My parents didn't make us do homework. So I just didn't... I didn't need to, I could get by without it. Not excel, but get by. The dread of not doing the work was a lot, I worried about it all night and stayed up. But, I just couldn't do the work. Just couldn't focus on it.
Kate Kariuki thank you for watching and for taking the time to reach out to me. I am happy that you found it helpful. Please share with anyone you think would benefit.
We need to post every RUclips video, magazine article, scientific article, etc. that we can find on EVERY social media outlet possible. We need to do this all the time, but especially during ADHD Awareness Month (October).
This is so on point. I have a true passion for sharing this message, because so many people think it's a curse to their kids. I have add and I truly believe it's my super power. Thanks for this video.
Dorica Wilson thank you for watching. I’m glad you found something helpful. Please feel free to share the message with anyone you think who might benefit.
Diagnosed after freshman year of college one year ago and I am STILL coming to terms with this new label stuck to me, while trying to form an identity free of self-stigmatization. This video makes me feel so seen that it almost makes me emotional. I will be rewatching. Thank you for this.
Emmy MC you are very welcome. It is not a label stuck to you. It is just a part of who you are. Not better or worse, just different. You can do some things better and some worse.
All the added tasks with the short term memory. Is the hardest part of ADHD. Or was for me. But the slowly learn by experience to learn after learning ways to learn from the mistake which had to burn in the long term memory. Practice practice practice from the mistake. Is a way to grow out from fear of shame
WaywardMonster8 it is difficult and I’ve faced it myself. Some of it may also be their own defensiveness at not looking into it when you were young. Don’t argue with them. Educate them and those around you. It is really the only way to dismantle the stigma.
I laughed out loud when you said the part about the school kids having done the homework but its scrunched up in a locker. I laughed because my god its just so accurate, I feel like that one sentence is a metaphor for my whole life. Thanks, absolutely brilliant talk, second time I'm watching it
Thank you for watching and for taking time to reach out. I am glad that you connected with the content. Please feel free to share with anyone you think might benefit.
Amazing VERY good Robert Well done This is such a great video that needs or should I say should be in schools or even on medical websites Hearing this from someone who is diagnosed with ADHD but also be on so many boards and also a lawyer gives such hope for parents of loved one with ADHD and alot of parents really do need this hope as alot of them feel lost Just as many parents I deal with with loved ones with ASD need to hear good stories of hope of what others have done and have excelled, how they have made it mainstreamed etc This is something that will definitely help others Way to go my friend Well done and thank you for directing me to watching it This is a must share Thank you
We didn't have ADD when I was a kid. I mean, some people knew about it, but it wasn't mainstream. I would have given ANYTHING to be able to focus on the mundane classwork.
Almost all of the feedback that I get at work is negative. It's thought to be helpful, but it's not. I feel the frustration that you feel about not getting credit for everything going on "behind my eyes".
That is a great video. I think i have ADD and now i am 34 and not diagonsed i went to doctor office and ask for MRI ... I studied medicine and couldnt practise due to lack of attention that happedned 9 years ago and untill two weeks ago i started to think of ADHD as a cause for why i cant hold on a job for a while
Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment. There are a number of great resources out there. For job and job search issues, a colleague of mine, Lynn Miner-Rosen, runs an online community and coaches people with ADHD on finding the right job for them. I believe it is called ADHDJOBSQUAD.com
@@roberttudisco4798 I live in Sudan a country where psychology is regarded as taboo... Psychologist still believe ADHD is child related isssue I really need a group so iam willling to speak up about it...... Its just that the doacovery of ADHD is like a new world has opened to me. Now i got to know why my life was in Such a way different from others Again thank You very much
I struggle with this. I cudnt get my last job cuz there was tons of things i had to remember and organize. I tried really hard and failed. Then i felt mad and a failure
Oh my gosh I saw another vid of yours n this n gosh you pretty much explain me.. Do you have any modern youtubes... also apart from exercise n arranging accountability is there a way for me to be accountable to myself.. I'm like a 40 year old man.
Wow! That is high praise. Thank you very much. But I am not a doctor. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to reach out. I hope you found the presentation helpful.
Everyone is praising you, but let’s keep this real. ADHD is a luxury for rich ppl and can be well-maintained, low-income ppl will be forever called bad, lazy and stupid. And now with Covid plandemic and being in lockdown and the world going remote and cashless, there is less opportunity for adhd adults and children who have executive functioning skills and sluggish cognition and more body fat to survive lest be it labor if any.
PMJ4EVER this is real. Very real. When I was growing up, I was just labeled “bad” because people didn’t understand. That is the whole point that is being made here. It is to educate people and to get them to understand.
My parents didn't make us do homework. So I just didn't... I didn't need to, I could get by without it. Not excel, but get by.
The dread of not doing the work was a lot, I worried about it all night and stayed up. But, I just couldn't do the work. Just couldn't focus on it.
I know it’s 5 years since you filmed this, but I just want to say thank you. It has helped me in ways I can’t properly verbalize or write.
Kate Kariuki thank you for watching and for taking the time to reach out to me. I am happy that you found it helpful. Please share with anyone you think would benefit.
Really great channel. I'm 28 and struggling with life because of my ADD. These lectures help. I wish more people would be exposed to this.
We need to post every RUclips video, magazine article, scientific article, etc. that we can find on EVERY social media outlet possible. We need to do this all the time, but especially during ADHD Awareness Month (October).
I'm 15 years old and I've just been diagnosed with ADHD in September 2016 and im still trying to understand it this helps a lot thank you !!
This is so on point. I have a true passion for sharing this message, because so many people think it's a curse to their kids. I have add and I truly believe it's my super power. Thanks for this video.
Dorica Wilson thank you for watching. I’m glad you found something helpful. Please feel free to share the message with anyone you think who might benefit.
Can I just say, you’re an inspiration. Thank you for all the work you do.
Wow!! Thank You!
Diagnosed after freshman year of college one year ago and I am STILL coming to terms with this new label stuck to me, while trying to form an identity free of self-stigmatization. This video makes me feel so seen that it almost makes me emotional. I will be rewatching. Thank you for this.
Emmy MC you are very welcome. It is not a label stuck to you. It is just a part of who you are. Not better or worse, just different. You can do some things better and some worse.
Emmy MC you may also find this video helpful. ruclips.net/video/m2KxYcGg49c/видео.html
I can not express how accurate,and relatable that isss ✨✨
wiso kiwi thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment
All the added tasks with the short term memory. Is the hardest part of ADHD.
Or was for me.
But the slowly learn by experience to learn after learning ways to learn from the mistake which had to burn in the long term memory. Practice practice practice from the mistake. Is a way to grow out from fear of shame
A moment of appreciation for the credits template that was never filled in. Classic ADHD move. 😂
"An excuse for lazy or bad kids"
This one. My parents pull this one on me. Fingers crossed I can escape it soon.
WaywardMonster8 it is difficult and I’ve faced it myself. Some of it may also be their own defensiveness at not looking into it when you were young. Don’t argue with them. Educate them and those around you. It is really the only way to dismantle the stigma.
I laughed out loud when you said the part about the school kids having done the homework but its scrunched up in a locker. I laughed because my god its just so accurate, I feel like that one sentence is a metaphor for my whole life. Thanks, absolutely brilliant talk, second time I'm watching it
Thank you for watching and for taking time to reach out. I am glad that you connected with the content. Please feel free to share with anyone you think might benefit.
Amazing VERY good Robert Well done This is such a great video that needs or should I say should be in schools or even on medical websites Hearing this from someone who is diagnosed with ADHD but also be on so many boards and also a lawyer gives such hope for parents of loved one with ADHD and alot of parents really do need this hope as alot of them feel lost Just as many parents I deal with with loved ones with ASD need to hear good stories of hope of what others have done and have excelled, how they have made it mainstreamed etc This is something that will definitely help others Way to go my friend Well done and thank you for directing me to watching it This is a must share Thank you
Thank YOU very much my friend. I agree that this is an important message. Thank you for helping me spread the word.
any time
Robert Tudisco Great, I am in Law School and suffer from ADHD recently diagnosed. I have much better shot at life now. Thank You.
We didn't have ADD when I was a kid. I mean, some people knew about it, but it wasn't mainstream. I would have given ANYTHING to be able to focus on the mundane classwork.
Here I am, leaving my studies to the last minute because it's more fun to try it out the first time during an exam.
Wow. No dislikes at all. Remarkable.
Thank you
that poem hit different, thank you.
OUTA HERE ORIGINAL thank you. If you want a copy in pdf form, you can email me at robert@roberttudisco.com and I would be happy to send it to you.
Going without diagnosis will cause a lot of damage
Since 2016 I believe , it’s categorized under the term “ADD” which still includes AD(HD
Almost all of the feedback that I get at work is negative. It's thought to be helpful, but it's not. I feel the frustration that you feel about not getting credit for everything going on "behind my eyes".
Caramel1806 thank you for watching. I hope you found the information helpful.
That is a great video. I think i have ADD and now i am 34 and not diagonsed i went to doctor office and ask for MRI ... I studied medicine and couldnt practise due to lack of attention that happedned 9 years ago and untill two weeks ago i started to think of ADHD as a cause for why i cant hold on a job for a while
Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment. There are a number of great resources out there. For job and job search issues, a colleague of mine, Lynn Miner-Rosen, runs an online community and coaches people with ADHD on finding the right job for them. I believe it is called ADHDJOBSQUAD.com
@@roberttudisco4798
I live in Sudan a country where psychology is regarded as taboo... Psychologist still believe ADHD is child related isssue
I really need a group so iam willling to speak up about it...... Its just that the doacovery of ADHD is like a new world has opened to me. Now i got to know why my life was in Such a way different from others
Again thank You very much
I struggle with this. I cudnt get my last job cuz there was tons of things i had to remember and organize. I tried really hard and failed. Then i felt mad and a failure
He NEVER Z used the word DISABLED”. Dr Barkley bugs me wren get emphasize it’s still a “disorder”
I am so very proud of you.
Thank you.
Your welcome
Thank you robert the school should better teacher more the why it is then this is what it is process
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment. I’m glad you found it helpful.
Oh my gosh I saw another vid of yours n this n gosh you pretty much explain me.. Do you have any modern youtubes... also apart from exercise n arranging accountability is there a way for me to be accountable to myself.. I'm like a 40 year old man.
Working with a coach is the best way to help you become accountable to yourself.
I actually like him way more than Dr Russell Barkley
Wow! That is high praise. Thank you very much. But I am not a doctor. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to reach out. I hope you found the presentation helpful.
Minute 17 onwards 😥😥😥
Everyone is praising you, but let’s keep this real.
ADHD is a luxury for rich ppl and can be well-maintained, low-income ppl will be forever called bad, lazy and stupid.
And now with Covid plandemic and being in lockdown and the world going remote and cashless, there is less opportunity for adhd adults and children who have executive functioning skills and sluggish cognition and more body fat to survive lest be it labor if any.
PMJ4EVER this is real. Very real. When I was growing up, I was just labeled “bad” because people didn’t understand. That is the whole point that is being made here. It is to educate people and to get them to understand.