What if I Just Want to Live a Simple Life?

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

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  • @farmgirl1560
    @farmgirl1560 7 месяцев назад +593

    This is exactly how I live now. No debt, no fancy labels. Gave up Facebook and limiting the internet overall. Days feel slower, calmer, happier. Suddenly have all this extra time for reading etc. I’ve never really been materialistic. If something is functional that’s what matters, not how much it cost or what it looks like.

    • @kscott7657
      @kscott7657 7 месяцев назад +18

      Dreamy! Love this

    • @Sentimentalist0923
      @Sentimentalist0923 7 месяцев назад +40

      Same! The peace is priceless.

    • @retha6504
      @retha6504 7 месяцев назад +11

      100%

    • @kathycooper9577
      @kathycooper9577 7 месяцев назад +22

      My sons won't have to spend days cleaning out my house if and when. That certainly give me piece of mind.

    • @Sheryl777
      @Sheryl777 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@kathycooper9577 👍

  • @julies3490
    @julies3490 7 месяцев назад +299

    "I have no interest in competing with other people..." Thank you

  • @kd2533
    @kd2533 7 месяцев назад +284

    It happened to me at 40. No social media. Work 4 days not 5. I started feeling repelled by consumer burnout and wanted less material. Cleared out my home. I appreciate a hot bath, warm tea and time with family. Now at 42 soon, I'm happiest with less

    • @kimdavis5403
      @kimdavis5403 7 месяцев назад +14

      Same!! Eighteen years of no debt, peace, contentment but also adventure and gratitude.

    • @betterme8412
      @betterme8412 6 месяцев назад +2

      I'll b turning 40 soon n I'm feeling the same way already! Let's be friends!😊

    • @MultiLinda42
      @MultiLinda42 6 месяцев назад +4

      I m 56..got another job nearer to where i live. Free rides to work and back to home. In july will be working 4 days.❤ thinking about ditchin my car..

    • @kingtrance307
      @kingtrance307 6 месяцев назад +4

      You guys are a threat to the national GDP! 😂

    • @flamingofan5411
      @flamingofan5411 5 месяцев назад

      @@kingtrance307. Lol!
      Well since Government spending, including war spending, takes up a big chunk, it won’t be going down anytime soon. Unfortunately 🫤

  • @jsully7426
    @jsully7426 7 месяцев назад +306

    I love watching the birds eat the feed I provided, reading a book, and seeing others happy.

    • @daughterofmyabba
      @daughterofmyabba 7 месяцев назад +16

      I love feeding and watching the birds too. 🐦 ❤

    • @amymartin5753
      @amymartin5753 7 месяцев назад +17

      Joyful simplicity ❤️❤️

    • @mariahsmom9457
      @mariahsmom9457 7 месяцев назад +5

      I really love the birds too! any animals really.

    • @jablot5054
      @jablot5054 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Angela-qc1exyou need to get rid of religion too. That is limiting you.

    • @heartsandmindsathome
      @heartsandmindsathome 7 месяцев назад +2

      Beautiful!!

  • @stscc2009
    @stscc2009 7 месяцев назад +109

    I say this exact thing all the time. I just want a simple life. I want peaceful days and restful nights.

    • @alcantwell
      @alcantwell 4 месяца назад +4

      "peaceful days and restful nights" sounds wonderful. It could even be a mantra.

  • @noble604
    @noble604 7 месяцев назад +195

    Went on a 2.5 hr drive yesterday to visit family and drove the speed limit. Every single semi, truck and car passed by me, and some passed me by a 15 -20mph margin. I simply wasn’t up to barreling and racing to keep up with the world rather choosing to stay in my lane and enjoy the little trip. Must we fly everywhere, all the time, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in a fit of rage and “productivity?” I just want quiet and settled peace and I aim to live my life this way.

    • @gregflores8959
      @gregflores8959 7 месяцев назад +15

      I drive professionally ( CDL), 99 % of drivers exceed the posted speed, had a school bus driver rip past me recently, must have been donin 80 mph, I too stay in the slow lane puttin along at 65.

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 7 месяцев назад +1

      I’m fine with people doing the exact speed limit but I find people out sauntering on a single lane road going 20 under. Please, pull over if you see 20 cars behind you. Let’s all be safe on the road and be aware of other drivers. Thank you. 😊

    • @noble604
      @noble604 7 месяцев назад +5

      cjhoward - Driving 20mph beneath the posted speed limit on a single lane road, blocking cars behind us from their progression and not caring about others would be obnoxious and it wasn’t what this comment was about.
      Racing 85mph everywhere necessary and it isn’t a simple life. A simple life is what I hope to live. 🌱

    • @randallhill7979
      @randallhill7979 7 месяцев назад +2

      I’m trying to get to that level

    • @noble604
      @noble604 7 месяцев назад

      randallhill - I understand. I am not there myself. In order for me to be there for the majority of the time driving, I have to also work on other areas of my life and simplify those areas. I must be extremely organized and allow plenty of time to drive everywhere ahead of time at the speed limit. And, I must be mentally prepared, because to drive at that speed on most roads is almost certainly going to result in lots of anger aimed towards me, horns blowing, rage filled, very dangerous psssing of me.... so it’s almost causing much more stress to go at the limit than if you sped like everyone else. 😩
      I just didn’t feel like flying that day.
      I’ve had a lot going on with my family,
      Ive had to make many personal adjustments in the past few years with family events and I simply wanted to make the visit and not be full of anxiety after being pushed along for 2.5hours.
      The way we drive today is simply unnecessary.
      It’s anxiery inducing and cuts off years from our lives. We can do better and we will do better as we do it more each day. 🌱

  • @mozar5175
    @mozar5175 7 месяцев назад +186

    You are so right! I am now 60 years old and I always wanted to live a simple, debt free life. I was able to reach that goal in my mid-fifties. My wife and I are fortunate to live just a few mile from city center but in a condo adjacent to a beautiful river and parks. I have a morning routine of having a coffee, interesting discussions with my wife, reading the newspaper. The rest of the day is pretty much free for doing what I like. I limit my interactions with people who are talking only about themselves and their possessions. That includes limiting interactions with family members when I’m able to avoid a family reunion. I own an iPhone 7, it works perfectly fine! I take long walk in the woods and long bike rides in the country side. This lifestyle allows me to take my 86 year old mother for lunch every second week and spend quality time with her, i fully realize that her time left on this planet is now limited. I refuse to compare myself or to compete with others about money, possessions, etc.

    • @Glorybee446
      @Glorybee446 7 месяцев назад +18

      Your life is ideal. I hope you enjoy any more years of happiness. Bless you for honoring your mother.

    • @little_light7555
      @little_light7555 7 месяцев назад +12

      You sound like a lovely person with great values. You struck a chord with me when you mentioned limiting interactions with people who only talk of themselves and possessions.

    • @jablot5054
      @jablot5054 7 месяцев назад +8

      Same. I avoid people as much as possible,so many have become brainwashed. That includes family.

    • @patriciam.909
      @patriciam.909 7 месяцев назад +7

      Your life sounds lovely.

    • @Nan-59
      @Nan-59 7 месяцев назад +2

      You’re supposed to still have your mom❤❤❤❤
      My mom died in 1994 when I was 35
      But my dad lived until 2005

  • @anitavirginillo
    @anitavirginillo 7 месяцев назад +102

    I love the simple, minimalist lifestyle

  • @jayathome2898
    @jayathome2898 7 месяцев назад +118

    Yes I’ve always said I want a small, simple life. Just full of love, joy, gratitude and giving.

  • @giennefarcais6834
    @giennefarcais6834 7 месяцев назад +111

    Beautifully said. Society seems to be going to hell in a hand basket. I don't even own a hand basket anymore; I donated it to my local thrift shop.

  • @fwebster6226
    @fwebster6226 7 месяцев назад +67

    I’m with you Joshua - hustle culture is toxic

  • @jcampbell2481
    @jcampbell2481 6 месяцев назад +38

    You have your life on the right track. I took early retirement at 54 and my life has been just amazing after leaving the rat race. I drive a 20 year old car that I bought new. I considered buying a new car, but realized I'm very happy with my 20 year old car and I will drive it for many more years. My cell phone I have had for about 15 years, and everyone asks how I get by with a "stupid phone". I live life in the slow lane and enjoy it very much. Yes, less is more.

    • @leuchtrakete7093
      @leuchtrakete7093 6 месяцев назад +6

      I drive a honda from 1998 and its more reliable than most modern cars

    • @Prodrive1
      @Prodrive1 6 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@leuchtrakete7093old Japanese cars last forever. Especially Toyotas.

  • @grooviechickie
    @grooviechickie 7 месяцев назад +61

    Love this. Gave up social media 18 months ago and it's been bliss! Only watch the news from time to time because I feel it gives nothing to society and only makes me miserable.
    We rent our house because we simply cannot afford to buy (Australia is obscenely expensive), and so it is what it is. I have accepted that I will be renting for the rest of my life.
    I limit how much I work (at my low-paying but very low-stress job) because I have caring responsibilities, and I refuse to sacrifice my mental and physical wellbeing on the altar of consumerism. It gives me time to read, cook, garden, write, create, spend time with friends and family, and to enjoy my life.
    This is worth more than money. ❤

    • @jenniferblack3274
      @jenniferblack3274 7 месяцев назад +4

      We also rent here in our area of the USA. Housing has become very expensive and in our late 50’s the last thing we want is a huge mortgage with huge payments. We are happy renting though as the stress of upkeep of a home is less. When something breaks I just call the landlord. We too will probably never own again and I also am okay with that.

  • @michelesusanne1
    @michelesusanne1 7 месяцев назад +95

    It was eye opening to have 1500 facebook "friends" including family and after a few weeks when I went off FB, only 2 people contacted me to see how I was. I don't have friends but I have my immediate family and the Lord.

    • @sheloveswhimsy
      @sheloveswhimsy 7 месяцев назад +6

      I know! I know, you’re so right on!

    • @tammyr...9209
      @tammyr...9209 7 месяцев назад +8

      I did that for one yr only 2 people on my list contacted my daughter to see if I was okay. Big eye opener .

    • @JK-vc7ie
      @JK-vc7ie 7 месяцев назад +1

      Apparently you are not a friend to other people. It cuts both ways.

    • @michelesusanne1
      @michelesusanne1 7 месяцев назад +3

      @JK-vc7ie I realized I am the one who almost always reached out and when I stopped, they didn't step up. I am happier not spending so much time on social media.

    • @APW-ry2ok
      @APW-ry2ok 6 месяцев назад +3

      Sad as it seems most people don’t care ,we are all on the same train and just getting off at different stations……Best things in life are the simple things ,personally I love to walk along the beach first thing as soon as I wake up (live by the beach and love it) this guy is spot on….

  • @ChristineKeen-v1e
    @ChristineKeen-v1e 7 месяцев назад +104

    Thankyou Joshua. I am working on owning less. I already live a fairly quiet life as a widow of 80 but my things are a burden i am slowly letting go. 🙏🏽💙

    • @Glorybee446
      @Glorybee446 7 месяцев назад +14

      I'm a widow of 79 and find all my stuff a burden now. I hope we both find peace with less.

    • @lynnoorman2144
      @lynnoorman2144 7 месяцев назад +14

      I'm only 65, but I am in agreement with you both, ladies. I am decluttering and have been for 9 years! Why did I buy all this stuff,in the first place? Mostly in an attempt to fit in, I think.

    • @abcdefghijk5095
      @abcdefghijk5095 6 месяцев назад +2

      God bless you.

    • @lisamariesmith3610
      @lisamariesmith3610 6 месяцев назад +2

      Same here ladies and you find that family often don’t have the nostalgia or fondness for the family items.

  • @daughterofmyabba
    @daughterofmyabba 7 месяцев назад +64

    Well said, we (my husband and I) have a small simple homestead and it brings us much joy, we dont grow enough of anything to "live independently" and are fine with the realization that we need others, God designed us to be part of a community. Its a joy to find something you are good at and enjoy doing and doing it in a simple way. We dont have to go over the top with things or seek to be "self sufficient" just enjoy the gifts God has given you, use them to bring him glory, share with others and its truly a joyful way to live.
    The promises given by attaining more are empty and will never satisfy. Jesus brings joy and He says with food and ramient be content. He knows just what we need. Overabundance, unless we give it away, becomes a burden.

    • @sheloveswhimsy
      @sheloveswhimsy 7 месяцев назад +6

      Amen!!! Thank you for sharing this.

    • @jablot5054
      @jablot5054 7 месяцев назад

      If you ditch the religion you will be happy. Live you own live not one according to some random made up book.

    • @deborahpellerito6117
      @deborahpellerito6117 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@jablot5054Please get a clue before it's too late you don't know when you are going to Diego to Jesus

    • @tigerwong9845
      @tigerwong9845 4 месяца назад +1

      @@jablot5054nobody asked you. Mind your own business. If you want to be supportive, then do so; if not, carry on…random person.

  • @mariec6813
    @mariec6813 7 месяцев назад +16

    I 100% agree with this. I used to be everywhere, doing everything. Now, I find I prefer to stay at home with my pets. I work from home and achieved President's Club at my job this year but instead of going on the fancy trip I chose to stay home because my pets were more important to me than that trip. Many might not understand but it doesn't matter to me anymore. I want to live a simple life with the ones that make me happy. ❤

  • @SusanL-ds6lc
    @SusanL-ds6lc 7 месяцев назад +63

    I choose to not own a "smart" phone. I have just a basic flip phone for calls & texts. No apps or social media on it. My husband has no cell phone @ all. I also don't use Facebook, Tic-Toc, Instagram, etc. It's possible to live this way & it allows for a simpler life. I wouldn't want it any other way. I'm not ambitious career wise, but I am ambitious in my relationship with God. xo

    • @amymartin5753
      @amymartin5753 7 месяцев назад +4

      How do you do RUclips? Through the computer?

    • @SusanL-ds6lc
      @SusanL-ds6lc 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@amymartin5753 Yes :)

    • @SusanL-ds6lc
      @SusanL-ds6lc 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@Angela-qc1ex Thank you. xo

    • @dawnwasshoward
      @dawnwasshoward 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@amymartin5753 I watch on television.

    • @Angela-qc1ex
      @Angela-qc1ex 7 месяцев назад

      @@SusanL-ds6lc I've got a lot of confused looks when I tell someone randomly that I only have 2 phone number contacts and I guess they don't understand I love God More and my phone is not important... / Sorry for the late response but I'm actually going sit down outside and just rest myself and then take a nap / but I definitely won't be paying my (replenish payment ) next month either I have better things to donate my money to do to save for St Jude Children's hospital in Texas 🙏🫤💜 take care and thank you for sharing and respecting to respond 💜

  • @kaceykelly7222
    @kaceykelly7222 7 месяцев назад +74

    HALLELUJAH! This is the best so far and it is the solution to the majority of problems the world has today.

  • @Glorybee446
    @Glorybee446 7 месяцев назад +65

    My son just had open heart surgery and I hope he would agree with you. I know it has made him appreciate the simple joys of life.

    • @Debbiesdilemmas
      @Debbiesdilemmas 7 месяцев назад +12

      Wishing your son all the best in his recovery.❤️🙏 I truly believe that when your health has been compromised you see life in a different way.

    • @Glorybee446
      @Glorybee446 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@Debbiesdilemmas Thank you for your kind words and prayers. I'm grateful he will get to see his baby grow up now.

    • @dawnwasshoward
      @dawnwasshoward 7 месяцев назад +4

      Also wishing your son a full recovery and a long life. My son was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 31 (he's now 36). It's so hard to see your child so ill. Lots of love and prayers for all your family, may you have many happy years and memories ahead of you. 😋🥰😍

    • @Glorybee446
      @Glorybee446 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@dawnwasshowardThank you. I pray your son does well.

    • @dawnwasshoward
      @dawnwasshoward 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@Glorybee446 He's getting better, lots of love and prayers to you, wishing your family many happy years.

  • @Coddiwompling
    @Coddiwompling 7 месяцев назад +45

    "Let's not lose sight of the beauty of contentment. " 🎉
    3:41

  • @thebarky1988
    @thebarky1988 7 месяцев назад +23

    We had numerous family deaths and health issues the last few years. I also have no desire in competing with people. I am also selective with who I spend time with. Peace is very important to me.

  • @YevetteGooden
    @YevetteGooden 7 месяцев назад +32

    I recently closed an Etsy shop for this very reason. It quickly evolved into a stressful hustle and that’s not what I wanted. BTW thank you for speaking at a normal pace and not from that side hustle mentality.

    • @dawnwasshoward
      @dawnwasshoward 7 месяцев назад +3

      I make a lot of things (mostly knitting) I give them as gifts or donate then to charity. I make things at my own speed (slow) very relaxing.

    • @YevetteGooden
      @YevetteGooden 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@dawnwasshoward That’s exactly what I’ve decided to do with my Bible Printable’s. Give them away as freebies from my website and to prisons. Thanks for sharing. 💐

    • @Loveintowellness
      @Loveintowellness 6 месяцев назад +1

      I have always wanted a business. I'm just not ready for all that stress. I want to do things on my time. How is your website doing? That's my focus right now. Thank you.

  • @kakylong2
    @kakylong2 7 месяцев назад +48

    Joshua, Amen! I've had my phone for several yrs & it has a crack on it & I refuse to buy a new one. We were able to pay our mortgage off 11 yrs early.. It's been awesome! 😊

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 7 месяцев назад +3

      There are many places where you could take your phone to get the screen replaced on your phone and get a new battery replacement for it as well

    • @kakylong2
      @kakylong2 7 месяцев назад +4

      My Hubby took it to our provider & it was going to cost $250. The phone isn't worth that much now. We haven't taken it anywhere else to ck.

    • @jablot5054
      @jablot5054 7 месяцев назад +1

      Just get rid of the phone.

    • @kakylong2
      @kakylong2 7 месяцев назад +2

      I'm currently still using it. 🤪

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@kakylong2 yep, no need if it’s still working does it have a screen cover on it? If not it might be a good idea so that it doesn’t keep splintering and getting worse

  • @j.t.1215
    @j.t.1215 7 месяцев назад +33

    ❤You're right! I stay off social media. Not only can it make me insecure and jealous, it wastes time and causes unhappiness when I doubt myself.

  • @magdalenaisabel9683
    @magdalenaisabel9683 7 месяцев назад +47

    As a single mum of four boys. I often struggled trying to balance what the world perceives as successful with what I so desired for my boys. "Time" is by far the most precious possession we have to offer. As it is the one thing that we cannot get back. Thank you for sharing of your insightful life realizations.

    • @cbcb102
      @cbcb102 7 месяцев назад +12

      When my 3 children were young we were not able to finance the 'branded' clothes, latest computer games etc their friends all had. We had time to take them on walks and foster family values.
      Two memorable outcomes came from this. My son at 13 years old told me his friend who had all the materialistic trappings of a stressed out family said to him 'I wouldn't be seen dead in that brand of trainers (Sneakers?)' My sons reply.....'I may not have branded stuff but I have a dad that can spend time with me, you never see your dad because he works too hard to get you those things'. He said his friends face was an expression of sadness and had no come back.
      The other thing is as adults they often come to me and talk about a the special times we had with them that cost us not a penny...remember when you took us down the lake and collected those colourful stones and we learned to skim. They say they have great memories and a good sense f value, I can't ask for more, I did my job.
      You are doing a great job by giving them time and security. They will feel that in their bones. keep going on that path it is worth it.

  • @claudiakotouc6748
    @claudiakotouc6748 7 месяцев назад +19

    There is great freedom in not wanting or needing anything. It is wonderful to just enjoy what I have and be profoundly grateful for it. God´s love is my greatest gift; what more could I possibly wish for.

  • @cody484848
    @cody484848 6 месяцев назад +6

    Great video Joshua and well said. I recently turned 61 and decided to try retirement for a second time. I think when we have always been in the hustle and bustle of life it sometimes can be challenging to just slow down, open your eyes/mind, and enjoy the simple life. I joined the Navy at 18 and served 20 years riding submarines, so lots of hustle and stress but I enjoyed it. After 20 more years primarily in retail management (extremely stressful), I've decided on ME. I can honestly say, I've never been one to run with the Jones, but there's definitely something to say about the simple life. My wife and I enjoy evening walks each day where we just talk and enjoy each others company. We go on regular hikes in parks and trails. We don't drive extravagant cars, and definitely don't live above our means. Although we do have our connections on Facebook and social media, it has significantly been minimized the past year. Heck, my screen time significantly decreased on my cell phone time. Heck, my wife even comments when we go places and I just leave it at home. We own a beautiful home where we have bird feeders in the back yard where we can grab our morning coffee, watch/listen to the birds, and read of a book of choice. Folks running with the Jones, flaunting you money, gossiping, and living above your means is WAY OVERRATED! Trust me when I say this you will never be happier than you will living the simple life. Sorry about the soap box, I just felt compelled to comment - thanks.

  • @maria-lena5919
    @maria-lena5919 6 месяцев назад +8

    Simplicity is the key - hallelujah 🙌 ✨️ 😊

  • @amymartin5753
    @amymartin5753 7 месяцев назад +42

    I don’t have FB: My view about Facebook: if you’re going on vacation, if you don’t tell me directly, then I wasn’t meant to know about it. Simple as that. I’m good not knowing the business of 100s of people and only relegated to the business of a few. I don’t even like stories told me 3rd person. (A friend telling me about the happenings of another friend). I want to hear it from the source…. Very simple approach to life and my mind is not overflowing g with what “everyone else” is up to.

    • @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx
      @KellyBoettcher-qo9tx 7 месяцев назад +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @michelesusanne1
      @michelesusanne1 7 месяцев назад +4

      It's sad when family shares their lives, even important news, but doesn't share with you. It seems social media has taken priority over personal relationships.

    • @sheloveswhimsy
      @sheloveswhimsy 7 месяцев назад +1

      I’m in full agreement and have a similar experience. No heart issues. It’s the choices they’re making.

    • @farmgirl1560
      @farmgirl1560 7 месяцев назад +5

      This is so true. I didn't realise how much Facebook was affecting my brain/mood until I got rid of it. That sense of calm and only dealing with what's immediately around you and not being bombarded with all this extra information and drama etc. It's nice now when you bump into someone and have a chat without already knowing all their business 😄

    • @cb9825
      @cb9825 7 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@michelesusanne1 my relatives have a group chat where we share the news with family. I don't know if they share these news on social media too. We are all pretty private people. But a group chat is good, as the family is not small and everyone is being informed about the important things at the same time.

  • @kimberlydeprey
    @kimberlydeprey 7 месяцев назад +16

    Growing up poor has taught me so much and has kept me humble. I’m so thankful for those years! Less truly is more.

  • @tonya5468
    @tonya5468 6 месяцев назад +4

    Admittedly, I am a bit older and I know that makes it easier, but I have long since made the choice to guard what enters my heart and mind carefully. Anyone can live simply, peacefully, and joyfully if they choose. A good start is letting go of all toxic media. You will not be missing anything real anyway and you will begin to open the door to rediscovering life.

  • @dawnwasshoward
    @dawnwasshoward 7 месяцев назад +19

    I really enjoyed this video. We do live in an age where people know the word more but don't seem to know the word enough. My husband and I live simply, my phone I bought secondhand, most of our furniture is secondhand. Books are from the library or charity (goodwill) shops. Our first date we went to a garden centre for a coffee and then had a walk in a park. We live in a small property to keep household bills low. We are fortunate to have a garden with lots of birds visiting, and have a green space close by. As for big houses, whatis the point of having a big house if you have to work 7 days a week to pay the mortgage and bills?

  • @Debbiesdilemmas
    @Debbiesdilemmas 7 месяцев назад +10

    Although I never was chasing the dream of more is better, I still wish I had appreciated how much more the simpler life has to offer…..the whole LESS IS MORE theory. I just think I was living my life without intention. Now as I near retirement age (although I’ve been blessed to be a stay at home mom) I appreciate how much less anxiety I would have owning less. I just have very little want for most things. I will continue on my minimalism journey as best I can as the only person in my home who feels this way.

  • @Ornaxius
    @Ornaxius 2 месяца назад +2

    This video really hit me. I'm 26, never had a job and never really had much of an education. I've never strived for a big house, flashy cars, children or other absurd luxuries. I do not dream big or have much hope. I just want to Be. I want to live in the slow lane, away from the hustle-and-bustle of city life and the 9-5 cookie cutter corporate jobs.

  • @avehanahcasino2139
    @avehanahcasino2139 7 месяцев назад +17

    Love it when I meet people who share the same perspective in life. God bless you more Josh.

  • @tuercacaso
    @tuercacaso 7 месяцев назад +7

    Beautiful message, Joshua, one that speaks with the same words and heart-space as my own. I am 100% with you on this. The main problem from where I stand is that our culture and society make it very very difficult to live simply, and not merely because of the outward trappings that you mention. This is what I mean:
    Forgoing material things is the easy part, but having healthy community and social connections is VITAL. Thus, it's extremely difficult to meet and connect with like-minded people in search of (or already enjoying) the simple life without being dictated to.
    Everywhere we look, drive, walk, talk, communicate, we are inundated with the cultural messages. We do not exist as isolated cells with resistant packaging. Humanity has been likened to the old adage "monkey see, monkey do" because we are a social species. We require each other to witness and mirror one another in order to find that meaning that makes life unfold in a healthy way. Our masters in the corporate worlds, which bring us so much higher a standard of living also suffocate our social "connective tissue" so that we pay attention almost exclusively to their matrix.
    Nature is one answer, to be sure... but choosing a simple life and working toward that goal is Noble; however, once one is on that ladder and ascends to the top, be sure to know that unless one's entire family or social circle is on the same path, it may be very very isolating and lonely.
    Just the same, AWESOME video and message! Blessings and much gratitude to you today and always.

  • @heathercohoe4788
    @heathercohoe4788 7 месяцев назад +22

    I need to chose the simple life, and myself, daily. Thank you for the perspective.

    • @Angela-qc1ex
      @Angela-qc1ex 7 месяцев назад +3

      It's awesome and I really hope you get a chance to experience it very soon it's truly so great... / I'm living it now

  • @andrewellis7656
    @andrewellis7656 7 месяцев назад +5

    Yea - Joshua - a declaration of choosing the joy in the Lord. Thanks for confirming a thankful simple life.

  • @clap7777
    @clap7777 6 месяцев назад +2

    Amen! I'm near 60 and around 40, started my family and stopped climbing the ladder of "success" to value my time and experiences more. Never did social media, just seems wasteful watching others that have no positive meaning towards your life. I now love experiences with my kids, a good coffee and a book or excellent classical or jazz music (back to classic vinyl). You hit it on the head with not chasing more, but experiencing more with chasing less. Thank you for the reminder!

  • @vikieierdam5516
    @vikieierdam5516 7 месяцев назад +17

    Joshua, I love your heart. Thank you for your perspective.

  • @JoeLopez
    @JoeLopez 7 месяцев назад +4

    You control your social feeds.
    Ignore accounts posting things you have no internet in.
    One person’s idea of happiness does not need to align with your idea of happiness.
    Live your life without worrying how others do.

  • @dianafoley6926
    @dianafoley6926 7 месяцев назад +10

    This is my favorite video you have ever made. I listened to it three times in a row and then shared it with several friends and family.

  • @stevebubar6129
    @stevebubar6129 7 месяцев назад +15

    Loving spouse
    Animals
    Simple home
    Great hair like Josh
    All u need

  • @tomf9292
    @tomf9292 6 месяцев назад +2

    I just retired at 59. Selling my house and moving to my summer place which is less than 1/2 the size. Downsizing and loving it. Looking forward to golfing, fishing and doing what I want to do and saying NO to things I don’t want to do.

  • @Bessie66
    @Bessie66 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have decluttered so much and feel sad at what I have donated and the cost it was for me in the first place?
    What’s even sadder - it didn’t make me anymore fulfilled!
    A lesson learned - less is definitely more!

  • @mandyadams918
    @mandyadams918 7 месяцев назад +7

    Such true words Joshua. I find the juggling of slowing down and living simply is hard with working as it is so fast and both mentally and physically draining.

    • @cb9825
      @cb9825 7 месяцев назад +1

      When work is so intense, you kind of need simple and "slow" home life.

  • @annettemartin26
    @annettemartin26 7 месяцев назад +15

    Amen! Wonderful reminder of the beauty of The Simple Life! Thank you

  • @CliveBirse
    @CliveBirse 5 месяцев назад +356

    The whole point of wealth for me is freedom. My magic number in my mind is 5 million needed at 65 to not worry about anything. Am i better off investing a good portion of my income into stocks or saving my earnings to achieve this goal?

    • @ThomasChai05
      @ThomasChai05 5 месяцев назад +6

      Varied sources of income is wise and especially living within your means. My net worth is $2M and I can pay my bills with no stress, but I don't live like I have that. I have no complaints.

    • @mikegarvey17
      @mikegarvey17 5 месяцев назад +3

      Money advice is subjective, what works for you may not work for someone else, but it's always better to plan. I'm quite lucky exposed to personal finance at an early age, started job 19, bought first home 28, got laid-off work 36 amid covid-outbreak, and at once I consulted an advisor to handle growing my finance. As of today, I'm only 25% short of my $1m goal after subsequent investments.

    • @mariaguerrero08
      @mariaguerrero08 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@mikegarvey17bravo! i'm 46, inherited money from a childless relative and traveled overseas, but the only issue is how to preserve and grow my wealth in view of retirement, can your advisor be of help please?

    • @mariaguerrero08
      @mariaguerrero08 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@mikegarvey17Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?

    • @mikegarvey17
      @mikegarvey17 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yes indeed.... *Izella Annette Anderson* has always been on the top of my list..She is regarded as a genius in her area and well knowledgeable about financial markets. I highly recommend you look her up if you want excellent collaboration.

  • @LoveThemWell
    @LoveThemWell 7 месяцев назад +14

    My husband and I just had this conversation this morning concerning all the activities our kids could be involved in…we don’t have to be busy all Saturday to give our kids a good childhood. Today we have nothing to do except just be together. And for us, that matters more than that “mindless hustle.” Thank you for these words of encouragement!

    • @dawnwasshoward
      @dawnwasshoward 7 месяцев назад +2

      Apart from football/soccer on a Saturday I just didn't have the money for so many activities. My son doesn't think about what we couldn't do but about what we did do. Playing in the park,watching a movie together, reading books, baking, board games. Precious memories.😍

    • @kenschiavo191
      @kenschiavo191 6 месяцев назад +2

      doing nothing and watching movies with my dad, or going for a walk beats this meaningless structure shit today. That was my childhood

    • @dawnwasshoward
      @dawnwasshoward 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@kenschiavo191 Totally agree. One of my sisters used to plan activities for "quality time" with her children. Just have fun.

  • @smokypoo
    @smokypoo 7 месяцев назад +13

    That's exactly what I am always telling people around me. It's really exhausting as you say. What I'm more saddened about is that the younger generations are so obsessed with a fake and virtual life. Obviously they take examples from their own parents.... it seems the world is conspiring to keep us in this endless loop of consumerism. I truly hope more and more people will start to realise that simplicity is best. Take care all.❤❤❤

    • @ianstuart5660
      @ianstuart5660 6 месяцев назад

      They're conspiring to do that, but even much worse, unfortunately!

  • @lizzieb6311
    @lizzieb6311 7 месяцев назад +2

    Along with shedding the unimportant things (unimportant to me) I also shed those “friends” who either mocked my lifestyle or “pitied me” for not relying on expensive things to bring me joy. I’m settled…peaceful…and incredibly happy. I’ve met new friends with similar mindsets and am happier now than I ever have been. Another meaningful video. Thank you ♥

  • @tdwalleye6282
    @tdwalleye6282 7 месяцев назад +8

    Amen. Working towards that lifestyle now.

  • @gmvalentine626
    @gmvalentine626 7 месяцев назад +20

    Your message resonated very strongly with me. Thank you, Joshua.

  • @jessjenkins5474
    @jessjenkins5474 7 месяцев назад +4

    Great video. I live in Australia and yesterday my husband and I had a conversation about the days when Sunday trading was not a thing, no shops open and Sundays were slower, roads were quiet and people relaxed. Things seemed slower back then.

  • @nicoc7024
    @nicoc7024 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel the same way, and it’s sad how many people who are afraid to agree with this because of their ego. I am trying to simplify my life the best I can. Great message!

  • @lauriedixon9661
    @lauriedixon9661 7 месяцев назад +4

    Since finding minimalism and a yearning for a simple life, I have been able to work part-time as a self-employed person. My clients are always amazed and slightly frustrated when I turn down work because I made plans to do something for myself. If only they could find the calm that I have, they would understand.

  • @TrustNobody89
    @TrustNobody89 5 месяцев назад +4

    "Here's my thought today I have no interest in competing with other people..I don't want to trade my peace and passion for a lifestyle dictated by this world.."

  • @juliem.3936
    @juliem.3936 7 месяцев назад +2

    "I discovered a wealth that transcends financial prosperity". LOVE this!

  • @feathers-fur
    @feathers-fur 7 месяцев назад +9

    Every day i strive for an easy life but i made the mistake of watching minimalists thinking they figured it out until i noticed in every video they had more new things...furniture, clothes, new matching totes because the ones they had didn't match, dishes or a new organizing system because the three prior ones just weren't working. It was exhausting to see and very confusing. They got rid of everything but just bought more.

  • @abbaschild2499
    @abbaschild2499 7 месяцев назад +12

    So beautifully said! Thank you, Joshua.

  • @JLR4244
    @JLR4244 7 месяцев назад +3

    Well said Joshua!
    I agree 110%! I'm glad you are here making a positive influence on people! 😊

  • @ART-kp9cn
    @ART-kp9cn 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great video. This is something that I have thought about for many years. We live in a world where we are constantly told to strive for more- higher salary, career progression, bigger house, etc. but with all of that comes more responsibilities and more stress.

  • @inforestsweheal
    @inforestsweheal 7 месяцев назад +19

    How does one find others to deeply connect with? I find it increasingly hard to find people interested in engaging in such a relationship.

    • @Angela-qc1ex
      @Angela-qc1ex 7 месяцев назад +7

      Just let it happen spiritually and don't worry about it / I strike up conversations with people who I'm drawn to by the calmness in their eyes and spirit otherwise I don't say anything 🤫🙏

  • @valeried2941
    @valeried2941 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is beautiful.... I want some peace...some quiet...a few really great friends... I like reading, a good chat...a good cup of coffee...truly this has made me happiest..thank you for sharing!

  • @bradtrades
    @bradtrades 7 месяцев назад +2

    The two most important words relating to finance, IMO, are Freedom and Enough. It took me a long time to learn that.

  • @theelephant2887
    @theelephant2887 6 месяцев назад +2

    Very similar to my view. At the end of my 40's I decided to pull back from a high management position to an individual contributor one. No social media. Using IPhone 7. Wife, kids, and I prefer to travel the world instead of buying stuff we don't need

  • @whatfun99
    @whatfun99 7 месяцев назад +6

    One of your best, Joshua. This gets at the very root of the malaise in our society.

  • @lynnhendley8910
    @lynnhendley8910 7 месяцев назад +8

    I am starting to live a more simple life. Thank you for all your wisdom and inspiration. Please write another book on how to obtain this lifestyle.

  • @heatherjensen3751
    @heatherjensen3751 7 месяцев назад +1

    You never said truer words. You’re speaking directly to a longing in my soul. Thank you for expressing what I haven’t been able to say.

  • @CrazyKiwiChan
    @CrazyKiwiChan 6 месяцев назад +1

    I want to tell a story about myself.
    A few years ago, I started dreaming big! I wanted to start my own company, and make a lot of money with it!
    But most importantly, deep down what I truly wanted was to travel with my family around the world freely...
    Deep down, I knew I wasn't going to make it... I am too sensitive, and very conscious of my own thoughts.
    But I thought: "Isn't this what all of the hustlers go through on a daily basis?! I shouldn't give up, I must push harder!"
    A few years passed, and what did I actually get?
    1) Isolation
    2) More social anxiety
    3) Terrible nightmares
    4) Panic attacks 24/7
    5) Envy
    6) Depression
    7) And much, much more...
    Even though this is what was supposed to make me happy, why do I feel so bad as I am currently writing this?
    Even when I am with my friends and close relatives, I don't feel any happiness, since I tried to aim for that one, perfect life, and I can't feel happy anymore...
    I do not like to call out the attention of others, but please, could you fixate my comment at the top of this video's comment section?
    I would feel very obliged 😁, just so as I don't feel extremelly lonely and to seek some emotional support...
    Thank you my friend, I love you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @23billd
    @23billd 5 месяцев назад +2

    The key to a satisfied life is to lower your expectations. Adjust your consumption to be lower than your income. Stress will evaporate.

  • @theresapalmer7892
    @theresapalmer7892 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm retired from Healthcare career 3 years now. This was a lesson I learned far to late in life. I don't dwell on any regrets about it and have been so at peace in this stage of my life. I am sharing what I've learned by example to my adult children in their 40s so they can see the wisdom of living less much sooner than I did.

  • @sylmanyeki9323
    @sylmanyeki9323 7 месяцев назад +3

    Well said Joshua!! This is how I feel!

  • @Sabiha-30
    @Sabiha-30 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hi Joshua, although I am still subscribed to you, I haven’t watched your latest videos in a while now.. but I have seen a lot of them. What I am trying to say is, you have definitely impacted my life because I always remember you when I am decluttering and continue to do so, or before I think about my next purchase! I am so happy that I discovered your channel ☺️

  • @lorenl9262
    @lorenl9262 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Joshua :)- You literally just took the words right out of my mind. This seems to be more challenging and I myself are a total minimalist. I live my life without much and I still have constant interference from people and the outside world!!! Kudos :)-

  • @Khatoon170
    @Khatoon170 7 месяцев назад +1

    How are you doing mr Joshua. Iam Arabic lady subscriber subscriber to several British and American RUclips channels since Christmas 2019. We are as foreigners subscribers as overseas students want to increase our cultural level and improve our English as well . Thank you for your wonderful cultural channel . First of all looked up of meaning minimalist persons who are their interest in keeping things very simple . About my self as Arabic lady I considered myself as real university student , RUclips community as open universities and google is library. I hope all people understand importance of internet as great educational tool not for amusement only . I read about your biography you are an American author, philanthropist. Known for simplify more of less minimalism . Your notable book minimalism and intentional living main theme about emphasizes benefits of minimalism, including less stress , increased focus and freedom from consumerism, with inspiring stories , relatable examples, demonstrats how

  • @louisetilbury3443
    @louisetilbury3443 7 месяцев назад +6

    That’s exactly what I want as I scale back.

  • @rommycaballero6636
    @rommycaballero6636 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Joshua, this video represents what my life goal is, you inspire us to change that “idea”of the perfect world that people have tried to make us believe, where every day we feel more stress and anxiety instead.

  • @Star2ice
    @Star2ice 7 месяцев назад +10

    Such profound and needed words to hear today. I struggle to get rid of things because I work too much every week. Thank you Joshua❤

    • @shirleyrankin-zf6nv
      @shirleyrankin-zf6nv 7 месяцев назад +5

      Set a timer for 5 min and just get started you will be amazed at what you can do in 5 minutes 😊

  • @charlie5thumbs351
    @charlie5thumbs351 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is a constant struggle for me. I desire nothing more than a simple life, yet I'm always feeling the stigma of being a "loser" because I'm not very ambitious. Even though no one says anything, I feel people are thinking it and that I'm being judged by everyone, when in fact, no one actually really cares because they are all too busy living their own stressful lives. It's all very absurd.

  • @aubreyboxx7260
    @aubreyboxx7260 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hey Mr Joshua thank you so much for advocating for a selfless and purpose filled existence!!!! That is what i want, and listening to what you have to say about it encourages me to cultivate a simply beautiful life.

  • @gregweston3770
    @gregweston3770 6 месяцев назад

    In a world going crazier, more profit more speed more wars more divide. Your message is like a mind massage. Thankyou from New Zealand

  • @naomiward7893
    @naomiward7893 7 месяцев назад +4

    Well said. I am so happy with my debt free simple life

  • @fairysoulz4903
    @fairysoulz4903 6 месяцев назад

    I have been on my minimalism journey for a long time, but yesterday was an eye opening experience.
    As I walked through the store I thought ok what do I need, and I kept trying to find something then I realized I don't need anything and that was so freeing! It felt so good to say that!

  • @YoBigRicky
    @YoBigRicky 5 месяцев назад

    I am in the process of selling a high end sports car. A prospective buyer asked me “are you sad that you are selling it?” As more and more teaching like this has begun to sink in I was able to confidently say “No.” A few years ago I would not have been able to say that as I drew some of my identity from that car. Thank you Josh for your liberating teaching. As I replaced that car i “downgraded”

  • @Jackson_Farnsworth
    @Jackson_Farnsworth 7 месяцев назад +17

    New smart phone? I have no idea what phones have come out since I bought my phone. In fact, I didn't know what was available when I bought my phone, I just bought the cheapest one available.

    • @HeatherCampbell-kc7fx
      @HeatherCampbell-kc7fx 7 месяцев назад +3

      I use a flip phone. Drives people crazy. Always telling me to upgrade! Nope!! Simple is better

    • @KD-uh8zw
      @KD-uh8zw 7 месяцев назад +4

      Yes cheap phone and now a cheap plan. I don't need all the bells and whistles and umpteen Apps

  • @debbiedean3165
    @debbiedean3165 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amen Joshua, I agree wholeheartedly, ❤️✝️🙏, sweetest simplicity,

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess4494 7 месяцев назад +2

    Agreed, Thank you Joshua.

  • @Bene-FX
    @Bene-FX 6 месяцев назад

    TRUTH IN ME
    I have no desire
    to fit in .
    no plans
    to walk with the crowd.
    I have my own mind,
    heart
    and soul.
    I am me
    and it
    has taken me years
    to realize
    how important that is.

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty 7 месяцев назад +2

    this was so soothing, relieving, and self-connecting. thank you so much, joshua becker!

  • @karlsugden4161
    @karlsugden4161 3 месяца назад +1

    Health is welth we all have the same 24 hour clock live in the presence of the moment of today only as tomorrow is not promised it's a gift from God to have another chance to live another day only so fill your precious time each day filled with joy happiness kindness love ,& with positive gratitude for the gift of precious time as we are only time Lords just passing through time hear today gone tomorrow 🙏

  • @livn4JC
    @livn4JC 7 месяцев назад +9

    Amen!

  • @lindahope1337
    @lindahope1337 7 месяцев назад +8

    Yes, yes, yes!!!

  • @anadomangue2732
    @anadomangue2732 7 месяцев назад +9

    Amen 😊

  • @captainplanet8945
    @captainplanet8945 7 месяцев назад +9

    Exactly ☺️

  • @Narda1968
    @Narda1968 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love how you express yourself . What a great effective powerful communicator you are 🙂

  • @charmedprince
    @charmedprince 5 месяцев назад

    "How 'bout not equating death with stopping?" is a line from Alanis Morissette's song, Thank You, and I really am living to this principle because I now stop. I'm stopping the grind. I will live the moment as it is. I don't wanna make long term goals. I just wanna have a healthy life system of joy, abundance, and vulnerability.

  • @81aherna
    @81aherna 7 месяцев назад +3

    I mean, it’s all about balance, but the agree completely!!!

  • @susannadolny2540
    @susannadolny2540 7 месяцев назад +2

    Joshua's hair looks especially on point.