad.
Oh no, the boy who hits - I feel sorry, but am also totally frustrated by parents who allow that sort of thing. I think, no one intentionally allows it - but they clearly have no idea whatsoever how to be authoritative and give proper discipline. Thing is, parents think they are disciplining by saying "No, don't do that it hurts/it's bad" but it's all talk, talk, talk(and often they don't use a stern enough voice making the words just background noise for kids who haven't learned discipline). They are toddlers, talk isn't enough. You CAN avoid that sort of thing - but you have to have zero tolerance for it from the get go and make sure there is a discipline tactic in place.
She just let him throw toys without doing a thing! She barely even said stop
I know right?! It's unbelievable how much these children are getting away with, no matter what age they are. There is no age for tolerance.
Rosalina 90 he swore at the camera and how many minutes later he was being given a treat in the form of buttons. So she's offering him to food they wish he didn't eat when he doesn't even ask for it
They don't need any more family's in the house this kid has all three problems all in one kid! Wow
Stephy Nicole
Families. 😉
This must have been the longest Trojan commercial I've ever seen
Horrid parenting. They give these children all of the power in their household and then throw their hands up and go " we've tried nothing, and we're all out of ideas" complete failures as parents, Doormats shouldn't be raising kids. The "mother" claims that she doesn't say that in front of him but she sure did say "I hate you and wish you were never born" very casually didn't she? Like she enjoys inflicting the worst pain on him because she resents him and doesn't really love that boy. But of course SHE is the victim, then the phsyco consoles HIM for what just came out of her mouth, but makes his tears all about her! "He's crying because I'm upset".. WHAT?!?. I'm not a violent person but I seriously want to drop kick this woman.. multiple times.
Have no sympathy for Harrison’s family. It’s not the poor child’s fault that his parents are incompetent idiots
I dont understand how do you get children like Harrison Dixon? Somebody has taught him to swear.....bad parenting
What do they mean the child wont eat anything but this that and the other? If the child doesnt have allergies or a genuine phobia and what you are asking is reasonable the child may have some say in what they eat but it is certainly not going to be the same exact thing day in day out. Dont make a big to do about it. Sit the child down with his child friendly foods tell the child you expect two pieces of carrot, two bites of corn with 3 kernels at least and two chicken bites or whatever is appropriate for their age and activity and then they may get up and play before bath/ bed. They sit until they eat or if they choose not to eat until bath time and then strait to bed. In the morning here comes the chicken corn and carrot again. No yelling and no scaring the child. Keep it light and happy and dont make eating a punishment just something that must be done and should be without stress. You can even give them a choice between two foods before you make dinner if you like, let them have some control if there isnt a control issue.
I want a child but seeing this turns me off slightly!
Lisa Claasen This just reinforces me to remain childfree
I'm not against people not wanting children. I think it's ok. However, not all children are like this. It has nothing to do w/ not physically disciplining a child either.
Well it shouldn't. Just use common sense and don't put up with bad behavior. None of my 4 kids ever was like this. I simply wouldn't allow it, that's all.
If you start discipline early, like at 1 year of age showing them what you expect, stay consistent, and not be a lazy parent motherhood is a wonderful thing.
I can see why. Honestly there is no true connection of love in this family. This child is acting out to get ANY attention because his mother openly despises him. It turns into a vicious cycle. The more you hit or act aggressively towards a child the more they copy that behaviour and mimic at home and school. His diet is full of sugar and too many carbohydrates without actual necessary fats and vitamins for proper brain growth. He honestly can't function properly because his brain is in fight or flight mode 24/7.
GET ALL ANIMALS OUT OF A HOUSE WITH A CHILD LIKE THESE!!
This is disturbing. Can’t wait for my kids to get home from school . They are so sweet. I just want to kiss them and hug them.
Thanks God. We are so blessed. They are the world to us. 🙏🏼
Omg Ryan’s mum though when he’s hitting his brother and throwing toys at him she’s so hooked and says o do u mind poor big bro
exactly, she let's it happen she doesn't do anything to stop him. If talking isn't enough you need to get in action. Poor poor big brother
Right. Tell him NO! Remove him from the room. Be the BOSS mom!
Im from Tennessee. We got our butts busted. We DID NOT hit our parents back. We were not abused, we just got a good whippin when we needed. We were well behaved kids and are well adjusted adults.
Beth Norrod
don't kid yourself it is abuse, and you are not well adjusted if you think a 180 lbs adult hitting a 80 lbs child is ok. a basic physics equation would tell you the amount of force you apply the child feels it doubled.
taking pride in being hit is just as bad. do some research on the subject.
@@azadalamiq 1 size does not determine how much pain you feel. What does that equation even look like? 2 you're not suppose to haymaker the child.
why is a 5 year old still wearing a nappy?
Travel Buggers its not uncommon for children to have bedwetting issues at that age especially with his behavioural, dietary and sleeping issues
Travel Buggers I bought he same thing mannn
There are children who sleep so soundly they don’t wake when they need to empty their bladder; my daughter struggled for some time around the age of 4. We got an alarm system they woke her whenever she wet her pjs, and within a week, the problem was solved. Our pediatrician told us letting older children wear nappies, unless there was an underlying physical issue, is not the answer but just lazy parenting. It’s annoying to have to change sheets in the middle of the night, but it was necessary to help my daughter learn to control her bladder at night. Like I said, it only took her a week or so to learn the signals and wake up.
I was wondering the same thing
Travel Buggers My little boy is 7 and in pull ups, he has autism and adhd please try not to judge as you don't know the situation.
This is terrifying. It makes me not want to have children
The parents need to say no more and put real consequences in place . and ofcourse not say she hates him to him .
no matter what happens if the mother is nicer or if things improve that child will never forget that his mom said she hated him and wished she never had him. every time she says she loves him he will question it. it'll haunt him for the rest of his life. i feel for the poor kid and wish him the best
This is what comes from lazy parenting and thinking 'oh they are only little, I can sort it out when they are old enough to understand'. Kids aren't just cute little morons. From day one you are raising a future adult, a future member of society. You have to be consistent. The first time you tell your child something and they ignore it and you let them get away with it, you have taught them that you have weak boundaries. By the time they get to the age you believe they can understand, it's too late, you have taught them the wrong way and you have a huge battle fight to change it up. Go into parenting realising what you are doing, you are raising our future generations.
All of Harrison’s behaviour and sleeping patterns etc can definitely be related to his disgustingly poor diet.
How do people not feed their kids fruits and veggies as babies?! This was one of the most fun parts of watching my baby grow into a toddler! I always loved the funny faces they made and when they found something like they liked!
It makes no sense. When you start feeding babies real food, veg and fruit are the first. Did she just feed him chocolate constantly? It's nuts
I remember sharing food with my nephews when they were babies. I’d make it fun showing them Elmo and Curious George loved bananas or whatever we were introducing. I would even sacrifice my vintage Jiminy Cricket puppet so they could “feed” him. They’re teens now and eat everything.
These kids are craving attention and unconditional love
Its there parenting that sucks.. the kids are just the product of it.
They’re filling him up with sugar 3 times a day. No wonder he acts up and can’t sleep. And too say you don’t like him with him in the room, no words......
Send me the little boy Harrison, he'd be well loved, the parents are useless and negative. I'd act like that too if I had t o deal with them.
I'm so glad the parents got their heads on straight by the end of the week and figured out how to love him and even enjoy him, I cried 🙄
m steele
Thank you for making me feel safer 🤗
I like the fact every one focused on the fact I hated my son , they edited a lot of the programming and I was suffering from post natal at the time . Harrison is now a strapping nearly 19 year old lad who is well loved eats lots of fruit , loves his sleep and his mum and dad love him very much along with his sister and his younger brother .
you can hardly hear it over that music
I would hate the kid too how could u not...actually Harrison is looking like the best behaved out of all of them
I got smacked my whole childhood and I have never hit my mom or other ppl. The problem is the parents are not consistent and don’t follow thru.
I'd tie em up to a damn chair and lock them in a room 😂😂😂
Why is the mom saying something like, Let's go listen for our little brat, etc.?!?! No wonder he has problems!!!
I thought the expert would have advised the mom during the 2nd tantrum the little girl is having...
Ryan’s mom is ridiculous... he hits his brother repeatedly even says he is hurt daily all while mom looks on and says nothing or does nothing to stop him.
He is crying cuz He knows your upset!!?? No!! I think he is crying and hurt cuz you said you hate him and wish he was never born!
Our children are what we make them. From their genetic makeup which obviously comes from us to their life experiences which we need to be educated on prior to choosing to raise a child. I am a firm believer that child rearing is vital for a successful society to grow in a healthy manor. Regarding the hitting issue, in particular, I am ok with it and I know there will be some who will attack me on this but, if your child is physically hurting another child or pets showing the child what the pain feels like is a good tool for teaching. My own daughter was 2 when smacked five times in her life, the first was for biting another child on the cheek and the only way to get her to let go wass to lift her dress and give her a few wacks. The last time she was 14 and had called me a bad name. I don't allow disrespect. I don't give or take it.
I got two toddlers who are well...toddlers. Yes they irritate me sometimes but good god I can’t ever imagine saying or even thinking that I hate my children. I just cannot fathom feeling any kind of hate for my children.
I'm sorry, but the problems I'm seeing are extremely obvious, and they're not the children's fault in any way. Kids are really quite simple to deal with, I'm not surprised at all that they react to their parents the way they do. I can't imagine how I'd have turned out had I heard my mum say she hated me or wish she hadn't had me, or scolded me for everything I did, said "no" to every action, didn't feed me right, or wouldn't hug me when I needed it. They're being selfish. Kids aren't perfect, and they're products of their parenting. I just feel terrible for them. That uncertainty and coldness must cut very deeply.
Someone needs to fire the sound engineer 🤦🏽♂️
"He knows I'm upset" the boy is upset he just heard mom say I hate Harry and wish I never had him. I can't imagine how devastating that is for a five year old. Every problem that kid has is because his parents are awful.
I think also the mom of Harry never understood or was never told that kids can be different, and boys especially are usually never super emotional in bonding with mothers until being much older. She'll be surprised when the relationships flip as her daughter tries to become more emotionally independent and he tries figuring out emotional connections more.
That’s completely false. Mothers and sons develop an iron bond starting as infants that only grows as time goes by. That’s why boys and men are so protective of their mothers. In many cases, that bond is stronger than the mother daughter bond.
If I was his mom, they would have to surgically remove my shoe from his rear end.
Thank you. My thoughts exactly. Another reasonable mom..
Susan Swiader thank God. I was reading comments and thought everyone was saying how horrible the mom was but they just don't correct him. I thought I was the only one who thought what you said.
Susan Swiader if literally anyone else was his mother he wouldn’t need a kick
Izzys Mom Tattoos but yeah, he needs a swat
He is five...they made hime like that those so called parents
I love that Dad said 'tractor' - it's the single word I associate most strongly with that accent, probably unfairly!
You are not allowed to yell at your kids or smack them