Hey bees! I just wanted to mention that I see all of your concerned comments and I know they are coming from a place of love and support and I appreciate that all of you want to protect me. Next Saturday you'll all get to officially meet my man and I know it will help put you at ease. :) Our first video together will be our story, and the following Saturday I'm going to do a Q&A with him so you can grill him then and ask him all your burning questions! lol My family and friends are all very supportive and I hope once you meet him you'll grow space in your hearts for him too. At the end of the day, if this ends up being a mistake, it's a mistake I had to make. This is my life and I have to try to move forward and do what I feel is right for me and I hope you want to continue the journey with me! XO Molly
You do you girl.After all it’s your life and you know him better than anyone at this point. Sometimes we just have to take the Nextep forward. Can’t wait to meet him. Siobhan and Guide Dog marty. Xox
Don’t understand why people are treating Molly like a child in the comments, she’s an adult. If he moves in and things don’t work out he can..... move out. People are strange.
Maura smalls And she never once claims that it’s not a big deal, but that it is a decision that she feels is best for her. She’s 26 years old. When do you feel is an appropriate time to move in with a partner? Give me a break and give poor Molly a break.
Quick-Sword Ilena So, what do you suggest? She should live alone forever because that’s easier than possibly having to move an ex out if things don’t work out? Lmao.
I love this comment! Molly is kind enough to share a lot with us. But, it's none of our business what she chooses to do with her love life. I'm sure,her and her mother, are plenty capable of deciding if this is right for her or not. It's not our place, to tell her, if this is a bad decision or not.
Also want to say: My boyfriend moved in 3 months after we met. I bought him a bunch of winter clothes, because he came to Germany from Texas with thin sweaters and jackets in November. Long story short: We met in November. He moved in beginning of February. I introduced him to my parents as the man I wanted to marry shortly after. My mom insisted we live together for a year first, before making such a big decision. (She was secretly hoping it wouldn't work out, because I'm German and he's American, and she didn't want me to move away). We married the year after, being 22 and 20 years old. I moved to Texas for him. Now married 27 years, 3 adult children, and still going strong. When you know, you know.
Nicole Holt Hi Nicole: Wow, what a wonderful story! Thank you for sharing, and congrats to you and your husband. There is a lot of truth to that statement: When you know, you know. I think until one has experienced it, one can't relate. It's two souls who have found each other and magnetically connect; for me, it was like I'd finally come home. Also, I'm slightly envious you're from Germany. I'm not fluent in German, but I can read it, and it is my favorite language to sing in. I hope to visit Germany one day.
@@khanhhm5762 thank you for your kind comments. Germany is truly beautiful and worth a visit. Especially the Southern part, if you like castles and mountains. I hope you get to enjoy it one day.
I would also like to point out... if her mom didn't trust this guy, or saw any concerning activity with her own daughter from buying all this stuff for him, she'd most likely have stepped in a while ago... So maybe consider that as well. Seems to me her mom is all on board with all of this, and I think her judgement/feelings toward everything means a lot more than some random people on the internet.
Anigamer Cosplay Mama bee is smart when considering who is right for Molly. She knew immediately Gallop was perfect just from a photo before meeting him
Of course I want to see his reaction and him trying stuff on. Who wouldn’t? I’m really happy that Molly is happy. Yeah, my first reaction was “isn’t that fast?” but it isn’t my life or my decision and I respect that it’s hers.
Are you excited to meet my boyfriend next Saturday?! What kind of boyfriend content do you want to see? Do you want me to post the reaction video of him seeing everything for the first time? PS. I'm going live over on Patreon at 1:30PST today with a little boyfriend face reveal if you're too curious to wait one more week! LOL
I think everyone is taking this way out of context. Shes trying to do something nice for him, sure she went a little over board but it's coming from a good place. If he doesnt like something he can just return it, and just because she organized it a certain way doesnt mean she expects him to keep it that way she just had to organize it someway and not throw it in a pile on the floor, what kind of surprise would that be? He can do what he wants with it when he gets it, and what he doesnt want can be taken back. Its not that big of a deal. Also, keep in mind momma bee knows how to spot predators it's been said in multiple story times shes spotted them, and shes seen them together and knows him. We only get to see the most minuscule outside view of all this.
Her mom is her mom and going to protect her for sure. Also, it's not like her mom is moving back to Canada at this time. But, she thinks he's a good enough guy, for him to move in. We should give Molly and her mom some credit.
Yeessss, also she said she only laid it out so he could see it all. It would be a lot of stuff to wrap or hand to him so it's easier and cuter to lay it out. I actually thought it was going to be way more stuff when she said she got him a whole wardrobe. She spent more on the skincare/bathroom stuff imo
I think a large part some may not be considering too is while these are nice gifts, it is also a sense of control over her space still so she can know the objects and where things are. Things need to be organized.
I would love to see his reaction! Honestly everyone has different lifes and opinions but I moved in with my boyfriend after a couple weeks when I was 19 and after 3 months together found out I was pregnant. My family didnt think we would last and people didnt believe in us or agree but here we are over 7 years later still together and happy. You do you girl!
Ya know that feeling is honestly crazy! I dated a lot of guys, but when I dated my current bf I just knew. Everything changed, I felt totally different doing things with him then anyone else. Moved in within a month or so and just was so comfortable. And everyone’s so concerned with the gifts, but when you know this is the person you just don’t see it as buying them gifts bc they are apart of your life it just feels like buying yourself nice things because you care? If that makes sense.
Dating for 2 months, he's moving in and she's bought him furniture, a whole new wardrobe and is making him somewhat internet famous. I hope she's getting just as much from the relationship too. All the best ❤
Bluebird I think that’s what the point of all the gifts are. So he will be obliged to do what she wants. There’s nothing better for a relationship then obligated reciprocation
Relationships are a give and take. One person may contribute in one way, the the other in another. It seemed like she genuinely just wanted to do this stuff to be kind. You should never do things for people while expecting something in return. I understand your point, and I too hope that this relationship is a healthy one where both partners put the work in to make it a happy and successful relationship. Relationships are hard, and it’s the hard times (EVERYONE has them no matter how much they love one another) that really show the quality of the partners and the strength of their relationship. (I’m not being argumentative. It’s hard to know the tone of someone in text. I do understand what you are saying and like I said tone is hard to decipher, so maybe you meant it in a different way than I took it.)
I feel like you're also at an age where you've dated, you know what you want, you know the red flags, and you've gotten great at picking up on people's energy and intentions. If YOU feel like this is the right decision, amazing, I'm so happy for you. The fact that your families agree is just the icing on the cake. I wish nothing but the best future for the two of you on your new adventure together.
Molly is a very mature woman who knows her worth. I’m so happy for her, she wouldn’t be doing this unless she knows it’s right for her. Like she said, her love language is gift giving, so she’s just excited to surprise him. Very very happy for you and your new love💕
Personally I think it sounds crazy fast, but you're a grown woman and can make your own choices and know what's best for you life. I wish you both the best!
When u watch closely at the closet part it seems to be edited between every item, like a "jump", so maybe the camera person told her what it is? Its also possible that what we see is the second or third take of her explaining
She memorizes her own clothing by feel of the fabric and style. For example, the furry vest is cream. The silk long sleeve is red. She has a perfect memory. And when she buys things on line, she has a program on her phone that reads the descriptions of items.
I was not supportive and then I remembered that I met a boy at 20 And he slept over and never left...and now it's over a decade later and we've travelled the world, we're married, and we have a dog, cat, and kid.
1st that's adorable. 2 i might judge just a little because my father has had 2 wives that he moved in with after 2 months and they are both terrible. One he is no longer with and the other he is still with but she is self centered and treats her kids 20 times better than me and my sisters and their marriage is VERY tense. One will be sitting on the couch and the other will walk in the room and the one on the couch will yell "WHAT DID I DO THIS TIME". I am supportive of her because I'm sure she has a better idea of who is good for her and who isn't.
Sophie Kruse I’m so sorry your family and yourself are going through that. I completely feel for you, my stepmother is the same way (however they’ve been together for 12 years so I think we’re pretty much stuck like that) but please keep in mind that although he got into a situation like that doesn’t mean you will end up like that either, I moved fast with my boyfriend and have now been together for 5 years, are very happy and are going very strong!
@@samanthamatchett9623 My mother is the best mom in the world. We think my dad will get divorced because his wife found out he was cheating on her(that is also the reason my parents got divorced and probably why my dad and his last wife got divorced). My dad and his current wife have been married for 3 years (i think) and were dating for maybe 2 years. His last 2 wives have both change a lot after they got married. I think that if i find the right person i might move a little fast but for me that is at least a year before we move in depending on where i am in my life. I want to travel someday and possibly be a nurse and i want to be at least kind of independent.
I fully support the "when you know, you know" thing. My husband and I got married nine months after the day we met. 10 years and 4 children later we're still just as much in love as the day we met.
I know but I'm expecting her boyfriend to start filming for her. I'm sure mama bee will still do it but she's going to have her own apartment and want her own time. Then she'll move back to canada soon
Mar love has not changed. Knowing that the person is the one has not changed. It is not your place to judge she is fully capable of making her own decisions
My parents moved in after 2 months of knowing each other, were engaged after 3 months, and married after 6 months. They have been happily married for 43 years. My mom told me, "It was just so easy being around your dad. We just knew we wanted to spend our lives."
And there are people who take the time. Stay together for a long time. Married and have kids.. and eventually divorce. Love is not predictable. So you can better enjoy and do what feels the best!
My boyfriend moved in as soon as we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend. It's been over 5 years and we are still going strong, even though I moved with my mom to a different state. We are saving up for us to get a place but it's hella expensive in northern VA. I plan to marry this man. But yeah, I'm a hypocrite because I'm overprotective of people I know so I am a lil skeptic about this guy. But it comes from a place of love...might be overly loving but still😅😂
I want to see his reaction and I completely understand why you wanted to buy him gifts being that it's your love language and since his luggage has had been stolen but I do worry that based on the already negative comments on this video that people might judge him based on his reaction to your gifts if they feel his reaction isnt good enough for them which I don't think is fair to him. That being said if you and him still feel comfortable putting the reaction up I'd love to watch it and I think your gifts are amazing. And even if he's super surprised and doesn't know how to express how happy your gifts make him during the reveal I'm sure he'll think the gifts are amazing as well.
As just a naturally suspicious person I’m not going to lie I was sketched about Molly buying her bf everything but you’re right it’s just how she expresses she cares and I’m super happy for her 💗🙂 That reaction video will be so fun!
My boyfriend and I moved in together after two months! That’s just what lined up for us at that point in time. We have been living together for 3 years now. Please people don’t be so quick to judge others. Everyone is different (: and that’s okay.
We need to remember we are NOT her friends. We are her viewers and this is her choice and we should not judge her. We don’t know some of the situation and we shouldn’t HAVE TO. She has chosen to share a part of her personal life with us. She didn’t have to do that at all.
SevCaswell that is a totally different situation than what’s going on here though 😑 don’t come with the fallacies lol Her bf is moving in and she bought him stuff. Simple as that.
@@anniedancer1234 the red flags in her behaviour are MASSIVE, if this was the other way around or Molly was a guy doing this everyone would be freaking out about how controlling and overbearing it is.
SevCaswell didn’t you hear the part where his suitcase got stollen or the part where his old apartment was fully furnished already, which means he didn’t buy any of it. She just spoiling him, because that’s how she shows her love. She’s happy, let her be happy and let her do as she pleases, none of us have any say in what she does at all. So leave her alone 😁
I wish you nothing but the best, Molly, but please be super careful. My previous boyfriend I had that "when you know, you know" feeling and we moved super fast -- became official after only dating a week, moved in after about a month, signed a lease together after 6 months, talked about marriage since the very beginning. And then after about a year I found out he had been cheating on me the entire time and when I confronted him his excuse was that he was actually afraid of the commitment. So while I felt this way he was lying about feeling the same and actually felt the opposite. Just please slow down a bit and be cautious. You're not wasting time by taking things slow, you're just ensuring that you're building a strong foundation for your relationship to last if it's really meant to last. Sending you so much love ❤️
I'm sorry to hear that. But a relationship with someone who could cheat the entire time and lie about it would have been bad, even if you took it slower. I don't think I'd get that feeling of it being right if I didn't trust them completely and was absolutely sure they would never lie to me like that.
@@nonono777 I think by taking it slower he wouldn't have felt like he had to commit and wouldn't be so afraid of it. I think I also would have recognized more signs and realized I shouldn't have trusted him as much as I did. Also the commitment I put in ended up screwing me over in the end. Breaking a lease and having to pay full rent for place we had rented together was a huge expense and headache that could have been avoided if we didn't move so fast. Of course every relationship is different and Molly's boyfriend may be nothing like my ex but I think in every situation it's better to be safe than sorry.
I had a pretty torrid relationship with a woman, she moved very fast. Sadly, but really all for the best, it didn't last. I've been happily married now for 35 years, as of this October :)
Hey y'all... Just want to put it out there that "moving fast" doesn't mean a relationship will be doomed. I ended up pregnant because of birth control failure within around 5 weeks of dating, and we ended up living together shortly after that. It has now been nearly 13 years- we have an awesome 12 year old boy, got a house about 2 years ago and we can't imagine life without one another! We too had a "love at first sight" sort of connection. Molly, I wish you and your boyfriend all of the happiness in the world! So happy for you. ❤️
I think seeing him react to all this will help people feel a little more comfortable with how this is moving. Two months seems fast and I think people are just being protective of Molly
@Caramel Cupcake cill... those things are probably sent to her from companys... but then again, she has to be in control or feel the need to be in control.
@Caramel Cupcake She's obviously not forcing him to get rid of all the stuff he already owns? Any sane person would be happy and grateful that someone went to this much effort and bought them so many things. She isn't reshaping him she's just giving him more things to use.
I know several couples that are happily married that only knew each other less than 3 months before they got married. One couple didn't even go on an official date before marriage and 30 years and 4 kids later, they are still happily married. None of them lived together either so as Molly/Niemh said, when you know, you know.
@Caramel Cupcake damn imagine being mad that she bought a whole wardrobe for someone that owns "hardly anything". Like I said, she's not going to force him to only use the stuff she bought, if he doesn't like it he'll buy his own things.
I hope she’s not mad at us for being concerned, we don’t know him like her Patreons do so I think it’s fair that we are worried. I hope you are right and he is a good guy but please be careful 💜
You’re so brave for announcing this. I see all the rude feedback :/ I married my husband 2 months after I met him lol. We are so happy and still goin strong! Do what makes you happy
Y’all seriously leave her alone. It’s her life, it’s her choice. When you are dating someone if you know you know. You also don’t need to bash her or say there’s red flags. You don’t know half of their relationship and you don’t know what he’s like. If her love language is gift giving (even if it wasn’t) sometimes it’s just fun to spoil the people you love and let the woman live!!!!!!!
Imagine, the other way around Molly is moving in with her boyfriend, she can't bring any furniture and he's bought her all new clothes and perfume etc and tells her to throw away all her old stuff. You'd be screaming at her to run as fast as she can...
SevCaswell she did say he didn’t have anything, like furniture because his apartment was fully furnished, and he didn’t have a ton of belongings because he traveled a lot. BUT on the other hand, I see why people are concerned. She bought him A LOT of stuff. However, I think that’s just who she is, and I don’t think he asked her to buy any of that for him. I think once we meet him we will all feel better about it. Right now, I’m just worried he could be a mooch. But I’m hoping to be happily surprised
I get it and gift giving is also my love language but for the amount she bought and how quickly they’re moving it’s v excessive. I’m just concerned that if this ends badly how much she’s losing
EXACTLY! We don’t know anything about this man. The bottom line is Molly seems happy and excited af! Why ruin that for her? Even if it is a “mistake”, so be it. I don’t wish heartache on her or this going south, butttttttt that’s life. Why hold back? We all make mistakes and we all learn and grow in our own time (not saying this is a mistake, but this is the case in life). Leave the girl alone, let’s get to know the dude in her videos and let’s just wish her the absolute best! Congrats, Molly, you deserve all the happiness this world has to offer. Sending love.
Hey molly!! Lillies can be SUPER dangerous for cats! So excited you’re doing all of this and I’m so hype to meet him! Just wanna make sure you know so you’re beautiful kitty is safe
Yes!!! Even just the pollen can kill a cat. My friends cat ended up in the hospital because it sniffed the pollen of a Lilly. He needed meds but ended up being okay but be careful
ATTENTION EVERYONE WHO HAS A PROBLEM WITH THIS!!! Think through these following questions: 1: Are you Molly? 2: are you her Mom? 3: are all relationship paths the same for every person? 4: are you just looking for something to complain about? If you said yes to this last question, than get a hobby!
Molly you shouldn’t have to convince anyone that this is the right decision for you, it’s YOUR decision, no one else’s. Live your life, love. 💕 & YES WE WANT THE BFs REACTION! *DUH.*
Maybe with Molly being blind and having her home set up very particularly, where she knows what/ where everything is, may be an extra piece of why she is preparing the space for him to move into as well. This gives her a way of showing love by buying him gifts but also helps in getting familiar with the new set up of these rooms as his belongings start to fill up the space. I'm happy for you Molly! I hope you have found your lobster! ❤️🦀 Best wishes on your new chapter together!!
Omg her mom knows him & likes him, he isn't a predator? Why are people so upset? she has said 8000 times she feels this is the BEST decision for her life... She is literally 26 & many ppl get married after just meeting. This is normal and isn't a big deal..
@@WW-jh2ge I think because her mom has actually met and spent time with him whereas we haven't so she has a better Guage of his character and their relationship. So she's the best barometer we have.
Molly about her apartment; "Nothing fancy" .... Stuff for the SECOND bathroom, stuff for our INDOOR GYM, .... Me; Go on and please keep telling me about your not fancy your huge double bathroom and home-gym apartment. 😂 Joke people! Obviously Molly deserves all the bathrooms and in home gym's in the world! 🤗
I moved in with my husband after 3 months and we were married at 1 year. We have been married for 13 years now and we are very best friends. We never argue and we love to spend all of our time together. When you know, you know.
I did the same thing and ended up with a narcissistic abuser. 🙃 that’s great things worked out for you, it just doesn’t work out like that for everyone.
Almost same story for my wife and I. Moved in together after dating for 4 months while both of us were in college, got married 6 months after that. Been married now for 48 years.
All the gifts and surprises are so considerate of her. Especially hearing her say that he talked about having these things etc. It really goes to show that she listens and cares a whole lot. He is going to love it. And yes, we all want to see his reaction!
I hope once the moving is all settled, she catifies her apartment more. I was so sad in the video where she mentioned that Lavender will just hang in her litter box... it’s a sign of stress, territorial insecurity, or could be medical.
Not always I had a cat that just loved to be in her liter box. Two different vets both verified that there was nothing wrong with her or her living environment. So her cat could be the same. Especially since knowing molly she does everything for her animals. They are her family..
Yes, Lavender may be a little stressed right now. That’s completely normal. There has been a lot of change going on for them. It took my kitty a while to adjust when my husband moved in with me, and again when we moved to a new home. Molly really does seem to provide such a loving environment. So I have no doubt that Lavender will settle in soon!
@@ecologist_to_be We don't have any cat beds or anything for our cats, because they sleep on the couch, bed even our office chairs while we're in there. Maybe molly does the same with lavender.
It’s not about her not loving her cat. The point of the post is about making sure Lav has what she needs to be a healthy happy cat. Most people don’t know the intricacies of cat life and needs. I’ve not seen cat furniture or enrichment things in her apt. Definitely a good place to start.
I think if I moved in with my girlfriend and she got me a whole new wardrobe I would immediately start to 2nd guess the situation I got myself into lol
SO cute! Literally nothing wrong with moving at this pace, you're a grown up, do what you want! I always tried to keep it slow until I met the love of my life, at that point you can't take it slow, if you know you know,.
At first I was like “damn girl! 2 months and moving in?!” But then I was like wait... my boyfriend moved in like, week 1 and we’re still doing great over 4 years later! I wish you two the best! 💛
I assumed that too, but I am honestly relieved. This video could serve as the first act of a horror movie. I hope all goes well and it is a true love match.
Please remember that no one is perfect. Every person has at least one annoying quirk and at least one bad habit. Only a person blinded by infatuation says their partner has zero annoying habits.
I just think it is the sweetest thing ever that your mom will still be in the same building and in her own apartment. She’s def your guardian angel. That’s amazing.
Its really sweet you're gifting him so many things. Its a sign of selfless love and commitment. Its not the cost that matters but your good intentions. I hope everything goes well for you Molly. Excited to see what he got for you!
I just realized that Molly has memorized every feel of the shirts that she got for her BF. And where they came from. What. The. Heck? That's amazing! I also remembered the time she memorized the entire cruise ship's map, dang!
Mo Mo Why does it matter to you? 🤣 Her boyfriend probably makes a pretty good living seeing as he’s been able to travel the world and had a furnished apartment in Los Angeles. Molly is excited and wanted to do something nice for him to make it extra special. Worry about yourself 😜
Yes, she’s a very smart young lady. She has to really try and use her memory as a tool to help her get by. She’s remarkable. The shirts I understand, because she just got them and I would have remembered that too. The cruise ship is a great example of her extremely sharp memory.
Mo Mo my goodness. Go somewhere with that crap. Did you forget she’s blind? Blind people NEED to rely on their memories to survive. Also, we have NO clue what kind of money this man makes. Be happy for her. She’s happy, and that’s all that matters.
my parents got married 3 months after they met, and they'll be celebrating their 28th wedding anniversary this December. so yes, I too believe that "when you know you know". So excited for this new chapter in your life
I don't think you need to worry! In the vid I think they said that she was just moving into a different apartment but I'm the same building. Not sure but I think so!
Melisa OMG, I rarely see another Melissa with one ‘s’ my friends always tease me about it and everyone writes my name wrong 😂 But I’m used to it so it doesn’t bother me anymore
for those of you that are concerned why she bought him so much stuff... they know they’re meant to be. they know they’re going to end up together. if a married couple did this, you wouldn’t be concerned. gift giving is her love language, and she’s very excited and in love! let her live her life!
Also she can afford it, she is a reasonable girl and if she couldn’t afford it she wouldn’t do it. AND it’s not like he was expecting any of it, she did it because she wanted to. It’s not like he said “hey if I’m moving in I’m gonna need new stuff” lol he has no idea about any of it.
@@ashleysmiles I may be wrong, but I think that could just be a stock photo. You can see the same photo on the fridge but smaller underneath, and there's a child laying beside him.
Me and my boyfriend moved in together when we were dating two months and we’ve been together for 4 years, have three dogs together, and my mom recently gave him the family ring. So happy for you! I wish you all the best.
I think this is a really sweet thing for Molly to do for someone she loves. He needs things, she can afford to get him things, and she likes giving things. Y'all should keep in mind that Molly really likes to shop, so getting him hundreds of dollars worth of stuff would be really fun for her, and it's something he probably would have had to forbid her from doing to keep her from doing it. Molly is not mentally disabled, and she is not a child, or in her first serious relationship, so just sit back, relax, and enjoy the show.
Maybe those videos were pre filmed as a lot of it is and she might have lied about as she wanted their relationship to be just theirs for a little bit longer. (?) Idk I'm happy for her either way 💜
Molly, I moved in with my boyfriend within the first few months and we have been together for almost two years. As a woman who has been through this I do have some advice. Be careful in the beginning as you are in the honeymoon stage and will be willing and excited to give everything you have to him ( physically and emotionally). This comes naturally to women, but what you should be doing is laying down your boundaries. Men can easily get used to all that women will do for them. Just coming from experience, be careful with how much you give to him. It’s important that you take care of yourself first and that he learns his new place in your life.
BANG i respect your opinion, but everyone’s experience is very different. I’m now VERY happily married to the man I didn’t have the “when you know you know” feeling with. Everyone’s relationships are different. He KNEW when he met me. I didn’t. He kept pursuing me. That’s how I knew. He pursued me and loved me intensely, despite my doubts. That’s our love story. It doesn’t have to be the same as anyone else’s.
Personally, two months of being together seems awfully fast to move in with someone. That being said, I wish Molly all the best. Sometimes things like this do work our. Every relationship is different.
My boyfriend and I moved in together after about 5 months of dating and we love living together. We're talking about buying a house within the next couple of years after our lease runs out. When you know, you know!
I'm watching this video really curiously. I understand that Molly's love language is gift giving (actually mine too), but I just look at this and I am concerned. I wish he really likes all that Molly has prepared, I mean, I would definitely not like it if someone would ever do this for me cause I need to be in control (I'm uncomfortable if not) and would feel like the other person is trying to change me, but I really really hope the best and wish both of them the best luck. We'll be obviously waiting for the reaction video, like come on, who wouldn't?!
I don’t know why people are treating you like a child when you’re an adult 🙄 He can just move out if things don’t work out. I’ve also seen couple who were together for years break up right after marriage/moving in and couples who dated for a week before moving in that are together for decades.
passionateforbeauty I actually became engaged and moved in a week into dating my now husband. Then we got married a month after that. Now we have 2 daughters and we’re still going strong almost 3 years later.
None of the viewers have any room to act like they know what's best or think they know him better than she does. No one truly knows how things will play out in the end, so it just comes down to doing what feels right, which only he and she know what that is. She would also have the upside, as she wouldn't have to worry about finding a place to live if it didn't work. I did find it amusing seeing so much product in a man's bathroom, though😂
Absolutely. One of my manfriends was completely awfully annoying. We started dating and 3 weks lately is was like no thank you. He left me with a gift.... see i'd be judge. They're now 5.
I was 18 when i met my boyfriend, we were friends for a month, then started dating and moved in together 2 months after dating. At the end of this month we will be celebrating 13 years together and 4 married. We have a 6yr old daughter and are still happy and madly in love. Everyone is different and there is no time line to follow for relationships, it's the couples choice at the end of the day do what makes you happy! I'm happy for you both ♥️
EXACTLY. I’m just happy for her and if this turns out to be a “mistake”, then so be it. However, she has made up her mind and this is what she wants, so I’ll support that. Who are we to judge ANYONE? I’ve never seen her so happy and excited. I’m happy for her and her happiness. She deserves it. Wishing them a life time of happiness
And here's the other thing. You are 26 so go for it. If you were 17 or 18 I'd say slow down but by 26 you know yourself more and what and who you need in your life. Not that anyone on the internet gets an opinion on how you live your life. I can't wait to meet him, virtually of course! 😊
Exactly this!!!! She knows herself better than anyone and her mom supports her too. She’s an adult and has her life established, why hold back on love? And I agree we all don’t get an opinion anyways! Lol
My grandparents got engaged 6 months after they met. This year would have been their 61st anniversary. Moving fast works out for some people and doesn't for some others. But if you don't take that chance, you'll never know. You are right Molly, it is your choice and I wish you all the best 💜.
I agree. She’s absolutely an adult and she has the ability to make her own decisions. I’ve been seeing a very good man for 2 1/2 months and we decided not to move in together until we’re married because we want to make sure that we are right for each other and that our families will get along. I’m so glad that we live in a society where people can make choices that they see fit. Because we are both and religion is extremely important to us, we made the decisions based on our value systems. Not everyone’s going to follow the same value system and Molly has the ability to make her decisions and to learn from them as well.
whoa i stopped watching for a hot minute ad now molly has a boyfriend, he's moving in, molly's mom is moving out, she has a cat, and gallop is no wear to be seen. where the heck is gallop. who is this dude we need to meet him honestly, im very happy for molly and i definitely agree, when you know you know.
Molly, I would love to see his reaction but tbh I feel like you bought him a LOT of stuff and I don't know if he will be able to express his true feeling with the camera on. I truly wish you all the best in the world and I hope you will be happy with him forever but this feels off ♥
To be honest, I definitely had my concerns/judgements at the beginning of this video. Like woah, you’re moving so fast, woah, you’re buying him all these things. But when I really took a second to reflect - I realized I more or less did the very same things when I met my boyfriend! We met super randomly, I met and fell in love with his family two days later, he asked me to his girlfriend a week later, after 2 weeks we were practically living together, and then officially moved in after 4-5 months. If you knew me, you’d know this is not in line with my personality / character. I’ve been in both super slow and stable relationships, as well as the spontaneous lusty kind that were indeed toxic and ended poorly. But when I met my current boyfriend - who is still the perfect partner for me after 2.5 years - there was so much electric spark/chemistry, but it was a different feeling. It was a much more grounded, and he just felt like home and like I’d known him my whole life. Long story short, I am in complete support of your choice and am so happy for you, Molly! No matter what happens, it is what it is. We can’t live our lives in fear of making mistakes and based on other people’s judgements. We would all do well (seriously, it would probably be better for our health) to allow others to simply live and let live.
It just depends on what kind of person you are relationship wise. If you fall in love seriously, and not just mess around or date casually, it's a different feeling and you know.
Nonono Completely agree. Which of course can come with time/experience/maturity and self-awareness. Although, for some of us, self-awareness only comes AFTER we’ve done the stupid things and pushed the boundaries. 😅😊
My parents didn’t date or get engaged they were on a work trip together on the Las Vegas strip at 10 am and went to town hall and just got married randomly then had me two years later and are still together
I feel like everybody’s being too harsh on her like she is an adult and she can make her own choices and I feel like if it makes her happy then she should do it and if they’re in love then they should do it , so I fully support you
I absolutely love this! And it makes me cry to see how supportive your mom is. I have never experienced this in my family and it really makes me emotional. And about moving in together so early on, I only saw my husband face to face 2 times before we moved countries together so you do what you feel is right for you! 💙
Hey bees!
I just wanted to mention that I see all of your concerned comments and I know they are coming from a place of love and support and I appreciate that all of you want to protect me.
Next Saturday you'll all get to officially meet my man and I know it will help put you at ease. :) Our first video together will be our story, and the following Saturday I'm going to do a Q&A with him so you can grill him then and ask him all your burning questions! lol
My family and friends are all very supportive and I hope once you meet him you'll grow space in your hearts for him too.
At the end of the day, if this ends up being a mistake, it's a mistake I had to make. This is my life and I have to try to move forward and do what I feel is right for me and I hope you want to continue the journey with me!
XO
Molly
I agree! Live your life and do what makes you happy :)
I support you 1000%! Do what makes you happy and do what is best for your relationship😁
You do you girl.After all it’s your life and you know him better than anyone at this point. Sometimes we just have to take the Nextep forward. Can’t wait to meet him. Siobhan and Guide Dog marty. Xox
At 26:03 is that a picture of him on your smart fridge?
@@kiraracutie44 if it is I totally missed it and had to go back to check!!
Don’t understand why people are treating Molly like a child in the comments, she’s an adult. If he moves in and things don’t work out he can..... move out. People are strange.
I feel like some of these people are acting like if he moves in he can never move out if it doesn’t work
You act like this is no big deal..
I agree but also have you had to move out of an exes? That shit is NOT easy or simple at all
Maura smalls And she never once claims that it’s not a big deal, but that it is a decision that she feels is best for her. She’s 26 years old. When do you feel is an appropriate time to move in with a partner? Give me a break and give poor Molly a break.
Quick-Sword Ilena So, what do you suggest? She should live alone forever because that’s easier than possibly having to move an ex out if things don’t work out? Lmao.
Stop trying to convince us this is the right decision, just live your life. You don’t owe us anything.
preach!!
I love this comment! Molly is kind enough to share a lot with us. But, it's none of our business what she chooses to do with her love life. I'm sure,her and her mother, are plenty capable of deciding if this is right for her or not. It's not our place, to tell her, if this is a bad decision or not.
Also want to say: My boyfriend moved in 3 months after we met. I bought him a bunch of winter clothes, because he came to Germany from Texas with thin sweaters and jackets in November. Long story short: We met in November. He moved in beginning of February. I introduced him to my parents as the man I wanted to marry shortly after. My mom insisted we live together for a year first, before making such a big decision. (She was secretly hoping it wouldn't work out, because I'm German and he's American, and she didn't want me to move away). We married the year after, being 22 and 20 years old. I moved to Texas for him. Now married 27 years, 3 adult children, and still going strong. When you know, you know.
Love this story! So very happy for you! Plus, Texas is such a bonus hahaha
@@RizzyMacguire Thank you :) I really like Texas, but now that I'm getting older, the temperatures are getting a little harder on me.
Nicole Holt Hi Nicole:
Wow, what a wonderful story! Thank you for sharing, and congrats to you and your husband. There is a lot of truth to that statement: When you know, you know. I think until one has experienced it, one can't relate. It's two souls who have found each other and magnetically connect; for me, it was like I'd finally come home.
Also, I'm slightly envious you're from Germany. I'm not fluent in German, but I can read it, and it is my favorite language to sing in. I hope to visit Germany one day.
@@khanhhm5762 thank you for your kind comments. Germany is truly beautiful and worth a visit. Especially the Southern part, if you like castles and mountains. I hope you get to enjoy it one day.
That’s so cute 🥺🥺
How come no one is taking bout how cute she is being this prepared for a move in?
I would also like to point out... if her mom didn't trust this guy, or saw any concerning activity with her own daughter from buying all this stuff for him, she'd most likely have stepped in a while ago... So maybe consider that as well. Seems to me her mom is all on board with all of this, and I think her judgement/feelings toward everything means a lot more than some random people on the internet.
Anigamer Cosplay Mama bee is smart when considering who is right for Molly. She knew immediately Gallop was perfect just from a photo before meeting him
If your boyfriend is comfortable with being on camera a lot then I would love to see the videos!
Yess! Love how you prhased that
Yes
My hubby and I got engaged after 2 weeks and have been married 24 years.
Good for you!
We got engaged after 5 weeks! Ha. Married 6 years so far. 😊
Teach us your ways! single for years 😩
@@Christiano.vibez_ Respect, communication and choosing every day to be together.
@@thatsandichic Preach!!!
Of course I want to see his reaction and him trying stuff on. Who wouldn’t?
I’m really happy that Molly is happy. Yeah, my first reaction was “isn’t that fast?” but it isn’t my life or my decision and I respect that it’s hers.
ugh molly... OFCOURSE WE WANT TO SEE YOUR BOYFRIEND’S REACTION TO THE APPARTEMENT LIKE ARE YOU KIDDING?!☺️🥰
That’s how I felt! Like uhhh, YASSS!
Lol True!!!
YES
Are you excited to meet my boyfriend next Saturday?! What kind of boyfriend content do you want to see? Do you want me to post the reaction video of him seeing everything for the first time?
PS. I'm going live over on Patreon at 1:30PST today with a little boyfriend face reveal if you're too curious to wait one more week! LOL
Omg Queen I love you with all of my hearts content!!🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻❤️❤️❤️
Yes!!
yes absolutely!!
How can you type of u are blind (no hate)
Omg molly I love you 💕❤️
We haven’t met him, but we already know his boxers 😂😂😂
why doesn’t this have more likes🤣🤣
I also really loved that and had a giggle 😂
This guy better be AMAZING in order to deserve Molly.
Edit: He is!
IKR!
PERIODT.
He is!😉
Danielle Jones on the contrary, I hate to see her scare a perfectly good guy away because of complete overkill or trying to make some video content.
MOLLY! Of course we want to see the reveal! Don't tease us like this.
Yes pleaseee of course
yesss we need to see this reaveal
Yess
Is anyone else loving Molly’s hair colour? 💕
micky hyst meemeemmeemmeeeeeeeee
Absolutely
She is the embodiment of summer
I love it!
I LOVE THIS NEW LOOK ON YOU! this is hands down my favorite hair color on you ❤❤❤❤❤
I think everyone is taking this way out of context. Shes trying to do something nice for him, sure she went a little over board but it's coming from a good place. If he doesnt like something he can just return it, and just because she organized it a certain way doesnt mean she expects him to keep it that way she just had to organize it someway and not throw it in a pile on the floor, what kind of surprise would that be? He can do what he wants with it when he gets it, and what he doesnt want can be taken back. Its not that big of a deal. Also, keep in mind momma bee knows how to spot predators it's been said in multiple story times shes spotted them, and shes seen them together and knows him. We only get to see the most minuscule outside view of all this.
💯💯agreed!!!
Her mom is her mom and going to protect her for sure. Also, it's not like her mom is moving back to Canada at this time. But, she thinks he's a good enough guy, for him to move in. We should give Molly and her mom some credit.
Yeessss, also she said she only laid it out so he could see it all. It would be a lot of stuff to wrap or hand to him so it's easier and cuter to lay it out. I actually thought it was going to be way more stuff when she said she got him a whole wardrobe. She spent more on the skincare/bathroom stuff imo
I think a large part some may not be considering too is while these are nice gifts, it is also a sense of control over her space still so she can know the objects and where things are. Things need to be organized.
Exactly! It’s just her nature as someone who’s love language is gift giving (mine is too)
I would love to see his reaction! Honestly everyone has different lifes and opinions but I moved in with my boyfriend after a couple weeks when I was 19 and after 3 months together found out I was pregnant. My family didnt think we would last and people didnt believe in us or agree but here we are over 7 years later still together and happy. You do you girl!
so happy for you!!
that awesome! i am slightly concerned that it wont last for molly, because of the huge change, but i am super hopeful for her.
Yes no hate here
hayley Breiann I got with my man when we were 16, now we're 26! He popped the question last month as it was our 10yr anniversary ☺️
A similar story with my parents! 21 years later and still going strong 💪
I really hope this turns out well...I'd hate to see Molly hurt. I wish I had this "you know" moment too!
Ya know that feeling is honestly crazy! I dated a lot of guys, but when I dated my current bf I just knew. Everything changed, I felt totally different doing things with him then anyone else. Moved in within a month or so and just was so comfortable.
And everyone’s so concerned with the gifts, but when you know this is the person you just don’t see it as buying them gifts bc they are apart of your life it just feels like buying yourself nice things because you care? If that makes sense.
We definitely want to see him react to your gifts, that's everyone's dream to give or get such wonderful gifts.
You took the words out of my mouth 😂
Ya
Definitely
“2 months , were moving so fast” *lesbians laughing when they move in after the first date*
Jewel Spivey that’s what I was thinking 😂
i’ve been thinking this the whole video 😂
Uhauling!! LOL
Is this actually a common thing?
@@qazedc3 100% I wasn't even out and a girl I thought was cute moved in, it just happens
Dating for 2 months, he's moving in and she's bought him furniture, a whole new wardrobe and is making him somewhat internet famous. I hope she's getting just as much from the relationship too. All the best ❤
Bluebird I think that’s what the point of all the gifts are. So he will be obliged to do what she wants. There’s nothing better for a relationship then obligated reciprocation
@@conors4430 I really hope that isn't the case. But personally id feel so awkward getting so many gifts from anyone.
Conor S Or it’s just an incredibly nice gesture for someone that she loves
@@dmg5814 not doubting her huge heart. Just unique circumstances.
Relationships are a give and take. One person may contribute in one way, the the other in another. It seemed like she genuinely just wanted to do this stuff to be kind. You should never do things for people while expecting something in return. I understand your point, and I too hope that this relationship is a healthy one where both partners put the work in to make it a happy and successful relationship. Relationships are hard, and it’s the hard times (EVERYONE has them no matter how much they love one another) that really show the quality of the partners and the strength of their relationship. (I’m not being argumentative. It’s hard to know the tone of someone in text. I do understand what you are saying and like I said tone is hard to decipher, so maybe you meant it in a different way than I took it.)
I feel like you're also at an age where you've dated, you know what you want, you know the red flags, and you've gotten great at picking up on people's energy and intentions. If YOU feel like this is the right decision, amazing, I'm so happy for you. The fact that your families agree is just the icing on the cake. I wish nothing but the best future for the two of you on your new adventure together.
I hope Molly realize that most of the comment section isn't hate but concern for a friend. Best of luck in your new chapter :3 ily
Molly is a very mature woman who knows her worth. I’m so happy for her, she wouldn’t be doing this unless she knows it’s right for her. Like she said, her love language is gift giving, so she’s just excited to surprise him. Very very happy for you and your new love💕
Personally I think it sounds crazy fast, but you're a grown woman and can make your own choices and know what's best for you life. I wish you both the best!
The way she easily went through the clothes and named the brands without seeing them was mind-blowing to me
When u watch closely at the closet part it seems to be edited between every item, like a "jump", so maybe the camera person told her what it is? Its also possible that what we see is the second or third take of her explaining
She’s said she has all her clothing memorized. Due to how much of our brain power normally goes to sight she has an amazing brain for memorization
She has an editor, so I’m sure they edited that part.
She memorizes her own clothing by feel of the fabric and style. For example, the furry vest is cream. The silk long sleeve is red. She has a perfect memory.
And when she buys things on line, she has a program on her phone that reads the descriptions of items.
She brought all of them so she should know what she bought
I was not supportive and then I remembered that I met a boy at 20 And he slept over and never left...and now it's over a decade later and we've travelled the world, we're married, and we have a dog, cat, and kid.
That's precious. 💜💜💜
this is soooo sweet
1st that's adorable. 2 i might judge just a little because my father has had 2 wives that he moved in with after 2 months and they are both terrible. One he is no longer with and the other he is still with but she is self centered and treats her kids 20 times better than me and my sisters and their marriage is VERY tense. One will be sitting on the couch and the other will walk in the room and the one on the couch will yell "WHAT DID I DO THIS TIME". I am supportive of her because I'm sure she has a better idea of who is good for her and who isn't.
Sophie Kruse I’m so sorry your family and yourself are going through that. I completely feel for you, my stepmother is the same way (however they’ve been together for 12 years so I think we’re pretty much stuck like that) but please keep in mind that although he got into a situation like that doesn’t mean you will end up like that either, I moved fast with my boyfriend and have now been together for 5 years, are very happy and are going very strong!
@@samanthamatchett9623 My mother is the best mom in the world. We think my dad will get divorced because his wife found out he was cheating on her(that is also the reason my parents got divorced and probably why my dad and his last wife got divorced). My dad and his current wife have been married for 3 years (i think) and were dating for maybe 2 years. His last 2 wives have both change a lot after they got married. I think that if i find the right person i might move a little fast but for me that is at least a year before we move in depending on where i am in my life. I want to travel someday and possibly be a nurse and i want to be at least kind of independent.
I fully support the "when you know, you know" thing. My husband and I got married nine months after the day we met. 10 years and 4 children later we're still just as much in love as the day we met.
I'm going to miss mama bee. It will be different not hearing her voice behind the camera.
What are you talking about. She literally moved cross the hall in the same building
She's not going anywhere? She still works for Molly.
Fr hope she has her film some until she goes back to Canada if she does.
@@kadifelts3294 Watch the literal last words Molly says in the video
I know but I'm expecting her boyfriend to start filming for her. I'm sure mama bee will still do it but she's going to have her own apartment and want her own time. Then she'll move back to canada soon
My parents got engaged 3 months in to their relationship and they’ve been together for 28 years now. If people want to move fast, let them
Was a different time then
Mar love has not changed. Knowing that the person is the one has not changed. It is not your place to judge she is fully capable of making her own decisions
My parents moved in after 2 months of knowing each other, were engaged after 3 months, and married after 6 months. They have been happily married for 43 years. My mom told me, "It was just so easy being around your dad. We just knew we wanted to spend our lives."
And there are people who take the time. Stay together for a long time. Married and have kids.. and eventually divorce. Love is not predictable. So you can better enjoy and do what feels the best!
My boyfriend moved in as soon as we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend. It's been over 5 years and we are still going strong, even though I moved with my mom to a different state. We are saving up for us to get a place but it's hella expensive in northern VA. I plan to marry this man. But yeah, I'm a hypocrite because I'm overprotective of people I know so I am a lil skeptic about this guy. But it comes from a place of love...might be overly loving but still😅😂
I want to see his reaction and I completely understand why you wanted to buy him gifts being that it's your love language and since his luggage has had been stolen but I do worry that based on the already negative comments on this video that people might judge him based on his reaction to your gifts if they feel his reaction isnt good enough for them which I don't think is fair to him.
That being said if you and him still feel comfortable putting the reaction up I'd love to watch it and I think your gifts are amazing. And even if he's super surprised and doesn't know how to express how happy your gifts make him during the reveal I'm sure he'll think the gifts are amazing as well.
Congratulations Molly! Wow how exciting! When you fall in love and meet that special person, why wait ❤
Momma bee, exciting times for you too ❤
As just a naturally suspicious person I’m not going to lie I was sketched about Molly buying her bf everything but you’re right it’s just how she expresses she cares and I’m super happy for her 💗🙂 That reaction video will be so fun!
My boyfriend and I moved in together after two months! That’s just what lined up for us at that point in time. We have been living together for 3 years now. Please people don’t be so quick to judge others. Everyone is different (: and that’s okay.
I love how much she is gushing over her boyfriend and how supportive and happy that her mom is for her! ❤️😍
We need to remember we are NOT her friends. We are her viewers and this is her choice and we should not judge her. We don’t know some of the situation and we shouldn’t HAVE TO. She has chosen to share a part of her personal life with us. She didn’t have to do that at all.
Exactly! Thank you!
Yeah because when someone is abusive everyone else should just ignore it and pretend it's not happening...
SevCaswell that is a totally different situation than what’s going on here though 😑 don’t come with the fallacies lol Her bf is moving in and she bought him stuff. Simple as that.
@@anniedancer1234 the red flags in her behaviour are MASSIVE, if this was the other way around or Molly was a guy doing this everyone would be freaking out about how controlling and overbearing it is.
SevCaswell didn’t you hear the part where his suitcase got stollen or the part where his old apartment was fully furnished already, which means he didn’t buy any of it. She just spoiling him, because that’s how she shows her love. She’s happy, let her be happy and let her do as she pleases, none of us have any say in what she does at all. So leave her alone 😁
I wish you nothing but the best, Molly, but please be super careful. My previous boyfriend I had that "when you know, you know" feeling and we moved super fast -- became official after only dating a week, moved in after about a month, signed a lease together after 6 months, talked about marriage since the very beginning. And then after about a year I found out he had been cheating on me the entire time and when I confronted him his excuse was that he was actually afraid of the commitment. So while I felt this way he was lying about feeling the same and actually felt the opposite. Just please slow down a bit and be cautious. You're not wasting time by taking things slow, you're just ensuring that you're building a strong foundation for your relationship to last if it's really meant to last. Sending you so much love ❤️
I'm sorry to hear that. But a relationship with someone who could cheat the entire time and lie about it would have been bad, even if you took it slower.
I don't think I'd get that feeling of it being right if I didn't trust them completely and was absolutely sure they would never lie to me like that.
@@nonono777 I think by taking it slower he wouldn't have felt like he had to commit and wouldn't be so afraid of it. I think I also would have recognized more signs and realized I shouldn't have trusted him as much as I did. Also the commitment I put in ended up screwing me over in the end. Breaking a lease and having to pay full rent for place we had rented together was a huge expense and headache that could have been avoided if we didn't move so fast. Of course every relationship is different and Molly's boyfriend may be nothing like my ex but I think in every situation it's better to be safe than sorry.
They know each other longer than just a week. I'm pretty sure Molly knows what she is doing
Kammy Marie wrong. Cheaters will cheat regardless of the situation.
I had a pretty torrid relationship with a woman, she moved very fast. Sadly, but really all for the best, it didn't last. I've been happily married now for 35 years, as of this October :)
Hey y'all... Just want to put it out there that "moving fast" doesn't mean a relationship will be doomed. I ended up pregnant because of birth control failure within around 5 weeks of dating, and we ended up living together shortly after that. It has now been nearly 13 years- we have an awesome 12 year old boy, got a house about 2 years ago and we can't imagine life without one another! We too had a "love at first sight" sort of connection. Molly, I wish you and your boyfriend all of the happiness in the world! So happy for you. ❤️
I think seeing him react to all this will help people feel a little more comfortable with how this is moving. Two months seems fast and I think people are just being protective of Molly
@Caramel Cupcake cill... those things are probably sent to her from companys... but then again, she has to be in control or feel the need to be in control.
@Caramel Cupcake She's obviously not forcing him to get rid of all the stuff he already owns? Any sane person would be happy and grateful that someone went to this much effort and bought them so many things. She isn't reshaping him she's just giving him more things to use.
I know several couples that are happily married that only knew each other less than 3 months before they got married. One couple didn't even go on an official date before marriage and 30 years and 4 kids later, they are still happily married. None of them lived together either so as Molly/Niemh said, when you know, you know.
@Caramel Cupcake damn imagine being mad that she bought a whole wardrobe for someone that owns "hardly anything". Like I said, she's not going to force him to only use the stuff she bought, if he doesn't like it he'll buy his own things.
HiitsBryX how is it obvious he's not giving up what he already owns?
I hope she’s not mad at us for being concerned, we don’t know him like her Patreons do so I think it’s fair that we are worried. I hope you are right and he is a good guy but please be careful 💜
I can’t wait to “meet” him and see his reaction to all the goodies you got for him!!! I love how supportive Mama Bee is of your love... 🥰
You’re so brave for announcing this. I see all the rude feedback :/ I married my husband 2 months after I met him lol. We are so happy and still goin strong! Do what makes you happy
Momma Bee: "Did you get me anything?"
Molly: "An APARTMENT!"
🤣 Love this
Ana bella I laughed so hard. 😂🤣
Haven’t even seen the guy yet but the way Molly talks about him is making me believe in love again 😌
Molly hasn't either 🙈
@@AlexxWoodwick IT TOOK ME A MINUTE TO GET THAT JOKE, I ALWAYS FORGET SHES BLIND. I'm whEEEZINF
alexx woodwick OH MY GOD 💀 i’m dead
alexx woodwick LOL... It took me soooooo long to get that joke!
Momma Bee: “what did you get me?” Molly: “an apartment!”
Bahaha I love their relationship it’s just so wholesome ya know
Molly I can’t get over how cute you look with the blonde hair and tan bronze skin😍😍 it’s suits you soooo well! So summery!
Y’all seriously leave her alone. It’s her life, it’s her choice. When you are dating someone if you know you know. You also don’t need to bash her or say there’s red flags. You don’t know half of their relationship and you don’t know what he’s like. If her love language is gift giving (even if it wasn’t) sometimes it’s just fun to spoil the people you love and let the woman live!!!!!!!
Imagine, the other way around Molly is moving in with her boyfriend, she can't bring any furniture and he's bought her all new clothes and perfume etc and tells her to throw away all her old stuff. You'd be screaming at her to run as fast as she can...
I get that but at the same time all my red flags warning lights are on. I just have a bad gut feeling ):
SevCaswell she did say he didn’t have anything, like furniture because his apartment was fully furnished, and he didn’t have a ton of belongings because he traveled a lot.
BUT on the other hand, I see why people are concerned. She bought him A LOT of stuff. However, I think that’s just who she is, and I don’t think he asked her to buy any of that for him.
I think once we meet him we will all feel better about it. Right now, I’m just worried he could be a mooch. But I’m hoping to be happily surprised
I get it and gift giving is also my love language but for the amount she bought and how quickly they’re moving it’s v excessive. I’m just concerned that if this ends badly how much she’s losing
EXACTLY! We don’t know anything about this man. The bottom line is Molly seems happy and excited af! Why ruin that for her? Even if it is a “mistake”, so be it. I don’t wish heartache on her or this going south, butttttttt that’s life. Why hold back? We all make mistakes and we all learn and grow in our own time (not saying this is a mistake, but this is the case in life). Leave the girl alone, let’s get to know the dude in her videos and let’s just wish her the absolute best! Congrats, Molly, you deserve all the happiness this world has to offer. Sending love.
I’d just like to make it clear that any future partner of mine should expect none of this. They will get my love and food. That’s it
mine won't even get food lol
HAHA
Must have different love languages than molly
I could never afford all of that’s stuff 😂 (not that I have a boyfriend to give it to)
Literally that’s crazyyy, she’s very excited 😂
Hey molly!! Lillies can be SUPER dangerous for cats! So excited you’re doing all of this and I’m so hype to meet him! Just wanna make sure you know so you’re beautiful kitty is safe
Yep pretty much ever plant ever is dangerous for cats! Dogs too but they aren’t as chompy as cats can be lol
commenting to bump to make sure she knows!
Yes!!! Even just the pollen can kill a cat. My friends cat ended up in the hospital because it sniffed the pollen of a Lilly. He needed meds but ended up being okay but be careful
Sarah I mean not every plant. There’s totally safe plants for most pets that I have in my home but lillies are dangerous even by the pollen
ATTENTION EVERYONE WHO HAS A PROBLEM WITH THIS!!!
Think through these following questions:
1: Are you Molly?
2: are you her Mom?
3: are all relationship paths the same for every person?
4: are you just looking for something to complain about?
If you said yes to this last question, than get a hobby!
or rly any of the questions unless its molly or her mom reading the comment
Molly you shouldn’t have to convince anyone that this is the right decision for you, it’s YOUR decision, no one else’s. Live your life, love. 💕
& YES WE WANT THE BFs REACTION! *DUH.*
She is happy that's the most important thing. I am happy for her.
Amen girl
Me: See's boyfriend in title
Screams
Reads entire title
Screams louder
Me lol
Sooo true
Same 😂
My parents thought I was having a seizure
@@brookes7020 hahaha same
Maybe with Molly being blind and having her home set up very particularly, where she knows what/ where everything is, may be an extra piece of why she is preparing the space for him to move into as well. This gives her a way of showing love by buying him gifts but also helps in getting familiar with the new set up of these rooms as his belongings start to fill up the space.
I'm happy for you Molly! I hope you have found your lobster! ❤️🦀 Best wishes on your new chapter together!!
This is such a good point! Everyone is being so negative but probably coming at it from a sighted point of view.
Omg I love the friends reference
I’m squealing I’m so happy for you!!
Great perspective, you’re probably right. Never thought about how different this situation could be to someone with a disability
Oh true
Omg her mom knows him & likes him, he isn't a predator? Why are people so upset? she has said 8000 times she feels this is the BEST decision for her life... She is literally 26 & many ppl get married after just meeting. This is normal and isn't a big deal..
Why do people keep mentioning her mom as if she’s some barometer? Like, “I wasn’t sure about this *until* Niahm Burke gave her stamp of approval.” 😂
@@WW-jh2ge I think because her mom has actually met and spent time with him whereas we haven't so she has a better Guage of his character and their relationship. So she's the best barometer we have.
yeah my mom married my dad at 19 and they've been together for like 23ish years
Molly about her apartment; "Nothing fancy" .... Stuff for the SECOND bathroom, stuff for our INDOOR GYM, .... Me; Go on and please keep telling me about your not fancy your huge double bathroom and home-gym apartment. 😂
Joke people! Obviously Molly deserves all the bathrooms and in home gym's in the world! 🤗
I moved in with my husband after 3 months and we were married at 1 year. We have been married for 13 years now and we are very best friends. We never argue and we love to spend all of our time together. When you know, you know.
I did the same thing and ended up with a narcissistic abuser. 🙃 that’s great things worked out for you, it just doesn’t work out like that for everyone.
Almost same story for my wife and I. Moved in together after dating for 4 months while both of us were in college, got married 6 months after that. Been married now for 48 years.
there are always exceptions to the rule
Same here! Moved in after 3 months, married and bought a house at 9 months. We will be married 14 years in December. (We were 21 and 23 at the time.)
Same! 17 years total and 6 married. We rarely fight and still love each other!
Molly: “Momma B’s room will be turned into a gym/office”
Me for .2 seconds before using my brain: “BuT wHeRe WiLl He sLeEp?!”
I had the same thought
Honestly I was thinking the same thing because she's filming in her room
⬆️Look!
SAMEEE
we think the same way
All the gifts and surprises are so considerate of her. Especially hearing her say that he talked about having these things etc. It really goes to show that she listens and cares a whole lot. He is going to love it. And yes, we all want to see his reaction!
Why wouldn't we want to see his reaction
I hope once the moving is all settled, she catifies her apartment more. I was so sad in the video where she mentioned that Lavender will just hang in her litter box... it’s a sign of stress, territorial insecurity, or could be medical.
Not always I had a cat that just loved to be in her liter box. Two different vets both verified that there was nothing wrong with her or her living environment. So her cat could be the same. Especially since knowing molly she does everything for her animals. They are her family..
Yes, Lavender may be a little stressed right now. That’s completely normal. There has been a lot of change going on for them. It took my kitty a while to adjust when my husband moved in with me, and again when we moved to a new home. Molly really does seem to provide such a loving environment. So I have no doubt that Lavender will settle in soon!
@@crystallee1503 If she doesnt provide any other stuff for the cat though...
@@ecologist_to_be We don't have any cat beds or anything for our cats, because they sleep on the couch, bed even our office chairs while we're in there. Maybe molly does the same with lavender.
It’s not about her not loving her cat. The point of the post is about making sure Lav has what she needs to be a healthy happy cat. Most people don’t know the intricacies of cat life and needs. I’ve not seen cat furniture or enrichment things in her apt. Definitely a good place to start.
I think if I moved in with my girlfriend and she got me a whole new wardrobe I would immediately start to 2nd guess the situation I got myself into lol
SO cute! Literally nothing wrong with moving at this pace, you're a grown up, do what you want! I always tried to keep it slow until I met the love of my life, at that point you can't take it slow, if you know you know,.
me: watches molly gettting her boyfriend like everything anyone would ever need
also me: umm can i have a molly?
Are you kidding me!!?? Of course i need to see his reaction to all the surprises!!. I would be so disappointed if you don’t post it.
Mama Bee: did you get me anything?
Molly:... an ApARtmEnt
Oy. She is kinda snarky.
@@comefondue it was a joke. they were laughing...
@@comefondue also..if she is indeed paying her mom's rent, her mom should be grateful lol
At first I was like “damn girl! 2 months and moving in?!” But then I was like wait... my boyfriend moved in like, week 1 and we’re still doing great over 4 years later! I wish you two the best! 💛
But the real question here DOES GALLOP LIKE HIM (I know, I know, Molly probably knows gallop likes him)
Stringy S I’m pretty sure Gallop loves him, he even tried to rip his clothes off by breaking his belt 🤪😂
I'm sure that will be answered in the Q and A, plus she probably wouldn't date him if he wasn't compatible with Gallop
Did anyone else think her mom would go back to Toronto once he moved in? That must be so hard on her mom and dad being apart.
I did, too. I feel so bad for her dad being back in Toronto alone, I hope at some point her parents can get back to living together.
I assumed that too, but I am honestly relieved. This video could serve as the first act of a horror movie. I hope all goes well and it is a true love match.
I think it’s good that her mom is still close for now.
K Marie where’s she at? La?
@@tiffprendergast Yes, L.A.
Please remember that no one is perfect. Every person has at least one annoying quirk and at least one bad habit. Only a person blinded by infatuation says their partner has zero annoying habits.
This is so true!
I just think it is the sweetest thing ever that your mom will still be in the same building and in her own apartment. She’s def your guardian angel. That’s amazing.
Molly is a sugar mama. That boy is spoiled. She's treating him so nice.
Exactly lol
I wouldn’t use that terminology it’s kinda offensive. Sugar mama means he’s taking advantage of her for her money which is disrespectful to assume.
Kinda weird buying him all the clothes but whatever they like..
God I feel so bad
@@lailamagdyragab5048 That's definitely not what sugar mama means lmfao
Its really sweet you're gifting him so many things. Its a sign of selfless love and commitment. Its not the cost that matters but your good intentions. I hope everything goes well for you Molly. Excited to see what he got for you!
I just realized that Molly has memorized every feel of the shirts that she got for her BF. And where they came from. What. The. Heck? That's amazing! I also remembered the time she memorized the entire cruise ship's map, dang!
Mo Mo why are you being such a hater?
Mo Mo Why does it matter to you? 🤣 Her boyfriend probably makes a pretty good living seeing as he’s been able to travel the world and had a furnished apartment in Los Angeles. Molly is excited and wanted to do something nice for him to make it extra special. Worry about yourself 😜
Yes, she’s a very smart young lady. She has to really try and use her memory as a tool to help her get by. She’s remarkable. The shirts I understand, because she just got them and I would have remembered that too. The cruise ship is a great example of her extremely sharp memory.
Mo Mo my goodness. Go somewhere with that crap. Did you forget she’s blind? Blind people NEED to rely on their memories to survive. Also, we have NO clue what kind of money this man makes. Be happy for her. She’s happy, and that’s all that matters.
my parents got married 3 months after they met, and they'll be celebrating their 28th wedding anniversary this December. so yes, I too believe that "when you know you know". So excited for this new chapter in your life
aw no we’re gonna miss momma but this is a big step and i’m sure you’re gonna be so happy!!!💗
I don't think you need to worry! In the vid I think they said that she was just moving into a different apartment but I'm the same building. Not sure but I think so!
Damn you know Molly is lucky because she got both a cat and an boyfriend in the same day, she won the lottery, yaaaas girl!!!
Oh hi there melisa, with one ‘s’ 😂✌️I hardly ever see people w the name ‘Melissa’ but only with one ‘s’ 😌😌
Melisa OMG, I rarely see another Melissa with one ‘s’ my friends always tease me about it and everyone writes my name wrong 😂 But I’m used to it so it doesn’t bother me anymore
Or is Lavender Magical?! Nobody knows!
Yes we would love to see his reaction!!! So cute! You are a wonderful girlfriend. ♥️
for those of you that are concerned why she bought him so much stuff... they know they’re meant to be. they know they’re going to end up together. if a married couple did this, you wouldn’t be concerned. gift giving is her love language, and she’s very excited and in love! let her live her life!
yesss! preach!!!!
Also she can afford it, she is a reasonable girl and if she couldn’t afford it she wouldn’t do it. AND it’s not like he was expecting any of it, she did it because she wanted to. It’s not like he said “hey if I’m moving in I’m gonna need new stuff” lol he has no idea about any of it.
Bless her heart. A woman who goes out of her way to make a man feel this comfortable and moved in is a keeper!
Anyone else trying to get a mental picture of what the boyfriend looks like based on the clothes and bought him?
The picture on the fridge's screen showed a boy, maybe that's him!!
@@ashleysmiles I may be wrong, but I think that could just be a stock photo. You can see the same photo on the fridge but smaller underneath, and there's a child laying beside him.
Amazing
@@ashleysmiles Lol, maybe she doesn't need pictures of him around.
Me and my boyfriend moved in together when we were dating two months and we’ve been together for 4 years, have three dogs together, and my mom recently gave him the family ring. So happy for you! I wish you all the best.
So your telling me he like dogs cats AND cinnamon pop tarts he’s a keeper
I think this is a really sweet thing for Molly to do for someone she loves. He needs things, she can afford to get him things, and she likes giving things. Y'all should keep in mind that Molly really likes to shop, so getting him hundreds of dollars worth of stuff would be really fun for her, and it's something he probably would have had to forbid her from doing to keep her from doing it. Molly is not mentally disabled, and she is not a child, or in her first serious relationship, so just sit back, relax, and enjoy the show.
Molly like 4 months ago: god I’m so single haha Molly now: moving in with my boyfriend! No hate though, I’m happy for you Molly!
I have a feeling she was lying for sponsorship. But who knows? Or that they have known each other for awhile and just now started dating.
She would never do that for a sponsorship ,especially when it is such a big deal that she is sharing with 100k+ people.
Maybe those videos were pre filmed as a lot of it is and she might have lied about as she wanted their relationship to be just theirs for a little bit longer. (?) Idk I'm happy for her either way 💜
Molly, I moved in with my boyfriend within the first few months and we have been together for almost two years. As a woman who has been through this I do have some advice. Be careful in the beginning as you are in the honeymoon stage and will be willing and excited to give everything you have to him ( physically and emotionally). This comes naturally to women, but what you should be doing is laying down your boundaries. Men can easily get used to all that women will do for them. Just coming from experience, be careful with how much you give to him. It’s important that you take care of yourself first and that he learns his new place in your life.
Not everyone knows right away though. Just wanted to point that out. Sometimes things grow over time :)
Thank you ❤️❤️
THIS! I can’t stand the phrase “when you know you know”. It’s actually a triggering phrase to me, and some people just don’t understand that.
BANG i respect your opinion, but everyone’s experience is very different. I’m now VERY happily married to the man I didn’t have the “when you know you know” feeling with. Everyone’s relationships are different. He KNEW when he met me. I didn’t. He kept pursuing me. That’s how I knew. He pursued me and loved me intensely, despite my doubts. That’s our love story. It doesn’t have to be the same as anyone else’s.
BANG I also don’t believe in the concept of “the one” either. So maybe I’m just different. Love is a choice and a verb, not just a feeling ☺️
@@alyssashaup8973 For some people that phrase also holds true though but for others it does not
Personally, two months of being together seems awfully fast to move in with someone. That being said, I wish Molly all the best. Sometimes things like this do work our. Every relationship is different.
I agree, it’s all flowers in rainbows in the beginning of every relationship so of course she’s like “he’s amazing” lol
But we don’t know how long they knew each other before they started dating
My boyfriend and I moved in together after about 5 months of dating and we love living together. We're talking about buying a house within the next couple of years after our lease runs out. When you know, you know!
I'm watching this video really curiously. I understand that Molly's love language is gift giving (actually mine too), but I just look at this and I am concerned. I wish he really likes all that Molly has prepared, I mean, I would definitely not like it if someone would ever do this for me cause I need to be in control (I'm uncomfortable if not) and would feel like the other person is trying to change me, but I really really hope the best and wish both of them the best luck. We'll be obviously waiting for the reaction video, like come on, who wouldn't?!
I don’t know why people are treating you like a child when you’re an adult 🙄 He can just move out if things don’t work out. I’ve also seen couple who were together for years break up right after marriage/moving in and couples who dated for a week before moving in that are together for decades.
Exactly also ive seen couples who fall hard a week in and move in when its right its right! Everyones timeline is different
passionateforbeauty I actually became engaged and moved in a week into dating my now husband. Then we got married a month after that. Now we have 2 daughters and we’re still going strong almost 3 years later.
None of the viewers have any room to act like they know what's best or think they know him better than she does. No one truly knows how things will play out in the end, so it just comes down to doing what feels right, which only he and she know what that is. She would also have the upside, as she wouldn't have to worry about finding a place to live if it didn't work. I did find it amusing seeing so much product in a man's bathroom, though😂
I've always thought that people should live together before getting married, just to test the waters.
Absolutely. One of my manfriends was completely awfully annoying. We started dating and 3 weks lately is was like no thank you. He left me with a gift.... see i'd be judge. They're now 5.
Kaya Styles I did lolz
ABSOLUTELY!
I was 18 when i met my boyfriend, we were friends for a month, then started dating and moved in together 2 months after dating. At the end of this month we will be celebrating 13 years together and 4 married. We have a 6yr old daughter and are still happy and madly in love. Everyone is different and there is no time line to follow for relationships, it's the couples choice at the end of the day do what makes you happy!
I'm happy for you both ♥️
EXACTLY. I’m just happy for her and if this turns out to be a “mistake”, then so be it. However, she has made up her mind and this is what she wants, so I’ll support that. Who are we to judge ANYONE? I’ve never seen her so happy and excited. I’m happy for her and her happiness. She deserves it. Wishing them a life time of happiness
And here's the other thing. You are 26 so go for it. If you were 17 or 18 I'd say slow down but by 26 you know yourself more and what and who you need in your life. Not that anyone on the internet gets an opinion on how you live your life. I can't wait to meet him, virtually of course! 😊
Exactly this!!!! She knows herself better than anyone and her mom supports her too. She’s an adult and has her life established, why hold back on love? And I agree we all don’t get an opinion anyways! Lol
My grandparents got engaged 6 months after they met. This year would have been their 61st anniversary.
Moving fast works out for some people and doesn't for some others. But if you don't take that chance, you'll never know. You are right Molly, it is your choice and I wish you all the best 💜.
Guys. They're not married. And MOLLY IS AN ADULT. She has the right to make her own decisions. Just saying.
Hope Elizabeth yeah
I agree. She’s absolutely an adult and she has the ability to make her own decisions. I’ve been seeing a very good man for 2 1/2 months and we decided not to move in together until we’re married because we want to make sure that we are right for each other and that our families will get along. I’m so glad that we live in a society where people can make choices that they see fit.
Because we are both and religion is extremely important to us, we made the decisions based on our value systems. Not everyone’s going to follow the same value system and Molly has the ability to make her decisions and to learn from them as well.
8 minutes in and she doesn’t mention if he’s paying rent... is he?
@@lanar3528 I'd assume yes
whoa i stopped watching for a hot minute ad now molly has a boyfriend, he's moving in, molly's mom is moving out, she has a cat, and gallop is no wear to be seen. where the heck is gallop. who is this dude we need to meet him
honestly, im very happy for molly and i definitely agree, when you know you know.
Gallop is still here!!
Don’t worry, gallop is still there
Molly, I would love to see his reaction but tbh I feel like you bought him a LOT of stuff and I don't know if he will be able to express his true feeling with the camera on. I truly wish you all the best in the world and I hope you will be happy with him forever but this feels off ♥
I agree with this! Its putting so much pressure on him to like everything so your fans dont get a bad impression...
Just saying if she started a channel called "It's all about Niamh" I think we would all watch the crap out of that
To be honest, I definitely had my concerns/judgements at the beginning of this video. Like woah, you’re moving so fast, woah, you’re buying him all these things. But when I really took a second to reflect - I realized I more or less did the very same things when I met my boyfriend! We met super randomly, I met and fell in love with his family two days later, he asked me to his girlfriend a week later, after 2 weeks we were practically living together, and then officially moved in after 4-5 months.
If you knew me, you’d know this is not in line with my personality / character. I’ve been in both super slow and stable relationships, as well as the spontaneous lusty kind that were indeed toxic and ended poorly. But when I met my current boyfriend - who is still the perfect partner for me after 2.5 years - there was so much electric spark/chemistry, but it was a different feeling. It was a much more grounded, and he just felt like home and like I’d known him my whole life.
Long story short, I am in complete support of your choice and am so happy for you, Molly! No matter what happens, it is what it is. We can’t live our lives in fear of making mistakes and based on other people’s judgements. We would all do well (seriously, it would probably be better for our health) to allow others to simply live and let live.
It just depends on what kind of person you are relationship wise. If you fall in love seriously, and not just mess around or date casually, it's a different feeling and you know.
Nonono Completely agree. Which of course can come with time/experience/maturity and self-awareness. Although, for some of us, self-awareness only comes AFTER we’ve done the stupid things and pushed the boundaries. 😅😊
You just told almost my exact story! So happy you are happy and that I am too! ❤️ I LOVE LOVE!!
Katie Rutherford 🤩 It isssss nice, isn’t it? ☺️☺️ So awesome to read all these similar stories from other comments.
My boyfriends parents got engaged on the SECOND DATE 😱 together 40 years
oml I could never
Oh my god that is ridiculous but love that
Wow, that’s insane, but good for them
OMG
My parents didn’t date or get engaged they were on a work trip together on the Las Vegas strip at 10 am and went to town hall and just got married randomly then had me two years later and are still together
I feel like everybody’s being too harsh on her like she is an adult and she can make her own choices and I feel like if it makes her happy then she should do it and if they’re in love then they should do it , so I fully support you
I support her too in this desition.
It does not matter
She should always follow her heart and her gut. Doing what she feels is best.
I totally agree, I fully support molly as well.
I absolutely love this! And it makes me cry to see how supportive your mom is. I have never experienced this in my family and it really makes me emotional. And about moving in together so early on, I only saw my husband face to face 2 times before we moved countries together so you do what you feel is right for you! 💙