Okay but the fact that SJ were the only ones in the room who loved the fact that he was a fan of theirs despite him being male instead of criticizing him AND how they said they’d do better to help males feel accepted being their fans is exactly why I stan them.
Ain't nothing wrong with this guy. Let him enjoy the things he likes. The world is hard. Being interested in something is the only thing that can keep you sane.
InTheMourning421 right. People can be close minded girls are ok to like girl idols but boy isnt ok to like boy idol but its ok to like a male singer but how come its ok to like male singer.. Its an odd perception i think. Its hard to breakfree and get rid of all that..
InTheMourning421 why can’t a guy just like a male group? So what IF it’s gay? There is nothing wrong. If people are getting annoyed with him talking too much about SJ, then I understand then maybe they can talk to him but not insult him and crush his dream
kardolantis they aren’t saying him liking super junior is a concern. They’re saying that people don’t understand him and treats him differently for it is a concern
I'll be extremely happy to have a bf like him, we'll go to concert together, screaming our biases names together, singing their songs everywhere, and dancing as many times as we want. it's like the ultimate relationship goal in my life!
larissa putri ,I agree with you. Im so lucky & happy my husband supports & understands me when I sing & dance like crazy to SJ or any kpop songs inside our house while doing chores.We also enjoy watching kdrama together.His hobby is playing basketball & I let him play with his friends & I watch his games. So its just a give & take, compromise.
@@Error404SkyeNotFound but he was showing his love only for enhyuk,he didnt take Donghae hand, he didnt look at the others..When you stan a group you stan all of them not only one member, sure we all have bias but we support them all not only one person.
Kika Park I think that would be different for bts. I’m NOT a huge fan but still I can’t imagine myself ignoring jimin, v, even jin though jungkook’s my fave. For suju, although heechul’s my fave I wouldn’t ignore donghae, eunhyuk or siwon.
it's 2 years later and i hope that fanboy met genuine friends who accepts his love for suju and left these "friends" either that or these two "friends" realized how toxic their thinking is
My little brother has loved GOT7 for three years and he got so tired of explaining himself that now when people ask if he’s gay he just says “yes. Leave me alone.” Even though he’s actually straight. I don’t think fangirl/fanboying over the same gender should be seen as a concern. It’s actually more concerning that some people refuse to be open minded and refuse to listen to an explanation.
People who know me think it's odd I like Shinee they are like it's a male group and I'm like what's your point. You like rap and most of them are male you really wanna play the gender music game with me
I don't get it.. I'm a girl but... Just think about this. There are also like tons of guys fanboying over their favourite NBA players or other athletes. Why should guys fanboying over male idols be a concern?
Male idol groups cater to female audiences, singing love songs and wearing/doing sexual stuff. For most of suju's career, male idols didn't really do the cute concept either, it was more different variations of sexy.
Double standards are super high in Korea... So girl groups can have 'Girl crush' image and have numerous Girls as fans for themn and no one bats an eye but guys liking a Legendary Boy Group for 13 years is doubted as Gay? What kind of logic is that when he even had a gf He bettered his health and mind bcoz of being inspired by SuJu! Thgat's an accomplishment in itself... I feel you, Bro bcoz I'm a guy too loving SuJu as a group since last year I've entered into kpop and became an ELF and ReVeluv ... DON'T CARE WHAT YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS SAY BECAUSE TRUE FRIENDS DON'T JUDGE YOU HARSHLY FOR YOUR INTERESTS !!!
Lyf for music iam so sry I was supposed to type out man but my phn autocorrect sucks it typed something else sry . I love suju n red velvet too. Have a nice day
You can see he is so sincere in his love because Super Junior brings him so much joy. He isn't a sasaeng fan and his love has brought him more benefits than negativity why can't they just let him live.But on the bright side he got to meet his favourite idols and sit next to his bias, congratulations to him=)
HE IS SO PRECIOUS!!! This is not a concern and it doesn’t make him gay. I am completely in love with Sunny from SNSD, she is my everything, but I would never go lesbian for her. It’s so frustrating that it’s ok for girls to love girl idols but if guys loves guy idols they are gay and weird.... such a double standard.
Sunny.bias because u r not aboy u cant understand dear and i would tell that he shouldnt say oppa!!!!!girls when like girls they love to have as like their clothes makeup prettiness and so on they made u more feminne but here we see the oppisite ,try to understand me when my bro like some actor he wanted to be as like his body and behave manly
Heenim should be there to educate this narrow minded sheeps. I love how Shin Dong Yeop actually defended this guy. Little did they know that SDY has been rooting SJ since beginning. There’s nothing wrong with being a fanboys. Smh 🤦♀️
OMG, what's the problem here tho? He makes money, spends it on what he loves. His friends are the problem, asking him if he's gay bc he likes an artist? Even if he was, then what? No one would look at him the wrong way if it was a girl group. It's the culture in Korea to buy a lot of albums, go to fansigns, concerts. It's a great hobby to have. Keeps him active, helps him meet new ppl. His friends could show a little interest or just ignore the messages, its not that hard. Also if he doesnt want to spend money on eating out with them, they can just hang out somewhere, cant they? Is it necessary to spend money on someone to keep the friendship going? I say, change your friends lol
Giyanka you are right and understand your point but in korea its kind of a problem when you don't pay for meals because going out to eat its the only way people hang out together. I dont say i agree because abviously for everyone else (not korean) the friends are not real friends but even like being gay in korea is a tabu topic so they are ashamed of him acting girly and stuff like that. Its just a concern for the friends in korea, for foreigners the concern are the friends because we have a more open minded view
He had their Secret Code poster, their albums as 5 and their earlier Keep Your Head Down and In Heaven albums! And I’ve got a feeling he purposely showed their Secret Code poster when he sent the photo of his SuJu poster as proof! 😍 Felt that if TVXQ didn’t break up, he would have talked about his love for both groups 😣
Damn he's a lucky fan! And I'm so happy for him to sit right next to his bias and suju. 😆 This is not a concern at all in my opinion. I agree with Yesung's opinion.
Farima Sultani ut its good that shindong point out that it can be a concern in his part since even his friend tease him and call him names. Its hard when people are too close minded and when they misunderstood and judge u
Armi Sky Shindong's point is right. But as you said there are narrowed minded people in the world and I personally ignore such people because of their own ignorant/restricted mindset. A person shouldn't try to hide their true self for the sake of others.
Man I almost cried when Eunhyuk was reading his letter! You can feel the how much he looks up to these guys, I hate that there is that conception that bc you love an artist it means you’re attracted to them. As if they are only there to be sexualized. Like damn did his friends ever think wow he looks up to them and all the positive change they have brought him. He better himself physically and mentally as he said he was shy before and became more out going bc of them. Smh
I had a classmate in high school who used to like SuJu so much he'd dance to their songs (and he danced well tbh) during our breaks and stuff. Even when the teachers in P.E asked the class to have groups and perform, he only danced to suju's songs and even led his groupmates well. We didn't really think he was gay or something tbh just bc of that... I even ended up stanning suju (and him lmao he's too cute and he danced well and even sung well so how could i not 😂) because of him. That wasn't really a concern, objectively speaking. Idk how this would be a concern for koreans :/ the people coming to hello counselor mostly are concerned because koreans (not all) just give out unnecessary judgments. We must all live in peace despite our different preferences and Y'ALL JUST STAN SUJU
why is it boys cant be a fan of boy groups when girls can be a fan of girl groups? well, that's double standard mentality Jinseok ssi~ good job! spread the love :))
aaaaah idunno i really want to know the reason too. As a dude it would ofc feel weird(not that i think it is but just imaging it) if a guy likes a guy/idol (i want to include that the gay topic etc isnt an open topic in SK), but they have hella pleasure when its girlxgirl... when it comes of seeing it from girls eyes hmmmmm.. i dont mind a dude liking a male idol or a girl liking a girl idol, but i think ppl (girls) that are just jealous n bitchy that would be disgusted by the girls liking girl groups ._. aaaaaaah the world is weird >.
Well his friends were mad homophobic. The fact that his friends would treat him as less of man or say he's living incorrectly because he acts "feminine" and loves a boy group is the actual concern.
It's not just them, it's Korea itself. It's not a safe country for lgbtq people to come out even to this day. You can watch videos of Koreans coming out to their Parents, although many parents are supportive, they tell their kids to not tell anyone else in korea.
I just want to say one thing that the moment he hold EUNHYUK'S hand my heart said: he's an EUNHYUK fan in SUJU. The way he was flustered/shy around SUPER JUNIOR would be totally me if I was in place of him. Just the difference is I would not have been conscious anymore and specially beside EUNHYUK coz he's my UB.😘😘😘😘
Lol dude, I'm a 24 year old straight man and Super Junior is my favourite guy group lol. Of course I love girl idols too, but they have different vibes. I only like cool older idols like SuJu, TVXQ, Big Bang and for younger groups, Winner and BtoB. For girl groups I love SNSD, CLC, Sistar, AoA etc.
It's a concern. But only because of his friends. He needs new ones! Friends need to respect and accept their friends for who they are! Male k-ELFs should maybe make a sub fan club to support eachother and connect with eachother? There's nothing wrong to be a male fan of male kpop groups! 💖 And on a sidenote i just need to say that it's nothing wrong with being gay either!
Walking Carat. You should have walked right pass this comment. There is _nothing_ wrong with being gay. I am pansexual wich counts as being gay in most eyes. PRIDE LGBTQ!
I hope the stereotypes of 'boys liking boy groups are weird' would be gone, cause there's completely NOTHING wrong with it! If girls can like girl groups, guys should be able to have that choice as well :) And tbh, there are many boy groups out there that are very charming, be it Gen2 era or those existing now, and even if they have fanboys, I can totally get why. There's is just simply nothing wrong with one being happy over the things that he/she likes as long as it doesn't cause any harm to anyone :)
they said they dont have a problem with him liking SJ or bgs in general but he keeps shoving his love for them in their face which they dont like it makes them uncomfortable
Eunhyuk is such a cutie! He's so nice and sweet towards the fan. All of SuJu were really kind and supporting, that was so nice to see ♡ The 'friends' annoyed me so much though, like seriously, it's not a concern or weird at all, he's just a great fan and that's awesome 😊
eyeyeyeyey - I shouldn't be here i would tell if ur brother or sister do something over board u also will warning them his friends asking for living his own life and not to be feminine is that mean they dont love him!!!!also his friends know that if he will like agirl she might me pissed because he is overboard and he is saying oppa!!!!!
I always tell my friends to listen to music I like and I don't think it's frustrating. It's not like I force them into it. I just tell them to listen. And the way Eunhyuk toned down his dance moves to match the fan ❤️
Miriam Kalala Yes he is beautiful 💙 I think that time when others call him ugly is because he hasnt fully blossomed but look at him now he is so attractive I mean he is very talented his looks is just bonus to us
I agree with Super Junior, the reason this is a concern in reality is because this is a concern to some people, the issue here isn't that he is a fan of a boy group; it is because people think that that is a problem. Besides, if I'm honest I didn't expect the MC's (who I love and support) to question his sexuality, I understand that its what the majority of people may question when they hear of the 'concern'. But I dont think anyone would expect him to openly announce he is homosexual or heterosexual. I love how Super Junior (Eunhyuk in particular) treated him, like they say, they want to appeal to males and females and to make a male being their fan not a problem anymore.
Being in love with SuJu, and having Eunhyuk as a bias .. this is so relatable 😂 💙💙💙 ! There's nothing wrong with him, fanboys are amazing ! Seeing SuJu being so supportive and sweet to him made me so happy !!! That's why they will always be my favourite !
@@yoshiwenkai586 Me too i'm more into ggs (but the only bg and the most group i like is ofc bts among all of them) but other than that i don't really listen to bgs that much as ggs(like twice and bp) and it's annoying when ppl think about it as a sexual thing Like it's just a group and music
I feel so touching, I only see a true ELF on him... He already became an ELF for so long time and never distract by other groups makes me wanna cry... he's so faith (I think he would do the same with his future girlfriend who understand him) T.T Thanks for the good job, let's continue support them ^^
I feel him. Eunhyuk is also my bias. Also I love Suju even more after this video bcs they are okay with having male fans and I honestly think that is okay. I think is okay for males to love male groups and artists
I’m so happy that Super Junior was supportive of him. I remember a while ago there was a male fan of Sungjong from Infinite, and the Infinite members seemed put off by him. I wish people didn’t poke their noses where they aren’t needed, so male fans like him can live in peace. On a separate note, SuJu (especially Eunhyuk and Donghae) looking on fleek 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
Lyf for music turn off, the male fan only liking sungjong and sunggyu maybe a bit disgusted by him because he really love sungjong and call sungjong cute pretty handsome
Ohh, that would've been weird for other members... It's normal having a bias in a group and loving the group as a whole, but only liking a single person wouldn't make him a fan at all bcoz only if that person has solo stuff and you only like his music and not group's music then it is acceptable, but if not that might make the member feel uncomfortable in front of his members.
Lyf for music Oh okay, I watched it a long time ago... I thought the male fan also listened to Infinite and his bias was Sungjong... his behavior is seemed to be something that most K-fangirls indulge in, so it was sad to see him being judged for something like that just because of his gender
Manas Subbaraman Infinite is not like that. They're a group full of kind guys. That guy is most prolly just a solo fan, which is obviously uncomfortable for the group man cmon common sense. Maybe, you're unaware, bt it's fine. Infinite has quite a fair share of fanboys too.
He needs new friends. Just cuz he likes a male group doesn't make him weird or gay and even if he is so what? He seems like a decent person and super junior helped him feel better. If a girl was obsessed with a female group no one would care. Ugh, this makes me so upset......
His friends are absolute jerks and I hope he dropped them after this. There's nothing wrong with acting feminine, nor with him being a fan of Suju. He's not a crazy fan and they've obviously bettered his life. I like how the band stood up for him, really shows you that they appreciate their fans.
I will be honest this is the only episode that made me cried! I feel the same way with Kpop, they saved my life I even wanted to end with my life but their happy songs and their vibe saved me, I am a fan just like him fighthing bro you are not alone
Miseop Lee they made u saying oppa also!!!or helped u to be more manly??as like when girl love girl idol she want to buy as her makeup and outfit and so on!!
As what I said on other videos (the game addicted one) this person also got hobbies/things he likes which is fanboying. but what makes it different is he still can manage his daily life (work, keep healthy, social life ect) he's one of the good example of balancing between hobby and daily life
He is a true definition of FAN. He love suju, went to their concert, buy their album, listen to their songs but not stalking them. He try to promote suju to his friends till they feel annoyed but doesn't do any harm to suju member.
But like side note: I'm literally him when it comes to sending random kpop vids and pictures to friends so I GET IT PLEASE DONT FEEL ASHAMED OF BEING AN AMAZING FAN😄😄😄
I feel him LoLs.. When you hear Super junior songs you just want to dance to them.. And the ballads are so fantastic I fell In love with them and made them my favorite songs I listened to when I go to sleep.
This is far from a concern. I find it more troubling that in Korea it seems strange that a man like a male group. Liking Super Junior has had a positive impact on his life so how can this be a concern?... Maybe he should find other friends instead. These friends don't support him as real friends should do.
my heart really flutters because i can truly feel his love. and this is what fandom is about: joy, inspiration, hope. i understand him thinking it's a concern because people can't understand what he just loves. ELF FOREVER ♥
This is the third time i watch this video and i never get bored. He a big fan and i am so respect him alot. And we have same bias aka Eunhyuk 💙 I hope he still big fans of super junior and i wish his life full of happiness 😊💙
I v been Girls Generation fans since debut and for all the time ppl keep sayin dat im a lesbian . :(( at first i was so sad. But now i dont really care anymore. I just let them said whatever they want.
I understand friends being embarrassed in a fun way when one goes overboard with any fandom but the other reasons by those guys are so homophobic and toxic.
i just want to let all the male elfs out there (straight or queer) know that there is nothing wrong with you for being a fan of men 💖💕 we all support the same incredible people and that should bring us together. i understand that people may look down on you in your personal life (depending on where youre from) but i would like your experience with other elfs to be nothing but joyful~ i would never think youre weird for loving those 13 (+2) talented idiots ♡♡
If it was BigBang noone would blams him... Or some K HipHop rapper or even crew... Why does it have to be this way? Enjoy what you do and do not change^^
actually, i don't think that's true. men love bb, but not that diehard way girls and women do. i mean,they aren't expected to. like, I've seen so many fans of gd or top, but an actual fan boy, to this point, rarely comes out.
realist Well do you know JRE? He is some diehard fanboy😂 Or Kenny^^ But I just said that if there were one in korea, it would probably get accepted. Because of the image BB has...
I feel that it's very normal for a male to fan over a male band. Who can blame him, it's Super Junior. But seriously, I love Kwon Yuri and am obsessed with her, but that doesn't determine my sexual preference. I think people need to be more open minded, it's the 21st century.
I understand him totally. I'm a girl and I like boygroup (im inspirit), I don't like any girlgroup. So people assume that I'm straight. But when they found out that im lesbian, they are all shocked!! They be like "thats no way u r lesbian when u r a big fan of a boygroup". I don't know why they all said that, I mean I like infinite cause they are all talented, they sing and dance well, also my bias is sungjong, i like him bc his bright personality attract me like i want to be his friend. I like them not in a delusional way that I want them as my boyfriend. People should know that. Stop assuming ppl sexual orientation just by looking at what they like
황Klaudia what the reason made u gay is that because of ur open country i wonder or because u seeing abig amount of people in ur country and they do whatever because u r open minded ? i would say having limits is good because we are human we have brain
Wow!! I'm impressed! The hardcore fan of SuJu... All Elf would be proud of him coz SuJu clearly has a positive influence on him.. This is not concern at all, but commendable!
They are not "friends". Sorry " friends". Friends respect each other's beliefs, lifestyle.SJ save his life by losing weight, being active and meeting other fans.So yes!dance all you want, it makes you healthier & happier. Isn't that what life's goal is?Achieving happiness?
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The fact that the SJ members were only supportive of the fan and didn't seem to mind he was a man and if he's gay or not makes me want to stan them
Well welcome to our big ELF family..
Cause for Super Junior fan is not just a fan... they are family... and I'm really proud that I'm an ELF 💙💙💙
Are you ready to enter ELF door?
So stan them..what's stopping you?? 😂😂🖖
Welcome to ELF!
*"And he always says he's broke"*
HAHAHAJAHAHAJAHWH DONT WE ALL!!!
Pee Machine true!
Yeaa
preach!!
me because tomorrow preorders for love yourself tear are coming out and i have like no money
hhaha that is a REAL FAN right there
What I love the most is that suju isn't "disgusted" with him or anything.
Blazing Flame they’re celebrities as long as he wasn’t being creepy they were prob touched someone was such a huge fan to see all their concerts
Well they have heechul in the group lol so it'd actually be pretty weird if they reacted disgusted
@@xenojust1310 Hahahahaha
@@xenojust1310 lmfao right. Heechul has kissed probably every single one of them😂
@@xenojust1310 hahah you make my day😂😂
*"I AM SORRY WE MADE OUR SONGS SO CHEERFUL"*
*LMAO SHINDONG IF YOU DONT*
Preach lmao
He is so funny haha
When?
@@naahaalaar 8.53
@@mohdjamil6993 8:53 u mean
"Why do people misunderstand my purehearted fandom?"
same
Okay but the fact that SJ were the only ones in the room who loved the fact that he was a fan of theirs despite him being male instead of criticizing him AND how they said they’d do better to help males feel accepted being their fans is exactly why I stan them.
Agreeeeee
It's possible the MCs weren't actually disgusted. They have a script to follow.
No I don't think the MCs were disgusted they were just laying out all the questions from all angles and that good skill
I don't think the MCs were disgusted... especially DongYeop (He's been supportive of SJ since they debuted over 13 yrs ago)
Shindong response was so cool!
Ain't nothing wrong with this guy. Let him enjoy the things he likes. The world is hard. Being interested in something is the only thing that can keep you sane.
InTheMourning421 I agree
InTheMourning421 right. People can be close minded girls are ok to like girl idols but boy isnt ok to like boy idol but its ok to like a male singer but how come its ok to like male singer.. Its an odd perception i think. Its hard to breakfree and get rid of all that..
Armi Sky when girls like girls idols people call them lesbians in a insulting way
InTheMourning421 Yes!! I totally agree!
InTheMourning421 why can’t a guy just like a male group? So what IF it’s gay? There is nothing wrong. If people are getting annoyed with him talking too much about SJ, then I understand then maybe they can talk to him but not insult him and crush his dream
I’m a 25 year old man who’s been a fan of Suju for 11 years now and I feel his pain.
Hi, we love you! Fanboys are my favorite. From, your fellow ELF💙
you are freakin cool!!
You are so cool😭💕
congrats bro, you're among the best of us!
19 and I'm an elf
The most feasible solution to this is have a girlfriend who is also an ELF. That way, you both spend time liking Super Junior 😉
😂😂😂 agreed
Exact thought... It wud be so fun 🙂
I agree👍
@@linapotter ghnmnjjjml
I'm not a suju fan so I spent the longest time trying to agree but not knowing what the hell you were saying
AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO THINKS EUNHYUK DEBUT PIC LOOKED AMZING
HES PRETTY GODDAMIT
no you aren't.. from the first time I saw SuJu, he's the one ^___^
I also did.. He is a beautiful man ever since.
He looks so soft 🥺
same
I found him cute in those pics
The fact that him being fan of a boygroup is treated as a concern, makes it a concern.
kardolantis I LOVE your profile pic 😭😭👌 ALEX IS IN OUR HEART
yep, if a guy did this for a girl group LMAAOoo then its ok to them
kardolantis they aren’t saying him liking super junior is a concern. They’re saying that people don’t understand him and treats him differently for it is a concern
kardolantis FOR REAL
So if I'm a girl and I love girlgroup lets say SNSD means people hv to be concerns about me too??
I'll be extremely happy to have a bf like him, we'll go to concert together, screaming our biases names together, singing their songs everywhere, and dancing as many times as we want. it's like the ultimate relationship goal in my life!
larissa putri ,I agree with you. Im so lucky & happy my husband supports & understands me when I sing & dance like crazy to SJ or any kpop songs inside our house while doing chores.We also enjoy watching kdrama together.His hobby is playing basketball & I let him play with his friends & I watch his games. So its just a give & take, compromise.
It’ll be a dream come true!
you are so me...
Samee
Same
This dude is just the visual representation of the kpop fandom in a nutshell 😂
Right???? We’re all like this here. This is the norm. I love that he’s proud of it
@@juliana3626 shut up. We all have a bias, but that doesn't mean we do't love all the members.
@@juliana3626 r/wooosshhhh
@@Error404SkyeNotFound but he was showing his love only for enhyuk,he didnt take Donghae hand, he didnt look at the others..When you stan a group you stan all of them not only one member, sure we all have bias but we support them all not only one person.
Kika Park I think that would be different for bts. I’m NOT a huge fan but still I can’t imagine myself ignoring jimin, v, even jin though jungkook’s my fave. For suju, although heechul’s my fave I wouldn’t ignore donghae, eunhyuk or siwon.
I mean who doesn’t love Super Junior? They’re really nice, funny as hell, and always treat their fans like family. A legend indeed.
Truee
it's 2 years later and i hope that fanboy met genuine friends who accepts his love for suju and left these "friends" either that or these two "friends" realized how toxic their thinking is
My little brother has loved GOT7 for three years and he got so tired of explaining himself that now when people ask if he’s gay he just says “yes. Leave me alone.” Even though he’s actually straight. I don’t think fangirl/fanboying over the same gender should be seen as a concern. It’s actually more concerning that some people refuse to be open minded and refuse to listen to an explanation.
Willow Moores phew, tell your brother, he made the right choice by loving got7. Stan got7, stan talent.
Ahgase!!! 👊👍💚
he does the right thing. who is his bias?
🐦💚
People who know me think it's odd I like Shinee they are like it's a male group and I'm like what's your point. You like rap and most of them are male you really wanna play the gender music game with me
I don't get it.. I'm a girl but... Just think about this. There are also like tons of guys fanboying over their favourite NBA players or other athletes. Why should guys fanboying over male idols be a concern?
Your right
Male idol groups cater to female audiences, singing love songs and wearing/doing sexual stuff. For most of suju's career, male idols didn't really do the cute concept either, it was more different variations of sexy.
I still think it's easy for guys to get into boy groups though because there is a lot of really amazing music.
I get what you're trying to say but it's not the same whatsoever.
That's very different.
Double standards are super high in Korea... So girl groups can have 'Girl crush' image and have numerous Girls as fans for themn and no one bats an eye but guys liking a Legendary Boy Group for 13 years is doubted as Gay? What kind of logic is that when he even had a gf
He bettered his health and mind bcoz of being inspired by SuJu! Thgat's an accomplishment in itself... I feel you, Bro bcoz I'm a guy too loving SuJu as a group since last year I've entered into kpop and became an ELF and ReVeluv ... DON'T CARE WHAT YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS SAY BECAUSE TRUE FRIENDS DON'T JUDGE YOU HARSHLY FOR YOUR INTERESTS !!!
Lyf for music great for you mam 👏👏
Dude, I'm not mam for godssakes !! Didn't u read my comment where I said I was a guy?
Lyf for music iam so sry I was supposed to type out man but my phn autocorrect sucks it typed something else sry . I love suju n red velvet too. Have a nice day
haha... One letter changes everything, isn't it ? :D
Yep true true
People are always surprised when they hear I like boygroups for their music and not their looks
Like goddamn they're artists not models
💙💙🥺
💜💜
SuJu is so appreciative of him
They don't act weirded out by this young man's love, they're happy!
I love SuJu
16:19 when the fan says he might lessen his obsession, and eunhyuk does that angry little "eh??" lmao scolding his own fan
His little "eh?" was like the cutest thing ever and idk how many times I've replayed it. Still counting (although I've lost count :P)
Ur name.. Wae🤧 it's cute
yes lmao, even he knew that his fanboy shouldn't be ashamed to be a fanboy of SUJU
He shouldn’t be embarrassed to be a fan of SuJu, but he needs to tone it down a notch.
@@G4MBIT why would he do that? To please other people?
You can see he is so sincere in his love because Super Junior brings him so much joy. He isn't a sasaeng fan and his love has brought him more benefits than negativity why can't they just let him live.But on the bright side he got to meet his favourite idols and sit next to his bias, congratulations to him=)
Nurul Fatimah and dance too not many fans get do that. He even happy when his friends said send him new video if their songs get likes 😂
HE IS SO PRECIOUS!!! This is not a concern and it doesn’t make him gay. I am completely in love with Sunny from SNSD, she is my everything, but I would never go lesbian for her. It’s so frustrating that it’s ok for girls to love girl idols but if guys loves guy idols they are gay and weird.... such a double standard.
Sunny.bias same iam completely in love with yoona from SNSD but i will never go lesbian for her.
Maybe its rare for fan boy to love boy groups...
can't relate because i would
Definitely! I am a multifandom gg stan and love my biases to death but that doesn’t say anything about me
Sunny.bias because u r not aboy u cant understand dear and i would tell that he shouldnt say oppa!!!!!girls when like girls they love to have as like their clothes makeup prettiness and so on they made u more feminne but here we see the oppisite ,try to understand me when my bro like some actor he wanted to be as like his body and behave manly
Heenim should be there to educate this narrow minded sheeps. I love how Shin Dong Yeop actually defended this guy. Little did they know that SDY has been rooting SJ since beginning. There’s nothing wrong with being a fanboys. Smh 🤦♀️
The members would always say that Eunhyuk is the ugliest member but he has sooo muuuch charisma and i can't deny how in love i am with him💙💙💙💙
OMG, what's the problem here tho? He makes money, spends it on what he loves. His friends are the problem, asking him if he's gay bc he likes an artist? Even if he was, then what? No one would look at him the wrong way if it was a girl group. It's the culture in Korea to buy a lot of albums, go to fansigns, concerts. It's a great hobby to have. Keeps him active, helps him meet new ppl. His friends could show a little interest or just ignore the messages, its not that hard. Also if he doesnt want to spend money on eating out with them, they can just hang out somewhere, cant they? Is it necessary to spend money on someone to keep the friendship going? I say, change your friends lol
Giyanka Are they really friends? if he was gay, it would do any harm to those “friends”
I hate his friends
Giyanka you are right and understand your point but in korea its kind of a problem when you don't pay for meals because going out to eat its the only way people hang out together.
I dont say i agree because abviously for everyone else (not korean) the friends are not real friends but even like being gay in korea is a tabu topic so they are ashamed of him acting girly and stuff like that.
Its just a concern for the friends in korea, for foreigners the concern are the friends because we have a more open minded view
I don't think this was a serious problem and they realized that. It's just for entertainment because SUJU was there and it was cute
His friends might find that weird
He is so sweet. I mean he is a fan for 13 years. This is truly amazing
He also likes TVXQ..This guy has great taste in groups 😁
ikr
He had their Secret Code poster, their albums as 5 and their earlier Keep Your Head Down and In Heaven albums! And I’ve got a feeling he purposely showed their Secret Code poster when he sent the photo of his SuJu poster as proof! 😍
Felt that if TVXQ didn’t break up, he would have talked about his love for both groups 😣
He also had TVXQ Spellbound album wow 😂
Yeah yeah!!!! I'm so happy!! ❣️ (7:39 the poster was showed and 7:42 KEEP YOUR HEAD DOWN AND AYYY GIRL )
well, his ultimate bias group is SUPER JUNIOR. He is a huge fan of SuJu not a casual fan that's why he is in this show
I have to admit that it was the first time I saw Eunhyuk and I swear my heart is beating so fast whenever he is on screen woow!!! What a man...😲
Eunhyuk is soo darn handsome😍😍
He still looks like he's in his 20s
Damn he's a lucky fan! And I'm so happy for him to sit right next to his bias and suju. 😆 This is not a concern at all in my opinion. I agree with Yesung's opinion.
Farima Sultani ut its good that shindong point out that it can be a concern in his part since even his friend tease him and call him names. Its hard when people are too close minded and when they misunderstood and judge u
Armi Sky Shindong's point is right. But as you said there are narrowed minded people in the world and I personally ignore such people because of their own ignorant/restricted mindset. A person shouldn't try to hide their true self for the sake of others.
Man I almost cried when Eunhyuk was reading his letter! You can feel the how much he looks up to these guys, I hate that there is that conception that bc you love an artist it means you’re attracted to them. As if they are only there to be sexualized. Like damn did his friends ever think wow he looks up to them and all the positive change they have brought him. He better himself physically and mentally as he said he was shy before and became more out going bc of them. Smh
Emily Cabral he is saying oppa is that normal behaving feminine !!!!his friends know that his reactions overboard ...
@@tanbey3626 is that all you care about?? Who cares?
tan bey kpop idols also say that jokingly to each other and nobody gives a damn
i cried..
I love that he bowed graciously when he took his letter. He seemed genuinely touched by his devotion! ^^
*he's so adorable when he's flustered around Super Junior xD*
I had a classmate in high school who used to like SuJu so much he'd dance to their songs (and he danced well tbh) during our breaks and stuff. Even when the teachers in P.E asked the class to have groups and perform, he only danced to suju's songs and even led his groupmates well. We didn't really think he was gay or something tbh just bc of that... I even ended up stanning suju (and him lmao he's too cute and he danced well and even sung well so how could i not 😂) because of him. That wasn't really a concern, objectively speaking. Idk how this would be a concern for koreans :/ the people coming to hello counselor mostly are concerned because koreans (not all) just give out unnecessary judgments. We must all live in peace despite our different preferences and Y'ALL JUST STAN SUJU
I like how he only looks at his bias and not the other members
That was cute :(💚
why is it boys cant be a fan of boy groups when girls can be a fan of girl groups? well, that's double standard mentality
Jinseok ssi~ good job! spread the love :))
sayangyanghaeyo i agree with u
You CAN lmao theres no law in that.
Theres girls who people call them lesbians in a bad way because they like girls idols.
sayangyanghaeyo Honestly ~
aaaaah idunno i really want to know the reason too. As a dude it would ofc feel weird(not that i think it is but just imaging it) if a guy likes a guy/idol (i want to include that the gay topic etc isnt an open topic in SK), but they have hella pleasure when its girlxgirl...
when it comes of seeing it from girls eyes hmmmmm.. i dont mind a dude liking a male idol or a girl liking a girl idol, but i think ppl (girls) that are just jealous n bitchy that would be disgusted by the girls liking girl groups ._.
aaaaaaah the world is weird >.
Exactly😩
Well his friends were mad homophobic. The fact that his friends would treat him as less of man or say he's living incorrectly because he acts "feminine" and loves a boy group is the actual concern.
I just shake my head in disappointment every time they speak
i have a boy friend whose a lot more feminine than I but he's actually straight. And it has never been a concern to us.
I agree with this. Although it doesn't matter what is sexuality is, it seems his friends are afraid of him actually being gay
It's not just them, it's Korea itself. It's not a safe country for lgbtq people to come out even to this day. You can watch videos of Koreans coming out to their Parents, although many parents are supportive, they tell their kids to not tell anyone else in korea.
Viyanca
Its not homophobia to say the truth
Don’t let you feelings ruin your life
Natural logic go against this lifestyle
Literally me ... I feel you bro.
Be proud there aren't a lot of male kpop fans
fab myg hahahaa the fanboys are actually the best
I’m a female and I love Twice so so so much, my friends literally keep asking if I’m gay, even though I have a boy Friend, it’s so frustrating
Trisha Lee i really understand you becouse we same👧
Got7teenSHINee is the best combination tbh i really tink that fanboys are special because mostly girls are fans of boy froups but fanboys are the best
I just want to say one thing that the moment he hold EUNHYUK'S hand my heart said: he's an EUNHYUK fan in SUJU. The way he was flustered/shy around SUPER JUNIOR would be totally me if I was in place of him. Just the difference is I would not have been conscious anymore and specially beside EUNHYUK coz he's my UB.😘😘😘😘
Lol dude, I'm a 24 year old straight man and Super Junior is my favourite guy group lol. Of course I love girl idols too, but they have different vibes. I only like cool older idols like SuJu, TVXQ, Big Bang and for younger groups, Winner and BtoB.
For girl groups I love SNSD, CLC, Sistar, AoA etc.
This fanboy may start making all fanboys in Korea being brave attending Boy Groups concerts
It's a concern. But only because of his friends. He needs new ones!
Friends need to respect and accept their friends for who they are! Male k-ELFs should maybe make a sub fan club to support eachother and connect with eachother? There's nothing wrong to be a male fan of male kpop groups!
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And on a sidenote i just need to say that it's nothing wrong with being gay either!
Sofia A i think there are more male international fan that kelf heheheh
Its not wrong to be a male fan but its wrong to be gay
Walking Carat How? Being gay just means that a boy likes guys. There's literally nothing wrong with it.
Walking Carat please go get educated.
Walking Carat. You should have walked right pass this comment.
There is _nothing_ wrong with being gay.
I am pansexual wich counts as being gay in most eyes. PRIDE LGBTQ!
I hope the stereotypes of 'boys liking boy groups are weird' would be gone, cause there's completely NOTHING wrong with it! If girls can like girl groups, guys should be able to have that choice as well :)
And tbh, there are many boy groups out there that are very charming, be it Gen2 era or those existing now, and even if they have fanboys, I can totally get why. There's is just simply nothing wrong with one being happy over the things that he/she likes as long as it doesn't cause any harm to anyone :)
the homophobia coming from his friends reeks
they said they dont have a problem with him liking SJ or bgs in general but he keeps shoving his love for them in their face which they dont like it makes them uncomfortable
@@ivanlu8353 nono here shes talking about when his friend told him not to be feminine and do gestures 19:40
@@ivanlu8353 that is what they all say when driven into a corner
He likes Eunyuk's teeth 😆 I love Shingdon for been not the standard size male idol! Let's love the uniqueness in idols 🙆
“Did you hear the definition of a friend from him?”
Damn 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I loved it haha
Eunhyuk is such a cutie! He's so nice and sweet towards the fan. All of SuJu were really kind and supporting, that was so nice to see ♡ The 'friends' annoyed me so much though, like seriously, it's not a concern or weird at all, he's just a great fan and that's awesome 😊
So "he's not a man" if he's fan of a boy group, covers his mouth when laughing, and acts feminine?? Wow true friends there 👏
eyeyeyeyey - I shouldn't be here i would tell if ur brother or sister do something over board u also will warning them his friends asking for living his own life and not to be feminine is that mean they dont love him!!!!also his friends know that if he will like agirl she might me pissed because he is overboard and he is saying oppa!!!!!
after seeing this i wanna stan sj, they are so lovely. the way they all smiled and laughed when he was dancing. so precious
I always tell my friends to listen to music I like and I don't think it's frustrating. It's not like I force them into it. I just tell them to listen.
And the way Eunhyuk toned down his dance moves to match the fan ❤️
Same. I like, no I mean I love Eunhyuk oppa ever since I knew them 💙💙💙
i love eunhyuk
Your name XD
Bangotwicexo Pop
I can't think of anything that will express my love for Eunhyuk oppa 😂
Miriam Kalala
Yes he is beautiful 💙
I think that time when others call him ugly is because he hasnt fully blossomed but look at him now he is so attractive I mean he is very talented his looks is just bonus to us
me to I'm falling in love with eunhyuk in the first sight ... I don't agree with you shindong
Miriam Kalala maybe his face isn't popular for Koreans but for me he is one of the handsome idols I knew.
I agree with Super Junior, the reason this is a concern in reality is because this is a concern to some people, the issue here isn't that he is a fan of a boy group; it is because people think that that is a problem. Besides, if I'm honest I didn't expect the MC's (who I love and support) to question his sexuality, I understand that its what the majority of people may question when they hear of the 'concern'. But I dont think anyone would expect him to openly announce he is homosexual or heterosexual. I love how Super Junior (Eunhyuk in particular) treated him, like they say, they want to appeal to males and females and to make a male being their fan not a problem anymore.
May we just speak about how brave this guy is?
Being in love with SuJu, and having Eunhyuk as a bias .. this is so relatable 😂 💙💙💙 ! There's nothing wrong with him, fanboys are amazing ! Seeing SuJu being so supportive and sweet to him made me so happy !!! That's why they will always be my favourite !
Well how come girls can like girl and boy groupa, but boys can only like girl groups ?!
Ikr 😐
Maybe attracted to the opposite sex? It's possible...
It's called Toxic Masculinity(tm)
That my friend is toxic masculinity. Also as a girl who loves ggs my peers treat it as a concern and something sus. It's annoying honestly
@@yoshiwenkai586
Me too i'm more into ggs (but the only bg and the most group i like is ofc bts among all of them) but other than that i don't really listen to bgs that much as ggs(like twice and bp)
and it's annoying when ppl think about it as a sexual thing
Like it's just a group and music
Shindong: How did you lose weight? Tell me." lol.
HAHAHAHAHA.
I wanted to know it too... But he said while watching the videos... Maybe he dance to the songs while watching... Let's try that...
Now, ShinDong really lost 37kg. He will new visual of SJ
His friends are the problem ! What's wrong with being a male fan of Suju ...
I feel so touching, I only see a true ELF on him... He already became an ELF for so long time and never distract by other groups makes me wanna cry... he's so faith (I think he would do the same with his future girlfriend who understand him) T.T
Thanks for the good job, let's continue support them ^^
I feel him. Eunhyuk is also my bias.
Also I love Suju even more after this video bcs they are okay with having male fans and I honestly think that is okay. I think is okay for males to love male groups and artists
What’s wrong in him liking suju? You can’t help loving suju, they are addictive!
ELF forever ❤️
That was cute. It makes me happy he's such a pure-hearted fan
I’m so happy that Super Junior was supportive of him. I remember a while ago there was a male fan of Sungjong from Infinite, and the Infinite members seemed put off by him. I wish people didn’t poke their noses where they aren’t needed, so male fans like him can live in peace.
On a separate note, SuJu (especially Eunhyuk and Donghae) looking on fleek 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
put off in the sense weren't happy to see him? why?
Lyf for music turn off, the male fan only liking sungjong and sunggyu maybe a bit disgusted by him because he really love sungjong and call sungjong cute pretty handsome
Ohh, that would've been weird for other members... It's normal having a bias in a group and loving the group as a whole, but only liking a single person wouldn't make him a fan at all bcoz only if that person has solo stuff and you only like his music and not group's music then it is acceptable, but if not that might make the member feel uncomfortable in front of his members.
Lyf for music Oh okay, I watched it a long time ago... I thought the male fan also listened to Infinite and his bias was Sungjong... his behavior is seemed to be something that most K-fangirls indulge in, so it was sad to see him being judged for something like that just because of his gender
Manas Subbaraman Infinite is not like that. They're a group full of kind guys. That guy is most prolly just a solo fan, which is obviously uncomfortable for the group man cmon common sense. Maybe, you're unaware, bt it's fine. Infinite has quite a fair share of fanboys too.
He needs new friends. Just cuz he likes a male group doesn't make him weird or gay and even if he is so what? He seems like a decent person and super junior helped him feel better.
If a girl was obsessed with a female group no one would care. Ugh, this makes me so upset......
I love how eunhyuk and the members protect their own fans and makes it nature and not being stereotype a guy loving a male group
His friends are absolute jerks and I hope he dropped them after this. There's nothing wrong with acting feminine, nor with him being a fan of Suju. He's not a crazy fan and they've obviously bettered his life. I like how the band stood up for him, really shows you that they appreciate their fans.
I will be honest this is the only episode that made me cried! I feel the same way with Kpop, they saved my life I even wanted to end with my life but their happy songs and their vibe saved me, I am a fan just like him fighthing bro you are not alone
Dont end your life.. please..
Miseop Lee they made u saying oppa also!!!or helped u to be more manly??as like when girl love girl idol she want to buy as her makeup and outfit and so on!!
Why am I falling for Eunhyuk? 😂
Same here 😄
true this is my first time actually seeing him (other than him with the rest of the members) and I am already stanning him
What is there not to fall for him.. He's gorgeous
He is really so handsome here!!
Who doesnt T_T
As what I said on other videos (the game addicted one) this person also got hobbies/things he likes which is fanboying. but what makes it different is he still can manage his daily life (work, keep healthy, social life ect) he's one of the good example of balancing between hobby and daily life
He is a true definition of FAN. He love suju, went to their concert, buy their album, listen to their songs but not stalking them. He try to promote suju to his friends till they feel annoyed but doesn't do any harm to suju member.
Sitting beside the people you look up to.. Woah! I'm happy for him. We all deserve a share of joy in life 💚👍
But like side note: I'm literally him when it comes to sending random kpop vids and pictures to friends so I GET IT PLEASE DONT FEEL ASHAMED OF BEING AN AMAZING FAN😄😄😄
same here! i'm pretty sure many more kpop fans send stuff to their friends it's just because we want to share how awesome they are
Me to. I am ExoL so I send lots of thier MV 👅👅👅
I'm a fanboy of EXO, and I don't find that a concern
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❤️ Fanboy can make them look more handsome
OWAA hello there! I'M exo fangirl 😂🔫
ExoL jjang
Exo fanboy here
Seems like his "friends" are more insecure about themselves tbh
ikr
They were being such twats
Agree........
I feel him LoLs.. When you hear Super junior songs you just want to dance to them.. And the ballads are so fantastic I fell In love with them and made them my favorite songs I listened to when I go to sleep.
ELF only can relate!!! I’m in love with them for 12 years now
At 8:53, Shindong oppa, there's nothing to be sorry 😅😅 Super Junior's songs are so addicted and I must have been played them hundreds times 😊😊😊
This is far from a concern. I find it more troubling that in Korea it seems strange that a man like a male group. Liking Super Junior has had a positive impact on his life so how can this be a concern?... Maybe he should find other friends instead. These friends don't support him as real friends should do.
my heart really flutters because i can truly feel his love. and this is what fandom is about: joy, inspiration, hope. i understand him thinking it's a concern because people can't understand what he just loves. ELF FOREVER ♥
He’s so adorable, fanboying over Eunhyuk
This is the third time i watch this video and i never get bored. He a big fan and i am so respect him alot. And we have same bias aka Eunhyuk 💙 I hope he still big fans of super junior and i wish his life full of happiness 😊💙
so amazed he could keep his cool enough to do the dances with his bias!!! lol i would have just died
FANBOYS NEED TO BE PROTECTED
WHAT KIND OF FRIENDS ARE THOSE
I v been Girls Generation fans since debut and for all the time ppl keep sayin dat im a lesbian . :(( at first i was so sad. But now i dont really care anymore. I just let them said whatever they want.
송Candy thats sad :( but its cool u ignore them and continue to stan snsd
Don’t be gyaliee😭❤️! Do what YOU like. At the end of the day, thats all that matters😘😘!
go go sones! dont let them get u down! Fighting !!!!!
Sones and ELFs forever!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I feel you, I copied Sunny’s Hairstyle on the “The Boys Era” and some of the person who knows me said that I’m a lesbian and that made me sad too.
16:15 SO CUTE HAHAHAA EUNHYUK ALMOST DISAPPOINTED XD
The way he was being supportive WE STAN
I understand friends being embarrassed in a fun way when one goes overboard with any fandom but the other reasons by those guys are so homophobic and toxic.
i just want to let all the male elfs out there (straight or queer) know that there is nothing wrong with you for being a fan of men 💖💕 we all support the same incredible people and that should bring us together. i understand that people may look down on you in your personal life (depending on where youre from) but i would like your experience with other elfs to be nothing but joyful~ i would never think youre weird for loving those 13 (+2) talented idiots ♡♡
If it was BigBang noone would blams him... Or some K HipHop rapper or even crew...
Why does it have to be this way? Enjoy what you do and do not change^^
SarisWelt right. Like hiphop and rap is the only way to go when your idolizing male idol..
Armi Sky And are male...
But females can idolize female groups all they want without being asked if they are lesbian...
So sad
actually, i don't think that's true. men love bb, but not that diehard way girls and women do. i mean,they aren't expected to. like, I've seen so many fans of gd or top, but an actual fan boy, to this point, rarely comes out.
realist Well do you know JRE? He is some diehard fanboy😂 Or Kenny^^
But I just said that if there were one in korea, it would probably get accepted. Because of the image BB has...
+SarisWelt Classic #DoubleStandard
This made me cry. He made his dream come true, oh gosh, I'm so happy for him!! :')
It's so amazing that Suju has such a positive effect on him! Losing 50kg is INCREDIBLE!
2:28 EUNHYUK WAS STARTLED
Me: *likes the video*
Also me: *goes back to like the video again*
Me again:* gets sad finding out i already liked it*
Me again again: *repeats*
Umm why?
I feel that it's very normal for a male to fan over a male band. Who can blame him, it's Super Junior. But seriously, I love Kwon Yuri and am obsessed with her, but that doesn't determine my sexual preference. I think people need to be more open minded, it's the 21st century.
I understand him totally. I'm a girl and I like boygroup (im inspirit), I don't like any girlgroup. So people assume that I'm straight. But when they found out that im lesbian, they are all shocked!! They be like "thats no way u r lesbian when u r a big fan of a boygroup". I don't know why they all said that, I mean I like infinite cause they are all talented, they sing and dance well, also my bias is sungjong, i like him bc his bright personality attract me like i want to be his friend. I like them not in a delusional way that I want them as my boyfriend. People should know that. Stop assuming ppl sexual orientation just by looking at what they like
Same! But I'm ace. I'm Army and people assume I'm straight. I reveal I'm ace and they don't believe me saying I'm a liar
황Klaudia same
I'm bisexual but they think i'm boy crazy
황Klaudia where u from ?
@@tanbey3626 singapore
황Klaudia what the reason made u gay is that because of ur open country i wonder or because u seeing abig amount of people in ur country and they do whatever because u r open minded ? i would say having limits is good because we are human we have brain
6:08 "it's hard to love someone who looks like this"
Me: *choked*
Wow!! I'm impressed! The hardcore fan of SuJu... All Elf would be proud of him coz SuJu clearly has a positive influence on him.. This is not concern at all, but commendable!
I lost it When shindong asked "How did he lose weight?" OMG HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Shin-Ae
They are not "friends". Sorry " friends". Friends respect each other's beliefs, lifestyle.SJ save his life by losing weight, being active and meeting other fans.So yes!dance all you want, it makes you healthier & happier. Isn't that what life's goal is?Achieving happiness?
J O in korea they call them friend if they have the same age sadly thats how it goes they have too much walls with age seniority etc
I don’t see this as a concern at all. In fact, I understand his pure heart for being such a fan! Keep doing what makes you happy 😃
His friends scream “insecurity” lmao , they need to get out of that damn closet
Eunhyuk looks so good in orange. My harttt 😭💙💙