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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
  • It’s episode 3 of the House of Tiny Tearaways. The Turner parents have come to confront their children’s terrible tantrums and try and save their marriage. Nicola Egbon's 2 year old Dante has an exhausting sleep problem. And finally, the Cooksleys - Mum Nicky and Dad Paul - have been struggling to combat Lewis’ food phobia.
    Presenter Claudia Winkleman guides the audience through a week-long journey at TV’s first ever child and parent behaviour refuge.
    During their stay at the House of Tiny Tearaways, three families live together, while child psychologist Dr Tanya Byron works with both parents and children to solve issues around fussy eating, sleeping habits, and public tantrums - and she'll challenge the parents to get to the root of the problems they're experiencing raising their children.
    With Dr Tanya Byron's help and advice, the hope is that the families will learn useful pedagogy techniques and gain new insights, giving them long-lasting support though the parenting challenges they're facing.
    Real Families brings you stories of modern day family life from around the world through the eyes of children, parents, and parenting experts.
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Комментарии • 235

  • @minimoni247
    @minimoni247 5 лет назад +40

    Paul really did the right thing with his son. If a child is frustrating you to a point of anger, you need to put them down and walk away for a second.

    • @noway2316
      @noway2316 2 года назад +1

      @Max olden i agree totally

    • @melissarollins1788
      @melissarollins1788 2 года назад +3

      I don't think he realizes how many parents have done that!! He was so worried about what the ppl watching are guna think. We r guna think "we been there!"

    • @RicheeBe
      @RicheeBe Год назад

      @@melissarollins1788 it’s what’s best . my mom taught me young . jus leave them somewhere safe and WALK AWAY take a break compose yourself. he doesn’t see that’s good parenting

  • @reddserum
    @reddserum 6 лет назад +59

    Dante's mom is actually amazing! She is such a good mother

  • @myswanktrendz
    @myswanktrendz 6 лет назад +77

    I have to confess that when I was watching Dad "Lee" in the first episode, I thought, what a useless tool. He was so detached from anything his kids were doing, he might as well be invisible. During this episode, I can't get over how much progress he's made. Not perfect, but wow!

    • @eb7446
      @eb7446 5 лет назад +5

      I think he did love his girls, but like Louise was exhausted and didn't know how to show positive feelings(he said so himself). Sometimes you just need to someone point it out to you, and you can change. He had in him, he just forgot how to use it. Sure, he doesn't come across great in the first episode, because he sitting on the couch, slumped into it. But I think it was just tiredness and it was shown that Louise was the assertive one, so I think he was used to letting her do that.

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead 2 года назад +1

      It’s so sad that men are used to always hiding their emotions. Most of them have no idea how to open up, let their guard down, and have fun with their little children. There should absolutely be parenting classes in high school and again for both sexes when they are about to be parents.

  • @brandyb2931
    @brandyb2931 6 лет назад +82

    Dante's mother needs follow up care with her depression. It seems her life has closed in around her, the father of her child has left her alone to raise his equal responsibility and I think that has broken her.

    • @jaelynn7575
      @jaelynn7575 6 лет назад +10

      Sadly, men leave ALL THE TIME. I swear they are still children inside when they are 30! I didn't have kids b/c I didn't want to end up a single parent b/c of how men leave and how the culture doesn't support single moms.
      I even changed how I treated significant others. Instead of doing everything for them, like a mother would, and wanting to spend all my time with my sig other, then next relationship I didn't act like a "mom" and let him have more freedom.
      Sometimes you can't win no matter how you change. I think parenting needs to spend a lot of time focusing on how the kids need to learn about psychology of friends when kids are age 10-16. How to interact with different types of people to have more success.

    • @pH7oslo
      @pH7oslo 6 лет назад

      Thing is, women are more than twice as likely to file for divorce as men, according to the statistics.
      If men leave you "ALL THE TIME", the problem might not be them but you.

    • @OriginalCindy8
      @OriginalCindy8 6 лет назад +13

      pH7oslo Even if he wanted to leave her, he should’ve never left his child. Say what you will, but the fact remains he abandoned his son. Even divorced men are still there for their children unlike Dante’s dad.

    • @pH7oslo
      @pH7oslo 6 лет назад

      Michelle W.
      I didn't comment on Dante's parents - I replied to Jae Lynn.
      As for "abandoning" one's child, sometimes that's the only option the father is given by the mother if things don't work out between them, something the family court will enforce for her in most cases. Do you think of it as the mother abandoning her child if the father gets custody? Some parents do abandon their children, but in most cases that's nor what's really going on.

    • @pH7oslo
      @pH7oslo 6 лет назад +2

      Dilana Karatas
      "He shouldn't come back years later when the child is already grown up and suddenly play father."
      I would say that's entirely up to the child to decide.
      I'm in my forties (and a father myself) and my father being in my life has been equally important and valuable the years I've been an adult as the years I was a child. Same with my mother.
      I would guess you don't want the hypothetical father you mention in his child's life out of spite, a desire to punish him for not being there earlier on. That would punish him, sure, but it would also punish the child, and much harsher.
      You're not alone, though, there are plenty of parents who've gotten custody (mainly women) that use the (potential) bond between the estranged parent and the child as a weapon, a way to get back at him/her for slights in the past. It's nothing short of evil, selfish behavior. Children should never be weaponized, and parents who do that should probably let the other parent have full custody, for the sake of their children.

  • @PiccoloGrandeCoro
    @PiccoloGrandeCoro 6 лет назад +37

    Please can you upload more frequently. I just cant wait for the next episode this show is soooooo good!!! I love it! Ive been looking everywhere for it and finally there are episodes on here

    • @lulu-lala23
      @lulu-lala23 6 лет назад +2

      Elea haha I feel the same!

  • @Dexy83
    @Dexy83 6 лет назад +47

    I really wish someone had told my Mom to stop crying, screaming, and taking her depression out on her 2 young children.

    • @crazypianolady
      @crazypianolady 5 лет назад +2

      Dexy83 amen

    • @kiuakakirstine8257
      @kiuakakirstine8257 5 лет назад +12

      Dexy83
      True, my mom was bipolar and it was not a nice place to be in. She took her own life when I was nine. I swore that I'd never have children myself, but now I have 2 grown ups (23 & 25 years old). I've dealt with depressions myself and I know that it has taken a toll on my children, but fortunately my husband (their dad) has always been there for them AND me.
      I hope you a doing ok now! 🌸🌸

    • @akeys1016
      @akeys1016 4 года назад +3

      @@kiuakakirstine8257 that is beautiful. TY for sharing

    • @globalwarmhugs7741
      @globalwarmhugs7741 2 года назад +2

      She didn't have support. End of.

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead 2 года назад +1

      All my sister did was throw screaming tantrums. My mother was also a screamer and didn’t know how to handle her. My father was clueless and did nothing. I was the quiet, obedient child. All I remember was nonstop screaming. I hated them both. I have never had a relationship with my sister, and had a really crappy one with my mother. My father was a depressed, angry soul.

  • @awordabout...3061
    @awordabout...3061 6 лет назад +49

    Poor Paul! I really felt sorry for the poor bloke when he was in the woods with Dr.Byron, he seems like the sort of chap who's taken a lot from a lot of people over the years and never really realised he can be firm without being a monster. So glad he got on top of it!

    • @alicedahl7532
      @alicedahl7532 5 лет назад +5

      I agree. He really strikes me as a good husband and father. But he is just human and no one can deny that kids like that push you right over the edge.

    • @dysfunctional9073
      @dysfunctional9073 5 лет назад +5

      ruclips.net/video/RvKDjUtFBV8/видео.html he now uses slapping and shouting as a parenting technique x

    • @chrisgima9544
      @chrisgima9544 4 года назад +1

      @@dysfunctional9073 why is it a private video

    • @dysfunctional9073
      @dysfunctional9073 4 года назад +3

      @@chrisgima9544 it wasn't 11 months ago when I linked it. X

    • @PinupSarah
      @PinupSarah 3 года назад +4

      ruclips.net/video/9BaKUei-kiY/видео.html

  • @kiuakakirstine8257
    @kiuakakirstine8257 6 лет назад +38

    Poor Nicola. Being depressed is about the worst feeling in the world. I hope she's gotten better and have learned to cope with the dark feelings. Dante is such a cutie-pie.

    • @cookieeffectpodcast271
      @cookieeffectpodcast271 6 лет назад +23

      Kirstine Utzon i have ma'am thank you this show was 15yrs ago Dante is doing amazing at high school he is 6"1 at 15yrs old honour Roll student and I'm married and I have 3sons..the show changed my life...

    • @Kethambelle
      @Kethambelle 5 лет назад +7

      @@cookieeffectpodcast271 I'm so glad to see your comment with an update on you and Dante! I thought you were amazing on the show, it takes guts to step up and truly face your problems (especially on tv) and you were so open, honest and brave.
      Congratulations on your new family life and happiness :)

    • @pommiebears
      @pommiebears 5 лет назад +4

      COOKIE EFFECT I’m absolutely delighted that yourself and Dante are doing great. Your son was incredibly cute, and I know you were doing it alone. You were in no way a poor mother, at all. Dante showed signs of empathy to others too, which is a wonderful thing for a child that young to have. I’m so glad you’re all well. 🌸

    • @cookieeffectpodcast271
      @cookieeffectpodcast271 5 лет назад +5

      @@Kethambelle Thank you so much For the kids words..Be well x

    • @cookieeffectpodcast271
      @cookieeffectpodcast271 5 лет назад +4

      @Fortescue Awee Thank you aswell for Rooting for us x

  • @camabelu1
    @camabelu1 6 лет назад +8

    Thanks so much for continuing to upload these. They cannot be found in Canada and I've looked! So it's appreciated.

  • @tuesdaypatience
    @tuesdaypatience 6 лет назад +9

    Well done, Lee 👍! That trip to the fun zone was so amazing!!

  • @kellytynes-peissner9355
    @kellytynes-peissner9355 5 лет назад +19

    Nicola is an amazing person with such a precious little boy, Dante. She is a good mom and an even better mom since she sought help. Everyone needs a hand now and then.

  • @globalwarmhugs7741
    @globalwarmhugs7741 2 года назад +4

    The honesty of these parents is so brave. Their willingness to learn is even more brave. Hats off to them, to Tanya & team, and to the little tykes (siblings included!) Even nearly 20 years on, these lessons are invaluable, especially to those who don't have parenting classes or counseling available to them.

  • @ah-shar-ya2363
    @ah-shar-ya2363 6 лет назад +27

    Maybe Paul is going through withdrawal from the puppet

  • @MyGrace2You
    @MyGrace2You 6 лет назад +35

    Lord, I want to bring Dante and his mama to our home for a while. I have a whole empty upstairs and after having help raised quintuplets, I’ve got more mama loving than I know what to do with. Poor lambs

    • @justelleslife507
      @justelleslife507 6 лет назад +11

      I read your sweet comment and I just had to reply. I wish I had someone like you in my personal life. You probably live far away from me. The truth is I don't know a thing about love or caring, I grew up in a house where I was severely abused by an alcoholic mother. Now just living every day is a struggle, I so still want to be important and matter to someone. I wish I had a home to go to. People really don't care about what happened to me, they don't want to listen so I say nothing. When some abused people grow up they choose to hurt others with crimes, I've never understood how hurting someone else helps you feel better, still I suffer through life, however I try every day to be kind to at least one person. I try to be a good person. Anyway back to your comment, could we at least be penpals? I don't know where you live, just knowing someone cares about me would change my world. I don't smoke, drink, live high morals and am highly sensitive. I hope my reply to you is taken the right way and have worded this appropriately.

    • @MyGrace2You
      @MyGrace2You 6 лет назад +5

      Nicola Hargrave How wonderful! Much happiness to you now and always.

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 6 лет назад +4

      Nicola - OMG it is so cool to have you engage on this board. When you were confessing about pushing Dante away, and saying "Go away" then feeling horribly guilty about it, etc. I wish I had known you when my son was 2. I felt and did EVERYTHING you said. The guilt I felt because at times I was overwhelmed with love and then the next day I resented being a single parent. Then triple the guilt because how dare I resent such an innocent child? He's 30 and a lovely man, BUT I do see a hint of neediness when I see him interact with his wife. She seems to assure him he's loved a little too much (in my view). But I keep quiet counsel. Thank you for your bravery in being honest.

    • @cookieeffectpodcast271
      @cookieeffectpodcast271 6 лет назад +8

      glandularmass thank you this was 15yrs ago my life is great now ..im married with 3boys..

    • @rachelace6102
      @rachelace6102 2 года назад

      I'm sure that you mean well, but maybe she needs to learn how to raise her child herself, not to be rescued.

  • @samu6874
    @samu6874 6 лет назад +22

    This feeding Situation is a Mess. Why is he sitting alone in his Chair while his parents do whatever, the other Kids playing somewhere?
    Have fixed mealtimes? Have everybody eat together? Lead by example? Have the Kids help cooking, set the table? He could learn so much from the other kids. How they eat and do messy play.

  • @nera4110
    @nera4110 6 лет назад +12

    Please add more episodes. Really liked the show. Want to watch more.

  • @Frances86
    @Frances86 6 лет назад +60

    The audio guy needs to be FIRED!!!!!!!!!

  • @pommiebears
    @pommiebears 5 лет назад +30

    Paul was on another later show, hitting his kids. He was talking about strict parenting. Oh...the irony.

    • @cuqva1783
      @cuqva1783 4 года назад +1

      Which show

    • @PinupSarah
      @PinupSarah 3 года назад +1

      @@cuqva1783 ruclips.net/video/9BaKUei-kiY/видео.html

    • @Charlie-ue2my
      @Charlie-ue2my 3 года назад +2

      Omg the difference is crazy... Wtf happened to him lol

    • @jaciagarraway3547
      @jaciagarraway3547 3 года назад

      😂😂

    • @donnadee1966
      @donnadee1966 3 года назад +3

      Oh my godness- I saw that and I was shocked!!! I can not imagine Dr Byron would approve of that...

  • @shamikataylor571
    @shamikataylor571 Год назад

    Wow, I really appreciate this show. As a parent myself, I'm learning some things that have really hit home in my own life. I also appreciate seeing the different perspectives of the parents and the psychologist.

  • @Verseaurainbows
    @Verseaurainbows 6 лет назад +16

    Why did Lewis' parents breed, not only this time but another time AFTER this!? Then end up on a parenting show WHACKING their TWO kids? They're horrible parents

    • @Kagiso22
      @Kagiso22 6 лет назад +2

      ThePlayfulOnes wait what?! What show is this?

    • @dylanyarger8307
      @dylanyarger8307 6 лет назад +4

      In this video here: ruclips.net/video/RvKDjUtFBV8/видео.html

    • @laurenS94
      @laurenS94 2 года назад +1

      This link is private now what was the show? I want to see that

    • @Kinky_Oreo
      @Kinky_Oreo 2 года назад

      @@laurenS94 late comment but it was Cherri's Parenting Dilemma or something

  • @freyanicole4564
    @freyanicole4564 6 лет назад +9

    Omg I loved how Lee was with the girls at the play gym! X

  • @haileyroberts1103
    @haileyroberts1103 6 лет назад +7

    My mom told us that once while at the store, sis was having a tantrum on the floor kicking and yelling like in cartoons.
    Mom started mimicking her, people giving her weird looks- mom didn't care.
    Sis stopped, got up, and asked mummy if she was okay.
    Mom said yes, and they went back to shopping.

  • @ericmishima
    @ericmishima 5 лет назад +8

    I hope they show Nicola a compilation of all the times she stopped everyone and got their attention to praise something any one of the children had done.

  • @ivetanovotna4783
    @ivetanovotna4783 3 года назад +5

    Nicola is a fantastic mum, despite all the problems she is loving and firm, well done Nicola. I am sure you will raise your son wonderfully.

    • @HanboSlimoffical
      @HanboSlimoffical 2 года назад +1

      Facts she was literally watching everyone else’s kids as well as her own

  • @Munkychic7
    @Munkychic7 5 лет назад +8

    I love Lee for snapping out of it

  • @theslatonator6919
    @theslatonator6919 6 лет назад +26

    I like that psychologist, although I was afraid that dad was gonna start coming onto her when they shook hands. Homeboy seems a ‘lil needy.

  • @Sunl1ght_
    @Sunl1ght_ 6 лет назад +15

    i like this show its informative and helpful

  • @EricaAsjaee
    @EricaAsjaee 6 лет назад +19

    why is this 3 year old in a crib

  • @sarahgleason2502
    @sarahgleason2502 5 лет назад +9

    Donte is so cute and his mom is doing awesome at being a single mom

  • @lrebsten7155
    @lrebsten7155 6 лет назад +20

    I would love to see how Jo Frost would handle these same situations. I like how this show handles problems, but I like how Jo Frost is more low key and does it with less stress. It seems like Dr. Tanya and Jo use very similar methods, but I like how Jo Frost is more low key and less dramatic.

    • @abra819
      @abra819 6 лет назад +4

      Oh I'm sure it's the editing on Jo's show. I'm sure it's just as chaotic.

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead 2 года назад

      Some of these problems are much more severe than Jo’s. She never dealt with issues like selective mutism or real food phobia. Tanya is a child psychologist, Jo’s a nanny. You can’t begin to compare the two.

  • @robinholbrook6576
    @robinholbrook6576 5 лет назад +4

    Oh! How many times I had to put my child in their room and give MYSELF a time out! One time I had to call my husband to come home from work... or I would have done something I would have been sorry for. The difference between child abuse and good parenting is knowing your limit and calling for help. If you can, be that help to someone you know. ❤️

  • @shepherdewan
    @shepherdewan 6 лет назад +8

    Jess and Hannah are being good girls when they are going with their dad

  • @littlemrs.fabulous9432
    @littlemrs.fabulous9432 6 лет назад +22

    Stop talking while they are talking it makes my head hurt

  • @MsBAustralia
    @MsBAustralia 6 лет назад +45

    Lewis talks like a 1 year old. I've watched every episode with these 3 families and I have to be honest, I can't believe how neurotic Lewis is?! He is a super cute little boy but the neurosis is out of control.

    • @jacquelinehunt9189
      @jacquelinehunt9189 6 лет назад +9

      MsB inSYDNEY in a more recent programme lewis has a little brother and his parents hit him evry day alot different to how they were with lewis.

    • @jessicawatson7360
      @jessicawatson7360 6 лет назад +3

      Jacqueline Hunt how u know that?

    • @emmatidman2984
      @emmatidman2984 3 года назад +2

      @@jessicawatson7360 ruclips.net/video/9BaKUei-kiY/видео.html he's on this documentary.

    • @angmoulton8528
      @angmoulton8528 2 года назад

      @@jacquelinehunt9189 oh my where did you see this

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead 2 года назад

      The father is sooo anxious and neurotic! It always comes from somewhere!

  • @moxyismyname5786
    @moxyismyname5786 5 лет назад +8

    At 37:25 those red painted hands and feet are terrifying, like some horror movie of killer kids crawling up the walls 😈

  • @alicedahl7532
    @alicedahl7532 5 лет назад +1

    At first I wasn't that crazy about Dr.Tanya, but after watching several of these clips I have come to regard her as amazing and incredibly devoted to these families. I admire her devotion and wonder how she must feel when the families are finished there and leave.

    • @HanboSlimoffical
      @HanboSlimoffical 2 года назад

      She’s tough on the parents but when you see her with the kids it’s honestly really sweet

  • @SuperMimsen
    @SuperMimsen 6 лет назад +7

    I Wonder if Paul was brought up Learning that showing anger is not ok, so now he keeps it in. Not a good thing. Kids need to learn that all feelings are allowed, but it's how you express them that's the issue.

    • @cuqva1783
      @cuqva1783 4 года назад

      Yeah that’s my dad

    • @kathleenpapaleo2720
      @kathleenpapaleo2720 Месяц назад

      Paul probably has hit Louis before. The Mom is letting it happen. The poor kid is scared to death to eat or sleep.

  • @chinavaughan6383
    @chinavaughan6383 Год назад +2

    I feel so sorry for Louis. Yes, he cries and whines a lot, but his parents are the ones who made him like this by treating him like a baby long after he stopped being a baby 😢

  • @Amber-ghini
    @Amber-ghini 4 года назад +6

    Lewis' dad talking in 3rd person all the time is odd. Why does he say things like, "Lewis' turn," "Lewis do it" over and over again.

    • @Amber-ghini
      @Amber-ghini 4 года назад +1

      Even at bedtime here saying things about the rabbits coming tomorrow he was saying "he is excited about the rabbits" during his storytelling.

  • @xstastar1166
    @xstastar1166 2 года назад +2

    I love your language , no matter what you say it sounds so cool
    I wish I was English to be able to talk it every day

  • @alicedahl7532
    @alicedahl7532 5 лет назад +7

    FINALLY!!! A parent does something human and looses patience with the whiney crying kid the the world revolves around. Maybe not good, but it is REAL.

  • @tracymoyle1398
    @tracymoyle1398 4 года назад +3

    Dante's so cute and he looks like a Mickey mouse his hair is amazing x

  • @lulu-lala23
    @lulu-lala23 6 лет назад +2

    Hello, just wondering whether ep 4 has been uploaded but set to private as it says there are 4 videos but I can only see 3?! Thanks!

  • @sabrinasmith417
    @sabrinasmith417 5 лет назад +1

    My 1st time ever seeing this show..
    Never heard of it and what a great show it is.. really appreciate the upload but that music 🙉
    Thanks again

  • @snics0619
    @snics0619 2 года назад +2

    Am I the only one sounding out, "Sssocks muussst be waaooorn aaat all tiiimmess."

  • @noway2316
    @noway2316 2 года назад +1

    Nichola is a good parent she is just lonely and depressed but she will get through this. I think i see her learning confidence and will leave the house a little better

  • @EC2019
    @EC2019 6 лет назад +41

    That kid Lewis is so babied and indulged. "Daddy do it, Daddy do it!" Cringe. That's not food phobia. He has just never learned the skill and is lazy/spoiled because the parents enjoy the baby stage too much. Leave him the fork, the plate of food, and let him do it. If he doesn't eat, take the plate away. After a couple of missed meals he'll catch on. It's not rocket science. It just takes a little bit of backbone.

    • @lifeofem2767
      @lifeofem2767 6 лет назад +6

      My parents would of said eat it or go without

    • @FabulousaAliya
      @FabulousaAliya 6 лет назад +22

      Not to be rude, but I think one of the best child psychologists in England knows what she's doing. While I agree he's been babied and that it might cause some of his problems, Tanya is also correct and has a degree to back it up.

    • @lrebsten7155
      @lrebsten7155 6 лет назад +9

      FabulousAliya I do agree that she is a good psychologist but I agree with the other reply, “It is not rocket science.” The kid may have food phobia, but immersion therapy works also and it is a LOT faster and parents have been doing it for centuries. Give the kid any food you like and they either sit there until they eat it, or they don’t eat until the next meal. There may be hours of tantrums and grumpiness until the next meal, but eventually they will eat whatever you give them. Not rocket science. Even a normal person will start to eat larva and Meele bugs if that is all there is to eat. I would never eat crickets like they do in other countries, but if I were put in a situation where that is all to eat...guess what. I WILL eat them. The human drive for food is VERY strong, it has allowed the human race to survive for as long as we have.

    • @elx9938
      @elx9938 6 лет назад +8

      It is a food phobia, caused by his parents spoiling him, babying him and teaching him not to make mess with food, constantly cleaning him up if there's any mess on him etc, teaching him to be afraid of food/new food/messy food

    • @ReggieTime
      @ReggieTime 6 лет назад +5

      They want to heal his phobia nicely, professionally, psychologically healthy . Now its only simple fear & discomfort about wet food,

  • @carolethorn3211
    @carolethorn3211 2 года назад +2

    No wonder Dante wouldnt sleep in his own bed! For christ sake she admits that she regularly cried in front of the baby, pushed him away, slammed the door in his face and pleaded with him to "just go away"! What kid wouldnt hang on to Mom for dear life, wholly convinced she'll abandon him the very minute he shuts both eyes? Jeez! I see comments here saying shes such a good mother! Im sure shes a good person but unless i missed a few episodes, she just appears far too immature still, for the task at hand. (Maybe she is still a teenager. I cant tell.)

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead 2 года назад

      I agree. She acted like a 12 yr old at most, way too immature to be a mother. I couldn’t believe when she threw herself on the floor when her friend showed up. What grown person does that? I hope she got counseling after the show.

  • @simib6342
    @simib6342 6 лет назад +4

    I wonder what all these parents and children are up too now the children must be in secondary school or have finished school. Can someone upload season 2 please

  • @nicolegreen7535
    @nicolegreen7535 6 лет назад +4

    I didn't know it was called the rapid return technique, lol. But that worked for my son and it only took about 5 days!

  • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
    @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад +1

    That Louis kid I feel is in for a world of hurt when things like pre k and school start. He doesn’t seem like he plays well with others cuz he’s so used to getting his way but he’s just so babies. Dinner is din din, a yogurt is some other name plus the biggest one is he can’t feed himself, he freaks out if mom or dad don’t airplane food into his mouth. Im sure those first soulless days plus of just dropping him off and leaving he’s going to loose his mind

    • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
      @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад

      He’s almost three sticking a knife in his mouth cuz he’s never used one. Literally doesn’t know what a knife fork and spoon are for food wise.

    • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
      @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад

      Mom took offense to Tony’s saying he didn’t know what to do cuz it’s is embarrassing but the kids actions tell the truth, he cut and apple with a knife and when told to eat it stuck the knife with no food on it in his mouth

    • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
      @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад

      Kid is the weirdest creature in the world but they do him no good he’s having chicken nuggets and chocolate pudding for dinner 🤢. They are tussling over the place may he looses freaks out they ask him if he wants to eat and in his shiny little voice actually says yes and of course mom instantly starts to try and feed him instead of him feeding himself and he does his little hands over the eyes escape routine

    • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
      @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад

      Even when she goes do you want this he starts to say no and changes his mind

  • @lessehead
    @lessehead 2 года назад +1

    When Jessica started the tantrum when it was time to leave the fun house, I would have pulled her aside into a quiet corner and told her in the most no nonsense voice possible, you’re going to do as I say. Stop this behavior right now. When we get back to the house, you’re going to be punished. Then do a consequence at home. These out of control tantrums are ridiculous. None of these parents know how to use their tone to get results.

  • @annierotberg8861
    @annierotberg8861 6 лет назад +2

    Oh i feel so sorry for nicola. shes depressed. I hope she gets follow up care

  • @desireeb10
    @desireeb10 6 лет назад +3

    Really parenting is more common sense then anything

  • @MyGrace2You
    @MyGrace2You 6 лет назад +14

    Rookie mistake dad is making letting his girl sleep on her way to the play center. Recharging batteries is not a great idea. The more tired they are, the less fight they’ll put up when it’s time to go.

    • @AnataWaDareDesuKa
      @AnataWaDareDesuKa 6 лет назад +13

      FlexyMama Do you have kids? XD The more tired, the heavier the tantrums for the most silly of things.

    • @MyGrace2You
      @MyGrace2You 6 лет назад +4

      Yes, I have two and have also helped to raise a set of quintuplets who are now 10. Yes, children have tantrums for the silliest of things, but keeping the children alert and engaged prior to an event, then letting them run off steam is much better than waking a child from a nap prematurely, letting them get wound up again, then expecting a battle-free exit is like I said, a "rookie" mistake. (Which this dad admits to being in relation to one-to-one time with his girls. Lovely family, just stressed and needing advice.

    • @AnataWaDareDesuKa
      @AnataWaDareDesuKa 6 лет назад +4

      FlexyMama Okay, yes, I agree with that. I thought you meant that the more tired the child, the smaller the tantrum because they’re too tired to argue. And sadly it doesn’t work that way XD I didn’t interpreted it the way you meant.

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 6 лет назад +3

      Flexymama - you and anata actually agree. The word that creates the 'disagreement' is prematurely. I came from the expectation that the child was rested upon waking and therefore the event will be fun. You assumed the child was not rested and if so, you are correct. If the child is tired upon waking, it precedes a nasty outcome because everyone knows a tired child put into a stimulating activity = tantrum.

  • @beclwhite
    @beclwhite 6 лет назад +12

    My heart breaks for Nicola.

    • @cookieeffectpodcast271
      @cookieeffectpodcast271 6 лет назад +12

      Bec White Thank you maam it was a difficult time for my self and Dante but with God we are doing grear Dannte is 15 in high school honour roll student he is 6feet talk plays American football for school I've been married 7yrs with 3sons...im Blessed show changed my life.

    • @kimmyblanche6215
      @kimmyblanche6215 6 лет назад +4

      cookie effect that is beautiful! I am so happy for you all.

  • @lulu-lala23
    @lulu-lala23 6 лет назад +3

    Please can you upload ep 4!!!!???

  • @melvie5411
    @melvie5411 5 лет назад +2

    He just won't shut up lol

  • @bdizzle5359
    @bdizzle5359 3 года назад +3

    I'll never understand how parents let their children control their lives. Parenthood starts with the ball in the parents court, it's all up to you. Luis knows he can control with his tantrums, let him cry it out. When he gets really hungry, he will decide to feed himself. You do not reward unpleasant behavior!

  • @kathleenpapaleo2720
    @kathleenpapaleo2720 Месяц назад

    Lois is such a zweet child. His Dad is so mean. And his mother is scary. Poor baby.

  • @MsTcup
    @MsTcup 4 года назад +3

    Dante’s mom is amazing and he is the CUTEST!!!!

  • @louisa177
    @louisa177 6 лет назад +8

    Fix the audio please my ears bleed

  • @shepherdewan
    @shepherdewan 6 лет назад +10

    You don't shout at your son or tell him to shut up

  • @shepherdewan
    @shepherdewan 6 лет назад +4

    You don't say shut up to your son

  • @kojismiles
    @kojismiles Год назад

    7:44 terrible thing to say to your child ESPECIALLY at Louis’s age my parents would NEVER EVER dare saying that to me 🤬

  • @CeltycSparrow
    @CeltycSparrow 6 лет назад +6

    So Daddy's progress with young Louis just reached an all-time low. Louis has made tremendous progress with his eating in the three days since being in the house. It has been very slow and reluctant, but he IS trying. He IS eating things he had previously refused to eat and he is slowly getting over his fear of eating. What happened at breakfast between Louis and his father was purely a power struggle and Dad completely and utterly failed. Daddy started off encouraging Louis to eat, but rather than treating his son like a big boy and encouraging him to feed himself, he lost patience with it because Louis was trying to make Daddy eat and he gave up and offered him a yogurt and then when he left him and Louis wouldn't stop his tantrum, Dad completely lost his temper at his young son and screamed at him....thus scaring him. I get that he's exhausted from lack of sleep and I get that it is very nerve-wracking having your sweet, beautiful little boy refusing to eat, but its like Dr. Tanya said....Louis learning to master his food phobia is not going to happen overnight. It won't even happen in the few days they are in this house. It is going to take time for him to feel comfortable eating food, but he will never reach that point if Daddy keeps clenching so tight to this idea that his son is still a "baby" and they must stay in this perfect, happy little bubble of sunshine and rainbows. He's not and they don't. Its OK to cry....its OK to feel angry and scared and admit you don't know what you are doing. That doesn't make you weak or a bad parent...that makes you simply human. But he has to learn to express those emotions in a way that doesn't cause him to parent his son in anger and fear just because his son isn't this perfect happy child he wants him to be.

    • @anaarbues9768
      @anaarbues9768 2 года назад

      By the way, he’s never going to forget who Paul is, for sure, “eat this for daddy.“ “give daddy a kiss. “ “daddy this. Daddy that.. it’s as if he had deleted first person from his vocab for those two years!

    • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
      @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад

      If some yelling s sees the kid that much that’s bad for both of them. That Louis kid has been beyond coddled to the point he can’t do anything alone nor wants to even try

    • @kathleenpapaleo2720
      @kathleenpapaleo2720 4 месяца назад

      They have severely damaged Lois. They are abusing him. Why is he still in a crib?

  • @aemidaniels
    @aemidaniels 5 лет назад +3

    Cant even hear the narrator over the music or the people. Needs some serious sound balancing.

  • @olivialyons5678
    @olivialyons5678 6 лет назад +13

    Paul is tired. Awh poor man. Yeah right this is what children do, they push your boundaries. He all soft talk to the adults but will lose it with a child. Not good.

    • @MsBAustralia
      @MsBAustralia 6 лет назад

      Do you have children???

    • @olivialyons5678
      @olivialyons5678 6 лет назад

      MsB inNYC yes

    • @faxedhead2908
      @faxedhead2908 6 лет назад +2

      Libby L of course he lost it at his kid. Up until this point he and his wife have never said no to him and literally given in to his every whim. The second he starts to kick off they come running because they somehow think that if they say no or don't give him what he wants that he will end up scarred for life. This kid is a brat and not used to being told no, so he is having a meltdown because he's never heard no and they aren't used to hearing him tantrum like this. It's a new experience for all of them and a positive change. Of course the dad is going to flip out when he constantly suppresses his anger. Parents can't be perfect all the time. Besides, this kid is such a controlling little brat it's a good learning curve for him to see that he can't keep manipulating his Father like that. The dad wasn't even rough with him when he set him down in the hallway. He said he threw him down but that wasn't the case at all. The parents needed to wake up and realise they aren't doing their kid ant favours by being so annoyingly nice all the time and constantly giving in to their 2 and a half year old.

  • @myhappyspace4533
    @myhappyspace4533 6 лет назад +3

    Shocking to see none of the men helped her built the rabbit hatch

  • @shelia926
    @shelia926 6 лет назад +5

    I like this show but can someone tell me why in the world is 3 yr olds are walking around with pacifiers in their mouths???? stop treating them like babies when its convenient then when its not wanting to treat them like their age and before anyone say it, I do have a child. No one has mention that if they dont get this under control then someone else will and it wont be nice

  • @melissarollins1788
    @melissarollins1788 2 года назад +1

    I love Lewis little stuffy nose voice Hahaa. But i despise his wining!!! He's so cute tho

  • @shepherdewan
    @shepherdewan 5 лет назад +2

    Dad your not allowed to say shut up to your son

  • @ldegraaf
    @ldegraaf 3 года назад +4

    Rabbits don't belong in hutches! They should be indoors and have plenty of room to move around. Most rabbit hutches have wire bottoms which are really bad for rabbit paws. Also, being outside can completely stress them out.
    The rabbits that are bred in the pet trade are very different from the rabbits that you see in the wild.
    For more information check out Lennon the Bunny and The Bunny Lady here on RUclips. They both have a lot of great videos to help you understand rabbit care.

  • @HereForRhea_
    @HereForRhea_ 6 лет назад +3

    Yea say to your child shut up is a great idea 😒

    • @abra819
      @abra819 6 лет назад

      Are u a parent? No? Then SHUTUP.

  • @anaarbues9768
    @anaarbues9768 2 года назад +1

    Brekkie, chip pie, crispiest….. where do the Cooksleys spend their holidays? Andalucía or something?

  • @tinaandersen3270
    @tinaandersen3270 6 лет назад +2

    Wow is all that I can say

  • @SamuelMiller-qf7qi
    @SamuelMiller-qf7qi Год назад

    Oh he did the hands on eyes cuz she asked him to hold his spoon then threw it on the floor.

  • @lattiejohnson1056
    @lattiejohnson1056 2 года назад +1

    Lewis is ONE LITTLE SPOILED BRAT! He got on my LASTTTTTTT NERVE AND HES NOT EVEN MY SON🤣

    • @kathleenpapaleo2720
      @kathleenpapaleo2720 4 месяца назад

      He's not a brat. He's being abused. His parents are not letting him grow up. Emotional abuse hurts just as much as physical abuse. Lewis get's both from his parents.

  • @kathleenpapaleo2720
    @kathleenpapaleo2720 4 месяца назад

    Lewis's parents have ruined this little boy. The Mum is really mean and Dad has awful anger issues. Mom knows she is hurting that biy but she doesn't care. So dad.

  • @lonewolfps4gaming42
    @lonewolfps4gaming42 5 лет назад +2

    It’s chuesday in the house of

  • @yelloworangered
    @yelloworangered 5 лет назад

    I want to suggest a friend watch this show, but why bother when the sound is SO bad that anyone not terribly interested already would turn it off.

  • @rkr5106
    @rkr5106 3 года назад +3

    Why are the 2 - 3 yo olds not being put down for a nap after lunch? They so clearly still need them; showing classic behaviors of tiredness....

  • @5p674
    @5p674 5 лет назад +8

    I don't think I like kids.

    • @Discordia5
      @Discordia5 2 года назад

      Most kids are not difficult like these! 😂 If they were all this neurotic, no one would have them (on purpose.)

  • @tinaandersen3270
    @tinaandersen3270 6 лет назад +1

    Man. Normally I wouldn't post this but I can't believe that I am this early on a video. 14

  • @rcc2741
    @rcc2741 Год назад

    Dig Dig Yog Yog omg

  • @anncollins7924
    @anncollins7924 4 года назад

    Donkeys mum is the most unselfish person in there she helps everybody I don't think they help her

  • @duckydoesstuffbasic9291
    @duckydoesstuffbasic9291 5 лет назад +1

    21:13

  • @carolinaavelar1939
    @carolinaavelar1939 3 года назад

    RUclips Caroina Journal reports

  • @jacquelinehunt9189
    @jacquelinehunt9189 6 лет назад +3

    Nicole needs to learn how to talk to adults she comes across as condesending

  • @CristinaF210
    @CristinaF210 6 лет назад +3

    But this is just a stupid tv showBecause it's not the children or babies fault It's the parents fault ONLYSo the show should be called or talked about onlyParents who have insecuritiesOr Bad parrnthood from the start OrBabies born in complete command of their parents and house rulesParents who do t know how to educate a newborn to toddler ageShould be in these linesNot The house of tiny terrors it's NOT kids faultI raised 3 kidsNEVER cried to go to sleep at night on the contrary they couldn't wait to sleepNever ever had pacifiersNever ever slept with me From hospital straight to their own pram and cry to sleep?Not much in my house since I never picked up only to feed and change nap pies so they never got used spoiled to be constantly being spoiled with picking ups etc...Only rewarded when done something well as well At 5 months old all started on solids they never really liked the formula or breast fed anyway maybe there I was lucky they loved they re food boy everything fish veggies fruits all purred in the beguinning of course formula it's really for newborns soon enough they need more than just milkSo yeah these parents on this show now have to change their lazy problem solving they need to stop giving in only because they don't want to hear the cries and the winnings good lord good luckThere's is nothing more ugly than spoiled children spoiled brats very ugly to see those.

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 6 лет назад +3

      Cristina - no one said it was the childrens' faults. That's why the parents are seeking help. They KNOW they messed up. Why are you so angry?

    • @dannyslemonade976
      @dannyslemonade976 6 лет назад

      Cristina .Filipe the spelling errors in this comment are just awful

    • @victoriachristina1
      @victoriachristina1 6 лет назад +1

      Cristina .Filipe you only picked your kids up to feed or change them? I’m sure you’ll have a great relationship with them as they grow older. Bonding is important

  • @christinelovesyouX
    @christinelovesyouX 6 лет назад +17

    is foodphobic a new word for brat?

    • @samjaymc
      @samjaymc 6 лет назад +20

      No, it isn't. Foodphobic means that the child is scared of food.

    • @krisuler7734
      @krisuler7734 6 лет назад +4

      +Samantha McNulty LOLLLL They were very....obviously....clearly...being sarcastic and facetious, dear lol

    • @badbrad954
      @badbrad954 6 лет назад +1

      Yes it is

  • @solaris6096
    @solaris6096 6 лет назад +2

    Why does Dante's mom do his hair like a girl with pigtails and such?

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 6 лет назад +9

      Rose - ? Lots of men wear braids. The only time Dante has pigtails is when he's not got his hair braided.

    • @nalanihamby3710
      @nalanihamby3710 6 лет назад +13

      I don’t know but I cannot get over those adorable pompom pigtails!

    • @munninraveneye5537
      @munninraveneye5537 6 лет назад +17

      Usually textured hair grows so slowly and can be damaged easily, usually you don't cut the children's hair when theyre young, and Dantes hairstyles are normal for all children with textured hair boy or girl. She takes beautiful care of his hair.

    • @lessehead
      @lessehead Год назад

      His mother is Nigerian. Learn about black and African hair culture. You sound ignorant.