It's not laziness if a woman doesn't want to put in the work to fix what the man who cheated broke. You don't get to hurt someone and then judge them for how they heal.
I hear you, but check your vows! Some people say those vows with their eyes close, but they don’t truly mean them. For better and for worst is a serious commitment. Many people don’t mean these words.
As a woman, I respect a man that tells me the truth over anything. It says a lot about the character of a man, that it’s willing to stand with his truth regardless of what can happen. Jesus died for the truth.
I agree with You, its better to be straight forward towards me even though it might hurt me at the moment, but if I found out about he's Lying to me, it will Hurt me much more, I'll never more will believe in what he's telling me, cause he has already hurt me with a lie 🤗🥰💯💯🙏🙏🙏
The truth is always best, but we let society tell us we are foolish to forgive and do the work to rebuild. But it definitely takes 2 adults with God's help to turn dark into light.
Mannnn I’m kind of coming to tears, this really pushes me to speak my truth because I’ve had a similar situation sexually as an adolescent. My parents recently found out about the thing and it was refreshing but I haven’t shared it with my wife because of embarrassment.I’m now 29 years old with 3 kids and 5 years of marriage while running a business. We’re having some rocky roads this year. And we’re scheduled for our first counseling next week but TIM your story just hit me DEEP DEEP. Pornography and masturbation is a mental battle almost everyday. And it’s been since that situation occurred in my life but I haven’t been able to fully shake it from a weekly routine. I’ve tried ALOT but one thing I’m aware of is the Truth will set me free but as lame as it sounds I’m afraid of judgment, guilt and the shame. I pray for the courage to have that conversation but man it’s very deep... This really caused a lot of introspect. TIM and guys this episode just changed my life.
This is more men's story than you can probably fathom; you are NOT alone. You've been BRAVE enough to share with us🙏🏾 so I strongly encourage you to trust that your wife can handle your truth. It's not easy (fear of judgement, responses etc.) I know but it's necessary. Secrets break down your ability to trust and CONNECT. I pray that you were able to open up in therapy or that in time you will; for YOUR benefit and also for your marriage. Many prayers of listening for "understanding" for your family 🙏🏾
He is being so honest and I love that. My husband also told me on many occasions that he wished he had married me a virgin. He also regrets sleeping around before he met me. But I believe when a man truly finds his soulmate and feels completely free and safe to be himself with her, he realized that. God didn't make any mistakes...One man for one woman in the beginning.
I was xx abused at 4 years old. He had me watching PRN too. I had a MSTRBTION addiction since this age. Everyday multiple times a day, I was addicted to M&P till two months ago. When I made the decision to commit myself to God and get saved. I would say it has been hard, but I actually had this insane amount of determination to let it go after savior! I maybe ALMOST faltered once or twice and that was a week after being saved. But I fought it off.. now I'm going two months clean. I cannot say that for the past 24 years I've done it everywhere at any moment minimum 3 times a day going sometimes up to 20. I thank God for working through me and saving my spirit. Cause kinda of like Time says you get to a point where you don't enjoy those things anymore it doesn't feel good after the deed.... 6 months abstiennt, 2 months from Mastubations and 2 months sober.
Keep taking it one day day at a time ..TRULY many blessings to you on allowing God to help you these past 2 months. You should feel proud of the commitment it's taken 🙏🏾
The whole family broke a generational curse that night. Nothing is a coincidence. I'm happy the issue was exposed and corrected. ❤ This episode was AMAZING!!
CMON TIM!!!! Speak the truth 🗣️ Some men act like no sex is the end of the world. Have discipline! Learn how to deny your flesh sometimes (with the help of the Spirit) it could all be so simple.. men seek that pleasure not realizing they letting their own body / flesh CONTROL them when God ordered us to have authority. Wether someone is a believer or not TRUTH will always be the truth. Ignorance will lead majority to death wether they are actively aware or not. No matter how much knowledge our human mind has .. Isaiah 55:8 to finish my sentence off.
The comment that keeps sticking with me is "I'd love for my wife to be a virgin, for all the women I'm with to be a virgin." As a woman, I'd like for my husband to be a virgin... I'm not sure how often that's considered by many men. I appreciate that Tim's regret is that he was unable to fully give all of himself to his wife and her alone.
I will certainly be watching this again at least twice. Tim Ross and his wife are the truth!!! I'm so glad you were able to have him on the podcast. He almost made me throw my phone at least four times!! The best! Great choice of guest this week gentlemen, great choice!!!
Benefit of monogamy sexually, is that you get to really know that person’s body. You have the opportunity to learn everything about them with no judgment because that’s your spouse. It’s great!
Thank you for asking the hard questions! As a woman committed to my husband and to Jesus, I have double protection. It's an honor to follow his lead and to work with my husband by making decisions for myself and our family. I am seen, heard, and loved ❤️
Pastor Tim we miss you and Juliet at Embassy but Tim 2.0 is holding it down! Thank you for everything you are doing for the culture! Great sermon at TC. Great episode guys❤
I have watched this now for the FOURTH time since this aired, every single time I hear something I missed before. This is truly one of the most amazing, honest and eye opening podcasts Ive ever heard!! PLEASE bring Pastor Tim back and continue this conversation, the world needs to hear this, every marriage needs to hear this!!!!
Super insightful and relatable podcast, being Christian is becoming cool again and I’m glad that biblical masculinity is becoming a goal for men around the world. Godly wisdom is finally getting the platform is deserves as the best code to live by.
Tim did an amazing job explaining cheating! Being able to say you messed up and share valuable insights you learned is impactful. There is likely an opportunity to discuss what got you there. If she were to find out in her own, the trust is absolutely destroyed. How does she know you really stopped? If you cheated and know you want to keep her, self reflect give her grace to go through the process since it’s all new to her. Your relationship might be better after recovering vs you living in a lie. Fun fact, an intuitive woman knows something is wrong. Life can be busy and we don’t follow up on the feelings, but we know. Just say when you have a problem, so you can find solutions together. If you can do it before the cheating, even better. God Bless!
Myles Munroe said in Single, Married, Separated and Life after Divorce, " If you believe you married in the Lord, then you would have to go back to the preacher to get a divorce". He also said," If I am invited to a wedding (I am a covenant witness) and later that couple decides to divorce, I expect to be invited to witness the divorce just as I witnessed the wedding." The first publication was in 2005.
Man, I truly appreciate how REAL this conversation was! It's scary and I think alot of people won't get married if they decide to stop having sex for a year and get pre-marital counseling. We need to continue to have these conversations. Thanks
Man being the head of his wife is more so him being the spiritual leader of his wife/ household. He brings his family together in a spiritual sense and leads by example.
I could listen to Tim's perspective, knowledge of the world, and knowledge of the world for hours. He has such inside and a way of speaking that makes it relatable weather you are from the church or the streets.
100% Tim I agree with you. Christ is the head of the house and the man is the head of the woman and equal partnership for the family. I will never again marry a man that does not submit to God because if he submits to God I will submit to him, simply. Thank you, guys again for a fab episode 👏👏👌
Am praying for my wife an i help other marriages. What we have been thru. Cheating hiding doin drugs and totally mentally abuse my wife. What god has done for us is truly amazing. God is the only way to go. God will restore it. After a year now being saved. My marriage is the very best it has ever been. We will be married for the rest of our livez. Thanks to God and me listening to Tim and Julie on upset the vows. Thank you Tim and Julie. Many more things to tell to help couples.
“Dweller” here! Picking up some gems from this conversation. Tim’s right! I am single and doing the work it takes to be free and me. And if I ever fall in love again, I will make sure he’s my friend (sound familiar?). ❤✌🏼and hair grease!
my parents married after 6 months almost 35 yrs ago! i married after 8 months almost 3 years ago, and he aint lyin! You will NEVER know what you dont know before you marry them ❤
Lord Have Mercy, I am laughing so hard when you got caught by your mom. My stomach hurts. But I am truly blessed by this video as well as a recent video I seen with 2 special guests. Unfortunately my marriage is coming to an end after 28 years. I'm trusting in God to lead the way. Thank you young men. God Bless.
Wow! Pastor Tim really spoke a word about men needing to be known and loved. This reminds me of the Boomerang Movie with Eddie Murray. He was the performer who had many conquest. Then longed for intimacy with a woman who was also a performer. Until he was introduced to a woman who really wanted to know and love him he was lost. Amazing
Just wanna say thank you for putting on this show. God really has blessed you all and us with these conversations. Glory be to Him who was, who is and who is coming.
I respect Pastor Tim for standing in his truth and sharing his story in hopes that it will help, heal and resignate. The measure at which he can speak of the damage that was done and that the devil did not bind him. I am in awe... I pray that all the Authorities in heaven watch over you and your family. Protect this man at all cost. In Jesus name we pray. Amen
Thank you for this!! It was much needed! We live in a time where men and women lack spiritual and emotion intelligence. Everything seems to be “I”-what “I” want and like OR the blame game. It’s refreshing to witness a grown man who actually likes, loves and values himself and women. Too many men and women are broken and don’t even know it. All t they are concerned about is spreading themselves around. It reeks insecurity and a real genuine like for the opposite sex.
When i was 23. Very very high from shooting 70 unites of meth into my veins. That night i layed in bed so high looking at the ceiling for 7 hours. Wondering what and how i was goin to live my life. Wondering when i was goin to die. I knew god then. So i was talking to him about this. I prayed for him to bring me someone to help me. 3 months later while i was online i met my wife. Not knowing she lived a mile away from me. She helped me get my life straight. Got my warrants taken care of. Got my license back. I got me 2 jobs to help her take care of her 3 children. I had no responsibilitys at that time till i started to help her help me. I took that for granted. Still loving other women, and now just doin weed an painkillers. Stopped doin meth, cocain, and shrooms and acid. Never new that my wife was my angel. After a year now i know she is. Thank you lord
This convo was SO delicious!! Tim is the WHOLE TRUTH! His podcast is also amazing! I'd PROB MOST LIKELY be more willing to proceed in a relationship and work together after infidelity after a CONFESSION THAN if he got caught. Getting caught will MOST DEF get you 100% LEFT!! BUT let me also say THIS, I'd be more willing to proceed post infidelity IF I CAN SEE THAT I CONTRIBUTED to the infidelity. NO NO NO ITS NEVER EXCUSED BUT SOMETIMES INDEED UNDERSTOOD! And I'm saying ALL THIS HAVING BEEN UNFAITHFUL in my previous marraige.
Tim is my mentor, Sam you have my daddy’s name. Hector, my daughter is pregnant and lives in Mexico. She will teach me Spanish, I am a basement dweller for the rest of my life. I truly love you guys.
45:04 that value especially when that one person helps you realize how much more you Deserve out of yourself and everyone around you because not only do they see you, know you and value you but they see the potential of your greatness
Basement dweller* many of the things Tim said, I’ve heard on the basement and yet I still got gems from this pod. You guys are funny also! Really enjoyed the conversation.
@@ScaryToRemarry just curious are you a believer I’m looking for the same interested to hear how it happened and what did you do to prepare and also what made it known that you wanted to wife or saw that in her and what did you guys do to develop move in that direction
❤Love you you guys. I love what you are doing, helping to restore and save marriages. We love all your great guesta, they are anointed and very open and truthful in how they share their live journeys through martiage. We need more honest, humble and truthful men of God like these. Glory be to God. Thank you and many blessings! ❤🎉
Honestly, I just love how REAL this conversation was. Besides the swearing (It’s a bit of a story lol) it was probably one thee best podcasts/vids I’ve seen. Question: ‘I’d love for my wife to be a virgin…’ If I may, that’s amazing. By some of the things you have shared, I’m assuming you’re not a virgin. However, is this a ‘lifestyle’ you now practice & would be willing to practice (no sex) until you’re married? If you’re desiring this from your future spouse, shouldn’t you (now) be practicing it also? Just a thought that came to me while watching this incredible episode. 😁
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It's not laziness if a woman doesn't want to put in the work to fix what the man who cheated broke. You don't get to hurt someone and then judge them for how they heal.
I hear you, but check your vows! Some people say those vows with their eyes close, but they don’t truly mean them. For better and for worst is a serious commitment. Many people don’t mean these words.
The person who cheated should have checked their vows.
@@jazmineg.3325 I know that's right but I understand what the person above your comment is saying also.
@@jazmineg.3325 for better or worse and cheating can be the worst.
Supposed to Love, Honor and Treasure too.
As a woman, I respect a man that tells me the truth over anything. It says a lot about the character of a man, that it’s willing to stand with his truth regardless of what can happen. Jesus died for the truth.
I agree with You, its better to be straight forward towards me even though it might hurt me at the moment, but if I found out about he's Lying to me, it will Hurt me much more, I'll never more will believe in what he's telling me, cause he has already hurt me with a lie 🤗🥰💯💯🙏🙏🙏
Grace and Truth 🙏
The truth is always best, but we let society tell us we are foolish to forgive and do the work to rebuild. But it definitely takes 2 adults with God's help to turn dark into light.
Exactly!
Even if he admit he likes to sleep
With different women, would you be ok with that truth? Just want to see different perspectives
Mannnn I’m kind of coming to tears, this really pushes me to speak my truth because I’ve had a similar situation sexually as an adolescent. My parents recently found out about the thing and it was refreshing but I haven’t shared it with my wife because of embarrassment.I’m now 29 years old with 3 kids and 5 years of marriage while running a business. We’re having some rocky roads this year. And we’re scheduled for our first counseling next week but TIM your story just hit me DEEP DEEP. Pornography and masturbation is a mental battle almost everyday. And it’s been since that situation occurred in my life but I haven’t been able to fully shake it from a weekly routine. I’ve tried ALOT but one thing I’m aware of is the Truth will set me free but as lame as it sounds I’m afraid of judgment, guilt and the shame. I pray for the courage to have that conversation but man it’s very deep... This really caused a lot of introspect. TIM and guys this episode just changed my life.
This is more men's story than you can probably fathom; you are NOT alone. You've been BRAVE enough to share with us🙏🏾 so I strongly encourage you to trust that your wife can handle your truth. It's not easy (fear of judgement, responses etc.) I know but it's necessary.
Secrets break down your ability to trust and CONNECT.
I pray that you were able to open up in therapy or that in time you will; for YOUR benefit and also for your marriage.
Many prayers of listening for "understanding" for your family 🙏🏾
He is being so honest and I love that. My husband also told me on many occasions that he wished he had married me a virgin. He also regrets sleeping around before he met me. But I believe when a man truly finds his soulmate and feels completely free and safe to be himself with her, he realized that. God didn't make any mistakes...One man for one woman in the beginning.
I was xx abused at 4 years old. He had me watching PRN too. I had a MSTRBTION addiction since this age. Everyday multiple times a day, I was addicted to M&P till two months ago. When I made the decision to commit myself to God and get saved. I would say it has been hard, but I actually had this insane amount of determination to let it go after savior! I maybe ALMOST faltered once or twice and that was a week after being saved. But I fought it off.. now I'm going two months clean. I cannot say that for the past 24 years I've done it everywhere at any moment minimum 3 times a day going sometimes up to 20. I thank God for working through me and saving my spirit. Cause kinda of like Time says you get to a point where you don't enjoy those things anymore it doesn't feel good after the deed.... 6 months abstiennt, 2 months from Mastubations and 2 months sober.
Your testimony is a blessing. Thank you for sharing ❤️ I pray you continue on your journey safely and get the healing that is needed.
Amen!!! Sorry for what you went through. Such a blessing. Keep up the good work.
Keep taking it one day day at a time ..TRULY many blessings to you on allowing God to help you these past 2 months. You should feel proud of the commitment it's taken 🙏🏾
God bless you. This is a true testimony .
May God continue to keep you.
The whole family broke a generational curse that night.
Nothing is a coincidence. I'm happy the issue was exposed and corrected. ❤
This episode was AMAZING!!
CMON TIM!!!! Speak the truth 🗣️
Some men act like no sex is the end of the world. Have discipline! Learn how to deny your flesh sometimes (with the help of the Spirit) it could all be so simple.. men seek that pleasure not realizing they letting their own body / flesh CONTROL them when God ordered us to have authority. Wether someone is a believer or not TRUTH will always be the truth. Ignorance will lead majority to death wether they are actively aware or not. No matter how much knowledge our human mind has .. Isaiah 55:8 to finish my sentence off.
This is such a great conversation. I love hearing the male perspective on sex and relationships, especially when they incorporate godly principles.
You guys have saved my marriage, thank you so much.
Love to see this 💪🏽💪🏽 blessings to you and the fam
This podcast is a true gem for black men
And women 🫶🏾
And white men. Anyone that bleeds red ❤️
And Latin women who date brothers 🥱🥳😍🙏🏽💥 but all jokes aside, amazing for all who are open and receptive. Praise God for you gentlemen 🙏🏽👏🏽
LETS GO!!
The comment that keeps sticking with me is "I'd love for my wife to be a virgin, for all the women I'm with to be a virgin." As a woman, I'd like for my husband to be a virgin... I'm not sure how often that's considered by many men. I appreciate that Tim's regret is that he was unable to fully give all of himself to his wife and her alone.
This is something people don't even consider from a female perspective!
Totally
Dweller here! Love this episode. Tim is so full of wisdom and so REAL!
Wisdom 💯
I will certainly be watching this again at least twice. Tim Ross and his wife are the truth!!! I'm so glad you were able to have him on the podcast. He almost made me throw my phone at least four times!! The best! Great choice of guest this week gentlemen, great choice!!!
Everything he has to say is wholesome. I could listen to him the whole day.
Absolutely 👌
Benefit of monogamy sexually, is that you get to really know that person’s body. You have the opportunity to learn everything about them with no judgment because that’s your spouse. It’s great!
Thank you for asking the hard questions!
As a woman committed to my husband and to Jesus, I have double protection. It's an honor to follow his lead and to work with my husband by making decisions for myself and our family. I am seen, heard, and loved ❤️
I can't stop listening to Tim!
Pastor Tim we miss you and Juliet at Embassy but Tim 2.0 is holding it down! Thank you for everything you are doing for the culture! Great sermon at TC. Great episode guys❤
I have watched this now for the FOURTH time since this aired, every single time I hear something I missed before. This is truly one of the most amazing, honest and eye opening podcasts Ive ever heard!! PLEASE bring Pastor Tim back and continue this conversation, the world needs to hear this, every marriage needs to hear this!!!!
Super insightful and relatable podcast, being Christian is becoming cool again and I’m glad that biblical masculinity is becoming a goal for men around the world. Godly wisdom is finally getting the platform is deserves as the best code to live by.
Also multiple sexual partners leave you vulnerable to STIs which is nasty in itself, everyone wanna get freaky nobody wanna be burned. Stay committed
The fact that this kind of knowledge is shared on a platform that I’d regard as Manosphere platform tops it all. Tim Ross is real “high value” man.
Everything comes out in the light! God showed me in a dream my husband of 18 yrs was cheating. Trust, God will always Bring to the light.
There needs to be a part 2 with this gentleman, he is so on point!!!
Tim did an amazing job explaining cheating! Being able to say you messed up and share valuable insights you learned is impactful. There is likely an opportunity to discuss what got you there. If she were to find out in her own, the trust is absolutely destroyed. How does she know you really stopped?
If you cheated and know you want to keep her, self reflect give her grace to go through the process since it’s all new to her. Your relationship might be better after recovering vs you living in a lie.
Fun fact, an intuitive woman knows something is wrong. Life can be busy and we don’t follow up on the feelings, but we know. Just say when you have a problem, so you can find solutions together. If you can do it before the cheating, even better. God Bless!
Myles Munroe said in Single, Married, Separated and Life after Divorce, " If you believe you married in the Lord, then you would have to go back to the preacher to get a divorce".
He also said," If I am invited to a wedding (I am a covenant witness) and later that couple decides to divorce, I expect to be invited to witness the divorce just as I witnessed the wedding." The first publication was in 2005.
Man, I truly appreciate how REAL this conversation was! It's scary and I think alot of people won't get married if they decide to stop having sex for a year and get pre-marital counseling. We need to continue to have these conversations. Thanks
Man being the head of his wife is more so him being the spiritual leader of his wife/ household. He brings his family together in a spiritual sense and leads by example.
What a good man. So grateful men like him are leading by example out there 🙌🏻
You ALWAYS love, but you may not always like. Love is a choice. Love is an action.
her awareness doesn’t dictate whether or not trust is broken or what’s right and what’s wrong
I’ve been watching newer episodes. I think Ryan and Ty have grown, when i have compared this to those. I love that for them!
I could listen to Tim's perspective, knowledge of the world, and knowledge of the world for hours. He has such inside and a way of speaking that makes it relatable weather you are from the church or the streets.
100% Tim I agree with you. Christ is the head of the house and the man is the head of the woman and equal partnership for the family. I will never again marry a man that does not submit to God because if he submits to God I will submit to him, simply. Thank you, guys again for a fab episode 👏👏👌
I didn’t want the episode to end!! Amazing content!!❤️
Am praying for my wife an i help other marriages. What we have been thru. Cheating hiding doin drugs and totally mentally abuse my wife. What god has done for us is truly amazing. God is the only way to go. God will restore it. After a year now being saved. My marriage is the very best it has ever been. We will be married for the rest of our livez. Thanks to God and me listening to Tim and Julie on upset the vows. Thank you Tim and Julie. Many more things to tell to help couples.
Peace to children’s nervous system!! Brilliant
“Dweller” here! Picking up some gems from this conversation. Tim’s right! I am single and doing the work it takes to be free and me. And if I ever fall in love again, I will make sure he’s my friend (sound familiar?). ❤✌🏼and hair grease!
Is that Shai?
@@christinaw.4626 yes.
my parents married after 6 months almost 35 yrs ago! i married after 8 months almost 3 years ago, and he aint lyin! You will NEVER know what you dont know before you marry them ❤
Best guest yet! Behind Judge Toler of course ☺️
Thank you so much Tim. You are a tool in God's hands
The interviewer asked some great questions.
Wow powerful testimony, God Bless him for sharing his story. This is courageous and healing
Lord Have Mercy, I am laughing so hard when you got caught by your mom. My stomach hurts. But I am truly blessed by this video as well as a recent video I seen with 2 special guests. Unfortunately my marriage is coming to an end after 28 years. I'm trusting in God to lead the way. Thank you young men. God Bless.
I have watched this twice already and will be watching over and over to embed the nuggets ive got out of this conversation. Soo good. 🙌🏽
Wow! Pastor Tim really spoke a word about men needing to be known and loved. This reminds me of the Boomerang Movie with Eddie Murray. He was the performer who had many conquest. Then longed for intimacy with a woman who was also a performer. Until he was introduced to a woman who really wanted to know and love him he was lost. Amazing
Mr.Tim Ross is phenominal. I would watch the show every time he''s on.
Just wanna say thank you for putting on this show. God really has blessed you all and us with these conversations. Glory be to Him who was, who is and who is coming.
Love Pastor Tim & the basement and I just found this podcasts and I’m loving it 💯such a powerful testimony and great raw conversation 🙌🏾
Love that you are so opened😮 thank you! I always wish I could trust people enough to open myself! I never have😢
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤no words needed---He taught this thing! Big Ups to yall....Bring him back!😊😊😊😊
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This was an amazing show with Tim Ross. This information is life-saving, and turning the 💡 on about life!
I respect Pastor Tim for standing in his truth and sharing his story in hopes that it will help, heal and resignate. The measure at which he can speak of the damage that was done and that the devil did not bind him. I am in awe... I pray that all the Authorities in heaven watch over you and your family. Protect this man at all cost. In Jesus name we pray. Amen
Thank you for this!! It was much needed!
We live in a time where men and women lack spiritual and emotion intelligence. Everything seems to be “I”-what “I” want and like OR the blame game.
It’s refreshing to witness a grown man who actually likes, loves and values himself and women.
Too many men and women are broken and don’t even know it. All t they are concerned about is spreading themselves around. It reeks insecurity and a real genuine like for the opposite sex.
Yes a great performer with many different spirits within his soul never knowing what love is.
Basement dwellers in the building 🎉🎉🎉🙌🙌great pod
This episode totally changed my marriage life❤❤💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
Gentlemen!!!!! You did not hold back one bit! Thank you 🙌🏾
Our pleasure!
I loved his honesty. I haven't always Loved my wife but I have always Liked her.
Phenomenal Conversation….
When i was 23. Very very high from shooting 70 unites of meth into my veins. That night i layed in bed so high looking at the ceiling for 7 hours. Wondering what and how i was goin to live my life. Wondering when i was goin to die. I knew god then. So i was talking to him about this. I prayed for him to bring me someone to help me. 3 months later while i was online i met my wife. Not knowing she lived a mile away from me. She helped me get my life straight. Got my warrants taken care of. Got my license back. I got me 2 jobs to help her take care of her 3 children. I had no responsibilitys at that time till i started to help her help me. I took that for granted. Still loving other women, and now just doin weed an painkillers. Stopped doin meth, cocain, and shrooms and acid. Never new that my wife was my angel. After a year now i know she is. Thank you lord
Great discussion. More people need to talk openly like this.
Tim Ross always drops GEMS! I love it! Thank you ~
Beautiful conversation; these conversations will change society for the better for everyone. Thank you so much.
This was a really good conversation ❤ love the transparency and honesty ! Keep it up y’all
Truly beautiful conversation, gentlemen.
These guys asked some great questions. Good work guys.
This convo was SO delicious!! Tim is the WHOLE TRUTH! His podcast is also amazing!
I'd PROB MOST LIKELY be more willing to proceed in a relationship and work together after infidelity after a CONFESSION THAN if he got caught. Getting caught will MOST DEF get you 100% LEFT!! BUT let me also say THIS, I'd be more willing to proceed post infidelity IF I CAN SEE THAT I CONTRIBUTED to the infidelity. NO NO NO ITS NEVER EXCUSED BUT SOMETIMES INDEED UNDERSTOOD! And I'm saying ALL THIS HAVING BEEN UNFAITHFUL in my previous marraige.
🔥 pod....OMG
Tim is straight talk no chaser and in this day and age...this is absolutely necessary!!!!
These 2 hosts are of the world. Their questions and comments expose their own sin
Soul care is a must 🙏
This episode was EVERYTHING!!!!
Y’all ask some gooood questions! Amazing hosts and yall will only get better 👏🏾
Tim is my mentor, Sam you have my daddy’s name. Hector, my daughter is pregnant and lives in Mexico. She will teach me Spanish, I am a basement dweller for the rest of my life. I truly love you guys.
45:04 that value especially when that one person helps you realize how much more you Deserve out of yourself and everyone around you because not only do they see you, know you and value you but they see the potential of your greatness
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That's a word right there! You are saying I do to what you DON'T know, NOT what you do know🤯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
🙏🏾 Amen
I can listen to Tim for ages! So much godly wisdom 👏🏿👏🏿
I respect Tim Ross so agree with his marriage counseling no sex before marriage. Be ready to do it
I so much love how free Tim is. He's a real One! The honesty, transparency, freedom, openness - that's so good.
Love this conversation
Loved this conversation so much ✨💙
Tim is the marriage guru!! Absolutely NO CAP! I've never heard anyone who can touch him except Jeremy Anderson.
This is gold for both men and women
Basement dweller* many of the things Tim said, I’ve heard on the basement and yet I still got gems from this pod. You guys are funny also! Really enjoyed the conversation.
Yes Dweller here I feel the same! Always good to hear him re-tell his story and stay true to himself
This episode was phenomenal. Deep, serious conversation mixed with tons of laughter n !
Mr Tim mentioned a lot of Dr Myles Monroe statement which I respect as Dr Myles Monroe spirit lives on. Mr Tim articulate a point brilliantly 👏🏾
I like these two as hosts. They are on different parts of the EQ spectrum, and it’s interesting to watch.
What an insightful conversation! I married my wife 6 months later after meeting on Instagram
Congratulations to you brother
@@judekabongo1995 thank you sir
@@ScaryToRemarry just curious are you a believer I’m looking for the same interested to hear how it happened and what did you do to prepare and also what made it known that you wanted to wife or saw that in her and what did you guys do to develop move in that direction
@@jdog4usmc1 good question! I talked about it with my Wife here ruclips.net/video/D6kAtzovmPg/видео.html
Absolutely Excellent! Thank you!💪🏽💙💪🏽
❤Love you you guys. I love what you are doing, helping to restore and save marriages. We love all your great guesta, they are anointed and very open and truthful in how they share their live journeys through martiage. We need more honest, humble and truthful men of God like these. Glory be to God. Thank you and many blessings! ❤🎉
This could've easily been a 3hr+ Podcast! Now, I gotta look at it (2) more times to get that experience😒😳🤣😆 #TimRoss #TheBasement #LetsGoooooo!
Great conversation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾God bless you guys 🙏🏾
This has been one of the best shows thus far 😌🙌🏾👏🏾
Honestly, I just love how REAL this conversation was. Besides the swearing (It’s a bit of a story lol) it was probably one thee best podcasts/vids I’ve seen. Question: ‘I’d love for my wife to be a virgin…’ If I may, that’s amazing. By some of the things you have shared, I’m assuming you’re not a virgin. However, is this a ‘lifestyle’ you now practice & would be willing to practice (no sex) until you’re married? If you’re desiring this from your future spouse, shouldn’t you (now) be practicing it also? Just a thought that came to me while watching this incredible episode. 😁
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Not “you take your teeth to the dentist” 🤣🤣😂 I love Tim!
This was raw and extremely helpful. That you!!
This was such a wholesome and illuminating conversation
Well said. Thanks for the advice. 😊
Nothing But TRUTH & FACTS....People are Intitled To Their Opinions But Always feel the Need To Debate What Makes Sense.....S.M.H
This was amazing! Tim is a whole vibe and I love the questions and dialog. I love hearing men's perspective, this was good!