Come Together Preventing Child Marriage in India
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- Опубликовано: 1 янв 2018
- A HAQ: Centre for Child Rights Film
Direction and Screen Play by Avijit Dutt
This film is based on HAQ' s project- Strengthening Governance to Prevent Child Marriage being implemented in West Bengal and Andhra Pradesh. HAQ: Centre for Child Rights along with its partners Jabala and MV Foundation has demonstrated that with a strong convergence of government systems and community efforts, child marriages can be prevented.
The actors in the film are not professionals. They are from the community, and several of them are persons who work on preventing child marriages in their area, in their official capacity or as concerned members of the society.
My mom married at 18, her life was a full hell. The new family never supported her only my dad did. She was so devastated she wanted to leave her studies midway because she had me at 19 and it was really hard to take care of me while studying. But my dad never let her lose her hope. My dad stayed awake all night taking care of me while my mom studied hard. Now because of my dad's support, both of them has successful jobs. I look up to them a lot.
My grandmother married at 16
poor her
i feel bad for her
i'm proud of your mother
she must be a very strong woman
I'm glad you have a supportive father
MashAllah😍😍😍😘😘
Very encouraging
I have an Indian mom. She tells me to get married only when you feel it's right.
My grandma on the other hand wants me to get married at at least 18.
I feel so lucky to have a mom like that.
Ur indeed lucky for ur mom to go against ur grandmother's wish and give ur own freedom Hats off to ur amazing mom
❤️ From Tamil Nadu
My mom should i can't get married before 30, which is okay for me.
@Unanimous thats funny and caring 😂😂😂 my parents are also like yours😁
My grandma want me to be intelligent and grow big, and the same is with my mother and father. Also 18 is too young, marriage at such a young age is so frustrating, rocket science is easier than that
And dad?
My mom got married at 15, she regrets it so much.
Is every thing okay now dear?
That is so sad 😞
Is she now happy or???
Really 😮😣
My mom got married at age 14.
My mom got married at 29 years old 😄😄
She is a successful business women
IAM proud of her🎊🎊🎇🎊
💖♥️♥️💖💖♥️
Same here
My mom also
My mom at 28
My mom 32
Mine at 23
The girl who ran to get the police... so brave and smart 🙏🏻
@@audrineainel8539
No offence but that has no correlation to the video what so ever.
Agreed. Armmmmyyyyyy
Yeah ur right but r u bangladeshi
U an army.....wow bro
U an army.....wow bro
I remember in middle school, my best friend had to go back to India due to a "family emergency". Thats what all the teachers said and I didnt get a chance to say good bye. I didnt find out until a week before high school graduation when I learned that she was sent away to India to get married. She was 13 and her family sent her to her parents' birthplace to get married!! I remembered how close she and her brother were so I found him online and demanded answers.
Yeah, she was 13 and sent to India to get married to a man well in his thirties because he needed a "good young bride" and her family needed money. He told me the last time he saw his sister was at her funeral. She died at 17 years old and she was beaten to death by her husband and father-in-law for refusing to sleep with the man.
I hate her parents to this day. I hate them to death. I lost my best friend since 2nd grade because of them and their bullshit piece of culture. Sahrika dreamed of being a pilot and her parents sent her away to die and I will always hate them now and forever. I still miss my best friend after almost 15 years.
So sad 😥
I also hate these type of people.
Its not culture its the choice of the family which is really sad and i have the same story as you 😣😭
This is indian culture. Very dirty filthy in India old man always want to marry a young child.
@@rupashri_4 it kinda is.. it’s the norm for girls to marry older men at a young age
Horrible
The fact that some parents are willing to subject their children to this is horrible. They're kids and want to have fun not to be forced into these roles.
Elle The Animator poor parents have no option,low skilledwomen really don't have any job prospects in villages.So they try to marry their daughter to a decent earning man so that she can live a better life.
@@user-zm9yc2kb8x No need to be rude kid.
@@Nervous101 OOOOOOOOOOO
@@cs-mi8ur no she tries to marry her daughter so it is one less expense in their family and so that she can bear children for another
@@biberflub my state has one of highest number of child marriages and one of lowest woman's fertility rate even lower than replacement level. So the data says something else. To be fair most cases of child marriage are at 16 or 17 which isn't much different from 18,and the age difference between the groom and bride is Arnd 3-4.so it's more about getting their daughter married to a better family financially
I married at the age of 19 but my husband made me to study B.A B.ED and also M.A and i am having a job that make me live my life and i had my child at the age of 23.Thanks for my hubby who made my dreams come true and achieved it .
Your lucky you found a good man, so many suffer from abuse because of these practices. May your family be blessed
Is your baby boy or girl? Btw you got such a amazing husband.
thats my mums story! my dad basically let her study but she wanted a child by 20 so she got pregnant with me while studying Bachelor's of Education and taught her many things like driving, going out alone without him and even more open-minded. My mother will forever greatful for him.
@Mahathi I hate that serial male lead is pedophile.
You found a good husband with a heart of gold. God bless your family💛
Im a 24 yr old south Indian girl. My parents told they'll arrange a marriage only when i have stable career .. same country
Ikr south India is not like this their is law I am also a south Indian 🇮🇳
@@aksajoy5064 there is law yes. But none can say child marriages are totally eradicated. It still happens in rural parts.
Well to tell you child marriage was never a thing in Northeast India even in the rural area and we always give freedom to girls
@@user-md9mq6do3b well yes, I have heard of it and honestly that's great. I hope the whole country learns from the sisters state
@@lowkeypancake2696 and in my state meghalaya after marriage a boy have to stay in his wife house and we take surname from our mother not from our father and all the property is inheirnt to a youngest daughter .
My mom got married when she was just 16 😢 my nana forced her to do this 😔 this is really sad. My mom told me one thing that ---- "do all the good things that u want to do in your life, I'll always support u . I'll never give u the life what my mom gave me " I love my mom 😚 I am proud of her 😘
ARMYS are everywhere 💜💜💜 I'm glad your mom is amazing and supportive
@@j-hopessprite5256 Thank u 💜☺️
@Audri Tripura Kanta 😊😊😊
Your mom is so nice!
And its sad that sort of thing happened to her at such a young age.
@@hyunjinshairband766 💜💜💜
I still don't get the fact about "arranging" marriages. A marriage is meant to be a proclamation of ultimate love bond when the individuals themselves are comfortable with it. It's the individuals getting married..not the family. Why the friggin hell do they need to poke their noses in the business of able bodied sane adults?!!
Ik right?! What's the meaning of marriage when you've never got to know about the person. Everyone has got the right to marry the person who is his/her love for life.
But why that system still not in INDIAAAAAAAA?
@@aksajoy5064 the damn choice system has been in the country since ancient history! No wonder it's still sticked to people's minds today. They think the partners for life will be happy once they meet each other after marriage. You never know what kinda person is that. They see good status, good family and give away their daughters for good. Many times, the partners enjoy being with each other but few people suffer. In my family, everyone has had arranged marriage but everyone is happy to have this. But unfortunately it's not the same for everyone. Even in India, common people think it's bad if someone gets divorced. Divorce is not something people like or allow with happiness
@@madhumitakar7031 That is true but my family is not like that.
@@aksajoy5064 that's really good. And I have been given the gift to make my choice on my own
My mom is so liberal.
She's also Indian.
I feel lucky.
Liberal don't mean good
@@aaliyahdouglass2166 it does if it means you don't practice traditions that rob children of their lives and education.
@@Passions5555 not really
Me too yaar
Aaliyah Douglass I just searched liberal up and it means to discard tradition or to worry about tradition so maybe Psychedelic meant that her mom discards tradition.
A Bangladeshi 11 y.o girl ran to the police with help from 2 classmates on her "wedding day" this year.
@Phenomenal A.S.A same also ami o bangali :')
Aye u bengali
@@iconicgurl5448 armyyyyyy...bangladeshi? West indian?
@@shotabdi4868 I am Bengali- American thank you very much and I am trying to pause my liking for BTS and move on with stray kids.
@@iconicgurl5448 u can be a multifandom. Like u can like bts and stray kids at the same time
One of my friends was born in India. When she told me her parents got married to each other before either of them reacher 11, I was in shock. It could be a cultural thing, but I don’t understand why you’d have your kids get married at such a young age.
Yea in olden days they used to start finding for a husband once a girl starts her periods
@@yuzuru525 omg that sucks.
@@namjesus3789 yes hun it does 😭 apparently they do it coz she is a "woman" now and make sure to keep it fast since puberty can make them ugly and no one would marry them...since its arranged beauty and household chores are the only thing u could judge
Sanvi Sinha
no itstill happens in some parts of the world
it’s kinda a cultural thing but also parents make their kids get married so they don’t have to take care of them and so the kid gets money which will get the parents money that’s it
My grandmother got married at 16. She wanted to study more and be a teacher but her relatives forced her into marriage with my grandfather. He was 13 years older than my grandmother. My grandma deserved education, she deserved her childhood and all that was taken away from her.
That's so sad
@Tom Joney how? Someone’s childhood being taken away? does that sit right w you?
I’m so sorry, I hope now people do not have to go through that, she should’ve gotten the education she wanted
@Tom Joney At least until you're 18,you have a childhood. Some people call it "teenage years", but you're still a child. Some people want to be in the childhood stage for longer, so that's the reason everyone is different. Some mature faster, others- slower. Periodt.
@Tom Joney 16 is still legally a child, development wise, you're still a child until you're at least 25
The best way to stop child marriage is to educate people. Nowaday we are living in a new world where people are not interested in marriage etc but people are more interested in their career in their dreams and this is what i really like. The objective in life is not when finished school its necessary to get married first make all your dreams come true then married.
@@theautumnwind8437 this doesn't apply to them
My parents also force me and they arranged also but I don't agree with any cause or emotional black mailing. I take help my old teacher and I break my marriage. And now I studying nursing 2nd yr
That’s wonderful to hear that you got out of the cycle and got into a good study. I pray that you can graduate and get a good career
Congrats
That’s amazing! Good luck with your studies!
That must be a terrible experience! It's good that you got help
All the best to you❤️
After seeing this i feel that I'm so lucky to have such great parents!!! They always want girls to b educated!!! 💜💜
Nope
Same girl!😁
Me too
@@NailaTasnim Me too. I'm 13 yrs old.
Me too
One of my classmate got married last year at age of 15
Her studies are badly affected
In my school .. alot of girl married.. the age was just 16.or 17
Wait where is the place is it a rural are?
@@aksajoy5064 noo it's not a rural area..it's batala..and idk they re so small I m very feel bad for her
Like seriously ye sb avi v hota hai I mean how is that possible in 21 centuary
I only saw these types of weird costums in movies or heard from older people but I didn't know that these costums happens in real life yet also
police??
I too have got married at 16 and lost my childhood years.. I have suffered a lot , there was a break in my education.. nw I pulled myself together and successful in my career as a teacher. People don understand hw much emotional and psychological trauma being imposed on the child ... I condemn child marriage vehemently.
I'm an Indian and one of my friend's family already found her a husband, she's 16 btw and they say once she finishes 10th grade she will be married to an unknown person who doesn't even know her
It's sad but I can't do anything to help
Her parents are very strict
Even the police is scared of them
@@coldhaixx1905 how can the police be scared? I guess they should be expelled from their jobs they don't deserve to be called as police if they can't save a child
@@coldhaixx1905 Run just run away, That girl's dreams and hopes will be historic ashes if she doesn't find a way to run, it will be extremely difficult to live without financial support, but it all honesty, if you are able to reach a platform like youtube, you should be able to contact higher authorities as well, you just need to explain the situation to the police in you neighborhood and if they don't help, find a way to get away and report them, Hopefully things will get better for that poor girl.
@@shinystar9217 Yeah, but this comment was posted 3 months ago, god knows what happened to that girl?.... Hopfully nothing bad hapnned..
Update: idk what happened to the girl since we rarely speak to eachother and I have very little time to rest since school has been giving me hard time, I've recently found out that child marriage has been going on for generations in her family.
She's also not responding to my messages for some reason
Probably because her phone got taken away or something
I heard about child marriage for the first time when i was 10 yrs old... I was shocked and asked to my mom when will i get married... She said me u can study as much as u want and get a good job and travel all over the world and enjoy your life... When she said u can decide when to get married,I cried so much during night thinking how much my parents love me.... 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💙💜💙💜💙💜
police: comes by 6 to stop child marriage
irl: policeman takes a week to get in contact with the child's guardian
This is awful. And it doesn’t just happen in India- although Americans have an undeserved moral superiority complex, here in the USA, child marriage is legal in every single state. In my state, Wisconsin, you can be married as young as 16 with parental consent (usually parental force, actually). In some, the age is as low as 14 with parental consent. And it *gets worse*. If you are 16 in Wisconsin and married to an adult (as is the case with most cases of child marriage), you then fall under guardianship of your spouse until you’re 18 (our age of majority). Rather than your parents being your legal guardian, your spouse is. That means your spouse can choose not to let you have a bank account or a car or go to college. And you cannot file for divorce while you’re married to your guardian, you have to go through the long, difficult process of emancipation, and usually the teens who find themselves in this situation do not have the resources or education to know where to begin. The vast majority of child marriages are arranged between a female teenage sexual assault/statutory rape or domestic abuse victim and her much older male abuser, often after she gets pregnant in order to prevent the “shame” of wedlock babies. I’m from rural Wisconsin and went to school with several girls who were married at 16/17 to their mid-20s boyfriends because they got pregnant. They all dropped out of high school before their babies were born. Those girls are 22/23 now and the two that got out are just now beginning to build their lives, get their GEDs, try to find jobs, etc. The minimum age for marriage should be 18 across the board, I don’t care who you are or how in love with you you think that 25 year old man is. And parents should always teach their children about healthy relationships, because the fact these girls’ parents let their 16 year olds marry adult men is horrible.
Its utterly disgusting to know that you fall under the guardianship of your spouse after child marriage, and that you don’t even know where to start filing for an emancipation. Its even more disgusting that some parents are *willing* to make their kids go through that hell. Completely absurd, and not to mention the rape and sexual abuse that you face by marrying men who are much older than you. It is a disgrace that this kind of thing is allowed, and not to mention how wrecked the lives of the young teen girls’ gets after getting pregnant and not getting the opportunity to explore the world.
@@GrahamCrackerss ikr! I believe marriage is a partnership, where both have equal say. But if it turns into a guardianship then the spouse will be the master, right? Well I am not generalizing but most people will try to take advantage of this situation. I pray for those girls 🙏
@@Ultimate_maniac exactly, in partnership you have equal “power” over each other. Guardianship is just one partner, in this case the husband having power over the girl. And you are right! Most people would take advantage of this, considering how they paired 16 year old girls with males who are far older than them
My grandmother got married at the age of 10 or 11 she had dad at 15..... This caused huge damage on her body when she died dad was only 14....
Sorry but That's just pure to ur grandma 😥 nobody deserves this
Sorry to hear that😔..btw,what age was ur grandfather when he got married?🙄
@@gaurinimje118 32
Damnn bruh...😐
TBH it's your imbecile grandfather's fault,why would he make a baby with a ten year old?? Whats even wrong with him??
My mom got marride at 16 she faced lots of problms and when i born her age is 17 but i dont want to Marrgie at 16 i wont to read and became a good docter plz pray for me
Just face the situation bravely, fight if they fo such arrangements as marraige, keep self confidence
i hope you become a successful doctor
You will dear, you will. Just believe in yourself.
@@upds_0851 tq so much ❤
@@prithadattachoudhury2352 ❤
It's important to note that child marriage isn't just something that happens in third world countries. It happens in America all the time, with all these dumb "You can do this with parental consent at 13/15/16" laws in this country. A friend of mine is in a arranged engagement because it's perfectly legal here, luckily she and her fiancé actually like eachother, but that isn't the truth for a majority of arrange marriages
I'm from Bengal. My mom got married at the age of 16. She had her first kid at 18. It's really sad how her childhood got ruined just because of some people's opinions.
She always tells me that, "Be a good human being first, then start a career, then wait to be get succeed and then marry the one you love"
Hats off to all the Women.
16 is still respectable as some get married at 10 only
@@Ry_ineok maybe people physically grow up at 16 years old but they still haven’t mentally. The most respectable age to get married is 21
@@am3thyst675 yeah 16 is still low as they're still in last 2 yrs of school life. Ideal is from 19+ for girls or 21 or 22 for boys. Even if legal age to marry is 18 that has no issues, it shouldn't b used as an excuse to conduct mass marriages right away people complete 12th grade
@@am3thyst675 n the underage marriages of 15-17 yrs r still somehow tolerable although illegal where many can be wed off at 10-12 yrs in many rural areas
I'm lucky because my parents told me that i can marry only after i have a stable job. Also when i said i want to marry after 25 they said okay, It's your choice.
They really supports me. Also in my house me and my brother is treated equally. And i am soo happy that i have loving parents. They support me sooo much! ❤️❤️
Same :) but there are many girls who aren't given the same opportunity and equality.
@@madhumitakar7031 yeah.. I feel soo bad for them 😔😔😔
Same❤
My mom also said that , my dad never even talks about my marriage . Infact not even my brothers . He wants me to be a doctor . But i have a fear of dissecting human bodies other wise i always dreamt if being a doctor 😌
@@iamsweetpotato2285 Go into a medical technology field! Excellent careers that are on the cutting edge of medical research and treatment, they help a lot of people, but don’t involve dissections.
I get that it's all about culture difference but this is inhumane! How can you marry off your daughter at such a young age to a man who is already probably 2 decades older than them! This has to stop, it's illegal
It's not inhumane, it's what humans do, especially a certain group.
@@cheatbluevii9123 It's still wrong and cruel.
I agree you cannot force someone to throw their life like this
It is for money so the family won't have to waste time and money taking care of the child, especially daughters.
@@mysharatasnim9016 Doesn't make it acceptable
Not all Indians face this.. but feel so bad and sad for those who are victims of this. May God change the society and make them too blessed
My grandmother was married at the age of 9.
She was not even teenager then😢😢😢😢
Everyone requires a friend like her..and the bravery..to come forward and oppose all this foolish crimes
My mom got married at 24 she is a lawyer now i am very proud of her 🥰😃
My also got married at 24 and now she is a teacher
My mom was just eating food at night and suddenly her father (my grandpa) decided to marry her off immediately. She was only 15. And my dad was 18 at the time. She wanted to say no but couldn't. Child marriage is truly disgusting.
I too feel disgusted by this
My sister's helper who is from another state (west bengal) Got married at the age 13 and had to leave our house and go to her state..Later the news came that she was raped and murdered by her husband and friends..It was long ago and this shit still traumatize me.. Yes I know West bengal has one of the highest child marriage rate in India..
I hope those bastards will get that paid back n die in pain alone. Hope they burn in hell. So sorry for you, I can understand it traumatizes u! Would traumatize me too, if this would happen to me ...
Oh no! It must be so terrifying for her, poor her..
I hope you are safe, be safe
My mom got married at 25 that too with her boyfriend. I'm so proud of my material family for their mindset ❤
Sadly this is reality...I'm a bengali and I've actually seen this happen...
Did you call the police?
@Ye the lemon and risk getting killed later? No thanks. The cops can only find the murderer not prevent the murder.
Anindya Sundar Dey West bengal administration works on anonymous tips,u don't need to say ur name.And no one has died trying to stop child marriage in last two decades.
@@cs-mi8ur hm seriously?
N_H yeah seriously,if administration gets the news even couple of days ago they easily stop those weddings.They persuade the parents to wait until the girl is 18.The problem arises only when they try to stop it on the day of marriage,then the family gets angry because they have spent a lot of money on wedding and they are mostly very poor.
India is a country where parents cut there wings so that they can't fly😔😔😔😔 such a shame some children's never get chance to open there wings it's sad but it's common in India ......
Actually it is wings!!!!!!
@@shyamnidhitiwari2742 thanks for reminding me I lost in thought 😫😫😫
@@sunrises5774 actually they suffered quite a bit in their life (not getting proper education and jobs ) so they make sure there child doesn't suffer the same. Nd no they don't cut their wings they just don't notice the wings .
*their
Because of rahul Gandhi
This makes me so sad. I can't believe that this is happening. We need to make a stand because everyone deserves rights.
That girl is so smart and brave
They don't have any shame to do girls child marriage
We should give rights to girls girl's are also capable for everything iam a Muslim girl in my family everyone is supporting me and they are forcing me to study and both mother and father and family are supporting me and girls should have equal rights
I know. People are just stupid to think that they are better than one another.
Girls and boys are both equal, people need to get that in there head.
Boys are not better than girls.
Girls are not better then boys.
Awwwww... But what will never happened we will never get any rights men will have always more rights than us tho
@@mitsuitsuto7224 you never know
@@mitsuitsuto7224 Don't give up so easily
I’m an ex muslim girl and I support you! May Allah be on your side. You go girl !!!!!
Both my mother and grandmother as well as father say that they first want me to have a good carrier and stable life, so that I can live on my own conditions
i don't believe it india is still suffuring from thus😢😢😢
I heard some villages near to Bangladesh still happen
U don't believe and here thousands r suffering and struggling..
@@Nervous101 he doesn't have one XD
This*
believe it brother
I didn't knew child marriage is still a thing.. (Btw I'm Indian)
That's highly ignorant
Know*
Oops not indian
Child marriage is still a thing all over the world, even in the UK where I live
I dont have any news in our country here in the Philippines but kidnapping yeah its alot here
It is necessary to prevent minor from child marriage u guys done great job and u created awareness among all hatsaff team
This is practically the reason why my dad doesn't want to take me to India to see my relatives especially during a marriage
Where r u
Why??, i am from India and from exactly the same place in the video, West Bengal, but my parents always say me to study and forget about marriage
@@dilipsaha4732 not everyone’s family is the same
Such a shame specially in a country where we pray to godess and relate girl to a goddess but then treat her like a puppet and Bengali praise goddess Durga so much but some people really don't know how to respect one these type of people don't have any character values or morals disgusting
Yea .. and also I know some people who now wait for a girl to be 18 so they can marry them off.. and I'm like excuusseeeee me?..
Btw I also made a video on a topic similar to this one
I'd love if you check it out
ruclips.net/video/97l4ILQl4T4/видео.html
Your thinking is wrong
This type of stuff happens everywhere. I live in America and when my friend turned 16, her mom forced her to wear a niqab to high school. when my friend turned 18 her mom blackmailed and beat her, until she agreed to marriage. My friend dreamt of becoming a doctor, but unfortunately she had to give all those dreams away.
You should report to social workers and to police to help your friend divorce.
@@bogdananedavnya2528 I agree but I transferred to another high school before the niqab thing started for her. I don't know where she is now. It's been 5 years now. I only know some bits of what happened by my neighbor. But I agree. I try to find her on social media and the internet so I can offer her help.
@@rhitiawasthi2104 You should directpolice and socialworkerstoher parent's home. They arrest parents who forced her and force them toconfess her adress od her husband. I doubt she have open, not anonymous profileon FB.
My friend in Australia was forced to marry at 13 to her cousin.
@@sheshystar9380 Please try to help her. Go to the police, social workers, tell her name, surname, adress. If she moved with husband, police will go to parents, arrest them and force them to confess where does she currently live.
When reading the comments about people saying their mother's child marriage . it's really weird.I am too from India from KERALA.Here girls mostly marry around 24/25 after getting a job, or atleast only after completing their degree.
India is diverse
I'm thankful that my parents never force me for anything. I have the freedom to learn anything I want, and I'm totally grateful....
It's a great social message you've given👍..... This type of documentary films should be produced to the people of rural areas to make them aware...☺️
Dont listen still to socity , keep growing and learning girls
I just can't understand that why these people just want their sons to be educated and successful in their life why not their daughters have these girls done any crime.
We should stop child marriage in each and every country where it is practised not only in india.......
this happened to one of my classmate too. even though i live in a city & not village, it seems like some people’s mindset doesn’t change regardless of where they live. she was one of the brightest girl in our class :( she always had the highest grades in math & physics, she said she wanted to be an engineer. but as her father died some years ago, her mom forced her to marry a man who is 10 years older than her. we tried to stop her mom & make her understand but nothing worked, her mom made her stop contacting to all of us. i hope she is fine wherever she is right now :(
😢😢
I’m thankful to have good parents they would beat the living crap out of ppl who force there child to get married under the age 18
First time I watched a child marriage that is very gud teaching people to speak out about child marriages n stop them. It's working Progress but hopefully the message will spread further n further Well done to People who made this video..☺☺ It is true n sad how Older people in backward villages still believe in forcing young Innocent girls into marriages.
i have no idea why this video is in my recommendations, i don’t live in india. And there’s no need to get mad at me for saying this, smh 🤦♂️ 😂
It's just to raise awareness
You are an average hooman so😂😂
It happens where you live too
Same
@@Treemeadow wait it doesn't happen in my country fool
My grandma got married when she was 14
My mother got married when she was 29
Of course my mother is not a top student but she is independent she learnt typewriting but failed to clear the exams 2 times but at third attempt she did it.
Got a job to maintain her basic expenses got out of town for 2 years for her job
Came back to the village got married and now she is retired in her professsion
All i told was happend nearly 40 years ago.
My mom got married in 1982.
Myself 33 years old
Yaar.... come on your life this is you should be independent.
Rather than telling i am proud of my mom i must tell that i am really proud of my grandmother
She was widow at her 23. She managed all her own to do it.....
In MEGHALAYA we can't even date someone unless we're in 11th grade and my family will not even let me speak to boys
@Tea Series well you could say that where are you from
Wow that's cool u live in India I'm from the us in new York and I can't even stand to be married at 15 and sold off
@@aaliyahdouglass2166 whoa you live in new York City that's so cool ,I'm 15 too and BTW are you a boy or girl just asking
@@dzutz9096 I'm an girl and marriage should come in like the mid 30s
@@aaliyahdouglass2166 I agree with you
now this is why i should be grateful i have a parents who actually care about me so ill try my best to support this situation and hope this will get better cause this is honestly a nightmare
My mom got married at 29 years and she earns money her own living , I am proud of her 😌😌😌😌
Heartwarming video. I cried at first but at last felt so good for the girl. Everyone bless her
My mom got married at the age of 28 after completing her medicine❤ I feel really proud of her💓
What is happening yaaar every child have right to study and enjoy there childhood not doing marriage
My grandma was one brilliant student and had great dreams even as a child. But unfortunately her family married her off to my grandpa when she was only in 3rd standard. When she had kids(4 girls) she was pressurized to marry them off at a young age too. But being the powerful woman she is and with the support of my grandpa, she ignored all mockery and chose their children's education over anything else. My mother and my aunts are in a good position now and I can't imagine what life would have been without her
I'm 13+ yrs old.. I had a friend called puja..We used to talk a lot. But now we don't even see each other anymore. Because she's married.. She moved to another city. Her family forced her to marry.
I really hate child marriage so much.
Where do u live?
In Bangladesh
@@s-s1485 did you talk to your parents to tell the police?😬
Then report to police...try to find her...make videos and viral it...go yo her parents house...shame them...
Since every one is sharing about their mother's so let me too
My mother get married at the age of 28 after completing her graduation and she is having a successful career I'm so proud of my grandparents that they supported my mother at that time
My mom got married at 14 and she regrets it . So , she wants us to build a career for us .
My grandma got married at 12 I feel so bad for her 😢😢
12?👁👄👁
I'm so glad India is confronting this problem. India was once a very spiritual and advanced society, I hope that the land of my ancestors will exceed and not only rise but fly into a new golden age, free of open defecation, pollution, child marriage, exploitation of Women, infanticide, domestic violence, governmental coruption and hypocrisy and disease. God bless India.
I had this friend who bunked school once and teachers made a big fuss about it. Two days later, she got married. She was 15
I am an Indian Boy.
Giving my 12th boards rn.
The words in the thumbnail-
'What are you doing ma? I have exams tomorrow' made me sad like hell.
My parents tell me to study hard become independent and then if you wish like getting married you can but become independent and fulfill your dreams 1st
Respect to the girl who ran to get the police 💪❤️
My mom got married in 29 years old
She is a Teacher
Iam proud of her
😘😘😘😍😘😍😘
No person should marry for anything beside love at an AGE WHERE YOU ARE ACTUALLY READY. People saying its a good match is a bad excuse. It might be a good match for your sake, but it's a bad match for your child, who has to deal with all kinds of possible issues. Rape, abuse, and child birth are only a few. Your body is still developing, so I cant imagine how much more painful it is. This was really beautiful, I hope the number of child marriages in countries around the world continues to stop.
My father side grandma got married at 8 she had 6 babies before my dad was born every single one of them died finally my dad was born
Why did the police say it will become a situation of law and order ?? Isnt child marriage a crime ? Arent u supposed to do something about it first 😠😠😠😠
In some parts of Indian it is being banned but sadly not fast enough, as in some villages the law hasn't made it illegal yet.
Marie Wilson The law is very much in place throughout the country and anybody who disobeys it is committing a crime, however rural communities often stand together to prevent the discovery of said crime, this is the main reason it still runs rampant
MY MOM MARRIED AT HER 29 SHE STANDS HER ON DECISION SHE TELLS MY GRANDMA THAT SHE ONLY MARRY AFTER GETTIN A JOB ,SHE IS A GOVERNMENT EMPLOY SHE ACHIEVE IT AM REALLY LUCKY TO HAVE A MOM LIKE HER LUV U MA...❤️✨
I live in the USA, but my grandparents live in India. The people who work on their fields, has a daughter who’s in 8th grade and is getting married. I tried to talk them out of it, but the weird thing is the daughter has no problem with this. She has no hope that her life will get better. It’s the sad reality.
Report to police....
@@nabaninandi4140 i would but technically it isn't illegal, she will not be getting married until 18 and now 21 because of the new law, but it has been finalized who she will be marrying. She has already quit school, and put her choice into stone. There is nothing else I can do, unfortunately.
I’m from Brazil, my mom got married at 13 to my dad who was 19, they’re divorced now but why am I the only one in my family who has a problem with him, even though it’s been years since then, I can’t let it go
I really really want to help them somehow to save them from these people
This topic always seem to interest me somehow and I believe that we need to CHANGE!
Iam only 16 but when I will get big I will make a difference
Hi army Mee too
yass you go gurl
And I'll stand with you to make that difference!
Hanime_ Child we all just need to change their way of thinking and y’all see how different we all can make
ARMY
My mother got married at 12 and I was born when she was 13 age. But she made my marriage at the age of 28. I am so greatful to her that she never discriminated a boy or a girl child. Both r equal to her
My mom got married at 13 she still used to tell me how much she want to study but can't ... Nd incourage me to do that .. I will do that mummy ❤️😊💫
In kerala these cases are pretty extinct 🙂🙂💜💜
I'm also from west bengal in India and 18 years old but my parents always tell me to be financially independent and study hard they'll always stand by my side....believe me this assurance is the strength to me......but same age same district i also attended a marriage in March. 2021where the bride was 17.....and now she is a WILLING HOUSEWIFE.......actually if we look into this matter then the main problem is not a conservative parents but their rotten mentality and overall education......if a girl educates properly then she can understand the drawbacks of early marriage......so at first need education then financial problems play a great role in child marriage......a poor father always wants to arrange his daughter marriage (no everyone but most)so expenses can ba reduced....
And child marriages hamper not only a girl's life but also the nation.....we should stop this........and the most pathetic fact that a underage girl either willingly gets married or elopes....i really don't know what to do with them
Wow my parents wont even let me date until I have finished all my studies and here are these girls getting married at such young ages
My mom got married at the age of 22 but she was not mentally matured and was not ready for it so it became a major reason for her depression and also the agressive nature she had towards me... 🥺🥺
I'm FBI police from Melbourne Victoria Australia if I was in that country I promise to God I well teach are very good lesson whit this mother and are mother's like this
Woahh salute to you cap. But sadly its hard to prevent that as it is part of them , not sure tho.
India is a bullshit country nobody understands right thing
my cousin just got married now ( she's 15!) ALL BY HERSELF . YOU KNOW WHAT I Mean ? She ran with a dude before . So like they got married after that
Saaduddin Ansari There’s a special place in hell for you.
Saaduddin Ansari No, because you degrade all individuals of the female gender to less than humans and say that they shouldn’t have basic rights.
Saaduddin Ansari That gender who call weak, is only made to look so because of sexist people like you. When you come to the point that you don’t accept humans as humans, you are far gone and drowned in bigotry, idiocy and sexism.
No they're hella rich
@Saaduddin Ansari u Don't seem like a person who has mother or sister
My mom got married at 19, in her third year in college. But she is very lucky that my family completed supported her studying and even let her join computer and English classes when she needed them.
My mum got married at 28 so i am proud of her
betiyo ko sirf padne ki nahi shaadi ke bad job ki bhi ijazat hona chahiye
So true. You think just like my grandauntie. I live in England my paternal auntie daughter in law came over through marriage from Pakistan a few years ago and the grandmother in law first assured she does her studies than have a decent job and I can go on forever but the conclusion is we change ourself, we can eventually change people around us and that gradually can change society
All I understood was "bad job" so I am going to agree with you hoping you are saying they are bad parenting...
@@koyo5088 U misunderstood it xD she/he said that after the marriage the girls should be allowed to have a job xD
lmfao the beginning looks like them planning a whole ass heist
My mom got married at 28 her family never told her anything and how’s she’s a proud teacher
Bless the good people trying to stop this from happening!
This happened at my in-laws place- our domestic help was married off - she was due to appear for her 10th exams. Worst is my husband who's branch manger with SBI and his parents not only approved but even went to attend her wedding feast. I was the only one to object- but who listens to a daughter-in-law! Sigh!
They never listen. Uneducated shits never think logically they find logic on most idiotica and disgusting acts. Here in Gujarat boys who are young are given for less dowry. And women too has to suffer
Why become a daughter-in-law in this country?! I will never understand why women won't fucking stop giving into this shit and keeping this utterly misogynistic system firmly in place and then cry about it! All the women of this country have let me down. I can't even leave this shithole ughh
That’s really sad😞 I’m sorry to hear that
Divorce your husband, if you have kids he's gonna marry them off at a very very young Age.
Beautifully depicted. Hopefully, this social evil shall end soon.
as an indian living in america... i am so thankful
My mom got married at 18 she is now a well known teacher in our community