Are you expecting a baby soon?! Share your due month below! 🥰 If you're a veteran mum watching, please feel free to share any newborn tips I may have missed as well -- I'm sure everyone will love to read them!!
this may be a hot take, but i loved the newborn phase. everyone told me id struggle and hate it and i repeatedly told people no, i love this. i know not everyone is as lucky as i am to have a healthy delivery and a loving husband but man, now that i have a 3 month old im so sad the newborn phase is over. again, i know im very blessed but i just want other moms to know that sometimes you will LOVE the newborn stage
It depends where your priorities are. If your priority is enjoying the newborn stage and recovering it will be so enjoyable if your priority is getting back to your old routine before baby you will find yourself fighting against yourself and feeling resentful.
That's so funny, I love hearing different perspectives without the "trust me this is how you'll feel" attitude. Because all I heard was "soak up these snuggles, they aren't tiny like this for long, you'll miss this so much, it only gets harder from here" etc etc on and on. And I had two very difficult newborn phases so far. And amazing seasons with them older! It only keeps getting better for us! Even the terrible twos are just not anything compared to the difficulty of newborns so far for me. Maybe this time I'll have a dreamy newborn season with this baby!!
@Anne Whittemore good to know. My baby is 11 weeks old and it's been miserable with reflux. So tired of hearing "babies spit up"....yeah keeping towels down on your floor all over the house is not a part of the normal newborn phase! 😢
My tip for baby boy diapers; open the diaper and then cover again for about 10 seconds. The cool air often stimulated him to pee, and you can catch it before putting the new diaper on!
One thing i learnt was that if you're breast feeding, empty your bladder forst as this allows full contraction of your uterus and a fuller "milk drop" , and number 2 ..is that when that umbilical cord is starting to come off and looks a bit manky,or straight after it does come off, drip breastmilk into the open part and it honestly clears it up in no time at all,just about everything is fixed by leaving breastmilk on it 🤣🤷🏼♀️
The newborn stage is the best! The first week is the most magical time of life! They just grow out of that super cute little self so so quick and you are left missing that tiny human forever! I keep looking at my babies newborn photos and almost feel grief from how bad I miss them at that time! Every stage is awesome but man I miss the newborn stage
Something that was so helpful for me (having our master on the 2nd floor) was having a mini fridge in our bedroom full of waters and other hydrating drinks and I kept some easy, quick snacks on top of the mini fridge. This was so helpful for my recovery. Also if you plan to breastfeed, it is so worth it to invest in a lactation consultant.
Tip 1: 00:58 Use diaper as first wipe Tip 2: 1:43 Diaper tip for baby boy Tip 3: 2:37 Have diaper change station in more than one spot Tip 4: 3:40 Belly button Tip 5: 5:32 Feeding position Tip 6: 6:42 Feeding schedule Tip 7: 9:05 Look into wake windows Tip 8: 10:02 Get baby outside to understand day/night Tip 9: 10:53 Download Huckleberry App to keep track on pee poop and eating Tip 10: 12:28 Tummy time on chest Tip 11: 13:54 Use preg pillow for tummy time Tip 12: 14:32 Baby clothing with zippers and footless Tip 13: 15:25 Buy drawer dividers Tip 14: 16:10 Use bathcloth for bath to make it more comfortable Tip 15: 17:00 Milk storage Tip 16: 18:12 Pumping haakaa Tip 17: 18:58 How to carry carseat Tip 18: 19:56 Cut nails while they sleep Tip 19: 20:34 How to make them use pacifier Tip 20: 21:35 Dry skin on scalp- use oil 1hr before bath and then comb Tip 21,22 : 22:47 Baby gas
I’m 42 years old and a first time mom. I watched your video before delivery and was able to prepare diaper stations throughout my house! Thank you! He’s 3 weeks old now and I’m watching again because I seem to be constantly changing him, when he pees I’m having to change his diaper, his outfit and whatever he was laying on at the time! Your video is so helpful!
@@hllymchllmy baby boy is 6 days old and the only way we’ve slept thru the night is side lying nursing. I actually feel rested! And he seems to differentiate night/day bc he’s not opening his eyes or moving much to feed at night. I am someone who never thought I would cosleep due to anxiety, but I’ve actually found that having him laying along my body skin to skin is the safest I’ve felt. It seems that I am overproducing milk and I can tell if he gags immediately when he’s beside me.
@@Shelabayy totally! it was hard for me to get used to at first too, but it ended up being the best thing. everyone could get sleep and yeah if you're following the safety steps of firmer mattress no blankets on them, it def feels less anxious to have them right there! my daughter is 2 and a half and we still cosleep, getting ready for the next to be born in October so cosleeping with two should be interesting lol but yeah if it's working for you and you're safe, don't change a thing!
Thank you, definitely need more moms sharing stuff like this. Most of the people that have talked to me about early motherhood seeing me pregnant have complained and projected fear and focused on struggles. So thank you.❤
Mom to 2 under 2 here! My tip is to get knee high socks for the newborn stage. Those tiny little socks never stay on, but I would sometimes put my toddler's cute Burt's Bees cable knit socks on my newborn and pull them all the way up. They stay way better!
This was an awesome video for this first time mom!! 36 weeks and this is the first video I’ve seen full of very useful knowledge and hacks and not just a ditl with a newborn video. It was awesome, thank you!!
My baby is now 6 months old and aside from the first weeks of getting the hang of breastfeeding - and in general how to take care of a baby - I can honestly say I loved the newborn stage. I was lucky enough that he's a mellow little dude and although we had a hospital stint due to a urinary tract infection at 8 weeks we enjoyed the getting to know each other phase. BTW I work from home in editing and translating and never stopped doing it - just wore him in my Ergobaby.
@@KitKat10281 Unfortunately I had no choice. I wish I had a break from work. On the other hand, I could work from home with him until his 9th month so I was lucky that way. He's now at the nursery cause it was impossible to get work done since he started standing and crawling like a mad man 😀
Wake windows are everything. When my babies were newborns I was very resistant to track wake windows because it was yet another mental task to juggle and I thought it was a corner I could cut without dire consequences. But we inevitably ran into SERIOUS over tiredness problems when I didn’t at least try to be aware of sleep timing. More mental energy in the moment; but much less stress overall.
I'm 35 weeks pregnant with my 4th baby. Even tho i have breastfed 3 newborns into the toddler years and done the newborn stage 3 times, i still love to watch these videos for any new tips i might have missed, or just reminders of some things 😊.
36 weeks with baby five, but first boy. Definitely need a refresher too. My babies were all very colicky and some of my tips were to keep the tummy warm. Place the baby across your arm and they calm down. If the crying gets unbearable, it's OK to let the baby cry and get a quiet minute to recoop so you can keep handling it. Also changing from indoors to outdoors suddenly also calmed the baby, don't know why. Baby tea is also amazing for colic. And learn about tongue and lip ties for sure.
Im expecting my first baby (a little girl!) in November! I'm finally a few weeks into my second trimester so I feel semi-human again and am finally experiencing the joy, excitement, and anticipation!!
Christmas day for me and this gives me hope haha I'm still in the thick of being exhausted and throwing up all the time and it's making it hard to be productive at work 😕
First time expectant Nana (December 2023), and this is very useful. Will use a few of these tips myself, and pass them along to the first time Mama. Nicely done!
Hi! My husband and I are expecting our first, due April 2024. It's a girl! I'm so excited, but a little overwhelmed with where to even start! Your tips have been super helpful and put my mind a little more at ease! Thank you! ❤️
Same! We are expecting a little boy in April! I sent this video to my boyfriend to get him more prepared since I’ve been watching baby videos since before I was even pregnant 😂❤️ wishing you the best!
Another thing I found useful was to watch videos on things people wouldn’t get or do if they could do the new born phase again. During the explanation they tend to explain what they did do too. Having a 2 month old atm I know there are a few things I wouldn’t live with out, some things I wish I knew to get and a bunch of things I haven’t touched yet.
Thank you SO much for this video! I am currently expecting baby #2 and remember being so stressed and overwhelmed in the newborn phase of my first baby. These tips are amazing! And are a great refresher for all the newborn things! Thank you 😊 ❤
You are the first mama I've found on youtube that I agree with 100000% of every single thing you say! We will have two babes under 2 come January so needed a refresher :) Thank you so much, you are a lovely human!!!
newborn life was really hard for me, mostly bc of how young and immature i was. in my mind i hadn't been able to shift well from being taken care of to taking care of another. my son had a lot of tummy troubles/colic, and it was just a lot on me. i was the first of anyone i knew to have a baby too (i still am the only one of my friends with kids lol) and it was hard mourning my old life. i'm 25 now, i have two kids and i'm hopefully about to be pregnant with my third. once i started going all in on being a mom and just grew up a little it's become a lot easier. i am so grateful for them. ❤ i also just LOVE the toddler stage way more than the baby stage, it's more fun to me! if it doesn't come naturally to you when your baby is born, just give it time.
This is my experience also, I just gave birth to my second, and motherhood is probably my favorite thing about my life now. You just have to be all in!
@@dorrymayne6819 for sure!!! I still struggle of course. It takes time. I also didn’t know it yet but when I wrote this I was indeed (and still am lol) pregnant with #3!
I'm due on Christmas day with my first and I like to be prepared so I've already watched A LOT of these videos, but this one has been the most useful one by far!
This was so super helpful!! You covered pretty much everything i had questions about. I brought my new born home yesterday and these are all things i have wanted to get more information about. So thank u so much
Thank you for all the great tips! I just learned from a doctor on RUclips that skin to skin contact has many important medical benefits for both baby and mom.
The new born stage was difficult but I loved all the moments. I worked as a CNA before ever having any kids and you learn how to change briefs fast and affective and I used those methods I learned their and apply them with him.
Expecting our first in October. The tip about the socks was really helpful since we live in northern Sweden and want to keep her warm and cozy. We just started to slowly build up her closet and have been debating on whether to use socks or clothes with covered feet. Socks it is!
I dont care how tired or sleep deprived I am but I loved every second of the newborn stage. My newborn will be a month old next week. ❤ I know your newborn needs to feed every 3 to 4 hours but its not necessary to wake your baby up in the middle of the night for feeding if your baby is progressing normally and is not underweight. When you newborn sleeps through the night for a good 6 hour.. let the baby sleep because it teaches them night time sleep. My newborn started sleeping through the night towards the end of the second week and its been blissful. He sleeps at 11 at night and wakes up at 5 for feeding and sleeps again and wakes up at 7 or 8 for the next feeding. Its like that for my first 2 kids as well. They all sleep through the night. The hakaa breast suction is the best. Cheap and easy ❤
Same! I never woke gm first two up to eat when they were sleeping! They will definitely wake up when they are hungry! Sometimes as they sleep longer I realized it was a tiny growth phase 🥰
@@babycakes8434 it's kinda like a suction pump and acts like an automatic pump. There's a yt video on how to use it but I didn't use it for long unfortunately because I had complications after I delivered and lost too much blood. My body was focusing on recovery rather than producing milk but when I used it, it did work, I just didn't have enough milk to produce a lot.
No worries most of us go through that real real fear. I never held a baby before my first son. And had absolutely no help after the C-section. And RUclips was real new and there was no real help or real openness information. Enjoy the crying, it’s communication even though it might feel overwhelming at times I take that challenge and love it
As a first time Dad, I thought my wife and I had prepared so well for our little girl, but from the moment she was born to now 5 days later, neither of us could have truly guessed the raw terror (also joy) we feel about not wanting to do anything wrong or see our baby not thrive. Everything is good so far thankfully 😊
For the clothes I'm using a wardrobe and hangers + dividers and I store all the accesories in the small Ikea boxes in the drawer ❤ This way I can see all the baby's clothes perfectly!
Just a heads up, I took a breastfeeding class at my local hospital. For the Haaka bottle, the nurse said do not pull back the top of the bottle and then attach to the breast. It can cause a lot of harm to the breast and nipples when done this way. This is a TikTok trend that is not encouraged by the company. Glad if it worked for you but just a warning for others.
I hadn’t heard this before. I went and looked on their website and one of the instructions they give for using it is to pull back the flange to attach it. So it is actually part of what the company gives as proper use, but maybe LCs have seen it cause damage it do it that way.
I don't have a boy, but I have heard that if you use a wipe around the top of their diaper where their bladder is, it will help them pee while the diaper is still on them. Hopefully reducing the need for a quick-cover pee situation for them. Hope this helps someone!
STM here, but since my first is already 7 years old, I am here to refresh my memories, and I am learning a lot! You look great as a mom of two (kids under 2!!) Thanks for sharing the tips 🥰
And for fingernails, I remember for my first kid, the tip of her fingernails just fell off by themselves until when she was a few months old, so I never needed to clip her nails during that time. But great tips for clipping their nails when they are asleep, this would come in handy when baby is older too!
Hi Beth!!:) loved the video! Could you do a video talking more about the schedule of baby and how you incorporated that, especially for getting longer hours of sleep! Thank you!❤
Beth, thank you so much for this info. I have a 17 month old daughter and expecting our little baby boy in 1-2 weeks. This is so wonderful to hear your tips, you are so beautiful and your spirit always shines so bright. 💜
Thank you very much for the tips! I'm expecting my first baby in August so just trying to get my hands on as much useful advice and tips as I can before baby is here ❤
Girls pee too when the cool air hits them (or a cool wipe). I wasn't expecting this until I found out first hand. I've found those tiny mittens useless and use socks on their hands instead. They stay on much better and keep babies face scratch free. Also, not every baby likes to be swaddled. My tip would be to experiment until you get it right. Try the full body swaddle, or the torso and legs only (some babies find comfort in having their hands at their face), or perhaps its a sleep sack that works best!
This was so helpful thank you! I love how you just go right into the info and you’re very natural at transitioning to each tip/topic, thank you. My due date is March 20th! first baby
I'm due eith my 3rd in June, and I would say to keep in mind that every hard phase WILL pass! You will experience things, like sleep regressions or maybe Baby has reflux, that are really hard and will really test you. When you're in the middle of it, it may feel like this will never end, but keep reminding yourself that it will pass!
These are really awesome tips!! Just about to have my third, and it was great to be reminded of these hacks that make the newborn stage so much easier ❤❤
@rebekahelias3303 of course!! Who wouldn't be. You're going to do absolutely amazing and in the difficult moments of labour pain just know it is definitely worth every minute, no question. Best wishes!
Thank you so much for sharing these tips! I am due towards the end of August with our first baby 😊 Apparently breast milk is also really great to help with cradle cap and any kind of scratch/scrape on baby!
Are you expecting a baby soon?! Share your due month below! 🥰
If you're a veteran mum watching, please feel free to share any newborn tips I may have missed as well -- I'm sure everyone will love to read them!!
Currently watching 40+1 with my first ❤
August 🥰 it’s my first and a girl
Due September 18th with my first! So excited to meet our baby boy, Zion ❤
August 1st and it's my third boy after twin boys who are 8 years old!
Late August! First baby, a girl ❤
this may be a hot take, but i loved the newborn phase. everyone told me id struggle and hate it and i repeatedly told people no, i love this. i know not everyone is as lucky as i am to have a healthy delivery and a loving husband but man, now that i have a 3 month old im so sad the newborn phase is over. again, i know im very blessed but i just want other moms to know that sometimes you will LOVE the newborn stage
It depends where your priorities are. If your priority is enjoying the newborn stage and recovering it will be so enjoyable if your priority is getting back to your old routine before baby you will find yourself fighting against yourself and feeling resentful.
I love this! Thank you for sharing. ❤
Expecting any day now!
That's so funny, I love hearing different perspectives without the "trust me this is how you'll feel" attitude. Because all I heard was "soak up these snuggles, they aren't tiny like this for long, you'll miss this so much, it only gets harder from here" etc etc on and on. And I had two very difficult newborn phases so far. And amazing seasons with them older! It only keeps getting better for us! Even the terrible twos are just not anything compared to the difficulty of newborns so far for me.
Maybe this time I'll have a dreamy newborn season with this baby!!
I also love the newborn stage. It goes too fast. I have 3 boys and had my baby girl on mothers day. 6 weeks early. Shes already 3 weeks old 😢
@Anne Whittemore good to know. My baby is 11 weeks old and it's been miserable with reflux. So tired of hearing "babies spit up"....yeah keeping towels down on your floor all over the house is not a part of the normal newborn phase! 😢
My tip for baby boy diapers; open the diaper and then cover again for about 10 seconds. The cool air often stimulated him to pee, and you can catch it before putting the new diaper on!
Yes! Or a wipe on the belly before opening diaper
Or put a wipe and close :)
Or hold him over a potty to pee.
Or hold the baby to pee over the sink and you can just use water and safe wipes and a new diaper all together 👌
Girls pee again too, so good to for them too. It's what I've done for my 2 girls
One thing i learnt was that if you're breast feeding, empty your bladder forst as this allows full contraction of your uterus and a fuller "milk drop" , and number 2 ..is that when that umbilical cord is starting to come off and looks a bit manky,or straight after it does come off, drip breastmilk into the open part and it honestly clears it up in no time at all,just about everything is fixed by leaving breastmilk on it 🤣🤷🏼♀️
That's siper helpful, thank u 😊
In other words, breast milk is equivalent to duct tape.. it can fix everything lol😂
Nooo quite the opposite
The newborn stage is the best! The first week is the most magical time of life! They just grow out of that super cute little self so so quick and you are left missing that tiny human forever! I keep looking at my babies newborn photos and almost feel grief from how bad I miss them at that time! Every stage is awesome but man I miss the newborn stage
Something that was so helpful for me (having our master on the 2nd floor) was having a mini fridge in our bedroom full of waters and other hydrating drinks and I kept some easy, quick snacks on top of the mini fridge. This was so helpful for my recovery. Also if you plan to breastfeed, it is so worth it to invest in a lactation consultant.
Yes! Protein bars in my bedside table were a life-saver as I got so hungry in the middle of the night due to breastfeeding!
This is so helpful I want to cry. I'm 37 weeks and had no idea about sooo many of these things. Thank you SO much.
Tip 1: 00:58 Use diaper as first wipe
Tip 2: 1:43 Diaper tip for baby boy
Tip 3: 2:37 Have diaper change station in more than one spot
Tip 4: 3:40 Belly button
Tip 5: 5:32 Feeding position
Tip 6: 6:42 Feeding schedule
Tip 7: 9:05 Look into wake windows
Tip 8: 10:02 Get baby outside to understand day/night
Tip 9: 10:53 Download Huckleberry App to keep track on pee poop and eating
Tip 10: 12:28 Tummy time on chest
Tip 11: 13:54 Use preg pillow for tummy time
Tip 12: 14:32 Baby clothing with zippers and footless
Tip 13: 15:25 Buy drawer dividers
Tip 14: 16:10 Use bathcloth for bath to make it more comfortable
Tip 15: 17:00 Milk storage
Tip 16: 18:12 Pumping haakaa
Tip 17: 18:58 How to carry carseat
Tip 18: 19:56 Cut nails while they sleep
Tip 19: 20:34 How to make them use pacifier
Tip 20: 21:35 Dry skin on scalp- use oil 1hr before bath and then comb
Tip 21,22 : 22:47 Baby gas
I’m 42 years old and a first time mom. I watched your video before delivery and was able to prepare diaper stations throughout my house! Thank you! He’s 3 weeks old now and I’m watching again because I seem to be constantly changing him, when he pees I’m having to change his diaper, his outfit and whatever he was laying on at the time! Your video is so helpful!
i appreciate how straight to the point you are! simple, informative, and time saving. thanks!
Side lying nursing was a game changer for me and I didn’t master it until my third, it was wonderful for my back, for my baby and for my milk supply!
Yes me too!! And that went hand in hand with co-sleeping.
@@bethanyreimercosleepimg saved my life. not literally, but it feels like it. glad so many more moms seem to be open about it!
@@hllymchllmy baby boy is 6 days old and the only way we’ve slept thru the night is side lying nursing. I actually feel rested! And he seems to differentiate night/day bc he’s not opening his eyes or moving much to feed at night.
I am someone who never thought I would cosleep due to anxiety, but I’ve actually found that having him laying along my body skin to skin is the safest I’ve felt. It seems that I am overproducing milk and I can tell if he gags immediately when he’s beside me.
@@Shelabayy totally! it was hard for me to get used to at first too, but it ended up being the best thing. everyone could get sleep and yeah if you're following the safety steps of firmer mattress no blankets on them, it def feels less anxious to have them right there! my daughter is 2 and a half and we still cosleep, getting ready for the next to be born in October so cosleeping with two should be interesting lol but yeah if it's working for you and you're safe, don't change a thing!
i get really sore sides and back still, wish i enjoyed it like you ladies
Thank you, definitely need more moms sharing stuff like this. Most of the people that have talked to me about early motherhood seeing me pregnant have complained and projected fear and focused on struggles. So thank you.❤
Hi Beth, I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant. She is due on July 21st 2024. So I'm very grateful for this video.
Hello i hope you had a good delivery or good luck !!! Almost there 🎉
hello if you already delivered hope your delivery went well!
I really hope you’re both doing great!!
I’m 37 and they’re inducing me on Monday!
Mom to 2 under 2 here! My tip is to get knee high socks for the newborn stage. Those tiny little socks never stay on, but I would sometimes put my toddler's cute Burt's Bees cable knit socks on my newborn and pull them all the way up. They stay way better!
Yes, keeping them warm helps them sleep longer. I kept two layers on them.
We don't have problem with H&M socks
Thanks for that! I've been looking into those because most socks wouldn't stay put. And the knee-highs look adorable.
This was an awesome video for this first time mom!! 36 weeks and this is the first video I’ve seen full of very useful knowledge and hacks and not just a ditl with a newborn video. It was awesome, thank you!!
This is one of the best new born hack videos I’ve seen! Also quick and to the point with a good explanation!
My baby is now 6 months old and aside from the first weeks of getting the hang of breastfeeding - and in general how to take care of a baby - I can honestly say I loved the newborn stage. I was lucky enough that he's a mellow little dude and although we had a hospital stint due to a urinary tract infection at 8 weeks we enjoyed the getting to know each other phase. BTW I work from home in editing and translating and never stopped doing it - just wore him in my Ergobaby.
You're a beast! I needed that mental break from work, and no way could I have worked during the first few weeks! What a total unit! ❤
@@KitKat10281 Unfortunately I had no choice. I wish I had a break from work. On the other hand, I could work from home with him until his 9th month so I was lucky that way. He's now at the nursery cause it was impossible to get work done since he started standing and crawling like a mad man 😀
@antonellabassi3466 I'm sorry you were in that position, but glad to hear he's doing well! 😀
Wake windows are everything. When my babies were newborns I was very resistant to track wake windows because it was yet another mental task to juggle and I thought it was a corner I could cut without dire consequences. But we inevitably ran into SERIOUS over tiredness problems when I didn’t at least try to be aware of sleep timing. More mental energy in the moment; but much less stress overall.
I’m expecting my first baby in January 2024. I’ve been loving your videos and so grateful for you and the constant you put out!
I am also expecting my first in January!! Congrats ❤
Hey! Same here 🎉!
@@karenzhong 🎉🎉 what's your due date?? Mine's 1/11. 🤗
@@Faith_fully Jan 15 haha.
@karenzhong wow that's close haha!
I'm 35 weeks pregnant with my 4th baby. Even tho i have breastfed 3 newborns into the toddler years and done the newborn stage 3 times, i still love to watch these videos for any new tips i might have missed, or just reminders of some things 😊.
36 weeks with baby five, but first boy. Definitely need a refresher too. My babies were all very colicky and some of my tips were to keep the tummy warm. Place the baby across your arm and they calm down. If the crying gets unbearable, it's OK to let the baby cry and get a quiet minute to recoop so you can keep handling it. Also changing from indoors to outdoors suddenly also calmed the baby, don't know why. Baby tea is also amazing for colic. And learn about tongue and lip ties for sure.
Im expecting my first baby (a little girl!) in November! I'm finally a few weeks into my second trimester so I feel semi-human again and am finally experiencing the joy, excitement, and anticipation!!
Christmas day for me and this gives me hope haha I'm still in the thick of being exhausted and throwing up all the time and it's making it hard to be productive at work 😕
Congratulations! My girl is 9 days old. It's a wild transition from being pregnant so long to suddenly having a baby you can hold.
@@giulia9116congratulations! You'll get through it. I had tons of food aversions for the first half of my pregnancy...then I got back to loving food.
November for me too! Also a little girl. I wish you luck for you and yours and I hope you have a smooth delivery and I'm sure she'll be gorgeous.
Congrats! I’m due November 20th with a boy!
I’m due in September 2023 with my first and this video was so comforting! Thank you!
First time expectant Nana (December 2023), and this is very useful. Will use a few of these tips myself, and pass them along to the first time Mama. Nicely done!
Hi! My husband and I are expecting our first, due April 2024. It's a girl! I'm so excited, but a little overwhelmed with where to even start! Your tips have been super helpful and put my mind a little more at ease! Thank you! ❤️
Same! We are expecting a little boy in April! I sent this video to my boyfriend to get him more prepared since I’ve been watching baby videos since before I was even pregnant 😂❤️ wishing you the best!
Another thing I found useful was to watch videos on things people wouldn’t get or do if they could do the new born phase again. During the explanation they tend to explain what they did do too. Having a 2 month old atm I know there are a few things I wouldn’t live with out, some things I wish I knew to get and a bunch of things I haven’t touched yet.
we're having a boy at the end of March (Easter time) :)
Thank you SO much for this video! I am currently expecting baby #2 and remember being so stressed and overwhelmed in the newborn phase of my first baby. These tips are amazing! And are a great refresher for all the newborn things! Thank you 😊 ❤
You are the first mama I've found on youtube that I agree with 100000% of every single thing you say! We will have two babes under 2 come January so needed a refresher :) Thank you so much, you are a lovely human!!!
I’m due in January with my 1st & I can’t tell you how helpful you have been! Thank you 🙏🏼❤️
newborn life was really hard for me,
mostly bc of how young and immature i was. in my mind i hadn't been able to shift well from being taken care of to taking care of another. my son had a lot of tummy troubles/colic, and it was just a lot on me. i was the first of anyone i knew to have a baby too (i still am the only one of my friends with kids lol) and it was hard mourning my old life. i'm 25 now, i have two kids and i'm hopefully about to be pregnant with my third. once i started going all in on being a mom and just grew up a little it's become a lot easier. i am so grateful for them. ❤ i also just LOVE the toddler stage way more than the baby stage, it's more fun to me! if it doesn't come naturally to you when your baby is born, just give it time.
This is my experience also, I just gave birth to my second, and motherhood is probably my favorite thing about my life now. You just have to be all in!
@@dorrymayne6819 for sure!!! I still struggle of course. It takes time. I also didn’t know it yet but when I wrote this I was indeed (and still am lol) pregnant with #3!
Thank you for the video! My baby boy is due next month and can't wait! These vids are so helpful for me to feel prepared 🩵😍❤️
I'm due on Christmas day with my first and I like to be prepared so I've already watched A LOT of these videos, but this one has been the most useful one by far!
Thanks
Expecting my first baby on August 19th 😍 this video makes me so excited to meet my little girl!
Mines 8/20 ❤
Due date twins! I’m having a boy tho
My initial due date was the 18th.. now getting induced on the 11th❤
Really solid advice. For foooted PFs we found just cutting the ends was most helpful especially if you have and me downs
I cannot tell you how helpful this video is! ❤Thank you so much for these unique, realistic tips!!
Loved this video! FTM expecting baby boy next week, this definitely eased some of my anxiety!
Baby number 3 on the way! Thanks for helping me brush up on my newborn phase tips! All good tips!
Thank you so much! I’m almost 35 weeks and due at the beginning of September with my first! I’m so excited and so scared at the same time.
This was so super helpful!! You covered pretty much everything i had questions about. I brought my new born home yesterday and these are all things i have wanted to get more information about. So thank u so much
Thank you for all the great tips! I just learned from a doctor on RUclips that skin to skin contact has many important medical benefits for both baby and mom.
Thank you !😊 On my third in October and these tips would have made me more relaxed and confident if i knew them earlier
I’m expecting my first baby at 29 years old. Baby girl due December 2024 🥰 I feel so blessed and excited. Your video is very helpful
The new born stage was difficult but I loved all the moments. I worked as a CNA before ever having any kids and you learn how to change briefs fast and affective and I used those methods I learned their and apply them with him.
This is a complete guide.
Thank you so much
Second time mom here, but it's been 12 yeras so I'm willing to learn new stuff. ❤
First time parents due June 13 with a baby girl ✨
Thank you for what you do!
Yay!! My girl was born June 11th.
How is it?! That’s my due date
Love this quicker style video! Thanks for all the tips!
Expecting number 2 in November!❤
Expecting baby #2 in 3 weeks ❤
Thanks for the helpful tips!!
This was all so helpful! Thank you!!!
About 15 weeks with my first and these are very helpful tips. Thank you
Tip #1!!! Yes! I do this now for my second & wish I knew with my first. Learned some new things from you for my third, thank you 🙏🏻
Expecting our first in October. The tip about the socks was really helpful since we live in northern Sweden and want to keep her warm and cozy. We just started to slowly build up her closet and have been debating on whether to use socks or clothes with covered feet. Socks it is!
I dont care how tired or sleep deprived I am but I loved every second of the newborn stage. My newborn will be a month old next week. ❤
I know your newborn needs to feed every 3 to 4 hours but its not necessary to wake your baby up in the middle of the night for feeding if your baby is progressing normally and is not underweight. When you newborn sleeps through the night for a good 6 hour.. let the baby sleep because it teaches them night time sleep. My newborn started sleeping through the night towards the end of the second week and its been blissful. He sleeps at 11 at night and wakes up at 5 for feeding and sleeps again and wakes up at 7 or 8 for the next feeding. Its like that for my first 2 kids as well. They all sleep through the night.
The hakaa breast suction is the best. Cheap and easy ❤
Same! I never woke gm first two up to eat when they were sleeping! They will definitely wake up when they are hungry! Sometimes as they sleep longer I realized it was a tiny growth phase 🥰
My baby is 2 weeks old and he sleep whole day and wake at night
I agree. I wouldn't wake up the baby to feed them. Let them sleep.
Is the hakaa breast pump manual, it must take forever to pump with it?
@@babycakes8434 it's kinda like a suction pump and acts like an automatic pump. There's a yt video on how to use it but I didn't use it for long unfortunately because I had complications after I delivered and lost too much blood. My body was focusing on recovery rather than producing milk but when I used it, it did work, I just didn't have enough milk to produce a lot.
Well, consider yourself lucky! It’s not always like this unfortunately :)
Thank you! I love how to-the-point this video is 😊
Baby comes next month 😵💫😱 first baby fear is real…you just want to watch and read everything but get overwhelmed
Same girl!
No worries most of us go through that real real fear. I never held a baby before my first son. And had absolutely no help after the C-section. And RUclips was real new and there was no real help or real openness information. Enjoy the crying, it’s communication even though it might feel overwhelming at times I take that challenge and love it
Congrats! By your avi I guess it went well? Due in 2 months here :) glad for your journey!
As a first time Dad, I thought my wife and I had prepared so well for our little girl, but from the moment she was born to now 5 days later, neither of us could have truly guessed the raw terror (also joy) we feel about not wanting to do anything wrong or see our baby not thrive. Everything is good so far thankfully 😊
I'm 19 weeks and 3 days, so basically halfway there depending on when he delivers! Thanks for the video!
Expecting my first & due date is tomorrow🫶🥹
Gosh its so hard but its getting better each day i love my daughter so much ❤❤❤
For the clothes I'm using a wardrobe and hangers + dividers and I store all the accesories in the small Ikea boxes in the drawer ❤ This way I can see all the baby's clothes perfectly!
Due March 2024 with my first. Thanks for the tips!
Week 9 with my first born as a family medicine OB physician momma and I agree with ALL of this advice!!!!
I’m a new first time mummy. These tips are great. Thank you
Fantastic hacks and tips. Every bit of advice is well thought out and experiential, thanks Beth🍼🐣👼❤❤❤😁
Due in September with my first baby and this was honestly SO helpful!! ❤
Congrats, I hope everything goes well for you ❤
Congratulations!
Me too ❤ we’re having a girl 🙂what date?
Me too!!! Baby due September 27! 🎉
@@jendickens2290 congrats Jen 🎊❤️
Just a heads up, I took a breastfeeding class at my local hospital. For the Haaka bottle, the nurse said do not pull back the top of the bottle and then attach to the breast. It can cause a lot of harm to the breast and nipples when done this way. This is a TikTok trend that is not encouraged by the company. Glad if it worked for you but just a warning for others.
I hadn’t heard this before. I went and looked on their website and one of the instructions they give for using it is to pull back the flange to attach it. So it is actually part of what the company gives as proper use, but maybe LCs have seen it cause damage it do it that way.
I don't have a boy, but I have heard that if you use a wipe around the top of their diaper where their bladder is, it will help them pee while the diaper is still on them. Hopefully reducing the need for a quick-cover pee situation for them. Hope this helps someone!
STM here, but since my first is already 7 years old, I am here to refresh my memories, and I am learning a lot! You look great as a mom of two (kids under 2!!)
Thanks for sharing the tips 🥰
And for fingernails, I remember for my first kid, the tip of her fingernails just fell off by themselves until when she was a few months old, so I never needed to clip her nails during that time. But great tips for clipping their nails when they are asleep, this would come in handy when baby is older too!
I’m expecting a baby girl due in December! Thanks for the tips - hope I can remember them all 😅
Me too 🥹🩵
Those tips are also very usefuls for dads
Expecting first baby in December ❤ thanks for the tips!
I’m expecting my first baby in May 2024. This is a lovely sweet video. Thank-you!
Me too. May is so soon now too ❤❤
Can you please link the rug in this video ? It’s beautiful ! And the video is super helpful
Great video - and for us as first parents very helpful, thank you so much!
Hi Beth!!:) loved the video! Could you do a video talking more about the schedule of baby and how you incorporated that, especially for getting longer hours of sleep! Thank you!❤
Ok I’m like 5 minutes in and I LOVE your positive demeanor 🤍
Thank you for just relating to people it’s super encouraging!!
This is such an amazing informative video! Thank you for sharing all of this information!
Beth, thank you so much for this info. I have a 17 month old daughter and expecting our little baby boy in 1-2 weeks. This is so wonderful to hear your tips, you are so beautiful and your spirit always shines so bright. 💜
Thank you very much for the tips! I'm expecting my first baby in August so just trying to get my hands on as much useful advice and tips as I can before baby is here ❤
Thanks for this tipsss
Girls pee too when the cool air hits them (or a cool wipe). I wasn't expecting this until I found out first hand.
I've found those tiny mittens useless and use socks on their hands instead. They stay on much better and keep babies face scratch free.
Also, not every baby likes to be swaddled. My tip would be to experiment until you get it right. Try the full body swaddle, or the torso and legs only (some babies find comfort in having their hands at their face), or perhaps its a sleep sack that works best!
I'm expecting my third, but it's been a couple years so these are great reminders!
Great tips. Thank you for making this video. It’s very informative and to the point.
This video helped a lot. I knew some of them while watching babies as I grew up. I'm due August 5th, 2024! 😍
My due is august 11, 2024..
Thank you for the tips! I love your living room!!!
Hi there! Expecting twin girls November 16, 2023...🎉🎉🎉nervous but excited also! Ty for the tips!
This was so helpful thank you! I love how you just go right into the info and you’re very natural at transitioning to each tip/topic, thank you.
My due date is March 20th! first baby
This is great! Thanks for sharing all these tips 🤍✨
Very helpful. Thank you!
I'm due eith my 3rd in June, and I would say to keep in mind that every hard phase WILL pass! You will experience things, like sleep regressions or maybe Baby has reflux, that are really hard and will really test you. When you're in the middle of it, it may feel like this will never end, but keep reminding yourself that it will pass!
Expecting first baby boy on 15th July, can't wait 😄
Very helpful tips, thank you
Hey, congrats! I’m expecting my first (a boy) on July 15th too! Good luck with everything😊
Due in 6 days!! Thank you so much!
I use cloth wipes and warm them with hot water. Saves money and bub doesn't have to get shock of the cold wipe on skin
These are really awesome tips!! Just about to have my third, and it was great to be reminded of these hacks that make the newborn stage so much easier ❤❤
Due in July with my first baby! So excited! ❤
Eeek excited for you!! So soon!! Wishing a healthy and straightforward birth experience. God bless
@@myahgormley9788 thanks!! I’m super excited and nervous at the same time!
@rebekahelias3303 of course!! Who wouldn't be. You're going to do absolutely amazing and in the difficult moments of labour pain just know it is definitely worth every minute, no question. Best wishes!
Thank you so much for sharing these tips! I am due towards the end of August with our first baby 😊 Apparently breast milk is also really great to help with cradle cap and any kind of scratch/scrape on baby!
Same!
Thank you for a nice start with these tips!
Im expecting a girl in april 2024!!
EDD November 2024, FTM here 💕 love your energy!
Thank you from Germany 🙂
Actually helpful tips. Thank you ❤
Expecting my second child. due in December. Few tips were new to me and helpful . Thank you !
Loved this! I'll have to come back to it later on, I'm due with our 1st baby June 2025 :)