When the narcissist struggles with your absence

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

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  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 4 месяца назад +60

    Narcissist need deliverance. Seriously. These demons run from the same script.

    • @SheldonBrown567
      @SheldonBrown567 4 месяца назад +5

      Yep, the demons playbook!

    • @amandajohnson-williams7718
      @amandajohnson-williams7718 4 месяца назад +8

      I definitely felt the narc I knew needed an exorcism and needed God in their life. He carried some darkness in his soul.
      I saw them described as 'devil's puppets' recently, which I felt held some truth 🤯

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 4 месяца назад

      YES!
      They are literally demonic , Satan was the original Narcissist

    • @user-yy9be9mi6n
      @user-yy9be9mi6n 4 месяца назад +1

      The one I left cold turkey, NC, claims he was a Christian. I still CANNOT wrap my mind around that....
      How can light emanate from darkness, ie lies, cheating, gas lighting, etc .....

    • @pipers-lildogadventures5360
      @pipers-lildogadventures5360 4 месяца назад

      I hear so many people say that, but who is going to deliver them when they are a reprobate? They are unreachable. Their deliverance is
      #greyrock
      #block
      #delete
      #nocontact
      Narcs are not going to seek deliverance and they will gaslight you back into the npd cycle of abuse.❤🎉😊

  • @SagittariusBabe87
    @SagittariusBabe87 4 месяца назад +63

    "Narcissists are dependent people who pretend they don't need people." They literally blow up EVERY relationship. Push people away, fake break-ups and like idiots with all the crap they do. No one wants to deal with these losers after awhile. I'm pretty insulated at this point, from over a year since the first & final discard. I'm proud of myself, too. Still standing and stronger than ever! 💯💪 But, definitely always enjoy these new videos to keep me vigilant, discerning and careful for future cluster B's entering my life or, past ones....
    Beautiful images as always, Joe
    😍❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
    Have an Awesome Day and take care of yourself! 😁✌️☀️😘

    • @Kaif08610
      @Kaif08610 4 месяца назад +6

      Completely right on blowing up every relationship... I've seen it with my own eyes...

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 4 месяца назад +8

      @@Kaif08610 yupp, their own spouses, gf's, bf's, friends, colleagues, neighbors, family members, list goes on & on. They're chronically miserable. They're their own worst enemy.

  • @monarene44
    @monarene44 4 месяца назад +55

    This week one year post reverse discard I get a hang up call from "that" number. Not taking the bait and hoping it doesn't escalate. It's so passive aggressive. I owe that person who lied and ran out on me and never properly apologized nothing.

    • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
      @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 4 месяца назад +6

      You sure dont

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 4 месяца назад +1

      @@monarene44 please block them, Ms. Mona. You don't need the drama and they're energy vampires! They want you thinking about them, even after a year or longer!

    • @allthingsjana7870
      @allthingsjana7870 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes , was hoovered with the 'accidental' whatsapp message... how creative 👏 Once I engaged they refused to give an apology for the abuse they gave prior to the discard. Doomed people they really are.

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 4 месяца назад

      @@allthingsjana7870 yes, this is common for them. They hoover but, there's no real substance to their messages. Just testing the waters. Seeing if you'll reply. It's not sincere or genuine.

    • @kryssis69
      @kryssis69 4 месяца назад +1

      THAT number should have been blocked a year ago.

  • @PatriciaPeck-j3u
    @PatriciaPeck-j3u Месяц назад +2

    My heart was so broken I didn’t think I would ever be able to turn the page!
    After listening to your videos has helped me tremendously. You offer so very much and find myself listening to some of your videos over again.
    I always felt something was off with him after the discard now I know.
    But you know the door swings both ways!
    I blocked him so the only way he can see me is coming to my home.
    We do grow beyond this craziness and learn a lot in the process. If things seem off, they are!
    Thank you🌹

  • @ragingspeedhorn
    @ragingspeedhorn 4 месяца назад +18

    Over a year on from the breakup, Ive never been throught such a renaissance ! Hard at first, and I was screwed out of a lot of my own money.
    I dug deep into my soul and reconnected with the new me.
    I wasnt alone...my authetic self was recognised by everyone that mattered to me.
    Since then...more have come into my life.
    They say that a narcissist is sent to you when the devil cant reach you?
    Well, she dances with that devil still, while I head towards the light of truth and integrity. ❤

  • @patriciapeeters7
    @patriciapeeters7 3 месяца назад +6

    Both people need to be accountable for their own behaviour towards each other. The way you let yourself be treated by a person is your own lesson in this life. You can't put all the blame on the narcissist. Stop being a victim and love/stand up for your self 💪🙏

  • @allthingsjana7870
    @allthingsjana7870 4 месяца назад +15

    He discarded me and blocked me then came to hoover me by unblocking me , sending me a message , deleting it and saying it was an accident. I'm kinda just laughing now at how pathetic it gets with such people.

    • @markallen5764
      @markallen5764 4 месяца назад +4

      Block delete or get a new number
      Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧

    • @1111spiritualone
      @1111spiritualone Месяц назад

      Mine unblocked me on fb then I permanently blocked them back. They have never directly reached out to me. They just did a few subtle things like speaking to a friend or showing up at a venue I attend once. 2 years no contact 💪🏼

  • @brianjarrard869
    @brianjarrard869 4 месяца назад +37

    They live in fantasy land

  • @amandajohnson-williams7718
    @amandajohnson-williams7718 4 месяца назад +8

    Things were left off very badly on his part luckily for me, so NEVER any further contact. Such an awful experience but so wonderful to escape!! 😂

  • @antoinettegorman8833
    @antoinettegorman8833 4 месяца назад +21

    Empty meat suits.

  • @ds7807
    @ds7807 3 месяца назад +5

    When I left and went no contact, I had to get an Order Of Protection from my narcissistic abusive husband. He can’t come near me for the next 2 years. Freedom is wonderful 🎉

  • @kerimorgan6665
    @kerimorgan6665 4 месяца назад +14

    As draining as it can be for the narcissist I would say it’s just as draining for those of us who experienced the confusion because of the narcissist.

  • @warangel4389
    @warangel4389 4 месяца назад +8

    “The way you love me makes me sick” 2 weeks later “Why don’t you love me the way you used too”?
    There are thousands of examples.
    After 28 years No contact.

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 4 месяца назад +8

    Yes told me he hated me all the times. Psychopaths don’t deserve anybody

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 4 месяца назад +1

      She would tell me she hated me many times over 20 years. I should have left a long time ago.

    • @markallen5764
      @markallen5764 4 месяца назад

      They have the illness nobody else
      They see nothing wrong in themselves...let them crack on
      Becky 🇬🇧 🇬🇧

    • @stylist62
      @stylist62 3 месяца назад +1

      @@viewerwatching5712 because you are loved by God they are demon possessed

  • @leticiavillafranco6347
    @leticiavillafranco6347 3 месяца назад +4

    I've seen a narcissist that has gone a long time without good supply. It brought back a passage from a Ann Rice vampire book I read a long time ago. A shell of themselves! Almost catatonic! Scary to watch.

  • @tammyfitzgerald5336
    @tammyfitzgerald5336 4 месяца назад +13

    Walking dead ❤sad mental health

  • @minaak4185
    @minaak4185 3 месяца назад +4

    Yes I was the one he chooses to marry , I was literally like a slave.. many times I had panic attacks anxiety even I cut my arm ...I had depression and very low confidence and self esteem.. he ruined me I always begged him I apologized a lot but now after Three years and having two kids I came to know he got exposed and his rage was horrifying he and his family abused me mentally emotionally verbally psychologically spiritually a lot and I had 2nd c section two months ago with my second baby my physical health was badly affected and then I took stand for myself and told my parents everything I even recorded his abuse to prove I was right so that my family trust me... I walked away and it was the best decision and now I'm moving on Alhamdulillah Masha ALLAH I'm confident and know my worth

  • @Sarah_sunshine14
    @Sarah_sunshine14 4 месяца назад +9

    Just love listening to you Joe. Thankyou for all that you do 🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @gabrielkepiro474
    @gabrielkepiro474 4 месяца назад +4

    Until you finalize the boundaries they will in fact harass and torture you and blame the nicest most normal person for this aggressive sick behavior they insist on you

  • @michaeladenton8178
    @michaeladenton8178 4 месяца назад +2

    Geezlus he would have to have a car n license to bother hoovering lmao

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 4 месяца назад +1

    Good evening ! 🍷🍷 WOW !!! Magic just keep coming ! One more magical video for us and its perfect as always ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗❤ What is Mad Hatter doing here, he sure look like magician 😊

  • @kakashiteam
    @kakashiteam 4 месяца назад

    Wow this video is just amazing and sad at the same time!😢

  • @ritapeters1330
    @ritapeters1330 2 месяца назад

    Great video Joe, very helpful

  • @jayendepersil6607
    @jayendepersil6607 4 месяца назад +1

    That was m. I connected with the Hatter. Johnny was very handsome there.

  • @Mandooze
    @Mandooze 3 месяца назад

    I just subscribed to your channel, great content. Thankyou.❤

  • @WhineyOne
    @WhineyOne 4 месяца назад +4

    Can you do a video that describes when the narcissist hoovers FORMER Grade A supply and the consequences on both sides.

  • @romansepiol
    @romansepiol 3 месяца назад

    Thank you ❤

  • @lindagodwin3680
    @lindagodwin3680 4 месяца назад +4

    I have been there ... I am gone.

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k 4 месяца назад +1

    True

  • @JacK-qn4zh
    @JacK-qn4zh 4 месяца назад +2

    I will never know anything again about my bf of 35 years.... Nor will I ever. I walked knowing...all our "friends" for the last 10 years...were Hers ..not mine.
    So what I'm asking is...How is it possible to know this? How do you know the struggles when all ties have been cut?

    • @ritapeters1330
      @ritapeters1330 2 месяца назад

      How is it possible to know what? Whose struggles? Explain it again and I'll have your reply.

  • @TriniStarr3527
    @TriniStarr3527 4 месяца назад +1

    🙏💙

  • @dannvictor0624
    @dannvictor0624 13 дней назад

    I exposed my narc boyfriend, He cheated on me and move in with other with the other girl while we are in a relationship. I exposed his cheating to his girl, to his family and his workmate. I tried to call him to test how much I injured him. and he blocked me. Do you think that he will never appear in my life ever again?

    • @brendDun
      @brendDun День назад

      You sound like the narcissist. Hopefully he gets away from you.

  • @LazarusRises-lc5sc
    @LazarusRises-lc5sc 4 месяца назад +2

    War buks in clown outfit she holding one got ones hand orther woman the one making the deall then the three littel girls was walk of with her and her clown seen they one more time the next moring last time seen the last thang the seen was a freak in clown sute