No Sex Marriage - Masturbation, Loneliness, Cheating & Shame with Pastor Tim Ross & Jeremy Anderson
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- Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
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🕘 Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
0:35 Two Legends In The House - Pastor Tim Ross & Jeremy Anderson
3:19 Pastor Tim's SHOCKING Truth About Healthy Marriages
13:43 What Does Intimacy Really Mean In A Marriage?
21:32 Selective Vulnerability: Should Your Partner Know All Your Weaknesses?
27:50 Pastor Tim: Passport Bros Are Lazy And Entitled
40:16 Crude Or Subtle? Pastor Tim Shares The Art of Sexy Talk
54:13 Jeremy Drops SHOCKING Take: Every Couple Should Have A Threesome
1:07:45 Pastor Tim's Bedroom Advice: Try Everything Once
1:20:34 Can Celibacy Lead To Bedroom Disaster?
1:32:45 Closing Off The Episode With Two Powerful Prayers
I appreciate your honesty and I pray that this message helps countless of others like it did for me. Much love from the 🇬🇧 U.K.
Thank you!!
Beautiful prayers. Thank you gentlemen. May God continue to bless you in Jesus name. Amen 🙏🏾
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First men need to learn submit to God and that will go far beyond anything!
Please know there are many gods 😂 learn his name #amunRa
@@OsheeDagod that’s what’s up! But this not the place for debate or discussion for that! 😉! You have a blessed day and find someone to be sarcastic with!
@@OsheeDagod you still at it! Wrong platform to push your narrative! Again I hope you get blessed beyond belief! Nothing less than for that! Just give thanks to your gods bringing you life!
@@biga3586 lol so a there is no freedom of option... Are you American? I'm confused on why you're offended. Please heal your childhood wounds ☀️
@@OsheeDagod okay that’s funny! I come from no toxic environment or family! Seen good in my life! Childhood wounds wow 😂😂! That’s ridiculous 🤣😂had show this to my parents! They laugh too! We hope you get your healing ❤️🩹!
I will definitely still be watching the Pod, but man, this will probably go down as the best episode ever!!!! I'm about to walk into the room and tell my wife I want to do therapy with her so that "I" can be a better husband to her!!! I can't even put into words how both of these brothers have touched my life! 🧨🔥🔥🔥🔥
: Amen. Amen!!!!
God bless you for doing so brother. I'm in tears thinking of how that one statement would have been transformative for my marriage. My ex-husband only went to therapy because I asked and then sat there quietly and without any emotion every session. He had no desire to change or improve. She's a blessed woman. This episode just might save many marriages/relationships.
I think you just want sex, probably.
This is good …so much healing going on 🌺😀🌺
Truth!!🎉
I’m not married, not even in a relationship but I’m about to cry watching this lol. True mental and emotional intimacy is so beautiful and seldom experienced in a lifetime.
I hear you bro…Stay strong.
Hey, thank you. Your comment made me watch this.
Ask God to help you find your true soul mate ..He will.
This is bullshit lmao, no sex for a year im leaving. Foh.
So true
My first time on this channel! No lie Jeremy the Lord really used you to speak directly to my situation. Married 10+ years and My wife is battling depression and has abandoned me for 3 months sleeping in another room and everything. I’m not in a rush for sex but I miss our intimacy. I haven’t watched Porn or cheated but it’s been difficult and what you said just struck like lighting “release her and serve give her what is needed” “Make love to her mind”This is why Titus says Older men teach the younger men”wow 9 months bro Glory to God. Lord strengthen me and keep me and turn me from my selfishness that I may Serve. Thank you so much fellas Love yah❤ May the Lord keep using yah
Prayers for you, your spouse & your union. May our God grant you strength.🙏🏽
This is a reminder 👍🏾
This really blessed me. As a 25 year old young black man who’s single and desires to be married one day, this really gave me some amazing insight. Thank you guys for this.
God bless king. You will be great and find a great woman who you're both worthy of another
😇 best wishes
Each one , reach one 🙏🏾 And you will do just fine in marriage
This is beautiful!!
Same, 25 - desiring marriage. Praying the Lord builds you and blesses you with a woman from His deepest of riches. But also know that you, brother, are a diamond in the rough as well. You are virtuous and excellent. Continue to become a better man brotha, love. She'll come, in Jesus name
Jeremy and his friend are unicorns. A great amount of men don’t realize how sacrificial marriage really is. I applaud these men for being great Kings. 💪🏿👑
When there are husbands wives appear.
My dad once told me that people dont always recognize the blessing in sacrifice.
MAY GOD BLESS YOU BRUTHAZ AND THIS PODCAST!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
And I do mean leprechaun unicorns
They're only "kings" in your eyes because they are saying shit you want to hear. If they said things you disagreed with, you would be calling them women bashers & haters.
This was straight ministry for both church and non church folks! Respect to the hosts for opening up their platform for this wisdom packaged in a way that speaks to the culture!!
As a 45 yr old woman, divorced and remarried, I can honestly say after hearing this panel, Ladies there is still hope 🖤. I applaud 👏🏾 you guys for your advice/solutions and for not Black women bashing like the rest of ‘em out here.
When the pastor said “ you gave your body to 100 people but you haven’t given your heart to anyone” that hit different. What else is there to say after that
Even though you got the girl, you still have to court her, make her feel wanted and loved.
True not hard to do
@@wdsanders04 Some men don't.
@Ms. Anita Rosales to be honest those men are boys , true men take time to learn you
The woman was created for the man, not the man for the woman. Courting her is fine but she should have the right posture to be courted. She's the helper, not me
Mmm it's funny, cause we still live in a world where a man has to build himself up to get the girl, look appealing be appealing in everyway and once the woman is secured, he maintains to keep up his lady. Yet the woman forgets her monogamous role in saying I'll be everything you need me to be wanting monogamy, yet there are so many excuses given by woman as to why a woman won't fulfill her own part that she asked for in the relationship, now you spawn a generation of unhappy men still faithful to woman, and woman still want more dispite the unhappiness of the man you sitting next to. How much more needs to be given for woman to take accountability and realize it's not always about them, you also have needs to your man that need to be met, it doesn't work one way.
As a woman, this was very refreshing and provided lots of insight. I'm going to remain hopeful. May God continue to bless this podcast and you gentlemen
Every married man needs to listen intently to this episode its powerful so true and highly accurate.
Facts! Single men too!
This dialogue was so refreshing...black men having an authentic, necessary conversation and holding both men and women accountable!
Facts 😊
That part ❤
That's all our conversations. Women like to quote "boys" and say that's how MEN talk. This is a regular convo with grown men
Let's face it, you females only love when men are held accountable. Because truthfully, you women hate having to compromise and admit your wrongdoings. Yall take it as "bashing and hating women".
@@magnum-kj5ip Let’s stop with comments like these. Her point is, these convos are important to have in order to change the atmosphere of relationships especially given men need to learn how to effectively lead.
It is an honor to listen to grown men hold healthy conversations for both men and women to hear and absorb...keep doing the Lord's work👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Exactly!
My husband and I got married at 24 years old. After 10 years of marriage we are still learning one another’s needs. Marriage isn’t easy, but it is worth it. I’ve built a beautiful life with my best; I have no regrets.
Every person who is married or thinking about it should watch this... so real and needed.
Marriage, christian relationships, maturity and two becoming one is not for the weak at heart. The rawness of this episode is needed & appreciated. #growup
Soooooo true!!!
Join us on our game show!
A lot of young men need to see this episode and let the Holy Spirit shed the scales from their eyes that culture has deceived them with. Great episode!
It's great to hear men speak this openly and to allow women to hear it! Please continue these type of conversations.
I love how these conversations are not one-sided. You guys do a great job considering the woman and the mans perspective.
WE LOVE Y’ALL!!!! Thank you for having me on!
Excellent discussion! Preach! Facts! 100% 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🔥🎁✝️
First time hearing you-I gotta go thru all your stuff now! Powerful colab bro 👊🏾
Yall were awesome guests! Thanks for your insight ❤
When Jeremy gonna be on the Basement? Yalls vibin off each other..... so good!!
@@b.country5855 he’ll be on SOON!!!
Jeremy Anderson and Tim Ross are the real definition of Kingdom men🙌🏿 So blessed by this!
I enjoyed hearing this. Being 29 and mom and telling guys, sex if off the table until marriage. They look at me like I have 3 heads. I did not respect sex in my 20s and now I value it because of God and I choose to apply His value to my life. It's nice to know there are men who understand its value but with a realistic outlook. Very good.
So true!
Trust me . I have listened and watched this conversation six times in two days . Am still repeating it over and over again. Thank you you Gentlemen for this powerful conversation. May the Lord continue increasing your territories in Jesus Mighty Name!
Amen 🙏🏾 ❤😃🙌🏾
Absolutely phenomenal conversation! Not for the weak! This was powerful! I hope everyone could appreciate the transparency of two christian happily married brothers that kept it a THOU WOW!!!
My man’s face when he said the husband, the wife and the Holy Spirit!! 😭😭😂😂😂😂
💀💀💀 threw me off
😂 Ty was so disappointed!
@@danj8038 As a church boy, I already knew that would be his answer. 😂😂
@@PlushTress Facts 😂😂
@@ShutUpAndBump I'm in the church too but I ain't never heard it like this
Yall...this has me in tears...I am literally going thru a divorce RIGHT now because my husband took INTIMACY Out of our marriage from the beginning...we only been married for 4yrs and I loved my husband...was willing to stay in this sexless marriage..5times a year was tops and was never given a explanation as to why....so after years of no explanation...I decided to give him what he was giving me...I stopped cooking and cleaning.....2 MO later he filed for Divorce...sad that we had to end this way...I pray one day he'll see how we got here...oh we are in are late 50's ...Thank you brothers for this episode
This is one example of why the "you can only divorce if they cheat or hit you" doctrine is false. Because there are many husbands who will never hit you or cheat on you, but they are CRUEL to you. They talk mean to you, LOOK at you with disdain, purposely withhold intimacy from you...
That sounds terrible, may God bless you. In the 50's, I thought by now from past relationships you'd have set boundaries, big difference between needs & wants. So quick to divorce after 2 months, there was a reason he was single & I don't know you but it seems you were way to avaliable for him. You wanted him more than he wanted you & the best thing is hopefully you can find that real love & have someone appreciate you.
I'm so sorry your going through this and I can relate but it's been 20 years and going through the D. It sounds like there was immaturity and a lack of communication. If you went through with the divorce I pray for your healing which can only come through complete separation from him. No contact as hard as it is. That's the only way to heal out what you'll keep the wound open. If you didn't divorce I hope you found a good therapist and or coach. God Bless you
This question may seem insensitive..but did you gain a lot of weight??
This is an amazingly mature conversation. As a married woman, I appreciate this so much!!
Healthy Sex life begins with the key word=Healthy. Mindset, communication, physically, view
“Big in Thailand, small in the Congo” almost got me fired from my job how fast I started dying 😂😂😂😂
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That was funny😂😂😂
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It's great to see Pastor Ross ..he has always been real and funny not matter what. I'm recently Divorced after 32 years together and Married 29 3 Sons ...this needs to be a Public Service Announcement for Everyone!!! I don't know what he heard in the vows.. in sickness and in health but my ex wouldn't even bring me food and water when I was not able to move my body from the neck down. God is so good. Thank you for using this platform to address real life issues.
INSTANT GRATIFICATION - I believe this is the reason why so many relationships don’t work. We want the “butterflies” of a new relationship to last, it just simply won’t. There are new phases to be explored, new levels, let’s embrace them all. Great Convo!!
Absolutely 💯
That part‼️‼️‼️
This was a great podcast convo! I like how Jeremy and Tim remained solid in their answers no matter what questions were asked or how worldly the questions were. I listened to this episode 2x already and will listen again. This was mature convo.
The other thought is the moderators say they don’t want women with many bodies, but want makes them think it’s okay that a women who doesn’t have a lot of bodies if at all would want them? This is how we fall into double standards.
@@genardrapugh8113 it just shows that they’re selfish, aren’t reading their Bibles with the Holy Spirit at the helm, and are not ready to lead.
I completely agree! They are grown men through and through 🙏🏽
To passport bros: speaking as someone who has one American parent and one foreign - you are trading one issue for another. Blending of cultures has its own difficulties. Arguably, what you are choosing is the more difficult path
400,000 black babies aborted and 80% single mother rate, says otherwise! But nice try attempting to deflect, as if America isn't the home of multiculturalism😅😂😂
Say it.
I am a 61 yr old black female listening to this and I Love IT ! Speak brothers ! I have to let my husband hear this 😂
This is one of the most emotionally intelligent conversations about sex I’ve ever heard.
The team up I never knew I needed 🙌🏽 Loved how Tim and Jeremy tag-teamed one another on the wise gems they were dropping. Their solo convos were awesome enough. Both of them in the same room?? So good 💎
Gentleman, I appreciate this conversation and your honesty. This is what we all need, open and real conversations. This is helping me understand men better and I appreciate your vulnerability.
The paraplegic wife example was powerful!!!
This was such a blessing to listen to..I've been married for 27 years and it blessed me abundantly.
This is one of the best episodes Ive seen! Raw, Relevant, and Revolutionary!
That threesome piece was soooo funny. I was so nervous and a million thoughts of disssappointment passed my mind quickly followed by relief and laughter . GREAT GREAT MEN. YOU GIVE ME HOPE
This was a beautiful masculine dialogue spoken from men's perspectives about marriage, dating, etc from a biblical and sacrificial standpoint. Any brother attempting to watch this, please feel free to watch it ALLLL the way through. We need our black Kings to stand in their calling and be the head and the leader for us black women ❤🙏🏽👏🏼 It's also a great watch for us women as well 👍🏽
What a GREAT podcast. Real men. Real struggles. Real life. Commitment. Marriage. I love the loose language AND THE HOLY GHOST being in the room. It really was an invigorating discussion. I have so much respect for this podcast. Keep that coming!!!
Jeremy is absolutely correct. Those young men are BOYS. Nothing to be ashamed of, but be aware of. God bless all the brothers involved in this podcast
Yes we are all learning. Many young men will end up grateful for a woman willing to be nice to them despite the fact that man can not have sex every day. any longer 🤦🏽♀️ . Many of us are in need of a hug and think they need sex. I hope we have not missed the point,you can both want sex,etc 100% the same but everything can change. If we make choosing a loving compassionate person the priority and be the same we are prepared for whatever happens, to respond with compassion and love for ourselves and our partner. I hope 😂
THANK GOD for Tim and Jeremy-two manly, intelligent and mature men. I truly hope their message is not lost on Tysean, Ryan and others who have much growing to do:
God led me to watch this because I have never heard of this podcast but I definitely needed the message. The words from these beautiful brothers has restored my faith in finding my husband. Im glad you showed men there is more than one way to think and handle situations. Thank you guys 🙏🏾
This is the locker room talk that is necessary. I appreciate y’all brothas. Thank you for this
The look on Tysean's face when they mentioned flowers on a random Tuesday and inviting the Holy Spirit into the bedroom...priceless 😂😂😂😂
They all needa be on this show together. Y’all are REAL men and I wish more men would really take notes on how to really be a MAN
“I didn’t choose my way over our peace” well said! And this can be applied to so many areas of life.
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I am happy to see men are starting to pray for their wives in the lord Amen
Amen 🙏🏾
This is gold!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Every man and woman should listen to this. Thank you for this!
Thanks for listening
I'm a married woman, 9 years in, together 12 years. I agree with the opening statement when he was representing the women. This is a great episode. Thank you for your vulnerability, encouragement and insight.
This was by far my favorite episode! Thank you to the guests and of course the hosts for making it happen. This conversation was such a blessing to me and I know it will be the same for the others that watch it. I am so proud of the impact Hardly Initiated is making through having the real conversations that need to be had. Keep building that momentum. God Bless!
WE APPRECIATE YOU !!
Indeed…I hardly comment on RUclips but I’m not shy to comment here. Hardly Initiated is doing amazing on your choice of topics and guests. This is by far my best duo guests you have had. As a Muslim traditional wife who is married to an Alpha man who’s protecting and providing for me and our family, I say THANK YOU. May The Good Lord bless you all. Tysean and Ryan, I see you!!!
@@HardlyInitiatedcan you let us know the marriage counseling they recommended? You never posted it
Thumbs up??? But can’t you tell us 😂
Can yall please make them regularly recurring guests because the question yall ask and the answers they give to those questions can help cultivate a generation of Godly men. This is sooo dope. I cant stress this enough. Coming from a man whos been married for 18 years who loves the Lord and had to learn so much of this the hard way and am learning from this
Beautiful!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
As a divorced mother of 2 sons, this video (and many of your videos) will be shared with my boys. Like many black households, we do not have any alpha male figures in the family who’s willing to have heart to heart dialogue, such as this. So I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this content. ♥️ For all the single moms of sons without male leadership, this podcast could be your saving grace as a mentor for your young men.
Best wishes on your future endeavors. May all of you stay safe, healthy and happy as you continue to enlighten our black community. Thank you all so much!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰😘🤗🤗
Ok, I loved this episode. It's my 1st time listening to yall. One thing I wanted to address was that I was a broken 💔 female without knowing my worth. Therefore, I tragically became very promiscuous in my past. Having several of Sexual partners than my husband being a virgin and raised in the church. My testimony 🙌 🙏🏽 that God has then shown me my worth and I live faithfully committed to my husband ❤️
We are turning 16 years 🎉🎉🎉🎉soon. I can also attest I only experienced my 1st Orgasm with my husband and never with any of those partners from my past. It's true my husband makes love all day to me through text, chat, and my mind before we hit the bed. As a matter of fact 💯 he is My King and I his Queen.
From the bedroom to our throne!!! Thank you for sharing this podcast with these 2 godly brothers 🙏🏽 and for keeping it real!
I love how this is one of Tim's favorite topics to talk about. you can just see how passionate he is about the talk.
A lot of men are poisoned by porn 😢
😁😁😆 it saves time for other pleasures of life. lol
It teaches you how to have s$x
Women too honestly.
@@salma_Nella22 yes
OMGGGGGG EVERYTHING THESE MEN SAID WAS ABSOLUTELY 1000000000%. From start to finish. WOOOOWWW. Never thought I will ever come across men who fully understood everything women think and go thru BC we are emotionally and mentally. Salute fellas and mad respect!
As an MD & coach, there is a rare subpop made of females with a high libido, where the sex issue is 'reversed' if you will. It's not the husband wanting more sex but the wife. It'd be interesting to hear a Pod covering such a rare yet existing population, which yields a whole other level of relationship issues. AND this Pod was excellent!!
PLEASE, PLEASE speak on this. How does a wife, seeking after God, handle the husband who denies his lack of intimacy and desire for sex. Prayer only takes one so far when only one is praying because the other denies. HELP!
As a married woman that also coaches single women, this was a great episode to listen to. Thank you!❤
As a health and life coach and 17 years as a social worker, I have said this plenty of times
This reminded me of what the Quiet Storm truly used to do for relationships back in the 90's. The Men were intentional about the songs they'd select for their Woman to hear knowing they were getting to her mentally. The "carefulness" carried soooo much energy. The ability to learn, and grow with your Man (I'm a woman) who took the time to learn his woman is part of the healthy sex for sure! I enjoyed this episode, greatly! 😇🙏🏾🙏🏾💙
Yes indeed! And rewinding your favorite song on the cassette and start over and be caressed.🤷🏽♀️😂😉🫣
This was absolute fire.
When I saw that it was 90+mins, I thought that would be too long.
It was not long enough. We need more of this regularly.
This is my first episode and I must say this was the realist conversation I’ve ever heard on a podcast!
I love the maturity level of Tim and Jeremy.
🔥🔥🔥. Keep this combination with Jeremy and Tim once a month. I've learned so much; great podcast young Men🥰🥰🥰🙌🏿🙌🏿
I love this for men. It’s what they need to hear. And I love how y’all let the people know how important God is in the relationship and kept explaining marriage.
Once married, I had the same issues, unfortunately we both were very young and could have made it work, got worse. Now that I’m wiser than before, speaking tiur partner’s love language is super powerful. It’s mostly about communication, and comprehending that communication. Speak the love language, learn the body language, comprehend that and know how to correctly respond. That’s power! ❤
Every man needs to hear this pod. REAL grown men teaching the young cubs.
I was so informed and blessed by these two.
I mean I listened to them individually when they came on the show but this duo is intense! Thank you Tysean and Ryan. Great work guys.
Wonderfully said !!!!! To hear this coming from men is so breathtaking .I believe some men are scared to allow themselves to be vulnerable because they don’t believe its “Manly “ but in reality it’s showing your strengths in ways that’s top tier . Communication is key in a union ship but UNDERSTANDING what is being said is so much more important. When you love someone you will literally do any and everything for that person to make sure they feel safe , comfortable and happy . It’s a two way street we have to make each other feel that way .
As a single Christian woman this podcast was such a blessing to receive to my soul! Thank you so much gentlemen for such a blessed and open conversation about so many topics that affect single and married people alike. It gives me hope that men that truly love the Lord still exist and are willing to do the work and what that “work” looks like on both ends! May God continue to show up in your podcasts and May God continue to bless and keep you all, in Jesus name I pray, Amen 🙏🏾
This was great. As a woman, this is very insightful.
This was an amazing conversation. I appreciate it. As a divorce’, listening to Jeremy talk allowed me to see my husband didn’t fight for us or me within our marriage even after I offered therapy for us. To always hit hit with a nope I’m not doing it or I can do it when I’m ready ( which never came to pass) let me see he didn’t want to work and I felt as though he expected I was suppose to “know” what do to as a 1st time wife and him as a 3rd time married person i wanted some guidance, but didn’t get it only the were not compatible line (which I felt was a cop out). Praise GOD for Mr. Ross and Mr Jeremy as they tell it raw and uncut. Keep doing the great works. We need it.
@candiceparks2362 continue to allow God to heal your heart and work on being a better you. The fact that your ex-husband has been married 3 times speaks volumes. God has someone who is compatible for you and you can build an amazing life together when the time is right! 🩷🙏🏾
I am a new subscriber and newlywed. I can’t say how much this really opened my eyes to this marriage and even my past relationships.. thank you ☺️
I could have watch this for hours married 14 years been together 17. This was absolutely amazing. I thank you guys for your service and devotion.
Tim! That's the one. You don't even want to be known.
Whew! This episode had cracking up and wanting to run around the church at the same time lol. It gives me so much joy to see men talk openly about the struggles of sex and relationship. It's my belief that if we had more honest conversations like these we could prevent a lot of unnecessary heartbreak. Keep up the work kings!!
This goes both ways, because as a woman I identify more with the pain of a sexless marriage than I do with the idea of “going through something” and therefore don’t want to have sex. The rejection and pain, loneliness, and insecurity that it gives me really feels unbearable most of the time. I know I’m not the only woman out there that experiences this but damn it hurts to not have a solution or at least to not see what the solution may be smh
OOOOH, I know the pain!! I was so hurt by my ex-husband's treatment of me during our sexless marriage---rejection, gaslighting, ignoring my needs---It was awful! I wanted to cheat, but I COULDN'T; however, he felt ok to talk to and go out with other women and do who knows what else (even with his ED, there are other sexual acts that can take place).
Wow it's very painful
Maybe do what Jeremy said he did.
I feel you 100%, 20yrs of a sexless, lonely, insecure, loveless "marriage" very painful especially coz you can't recover the years💔
@@ceciliawarero8214 wow 20 years, I thought it was bad having a sexless marriage for 3 but 20 has taken the cake.
Every Man needs to watch this episode🔥🔥🔥🔥
Hallelujah 🙌 the hope you're giving us you don't understand!Healed generation is us!Healed husbands! Healed leaders! Healed families! THANK YOU JESUS!
This is facts. I love the conversation. I like that men can communicate and actually verbalize what they want and need
I’ve never been so blessed by something in my life. 33yr old married black man for 3 yrs now & it has been challenging. Born & raised in the church, but it helps so much to hear men talking like men & not the church PC version. You fellas taught me so much on this sit down & most of all encouraged me. God bless you gentlemen.
Wheewwww!!! I love the perspective of God-fearing married MEN 🙌🏾🙏🏾 especially on this topic of servanthood.
Pray together and play together 🙏🏾❤
Passport men aren’t approaching marriage from a point of service but self, it’s all about what they want nothing about the person they marry.
Women don't date as an act of service. They trying to get free food and entertainment
Pastor Tim Ross and his friend being on here was beyond amazing.I am so happy there was two transparent and RELATABLE men of God who was able to break down these issues. Prayerfully more healthy, sanctified, holy, fruitful, amazing mind blowing sex-filled, Kingdom marriages are birthed from this episode. Dope dope dope dope conversation.
This is the type of podcasts I have been looking for...holding men accountable and teaching them how to be men. May God bless this podcast!
Thank you, making love to a woman's mind is what men don't understand. Thank you, gentlemen. Thank you for telling these men that a successful woman will submit to the right man. It's not that we don't need a man we need the man who really knows what a man is supposed to do .
As a single blk woman witnessing the negativity surrounding our community amongst our men & women in relationship dynamics, it's reassuring to see strong black men taking ownership of themselves and how you govern yourselves in relationships with women. It's much needed for" US" to heal the matters of the heart. Our community is hurting spiritually and emotionally. In that, we can't grow in partnership. This is my first time viewing this podcast. It won't be my last. I'm now a subscriber. My wish is for both men and women to receive the messages in this episode. I pray for it to be available on a bigger scale. Thank u for your openness, transparency, and honesty. 👏🏾
Guys your conversations have given me a new perspective in marriage, been with my wife for 12 years and everyday i learn something new about marriage and your podcast is soo refreshing...keep up the good work plus your guests never disappointed...S/O from South Africa
Together for 20yrs and married for 10. Been through a lot, but everything yall spoke on hit home and was straight facts! Marriage counseling is a great thing. I hope my husband will be able to love me again the way you both love your wives.
As a Christian who used to have the wrong idea of what love is in my past, I truly appreciated this discussion. I agreed so much about all of this. It was truly a blessing. Thank you for the prayer at the end too. God is so good for reminding me there’s hope. 💯 ❤🙏
This was honestly beautiful… y’all are really on to something here .. bringing biblical perspective to these dating streets will help us all! Lol
We are witnessing something great on this platform ..
It goes big ways. Older women and men go through changes hormonally and the level of desire can be reversed. Women then have to give grace for the man’s inability to perform.
As a woman, THANK YOU! To all of you. Holy hell, this was SO good. Bless you for being this open and vulnerable and HONEST about what a real relationship takes to be successful ❤
A lady listening and appreciating this clarity and vulnerable honesty. I pray my bro and his wife listen to it objectively