This man’s right, so what if you get embarrassed out in public and a few people see you, there’s almost 10 billion people on this earth, you most likely wont see those couple of people again…ever
i hit me hard when i realized that i had spent my entire youth morphing myself into some fake people pleasing person for other people, i didnt even know who i am or what i wanted or liked. only now am i slowly finding out who i want to be.
You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. My prayer finally got answered...literally been saying God help me not care about them so much. Four decades later & I got it! I do not care as much as I used to but still hold the capacity and that works for meeeee. Example of water walking is on point mhmm Luv Ya!!
this is a very real thing. i care way to much about what other people think, and trying to please everyone.... while leaving myself with no energy, time or love left. :(
Going through my first breakup and here you are with your timing. Thank you honestly.. I watched a few of your videos and they have made me feel so much better.
Wow, the keffiyeh looks really good on you. I came across one of your videos during a really bad time, and I can say you always show up in my feed exactly when I need your videos the most. Thank you. I knew I was supporting the right person.
Bro your timing is crazy!! I feel like people especially people i fw they always have a opinion of how i should be in their eyes smh. I feel like i don't share the same values as them any more.
If I heard this a few years ago it would have blown my mind, but even now its just good to hear these thoughts I've had and be validated, I've been the most happy I've been since switching to a career path people talked shit on but your quote of "I had to make decisions to be happy because I'm the one who has to live this life" is so true. I've disappointed people I care about to pursue what I love and I've found myself more content than them. I've been having some personal struggles with family but when I wake up to go to work I genuinely enjoy it and its been a saving grace and I made that decision no one else.
I feel this; I used to be a big people pleaser because I hated criticism. Thank the lord he has brought me out of that, and I still struggle with it because I'm human (we all are) but I'm thankful that; people pleasing is not my center anymore. So who ever is reading this I want you to know there is light at the end of the tunnel you can get over it; and it takes time ❤ have an amazing day
Im 2 years younger than you but I look up to you bro, your speech is just unforgettable. You got a good life ahead of you, and I hope everything will turn out good! Still gonna wait for you to drop because even if I hear something I already experienced too, I get a confirmation that Im on the right track.
i felt this video so deeply. i hope you know how much i love and appreciate your videos man… they mean so much to me. this video in particular made me realise a lot of things… cuz i’ve truly been through a lot. i no longer feel that hurt that i used to. thank you so much shimon, please keep doing what you’re doing. you literally saving me❤
Needed to hear this 🎉 about to make a couple big life decisions and family's opinions come in the back of my head often. But no one's happy. So wonderful reminder. 💖
timing is definitely crazy! i know it’s nothing but the Holy Spirit that brought me to this video, word for word i can relate so much to this entire video. thanks bro 💪🏾
I always thought I was just spouting words out of my mouth when this was how I used to think, but here you are reminding me to go back into that mindset.
Shimon, brother, as many people have already said, the timing could not be better. I started watching you when you had a very small amount of subscribers and see how much you have grown!!! Congratulations on becoming this popular and wish you get eve=n more fame to illuminate the truth to the world
You’re a good human. So as all the people having problems in their heart and their heads. They just need to hear things like this because they’re also wanting to break free.
I can relate to this so much. I strived to make my girl happy so much in our relationship that whenever we split up the worst feeling was knowing I can’t be there for her anymore
Also I want to say this was really encouraging. I started on my purpose several years ago, specifically two years ago but I have been through so much it's attempted to derail me entirely. I want to give up, but I know I can't and hearing your success has really given me encouragement to believe I need to keep going.
thank you for posting this 🙏🏼 I really needed to hear all of this, your words are truly beautiful it just hit my soul. you are a real intelligent person who has a understanding of others & how judgmental some people can be. much appreciated. 💜
You know when you're a people pleaser and finally you have the chance to choose your truth and then realize that its damn hard? Yep, this video came at the right time, bro ❤
This is exactly what I was going through and what I was doing during my last relationship and why it ended. Not enough self respect. It's my fault in the end, not theirs. I learned a lot from this most recent one though. Gotta love me first, and that doesn't have to include hating them just because myself and them don't like up
I needed to hear this. It's been a tough year for me this year mentally and emotionally. Been put in the same situation over and over again. New ones too. especially today. I learn the truth that I care about too much, putting people in situation where they are stepping on glass around me. Im in your shoes and your ex-girlfriend shoes. I see myself doing stuff that your ex-girlfriend did to you. I hate that I do that. Last thing I want to do is hurt the people I care about and I see myself in your shoes were youre just trying to make sure happy, making you feel lost. Seeing that it's one-sided. I am getting therapy and am seeking help. I recently got diagnosed with depression so that was great, but I am trying. It just sucks that I'm making everyone around me feel this way. I genuinely hate it. Thank you again, sorry I rambled in the end.
This is so true because we mostly shape ourselves into a different person just because we want to please someone or because we think it will bring people closer to us. Nah, bro, this message hit me so fucking hard, damn!.
The most difficult thing throughout my lifetime has been dealing with other humans 😔 Humans are not a great example of the supreme Animal they consider themselves. They are brutal beasts with chainsaws. Mowing all down even other humanity for their own games with the limitations that are Not taken into account.
For me you're just the best RUclipsr, I simply feel your energy, unlike many I feel that you truly care about your listeners and that you really want the best for me, thank you mate
I was delusional about my ex too i was thinking we could still get back together. Then i finally released that it just wasnt gonna happen. I decided to keep myself busy with work and college. Now im starting boxing. Ive had good times and bumps. But im having lots of bumps recently because someone very close to me passed away. But i hope there's light at the end of the tunnel ❤❤
I care way to much about what people think of me. I’m autistic and it’s always been hard for me to fit in. I have friends who are really special to me, but last year I was being used by someone who I thought was my friend. I’ve always been a quiet kid and I always take things personally. I want to stop caring about what others think of me and just move on but I don’t know how. I trust to much. And I have a stutter. But at the end of the day, I know who I am and know that I’m a good person.
Brother i discovered your channel a week ago. You've helped me to completely change my mindset. I still get negative thoughts and overthinking, but now i feel i got new tools to beat them. 👏👏
You are back! Straight form the ❤Im exicited to hear you got the energy from the source again. Keep going! I made the same mistake, only spend more years trying to make her happy. Never achived that goal. Your videos help much.
Thank you I just started watching your channel sometimes it feels like your speaking directly to me I’m actually healing now thanks to you dawg appreciate it really
It crazy that this video just came because I just started to develop this mindset and now I feel a lot happier and now I feel like you in 4:18 now I feel like I can actually move on w my life and grow into bro the person I want to be
Shimon, i just wanted to thank you for this videos. After i started watching your videos i'm starting to have some diferent points of view that i have never imagined i could have, Thank you Shimon keep the good work.
The best decisión ive made recently is Is to live for my own validation, live life and foster the internal feeling as opposed to the external. I stopped caring of others opinions awhile ago and i must say if u do this some won’t like it but again it’s not about them it’s about u. Sometimes it’s hard to stop caring especially to my “conditioned people pleasers” out there but start to practice this, there’s so much more balance and life flows so much better.
I literally just got out an unhealthy relationship with someone who I sacrificed everything for. All for at the end she was ungrateful and made me feel like I wasn’t good enough, this video was such on point
> "you care too much"
> wears a rag to cover his 'cut
lol
you are the people he is talking about.
@auswqpcv you are soo sick inside hopefully you find some love and healing, peace ✌️
im pretty sure it’s a keffiyeh and it looks fire ngl
And you cared enough to leave a comment about someone else's cut
@@TH3AN1MALyoo nice one 😂
Bro is always on point with his timing
literally
Legit man. 😭🙏
forreal
exactly
Yeah how does that work? Also HOW IS HE SO DAMN RELATABLE
The timing of these videos frighten me
@FelixMonMor
You called it. He's so connected
Fr
ong its crazy
Yeah fr
Fr and I've never seen this channel before too
" why would you care about an opinion of somebody who don't care about themselves " bro wow ! you're right
One more, why would you care about the opinion of someone who does not care about YOU!!!
@@AyshRowland exactly ! that's why we should care about OUR own opinions
@@Yourgirlsarah1-i1s I shall live and declare the works of Yahushua (He died on the cross conquering death)
Why shouldn’t we?
This man’s right, so what if you get embarrassed out in public and a few people see you, there’s almost 10 billion people on this earth, you most likely wont see those couple of people again…ever
Even if you do see them so what
He’s connected to life’s pulse. Always had the right thing at the right time. I appreciate you brother.
@Oldmanbeard
Why can't I like your comment 100 times?? 👏😁
respect for wearing the keffiyeh .. free the oppressed
go free them then
@@Clemson917GBGare you stupid or what?
@@Clemson917GBG we can't really do that clemson because of a certain group of people
@@Clemson917GBGspoken like a true oppressor
@@Clemson917GBGthe oppressors need to free the oppressed
i hit me hard when i realized that i had spent my entire youth morphing myself into some fake people pleasing person for other people, i didnt even know who i am or what i wanted or liked.
only now am i slowly finding out who i want to be.
keep going then!
this is beyond real
I’ve only just realized a few days ago that I’m such a people pleaser- it sucks but atleast I realized it before I was 50 lol
I like the Palestine 🇵🇸 Keffiyeh!❤️
You are ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. My prayer finally got answered...literally been saying God help me not care about them so much. Four decades later & I got it! I do not care as much as I used to but still hold the capacity and that works for meeeee.
Example of water walking is on point mhmm Luv Ya!!
this is a very real thing.
i care way to much about what other people think, and trying to please everyone....
while leaving myself with no energy, time or love left.
:(
@@MrTmac2023 Hey man I wanna let you know I’ve been feeling this same way too. We can push though✊
Going through my first breakup and here you are with your timing. Thank you honestly.. I watched a few of your videos and they have made me feel so much better.
I want this mans clarity of how much he understands so wisely
"Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner." - Lao Tzu
Wow, the keffiyeh looks really good on you. I came across one of your videos during a really bad time, and I can say you always show up in my feed exactly when I need your videos the most. Thank you. I knew I was supporting the right person.
Thanks!
I love your keffiyeh
The head scarf he’s wearing
Dude's timing is never off and he never misses 😭Love you man
Bro your timing is crazy!! I feel like people especially people i fw they always have a opinion of how i should be in their eyes smh. I feel like i don't share the same values as them any more.
The older you get the more u realize people see you how they see themselves. It’s the worlds job to try to mold you while you simply ignore them.
You made your mission to make people happy , your source of happiness is external ! So when they are not happy you are left with nothing.
as a 20 year old tryin to elevate myself with not many people around with the same minding, your channel is pretty refreshing. thanks my guy!
AHHHHH THE KUFIYEH LOOKS SO GOOD MASHALLAH
تعاي نتزوج
@@EddieAdler-xc4ngyou don't even know who she is
@@therobloxproplayer ما يخصك ok?
@@EddieAdler-xc4ng she could be a child
@EddieAdler-xc4ng that could also be a man pretending to be a woman
feels like talking to a good friend whilel watcing these brother, god bless
Once I stopped caring about what others think I became a better human
He’s speaking some meaningful facts, it feels like I opened my eyes for the first time again.
If I heard this a few years ago it would have blown my mind, but even now its just good to hear these thoughts I've had and be validated, I've been the most happy I've been since switching to a career path people talked shit on but your quote of "I had to make decisions to be happy because I'm the one who has to live this life" is so true. I've disappointed people I care about to pursue what I love and I've found myself more content than them. I've been having some personal struggles with family but when I wake up to go to work I genuinely enjoy it and its been a saving grace and I made that decision no one else.
I feel this; I used to be a big people pleaser because I hated criticism. Thank the lord he has brought me out of that, and I still struggle with it because I'm human (we all are) but I'm thankful that; people pleasing is not my center anymore. So who ever is reading this I want you to know there is light at the end of the tunnel you can get over it; and it takes time ❤ have an amazing day
Im 2 years younger than you but I look up to you bro, your speech is just unforgettable. You got a good life ahead of you, and I hope everything will turn out good! Still gonna wait for you to drop because even if I hear something I already experienced too, I get a confirmation that Im on the right track.
Super sharp stuff… wow. You’re fortunate to realize what a lot of people never learn.
i felt this video so deeply. i hope you know how much i love and appreciate your videos man… they mean so much to me. this video in particular made me realise a lot of things… cuz i’ve truly been through a lot. i no longer feel that hurt that i used to.
thank you so much shimon, please keep doing what you’re doing.
you literally saving me❤
Needed to hear this 🎉 about to make a couple big life decisions and family's opinions come in the back of my head often. But no one's happy. So wonderful reminder. 💖
I watch these after work... Thank you for spreading love and being honest with us. Truly Brother, I love you and your content.
timing is definitely crazy! i know it’s nothing but the Holy Spirit that brought me to this video, word for word i can relate so much to this entire video. thanks bro 💪🏾
I always thought I was just spouting words out of my mouth when this was how I used to think, but here you are reminding me to go back into that mindset.
That Kufiyeh looks good on you.... But it will look better on me 😄 Much love Shimon
Shimon, brother, as many people have already said, the timing could not be better. I started watching you when you had a very small amount of subscribers and see how much you have grown!!! Congratulations on becoming this popular and wish you get eve=n more fame to illuminate the truth to the world
You’re a good human. So as all the people having problems in their heart and their heads. They just need to hear things like this because they’re also wanting to break free.
Bro how are you always on time of what i’m going through… you’re a real life savor man
Love seeing the people that disagree, just shows you are speaking to particular audiences when you make videos, . I see you lil bro
💯fam !
Buds straight up helping all the time🙏💗
"Your opinion of me is not going to change my opinion of me because you did not build me. You cannot break me." fr
the timing is always way to good, thanks for the good content.
impeccable timing as usual
Where has this man been my whole life?!?? This video dropped at the most perfect divine timing, definitely needed to hear every second of this vid
I needed this video more than I need oxygen
I can relate to this so much. I strived to make my girl happy so much in our relationship that whenever we split up the worst feeling was knowing I can’t be there for her anymore
Wearing a kuffiya is amazing brother
Also I want to say this was really encouraging. I started on my purpose several years ago, specifically two years ago but I have been through so much it's attempted to derail me entirely. I want to give up, but I know I can't and hearing your success has really given me encouragement to believe I need to keep going.
This came at a moment when I needed to hear it. Thanks bro. Appreciate you!
God bless you, and everyone reading this. I hope you heal from all your struggles.
thank you for posting this 🙏🏼 I really needed to hear all of this, your words are truly beautiful it just hit my soul. you are a real intelligent person who has a understanding of others & how judgmental some people can be. much appreciated. 💜
You know when you're a people pleaser and finally you have the chance to choose your truth and then realize that its damn hard? Yep, this video came at the right time, bro ❤
I’m so thankful man today has been a hard day for me this is exactly what I needed to hear
This is exactly what I was going through and what I was doing during my last relationship and why it ended. Not enough self respect. It's my fault in the end, not theirs.
I learned a lot from this most recent one though. Gotta love me first, and that doesn't have to include hating them just because myself and them don't like up
I needed to hear this. It's been a tough year for me this year mentally and emotionally. Been put in the same situation over and over again. New ones too. especially today. I learn the truth that I care about too much, putting people in situation where they are stepping on glass around me. Im in your shoes and your ex-girlfriend shoes. I see myself doing stuff that your ex-girlfriend did to you. I hate that I do that. Last thing I want to do is hurt the people I care about and I see myself in your shoes were youre just trying to make sure happy, making you feel lost. Seeing that it's one-sided.
I am getting therapy and am seeking help. I recently got diagnosed with depression so that was great, but I am trying. It just sucks that I'm making everyone around me feel this way. I genuinely hate it. Thank you again, sorry I rambled in the end.
It’s incredible with this man’s timing
1:53 no lieeee fam everyone ALWAYS will say something to put you down, and the worst people will be like “nah im jp” i finalllly stopped giving af
Man bro hearing you right now reminds me of the positive voice that “used” to in my head… appreciate the love being spread💯🤝
respect for representing the khufiya🙌
Your videos always help me get a peacful mindset back
thank you so much for opening up in these videos man- through that small action of yours, you are helping a lot of people. a lovely thing❤🛐
This is so true because we mostly shape ourselves into a different person just because we want to please someone or because we think it will bring people closer to us. Nah, bro, this message hit me so fucking hard, damn!.
The most difficult thing throughout my lifetime has been dealing with other humans 😔
Humans are not a great example of the supreme Animal they consider themselves.
They are brutal beasts with chainsaws.
Mowing all down even other humanity for their own games with the limitations that are
Not taken into account.
Couldn't agree more.
congrats on your 600K, shimon!!! 100% deserved, king 🤞🏾
For me you're just the best RUclipsr, I simply feel your energy, unlike many I feel that you truly care about your listeners and that you really want the best for me, thank you mate
I was delusional about my ex too i was thinking we could still get back together. Then i finally released that it just wasnt gonna happen. I decided to keep myself busy with work and college. Now im starting boxing. Ive had good times and bumps. But im having lots of bumps recently because someone very close to me passed away. But i hope there's light at the end of the tunnel ❤❤
“Take that lightly, but heavily where you need it” sirrr🔥💪🏾
thank you bro for everything
beautiful msg from my spiritually tapped in black brother. proud of u gang. Teach
I care way to much about what people think of me. I’m autistic and it’s always been hard for me to fit in. I have friends who are really special to me, but last year I was being used by someone who I thought was my friend. I’ve always been a quiet kid and I always take things personally. I want to stop caring about what others think of me and just move on but I don’t know how. I trust to much. And I have a stutter. But at the end of the day, I know who I am and know that I’m a good person.
we gotchu bro :)
Brother i discovered your channel a week ago. You've helped me to completely change my mindset. I still get negative thoughts and overthinking, but now i feel i got new tools to beat them. 👏👏
You are back! Straight form the ❤Im exicited to hear you got the energy from the source again. Keep going! I made the same mistake, only spend more years trying to make her happy. Never achived that goal. Your videos help much.
You absolutely right.
I'm 21 too and I relate a lot with you, glad found your RUclips❤
The timing of the video popping up to my youtube feed, i swear it always right.
I don't even know how this appeared on my feed Shimon, but I am so very happy I did!!! You are an amazing angel 💙 Thank YOUUU!!!!
Thank you I just started watching your channel sometimes it feels like your speaking directly to me I’m actually healing now thanks to you dawg appreciate it really
Shimons content is inspiring and good to hear .... Sometimes all wè need is people like Shimon
i love the headscarf / shemagh
Can't wait til u drop!! It sounds so heavenly
It crazy that this video just came because I just started to develop this mindset and now I feel a lot happier and now I feel like you in 4:18 now I feel like I can actually move on w my life and grow into bro the person I want to be
Shimon, i just wanted to thank you for this videos. After i started watching your videos i'm starting to have some diferent points of view that i have never imagined i could have, Thank you Shimon keep the good work.
when you see a shimon davis video you click
youre kinda my big brother that i never had thanks for everything you put here 💗
Not gonna lie Brodie I needed this video because I went thru the same situation and it broke me but now this just gave me more motivation
The best decisión ive made recently is Is to live for my own validation, live life and foster the internal feeling as opposed to the external. I stopped caring of others opinions awhile ago and i must say if u do this some won’t like it but again it’s not about them it’s about u. Sometimes it’s hard to stop caring especially to my “conditioned people pleasers” out there but start to practice this, there’s so much more balance and life flows so much better.
I have a lot of regeart in life he changed my view of everything,thank you so much man 😊
The fact that i encountered this video at the right time though....respect for this man
Every dang time you teach me something profound. You freak me out. Much love! ❤❤❤
Blank space to concentrate
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You’re videos be coming right on point ..! You definitely are a Godsend
I literally just got out an unhealthy relationship with someone who I sacrificed everything for. All for at the end she was ungrateful and made me feel like I wasn’t good enough, this video was such on point
keep making vids it gives people to live for something, so inspirational. thank you
Your timing is absolutely terrifying. But I welcome it.
I'm SO HAPPY to see you wearing a KEFFIYEH ❤❤❤
saving this video for when i need a reminder because, wow.. this gave me such a mental release ❤️
''you did not build me, so you can not break me.''
I really needed to hear this. Thank you.
Great video brother keep on grinding but don’t forget to take time for yourself too
Thank you for this ❤