I am a Black American who has lived in four other countries and visited a considerable number more. I would say on average, the United States is more organized, efficient and does in fact have more freedoms and economic opportunities than many places in the world. Despite many perceptions, I would even say on average it is even more generally accepting of diversity than many places in the world, despite the challenges of racism, sexism, religious discrimination, etc. that remain issues in the country. There is a lot of great things about the United States and I will never talk like it is a terrible place to live or has nothing for anyone. Like everywhere in the world, there are pros and cons. However I do find myself preferring many other countries on a general social level and general love of life level. To make US dollars in a country outside of the US is often a dream life for those who have traveled a lot abroad. In my experience, many foreigners who have never traveled to the United States, especially those in developing countries, tend to adopt a romanticized view of the States. I have many friends from other countries and I often notice that even their relatives in their home countries constantly ask them for money assuming they are living a massively prosperous life in the US even if they are told the opposite by that person and they assume if the person isn’t sending them money, it is because they are being greedy or stingy, not because the person is struggling to make it themselves. Although no one ever said life would be easy in the United States, many people still adopt the notion that everyone in the United States has not just a job, but a well paying job with plenty of free time for social settings and everyone owns a big house and a nice car. That just because the country itself is prosperous that everyone living within it must also be prosperous. Many people also forget that when the reputation of opportunity and economic prosperity was first garnered, the US population was much smaller than it is today and had more opportunities for immigrants of previous generations and more economic opportunities for upward mobility in general. The US population is enormous now and has grown by more than 70 million people in 30 years, literally one generation. I think that also creates more competition for well paying jobs, living space, etc. for such rapid growth in a relatively short amount of time. Sadly, not all jobs are well paying and we live in a capitalist society. On top of this, many jobs have disappeared through automation and technology, not to mention inflation the diminishes the value of the dollars that are earned. There are many factors. But agreed, the US is not an easy place to live. To be honest, I am not sure anywhere is.
You need to open your own RUclips channel to educate the population and the whole generation of Youth who were born in 2000 and now are 24 years old...
Thank you for this thoughtful response. As a a Mixed Ethnicity Latino and Cameroonian of American upbringing, I find that, as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community that loneliness is a scourge in the USA that is near difficult to avoid. I have found greater opportunities in London and Europe for partnered living within aforementioned communities. Atlanta and San Francisco are likely places where I might be better accepted. Not sure how affordable they are for the common person.
I'm a born-and-bred American, and gradually became aware of how overworked Americans are. And, yet, it's also hard for many to get work. It seems that one either has too much work or too little. Too much stress from overwork or from not having enough work (and therefore not earning enough).
Trust me if you are making good money plz don't go to America .....worst of all don't move your family there ....my sister's entire family moved to California 10 years ago this is her 2 daughters, husband, and one son. About 4 years ago she moved back despite having a good job as a manager in a store and her husband also earning well. The sad truth is people forget about the indoctrination in American public schools, her son almost mutilated his genitals in claims of feeling like a woman trust me (they call them Transgender) I don't really understand it either. All they had heard of was a large number of homosexuals in America and were mentally prepared for it. She says the scariest moment of her life was when they were called for a meeting by a counselor and asked to take the child to some type of clinic to be educated about putting the child on different hormones and maybe they would help him change to a girl coz he felt like one. she was this close to agreeing due to fear of her son becoming suicidal .... that's when the husband decided to bring them all back here to Kenya for a visit and a bit of advice from her family members. They stayed for some months and realized the son's suicidal tendencies reduced drastically. They also realized that the puberty blockers the school was suggesting they put on their son were the same drugs they give pedophiles in jails to reduce their desires. They did not go back after realizing these began their life again and now surprisingly the son is back to being a son, in fact, he is the manliest of all the nephews in the family ....we sometimes make fun of how him and he would be a woman if they didn't come home....he cant even imagine it ..trust me don't subject your children to the psychological torture of the west if you already earn well
It changed my perspective about America entirely. And, while my American dream has waned in recent times after I came to terms with the reality that life isn't perfect anywhere, I've never really felt the way I now feel after the video. The reality is staggering and quite disenchanting.
Hello dear. This is a informative piece. Thank you . Is there a possibility where someone visits US on B1/B2 VISA and later seeks legal means to work since he has a B1/B2 visa for 5 years and can stay legally in the country? Thank you.
I agree, to an extent. You need to know how to play the game. Invest your money, ROTH IRA’s, mutual funds. I don’t have fun, anymore because it left me broke. I’m more stable as a single mother whose husband passed away and NO LIFE INSURANCE! BUT, I invest b/c I’m trying to retire early. My mother was an immigrant and she WORKED HARD AND PLAYED HARDER. So, you need to know the system and be around people who are hustling like you OR a little bit better off than you. It ain’t perfect, and neither is any other country. Gotta love capitalism! 🫶🏽 That’s my 2 cents. 🤷🏽♀️
I always tell people America is for working. Then you take the money, and go vacay in other countries. And it's lonely m. So hard. The only thing that makes it worth it is the ability to provide for your family
Life is so short, so difficult. If you make enough money to survive and you are surrounded by familly and friends…forget about America. America and the American dream is not what you think. She is right about everything she said. Good video !
As someone in there 20s here the in US, I can concur that the American dream isn't all that. I feel very disenchanted with expectation to just chase degrees and titles for my whole life, it sounds exhausting. I'm very grateful for my position in life but the US work culture isn't very healthy for many people and I can only imagine what it'd be like as an immigrant.
I want to say THANKYOU for being so honest. I left the US and came back home, north of africa , I loved the US I really did, a democracy and very friendly country, but I found my self economically struggling, I was constantly comparing with how it was back in my country. Most people do not have the courage to come back, I did, all my friends and neighbors and relatives think that I am silly , they wont understand. Thank you Ma'm for being so honest . Viva Africa.
I spent 8 years in Europe Sweden and Italy and 7 years USA Baltimore Maryland and Minneapolis Minnesota. I left for good without dream of going back to western countries ever again. I'm better and doing well in East Africa
@@aliyousuf8697 The West is a scam. People in the West are working hard for their whole life to afford what we in developing countries already have. For example in my country Jamaica most people live in homes that are fully paid for and the property taxes are only $100 USD per year. In the USA you can never fully own your home because the property taxes are so high that if you pay off your mortgage you can still lose your home if you can't afford the high taxes.
I’m from East Africa, moved to America in 2016 and I’m here telling y’ll everything she said is true 100%. Depression is real and overworking like a freaking donkey 16hr everyday 6 days a week. And this country isn’t safe at all everyone has gun, some people are rude and loneliness OMG it will kill you. Getting proper documents like a green card it can take years years. Be careful grass isn’t always green on the other side.
spoken like someone who`s experienced it.I always tell people, if you have something doing in Africa, pls stay there because you might go for green grass only to find you are nt even able to pay for a flight once every 3 years to go home because with 3 jobs, even your vacations are scattered. Been there, I now choose a very simple,cheap and livable life.
Very overrated country, working hard af to pay crazy medical bills or bail bond, some ppl are very nice while others are white supremacists. Biggest mistake I made was to go there and try to raise a family, heartless society
@@estherotieno9709too much work kills you before your time, life isn’t all about work and die. Look smart, work harder for sometime then start creating a financial freedom, and financial freedom is in businesses and investments not in a job..
I left my home country when I was only 20 to live the "American dream" I aways dreamed of living in the US. Today, 6 years later I'm here. Depressed. I have many things to be grateful for, this opportunity has changed me forever, but I rather consume less things, and collect more memories. The average American mindset is the rat race mindset, while there's nothing wrong with that. The way this dream is sold worldwide is like if it should be the one and only dream the entire world should strive for, when in reality this is not true. For everything we do there'll always be duality, the positive and negative. We just need to be honest with ourselves, be proud of everything we have done to accomplish our goals. But the most important: if your dream is to have a degree, get married, have kids, cars and a nice house to call yours, cool go for it! just dont push this dream or criticize others for not desiring the same dream. If your dream is also, living in a farm, collecting berries, helping others, cool! dont compare yourself to others collecting material stuff. Your dream is just as important as anyone else. When we die, we dont bring nothing of the material stuff with us. We only live once, and while this might sound cliche, it is the truth. This current system we live in, sucks. Everything is shaped in a way to have you always trapped, loans, debt and all that stuff. We need to be smart, play the game, save. Have discipline, but don't fall for the trap.
@@AkotTV1 long story short: it feels like I left my country to reclaim my real identity in what it’s considered a “first world country” Now all I want to do is educate myself about my country, our political history, my people and ways I can help myself and the children that come from where I’m . If money wasn’t the norm, I wish our people were educating themselves about planting their own food and about our ancestors. We are crumbs of capitalism and should change our mindset about it.
This is 100% accurate. We are workaholics, in huge debt, and never have free time. We are lonely and depressed. We don't keep in close contact with family and friends because we are so busy working. We work 40hrs a week plus overtime and spend 2 hours commuting in traffic each day. We often have 2nd jobs, and our spouses work as well. Our children begin working at 16-18. This is primarily to afford our cars and student loans. Owning a car is mandatory and we are addicted to our cars. Public transportation is not practical except in New York City. We are rule followers. Read the signs. Obey traffic rules. Wait your turn. Do not cut in line! If you break rules, it is so offensive that you will be attacked verbally by any average citizen, and this can escalate to physical violence very quickly. We are obsessed with personal space and privacy. Please don't stand too close when speaking. Do not make physical contact unless you are invited (it's considered very intimate). If you approach a stranger in a public place, you will be greeted with suspicion. We guard our children with ferocity so do not approach them unless we know you. Also, please be aware of your eyes. Staring or making excessive eye contact is considered invasive. It is uncommon in the US to smoke now. Smoking indoors is against the law. If you smoke outdoors, others in the vicinity will be deeply offended by the smell. Tip your wait staff. Employers give them low or no wage because it is expected that customers give tips. We love our pets. If we are walking a dog, you may approach and pet the dog, speak to the dog, easier than approaching the person. This is a great way to make friends. The only other option to make friends is with your coworkers. We have the best food! She must be talking about fast food. Avoid fast food or you will get fat as she said. Also, be wary of our huge food portions. Americans love our versions of Mexican, Italian, Indian, Mediterranean, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese restaurants. They are not authentic but they are quite good. Americans in many regions are very suspicious of foreign languages and cultures. Learning perfect English is crucial. If you have a foreign accent, you will be fine in areas where there are many others with the same accent. Big cities are more accepting of foreigners. But outside of those areas you will always be treated as an outsider. The same can be said with styles of dress. Americans are comfortable with conformity. Many Americans are open-minded but if you are foreign to them then you will have to overcome that first. The USA is huge and diverse, so what may be a useful generalization of people in one region may be the opposite of those in another.
@@AkotTV1 He obviously lives in a city. I live in a very unpopulated area and in rural America. It's a different world here everyone waves at everybody and people talk to everyone. I haven't been to cities but I've heard they're brutal. But we still work!
that's why Africans from stable peaceful countries like me (Zambian) invest back home cause while we have peace and stability we can't eat it. A house I'm building in Zambia could cost me AU$2,500,000 to buy in Australia while in Zambia it'll cost me AU$120,000 to build
@@AkotTV1 roofing all done now waiting for electricity to be connected and water to be drilled (borehole) you can google "chilanga Zambia farms" to see the area I'm building in it's peaceful
Akot you are so hilarious but all you’ve said is absolutely true. The only thing keeping me from going insane in this country is that I have given myself a timeline. I’m investing back home in Kenya 🇰🇪 so that I can go back. There’s no American dream no matter who you are. We’re all on a wheel like mice running ahead of our debts while we’re sleep deprived, lonely and depressed.
Well if you are here and would rather be some place else, I suggest by all means go. There are so many other places nicer than US I wouldnt want to see you disappointed in gaining your dream.
it has been my 3rd day in USA, i came through DV lottery but these three days have passed like 3 decades, may be it is because i am not familiar with the environment. the greatest sadness i have is the job and a life i had back in my country, it was not luxurious but i had family, friend, relatives a car and a job that i might never be able to find in America. i have listened to your video and it made me heart broken and scared.
Oh my God, listen, your story is going to be beautiful my love. I promise you okay so no worries, settle in, find a job and you will be fine. Forget about home now and embrace your new life. You will be fine and if you ever need to talk, I'll be hear. So now, rest easy and enjoy America 🇺🇸 🥰
I can feel your emotions. I came to USA on 12th of june on spousal visa category IR1. Most of the time i think that how will i spend my whole life this way. I have started experiencing loneliness. 😔
Offcourse drinking and driving is against the law a lot of people die , and yes you have to work to live here , I understand your telling your experience, but go back to your country America is the best country. What are you talking about getting arrested for anything your ridiculous.
Anyone who goes to America will face difficulty at first, however as time lapses you get skills and you face the bills and life becomes good. If you go to New York city don't rent house in Manhattan it will be so expensive for immigrants just rent in Brooklyn or queens it's affordable. As time lapses and you got experience then you shift. Kindly advice them as with time not just you come today and tomorrow you become rich it takes time and you learn
@@AkotTV1 I’m glad someone’s telling the truth about this place but it’s not America it’s US. Do you want me to show u the difference between America and the US citizens?
You are being soooooo negative. Most places in the world you go you have to work. You have to choose how u want to live. If working multiple jobs is too much for you and it is easier for you back home then consider returning to a simpler life and what makes you happy. Explain to your family why you are returning home and make a plan on how maybe u can start a small business in your home country with the money u make in the USA. Pray and ask God to direct you. There is a way out.
Every video I make, I make a positive one and a negative one, my followers are well aware of that, that's why you don't see anyone complaining about this video. Don't take it too personal
I am a Black American, and it’s very interesting to hear how people from other countries perceive America. I have a good life here, but in order to have a good quality of life, you have to know how to hustle and you have to know how to choose where to live. And if you want a relatively peaceful life, you have to be able to AFFORD it. That is hard to do in this country. If you have a decent career that is in high demand here, you could make it. But I feel like everyday I am ducking a dodging from the next school shooting or crazy political situation here. I applaud people who uproot their entire lives to move to a new country…especially to somewhere like America. It’s difficult, but not impossible. I’ve lived in Bermuda as a little girl, so I had some experience outside of the States. I miss Bermuda sooo much! But while the Island life IS paradise, it has its disadvantages as well. At the end of the day, no place is perfect, but you just have to figure out which country is the right fit for YOU.❤
Most of these people come from socialized countries this is why they can't cut it here. Thee government can't and won't save you. You have to do it on your own this is why I'm so proud to be a Foundation Black American.
@@jay1970 I don't know what people you are referring to, but as for ME, I believe it to mean working hard; making sure you have a decent job to make a decent living. Don't make this out to be something it is not.
I’m born and raised in America and I’ve thought about leaving the country these last couple of years. I don’t know maybe I’m wrong but I’ve worked as a machinist for 20 years and quality of life keeps going down because of inflation and enormous healthcare costs.
I thought KEZIA was playing when she said girrrrl rather go to Canada then my Country.. She's been here in SA for 4 years now. Really the movies and shit been making me wanna go there. But now that I'm hearing this maaaaan i don't know what to decide really.
@@mcdollard7469 I’m blk American this is my country and I can’t relate to what she’s speaking of because my whole family is American . Yes we work but not a lot . We have fun on the weekends and sometime thru the week. We take vacations with our family & friends we enjoy life.
All the issues you said there are solutions for them. That’s what life is all about you face hurdles and then you overcome them. Stay positive God has your back you just have to make the first positive move.
Hear is the Truth…. Regardless of your physical citizenship. The best citizenship to have is a Kingdom of God(Jesus) citizenship. 💡 ““And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you-you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” Matthew 6:28-34 NIV
Very true what you have said, but I have also seen people who have overcome all that you have said. They work one job, they come to their native country like almost every year. They have built strong networks of their fellow countrymen. One thing Akot for sure better to be in a place where they are opportunities to work than be in a place where to get a job is not easy. I imagine one hustling all these years until you are in your 40's just because the system doesn't favour you, applying for jobs and another one is taken because you do not know anybody. That is why many people go there and work, because when you remember where you have come from, and others are wishing for that opportunity then you will be grateful. so long as you are investing that money..you can decide to work for five years and then return back to your country and invest more. Thank you again for highlighting those points.
I totally agree with you. Better to be in a country where there are resources and jobs in plenty, you work your time, make huge investments then retire in peace. In some of our countries, you retire while still looking for a job. Very sad affair
100% true...In America you need a mental shift and physical adaptability- or resilience (easily said than done). For most Americans this is the life they know, so it's easier for them, but for the rest of us we must keep learning the new way of life, while making ends meet, and managing our emotional needs. To get to America, you've already made tremendous sacrifices, which makes going back home not an option. Always remember why you came here and focus on that. It's a great country for all those who can adapt. I'd rather work, and work to provide for my family than live idle and broke. I'd advise all of you to make saving/investing necessary so you can catch a break in your old age. Cheers!
Yes, America is all we know. I think of the possibility of moving to other countries all of the time, but I just don't think I could handle it, due to all of the privileges I get here in America. I'm spoiled, and don't know if I could truly live anywhere else, because of all that I have here. But who knows? 🤷🏽♀ Perhaps I could find a country that would give me a decent life that I would enjoy. The jury's still out on that one. lol
I was always petrified about running off to foriegn country. Will I make friends? Will I get a job? Will I get medical support? How hard will I have to work? I hate slaving away just for another man's legacy. I love my free time where I can rest and do stuff I love that make my life worth living. Earninhg all the money in the world and not being able to enjoy your life until you are old make absolutely no sense to me. And with so many unemployed people in america; the workload could be shared. I just feel that America is a cold place. And it lacks love. I see children taking there parents legacy and sending them to home for old people. And the system allows that.
Aaawww wow Wydia, nice to meet you and your comment means a lot to me. I read FBA and I was like oooops am I under arrest or what😅. Thank you for watching dear
Hi there! For this reason I choose Brazil to the States , here is more freedom and you have left some time to have fun ! Good video! Good luck and everything for the best !🙏🙏🙏
Now alot of y’all are seeing that the so-called “American Dream” for immature is a nightmare. It should be humbling and make you appreciate Black Americans more. All the best to those moving forward.
My entire family has been waiting to migrate to the US under family preference visa category for 16 years. Many plans were changed, dreams given up, money wasted just to get visa and still we have to wait 2-3 years. I always try to explain my parents that we’re good in our homeland and It’s not that there are gold treasures hidden in the US and all we do is just dig earth, collect it and become rich. We need to struggle 3x than we do here. Also, when you have elderly members and aging parents, they need to be ensured regular healthcare but in the US, let’s not talk about medical costs. So yeah, trying to keep firm on my own beliefs and thinking to get degree from the US, work somewhere else and live minimally. Luxury is not a parameter to bring happiness in life. Thank you for sharing this video with us. God bless you
Unknown they need to be patient immmigration laws became more strict now and if it’s only wife and kids get vidas faster but other than that it’s long but there are getting closer and yes it’s not easy here and don’t give everting easy let them work for it don’t put everything in a silver platter when they get here because they will not appreciate yu believe yu just tell them to google everything and let them figure it out we all think I’m going to America and be rich no way it can be done but first yu struggles like everyone yes it’s all true Yu gotto look at everything good and bad too
Yes minimalist it’s happiness the lees yu have to worry about I’m happy yu are working on a degree and save save money for your future what country are yu from
I am indigenous to the continent of America, born in North America it is difficult for all people of color in the U.S none of us have time to breath and live. The wages are too low in comparison to rent prices, food prices, healthcare etc. The National federal minimum wage is only $7.25 an hr some states will pay more between $10-$15 an hour BUT do not see that as a lot of money because taxes will be taking out reducing that amount and bills, bills, bills. Come to the U.S work, save money and go back home and enjoy your life. If you have a degree from a non European country you will end up cleaning toilets because your degree is not respected here. DO NOT fantasize about the U.S because poverty, homelessness, crime and racism exist everyday here. Do not assume that Americans are lazy, we are simply tired of working for slave wages and being mistreated.
Welcome to life. It’s called delayed gratification. More people should try it. I hope immigrants don’t think this is a free ride here. We didn’t become the biggest economy in the world sucking on the government teat. We’re in trouble now because of government spending on freebies. And we’re seeing illegal immigants demand things.
Life is great for some and bad for some. Opportunities, advantages, and disadvantage is very wide. These happens to people of all colors and religions. Born here and immigrants can succeed or fail. Freedom and opportunity doesn’t mean easy. Making your own decisions has a large effect.
Yah for sure, my cousin did Pharmacy, when he went he started afresh!!!.. But I think this happens in Kenya as well coz of different educational systems ama?..
Yeah that's correct, but he could have requested for credit transfers. That's why you can do a degree in Kenya and go for masters anywhere else in the world. So the different country will just orient you to their system but you don't start from zero
I came to American 14 years ago and being an immigrant is not easy. You have to adopt yourself to another mindset,be strong,resilient, sacrifices, have determination,purpose and faith. Mostly you gonna be on your own and you need to understand that you are the one who is responsible for your own life! Life is hard sometimes but it also can be beautiful!
I'm an American and she is right!! All you do is work and good luck saving anything- your going to spend everything you make on rent! Most Americans have less than $300 in their savings and less people than that have no money in case of an emergency.
Some struggles are not good. I got depression, anxiety and panic attack as a result of overworking myself while studying masters and at the same time providing at home. If people are told, too much of something is dangerous, they think it is a joke.
So in America is all about working hard to get money to pay bills then money finish you go back working again at the end of the day no any saving, full of depression, when emergency happens like being bereaved with your loved ones in your home country, you can not even go, as no money to pay for the airtickets. And when you go back to your home country no anything to show while they have high expectations that you came from America. It is just like zero sum game right?
Akot, we are in the fallen world. There are problems every where. It's just different kinds of problems. Most of what you are talking about, is about character. If you think that going to America is a way to get away with mediocrity and lack of character, you are in a wrong place. Hard work, outstanding character and dedication is the key to survive.
Thank Ronnah for this good reasoning it’s only our character that keeps us to lag behind . I believe in ur point so guys work on yourselves before trying to abroad
I'm an American and the only way you will truly get ahead is if you OWN your business.. That's only if you're business succeeds.. At this point- even the Americans are miserable and want to leave!! Maybe we should trade countries?
Whaaat!... That's awful and lots of work.. I mean running away from the police or not getting a proper job or being underpaid Coz you can't urgue out since you there illegally.... 🙆♀️🙆♀️... But question, what makes one submit themselves to that torture though?.. Just wanting to stay there yet you can't or what?..
@@Imalitv eeehehe struggles are everywhere but some struggles are better. It makes more sense to work hard, work all the time and make some real money rather than working long hours for 30 days for $500 for the whole month while here that is money you make just in 3 days
The thing that scares me the most about America is how easily accessible guns are 😢like what we see making the news, someone just deciding to go ands shoot 🔫 at kids in a school. 😮 But i also think all countries have their highs and lows. I just love my country South Africa and i dont see myself liv8ng anywhere else. Stay strong sister, build yourself a home in your home country while living there and furniture it then come back and live amongst your relatives. Its good to know you can just up and go and see your cousin.
Yeah, it's crazy he he but it also depends on where you live. However, its true, shooting can happen anytime but there's lots of opportunities. I left my country because I was hungry and couldn't make ends meet lol
@AkotTV01 you do what you have to do. I'm ok hence i don't have a problem living here. But for someone that's struggling to make it at home i wont blame them if they left. I don't blame you either.
Thank you for this education sis .. Please I would like to have a private conversation with you on something coz I know you’ll never hide the truth.. Is there any way I can reach you please ???
I don't know what people expect when they decide to come to the US. I don't know who or what they are listening to but this country ain't all that, not anymore. The US is struggling like so many other countries these days. The saying the grass is greener on the other side ...thats because they water it. People need to come together in their countries and make them better not pick up and leave.
One thing I've noticed about immigrants living in the U.S.A (both citizens and non-citizens) is this phrase, "In the U.S.A, you'll work until death or you'll work throughout your entire life & pay bills till your last breath". And here are my own questions to immigrants, in your own home country, "Was there ever a time you were told you'll stop working?"/"Were you ever told that work-life has expiration apart from 'death'?". More questions, did you think you were just going to enter America and start earning money like the president of the U.S? Did you think you'll enter America, be employed right away and start making millions of dollars through a white collar job? Did you think America was made for immigrants to come in and just start living their lives on a bed of roses? Don't you want to ever go through pains before reaping the rewards of your hard labour? Where would the joy of travelling come from if you don't have a story of how tough life was and in the end, God saw you through? Do you just like making this kind of videos for the world to see that you're now in America just for the sake of being there? Why can't you thank the Lord God Almighty for the gift of life and sustenance to be in a nation that's developed and you'll eventually be more than a conqueror at the end of the road? Finally, side note, I'm an African and I'm not living in the U.S.A but one thing is sure, wheresoever I find myself and still breathing, I will always look up to the heavens for God's love, mercy, grace, strength, patience and hope. I'll never be ungrateful to the Lord for everything He provides. There are better videos to do. And for any immigrant who'll comment and say I don't know what I'm talking about, well, all I'll tell you is; keep it up thinking, believing and affirming this mentality, we will all receive our rewards at the end of the road.
@@AkotTV1 Thanks. Just that a lot goes through my mind whenever I hear (new) immigrants speak about their experiences in North America, Western Europe, Australia & New Zealand.
By telling us all that bad news, where is the issue? The solution to the problem? And why are you still living in US? You have a very nice way of telling your story, but I hope it will not be mine 😘
Thanks for sharing the experience but I think at the end of the day its all about Atitude ....the way you think that it is ....difficult or easy is how you look at things .
Hello sister I didn't know how hard America was until a sister from Togo was complaining how hard it is here and for the first time my eyes opened. I'm FBA and we are taught young and prepared to work and true there are many jobs here I actually work 2
@Sojourner Truth, America is generally not easy but I like it for the many available opportunities. There are jobs people can take up as opposed to some of our African countries where even graduates are hawkers. At the end of the day, it goes back to our attitude and how we want to take like. Nice meeting you
The reason America is like this is because it’s the fittest and best from all over the world competing against each other here. Even the people who came as refugees are some of the best their country has to offer-Do you see what many go through just to get here? No wonder they work so hard here. It’s a competition of the brightest people from all over world, including you who posted this video. It is bound to be arduous, lonesome and tiring. You will succeed in America. Take care of yourself.
All those men impregnating in Kenya and denying should be carried and taken there🤣🤣... Why deny when you didn't do the needful!.. So irresponsible aki!.. They want to be forced or tell you to abort! 🙆♀️.. If you don't they are not involved!! Aki but why do they do these to be honest 🙄😥
By the way, America is a wonderful place, I love the country and just like any other country, it has its own challenges. I mean, I would rather work all the time than have nothing to do and broke
The American Dream is just that….a DREAM lol As an African American who has lived abroad I understand the privileges that Americans have like the abundance of opportunities to make money, get a good education and have security and the freedom of speech. However, money is the root of all evil and those roots run deep in America. The rule book for capitalism was made here. Money over people. So many are slaves to the system, just look at how this country became wealthy…from free labor lol. You cannot imagine how everyone is forced to pay for things to survive only to enrich the 1% of Americans that own everything. Even people in prison are forced to work for less than $1 p/h just to have to use that money to pay for expensive phone calls…in jail lol….to be able to contact their loved ones and lawyers….while in privately owned for profit prisons smh. Many lawmakers make laws and create these types of systems because the extremely wealthy have the power to make this happen. This is the only sane reason why gun violence is only getting worse. This is the only wealthy country where the life expectancy has gone down after covid….it’s due to more msss shootings, very scary reality. This system is hard to understand unless you live here. Don’t get me wrong I probably would not live anywhere else. What makes America great is the spirit that we all have that (almost) anything is possible. That is the fuel we wake up with everyday. That’s our dream that can become reality but to make it so it takes, hard work, sacrifice, dedication and the willingness to outwork the next person because the structure of this country IS NOT for everyone to be rich. The 1% must remain for the system to work and by default everyone will not become a part of that. What makes this country is the American people. The value of freedom of speech allows American to be some of the funniest, most expressive and creative people you will meet. In every other country I’ve lived in I can tell when someone else is American because their personality will stand out. Even the more reserved American. This is why our culture is so infectious worldwide. If you move here that is something you will become a part of. Even those who don’t speak English become Americanized. Overall I do no discourage anyone from perusing a goal, I’d just like for people to be more aware of what they’re signing up for. Especially if they plan on embarking on extremely dangerous journeys to make it here…which is a whole other story. God bless everyone 🙏
Great video. If you haven't you need to do a part 2 to talk about all the social stuff that makes life difficult too. Like trying to find a partner or other Africans not being supportive or the violence in the city and prejudice. People need to understand life in America can provide opportunities but it will not be easy. It will take physical and mental strength and time.before they can truly experience the life the dreamed of in America .
I'm not Black, but I definitely stand with you on this topic. I don't think it's worth living there. Also, you forgot to mention about the guns, LBTQ+ and much more.
Hii, I found your video very useful.. can someone describe how is the social life in the united states for the immigrants, we see in the social media that the life is like a heaven people are very friendly caring, there's party all around but whats the reality... I planning to go there can someone help
I definitely disagree, there was a lot of exaggeration… am African living in amarica… I understand there are always challenges sometimes in life but remember everyones experience here is different… I might not necessarily go through what you have gone through…
Everything she said is spot on for the vast majority/ies. However! There are always exceptions to the rule. These aren't exaggerations but realities for most...... PS: 28yrs down, it's about time for me to pack up & leave!
Everything she said is so true. I am African who used to live in the US. I am a US citizen but I relocated to Africa. And I am not planing to go back to America. She is extremely smart
Our country is beautiful but travel and see these places, other countries, New culture, it will be worth your time. Then when your here someone else talking about their experiences, you can relate and just laugh over it
I am a Black American who has lived in four other countries and visited a considerable number more. I would say on average, the United States is more organized, efficient and does in fact have more freedoms and economic opportunities than many places in the world.
Despite many perceptions, I would even say on average it is even more generally accepting of diversity than many places in the world, despite the challenges of racism, sexism, religious discrimination, etc. that remain issues in the country.
There is a lot of great things about the United States and I will never talk like it is a terrible place to live or has nothing for anyone. Like everywhere in the world, there are pros and cons.
However I do find myself preferring many other countries on a general social level and general love of life level. To make US dollars in a country outside of the US is often a dream life for those who have traveled a lot abroad.
In my experience, many foreigners who have never traveled to the United States, especially those in developing countries, tend to adopt a romanticized view of the States. I have many friends from other countries and I often notice that even their relatives in their home countries constantly ask them for money assuming they are living a massively prosperous life in the US even if they are told the opposite by that person and they assume if the person isn’t sending them money, it is because they are being greedy or stingy, not because the person is struggling to make it themselves.
Although no one ever said life would be easy in the United States, many people still adopt the notion that everyone in the United States has not just a job, but a well paying job with plenty of free time for social settings and everyone owns a big house and a nice car. That just because the country itself is prosperous that everyone living within it must also be prosperous.
Many people also forget that when the reputation of opportunity and economic prosperity was first garnered, the US population was much smaller than it is today and had more opportunities for immigrants of previous generations and more economic opportunities for upward mobility in general.
The US population is enormous now and has grown by more than 70 million people in 30 years, literally one generation. I think that also creates more competition for well paying jobs, living space, etc. for such rapid growth in a relatively short amount of time. Sadly, not all jobs are well paying and we live in a capitalist society.
On top of this, many jobs have disappeared through automation and technology, not to mention inflation the diminishes the value of the dollars that are earned. There are many factors.
But agreed, the US is not an easy place to live. To be honest, I am not sure anywhere is.
Wow wow I enjoyed reading this, I hope to meet you in person some day
Very well said
You need to open your own RUclips channel to educate the population and the whole generation of Youth who were born in 2000 and now are 24 years old...
You think AMERICA is more free 😂😂😂😂
Thank you for this thoughtful response. As a a Mixed Ethnicity Latino and Cameroonian of American upbringing, I find that, as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community that loneliness is a scourge in the USA that is near difficult to avoid. I have found greater opportunities in London and Europe for partnered living within aforementioned communities. Atlanta and San Francisco are likely places where I might be better accepted. Not sure how affordable they are for the common person.
I'm a born-and-bred American, and gradually became aware of how overworked Americans are. And, yet, it's also hard for many to get work. It seems that one either has too much work or too little. Too much stress from overwork or from not having enough work (and therefore not earning enough).
Oh wow thanks for sharing Joanne, much appreciated
Wow so it ain't what we see on TV huh? Do you have insta?
@@mcdollard7469 😂😂😂
Very true, I have lived in America for long and lonely almost killed me no fun no nothing just class
Please, watch movies, talk to people back home and eat some chocolate whenever you can. That's how I survive 😅
Can you found me ajob
Why don't you make friends?
Trust me if you are making good money plz don't go to America .....worst of all don't move your family there ....my sister's entire family moved to California 10 years ago this is her 2 daughters, husband, and one son. About 4 years ago she moved back despite having a good job as a manager in a store and her husband also earning well. The sad truth is people forget about the indoctrination in American public schools, her son almost mutilated his genitals in claims of feeling like a woman trust me (they call them Transgender) I don't really understand it either. All they had heard of was a large number of homosexuals in America and were mentally prepared for it. She says the scariest moment of her life was when they were called for a meeting by a counselor and asked to take the child to some type of clinic to be educated about putting the child on different hormones and maybe they would help him change to a girl coz he felt like one. she was this close to agreeing due to fear of her son becoming suicidal .... that's when the husband decided to bring them all back here to Kenya for a visit and a bit of advice from her family members. They stayed for some months and realized the son's suicidal tendencies reduced drastically. They also realized that the puberty blockers the school was suggesting they put on their son were the same drugs they give pedophiles in jails to reduce their desires. They did not go back after realizing these began their life again and now surprisingly the son is back to being a son, in fact, he is the manliest of all the nephews in the family ....we sometimes make fun of how him and he would be a woman if they didn't come home....he cant even imagine it ..trust me don't subject your children to the psychological torture of the west if you already earn well
@@EmmyOkoth-h8o I feel like you are talking directly to me. Thank you for this comment
This video should scare the hell out of youngsters…
Eehehehehe 🤣my intention was not to scare them but just to enlighten them on what may be possible lol @Larry Nettles🤣
It changed my perspective about America entirely. And, while my American dream has waned in recent times after I came to terms with the reality that life isn't perfect anywhere, I've never really felt the way I now feel after the video. The reality is staggering and quite disenchanting.
Hello dear. This is a informative piece. Thank you . Is there a possibility where someone visits US on B1/B2 VISA and later seeks legal means to work since he has a B1/B2 visa for 5 years and can stay legally in the country?
Thank you.
Yes absolutely 💯. You just need to get a genuine job offer and change visa to h14. This must be done within 6 month's
No where is easy just choose your struggles
That's right
I agree, to an extent. You need to know how to play the game. Invest your money, ROTH IRA’s, mutual funds. I don’t have fun, anymore because it left me broke. I’m more stable as a single mother whose husband passed away and NO LIFE INSURANCE! BUT, I invest b/c I’m trying to retire early. My mother was an immigrant and she WORKED HARD AND PLAYED HARDER. So, you need to know the system and be around people who are hustling like you OR a little bit better off than you. It ain’t perfect, and neither is any other country. Gotta love capitalism! 🫶🏽 That’s my 2 cents. 🤷🏽♀️
Wow, thanks for this comment
I always tell people America is for working. Then you take the money, and go vacay in other countries. And it's lonely m. So hard. The only thing that makes it worth it is the ability to provide for your family
I totally agree with you 🥰
I like your point: ability to provide for family.
What if you don't want a family? Genuine question
@@arianzidaneofficialYou spend the money for yourself?
Life is so short, so difficult. If you make enough money to survive and you are surrounded by familly and friends…forget about America. America and the American dream is not what you think. She is right about everything she said. Good video !
Thank you hun
Traveling abroad is overrated...
As someone in there 20s here the in US, I can concur that the American dream isn't all that. I feel very disenchanted with expectation to just chase degrees and titles for my whole life, it sounds exhausting. I'm very grateful for my position in life but the US work culture isn't very healthy for many people and I can only imagine what it'd be like as an immigrant.
Tell that to all the ones that won’t leave
I want to say THANKYOU for being so honest. I left the US and came back home, north of africa , I loved the US I really did, a democracy and very friendly country, but I found my self economically struggling, I was constantly comparing with how it was back in my country. Most people do not have the courage to come back, I did, all my friends and neighbors and relatives think that I am silly , they wont understand. Thank you Ma'm for being so honest . Viva Africa.
Wow, I am indeed very proud of you. Happy new year dear one.
U did the right thing
I spent 8 years in Europe Sweden and Italy and 7 years USA Baltimore Maryland and Minneapolis Minnesota. I left for good without dream of going back to western countries ever again. I'm better and doing well in East Africa
You are very very smart to move back home. The USA is falling and it has never offered a good life. The American dream is a nightmare at best.
@@aliyousuf8697
The West is a scam. People in the West are working hard for their whole life to afford what we in developing countries already have. For example in my country Jamaica most people live in homes that are fully paid for and the property taxes are only $100 USD per year.
In the USA you can never fully own your home because the property taxes are so high that if you pay off your mortgage you can still lose your home if you can't afford the high taxes.
I’m from East Africa, moved to America in 2016 and I’m here telling y’ll everything she said is true 100%. Depression is real and overworking like a freaking donkey 16hr everyday 6 days a week. And this country isn’t safe at all everyone has gun, some people are rude and loneliness OMG it will kill you. Getting proper documents like a green card it can take years years. Be careful grass isn’t always green on the other side.
I love you soo much @Baby Elephant 🥰
Lol "Working like a Donkey🐴"
Feel free to show yourself out.
spoken like someone who`s experienced it.I always tell people, if you have something doing in Africa, pls stay there because you might go for green grass only to find you are nt even able to pay for a flight once every 3 years to go home because with 3 jobs, even your vacations are scattered.
Been there, I now choose a very simple,cheap and livable life.
Very overrated country, working hard af to pay crazy medical bills or bail bond, some ppl are very nice while others are white supremacists. Biggest mistake I made was to go there and try to raise a family, heartless society
You killed me. 😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂. The working until you die is so on point.Thanks for being honest.
You welcome my love
What is wrong with that? People die of poverty after retirement in Kenya
@@estherotieno9709too much work kills you before your time, life isn’t all about work and die. Look smart, work harder for sometime then start creating a financial freedom, and financial freedom is in businesses and investments not in a job..
I’m American & she is right! The American dream isn’t real. We have to work hard just
To stay ahead.
I'm at work until midnight since morning 😅. I'm used to it now
Absolute facts only 0.01% make the American dream
I left my home country when I was only 20 to live the "American dream" I aways dreamed of living in the US. Today, 6 years later I'm here. Depressed. I have many things to be grateful for, this opportunity has changed me forever, but I rather consume less things, and collect more memories. The average American mindset is the rat race mindset, while there's nothing wrong with that. The way this dream is sold worldwide is like if it should be the one and only dream the entire world should strive for, when in reality this is not true. For everything we do there'll always be duality, the positive and negative. We just need to be honest with ourselves, be proud of everything we have done to accomplish our goals. But the most important: if your dream is to have a degree, get married, have kids, cars and a nice house to call yours, cool go for it! just dont push this dream or criticize others for not desiring the same dream.
If your dream is also, living in a farm, collecting berries, helping others, cool! dont compare yourself to others collecting material stuff. Your dream is just as important as anyone else.
When we die, we dont bring nothing of the material stuff with us. We only live once, and while this might sound cliche, it is the truth.
This current system we live in, sucks. Everything is shaped in a way to have you always trapped, loans, debt and all that stuff. We need to be smart, play the game, save. Have discipline, but don't fall for the trap.
This is a very detailed comment, I have to read it out in a video. Thanks for this
@@AkotTV1 long story short: it feels like I left my country to reclaim my real identity in what it’s considered a “first world country”
Now all I want to do is educate myself about my country, our political history, my people and ways I can help myself and the children that come from where I’m . If money wasn’t the norm, I wish our people were educating themselves about planting their own food and about our ancestors.
We are crumbs of capitalism and should change our mindset about it.
@@txekoratsu that's true
It's well oooo,,,!! I m still dreaming of migrating to America for the dollars🤦
@@blessinguzondu5192 may your dream become your reality. America still wins, regardless 🥰
This is 100% accurate.
We are workaholics, in huge debt, and never have free time. We are lonely and depressed. We don't keep in close contact with family and friends because we are so busy working. We work 40hrs a week plus overtime and spend 2 hours commuting in traffic each day. We often have 2nd jobs, and our spouses work as well. Our children begin working at 16-18. This is primarily to afford our cars and student loans.
Owning a car is mandatory and we are addicted to our cars. Public transportation is not practical except in New York City.
We are rule followers. Read the signs. Obey traffic rules. Wait your turn. Do not cut in line! If you break rules, it is so offensive that you will be attacked verbally by any average citizen, and this can escalate to physical violence very quickly.
We are obsessed with personal space and privacy. Please don't stand too close when speaking. Do not make physical contact unless you are invited (it's considered very intimate). If you approach a stranger in a public place, you will be greeted with suspicion. We guard our children with ferocity so do not approach them unless we know you. Also, please be aware of your eyes. Staring or making excessive eye contact is considered invasive.
It is uncommon in the US to smoke now. Smoking indoors is against the law. If you smoke outdoors, others in the vicinity will be deeply offended by the smell.
Tip your wait staff. Employers give them low or no wage because it is expected that customers give tips.
We love our pets. If we are walking a dog, you may approach and pet the dog, speak to the dog, easier than approaching the person. This is a great way to make friends. The only other option to make friends is with your coworkers.
We have the best food! She must be talking about fast food. Avoid fast food or you will get fat as she said. Also, be wary of our huge food portions. Americans love our versions of Mexican, Italian, Indian, Mediterranean, Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese restaurants. They are not authentic but they are quite good.
Americans in many regions are very suspicious of foreign languages and cultures. Learning perfect English is crucial. If you have a foreign accent, you will be fine in areas where there are many others with the same accent. Big cities are more accepting of foreigners. But outside of those areas you will always be treated as an outsider. The same can be said with styles of dress. Americans are comfortable with conformity. Many Americans are open-minded but if you are foreign to them then you will have to overcome that first.
The USA is huge and diverse, so what may be a useful generalization of people in one region may be the opposite of those in another.
This is very insightful wow wow, thank you soo much for this detailed comment. Stay well 🙏
Very true and they don't smile or say thank-you 🤣🤣🤣
Wow!
American Dreams and Immigration story ruclips.net/video/5CNX1tJObRU/видео.html
@@AkotTV1 He obviously lives in a city. I live in a very unpopulated area and in rural America. It's a different world here everyone waves at everybody and people talk to everyone. I haven't been to cities but I've heard they're brutal. But we still work!
that's why Africans from stable peaceful countries like me (Zambian) invest back home cause while we have peace and stability we can't eat it. A house I'm building in Zambia could cost me AU$2,500,000 to buy in Australia while in Zambia it'll cost me AU$120,000 to build
That's the best way, you can't eat peace so make the money, invest back home and when ready, go home and enjoy your wealth
Did you finish building your house 🏠? I am excited for you
@@AkotTV1 roofing all done now waiting for electricity to be connected and water to be drilled (borehole) you can google "chilanga Zambia farms" to see the area I'm building in it's peaceful
Impressive bro
Akot you are so hilarious but all you’ve said is absolutely true. The only thing keeping me from going insane in this country is that I have given myself a timeline. I’m investing back home in Kenya 🇰🇪 so that I can go back. There’s no American dream no matter who you are. We’re all on a wheel like mice running ahead of our debts while we’re sleep deprived, lonely and depressed.
Share the timeline with me, when it's time, we fly back to Kenya together 😅. I'm very serious
I’m hoping for 2027……is that too far for you?
@@mambojambo7486 I'm looking at another 10 years when my son graduates 🎓
@@TheBuzzis that's true
Well if you are here and would rather be some place else, I suggest by all means go. There are so many other places nicer than US I wouldnt want to see you disappointed in gaining your dream.
Yeah, you right
it has been my 3rd day in USA, i came through DV lottery but these three days have passed like 3 decades, may be it is because i am not familiar with the environment. the greatest sadness i have is the job and a life i had back in my country, it was not luxurious but i had family, friend, relatives a car and a job that i might never be able to find in America. i have listened to your video and it made me heart broken and scared.
Oh my God, listen, your story is going to be beautiful my love. I promise you okay so no worries, settle in, find a job and you will be fine. Forget about home now and embrace your new life. You will be fine and if you ever need to talk, I'll be hear. So now, rest easy and enjoy America 🇺🇸 🥰
I can feel your emotions. I came to USA on 12th of june on spousal visa category IR1. Most of the time i think that how will i spend my whole life this way. I have started experiencing loneliness. 😔
@@shilpisaini7467 hello
@@marykirundi3983 hi
Hello Sharif I am about to follow my girl friend to America because she won DV lottery. Do you think it's a good idea?
Offcourse drinking and driving is against the law a lot of people die , and yes you have to work to live here , I understand your telling your experience, but go back to your country America is the best country. What are you talking about getting arrested for anything your ridiculous.
Your statement is highly appreciated. Take it easy though, its not that serious.
Anyone who goes to America will face difficulty at first, however as time lapses you get skills and you face the bills and life becomes good. If you go to New York city don't rent house in Manhattan it will be so expensive for immigrants just rent in Brooklyn or queens it's affordable. As time lapses and you got experience then you shift. Kindly advice them as with time not just you come today and tomorrow you become rich it takes time and you learn
I totally agree with you 💯
@@AkotTV1 thank you
Africa would be a better place if they followed more rules and regulations like police officers not extorting the citizens 24/ 7 365
Exactly 💯
Im from kenya living in new york city. So many people yet majority of them have no friends. The loneliness and depression is crazy
I'm happy to be your friend 😅loneliness shall not catch us
@@AkotTV1
I’m glad someone’s telling the truth about this place but it’s not America it’s US. Do you want me to show u the difference between America and the US citizens?
Yeah NYC people have friends but no time to hang out too stressed and broke and depressed
I truly believe it’s all across the country. You are not alone. Thanks for sharing.
You are being soooooo negative. Most places in the world you go you have to work. You have to choose how u want to live. If working multiple jobs is too much for you and it is easier for you back home then consider returning to a simpler life and what makes you happy. Explain to your family why you are returning home and make a plan on how maybe u can start a small business in your home country with the money u make in the USA. Pray and ask God to direct you. There is a way out.
Every video I make, I make a positive one and a negative one, my followers are well aware of that, that's why you don't see anyone complaining about this video. Don't take it too personal
I am a Black American, and it’s very interesting to hear how people from other countries perceive America. I have a good life here, but in order to have a good quality of life, you have to know how to hustle and you have to know how to choose where to live. And if you want a relatively peaceful life, you have to be able to AFFORD it. That is hard to do in this country. If you have a decent career that is in high demand here, you could make it. But I feel like everyday I am ducking a dodging from the next school shooting or crazy political situation here. I applaud people who uproot their entire lives to move to a new country…especially to somewhere like America. It’s difficult, but not impossible. I’ve lived in Bermuda as a little girl, so I had some experience outside of the States. I miss Bermuda sooo much! But while the Island life IS paradise, it has its disadvantages as well. At the end of the day, no place is perfect, but you just have to figure out which country is the right fit for YOU.❤
What you people really mean by hustle?
Most of these people come from socialized countries this is why they can't cut it here. Thee government can't and won't save you. You have to do it on your own this is why I'm so proud to be a Foundation Black American.
@@jay1970 I don't know what people you are referring to, but as for ME, I believe it to mean working hard; making sure you have a decent job to make a decent living. Don't make this out to be something it is not.
Very well said, you have to figure out which country is the best fit for you. I totally agree with you
@@jay1970 working tirelessly
I’m born and raised in America and I’ve thought about leaving the country these last couple of years. I don’t know maybe I’m wrong but I’ve worked as a machinist for 20 years and quality of life keeps going down because of inflation and enormous healthcare costs.
Listen to your inner voice hun
I thought KEZIA was playing when she said girrrrl rather go to Canada then my Country.. She's been here in SA for 4 years now. Really the movies and shit been making me wanna go there. But now that I'm hearing this maaaaan i don't know what to decide really.
@@mcdollard7469 I’m blk American this is my country and I can’t relate to what she’s speaking of because my whole family is American . Yes we work but not a lot . We have fun on the weekends and sometime thru the week. We take vacations with our family & friends we enjoy life.
@@chocolatequeen2019 It's because it's for foreigners living in the US. It's not the same as it might be for you.
@@MusicalMetamorphosis- I agree but you must adapt to the environment that you chose to move too. Meet people so they can help you navigate.
All the issues you said there are solutions for them. That’s what life is all about you face hurdles and then you overcome them. Stay positive God has your back you just have to make the first positive move.
Yeah thank you
You should have an African group where all the lonely africans in America can talk to eachother..
Hear is the Truth….
Regardless of your physical citizenship.
The best citizenship to have is a Kingdom of God(Jesus) citizenship. 💡
““And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you-you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Matthew 6:28-34 NIV
Very true what you have said, but I have also seen people who have overcome all that you have said. They work one job, they come to their native country like almost every year. They have built strong networks of their fellow countrymen. One thing Akot for sure better to be in a place where they are opportunities to work than be in a place where to get a job is not easy. I imagine one hustling all these years until you are in your 40's just because the system doesn't favour you, applying for jobs and another one is taken because you do not know anybody. That is why many people go there and work, because when you remember where you have come from, and others are wishing for that opportunity then you will be grateful. so long as you are investing that money..you can decide to work for five years and then return back to your country and invest more. Thank you again for highlighting those points.
I totally agree with you. Better to be in a country where there are resources and jobs in plenty, you work your time, make huge investments then retire in peace. In some of our countries, you retire while still looking for a job. Very sad affair
I too guess it'a a matter of managing finances and avoiding luxurious expenses.
I like your points
QUITE ENCOURAGED
100% true...In America you need a mental shift and physical adaptability- or resilience (easily said than done). For most Americans this is the life they know, so it's easier for them, but for the rest of us we must keep learning the new way of life, while making ends meet, and managing our emotional needs. To get to America, you've already made tremendous sacrifices, which makes going back home not an option. Always remember why you came here and focus on that. It's a great country for all those who can adapt. I'd rather work, and work to provide for my family than live idle and broke. I'd advise all of you to make saving/investing necessary so you can catch a break in your old age. Cheers!
Wow thanks for this comment
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This comment is optimistic more than enough
Yes, America is all we know. I think of the possibility of moving to other countries all of the time, but I just don't think I could handle it, due to all of the privileges I get here in America. I'm spoiled, and don't know if I could truly live anywhere else, because of all that I have here. But who knows? 🤷🏽♀ Perhaps I could find a country that would give me a decent life that I would enjoy. The jury's still out on that one. lol
America- the land of milk and honey..lol💗💗
Yeah that's right eeehehe😅
@@AkotTV1 Yes, that's the right expression you missed.
Great content, though!
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I was always petrified about running off to foriegn country. Will I make friends? Will I get a job? Will I get medical support? How hard will I have to work? I hate slaving away just for another man's legacy. I love my free time where I can rest and do stuff I love that make my life worth living. Earninhg all the money in the world and not being able to enjoy your life until you are old make absolutely no sense to me. And with so many unemployed people in america; the workload could be shared. I just feel that America is a cold place. And it lacks love. I see children taking there parents legacy and sending them to home for old people. And the system allows that.
Sad indeed and especially if your children can't take care of you
This is a very interesting perspective. Most Americans can't imagine living in the "poverty" and corruption of the African nations.
America is great ...Its the constant support of the community that lacks.
I want to thank u so much for telling the truth about this country. I am FBA and I appreciate your honesty.
Aaawww wow Wydia, nice to meet you and your comment means a lot to me. I read FBA and I was like oooops am I under arrest or what😅. Thank you for watching dear
"FBA" or "FBI"?
@@PaleMist you know what each one mean, so stop playing. You trying to be either one.
@@wydiamakeba This is the first time which we have chatted; how do you know what I do and do not know? FYI, that was a sincere question.
@@PaleMist if u truly didn't know I apologize but FBA stands for Fondational Black American and I'm quite sure u know what FBI stands for.
Hi there! For this reason I choose Brazil to the States , here is more freedom and you have left some time to have fun !
Good video! Good luck and everything for the best !🙏🙏🙏
Now I wanna tour Brazil, I want to come and experience
@@AkotTV1,please do it ,deserves more than you think ! Let me know if we can help !🙏🙏🙏
Now alot of y’all are seeing that the so-called “American Dream” for immature is a nightmare. It should be humbling and make you appreciate Black Americans more. All the best to those moving forward.
Point well taken
if u think depression , loneliness is a problem then you have not seen problems
You are absolutely 💯 right
Depression and loneliness is of different levels and human have different thresholds.
You're right..
Thanks for sharing this. Make me feel im not alone with my thoughts..
I'm glad you got value out of watching this video
U re never alone im fked up here too
3.33 in Kenya, traffic rules are more like traffic suggestions. Red means you can go if there's no other cars.
Eeeeehehe🤣you have made my day lol
😂😂😂😂
My entire family has been waiting to migrate to the US under family preference visa category for 16 years. Many plans were changed, dreams given up, money wasted just to get visa and still we have to wait 2-3 years. I always try to explain my parents that we’re good in our homeland and It’s not that there are gold treasures hidden in the US and all we do is just dig earth, collect it and become rich. We need to struggle 3x than we do here. Also, when you have elderly members and aging parents, they need to be ensured regular healthcare but in the US, let’s not talk about medical costs. So yeah, trying to keep firm on my own beliefs and thinking to get degree from the US, work somewhere else and live minimally. Luxury is not a parameter to bring happiness in life.
Thank you for sharing this video with us. God bless you
Your comment has really touched my heart ❤️
Unknown they need to be patient immmigration laws became more strict now and if it’s only wife and kids get vidas faster but other than that it’s long but there are getting closer and yes it’s not easy here and don’t give everting easy let them work for it don’t put everything in a silver platter when they get here because they will not appreciate yu believe yu just tell them to google everything and let them figure it out we all think I’m going to America and be rich no way it can be done but first yu struggles like everyone yes it’s all true Yu gotto look at everything good and bad too
Yes minimalist it’s happiness the lees yu have to worry about I’m happy yu are working on a degree and save save money for your future what country are yu from
You can actually find happiness from wherever you are in the world. I admire your line of thought. Best wishes dear one
stay.. we'll take better people
Honestly I'm glad I'm a South African we don't have best life but at least we have a better life
Amen to that 🙏
Please don’t leave South Africa for any country in this world, no country is better than South Africa
Better than who? Most of these other african countries dont have shacks, people have land😊
I am indigenous to the continent of America, born in North America it is difficult for all people of color in the U.S none of us have time to breath and live.
The wages are too low in comparison to rent prices, food prices, healthcare etc.
The National federal minimum wage is only $7.25 an hr some states will pay more between $10-$15 an hour BUT do not see that as a lot of money because taxes will be taking out reducing that amount and bills, bills, bills.
Come to the U.S work, save money and go back home and enjoy your life.
If you have a degree from a non European country you will end up cleaning toilets because your degree is not respected here.
DO NOT fantasize about the U.S because poverty, homelessness, crime and racism exist everyday here.
Do not assume that Americans are lazy, we are simply tired of working for slave wages and being mistreated.
Thank you for this detailed comment. Much appreciated 🙏
Welcome to life. It’s called delayed gratification. More people should try it. I hope immigrants don’t think this is a free ride here. We didn’t become the biggest economy in the world sucking on the government teat. We’re in trouble now because of government spending on freebies. And we’re seeing illegal immigants demand things.
Life is great for some and bad for some. Opportunities, advantages, and disadvantage is very wide. These happens to people of all colors and religions. Born here and immigrants can succeed or fail. Freedom and opportunity doesn’t mean easy. Making your own decisions has a large effect.
I totally second you on this
I like this.
Yes, true Americans like the truth just like the Lord
Hallelujah
She feels bad because you can't drink and drive??. if you complain about everything life's going to be tougher.
Yeah that's right 😅. Thanks for watching
Yah for sure, my cousin did Pharmacy, when he went he started afresh!!!.. But I think this happens in Kenya as well coz of different educational systems ama?..
Yeah that's correct, but he could have requested for credit transfers. That's why you can do a degree in Kenya and go for masters anywhere else in the world. So the different country will just orient you to their system but you don't start from zero
I came to American 14 years ago and being an immigrant is not easy. You have to adopt yourself to another mindset,be strong,resilient, sacrifices, have determination,purpose and faith. Mostly you gonna be on your own and you need to understand that you are the one who is responsible for your own life!
Life is hard sometimes but it also can be beautiful!
I totally agree with you, life is hard sometimes but it also can be beautiful
What else did you expect, working is the only reason we're leaving Africa
I expected to sleep and money drops into my account 😅
I'm an American and she is right!!
All you do is work and good luck saving anything- your going to spend everything you make on rent! Most Americans have less than $300 in their savings and less people than that have no money in case of an emergency.
We can only hope for the best. Thanks for watching Kelli🥰
That’s a choice, financial literacy is key.
People have savings? In Nairobi its survival mode.You get an emergency we open a whats app group and solicit funds. Dont even talk about rent.
I just like America really from South Africa
less than 300$ for saving ? thats scary leaving in a country so expensive
Struggling is everywhere 😪 in this world nothing lives forever even our problems
Even our problems 😅
Some struggles are not good. I got depression, anxiety and panic attack as a result of overworking myself while studying masters and at the same time providing at home. If people are told, too much of something is dangerous, they think it is a joke.
So in America is all about working hard to get money to pay bills then money finish you go back working again at the end of the day no any saving, full of depression, when emergency happens like being bereaved with your loved ones in your home country, you can not even go, as no money to pay for the airtickets. And when you go back to your home country no anything to show while they have high expectations that you came from America. It is just like zero sum game right?
Eeeehehehe 🤣you got that right ✅️
Uv opened my eyes and uv made me understand
Akot, we are in the fallen world. There are problems every where. It's just different kinds of problems. Most of what you are talking about, is about character. If you think that going to America is a way to get away with mediocrity and lack of character, you are in a wrong place.
Hard work, outstanding character and dedication is the key to survive.
That's absolutely 💯 true
Thank Ronnah for this good reasoning it’s only our character that keeps us to lag behind . I believe in ur point so guys work on yourselves before trying to abroad
Kenya now is the best,am earning 1200dollars in kenya monthly,freedom,freedom,freedom.
And how many other Kenyan citizens are earning that? You are the few or even 1/10000 who are probably connected to the government
@@Handmaid_of_the_Lord ...I am businessman not interested with government and anything connected with politics.
@@KIRWA_BETT ok 👍 👌 great and very good for you.
Its absolutely crazy you can go to jail over 1 tablet??? That just ties up the police with absolute nonsense arrests..
😅right
From this video I've learned America needs alot of discipline and integrity. But still it has Many opportunities
Opportunities in this country are endless to be honest
I'm an American and the only way you will truly get ahead is if you OWN your business..
That's only if you're business succeeds..
At this point- even the Americans are miserable and want to leave!!
Maybe we should trade countries?
@@kellikelly2731 Lol:)
@@kellikelly2731 In which sector is your business in?
Welcome to America we’re we like to live by the rules it you don’t like it get out.
Why are you coming to my channel with soo much anger he he 😅. Take it easy, try some good quality ice cream
Excellent video!! Your truth will save another of broken hearts who do not have the correct information!!
Thank you hun
You have a problem with rules and regulations regarding drunk driving? Perhaps you are not equipped to live here.
You are right
You are hilarious you just gained a subscriber 😂😂😂😂lots of love from 🇰🇪
Asante sana Cecilia 🙏
Whaaat!... That's awful and lots of work.. I mean running away from the police or not getting a proper job or being underpaid Coz you can't urgue out since you there illegally.... 🙆♀️🙆♀️... But question, what makes one submit themselves to that torture though?.. Just wanting to stay there yet you can't or what?..
The struggles back home imagine
@@AkotTV1 but then the struggles are there as well as uv explained, ama it's people preferring to struggle from afar?..
@@Imalitv eeehehe struggles are everywhere but some struggles are better. It makes more sense to work hard, work all the time and make some real money rather than working long hours for 30 days for $500 for the whole month while here that is money you make just in 3 days
The thing that scares me the most about America is how easily accessible guns are 😢like what we see making the news, someone just deciding to go ands shoot 🔫 at kids in a school. 😮 But i also think all countries have their highs and lows. I just love my country South Africa and i dont see myself liv8ng anywhere else. Stay strong sister, build yourself a home in your home country while living there and furniture it then come back and live amongst your relatives. Its good to know you can just up and go and see your cousin.
Yeah, it's crazy he he but it also depends on where you live. However, its true, shooting can happen anytime but there's lots of opportunities. I left my country because I was hungry and couldn't make ends meet lol
@AkotTV01 you do what you have to do. I'm ok hence i don't have a problem living here. But for someone that's struggling to make it at home i wont blame them if they left. I don't blame you either.
@@idahlesegomalele6222 I hope to visit South Africa someday
@@AkotTV1 it's beautiful 😍 please do
What are you still doing there?
I'm eating French fries over here
This sounds like what a Kenyan would ask out of ignorance. I’m a Kenyan and I can identity this foolish statement.
I was born here and a lot of this resonates (over-worked and lonely) .☺️
Yeah, what to do 😅
Get a career not a job, invest in retirement instead of wasting money on silly things. Thats how you don't work until you die!!!
Well said
Thank you for sharing with us with your thoughts 😊👍🏻
You are always welcome
Thank you for this education sis .. Please I would like to have a private conversation with you on something coz I know you’ll never hide the truth.. Is there any way I can reach you please ???
Yeah sure, find me on Instagram as @iamakot or email akottv3@gmail.com then I can share my whatsapp number.
On the part of loneliness, people who have stayed there encourage those who are married to go there with their families.
That's the best way to go about it.
I don't know what people expect when they decide to come to the US. I don't know who or what they are listening to but this country ain't all that, not anymore. The US is struggling like so many other countries these days. The saying the grass is greener on the other side ...thats because they water it. People need to come together in their countries and make them better not pick up and leave.
Well said
Agreed
One thing I've noticed about immigrants living in the U.S.A (both citizens and non-citizens) is this phrase, "In the U.S.A, you'll work until death or you'll work throughout your entire life & pay bills till your last breath". And here are my own questions to immigrants, in your own home country, "Was there ever a time you were told you'll stop working?"/"Were you ever told that work-life has expiration apart from 'death'?". More questions, did you think you were just going to enter America and start earning money like the president of the U.S? Did you think you'll enter America, be employed right away and start making millions of dollars through a white collar job? Did you think America was made for immigrants to come in and just start living their lives on a bed of roses? Don't you want to ever go through pains before reaping the rewards of your hard labour? Where would the joy of travelling come from if you don't have a story of how tough life was and in the end, God saw you through? Do you just like making this kind of videos for the world to see that you're now in America just for the sake of being there? Why can't you thank the Lord God Almighty for the gift of life and sustenance to be in a nation that's developed and you'll eventually be more than a conqueror at the end of the road? Finally, side note, I'm an African and I'm not living in the U.S.A but one thing is sure, wheresoever I find myself and still breathing, I will always look up to the heavens for God's love, mercy, grace, strength, patience and hope. I'll never be ungrateful to the Lord for everything He provides. There are better videos to do. And for any immigrant who'll comment and say I don't know what I'm talking about, well, all I'll tell you is; keep it up thinking, believing and affirming this mentality, we will all receive our rewards at the end of the road.
Oh wow, I've read this comment twice, I like your line of thought
@@AkotTV1 Thanks. Just that a lot goes through my mind whenever I hear (new) immigrants speak about their experiences in North America, Western Europe, Australia & New Zealand.
Now I understand why most of them quit their jobs to become a content creator on RUclips.
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I noticed that also. They're so many looking for payments from you tube bkoz hustles break them faster
Yeah, overworked, exhausted, isolated, shallow relationships, this trauma is called the rat race. The rat race is a killer.
We just try our best to stay alive
By telling us all that bad news, where is the issue? The solution to the problem? And why are you still living in US? You have a very nice way of telling your story, but I hope it will not be mine 😘
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Why can't she leave???
My question too
Even me tooooooo
Whaaaaaat!!!.. With my kind heart then all be going to jail every now and then!!.. Cheeeiii 🙆♀️🙆♀️... Kwani you can't be social there?!?!
Eeehehehe 🤣maisha ndio hiyo
Thanks for sharing the experience but I think at the end of the day its all about Atitude ....the way you think that it is ....difficult or easy is how you look at things .
Thats true
Looks like America is similiar to Johannesburg in terms of hustling
Oh really he he wow 😅
Hello sister I didn't know how hard America was until a sister from Togo was complaining how hard it is here and for the first time my eyes opened. I'm FBA and we are taught young and prepared to work and true there are many jobs here I actually work 2
@Sojourner Truth, America is generally not easy but I like it for the many available opportunities. There are jobs people can take up as opposed to some of our African countries where even graduates are hawkers. At the end of the day, it goes back to our attitude and how we want to take like. Nice meeting you
Please what is FBA?
@@AkotTV1 Greetings my sister
@sojournertruth2825 greetings my love, how are you doing?
@@AkotTV1 i am fine and hope the same 4 u dear
I think the expression you were trying to remember at 10:00 is "land of milk and honey."
Eeeeehehe 🤣 you right my darling
The reason America is like this is because it’s the fittest and best from all over the world competing against each other here. Even the people who came as refugees are some of the best their country has to offer-Do you see what many go through just to get here? No wonder they work so hard here. It’s a competition of the brightest people from all over world, including you who posted this video. It is bound to be arduous, lonesome and tiring. You will succeed in America. Take care of yourself.
All those men impregnating in Kenya and denying should be carried and taken there🤣🤣... Why deny when you didn't do the needful!.. So irresponsible aki!.. They want to be forced or tell you to abort! 🙆♀️.. If you don't they are not involved!! Aki but why do they do these to be honest 🙄😥
Because there are no strict laws
People move places to hopefully live better lives regardless of the reasons why. It's sad when those places turn out the opposite of what's expected 😢
By the way, America is a wonderful place, I love the country and just like any other country, it has its own challenges. I mean, I would rather work all the time than have nothing to do and broke
The American Dream is just that….a DREAM lol As an African American who has lived abroad I understand the privileges that Americans have like the abundance of opportunities to make money, get a good education and have security and the freedom of speech.
However, money is the root of all evil and those roots run deep in America. The rule book for capitalism was made here. Money over people. So many are slaves to the system, just look at how this country became wealthy…from free labor lol. You cannot imagine how everyone is forced to pay for things to survive only to enrich the 1% of Americans that own everything. Even people in prison are forced to work for less than $1 p/h just to have to use that money to pay for expensive phone calls…in jail lol….to be able to contact their loved ones and lawyers….while in privately owned for profit prisons smh. Many lawmakers make laws and create these types of systems because the extremely wealthy have the power to make this happen. This is the only sane reason why gun violence is only getting worse. This is the only wealthy country where the life expectancy has gone down after covid….it’s due to more msss shootings, very scary reality.
This system is hard to understand unless you live here. Don’t get me wrong I probably would not live anywhere else. What makes America great is the spirit that we all have that (almost) anything is possible. That is the fuel we wake up with everyday. That’s our dream that can become reality but to make it so it takes, hard work, sacrifice, dedication and the willingness to outwork the next person because the structure of this country IS NOT for everyone to be rich. The 1% must remain for the system to work and by default everyone will not become a part of that. What makes this country is the American people. The value of freedom of speech allows American to be some of the funniest, most expressive and creative people you will meet. In every other country I’ve lived in I can tell when someone else is American because their personality will stand out. Even the more reserved American. This is why our culture is so infectious worldwide. If you move here that is something you will become a part of. Even those who don’t speak English become Americanized.
Overall I do no discourage anyone from perusing a goal, I’d just like for people to be more aware of what they’re signing up for. Especially if they plan on embarking on extremely dangerous journeys to make it here…which is a whole other story. God bless everyone 🙏
Oh my goodness, this is very detailed wow wow. Thank you for this comment. You are awesome 🥰
Great video. If you haven't you need to do a part 2 to talk about all the social stuff that makes life difficult too. Like trying to find a partner or other Africans not being supportive or the violence in the city and prejudice. People need to understand life in America can provide opportunities but it will not be easy. It will take physical and mental strength and time.before they can truly experience the life the dreamed of in America .
Thank you for this, I will definitely do a part two 🥰
Good stuff. I grew up as an American in Africa. Came here back to the States and it's exhausting lol
I can imagine he he
Wow Here in Africa we communicate all the time. Even if i don't know someone there will be a point that leads to a convo😂😂
I'm not Black, but I definitely stand with you on this topic. I don't think it's worth living there. Also, you forgot to mention about the guns, LBTQ+ and much more.
Thanks for watching hun
To sum it all up: don't move here!
Yes, CORRECT
@@AkotTV1 but you are there, what makes you not go back home?
Well if its so bad then way you still here ?
Watch the opposite of this video here on this channel then you'll know why I will never leave
How can one get a green card without marriage,job offer ,immediate family or spouse
Through the Holy Spirit perhaps 😅I can't think of any other way
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It's called the american dream because you have to be asleep to believe it, George Carlin
Eeeeehehehe 🤣nice one lol
damn, they should pay you to scare people .
Eeehehehe 🤣🤣that was not the intention to be honest but if they pay me, it's Christmas comes early 🤣
@Godovereverything8 eeeiisshh I didn't lie and if anything, I put God over everything
I know people from ghana at my parish i ask are u going to stay?o no I'm making my money$ an going back home
Yeah true. Many people do that
I loved this my sister 💗💗 great information for us .
Thank you brother
Hii, I found your video very useful.. can someone describe how is the social life in the united states for the immigrants, we see in the social media that the life is like a heaven people are very friendly caring, there's party all around but whats the reality... I planning to go there can someone help
I will respond to this in a video
Please do soon 🙏🏼.
You look good 👍🏾
Aaawww thanks love
@@AkotTV1 Karibu mrembo 🥰
If honest was a person....i ❤
Aaaawww thank you hun 🥰
I definitely disagree, there was a lot of exaggeration… am African living in amarica… I understand there are always challenges sometimes in life but remember everyones experience here is different… I might not necessarily go through what you have gone through…
That's absolutely 💯 true, our experiences are different
Everything she said is spot on for the vast majority/ies. However! There are always exceptions to the rule. These aren't exaggerations but realities for most......
PS: 28yrs down, it's about time for me to pack up & leave!
Alot of youtubers concur with the message she's given,,, you are the exception. Maybe you are an fbi or cia mole 🤪😜
Everything she said is so true. I am African who used to live in the US. I am a US citizen but I relocated to Africa. And I am not planing to go back to America. She is extremely smart
Thank God my family is here
I will stick in my country 🇰🇪but will only do visitation
Our country is beautiful but travel and see these places, other countries, New culture, it will be worth your time. Then when your here someone else talking about their experiences, you can relate and just laugh over it
@@AkotTV1 or if you would like to immigrate to scandanavian and European countries or Australia
@@andrewgarfield346 I would love to myself 🥰
Car dependacy too.. you need a car here nothing is walkable here
Exactly 💯