Child Marriage in India

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  • @nahalanasrine.a2400
    @nahalanasrine.a2400 3 года назад +13267

    I am the first girl in my family who is still unmarried and studying at the age of 19. Proud of my parents. They want me to get a job.

    • @MalluNextDoorG3
      @MalluNextDoorG3 3 года назад +116

      Wow nyc

    • @kashmirasachin5333
      @kashmirasachin5333 3 года назад +183

      #MY.PARENTS.TOO! The Love Me To Bits, Even Though I Kinda Stupid
      I am 10 Years Old Though...
      In This World And This Time, You Would Think Everything Would Be Done Especially Arranged Marriages,
      It Just Hurts Me That I Live In Such A Big World, Yet Sexual Harassment And Arranged Marriages Are A Thing...
      I Am Also A 10 Year Old Girl Who Knows Why Too Much Of This World

    • @afeehaak3995
      @afeehaak3995 3 года назад +100

      Go with ur dreams 🙌

    • @cutlet7127
      @cutlet7127 3 года назад +121

      Shaadi tab karo jab aapki man kahe... May you find your destiny and, live a good life :)

    • @kashmirasachin5333
      @kashmirasachin5333 3 года назад +19

      @@afeehaak3995 Yass

  • @dorisadams4194
    @dorisadams4194 3 года назад +10020

    When I was 13 my parents married me off to a 69 old man it was horrible I cried and pleased with them but they didn't care at all the man already had 8 wives I was the youngest everyone in my family told me that I should be happy that this is what women are meant for that we were meant to be under men we had no voice I hated it I hated everyone in my family I didn't want to end up like any of those women so at the age of 15 I ran away from my country it wasn't easy I was homeless in America but it was better than being a wife to a 69 years old man a woman saw me and adopted me I told her everything I went back to school and now I can call my self a mother of 4 and a successful designer with my lovely husband my real parents hate me and told me I have disgraced them and brought shame to their name but I don't care because I hate them I later put the man in jail I'm happy with my life and would never forces any of my children into marriage

    • @aaravrapelli4401
      @aaravrapelli4401 3 года назад +400

      From which country you were from

    • @anaghapaul3987
      @anaghapaul3987 3 года назад +389

      Proud of u
      👏🏻👏🏻

    • @luvsoobmin
      @luvsoobmin 3 года назад +580

      You are really a powerful woman! Hats off from India 👏👏👏

    • @titikshaagrawal4333
      @titikshaagrawal4333 3 года назад +268

      Wowww
      such an inspirational story

    • @keertikeerti7619
      @keertikeerti7619 3 года назад +295

      Hats of you from India 🇮🇳 you are really great 👏👏

  • @tire.d743
    @tire.d743 3 года назад +569

    I'm a 19 year old guy
    I have a little sister and I'm very protective of her
    I want her to be a fighter
    I wanted her to be
    Independent
    Loved
    Educated
    I want her to have the world, I can't imagine what those little girls in rural areas of India are going through and I dearly hope they won't stop fighting.
    No matter your skin color or gender Identity
    We are all human,we breathe the same air so don't think so highly of yourself and think about the people around you.

    • @yashvishah7414
      @yashvishah7414 3 года назад +23

      True my big bother is like you only but will never let know this and he is of your age only

    • @tire.d743
      @tire.d743 2 года назад +28

      @@xombie0078 My sister is a powerful soul. She never gave up on her dreams, ever since she was 5 years old she wanted to be doctor to help people.
      She's only 16 but so mature and loving....
      But she isn't weakling, she stands up for the good in people...
      Both my parents have passed away, I've raised her myself ever since she was 10 under the care of my uncle.
      I didn't teach my sister to bow in the presence of neither man nor woman. I will support her till the day I die
      Because she is the only family that I'm left with-
      I don't care if a man didn't like her for her attitude, she's kind to people and if my sister is to marry a person she will marry someone who loves her for who she is.
      You have no right to speak to my dear sister that way...

    • @xombie0078
      @xombie0078 2 года назад

      @@tire.d743 First off, I have EVERY RIGHT to speak my opinion, especially when it's based on common sense and logic. Secondly, I'm NOT speaking to your sister--I'm speaking to YOU, fool! It's YOU who said that you want your sister to be a FIGHTER, and you want to raise her that way. So I replied and told you that men (and women too for that matter) don't like people who are raised to be aggressive and confrontational, which is 100% true. But now you're CONTRADICTING yourself and saying that your sister is "kind" and apparently not the @sshole that you want to raise her to be. So again, it's you who don't know what the hell you're talking about, so you might as well just shut up!

    • @tire.d743
      @tire.d743 2 года назад +7

      @@xombie0078 in my first comment
      Did I ever even mention the fact that I want her to be aggressive?
      I literally said so many things about her being loved...
      How the hell do you think a person would be loved if they were ignorant and selfish shits?
      Isn't it YOU'RE problem for also taking the term "fighter" the wrong way? When I said I raised her to be a fighter, I didn't mean that she's some asshole who goes around picking fights with people...I meant she fights for what's right, she stays strong in the right times; when she needs to protect people and herself...
      A fighter that never gives up because they're always fighting for the good in people...
      I understand it's you're opinion, dear stranger
      But I too, have the right to say something back when you're speaking to me or my sister.

    • @tire.d743
      @tire.d743 2 года назад +7

      @@xombie0078 I'm 20, a literal adult and I have a job...
      I'm going to a prestigious university in Canada-
      Currently I'm doing my very first Major in Visual Arts as I support my sister in her studies....
      She does a part time job aswell.
      I'm living with my husband, we all lived in russia but russia isn't a LGBTQ+ friendly country so we married early and moved to Canada.

  • @Heheheeeeeeeeee
    @Heheheeeeeeeeee 3 года назад +738

    I am a 12 year old girl and my sister is 21 year old
    And no one forced my sister to marry and no one will force me to marry
    Blessed to have such parents ❤️
    May all the children get better life
    Thank you for so many likes
    Never got so many before !!

  • @manisharout6499
    @manisharout6499 4 года назад +8953

    My parents are like " whose even gonna marry u ?"😆 they are hilarious ..proud to have such cute parents

  • @selinakhan9887
    @selinakhan9887 4 года назад +4100

    My father always said me be so successful that you don't have to depend on someone's son to fulfill your dreams

    • @Haslinn
      @Haslinn 3 года назад +14

      💯❤️

    • @rajiarafiah8245
      @rajiarafiah8245 3 года назад +31

      my mother also say the same

    • @soniamallick1925
      @soniamallick1925 3 года назад +12

      So true👏💯

    • @varshagowda5732
      @varshagowda5732 3 года назад +9

      That's 100% trueee

    • @nayab6129
      @nayab6129 3 года назад +2

      @Best way to get your time wasted Wait, somewhere in the comments you said " i'd slap my dad if he said that to me" I found that kinda rude. But thank God you are lucky get such amazing parents.

  • @Ntrsneaky
    @Ntrsneaky 3 года назад +197

    Iam 14 years old. In 2020 my mom is no more. In 2021 my father get 2nd married. And my step mom want i get married but my father is nothing to say..when public and my relatives,know that my mom is no more they used to say why not she married after my ssc exam they want to i got married.. I hate this cheap mentality.. How cheap mentality they have...but my mom wanted iam in success in my life. At one time my father also wanted that i will be a doctor... My father also a doctor... Please pray for me guys i want to success in my life i want to fill my mom wish..which century we live in... Marriage isn't a better option in life why girl is a load..why always a girl can compromise????

    • @anaghapaul3987
      @anaghapaul3987 3 года назад +12

      I feel so sad for you...even though idk u
      I will pray for you dear🙂😇

    • @asmisamaze1234
      @asmisamaze1234 3 года назад +21

      Listen
      Secretly record your stepmothers cruel behaviour to you and show it to police

    • @gadisha5398
      @gadisha5398 3 года назад +6

      Come on dear only u can stop ur problem.talk with ur father .bless u dear

    • @ishanisarmah554
      @ishanisarmah554 3 года назад +5

      Any updates?

    • @srishtigupta8698
      @srishtigupta8698 3 года назад +8

      Don't worry Apra... We all are with you ♥️
      I'm also 14 years old if you any problem please reply me here I'll talk with you...
      Atleast main toh tumhari mushkil samajh paungi 😃

  • @nicki_minajs_lost_wig934
    @nicki_minajs_lost_wig934 3 года назад +894

    My mom if forcing me to get married with math books , paper and pencils, highlighters, curriculum books , sticky notes and more.

    • @sarakhan6248
      @sarakhan6248 3 года назад +48

      🤣🤣🤣 same

    • @commander6921
      @commander6921 3 года назад +56

      same not only my mother but also my father and i am glad that they want me to get education as much as i want.

    • @ariba5378
      @ariba5378 3 года назад +6

      😂

    • @bindushree4105
      @bindushree4105 3 года назад +5

      Same, 😂

    • @PoojaThakur-gx8jn
      @PoojaThakur-gx8jn 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @shinchan359
    @shinchan359 4 года назад +4853

    18 yrs is still small for a girl to get married. It should be atleast 21

  • @anjuthomas9744
    @anjuthomas9744 4 года назад +1838

    When u educate a women you educate the whole family

  • @justastupidhoomaan9824
    @justastupidhoomaan9824 Год назад +120

    When my neighbour got to know about my age (I'm 20) and asked my mom if they were getting me married.😂 My neighbour said that her daughter's got married at the age of 18, but my mom said they will only get me married once I get independent and has a job. My neighbour was surprised and asked " wouldn't it take too much money and time?!, U can Marry her off easily. We get no benefits by teaching a girl" My father got furious when he heard that. He was like " who r they to decide my child's marriage? She will marry when she wanted! "😭I freaking luv my parents...

  • @bhingabubacar9770
    @bhingabubacar9770 3 года назад +1020

    We are Muslim from Philippines but our parents never pressure us to marry early. I married at the age of 28 after I got a job. I'm proud that they are like more open-minded than other parents.

    • @moongazer2607
      @moongazer2607 3 года назад +20

      Hello sister and fellow Muslim may god protect you and keep you happy

    • @realityhometips5289
      @realityhometips5289 2 года назад +6

      @@moongazer2607 thank you dear

    • @Saumya3020
      @Saumya3020 2 года назад

      Mostly child marriage is prevalent in muslim faimly
      This is really horrible

    • @Shivkeyyy8809
      @Shivkeyyy8809 2 года назад +17

      Good but religion doesn't matter

    • @user-ilhemdjaalab
      @user-ilhemdjaalab 2 года назад +16

      Im a muslim, hijabi, from a conservative family, doing phd abroad, not yet married, my family would never force me to marry because they know that will go against the teaching ls of our religion. And there some people criticizing muslims and ignoring their own problems. Such a shame.

  • @Sakshi-mrs9tx
    @Sakshi-mrs9tx 5 лет назад +4349

    I am even not interested in marriage😑😑😑

  • @ratnachatterjee3688
    @ratnachatterjee3688 3 года назад +2379

    My dad said he'll get me married at 18.
    I was like: I'm not even sure if I'll marry at 28.

    • @sayalirokade6754
      @sayalirokade6754 3 года назад +19

      @Bobby Bob Mee tooo✌️

    • @uzuma2115
      @uzuma2115 3 года назад +107

      I'm not Indian, but I made joke about marriage and my dad said "no you'll get married when your 100 years old or older"🤣🤣🤣

    • @gauriseth8086
      @gauriseth8086 3 года назад +51

      Same with me ......But I will raise my voice .....Because for me my dream meant alot ......I will be thinking after 30 or equivalent for marriage

    • @Ankur_TravelLife
      @Ankur_TravelLife 3 года назад +11

      Bal suhagrat ka video banao

    • @dibaatt9901
      @dibaatt9901 3 года назад +4

      Lah bapak saya juga nikah diumur 18

  • @SAKSHI-gm1tk
    @SAKSHI-gm1tk 2 года назад +86

    My grandma married when she was 9 years old...when she told me this....I can't beleive my eyes, ears , from my whole body 😭😭😭❤️...my mom got married at 17 when she was in 12th....😭
    When I listened it I couldn't believe what I read in childhood about child marriage was right it was in my family but no one told me and I was soo immature I never tried to ask them ...now when I am in 12th I asked them and my mom said I married at your age...and now here in this age I can't even know how to cook...??
    I am only girl child my mom fought in my joint family to go in town to let me and my brother study ..❤️I am proud of my mom..now all who were stopping my mom back then have children and came here in city for study ....I am proud of my mom and dad....❤️😭

  • @basundharathakur5357
    @basundharathakur5357 2 года назад +192

    All - girls are born for marrige
    My parents - Girls are born to study and change peoples thinking

  • @anittamariammathew1477
    @anittamariammathew1477 3 года назад +3951

    Dude why is no one talking about that child acting !!! ITS DAMNNNN GOOOOOOOOOD !!!!

  • @ragaveeanantharajah6468
    @ragaveeanantharajah6468 6 лет назад +3326

    Child marriage should be a crime. I felt bad for her at the beginning. Luckily now she has a freedom to do anything she wants.

    • @areejikram1041
      @areejikram1041 6 лет назад +7

      Ragavee Anantharajah omg I love your proflie pic

    • @aeri2512
      @aeri2512 6 лет назад +38

      Ragavee Anantharajah
      it is a crime

    • @chimmieee2859
      @chimmieee2859 6 лет назад +2

      Ragavee Anantharajah I just love your profile pic 😍

    • @balangangadaran2904
      @balangangadaran2904 6 лет назад +2

      Uta Masks

    • @iteadorixx676
      @iteadorixx676 6 лет назад +17

      amayvikrana narayan it’s not a crime in India..the kids still have to marry as young as 12...it pretty much cruel to the females children

  • @rajbirsingh5231
    @rajbirsingh5231 3 года назад +45

    I can't understand when husband dies in the day of marriage everyone blame wife. Child marriage should be stoped. I am very lucky to have best parents in the world.

    • @ae0lian5284
      @ae0lian5284 3 года назад +4

      Yeah, they mostly blame the bride of it BC according to their beliefs, if a groom dies, it means the girl has brought unluckiness to the family. Its sad😔

  • @thetroublemaker3481
    @thetroublemaker3481 2 года назад +20

    ചിറകുകൾ അരിഞ്ഞു വീഴ്ത്തപ്പെടാനുള്ളതല്ല. ഉയർന്നു പറക്കുവാനുള്ളതാണ്❤‍🔥

  • @jefreepatrickstarr98
    @jefreepatrickstarr98 5 лет назад +932

    "God did not create society but man did." damn so accurate

    • @aanchal-annaleedeprince5525
      @aanchal-annaleedeprince5525 3 года назад +4

      Oh yes

    • @creeperYT9824
      @creeperYT9824 3 года назад

      Wait did a man create it or a woman

    • @sathish5470
      @sathish5470 2 года назад +18

      @@creeperYT9824 Humans

    • @Lisamanoban1997
      @Lisamanoban1997 2 года назад +8

      O wow,I never knew that boys could give birth🙄I know what you mean. But the major part of the roll is played by our mom. She keeps us in our stomach for 270 days (9 months.) And then with lots of pain she brings us to the world.

    • @ok-kc3cy
      @ok-kc3cy 2 года назад +2

      @@Lisamanoban1997 without men world not run

  • @Brojuststfuuuuuuuu
    @Brojuststfuuuuuuuu 5 лет назад +5542

    My dad says that u won't get married until u become a successful person in ur life😊❤
    Edit: thankyou so much everyone and all the very best for your future ahead. May you all rise and shine. 💜

  • @sadles-girl3560
    @sadles-girl3560 3 года назад +342

    Bro I'm 23 years and my parents didn't even talk about marriage to the point I thought they forgot about it lol

  • @artandstories2351
    @artandstories2351 2 года назад +37

    Just because of this my parents shifted to City from village and now I'm 24 still living independent and Happy life without being pressured for marriage.. I think I'm the luckiest girl to have parents like my parents ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Loveyourself-bs1md
    @Loveyourself-bs1md 4 года назад +3044

    Those 4k people who disliked this video should get the worst punishment as possible 😡😠

  • @pushpakiri9755
    @pushpakiri9755 6 лет назад +387

    A daughter is one of the most beautiful gifts the world has to give............😭

    • @Anastas1ios
      @Anastas1ios 6 лет назад +3

      Nisha What is a son then? Hm?

    • @TaylorSenoire
      @TaylorSenoire 5 лет назад +3

      Its TheGreek what do u want her to say, more important?

    • @inzaynklainer5910
      @inzaynklainer5910 5 лет назад +14

      Its TheGreek she did not say a daughter is the most beautiful gift, she said a daughter is ONE OF THE most beautiful gift.

    • @alekhyamandaloju03
      @alekhyamandaloju03 2 года назад +1

      Don't cry pushpa bish-

  • @priyanshigautam7949
    @priyanshigautam7949 11 месяцев назад +21

    Being a single daughter , I am proud to have a parents that thinks about my financial independence and not to marrige

  • @shreenjandutta
    @shreenjandutta 2 года назад +28

    Who else had goosebumps when the girl said, " I can do anything."
    Damn that was so powerful

  • @sruthisathish5567
    @sruthisathish5567 3 года назад +504

    I love my parents. As soon as I said that I wanted to play cricket they made me join a coaching centre for cricket. I feel lucky.😍

    • @bhavyakumari2377
      @bhavyakumari2377 3 года назад +10

      Literallyy u r veryy lucky. Even my parents disagreed😔😔

    • @whos.aishaaa
      @whos.aishaaa 3 года назад +11

      Ur super lucky, when I was 5 I said I wanna be an artist but my parents just laughed at my dreams-

    • @cocolives
      @cocolives 2 года назад +5

      @@whos.aishaaa girl you just need to practice! The world is full of opportunities. There is someone out there who will hear you out!

    • @pravikasingh7320
      @pravikasingh7320 2 года назад +2

      Very good
      I hope u achieve ur dream

    • @karansingh5905
      @karansingh5905 2 года назад

      My parents too

  • @igot7armytaekook308
    @igot7armytaekook308 4 года назад +915

    Now that I saw this video, I feel lucky that my mom said she would chop me into pieces if I get a boyfriend before entering college.

  • @ilodamushroom8302
    @ilodamushroom8302 3 года назад +103

    "we could not save him"
    everyone starts crying
    she cry's
    secretly laughs in her head
    Realizes the pity she will get
    "shit-"

    • @LadyVineXIII
      @LadyVineXIII 3 года назад +15

      Pity nothing. In India, widows are labelled as cursed and outcast. They wind up living in the gutter or worse. I am hoping that in at least some parts of India, that is changing though.

    • @ARYA-vq1fi
      @ARYA-vq1fi 3 года назад +6

      Not proud to be an indian girl 🇮🇳🚫

  • @kpopspop4291
    @kpopspop4291 3 года назад +85

    I'm really blessed to have my parents!!😭😭😭

  • @surekhapowar9171
    @surekhapowar9171 5 лет назад +2193

    🤗😚I am so proud that my parents support me 🤗😊
    But l fill bad for girls who didn't get support from their family 😔😔

    • @gogreennatureluver2066
      @gogreennatureluver2066 5 лет назад +6

      OMG! My name is also sureka

    • @hoorainhareem1890
      @hoorainhareem1890 5 лет назад +5

      Zabardast story ☺️

    • @rekharex3767
      @rekharex3767 4 года назад +2

      My name rekha

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 года назад +5

      Surekha powar Although there's family support even some girls like me get married at an early age due to the things happening in society like rape,love etc...
      I mean to say some girls are not so perfect and they fail to choose a perfect pair for them and that may leads to many consequences in these days like selling etc...so the parents are very afraid of their children and it leads to child marriage

    • @mitadas5902
      @mitadas5902 3 года назад +1

      Yes i give that dream equal than boy have ti do in future i those who marrige so earky donot think about theut hobbie👨‍👩‍👧🕉😍😘😋🥰😤😐😑😶🙄😏😣😥😮🤐😯😪😫😴😌😛😒🤤😓😔😕☹️🙁😖😞😟😤😢😭🤯😩😨😬😰😱🥵🥶😳🤪😡😠😵😷🤒🤕🤢🤮🤧

  • @iamjo8672
    @iamjo8672 4 года назад +175

    Sister, you have given birth to my dreams😭😭😭😭😭
    That is the most beautiful sentence i have heard

  • @manasyaasharmahazarika5128
    @manasyaasharmahazarika5128 3 года назад +59

    My great maternal grandmother who is 85 years and still alive was married in 10 years of age. I feel bad for her
    My maternal grandmother who is 66 years old and still alive was married before she could even pass class 10. She has been a widow for like 26 years. I feel really bad for her.
    My mom who is 40 years old is married in 26 years old.
    My mom told me that she would kill me if I have a boyfriend before 21 years...
    I'm proud of my mom

    • @pallabbiswas947
      @pallabbiswas947 2 года назад

      But will she allow you to marry as per your choice after you are 21?

  • @sadaftanweer6392
    @sadaftanweer6392 2 года назад +14

    My parents too never forced me for marriage am still 18 and studing to achieve my goals.... I am proud of my parents 😌😌😌

  • @hafxsae8527
    @hafxsae8527 5 лет назад +800

    Damnn these parents must go to jail 😠
    Edit: u guys are still replying to my comment which I made when I was like 10 or 11 yrs old? Its kinda cringe but thx for the likes I appreciate it

    • @divinity924
      @divinity924 3 года назад +8

      Ikr so mean

    • @kashmirasachin5333
      @kashmirasachin5333 3 года назад +5

      Exactly

    • @mamtamallick5309
      @mamtamallick5309 3 года назад +10

      ye abhi bhi village me hota hai baal vivah 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @isha1905
      @isha1905 3 года назад +7

      @@mamtamallick5309 yeah!!! it's not right....... it means people do illegal works yet ....

    • @mamtamallick5309
      @mamtamallick5309 3 года назад +3

      @@isha1905 yes didi

  • @jumanalohawala2811
    @jumanalohawala2811 6 лет назад +606

    child marriage is a crime by law
    but many people don't understand
    every girl should be educated and given importance as they hold an important standard in the progress of country
    hit the like button if u agree and if you are a girl

    • @ashaseetaram8052
      @ashaseetaram8052 5 лет назад

      I feel like it's a tradition in some places of india

    • @yafitya
      @yafitya 5 лет назад +1

      Sorry to break it off to you but in some counries they cant adjust it into the head

    • @princessyasm1n
      @princessyasm1n 5 лет назад

      actually, it's not. in america at least. i don't know about other countries but in all 50 states you can get married at any age.

    • @chibilious115
      @chibilious115 5 лет назад +1

      But you are not a girl...

    • @claireann2129
      @claireann2129 5 лет назад

      The whole world doesn’t follow one country’s laws

  • @cutlet7127
    @cutlet7127 3 года назад +102

    When the concept "SOCIETY'S THINKING' dies, humanity will rise to become Gods!

  • @artie6190
    @artie6190 3 года назад +34

    What I just can't understand is that how parents force their daughters to be married early, Knowing that her married life wouldn't be happy as they think

    • @rainbowgirlism
      @rainbowgirlism 3 года назад +2

      Financial burden off their hands, sadly.

    • @pallabbiswas947
      @pallabbiswas947 2 года назад

      @@rainbowgirlism But why do in-laws accept little girls as daughters-in-law?

    • @rainbowgirlism
      @rainbowgirlism 2 года назад

      @@pallabbiswas947 Good question!!!

  • @blahblahblahblah3408
    @blahblahblahblah3408 6 лет назад +501

    I feel so bad for those kids forced to do something they don't want

  • @shahsaika2201
    @shahsaika2201 5 лет назад +1027

    o God plz save all girls

  • @sushma1453
    @sushma1453 3 года назад +8

    I am 26 year old i am still unmarried my parents support me in my life and in my studies i am proud of my parents itnii chotii larkii kasa managé kragyii itnii sarii life ki struggle but now we all are Lucky Child married banned but my parents always support me .

  • @shashuwat6594
    @shashuwat6594 2 года назад +8

    I am just 18yo my parents forced me to get married to a person who I don't like when I give this them to watch this video they Stop to force me thank you for making this🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @noorieabq8171
    @noorieabq8171 4 года назад +71

    I had gone through it got married at 14 and got divorced in 15 and then somewhat I studied and got married again in 18 luckely I got good caring loving husband so I continued mystudies again and became a teacher last year and I have 2 kids and leading a beautiful happy life .....the important thing is that I got a understand husband thank God he blessed me that

  • @Stereo6400
    @Stereo6400 5 лет назад +431

    I almost cried when they had to hold her down, And she was crying during the wedding.
    She deserves to become the queen of India, not just the prime minister. She can become anything.

    • @sukritikatewinslet204
      @sukritikatewinslet204 5 лет назад +10

      Yes this video makes me cry when Meethi told that she can achieve anything , she can achieve anything to her new mother

  • @charitha2513
    @charitha2513 Год назад +10

    My parents are the most innocent ones. They can do anything for me. I am very thankful to them for being so much supportive and caring 🥺 love you amma appa❤️

  • @SiimplyBasic
    @SiimplyBasic 2 года назад +24

    My grandma got married at 14 and she has my dad at 16 years old, my grandpa was 30 when he married my grandma, my grandma swore that she would never do that to her children, she had two boys my dad and my uncle, I am so glad she raised them right and I’m greatful for her sacrifices and NOBODY should ever have to go through that

  • @carmelitagood3384
    @carmelitagood3384 5 лет назад +612

    My husband and I would gladly accept a widowed girl as our daughter.

    • @ahlinad1221
      @ahlinad1221 4 года назад +28

      She isn't even widowed, how is that even accepted as a marriage?

    • @loveleonk
      @loveleonk 4 года назад +8

      @@ahlinad1221 she married. He died a wife without a husband is called a widow.

    • @ahlinad1221
      @ahlinad1221 4 года назад +24

      @@loveleonk I know, but a marriage without mutual consent is not a marriage at all.

    • @loveleonk
      @loveleonk 4 года назад +6

      @@ahlinad1221 as long as it has a certificate, is legal, two people, and two rings. It is a marriage even if one did not give consent it is still marriage. It's sad but many countries allow it

    • @ahlinad1221
      @ahlinad1221 4 года назад +9

      @@loveleonk You can go to jail for forcing marriage. It is illegal, so even if 2 people have it signed in the registration papers, if one of them complains that they were threatened or forced, the marriage will not be legal. And the people forcing him/her will be jailed.

  • @blackcarnage9619
    @blackcarnage9619 3 года назад +236

    Let girls see and prove their dreams. Hope from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰💝

  • @rakanishut
    @rakanishut 3 года назад +24

    I praise the Lord every day, for that me and my kids I live in a country where child marriages are forbidden! My dear parents raised me to become a independant woman:)

    • @Saumya3020
      @Saumya3020 2 года назад

      In foreign country there was no freedom for even voting
      So this is ridiculous

  • @zainabpatel8778
    @zainabpatel8778 3 года назад +1

    I m first girl in my family n i m 23 years old but still unmarried i have studied pharmacy n now i m pharmacist in india n now i m going to uk for my further studies i must thank my parents who trusted me n motivated me to fulfill my dreams

  • @marylouaris935
    @marylouaris935 5 лет назад +481

    Im crying after watching this video i was arrange marriage too at the age of 16 now thanks God we are seperated and he has a new family right now so he cannot ruin my life ever so happy😊

  • @dilflover07
    @dilflover07 4 года назад +170

    I want to get married after I graduate college, get my job, and settle into a house

    • @Ankur_TravelLife
      @Ankur_TravelLife 3 года назад +2

      Bal suhagrat ka video banao

    • @sicassa_latte9
      @sicassa_latte9 3 года назад +3

      @@Ankur_TravelLife HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! OMG I CANT STOP LAUGHING!

  • @kiaram9355
    @kiaram9355 3 года назад +27

    Conversation in my family last week:
    mom: learn to do some household work otherwise no one will marry you
    me : Great! I don't want to marry anyone either. I'm not interested in handing someone the reigns to ruin my life. I'll ruin it on my own terms.
    my dad: Who the hell do you think will want to marry you ?? you're so arrogant and proud
    me : Ik
    *walks away blasting music through my air pods to go work on my assignments for law school*

  • @ayunihana1754
    @ayunihana1754 3 года назад +15

    YOU cant FORCE SOMEONE to marry if they are not willing to

  • @sreejithapc7564
    @sreejithapc7564 5 лет назад +63

    I am from kerala ,here there is no such discrimination and kids live here happily.

  • @jayeetachatterjee5188
    @jayeetachatterjee5188 3 года назад +237

    I won't marry until I get a proper job and high income. I want to be the girl who pays her own bills and does not depend on anyone. I also thank god that I've got supportive parents who won't get me married before I'm atleast 30 years old. Actually my parents have said that it's my choice whether I want to marry or not and they will never forcefully arrange a marriage for me🙂🙂.

    • @Ethereal_0777
      @Ethereal_0777 3 года назад +3

      OMG! THAT'S REALLY GREAT!!!😲😲

    • @snaik9141
      @snaik9141 3 года назад +1

      ❤️

    • @roopkathachaudhury1353
      @roopkathachaudhury1353 3 года назад +1

      Good luck!

    • @tabasumiman8552
      @tabasumiman8552 2 года назад

      Same

    • @xombie0078
      @xombie0078 2 года назад

      That's great. And when you see that all of your female friends and colleagues are married (because men want women when they are pretty and fertile), you'll be begging for ANY man to come calling while you're in your 30's! 🤣🤣

  • @anetanra
    @anetanra 3 года назад +7

    Thank God that a lovely family took her in and gave her such love. You go, girl!

  • @eeshathakoor646
    @eeshathakoor646 3 года назад +12

    My parents just say to me, be so successful that you will never need a man in your life as support...

  • @lpsclumz7198
    @lpsclumz7198 6 лет назад +2176

    While my dad is like
    Ur not getting married till ur 89

  • @HenaShahasad
    @HenaShahasad 5 лет назад +297

    I’m proud to be a girl 💪🏻💪🏻 thanks for such a good short film

  • @mitaligupta8596
    @mitaligupta8596 2 года назад +2

    I am only 14 years old when I get married but I do not want happen again with my daughter but today she is successful pilot 👨‍✈️️👨‍✈️️and my son is success buisness man I really proud of her 💜💜thanks God you give such a lovely husband and daughter and son ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @prajoshmaniyillath1103
    @prajoshmaniyillath1103 3 года назад +34

    Any malayali girls here🙋

  • @sanchitabhattacharya8598
    @sanchitabhattacharya8598 6 лет назад +276

    I am proud to be a girl

  • @themithegangsta09
    @themithegangsta09 4 года назад +3534

    “You have a big mouth at your age”
    *Hah, you should see me.*

  • @arunimawankhade3430
    @arunimawankhade3430 3 года назад +10

    My parents say even if I don't get married it's ok... Because I'm already their lfy❤️❤️

  • @kushal3899
    @kushal3899 3 года назад +5

    I am crying after watching this video. Many girls really faces these problem in their life .❤️❤️ but many parents can't understand these situation.

  • @nanduram9896
    @nanduram9896 4 года назад +89

    I got married at 13.. I am from Andhra Pradesh.. my husband takes care of me and supports me and respect my dreams so I continued my studies now I am 12th standard but so it's very heartbroken heart touching video

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 года назад +4

      @27-Rishika prakash-7D
      Hi rishika prakash I am still continuing my studies. Thanks for the support. I was going to attempt C.A foundation Nov 2020 That's only because of my husband and my parents support.

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 года назад +4

      @27-Rishika prakash-7D At the time of marriage I was in same situation as like meethi and there's no one to stop that marriage. and last year ending on 27th Dec my husband met with an accident with a seviour headinjury leg and hand fractures at that time there is no one to support except my parents who gave financial support for us as he was bedridden for 4 months. Early marriages or child marriages are not good for a girl and there's more mental stress and it's very difficult to study with that mind. So, please try to save a girl child from getting a forced marriage

    • @nanduram9896
      @nanduram9896 3 года назад +1

      @27-Rishika prakash-7Doh! I have completed my ssc in Mumbai (wadala) in AESHSchool

    • @khaniawan790
      @khaniawan790 3 года назад +2

      You are lucky dear ❤️☺️

    • @avanipatel2037
      @avanipatel2037 2 года назад +1

      Good luck for your future

  • @prakashanpm9317
    @prakashanpm9317 3 года назад +42

    I think its good that Meethi became a widow. Through it she got a wing to fly to the sky.❤

  • @RoseyVamp
    @RoseyVamp 3 года назад +15

    The dramatization tho! Glad their spreading awareness! Child marriage is a heartless and cruel act! No culture should normalize this

  • @mehakgoyal437
    @mehakgoyal437 Год назад +3

    My parents said to stand on ur feet first we will think about matriage later. I m so lucky to have parents like them

  • @boragirl...4400
    @boragirl...4400 4 года назад +62

    My father says when u become a big girl, ur wish when u want marriage, if u don't want to marriage u don't marriage!!

    • @creeperYT9824
      @creeperYT9824 3 года назад

      @Best way to get your time wasted grammar nazi

  • @aaryashicutipie4575
    @aaryashicutipie4575 5 лет назад +302

    Girls power
    Super power

  • @kookie2656
    @kookie2656 2 года назад +3

    My Sister is First girl in my family .. But She is doing Job at hospital and she is nurse in Age Of 20 ... My parents Are proud of her ...
    My parents Dream is she can go out of country ...
    And I am also a girl ..
    Girls are Strong than boys...
    👇

  • @blue.malachite7740
    @blue.malachite7740 3 года назад +5

    It really broke my heart to see the girl getting married with out knowing what is actually marriage is about

  • @rynriss
    @rynriss 3 года назад +60

    I came from a documentary of illegal child marriages in India. This is so upsetting, I hope those who are living in this situation are able to stay strong and keep fighting for your rights. Sending my love from Australia.

  • @alinameher8489
    @alinameher8489 6 лет назад +308

    Very Bad....
    Childhood is not a Motherhood....

  • @darpanpatel3303
    @darpanpatel3303 11 месяцев назад +5

    As a girl of two, loving parents, I'm actually an Indian. I know what it's like when us children aren't given a voice to be heard about our ideas and beliefs, we are always overshadowed by the adults. Sometimes, what we believe in is always destroyed by those who are older just because they are "smarter" and more experienced

  • @humojyotimoran4302
    @humojyotimoran4302 2 года назад +6

    Hats off to the person who created this video....and i wish every educated women take responsibility to help a young female from uneducated backgrounds. Their backgrounds will drag them down

  • @lamishaa.c5877
    @lamishaa.c5877 6 лет назад +400

    The girl didn't deserve it
    She didn't deserve to get married at such a young age

  • @Shagufta26
    @Shagufta26 5 лет назад +119

    I can't understand why people dislike this video😔😔😔......

    • @polo02playful
      @polo02playful 5 лет назад +8

      They're child marriage supporters

    • @snehasbuddhi1911
      @snehasbuddhi1911 4 года назад +7

      Because they are those jerks who support this stupidity

    • @user-oo8zc5ny8e
      @user-oo8zc5ny8e 4 года назад +4

      Nah this is just pure cringe. I get it it's child marriages people should show more respect, but with all due respect this is pure cringe

    • @snehaviswanathan.c1894
      @snehaviswanathan.c1894 4 года назад +3

      Stop child marriage

    • @Prakash-rr5kc
      @Prakash-rr5kc 3 года назад

      Dislike because situation has changed

  • @Krshnaaa_1
    @Krshnaaa_1 3 года назад +4

    My parents often says that "u have to study hard, get a job, be a successful person and one more thing, *We will not pay anything for ur marriage* 😂 u have to make it by ur own" they're so cute and this is what inspires me to study even hard

  • @njerimaina5966
    @njerimaina5966 3 года назад +2

    THIS STORY MAKE ME CRY I LOVE THE WAY YOU DID TO HER I AM WATCHING FROM KENYA AFRICA

  • @muralitalari2415
    @muralitalari2415 5 лет назад +87

    I'm so lucky to have like that parents to me. I proud to have them, my parents support me in every thing 🤗I LOVE MY PARENTS❤💕

  • @rekhaantony2304
    @rekhaantony2304 4 года назад +144

    വിദ്യാഭ്യാസo ഒരിക്കലും കൈവിട്ടു കളയരുത്

    • @annawilsonxi-a4681
      @annawilsonxi-a4681 3 года назад +4

      Athaannn

    • @Samah_kb
      @Samah_kb 3 года назад +19

      ഇവിടെ വന്നിട്ട് മലയാളിയുടെ കമന്റ് കണ്ടപ്പോൾ സന്തോഷം

    • @Insertregret
      @Insertregret 3 года назад +2

      Yes

    • @Poornimaaaaaa344
      @Poornimaaaaaa344 3 года назад +2

      Yes

    • @mgA757
      @mgA757 3 года назад +1

      👍

  • @shristytamang4996
    @shristytamang4996 2 года назад +1

    I'm proud of my dad he always told me don't go anywhere you r my daughter u can be with me always

  • @JeonJungkook-mw6ui
    @JeonJungkook-mw6ui 3 года назад +41

    I am really proud of my parents they want me to get job and stand by myself 💜I love you my mom and dad

  • @michaeljacksonfan3219
    @michaeljacksonfan3219 6 лет назад +227

    This is sad. Just sad. These type of parents should be very ashamed

    • @stargazejk
      @stargazejk 6 лет назад +4

      Jimin stole my hearteu I LUV BTS .. True mate.. My grandparents were victims of child marriage.. It really hurts hearing the story

    • @abhijiths1803
      @abhijiths1803 6 лет назад +3

      Not feminism, 'EQUALITY ' naan!! !

    • @inzaynklainer5910
      @inzaynklainer5910 5 лет назад +5

      ABHIJITH S feminism means equality.

    • @klara8246
      @klara8246 5 лет назад

      Heyyy family member😂❤❤

  • @sharaa8735
    @sharaa8735 5 лет назад +42

    Girl can do everything that's nobody can't do... We can fight for anyone... We can never give up... ❤️

    • @zoefang4563
      @zoefang4563 Год назад +1

      That's the spirit Shara!!! You GO GIRL

  • @hamasm8525
    @hamasm8525 3 года назад +10

    Alhamdulilah I'm still under age I'm 16 years old I'm studying I'm the last girl In my family I have 3 elder sister's and 2 elder brother 1 younger brother I'm proud of my parents they educated us equal all of my elder sister's are finished high school and graduated university we equal to our parents
    And my father use to say as a girl if you study 2mrrow you're gonna do whatever you wanna with man
    And my mom she use to tell us to focus on our dreams not to skip our careers . "If you focus on you're dreams and goals nothing will not block you " married is just by luck don't hurry to marry you have to choose your future kids good father and yourself to choose good husband you have to think twice before you get marry .

  • @TheAdventurousSoul2046
    @TheAdventurousSoul2046 2 года назад +3

    It is very important to raise voice against this injustice happening in today's era because every girl's dream is to move ahead, read, write and get everything which is for a boys. Seeing this video, every person should be inspired to give girls a chance to move forward.

  • @unicorngonepink9453
    @unicorngonepink9453 6 лет назад +65

    Thank you for saving her life!

  • @ames2148
    @ames2148 4 года назад +47

    Meanwhile
    My parents- Hunny, you ain't gonna date till youre 30

  • @krishnachouhan8314
    @krishnachouhan8314 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am also a girl how complete 20 years and still i am single mera mummy papa ma bola jb laga ki tum capable hoo
    Mature hoo jb shadi krna
    I proud my parents both love me sooo much ❤

  • @sadafsami3696
    @sadafsami3696 Год назад +5

    She is mishri sindoor ki kimat 😅 so cute

  • @maryamzainah1881
    @maryamzainah1881 6 лет назад +34

    Being a female can be challenging for everyone
    But being a woman, you can do what your heart desires
    Being a girl sucks especially for me
    But I love who I am..
    Capable
    Successful
    Loved
    Unique
    I want to be who I really am
    A WOMAN!!!!
    And for all the girls and ladies out there
    Don't let anyone tell you that you can't make it
    You are YOU

    • @zoefang4563
      @zoefang4563 Год назад

      @ Maryam: Being a girl is amazing

  • @ponokin2532
    @ponokin2532 6 лет назад +534

    Mom: you ain’t getting married till you 89.
    *shows her this video*
    Mom: you’re never getting married.

  • @incharam1593
    @incharam1593 2 года назад +5

    When i am 9 years at one day night i asked my father in what i get success daddy he said me become a I.A.S officer my dear that time i have diceded to become I.A.S officer after few days there was covid-19 so in that time i have very interested in drawing painting & skechs so again one more i asked my dad the same question so that time my dad said me whatever u wish to receive in ur life that may get u success said my dad so i haven said to my dad i need to become an artist dad my dad said great so my dad joins me in art 🏫 school so i am an child artist in my school

  • @mannatkaur9530
    @mannatkaur9530 2 года назад +1

    It's sad how after so many years some people still have the wrong thought 😔