I lost my mom 9/19/23 I’m broken. It hurts so bad. I can’t eat or sleep. I should have spent more time with her instead I took time for granted. I love my mom. Me and my 3 sisters are heartbroken. It was unexpected. The worst news to get on the phone while I am at work. Today me and my 3 sisters had to sign a paper for an agreement for mom to be cremated. I had to pick out a urn today for when they cremate her. This is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life and I am 40 years old. My wife and kids are my saviors without them I would have been done with life.
Prayer to you and family I lost my mom 9/10/23 we are hanging in there .my dad is my main concern they were highschool sweethearts married 44 yr. I pray those who loss a love this year can continue to manage and some day soon find some peace and health and healing way to cope . I feel your pain wholeheartedly ❤
I pray your doing well!! I empathize with you friend!! It’s ok!! Right now my wife and kids are what I have now too!! There my everything!! Sending Love and prayers your way ❤
I lost my dad less than a week ago… I’m so broken and shattered and have no idea how I’m gonna be able to withstand the day of his funeral when we cremate him… 😔🕊️
Don’t let them go. Keep them in your heart. Don’t forget that they’re always with you. I miss my best friend every single day. I hope to whoever is grieving to stay strong. You are not alone!
Lost my mom when I was a JR In highschool back in 2017. Took me 6 yrs to move on. 2024 I'm 24 now and looking back I was lost without her in this world as a grown man. Knowing that same love I received will never come around in a day of my life. I accepted and now I can see clear now.
My husband is at home with hospice he has leukemia and they say he will be gone in a week my heart is breaking he’s my best friend I feel like I can’t. Breathe i hope we both can become stronger
@@deadtalkspodcastI would be interested in Pod cast... I'm 2 yrs into this & His clothes and personal things are exactly as they were.... My friend gets really angry because I explain, I will pack them when I'm ready... I have No family and sadly No kids... Hope my address shows up... Probably TMI.... Thanks
I lost my 35 year old dad today I’m 11 and i have a 7 year old sister I am very sad and this video help me rest in peace mark I will always love you dad for ever❤💔🙏
I am so sorry for your loss my dear. It must be so hard and confusing for you to deal with these emotions at such a tender age. May God comfort you and strengthen you. Sending you lots of hugs and love❤❤❤❤❤ .
My rabbit died yesterday and ive known her sjnce as long as i can remember and poeple say its just a bunny get over it but when they say that it makes me angry and i couldnt sleep at all last night i havent been happy since sunday i really miss her
Of course we grief about our animals and I have lost plenty over the last 20 years. They are part of the family and will be missed the same as a person at least in my family that's the case. 🫂
Oh bless you. I think it’s so important to talk about pet loss. People who say, ‘he/she is just a rabbit/ cat/ dog’ whatever are stupid and ignorant. No one can legislate for the bonds we form with animals
Bless your heart, so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful bunny. For me, pet loss goes much deeper than people loss. Animals have the purest of souls and when they choose to love us humans is the greatest honor, and they get my unconditional soul-deep love, devotion, respect, commitment. Our connection is so much sweeter than with any human. . . but oh my gosh, how deeply it hurts when they suffer & die. The depth of our love will be the depth of our grief.
you were their entire world in their eyes. they loved you just as much as they possibly could. never forget those special memories and keep spreading your love into the planet and she shall always return to you❤
Thank you all for the support ive gotten way better mentally and im happy to say i wear a necklace with my rabbits ashes and my brother gifted me a new bunny who has helped me recover tremendously❤️
My oldest son died on March 12, 2024. I want to rest right now and tend to my plants. I don't want any more flowers... I just want to rest and not be rushed to do anything.
So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. 😢 I lost my 10 yr old furbaby boy Aug 17, 2024 (after also losing my sweet one yr old furbaby boy the year before...) and the way you articulate how you are feeling is exactly where i'm at.
Thank you. It is powerful to see and hear you say - it’s ok. I’m being honest for what I need to be in he moment. It helps not to fight it. To embrace the memory or put it away. Seeing my friend today helped too so I can see how strengthening my relationships is helping me ❤
I lost my younger brother whose body had to wait almost a year to be shipped for burial. Next my dad and a cousin. Last week my cousin’s fiancé who who are both my friends and grew up with me. I’ve been trying to block all the memories and feelings. But this last brought everything back. I’m overwhelmed, emotionally broken and feel cursed and abandoned by God. It hurts so bad. 😢
So sorry for all your losses. I lost 3 loved ones in about a year. Although it’s heartbreaking 💔 my Faith believes they are RIP with God especially when they see we are doing things that makes us happy until we all meet again ... they are our Angels. Bless You and yours. 🙏❤️🕊🌎✨
I understand. I lost 5 family members including, my husband and my dad and 3 lifetime friends, plus my dog in 2 years. Former friends are very distant and not understanding. I get it honey, I don't have any advice, I wish I did. Just know "You are not alone". I know that doesn't help. I wish you the best.
You don't let go to a point you remember and cherish them.The ones you lost will always be a piece of your heart forever.Thier spirit will always be there to whisper to you.This is a informative post.
I lost my boyfriend in a car accident back in December 2023. It hurts so much. He was my world and I felt like he was the only person who truly listened and understood me. I wish for him to come back everyday.
This is gonna be a long journey for you I lost the love of my life in 2007 I’m still in pain like it was last year I’m afraid of getting that close to someone again but remember we too are here but a short time also so live the best you can so you have lots of good stories to tell him when y’all reunite ❤
It’s so hard trying to maintain. Lost my son January 29th and my husband February 19th of this year 2024. I hurt so badly . I pray to God for some relief and I know it’s in His time. But Oh how I miss them both 💔💔
ginacap🌺 l'm so sorry that your son💔 and husband died 💔. May our Heavenly Father wrap His arms around you. May He send angels 😇 to protect you, amen. My husband died 2 months ago 💔. I know how difficult the grieving process is.
being with people causes me more grief. I lost my mom my brother was no comfort. I did not want it anyways. He cried way more than I did. I got through it alone sitting zazen.
That’s so helpful. Thank you. I think the essential conflict of grief is the pull push feeling of needing to remember and also let go. I lost my cat last year and I’m devastated. I feel that if I am enjoying life I’m betraying his memory
U made my day thank you 🙏 My auntie died in 2020 and we still don’t know why it was so sudden. She was only 26 R.I.P I will always remember making tik toks together and playing on the trampoline. I’m 12 now and I can’t believe I only knew her for 8 years 🪦
@@boatergirl4811 they are better and worse days, although sunny spels are rare and gloom can overtake really easy. I am sort of taming the pain, I dont desire so much to die maybe because I am bit by bit dying inside. Life became pointless and all efforts resemble Sysyphus' stone rolling, the stone will always fall down, despair always take over.
❤ I’m reading “The Grass Dancer” by Susan Power. She writes about 2 kinds of grass dancers. One style prepares the powwow grounds by dancing and flattening the grass. And one style imitates the grass itself. I thought of it as a metaphor for grief. Being in it. But also controlling it.
Nice profile photo! It's incredible how we connect with strangers in unexpected ways. Although I don't usually do this, I couldn't help but reach out to you after seeing your comment. Could you tell me what you like to do in your spare time?
Praying for God to guide and keep you in these days of sadness. Lord help us walk this new road that we would not have chosen and thank you for people like this person to help guide us, Amen.
I lost my husband one week ago I am beyond heartbroken and with so much guilt at times I don’t want to live no more the anxiety is killing me I never imagine this day would ever come God please help me to survive my mind is winning the war
I’m visiting my Oma’s house right now and it just became so real the moment I stepped in the door, I didn’t cry or feel sad but I really felt nostalgic and I could feel her around me, all the happy memories, the Christmas mornings, picnics in the yard in the summer
I lost my grandmother last year in November. The pain is still so new. She loved me the most and I wasn’t there when she died. I was in a far away country and I still haven’t gone back. I couldn’t be there for her funeral rites too. The sadness, grief and the guilt is unbearable. The thoughts of what could have been is so overpowering. Now I am constantly scared about my parents because I have seen death and I know this is inevitable. The fear and sadness is real. I want the feeling to go but at the same time I don’t want it gone. My love and everything, my grandmother deserved it. If I let this feeling of sadness go then it feels as if I have let her go. I know accepting this would be so much better but I don’t want to. I cannot let her go ever.
Grief is a natural process that the body goes thru while processing what just happened and how your body deals with it. It starts with the thoughts that control the emotions that controls the actions.
I lost my mom who was everything for me and she was my heaven since her death I am alone no one been there for me my sibling every one of them Moved on busy with their life so no one there when I need them but Allaha
I lost my fiancé to a car accident several years ago. At first I had a plethora of friends and family members supporting me. But after a month? They stopped calling me or coming over. They had lives to live and I wasn’t moving on fast enough. I got the message: I was dragging them down. So I isolated myself. 13 years later and I’m still alone and never talk about him because nobody cares.
It has taken me 13 years to get to this point. Im finally at peace. I expected there to be this magic number where all of the pain vanished. At one point someone told me to get over it. They have no idea. Thanks.
I think grief is a moment where we learn we dont need anyone else to care about us if someone most important we considered cared about us more. We'll meet them in heaven someday.
Lost my dad when I was 3, 2 of my brothers and my grandma. Buried 5 friends and no one knows how to help me. I work hard everyday. If I can thrive in this life so can you.
My stepdad left us last night. I didn’t even get to say good bye and he didn’t die btw he literally left us and the worst part is😢😢😢 I came back from a sleepover with this news. I’m so sad. I don’t have ANY supportive dad no more
I agree.. unfortunately, I lost my family along with my parents.. They pretty much deserted me when my mother died and after the day of remembrance for Dad, I don't hear from anyone. No holiday invitations, nothing. This is not the family I grew up with. 😢 It's very hard to move on with life when there's no one to share the grief/memories with. I'm stuck on that day 5 yrs ago & can't move on by myself.. don't want to. No reason to.
Nice profile picture! It's incredible how we connect with strangers in unexpected ways. Although I don't usually do this, I couldn't help but reach out to you after seeing your comment. Could you tell me what you like to do in your spare time?
I just lost my grandmother today, the last grandparent I had. She practically raised me as a kid, I took time for granted and it’s killing me. I wish I just picked up the phone 😢
I NEED ADVICE. You're saying it's okay if i use distractions. Yet they're saying because I'm having Contrast PTSD, i shouldn't be avoiding the pain. I CANNOT HANDLE THE PAIN RIGHT NOW! WHY won't they let me just ignore it, at least for a year? I lost my best / only friend to COVID. This year my mom. And now my husband is dying. PLEASE! WHY do i have to face the loss of my MOTHER, the ONLY person who was willing to LISTEN to me? PLEASE advise.
Nice profile picture! It's incredible how we connect with strangers in unexpected ways. Although I don't usually do this, I couldn't help but reach out to you after seeing your comment. Could you tell me what you like to do in your spare time?
Nice profile picture! It's incredible how we connect with strangers in unexpected ways. Although I don't usually do this, I couldn't help but reach out to you after seeing your comment. Could you tell me what you like to do in your spare time?
One of my friends died on Friday. I had seen her the previous Saturday when I went to go attend another friend’s funeral. It’s been a really rough couple of weeks.
Nice profile picture! It's incredible how we connect with strangers in unexpected ways. Although I don't usually do this, I couldn't help but reach out to you after seeing your comment. Could you tell me what you like to do in your spare time?
It’s hard. The words MOVE ON, I’m starting to despise. Talking about it with certain ppl isn’t helping. Im finding out who doesn’t really relate or bother to understand. Don’t know if talking about it is helping. It’s so much.
I was eating chocolate when i was called to see my father. I didn't know he died. Since then, I've been eating excessively. I eat when I'm stressed, angry, hungry, etc
I do the opposing I can't eat I have to force myself, just had a great loss Oct 1 2023 and I'm forcing myself to eat so o don't waste away to nothing, I need to keep my muscle
I lost my father in 2023, Biological father, was long separated from mother, yet still cared so much for me, he was falsely arrested, was about to be proven innocent until misunderstanding was resolved, and then the next day you just see the news and well, an riot. He died to a stray bullet, captured by cameras, which the prison claims they will show footage of once investigation is complete, miss him every day. Was on a phone call with him one day before it happened, it was basically a goodbye, some weeks before i was gonna visit him too.
9 august 2024 lost my sister my uncle(bade papa,tau) i feel really bad 😞 for him but whatever i am justing learning to live without her stupidity rip💓 👑 queen
I lost my uncle yesterday (28/04/24) due to cancer, and its sad cuz i only saw him for like 10 days total in my entire life and his poor kids are so young i feel like they havent had enough of him. He let too early
I lost my mum and our rock on June 9th of this year, it was so fast one day she was here and then we were in hospital for a month we though she would get better she Deteriorated so fast and then she was gone. Honestly I have regrets because I wish I had spent last years Christmas and New year with her but instead I was selfish and she was alone. Mum loved us with all her heart and I am glad my sisters and I were there during her last days. Sometimes I am okay but most times I am in pain and I have not yet accepted, honestly I don't know how to move on, I am still stuck
But what happens when you lose your mum to a heart attack, and the person who has been helping me through it - my uncle (her brother) also dies of a heart attack 4 days ago. Both with zero warning and in good health and only 3 months apart? I've gone from staying strong for the sake of making my mum proud to completely numb. Logically thinking about it, I need to be careful to not turn cold hearted. But I just dont give a f-ck about anything at the minute. Life can be so brutal I can't even believe this has happened.. I know some people have been through even worse than this but maybe people are just stronger and more resilient than I am. I just don't care about anything anymore and I'm either awake and struggling to sleep or asleep and struggling to wake up. Part of me feels like I'm ready to snap and part of me just thinks what's even the point
Lost my Dad three years ago, then two weeks ago my family dog died and a couple of days ago my first pet (on my own, a cat that got me through some of the roughest times) died suddenly in his sleep. I have a a serious flu, so I feel as if I am unable to have a break from everything. Life feels like it's been been rearranged in a way that I can't figure out how to continue going on.
When i was 12 years old one of my closest friends died suddenly. The shock of realising she could just pass the whickly without any knowledge of qn underlying condition scared me for too long.
that’s not okay to say! even though i’m a stranger from the internet, if you ever need to talk, i’m here! i’m no stranger to grief and loss… i lost my best friend to a drug overdose and it was/still is so painful to overcome but it does get better with time.
i am 12 years old and in the past 5 monthe ive had all three of my great grandmas die my great uncle die and four familly friends die and o dont know how ro handle it because ive wwnt my whole life not having that many people die and having adhd makes it even harder
can you send me any website link or research paper behind it please I'm also currently working as a counselling psychologist for Grief and acceptance therapy
my last grandparent died almost a year ago, and i felt almost nothing,i knew she will never come and i will see her again, but i felt nothing , noo sadnes, no tears, nothing at all, i almost felt out of place, like i shouldn'dnt be here ...is that normal ?
Y’all I lost my uncle today and I just can’t breathe. How tf am I supposed to watch him being buried 6ft into the ground when I saw him yesterday, when he was alive? HOW? How tf did he die? How tf am I supposed to feel as if everything’s normal when the man I’ve always seen when visiting my cousins is now GONE? HOW.
How do you grieve someone who isn't dead yet? But equally lost? Someone important to me has been going through psychosis for years, he has severe delusions and paranoia and refuses treatment. Because of his intrusive thoughts and beliefs, he keeps pushing people away and even accuses them of things they have never said, says they are psychologically abusing him and calls them gaslighters even tho nobody lied to him. He has nobody left, no family, no friends, he pushed everyone away and cut contact. Since he would never physically harm anyone and refuses to seek help, nobody can help him. We can just watch him destroy his own life and he's suicidal and really suffers from his symptoms. I feel so helpless. How do you deal with the grief of losing a wonderful person to this illness? Knowing he's out there alone thinking everyone is after him and not being able to help himself out of this?
hii Doctor Ali could u tell me something about the psychological aspect of Ad tech, targeted advertising and how companies might be able to collect ampel data on us to predict or know our behaviour pattern ( some advertisement that are recommended to me on youtube makes me feel like youtube got in my head and knew what i was thinking of )
Same thought. I dont want to be this close to anyone if this is how much pain it wil cause me in the future. I wanna outdie all of the loved ones I have
I just lost my grandpa, and the only thing I’ve been doing is cry. He really meant a lot to me, and now… he’s gone. 😭
I realize how little time I have to spend with my grandparents, I wish you all the best. Everyone will deal with loss in their life.
hello may i ask if you are healed yet?
@@cynthiaestrella3791 you could say so. Still miss him a lot, but the pain isn’t as bad as before.
I feel you bro, I just lost my grandpa last month it hurt so bad now I’m learning to live with it
I am really sorry to hear that
I lost my mom 9/19/23 I’m broken. It hurts so bad. I can’t eat or sleep. I should have spent more time with her instead I took time for granted. I love my mom. Me and my 3 sisters are heartbroken. It was unexpected. The worst news to get on the phone while I am at work. Today me and my 3 sisters had to sign a paper for an agreement for mom to be cremated. I had to pick out a urn today for when they cremate her. This is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life and I am 40 years old. My wife and kids are my saviors without them I would have been done with life.
I lost my dad 25 hour after you losing yours 😢
Prayer to you and family I lost my mom 9/10/23 we are hanging in there .my dad is my main concern they were highschool sweethearts married 44 yr. I pray those who loss a love this year can continue to manage and some day soon find some peace and health and healing way to cope . I feel your pain wholeheartedly ❤
I pray your doing well!! I empathize with you friend!! It’s ok!! Right now my wife and kids are what I have now too!! There my everything!! Sending Love and prayers your way ❤
@@jefferylawrence9812 who did you lose recently?
I lost my dad less than a week ago… I’m so broken and shattered and have no idea how I’m gonna be able to withstand the day of his funeral when we cremate him… 😔🕊️
Don’t let them go. Keep them in your heart. Don’t forget that they’re always with you. I miss my best friend every single day. I hope to whoever is grieving to stay strong. You are not alone!
I never want to let go..
Thank you man I just lost my grandfather and I’m 12 so this really helped me
Lost my mom when I was a JR In highschool back in 2017. Took me 6 yrs to move on. 2024 I'm 24 now and looking back I was lost without her in this world as a grown man. Knowing that same love I received will never come around in a day of my life. I accepted and now I can see clear now.
Lost my husband - learning to live with half a heart. 💔
sending love ❤ if you’re ever looking for like minded people i’ve spoke to some amazing guest on the podcast here
My husband is at home with hospice he has leukemia and they say he will be gone in a week my heart is breaking he’s my best friend I feel like I can’t. Breathe i hope we both can become stronger
@@deadtalkspodcastI would be interested in Pod cast... I'm 2 yrs into this & His clothes and personal things are exactly as they were.... My friend gets really angry because I explain, I will pack them when I'm ready... I have No family and sadly No kids... Hope my address shows up... Probably TMI.... Thanks
I wish you all the best and peace in your life
@@PraveenSrJ01thanks
Thank you. I needed that❤. Rachel passed 6 weeks ago and I’m still so very sad
I lost my 35 year old dad today I’m 11 and i have a 7 year old sister I am very sad and this video help me rest in peace mark I will always love you dad for ever❤💔🙏
I am so sorry for your loss my dear. It must be so hard and confusing for you to deal with these emotions at such a tender age. May God comfort you and strengthen you. Sending you lots of hugs and love❤❤❤❤❤ .
There's life after life he is happy and busy in heaven, and busy checking on you an your family too ❤️ ♥️ talk to him always he's with you.
More ppl need this
Very true very true
I lost my best friend today 💔
He was only 14
I thank you for this video
I'm so sorry. I lost my sister last week 💔
I’m so sorry. ❤
I lost my best friend today too 💔
My rabbit died yesterday and ive known her sjnce as long as i can remember and poeple say its just a bunny get over it but when they say that it makes me angry and i couldnt sleep at all last night i havent been happy since sunday i really miss her
Of course we grief about our animals and I have lost plenty over the last 20 years. They are part of the family and will be missed the same as a person at least in my family that's the case. 🫂
Oh bless you. I think it’s so important to talk about pet loss. People who say, ‘he/she is just a rabbit/ cat/ dog’ whatever are stupid and ignorant. No one can legislate for the bonds we form with animals
Bless your heart, so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful bunny.
For me, pet loss goes much deeper than people loss. Animals have the purest of souls and when they choose to love us humans is the greatest honor, and they get my unconditional soul-deep love, devotion, respect, commitment. Our connection is so much sweeter than with any human. . . but oh my gosh, how deeply it hurts when they suffer & die. The depth of our love will be the depth of our grief.
you were their entire world in their eyes. they loved you just as much as they possibly could. never forget those special memories and keep spreading your love into the planet and she shall always return to you❤
Thank you all for the support ive gotten way better mentally and im happy to say i wear a necklace with my rabbits ashes and my brother gifted me a new bunny who has helped me recover tremendously❤️
Tomorrow I bury not only my only friend but the first one I ever made and I'm at a complete loss I've lost the only person I could talk to
My oldest son died on March 12, 2024. I want to rest right now and tend to my plants. I don't want any more flowers... I just want to rest and not be rushed to do anything.
So very sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. 😢
I lost my 10 yr old furbaby boy Aug 17, 2024 (after also losing my sweet one yr old furbaby boy the year before...) and the way you articulate how you are feeling is exactly where i'm at.
Thank you. It is powerful to see and hear you say - it’s ok. I’m being honest for what I need to be in he moment. It helps not to fight it. To embrace the memory or put it away. Seeing my friend today helped too so I can see how strengthening my relationships is helping me ❤
thank you, strengthen existing relationships
I lost my younger brother whose body had to wait almost a year to be shipped for burial. Next my dad and a cousin. Last week my cousin’s fiancé who who are both my friends and grew up with me. I’ve been trying to block all the memories and feelings. But this last brought everything back. I’m overwhelmed, emotionally broken and feel cursed and abandoned by God. It hurts so bad. 😢
Praying for you! ❤
So sorry for all your losses. I lost 3 loved ones in about a year. Although it’s heartbreaking 💔 my Faith believes they are RIP with God
especially when they see we are doing things that makes us happy until we all meet again ... they are our Angels. Bless You and yours. 🙏❤️🕊🌎✨
How are you holding up, brother?
Hi how are you holding up?
I understand. I lost 5 family members including, my husband and my dad and 3 lifetime friends, plus my dog in 2 years. Former friends are very distant and not understanding. I get it honey, I don't have any advice, I wish I did. Just know "You are not alone". I know that doesn't help. I wish you the best.
You don't let go to a point you remember and cherish them.The ones you lost will always be a piece of your heart forever.Thier spirit will always be there to whisper to you.This is a informative post.
I lost my boyfriend in a car accident back in December 2023. It hurts so much. He was my world and I felt like he was the only person who truly listened and understood me. I wish for him to come back everyday.
This is gonna be a long journey for you I lost the love of my life in 2007 I’m still in pain like it was last year I’m afraid of getting that close to someone again but remember we too are here but a short time also so live the best you can so you have lots of good stories to tell him when y’all reunite ❤
Sorry for your lost. December had to been rough that’s right around the holidays.
It’s so hard trying to maintain. Lost my son January 29th and my husband February 19th of this year 2024. I hurt so badly . I pray to God for some relief and I know it’s in His time. But Oh how I miss them both 💔💔
@ginacap100 🙏 rooting for you
ginacap🌺 l'm so sorry that your son💔 and husband died 💔. May our Heavenly Father wrap His arms around you. May He send angels 😇 to protect you, amen. My husband died 2 months ago 💔. I know how difficult the grieving process is.
May God continue to give you strength and comfort💔
These emotions are hard to handle. May God comfort and strengthen you. Sending you lots of love and hugs from India❤❤❤❤❤❤
I lost my dad in Jan 2024...i love him so much it hurts badly
I’m so sorry for your loss, i know the feeling I lost mine recently March 2024.. praying for healing and strength to get through this tough time ❤️🩹
@@pretty_outkast I also lost my dad in March 2024, I am so sorry for your loss as well as the original commenter 💔
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being with people causes me more grief. I lost my mom my brother was no comfort. I did not want it anyways. He cried way more than I did. I got through it alone sitting zazen.
I lose my husband March 1,2023. The Holidays are painful. God is helping me through this. 😢
you got this!
I'm sorry as well, my husband of 28 years. I just don't know what to do. He's going into hospice 😮❤
Thank you. I'm going through it at the moment and just trying to work and parent my kids. Uuurgh.
That’s so helpful. Thank you. I think the essential conflict of grief is the pull push feeling of needing to remember and also let go. I lost my cat last year and I’m devastated. I feel that if I am enjoying life I’m betraying his memory
HIM....I need HIM 😞😓💔
Sad to say but I know Exactly how You feel ... I will put You in my Prayers
Thank you. I need distraction right now …. not reminders….. thank you so much. We all will do it differently. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
grief is sometimes delayed.
U made my day thank you 🙏
My auntie died in 2020 and we still don’t know why it was so sudden. She was only 26 R.I.P I will always remember making tik toks together and playing on the trampoline. I’m 12 now and I can’t believe I only knew her for 8 years 🪦
This is very real
It's been over a year now!! I am very old... i wish I had words to tell how losing Paul has been for me...but...there are no words.. Paul died.
I pray your doing well!! Sending love your way ❤
For last 3 months I just want stay in bad and cry. Life became overwhelming and I am falling in pieces. I feel like constantly beaten.
How are you managing now?
@@boatergirl4811 they are better and worse days, although sunny spels are rare and gloom can overtake really easy. I am sort of taming the pain, I dont desire so much to die maybe because I am bit by bit dying inside. Life became pointless and all efforts resemble Sysyphus' stone rolling, the stone will always fall down, despair always take over.
I just want to sleep and cry until I see her again
@@Melanie.0345 💔 is the person you are giving dead or alive?
@@antygona-iq8ew dead 😞 my only sister past away a month ago
❤ I’m reading “The Grass Dancer” by Susan Power. She writes about 2 kinds of grass dancers. One style prepares the powwow grounds by dancing and flattening the grass. And one style imitates the grass itself. I thought of it as a metaphor for grief. Being in it. But also controlling it.
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Praying for God to guide and keep you in these days of sadness. Lord help us walk this new road that we would not have chosen and thank you for people like this person to help guide us, Amen.
I lost my husband one week ago I am beyond heartbroken and with so much guilt at times I don’t want to live no more the anxiety is killing me I never imagine this day would ever come God please help me to survive my mind is winning the war
How are you doing?
my freind died in a car crash and hearing this helps me remmber my good friend
I’m visiting my Oma’s house right now and it just became so real the moment I stepped in the door, I didn’t cry or feel sad but I really felt nostalgic and I could feel her around me, all the happy memories, the Christmas mornings, picnics in the yard in the summer
Good advice - thank you.
I lost my grandmother last year in November. The pain is still so new. She loved me the most and I wasn’t there when she died. I was in a far away country and I still haven’t gone back. I couldn’t be there for her funeral rites too. The sadness, grief and the guilt is unbearable. The thoughts of what could have been is so overpowering. Now I am constantly scared about my parents because I have seen death and I know this is inevitable. The fear and sadness is real. I want the feeling to go but at the same time I don’t want it gone. My love and everything, my grandmother deserved it. If I let this feeling of sadness go then it feels as if I have let her go. I know accepting this would be so much better but I don’t want to. I cannot let her go ever.
Grief is a natural process that the body goes thru while processing what just happened and how your body deals with it. It starts with the thoughts that control the emotions that controls the actions.
Wonderful thoughts. So, so true.
I lost my mom who was everything for me and she was my heaven since her death I am alone no one been there for me my sibling every one of them Moved on busy with their life so
no one there when I need them but Allaha
I lost my fiancé to a car accident several years ago. At first I had a plethora of friends and family members supporting me. But after a month? They stopped calling me or coming over. They had lives to live and I wasn’t moving on fast enough.
I got the message: I was dragging them down. So I isolated myself. 13 years later and I’m still alone and never talk about him because nobody cares.
I feel right now I will be like you. My son died a week ago.
I just lost my brother and I’m honestly broken
It has taken me 13 years to get to this point. Im finally at peace. I expected there to be this magic number where all of the pain vanished. At one point someone told me to get over it. They have no idea. Thanks.
I lost my grandma wen I was around six and I’m 14 now and I still can’t get over it
You never get it over. You learn to live with it. She will be in your heart forever❤
Thank you for this video!
I think grief is a moment where we learn we dont need anyone else to care about us if someone most important we considered cared about us more. We'll meet them in heaven someday.
Interesting. Thank you!
Lost my dad when I was 3, 2 of my brothers and my grandma. Buried 5 friends and no one knows how to help me. I work hard everyday. If I can thrive in this life so can you.
What if everything in your life reminds you of your loss? Because everywhere I look It reminds me of him.
Do the things you love to make him proud. Don't dwell on the past you cannot control.
@@bikeguyhk Its easier said than done.
@@Makki4Nothing My mom is currently dying. I know it my friend. You're not alone.
@@bikeguyhk True, but at the age that I am in, death shouldn't be one thing in my life.
@@Makki4Nothing Stay positive pal I'm here with you. Just back from the hospital seeing my ailing mother... The pain 💔 is unbearable... I know.
My stepdad left us last night. I didn’t even get to say good bye and he didn’t die btw he literally left us and the worst part is😢😢😢 I came back from a sleepover with this news. I’m so sad. I don’t have ANY supportive dad no more
I'm so sorry, Emmy. I wish I could give you a big hug.❤
@@sunshine9122it’s ok❤
@@sunshine9122I’m doin a little better knowing he might come back😊
Sharing my / " your favorite moments with other family members helps !! 😊❤
I agree.. unfortunately, I lost my family along with my parents.. They pretty much deserted me when my mother died and after the day of remembrance for Dad, I don't hear from anyone. No holiday invitations, nothing. This is not the family I grew up with. 😢 It's very hard to move on with life when there's no one to share the grief/memories with. I'm stuck on that day 5 yrs ago & can't move on by myself.. don't want to. No reason to.
My cousin passed away October 30 2023 he was only 20 years old he died from congenital Heart failure he died from a heart attack.😢💔😭
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I just lost my grandmother today, the last grandparent I had. She practically raised me as a kid, I took time for granted and it’s killing me. I wish I just picked up the phone 😢
My grandpa died last night, I'm still crying
I NEED ADVICE. You're saying it's okay if i use distractions. Yet they're saying because I'm having Contrast PTSD, i shouldn't be avoiding the pain. I CANNOT HANDLE THE PAIN RIGHT NOW! WHY won't they let me just ignore it, at least for a year? I lost my best / only friend to COVID. This year my mom. And now my husband is dying. PLEASE! WHY do i have to face the loss of my MOTHER, the ONLY person who was willing to LISTEN to me? PLEASE advise.
How are you? I’m so sorry
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God I miss my grandfather so much. I was so not ready to lose him
Thank-You!! 😢
Thank you ❤
Please make a video on 'How to deal with Obsessive Slowness'?
lost my grandma exactly one month ago 😢
I just lost my best friend. This helps so much.
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my grandma died in 2017, i was 15. 7 years later it hasn't gotten easier and i don't think it ever will
Lost 3 of my four grandparents and just don’t know how to handle it anymore
Thank you
One of my friends died on Friday. I had seen her the previous Saturday when I went to go attend another friend’s funeral. It’s been a really rough couple of weeks.
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This is hard. I will try.
I lost my mum, brother and brother inlaw in the last three years 😢
It’s hard. The words MOVE ON, I’m starting to despise. Talking about it with certain ppl isn’t helping. Im finding out who doesn’t really relate or bother to understand. Don’t know if talking about it is helping. It’s so much.
I was eating chocolate when i was called to see my father. I didn't know he died.
Since then, I've been eating excessively. I eat when I'm stressed, angry, hungry, etc
I do the opposing I can't eat I have to force myself, just had a great loss Oct 1 2023 and I'm forcing myself to eat so o don't waste away to nothing, I need to keep my muscle
Not having someone to help with day to day necessary chores makes it more grievous. I'm trying to find help but it's very difficult
I lost my father in 2023, Biological father, was long separated from mother, yet still cared so much for me, he was falsely arrested, was about to be proven innocent until misunderstanding was resolved, and then the next day you just see the news and well, an riot. He died to a stray bullet, captured by cameras, which the prison claims they will show footage of once investigation is complete, miss him every day. Was on a phone call with him one day before it happened, it was basically a goodbye, some weeks before i was gonna visit him too.
9 august 2024 lost my sister my uncle(bade papa,tau) i feel really bad 😞 for him but whatever i am justing learning to live without her stupidity rip💓 👑 queen
I lost my closest cousin yesterday 10/13/2023. It hurts to know i couldn't spend more time with him. Feels like things could have been different.
I lost my uncle yesterday (28/04/24) due to cancer, and its sad cuz i only saw him for like 10 days total in my entire life and his poor kids are so young i feel like they havent had enough of him. He let too early
Grief to me is living without my daughter, knowing she was murdered.😭
I lost my mum and our rock on June 9th of this year, it was so fast one day she was here and then we were in hospital for a month we though she would get better she Deteriorated so fast and then she was gone. Honestly I have regrets because I wish I had spent last years Christmas and New year with her but instead I was selfish and she was alone. Mum loved us with all her heart and I am glad my sisters and I were there during her last days.
Sometimes I am okay but most times I am in pain and I have not yet accepted, honestly I don't know how to move on, I am still stuck
But what happens when you lose your mum to a heart attack, and the person who has been helping me through it - my uncle (her brother) also dies of a heart attack 4 days ago. Both with zero warning and in good health and only 3 months apart?
I've gone from staying strong for the sake of making my mum proud to completely numb. Logically thinking about it, I need to be careful to not turn cold hearted. But I just dont give a f-ck about anything at the minute. Life can be so brutal I can't even believe this has happened..
I know some people have been through even worse than this but maybe people are just stronger and more resilient than I am. I just don't care about anything anymore and I'm either awake and struggling to sleep or asleep and struggling to wake up. Part of me feels like I'm ready to snap and part of me just thinks what's even the point
Lost my Dad three years ago, then two weeks ago my family dog died and a couple of days ago my first pet (on my own, a cat that got me through some of the roughest times) died suddenly in his sleep. I have a a serious flu, so I feel as if I am unable to have a break from everything. Life feels like it's been been rearranged in a way that I can't figure out how to continue going on.
Lost my dad
We are not same anymore
When i was 12 years old one of my closest friends died suddenly. The shock of realising she could just pass the whickly without any knowledge of qn underlying condition scared me for too long.
Lost my father on fathers day
I lost my dog on Monday, it’s Friday and it still hurts
What to do when you don’t have extended family nearby to help? Unpacking 2nd move after death of hoarder LH. It’s a bit overwhelming
I just lost my grandpa today, I don't know what I should be feeling, I'm shaking but I'm not crying...I don't understand
When i told my mother that my bf unalived himself, she said how weak he was to do that, and she hopes i’m not too weak to do it too😢
Sheesh😢
That’s not ok. 😢
that’s not okay to say! even though i’m a stranger from the internet, if you ever need to talk, i’m here! i’m no stranger to grief and loss… i lost my best friend to a drug overdose and it was/still is so painful to overcome but it does get better with time.
i am 12 years old and in the past 5 monthe ive had all three of my great grandmas die my great uncle die and four familly friends die and o dont know how ro handle it because ive wwnt my whole life not having that many people die and having adhd makes it even harder
can you send me any website link or research paper behind it please
I'm also currently working as a counselling psychologist for Grief and acceptance therapy
What if your closest family don't want to know about your grief..?
my last grandparent died almost a year ago, and i felt almost nothing,i knew she will never come and i will see her again, but i felt nothing , noo sadnes, no tears, nothing at all, i almost felt out of place, like i shouldn'dnt be here ...is that normal ?
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I lost my aunt on the 11th of November 2023. Today as I’m writing this comment and we are heartbroken
Me too
Lost my dear aunt this year just before i moved to a new country
As im writing this im practically drowning in grief. I hope you are doing better than I am
Y’all I lost my uncle today and I just can’t breathe. How tf am I supposed to watch him being buried 6ft into the ground when I saw him yesterday, when he was alive? HOW? How tf did he die? How tf am I supposed to feel as if everything’s normal when the man I’ve always seen when visiting my cousins is now GONE? HOW.
How do you grieve someone who isn't dead yet? But equally lost? Someone important to me has been going through psychosis for years, he has severe delusions and paranoia and refuses treatment. Because of his intrusive thoughts and beliefs, he keeps pushing people away and even accuses them of things they have never said, says they are psychologically abusing him and calls them gaslighters even tho nobody lied to him. He has nobody left, no family, no friends, he pushed everyone away and cut contact. Since he would never physically harm anyone and refuses to seek help, nobody can help him. We can just watch him destroy his own life and he's suicidal and really suffers from his symptoms. I feel so helpless. How do you deal with the grief of losing a wonderful person to this illness? Knowing he's out there alone thinking everyone is after him and not being able to help himself out of this?
hii Doctor Ali could u tell me something about the psychological aspect of Ad tech, targeted advertising and how companies might be able to collect ampel data on us to predict or know our behaviour pattern ( some advertisement that are recommended to me on youtube makes me feel like youtube got in my head and knew what i was thinking of )
When you lose your spouse there’s no one to turn to.
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Wait, why would you wanna strengthen existing relationships? So you could experience even more loss later?
Same thought. I dont want to be this close to anyone if this is how much pain it wil cause me in the future. I wanna outdie all of the loved ones I have
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So common sense