I was at a restaurant and I over heard a male couple talking to their kids about being gay, and the kids were ADORABLE!!!! “DOES THAT MEAN I CAN HAVE 2 DADS??!! YESSSSSSS!!!!!” And “can I be gay too? It sounds nice. Is being gay fun?” I was smiling to my self, it was so sweet. They were so excited that they got 2 dads.
Well it was great that you still had a relationship with your ex-wife which totally benefits the kids. Very inspirational story, thanks for sharing it.
My mom never told me she was gay so when kids at school asked why I had two moms I just told them they were best friends cause I was too young to know any better 😂
The most epic "Ask your father." ever! "MOM! Can I go to the mall?" "Ask your father." "MOM! Can I borrow the car?" "Ask your father." "MOM! What does a gay mean?" "Ask your father."
I knew when he said he was "like the governor" to his kids that one of them was going to think that he was the governor--typical kid logic. Very cute story and I'm happy that it all worked out. Kids accept most things pretty easily as long as you are honest with them. :)
Since I'm not gay, I have no way to know what it's like to come out as gay but I can't imagine a better way than that. These videos are beautiful, important and greatly appreciated.
I'm not either, but I imagine it takes a tremendous amount of bravery to tell your children. If you do it too young, they won't understand, if you wait to long, they will resent it. Bravery because they could change their feelings toward you for the worse, which could happen, and is the worst case senario.So glad it worked out for the better for this man. God blessings!
This was beautiful. I can’t imagine keeping a secret for most of my life. I’m also very thankful he and his ex wife have a functioning relationship. My cousins husband came out after his third baby was born. He unfortunately just told his wife and left with a newborn suckling on her. I didn’t care that he was gay I hated him for leaving her feeling he can pretend he didn’t have kids and start over. Being a father is one of most important jobs, I love how this man handled it.
Lovely story thanks for sharing ! It's a perfect example that we as adults put hate (racism ; homophobia etc) into our children cause they are innocent and accepting in the beginning
Why wouldn't five be an appropriate age? It's not like you tell them about sex, at that age it's simply "some girls like other girls, some boys like other boys, dad likes other boys" I've talked about homosexuality that way with lots of children and there's never been confusing to them. With that said this is a very nice story :)
Yeah, that part of the story was weird to me too. I mean, a lot of little kids want to marry their best friend or something and have to have it explained to them that boys marry girls and girls marry boys. If that's an OK conversation to have at 3 or 4, I don't see why it's any weirder to tell a 3 or 4 year old that two adults can get married if they both want to and just leave it at that. It's not exactly a difficult idea to explain to a kid
My 5yo daughter told me today that in her cartoon two men got married. She thought it was notable as she hadn't seen that before. I asked her if something was wrong with that and she said "no!?" Very offended lol I was like YES I don't even have to explain this to her. Kids know love. They are taught hate.
What an eloquent man; you brought tears to my eyes. I, for my part, flew under the radar and avoided coming out directly. As my children now are grown up I still haven't had"the talk" with my son, but I "know" he knows and is accepting. I'm 72 so times have luckily changed.
@@poetmale thank you. I’ve watched your video a few times already. I have a long journey ahead of myself. Thank you for sharing your story and helping so many.
2 of my friends came out as bisexual today to their parents. One had their parents cry, but accepted him, then he dabbed. The other one, they screamed at him and told him that he's not bisexual. Nice.
I realized i was gay at 14 and my mother said i was perverted! I met a man that year and i gave him my virginity! And i NEVER regretted it! i am now 67.
Glad you never regretted, and I'm sorry your mom treated you that way. I hope you are happy now. 14 years old were a very young age tho, I hope it were with your consent.
@@jordynritchie3087 - I admire this dad's courage, he's amazing! I started realizing I was attracted to the same sex when I was about 5, I kept this information to myself for many years and didn't discuss it with anyone, not even with any family members - until several years later. All throughout grade school, junior high and high school I kept it hidden. I tried to fit in, and just went along with how I thought I was supposed to be and what I was supposed to do. I grew up in the 70's and early 80's in the Midwest, so it was a different time. For the most part I kept it hidden, and tried to suppress it up until I was out of high school. All during high school I dated a few girls, but none of the dating relationships lasted more than a couple months at the longest. I know my thought process was if I had a girlfriend, then I would focus on her and would not think about how much I wanted to date and do the horizontal mambo with Ryan O'Neal, Lee Majors, Kurt Russell, or Harry Belafonte (who could not fall in love with Harry? He will always be one of the most handsome men whoever walked the Earth). As it turns out one of my friends was gay, and I didn't know it until one night when we were both 16, we started to mess around. It was wonderful. It happened a couple times throughout high school. But we drifted apart because we could not talk about what happened, and he went off to school in another state after high school. I started coming out when I was 19, I just didn't want to pretend anymore. At first I said I was bi, but I knew the truth, I had absolutely no interest in women. Family didn't deal with it well at first, but over the years, they realized this is who I am, and just accepted it. Everyone has their own path and timeline they follow. I am glad I came out early in life. I didn't want to end up living a lie to myself or to a potential future wife, and possibly lying to possible future kids. As it turns out I never had children, and I am great with that decision. By the time I was 30, I had pretty much come out to all my friends and relatives. Also it's a huge relief to be out at work, and to be open about it.
Amazing kids. I unfortunately have a son that is gay and he and his father haven’t spoken for almost 15 years. It’s so sad when people discard their LBGT family members because they are discarding some amazing people. Congrats to you and your wife in how you handled it and to your kids for who they are. I already believed my son was gay when he came out at 17. I want to share how it went. We were driving around to find good gas prices and he said, Mom you know on FB where it asks what your interests are (male/female). I said yeah he said well mine I put male. I said ok well can you help me find a gas station. He said you’re not upset? I said h*** no I love you till I die. So we got gas and went home. He is one of the most amazing kids just like my other three children. Love is unconditional and from the heart. I get upset over peoples actions not their sexuality.
Great story! Seems like telling kids early before they may be exposed to negative comments from classmates, etc makes things go more smoothly. Obviously, the spouse needs to be supportive as this woman was.
This is literally the most perfect way to tell your children. I remember working at a library once when I was 14/15 and there was an older couple maybe 30/35 with two kids around the ages of 5-8. They divorced because she came out as a lesbian. I remember some of the librarians talking to eachother about this and how sad it was for the kids but none of them really said anything negative towards the LGBTQ community directly, (it was 2009ish). I actually remember helping either the father or the mother find books that teach kids about gay parents aimed at their age group, it was really nice to see this family trying to stay functional (I could tell the husband and wife had other problems, but hey it was a fresh divorce). But that was one of the first times I actually saw gay people in my community and it was really helpful for me on my journey.
Aw. Shows how this is only complex in the grown-up world, and not within the age of innocence. Unnecessarily ambiguous explanation for the kids, though. "Boys that like to be with boys" is just how the little one himself at the moment thinks. They can deal with an explanation of the different kinds of love and partners.
My parents were very close with a gay couple when I was really little. They did everything together: double dates, barbecues, trips together, etc. so these guys were always around. When I was about four I asked my mom why they always kissed and held hands and my mom said, "They love each other the way mommy and daddy love each other." And that was it. That's the only explanation I needed. After that I just went and played with the dog according to my mom. I always laugh when people freak out and say, "How am I going to explain this to my children?!" Kids are easy. Adults are the ones that have a lifetime of prejudice and hatred.
So great. As I'm sure you know, the reason why your kids are so well-adjusted and are good people is because you showed them that. Really heartwarming. Thanks for sharing.
I'm lucky to have an ex-wife who is supportive and understanding too. Our daughter thanked us when she was nine or ten for being parents who don't fight even though we are divorced. Considering that the now fifteen year old girl has also come out as gay, she knows she has two parents who love and support her in this confusing life.
This made me so emotional. I'm so happy your family and ex wife were so understanding and accepting and you didn't have to experience any horrible petty bs.
What a beautiful story. I watched this just now for the first time and it's 2020 in the middle of the Covid19 pandemic, just to put a timepost on it. I'm 75 now as a gay man and have been with my life-long gay partner for 24 years, but before then, I went through a period of "trying to be straight". Fortunately for me, I finally woke up to the fact that it wasn't going to work for me and wouldn't be fair on a female partner or wife if we got married. I do understand why many men end up being married to a woman for all sorts of reasons. I love the fact that you were able to amicably part with your wife but not with your children; thank you so much for sharing your story.
Omg what an amazing story. From this experience you have an amazing son and daughter who are open minded and kind. Thanks for posting he's a very handsome father as well.
Just goes show that when prominent LGBTQ people, be it politicians, athletes, entertainers, teachers, clergy, CEO’s, or even your child’s bus driver or swim coach, comes out....it opens the door to a conversation that shows how normal and inconsequential ones sexuality is in society. A persons character is not about their sexuality it’s about their heart. Are they kind, are they respectful, are they trustworthy, are they intelligent, do they have a good work ethic. The veil of closeting is harmful, the ability to be true to oneself is the unlocking of everything for everyone. Great story!
Absolutely the best way to hand telling children the truth. WITH love, honesty and respect and while they are young. We are not born anti-gay or as bigots.....These things are learned from the adults around us while we are young. I would love to have a cup of coffee with this man and I'm sure we would have some laughs.
...the way this Dad, holds the picture of him & his kids, he's the definition of proud & happy...bless you all, thanks for sharing your story - INSPIRING! ...we all lead by example, whether we're aware of it or not, so we need to be mindful of the example we're setting. ❤️🇨🇦
It angers me to hear someone say that telling your kids you’re gay at 4 & 5 years old is ‘clearly not the appropriate time’. It’s no less appropriate than telling them your heterosexual. This is the kind of thinking that makes sexuality problematic for so many people. Telling your kids you’re gay doesn’t mean telling them about your sex life details. Kids raised with same gender parents just accept it, as they should.
because my uncle way gay..my mom explained it to me at a young age..and added..that is just how it is. I am straight but always took comfort knowing had I been gay..I would have been fully supported. I have many gay friends in my life..both men and women. including my best friend of more than 3 decades. I can't imagine my life without them. so I have never got people who assume if you tell young children about being gay they will become gay. We just are accepting of people and our world is much better because of who we allow in it.
I just think it's great that he and his ex wife have such a loving relationship. Those kids are very lucky. It's amazing how pure their little minds are.
This is interesting. You always get a YES or NO answer from kids, especially boys! Such a nice way to put it to the children and how they have become better people for it. They took that out with them to the world.
It's really cool and I also think beneficial to have their first memory and understanding of gay as the father they know and love. Definitely 2 kids that will never experience confusion on the topic.. bully anyone or judge anyone. It because a norm for them..wish more kids could have this opportunity to learn in a healthy way like this. Idk quite how to describe exactlt what I'm trying to say but hopefully it makes sense to others. This is a VERYY sweet story 😊
This IS what the model American family is. Parents with a strong understanding of themselves which in turn allows them to have a strong relationship with their kids. Whether they're together or divorced. Your kids will appreciate transparency more than anything.
I would argue that 4yo and 5yo are MORE appropriate. It's one thing to suddenly learn it later vs just mostly grown up with it. Ask kids raised by two moms or two dads.
"yes, no, maybe, DEFINITELY NOT" 🤣 That killed me! This guy seems like a sweetheart and it sounds like his kids turned out to be good people as well. 💞
This is OFTEN the case - kids raised by out gay people tend to be WAYYYYYY MORE COMPASSIONATE! ESPECIALLY than those raised by judgmental bible thumpers!
My hope that one day, in my lifetime, we will get to a point where no ones needs to out themselves. That an individual's sexuality will not even be an issue anymore. That people can love who they want and not have to justify their existence.
I don't think he was justifying his existence as much as he was explaining to his children, honestly, why he and his wife weren't together anymore. But I definitely take your point and agree.
Wonderful story. You are very lucky. I am almost 78 and have an older sister who is 80. We haven't spoken since 1989 when she found out I was gay. It's sad, but I don't need the baggage that comes from all that hatred.
I really appreciate the good taste in which these videos are produced with. Thank you for helping these people share their stories. God bless you guys. -Ken
I envy those kids. I wish I had a Dad like you and like the governor. hahaha My father is going on 76 in a couple weeks and he can never know I'm gay because he's likely to kick me out, disown me or even downright shoot me dead. I'm serious. He's that kind of guy. As much military dictatorship approving as he is, he loves talking to other senior citiziens from different backgrounds and political stands - not necessarily 70+ but 50+ would do. It would be awesome if somebody of your age and uplifting aura could talk to him. Ah, life's so unfair at times.
@@duze78 people can be kicked out of the family not just out of the literal home. ... That's how I was lucky enough to get my nephew Matty for his years from 15-19.. their loss my gain...
won’t you feel bad if you never give your father the chance to show you he can love you more than he hates mo’s? You’re selling yourself and him short by never trying.
It's funny how you never know how kids will put two & two together until after the fact you can understand their thought process. I was in the car with my friend & her 2 kids, a boy & a girl. When asked what the little girl wanted to be when she grew up, she said that she wanted to be a fairy princess or a lesbian. (at that age she was not a fan of boys & I guess figured that she wouldn't have to deal with them if she was a lesbian)
"Mommy what's gay?
Mommy: "ask your father...."
😂 I lost it.
Great story though. 💕
LOL
I was at a restaurant and I over heard a male couple talking to their kids about being gay, and the kids were ADORABLE!!!! “DOES THAT MEAN I CAN HAVE 2 DADS??!! YESSSSSSS!!!!!” And “can I be gay too? It sounds nice. Is being gay fun?” I was smiling to my self, it was so sweet. They were so excited that they got 2 dads.
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what did the couple say when the kids ask to be gay too ?
Horrible
Well it was great that you still had a relationship with your ex-wife which totally benefits the kids. Very inspirational story, thanks for sharing it.
Scott H coparenting win.
Such love, caring and good communication between the parents. Kids can only benefit having parents like this. Wonderful video.
Scott H
Mate.. you’re dam right there😬😂
Scott H - hey sexy daddy
Scott H that’s the key. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
As a parent think they handled the telling of the children very well and this is evident in how their children have turned out.
Sharon f
Julian Keyser were you going to say something?
Filming In Portland lol
@@filminginportland1654 ....Yeah, he was going to say that telling his child he was gay was a perfect thing to do while he was using a coloring book.
My mom never told me she was gay so when kids at school asked why I had two moms I just told them they were best friends cause I was too young to know any better 😂
Kory Mann I love this.
Kory Mann lol
I mean, they could be best friends like really, really, really good friend… LOL
You're so lucky 😭
And they WERE best friends 😍😁😍
"Daddy is like the governor." "... you're the governor?" XD
Elizabeth Lingurar it IS pretty funny.
That's the response I anticipated. lol
LoveMusicBad me too :D
LOL could not stop laughing
Blondie SL I’m so happy things went well. It sucks that you’ve had to go through that but really, it’s just made you and your hubby stronger!!
The most epic "Ask your father." ever!
"MOM! Can I go to the mall?"
"Ask your father."
"MOM! Can I borrow the car?"
"Ask your father."
"MOM! What does a gay mean?"
"Ask your father."
I always imagine when people say “ask your father” it is in the most stereotypical New York accent
His ex wife is a great person too.
I knew when he said he was "like the governor" to his kids that one of them was going to think that he was the governor--typical kid logic. Very cute story and I'm happy that it all worked out. Kids accept most things pretty easily as long as you are honest with them. :)
I was thinking they would say "daddy marries the governor"
This is one of the SWEETEST stories that I have ever heard. I am so happy that everything turned out to be just fine.
Since I'm not gay, I have no way to know what it's like to come out as gay but I can't imagine a better way than that. These videos are beautiful, important and greatly appreciated.
Bob Margolese Absolutely - knowledge is power
That’s so kind
I'm not either, but I imagine it takes a tremendous amount of bravery to tell your children. If you do it too young, they won't understand, if you wait to long, they will resent it. Bravery because they could change their feelings toward you for the worse, which could happen, and is the worst case senario.So glad it worked out for the better for this man. God blessings!
Basically it feels different for everyone. For some people its the most terrifying thing in the world. For other people its just not that big a deal.
Sadly depends on where you live
It's inspiring when the younger generation comes out, it's meaningful when the older generation comes out.
Stephen Buck Yes, it can’t be easy to come out.You never know how the person you tell is going to react. It takes a lot of guts
It's really compelling to hear his story because the emotions are conveyed especially just how much he loves his kids
You just can tell his an awesome dad, great story btw
Irun Mon ABSOLUTELY haha lol
Yes, caring, consideration and communication between the parents, the children fore ever. Everyone benefits.
This was beautiful. I can’t imagine keeping a secret for most of my life. I’m also very thankful he and his ex wife have a functioning relationship. My cousins husband came out after his third baby was born. He unfortunately just told his wife and left with a newborn suckling on her. I didn’t care that he was gay I hated him for leaving her feeling he can pretend he didn’t have kids and start over. Being a father is one of most important jobs, I love how this man handled it.
Abandoning your own child and the mother like that is never acceptable, no matter the reasons. No wonder you are upset.
Lovely story thanks for sharing ! It's a perfect example that we as adults put hate (racism ; homophobia etc) into our children cause they are innocent and accepting in the beginning
Why wouldn't five be an appropriate age? It's not like you tell them about sex, at that age it's simply "some girls like other girls, some boys like other boys, dad likes other boys" I've talked about homosexuality that way with lots of children and there's never been confusing to them. With that said this is a very nice story :)
Yeah, that part of the story was weird to me too. I mean, a lot of little kids want to marry their best friend or something and have to have it explained to them that boys marry girls and girls marry boys. If that's an OK conversation to have at 3 or 4, I don't see why it's any weirder to tell a 3 or 4 year old that two adults can get married if they both want to and just leave it at that. It's not exactly a difficult idea to explain to a kid
My 5yo daughter told me today that in her cartoon two men got married. She thought it was notable as she hadn't seen that before. I asked her if something was wrong with that and she said "no!?" Very offended lol I was like YES I don't even have to explain this to her.
Kids know love. They are taught hate.
@@Kay-bc3ql That's such a true statement... "Kids know love. They are taught hate."
What an eloquent man; you brought tears to my eyes. I, for my part, flew under the radar and avoided coming out directly. As my children now are grown up I still haven't had"the talk" with my son, but I "know" he knows and is accepting. I'm 72 so times have luckily changed.
Please do it before it’s too late. He will love you no matter what and you will love yourself even more after. A weight off your shoulders.
@@Gholden1972 The problem is I only see him at his mother's house, and she is (still) jealous, but I make here the promise to myself. Thank you ❤️
@@poetmale thank you. I’ve watched your video a few times already. I have a long journey ahead of myself. Thank you for sharing your story and helping so many.
"yes, maybe, I think so, absolutely not" 😂
2 of my friends came out as bisexual today to their parents. One had their parents cry, but accepted him, then he dabbed. The other one, they screamed at him and told him that he's not bisexual. Nice.
I hope they're both ok now.
Daddy’s the governor? - 😆
I realized i was gay at 14 and my mother said i was perverted! I met a man that year and i gave him my virginity! And i NEVER regretted it! i am now 67.
joseph shivers I realised I was gay at twelve
Glad you never regretted, and I'm sorry your mom treated you that way. I hope you are happy now. 14 years old were a very young age tho, I hope it were with your consent.
@@jordynritchie3087 - I admire this dad's courage, he's amazing!
I started realizing I was attracted to the same sex when I was about 5, I kept this information to myself for many years and didn't discuss it with anyone, not even with any family members - until several years later. All throughout grade school, junior high and high school I kept it hidden. I tried to fit in, and just went along with how I thought I was supposed to be and what I was supposed to do. I grew up in the 70's and early 80's in the Midwest, so it was a different time.
For the most part I kept it hidden, and tried to suppress it up until I was out of high school. All during high school I dated a few girls, but none of the dating relationships lasted more than a couple months at the longest. I know my thought process was if I had a girlfriend, then I would focus on her and would not think about how much I wanted to date and do the horizontal mambo with Ryan O'Neal, Lee Majors, Kurt Russell, or Harry Belafonte (who could not fall in love with Harry? He will always be one of the most handsome men whoever walked the Earth).
As it turns out one of my friends was gay, and I didn't know it until one night when we were both 16, we started to mess around. It was wonderful. It happened a couple times throughout high school. But we drifted apart because we could not talk about what happened, and he went off to school in another state after high school.
I started coming out when I was 19, I just didn't want to pretend anymore. At first I said I was bi, but I knew the truth, I had absolutely no interest in women. Family didn't deal with it well at first, but over the years, they realized this is who I am, and just accepted it.
Everyone has their own path and timeline they follow. I am glad I came out early in life. I didn't want to end up living a lie to myself or to a potential future wife, and possibly lying to possible future kids. As it turns out I never had children, and I am great with that decision. By the time I was 30, I had pretty much come out to all my friends and relatives. Also it's a huge relief to be out at work, and to be open about it.
Amazing kids. I unfortunately have a son that is gay and he and his father haven’t spoken for almost 15 years. It’s so sad when people discard their LBGT family members because they are discarding some amazing people. Congrats to you and your wife in how you handled it and to your kids for who they are. I already believed my son was gay when he came out at 17. I want to share how it went. We were driving around to find good gas prices and he said, Mom you know on FB where it asks what your interests are (male/female). I said yeah he said well mine I put male. I said ok well can you help me find a gas station. He said you’re not upset? I said h*** no I love you till I die. So we got gas and went home. He is one of the most amazing kids just like my other three children. Love is unconditional and from the heart. I get upset over peoples actions not their sexuality.
That's so sweet! Sad about his dad but he's lucky to have a mom like you ❤️
Great story! Seems like telling kids early before they may be exposed to negative comments from classmates, etc makes things go more smoothly. Obviously, the spouse needs to be supportive as this woman was.
This is literally the most perfect way to tell your children. I remember working at a library once when I was 14/15 and there was an older couple maybe 30/35 with two kids around the ages of 5-8. They divorced because she came out as a lesbian. I remember some of the librarians talking to eachother about this and how sad it was for the kids but none of them really said anything negative towards the LGBTQ community directly, (it was 2009ish). I actually remember helping either the father or the mother find books that teach kids about gay parents aimed at their age group, it was really nice to see this family trying to stay functional (I could tell the husband and wife had other problems, but hey it was a fresh divorce). But that was one of the first times I actually saw gay people in my community and it was really helpful for me on my journey.
Aw. Shows how this is only complex in the grown-up world, and not within the age of innocence.
Unnecessarily ambiguous explanation for the kids, though. "Boys that like to be with boys" is just how the little one himself at the moment thinks. They can deal with an explanation of the different kinds of love and partners.
That's why it is getting better with every consecutive generational
My parents were very close with a gay couple when I was really little. They did everything together: double dates, barbecues, trips together, etc. so these guys were always around. When I was about four I asked my mom why they always kissed and held hands and my mom said, "They love each other the way mommy and daddy love each other."
And that was it. That's the only explanation I needed. After that I just went and played with the dog according to my mom. I always laugh when people freak out and say, "How am I going to explain this to my children?!"
Kids are easy. Adults are the ones that have a lifetime of prejudice and hatred.
@@asingleverse So true.
So great. As I'm sure you know, the reason why your kids are so well-adjusted and are good people is because you showed them that. Really heartwarming. Thanks for sharing.
This is one of those things that makes me look forward to my life as a gay dude. Thanks for that.
I'm lucky to have an ex-wife who is supportive and understanding too. Our daughter thanked us when she was nine or ten for being parents who don't fight even though we are divorced. Considering that the now fifteen year old girl has also come out as gay, she knows she has two parents who love and support her in this confusing life.
This family is incredible. They respect each other and the children. How wonderful.
This made me so emotional. I'm so happy your family and ex wife were so understanding and accepting and you didn't have to experience any horrible petty bs.
That is one cute story. Kids are the best.
Im dead are you the gouverneur? That absulutly the cutest response! Glad it all worked out.
What a beautiful story. I watched this just now for the first time and it's 2020 in the middle of the Covid19 pandemic, just to put a timepost on it. I'm 75 now as a gay man and have been with my life-long gay partner for 24 years, but before then, I went through a period of "trying to be straight". Fortunately for me, I finally woke up to the fact that it wasn't going to work for me and wouldn't be fair on a female partner or wife if we got married. I do understand why many men end up being married to a woman for all sorts of reasons. I love the fact that you were able to amicably part with your wife but not with your children; thank you so much for sharing your story.
How adorable. Great father and mother.
My father came out when i was 12 years old. it only made us closer. I know my acceptance was his piece.
Omg what an amazing story. From this experience you have an amazing son and daughter who are open minded and kind. Thanks for posting he's a very handsome father as well.
Lucky kids to have such wonderful parents and lucky parents, who have such wonderful parents.
Blessings and much happiness to you 🌹🌹🌹
Just goes show that when prominent LGBTQ people, be it politicians, athletes, entertainers, teachers, clergy, CEO’s, or even your child’s bus driver or swim coach, comes out....it opens the door to a conversation that shows how normal and inconsequential ones sexuality is in society. A persons character is not about their sexuality it’s about their heart. Are they kind, are they respectful, are they trustworthy, are they intelligent, do they have a good work ethic. The veil of closeting is harmful, the ability to be true to oneself is the unlocking of everything for everyone. Great story!
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Excellent parents and excellent kids! I want my whole generation and the generations after us to be loving and accepting of everyone
Good for you, Brian! It sounds as if your children have awesome parents.
Absolutely the best way to hand telling children the truth. WITH love, honesty and respect and while they are young. We are not born anti-gay or as bigots.....These things are learned from the adults around us while we are young. I would love to have a cup of coffee with this man and I'm sure we would have some laughs.
...the way this Dad, holds the picture of him & his kids, he's the definition of proud & happy...bless you all, thanks for sharing your story - INSPIRING! ...we all lead by example, whether we're aware of it or not, so we need to be mindful of the example we're setting. ❤️🇨🇦
Wow. This is such a hopeful story. Thanks for raising two such understanding and compassionate people.
It angers me to hear someone say that telling your kids you’re gay at 4 & 5 years old is ‘clearly not the appropriate time’. It’s no less appropriate than telling them your heterosexual. This is the kind of thinking that makes sexuality problematic for so many people. Telling your kids you’re gay doesn’t mean telling them about your sex life details. Kids raised with same gender parents just accept it, as they should.
My mom was in her late 40's when she came out
because my uncle way gay..my mom explained it to me at a young age..and added..that is just how it is. I am straight but always took comfort knowing had I been gay..I would have been fully supported. I have many gay friends in my life..both men and women. including my best friend of more than 3 decades. I can't imagine my life without them. so I have never got people who assume if you tell young children about being gay they will become gay. We just are accepting of people and our world is much better because of who we allow in it.
I just think it's great that he and his ex wife have such a loving relationship. Those kids are very lucky. It's amazing how pure their little minds are.
Thanks for sharing your personal story. Glad to hear everything is working so well for you and the family.
Awesome dad, awesome parents, awesome children. The world needs your example.
You should be the governor
That's so heartwarming. Just all of it, the ex, the kids and the acceptance.
Mom: "ask your father" 🤷♂️
You sir, raised awesome children along with your wife...great job!
This is interesting. You always get a YES or NO answer from kids, especially boys! Such a nice way to put it to the children and how they have become better people for it. They took that out with them to the world.
Beautiful story or love, honesty, support, and family.
A hard confession to make, even more so when you have young children.
It's really cool and I also think beneficial to have their first memory and understanding of gay as the father they know and love. Definitely 2 kids that will never experience confusion on the topic.. bully anyone or judge anyone. It because a norm for them..wish more kids could have this opportunity to learn in a healthy way like this.
Idk quite how to describe exactlt what I'm trying to say but hopefully it makes sense to others. This is a VERYY sweet story 😊
This IS what the model American family is. Parents with a strong understanding of themselves which in turn allows them to have a strong relationship with their kids. Whether they're together or divorced. Your kids will appreciate transparency more than anything.
That makes me wish I had gay parents.
Aw that sweet
I do
He's really cute 😊
stop
Yas!
James Jones thank you!!😬😬
oh , u like daddies
agree he's very cute
Jacob Flores -- I think you're cute! 💓
Thanks for sharing - God Bless you and your family
This. Was. Beautiful.
You brought me to tears with your story. Tears of joy.
Thank you.
Totally agree. One of our favorite stories!
"is daddy the governor?"
She's not destined for deductive work haha
I loved this story & his pride in his kids They sound wonderful !
That was great, and it was really great that your ex-wife seemed so supportive during the disclosure.
This dad is so blessed. I cant even come out to my family to this day tho i had a feeling they knew already lol.
I would argue that 4yo and 5yo are MORE appropriate. It's one thing to suddenly learn it later vs just mostly grown up with it. Ask kids raised by two moms or two dads.
"you live by example" I like that a lot. You be a good person.
Beautiful story! Kids like your kids are exactly what the world needs right now.
Thank you for sharing your story! And, for the record, I’m like the Governor too! God bless you!
Made me laugh and cry... It's awesome to hear about young individuals who are accepting and understanding of diverse individuals.
Great and definitely inspiring story! And that family photo is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your family experience!!
"yes, no, maybe, DEFINITELY NOT" 🤣 That killed me! This guy seems like a sweetheart and it sounds like his kids turned out to be good people as well. 💞
This is OFTEN the case - kids raised by out gay people tend to be WAYYYYYY MORE COMPASSIONATE! ESPECIALLY than those raised by judgmental bible thumpers!
My hope that one day, in my lifetime, we will get to a point where no ones needs to out themselves. That an individual's sexuality will not even be an issue anymore. That people can love who they want and not have to justify their existence.
YOW Gyrl Me too!!!
I don't think he was justifying his existence as much as he was explaining to his children, honestly, why he and his wife weren't together anymore. But I definitely take your point and agree.
Wonderful story. You are very lucky. I am almost 78 and have an older sister who is 80. We haven't spoken since 1989 when she found out I was gay. It's sad, but I don't need the baggage that comes from all that hatred.
I’m filled with tears of joy listening to this beautiful story.
I really appreciate the good taste in which these videos are produced with. Thank you for helping these people share their stories. God bless you guys. -Ken
Awwww! Such an amazing story.
......you're the governor ? Oh my god, I laughed till I choked
Could this man's kids be more beautiful, I ask?!? Inside and out.
You did perfect, dad!
I love that you are fortunate enough to have a supportive ex-wife and that she was with you when you told the kids.
"you're the governor?" XD The ex-wife seems pretty cool too.
This an absolute beautiful story. I applaud you for your courage in deciding to come out. And ex wife and children are treasures!!!
What a handsome man.
Glad everything worked out for him.
Kids that young except you for who you are as long as you are truthful to them
you are blessed that you have children who love you and a understanding ex wife
This is just beautiful! Thanks for the honesty and sharing.
Oh lord, what a laugh, and such a beautiful story! thanks 😂😊❤
Proud of you dude
Well done, Dad and Mom. ❤
daddy is the gobernor? LOL and love
yes, maybe, I think so, absolutely not xD so cute!
Great story and very inspiring. Glad your children ended up where they did.
I envy those kids. I wish I had a Dad like you and like the governor. hahaha My father is going on 76 in a couple weeks and he can never know I'm gay because he's likely to kick me out, disown me or even downright shoot me dead. I'm serious. He's that kind of guy. As much military dictatorship approving as he is, he loves talking to other senior citiziens from different backgrounds and political stands - not necessarily 70+ but 50+ would do. It would be awesome if somebody of your age and uplifting aura could talk to him. Ah, life's so unfair at times.
kick you out? how old are you? why do u live with him
@@duze78 people can be kicked out of the family not just out of the literal home. ... That's how I was lucky enough to get my nephew Matty for his years from 15-19.. their loss my gain...
won’t you feel bad if you never give your father the chance to show you he can love you more than he hates mo’s? You’re selling yourself and him short by never trying.
Edward Queen, I hope things are better for you now. ❤️🙏🌈
@Uknown person from an another planet ❤️❤️❤️
It's funny how you never know how kids will put two & two together until after the fact you can understand their thought process. I was in the car with my friend & her 2 kids, a boy & a girl. When asked what the little girl wanted to be when she grew up, she said that she wanted to be a fairy princess or a lesbian.
(at that age she was not a fan of boys & I guess figured that she wouldn't have to deal with them if she was a lesbian)
The younger we tell them, the better, because we don’t give time to prejudice to settle in their vulnerable minds.
You are SO right! 👍💜
Greatest respect for putting your children's needs before your own. As parents you and your ex-wife are amazing