Gentleman, women do not care about your pain, your suffering, your essence, your energy ... they simply wait at the finish line and pick the winner. The burden of performance is always on you. Once she no longer views you as a winner, then she begins a new game looking for a new winner. The modern woman requires constant "entertainment". Lose your edge: She loses her interest. The game is rigged.
1. Too busy (with work) 2. Secretive 3. Moody 4. Disrepectful (abusive verbally 5. Change routines 6. Allways on her phone 7. Password protection (go to another room) 8. Sex phobic Not emotionally and physicsl in sex 9. She acusing you cheating
Cheating is far from condemned in feminist society. Rather, it is glorified. A woman is allowed to blame her man for "forcing" her to cheat, rather than taking responsibility for leaving a relationship that no longer suits her.
Men usually cheat because we are like boys in a sweet shop. Women usually cheat because they have moved on. I'm not saying it's right but we usually cheat for different reasons. It's important to understand that. Especially if you want to stay with someone who has cheated. Otherwise don't be surprised if it happens again.
As a person who's never cheated, and had several long term relationships, I can tell you one thing. Someone that isn't cheating, won't give you a reason to think they are, we think about how our decisions affect you before we make them. That one thing, by itself is incredibly important, it has nothing to do with being on a leash, it has everything to do with respect for your relationship. Don't stay with a cheater, seriously, anyone that can cheat past the 6 month mark will ruin your life. I'm not condoning cheats before 6 months, it just seems to be the line where you know if that person you're with is a good match, and you know enough about each other to consider next steps.
I agree 💯 bout letting the one I'm with know things for no other reason other than respect and the possibility, lord forbid, an accident or something happens they know the last place you were and helps find location faster. I was raised that way and understood that safety came first and foremost with respect for your close people and if anyone demands to know my whereabouts at all times and questions like I'm guilty of something I definitely didn't do they get escorted to the door and given no explanation or proof I didn't do anything. Disrespect gets no respect and they know they are being disrespectful because they have nothing to show as reason to accuse or question like they are guilty. That's also the main sign she's cheating cause us regular decent folks don't think like them to come up with questions cheaters do cause they ain't cheating.
women would say who do those women cheat with if most men cheat most women cheat as well if most women cheat most men cheat as well they are just far better at hiding it and creating the atmosphere or place moment to create the oppurtunity
The truth that everyone ends up figuring out and facing is that love isn't this magical fairy tail they've been raised and told to believe in their entire life. It's a shit show of either lies, deception or unfaithfulness.
We believe such trash due to movies and religious teachers. In reality...marriage is a partnership firm which can be liquidated anytime. Anyways, if you are in a partnership firm, there is absolutely no restriction in becoming a director in another company
@@neonovaC Agreed. You gotta find another person that holds loyalty as their highest trait. In a sense, you form a mutual co-dependency. Unconditional love starts briefly as a whimsical fairytale, but it quickly turns into commitment.
Don’t forget the 1) upside down phone screen whenever her phone leaves her hands, which is rare 2) petty excuse to pick a fight/argument 3) Doesn’t post pictures of the both of you (given she has social media) 4) Lady in the video already said this but a big one is accusing you of exactly what she is guilty of it’s like some Jedi mind-trick
Yeah, but I was surprised by ``cheating with several girls or dudes´´. In my time, you had to cheat a woman with her sister, her female best friend, and the rumor-mill of the city quarter her parents live in! 🤔 Well, times change.
@@a.m.pietroschek1972 Social media makes it much easier for people to cheat. Mine used the Snapchat app, which conveniently erases the messages shortly after you read them, so it's hard to find evidence. My ex-girlfriend messed up and took a screenshot on her phone of one of her explicit Snapchat conversations with one of the men she was cheating on me with. (There were 2 more men she was talking to that I know of) It's the only way I found out for sure she was doing something. Otherwise I never would have been able to prove it.
The world is a strange place where Those lacks modesty are considered beautiful. Cheaters are considered to be clever. And the loyal are considered to be fools.
Every word you said was true about my wife, down to the last detail. You spoke as you knew her every thought. I am never returning home for absolutely nothing. I lost 11 years of my life with her. I'm now a homeless on the roads, after supporting her and her kids.
Everything you say is 100% correct except the last part, which is about fixing the relationship. Nine out of ten times she does not want to fix it, or she will pretend she wants to fix it but will still see the other man. Once trust is broken there is no going back so why would anyone want to stay with a cheater.
She emotionally starves you then steers your attentions towards another. Very subtle and when the job is complete you get the blame as she claims moral high ground. She will have you believe it’s all your fault. Remember women have been perfecting this art since before the time of Cleopatra. Stealth versus stature
The only two signs I experienced were: 1. she would constantly lose her phone from leaving it in weird places, which was a behavioural change, she always used to leave it with mine but somewhere along the line she started taking it with her and losing it in weird places that she couldn't remember, and No. 2: constantly accused me of cheating even though I never did, was also extremely jealous if another women even spoke to me. I now realise she was just reflecting her own guilt onto me, assuming I was the same - but I wasn't. Stay strong out there kings 👑
Her show of jealousy towards you was fake. By pretending to be jealous she was trying to show that she loves you so that you dont start getting suspicious of her intentions. That's all. She was not reflecting her guilt but putting up an act of being a jealous wife to keep you under control
Yes bro. First, all you fellow brothers stay strong and gather all the evidence for your divorce. Let the bitch do her cheating while you prepare your exit and slam her with a surprised divorce. No mercy on a divorce. The guy she is with will soon dump her because even he will not trust a cheater.
Four other red flags not many people talk about: 1) if she goes out shopping often but seldom buys anything, 2) she buys a lot of stuff but seems to be always returning half of it (she's cashing out and probably buying pay cards with it), 3) if she uses tampons while not on her period and 4) if she goes out the house smelling like Carolina Herrera crawled up her ass but comes home smelling like a Cleanex. All three require an attentive and inquisitive mind, but they will give you all the information you will need to either hire a PI or not. Remember, the #1 reason many females do not like to act on their adulterous urges is that they know their husbands are watching out.
I escaped a cheater just on time. She was talking to somebody else behind my back and i found out so i kicked her out my life before things get outta hand 😂 be careful who you kings give your time to or else ya'll be in a world of hurt
i'm a single male, and I work with a few women that wanted to cheat with me, but i'm not like that. These married women are devious in their cheating ways, it's almost an art form. It's sad knowing that i will probably never marry because the fear of marriage ending by infidelity.
The same thing has happened to me for 15 years in the labor market. Almost most of the married women who are between 20 to 40 are always looking for a savior who will free them from their marriage. I am 35 years old and I have never been married nor do I intend to get married. Unfortunately I have fucked several married women and I know the tricks and lies they use, to this day I don't know why or for what purpose my eyes were opened since I was 20 years old. Since then I have never believed in women.
indeed how do they let you know thay are open to any possible advances they can always say you misunderstood they can twist and turn how are they devios in their cheating ways I am just curious
1) Too Busy 2) Secretive 3) Moody 4) Disrespectful 5) Change in Routine 6) Always on her birthday phone 7) She’s not comfortable you touching her phone 8) Unknown numbers 9) Sexphobic 10) Not emotionally invested in sex 11) Accusing to cheating
Almost everything she said was spot on. I recently got hit with almost all of them, especially the overprotective attitude. Oh and let's not forget the cell phone password and all.
3:25 Banger. Yup, this is exactly the case. Gentlemen, make a priority of ensuring you set the sexual terms (aka. tell and expect of her to announce in time if she's not in the mood, before you make a move, expect openness from her, and give her the opportunity to show her, even in less private aspects) and when she decreases interest repeatedly, see her as less of a priority. Make it clear that you know something's up (don't assume cheating yet), and if she doesn't change in that aspect, even after you tell her to speak up, time to part ways. Find someone more feminine, and never forget, don't use "being in a relationship" as an excuse to stop improving yourself as a man.
Yeah bro ur spot on. My wife was consistently mad or irritated with me out of the blue for really no reason and would often try to provoke arguments for no reason. This lasted for about 18 months. Within 5 months she has lost 80lbs, is working out, has fixated on a extreme diet and is very peppy and giddy and acts like a damn teenager in love. She acts like I'm not relevant...with literally no more anger. She makes sure to look really good out running errands where just a month ago she would just put her hair in a ponytail and wear jeans now her hair gets primped and curled and she dresses up. Her work schedule changes weekly where it used to be pretty consistent until 2 years ago. She either works late, goes to work early or "runs errands" after work that take alot longer than errands used to if she did then after work. I've inadvertently found out she sometimes leaves work early without telling me. Previously, she would just run her weekly errands on one of her three days off from work each week. She would tell me she wanted to get home to have quality time together. Now its "I'm sooo busy busy busy" and if anything things arent as busy since our oldest daughter moved out 3 years ago. Not to mention, I also have that notorious "gut feeling" that other men talk about when their wives have cheated. It's not an obsession or panic but rather a calm "knowing". I'm not a jealous dude either. Bro in retrospect what other things do you notice now that you overlooked while it was happening or before you confirmed she was cheating?
@@santoparfano1910 I did not confirm she was cheating but I think I stumbled upon her wanting to put herself out there. Out of sheer luck too. In my case it started with her, all of a sudden, wanting to challenge what we both knew were boundaries: 1) having coffee dates with male coworkers behind my back (this one got my gut acting up so bad I lost 20 lbs in a week,) 2) the overall "odd" schedule (she would go to the gym and then, out of the blue, tell me that a physical therapy had suddenly opened up at her doctor's office and that she was going to take it,) 3) constantly going shopping and not buying anything, 4) using tampons even when not on her period, 5) out of the blue telling me that she wanted to go on vacation alone with her single friends, etc. I did a lot of searching and detective work of both her phone as well as her email address and couldn't find anything but my gut told me otherwise. I'm a lot wiser now. That's all I can say.
Yep! Almost 12 years ago. I was with a girl who cheated on me for the whole entire 3 years we were together. She was a very good liar. Straight face tales and all. I had finally broke it off with her and moved on. Around 10 years after. I heard she was in a relationship with some older guy. Had a 2 year old kid with this guy and still wanted to live a double life. Not long after. I got the word that she had been murdered. I never would have thought it would be her boyfriend/baby’s father who did it. When I was told the news, I knew what probably happened and it was confirmed that the boyfriend was tired of the games and illusion of happiness from this person. To end it off. He turns around and kills himself. 🤦🏾♂️😫😢 thank God the baby is ok and in good health. Life lesson. You can only do wrong for so long until you get caught by the one that ain’t havin it! Peace ✌🏾
I find that to be the craziest thing about cheaters. The fact that they can go back to their partner and scream “I love you” and be look fine. Crazy story you have there
25 years with the woman I loved very much . all the signs where there I feel such a fool thinking I knew her . the signs started 4 years ago . the distance . the excuses not to be intimate . the phone never out of her hand Spending more time with her friend's. ? One morning she told me I love you but not in love with you . found out a couple of days after that . she was seen with her 1st boyfriend arm in arm when she was meant to be out with the girls ?. also found out she was with a co worker she worked with who I thought was my friend . still never admitted it and she's still sneaking around . and the lie continues . to her family . . i can't get over the devastation.
Sorry to hear this.. Her male co workers are never your friend.. They are always waiting for their turn to hump. As soon as you do something she doesn't like, it is and excuse for her to spread cheeks..
Oh man i heard that before i love you but not in love with you. The excuses not to be intimate. Unreliable. Till finally after i ask was she still coming over when she was the one been suggesting it. Then tells me she won't she been dealing with someone else please dont say nothing back. The shit went on for a month before she finally told me. An i think she only told me cause maybe dude was right there when i message her an he seen it so she had to make a choice. Lucky for me i was able to detach myself from her emotionally months before and started building a rotation for that raining day. Cause what the raining day started to make me wait a whole month for sex but then tell me on the day she was suppose to come she dealing with someone else but yet she making plans with me. I be pissed if i didnt have my rotation but wasting my time is quick way to get banish by me trying to steal my time from me.
Johnny big 100% she’s cheating is when she says “I love you but I’m not in love with you” 100%. Ask any guy whose heard those words. My ex said them and every guy I’ve asked
The big thing for me is the on/off and hot/cold pattern of intimacy. Many great weeks in a row. Then months with nothing. I finally pressed the issue and she was like…”ok let’s get it over with”. Very odd.
Guys! omg. I’m feeling intense emotions of the trauma i dealt with in my last relationship and honestly hearing a lotta these things just cleared up the air to why she would accuse me of cheating too, i already knew this was the case then but she found a way to gaslight me so bad and verbally abuse me while she was drunk and honestly guys, the experience i had i can go on with stories all day but she would emotionally and verbally abuse me towards the end of it and just be active on her phone without responding to me purposely like.. I got caught up in that but besides that bullshit its just got my body feeling sick to my gut that i had went thru such a thing, this shit aint no joke. I just hope nobody out there ends up in this shit like me or worse if you have ended up like me n the others sendin all prayers your way my guy 🙏🏾
Summary: 1. Emotional Distancing 2. Extreme Frequent Texting day & night 3. Possessiveness and secrecy around the phone 5. They accuse you to cheat 6. They become hyper critical to you 7. They keep very strict tab on you 8. They take a big interest in new outlook More: # Sexual Distancing # Keeping phone upside down/ in Aeroplane mode always REMEMBER, ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER.... SO LEAVE HIM/ HER ASP. Regards
What I cannot stand about lying and cheating women is even though I can read signs talked about here I announce to her that something is not right and I think I know what it is. She is very happy that I really discoved her and suddenly I am out of her life. But after some long while she contacts me and she wants to get back together because the other guy did not work out. I categorically state that there are no returns and she actually gets very mad at me. After that I profusely give out a sigh of relief and say: eat your heart out.
a woman might sleep with a man to try to discover whether she wants the new man to be her next boyfriend if no she goes back home if yes she will want the new one maybe she even ddeliberately wants you to find out so that either of you can end it or she temporarily breaks up with you sleeps with the new guy you two are back on and then you can't say she cheated you then if you want her have to accept the moment with the other guy which may have been her plan from the start she may want to be accused of cheating deny it because she reallt did'nt temporarrily break up with you sleep with the guy back on with you and be glad she had her moment with the other guy to find out whether perhaps she might possibly want him instead of you or just for sexual pleasure and then be back with you
@@youtubefans510 Before you married you judged. There is no way you came to a decision of non-judgemental scrutiny of your future spouse. If you blindly married then you have made a grave error for judgement comes before any endeavor of human event.
She feels different. Cold. Not as cuddly and warm as she once was. Kisses you less. Holds hands less. Just seems subtly withdrawn, some hide it better than others. But it's all in the touch. You can feel it when the Love is Gone. And in my experience when a women shuts that door in your face, she never opens it back up. If she cheated on you, she was already out of Love with you before she even did it. When they flick that switch, you vanish from their world while you're still standing right in front of them. It Hurts. .
So true. As soon as you feel disrespected or her flirting or comments or body language or anything else make you feel jealous, paranoid, insecure, etc…politely and FIRMLY dump her. And NEVER try to “work through it” or change her or any of that bs. Above ☝🏻 all else this: Never give your heart 💜 to a woman 👩.
Turns out 5 out of 10 of these are true about her especially being on the phone all the time and the last one. She was constantly accusing me of cheating when I’m only busy at work and that I couldn’t be on the phone all the time. She’s now my Ex. Glad to have ended a real toxic relationship.
Totally spot on. My long distance relationship ex-girlfriend accused me of cheating her which I totally not at all. She then hide me from her seeing her WeChat Moments, didn't reply & answering my phone & video calls. It's a big red flag & when I confronted her about it, she admitted she got a new boyfriend & told me off for being rude, hated me & saying she don't love me. She then blocked me totally.
I honestly already knew everything that's said here ! I've learned from every relationship I've been in , they've ALL cheated ! So my question is are there ANY " REAL " FAITHFUL AND LOYAL WOMEN ?...? I'd rather die alone than be put though the games they play and damage metal and emotional they cause .. And of course they all say " IM NOT LIKE THAT " .. LOL !!!! I'm 50 years old so I say PROVE IT !!!! I'm faithful , loyal and give my all , why is it so hard for almost all women ?...?
@Chrid Mcphatter yes we exist. My mom, my sister and me. My mom stood by my dad when he was unemployed. They have been together for over 31years and still in love. I have been in two relationships. One lasted 8 years and I always stayed loyal but I've been the unlucky one here. I'm a popular person but I always chose nice guys over rich or famous ones but still I'm the only one who loves more and I don't think there is any man left who loves a loyal woman. I see less successful and women who don't give a damn are what guys are attracted to than a opinionated strong loyal individual.
I am an extremely loyal person. But unfortunately in life we attract opposites. Reading these comments helps me believe that there are loyal men out there too. So it works both ways. I have seen only love between my parents so of course i will be looking for the same. We do exist.
I've been alone for the most of my living life, and sleep at night in peace but only when I'm in relationship i had to think of shit like this. Relationship is overrated man
I think many of these signs could also mean that the relationship comes to an end but not neccessairy with cheating involved. what do you guys think on that?
1. Too busy with work and other stuff. 2. Secretive. 3. Moody, sensitive (extremely) 4. Disrespect. 5. Change in routines. 6. Always on her phone. 7. Sex phobic. 8. Accusing you of cheating.
At the end of the day you might never know, but in saying that if the women has a heart she will confess the truth if not she can live with the guilt, it just sucks you've got to give her the benefit of the doubt because you have no prove just instinct. It's really like being the victim in a court of law no real prove on the accused they get away with it.
Bro how did things turn out with your girl? Did you confirm her cheating? What things did you notice now that you didnt see while it was happening? I'm going through this with my wife right now.
If you think someone's cheating, it's already over...rip that bandage off. Trust is the foundation, once that is cracked, it's almost impossible to repair. Obviously if both of you feel you can deal with it, maybe an open relationship is possible, but the groundwork for something purely intimate between you is no longer there, if you want to stay together, redefine what you both expect out of the relationship, and maybe go for it, who knows. Life's weird, nothing's written in stone when it comes to love.
The gut feetling I have is my partner cheats on me while I sleep at night and asks me to message when I leave gym so she can have a coffee ready for getting home lol
All true and very accurate. My ex-wife was using a cell phone spoofing app to conceal her incoming phone calls from her boyfriend. She was supposedly on her day off with her mom but when I asked her mother she said I have not seen her in months and what is going on with her. I told that to my ex and said her mom is nuts and spent her next day off with her mom. I suggest you secretly GPS your vehicles and hire a private investigator to follow your spouse to gather photo and video evidence of adultery. You will let your spouse have their fun while you prepare for divorce.
So right and scary this truth is to me personally. Got her new phone off my phone plan, new bank account with different bank, late night staying up and saying it was just video games. Sorry for myself that I know how to hack and found hotel fees, had 3 dating apps and wa very active every night on one of them,last was when I was at traing for work to make more money for us, my oldest kid told me the neighbor boy.
@ageofbogyo Meh, you can buy an escort for a night to have the same effect. And higher status is just a mindset. Get your posture up, get your confidence up, eye contact, walk like you own the place. Whatever you think high status is, you can emulate it and no one can tell the difference as long as you hold true to it.
For women there are a lot of reasons. Many which are not great ones. 1. They go through new mother depression and want to feel wanted again 2. They reunite with an ex 3. They spend more time with coworkers and can develop a "work b/f" 4. The sex isn't good with their actual husband despite being a model husband in every other area. 5. They're just nympho's. When they hit their 30's it's a sex peak. They don't give a shit about anyone else other than themselves and getting off and the fun of hooking up with strangers. (50 shades of grey shit) 6. They need extra money 7. They have slut friends who do it and will set them up with hook up dates so they can have a "partner in crime" and she'll get influenced, seduced, or pressured into it. 8. Blackmail/needing to return a favor but then turns into a regular thing cause she winds up liking it.
Thus sums up my ex-wife! She did everything this person has said. But in the end, she didn’t take anything in regards to my assets. Bankruptcy court made sure of that.
This is very challenging too & I know that I've been cheated before if I be in a relationship again I might have trust issues & maybe get hurt again that's my biggest fear afraid of being hurt
Earl Sanders I understand ,my husband has been with three different women in the 19 years we've been together. I use to worry constantly, especially after the last. After the years past by I don't worry as much, if he's gonna do it than he's gonna do it, however I will not forgive again..
@@kellysuzanne976 I been single for 7 years & counting & it's hard for me to find a loyal girlfriend & I'm t so hard to prove to myself but if or when I do find love again I have to do the best I can I just wanna be in a relationship again I'm just missing out on everything Dating someone going out on dates & being in a serious relationship & I'm just being myself
@@kellysuzanne976 & yeah being hurt is my biggest fear & I been in 3 tough relationships in the past I gave one of my exes a second chance but she used me so she can get back with her ex boyfriend & I was worried & crying in tears
Earl Sanders Sweetie idk how to answer that? There are a ton of shit women in this world , it boils down to finding the right one I guess? A woman who appreciates you and gives back what you give is what you need, and stay far away from the gold-diggers, aww I can't stand these types of women. I don't want to be alone either, I'm 40 years old not getting any younger . But if my husband cheats on me again and I find out , again, I'm done, I can't do it again I just can't. I hope you find what your looking for, goodluck cause it's not gonna be easy ,😘 it's not a fare game for sure:-(
My girlfriend lizzy did all this things on a long distance relationship..I caught her many times sleeping but she didn't know I knew ,where her body language and her voice changed, she was thinking I was a fool.. now after I proved she simply blocked 🚫 me ..
All these signs were there before my marriage ended 32 years ago, except for the smartphone because they hadn't been invented back then. I enjoyed this video and listening to you.
First 3 minutes. Spot on! And forget that little sprinkle if doubt that it could be something else. That's enough surcumstantial evidence to convict. They rely on knowing you want to believe them. Dont!!!!!
WHAT YOU FORGOT TO SAY IS THAT, THAT LOSER SHE'S CHEATING WITH WILL NEVER EVER TRUST HER ASS KNOWING THAT SHE CHEATED ON ONE MAN FOR HIM THE SIDEMAN KNOWS THAT SHE AIN'T SHIT AND WILL ALWAYS BE ON GUARD THAT WHAT SHE HAVE DONE TO THE LAST MAN CAN BE DONE TO HIM ALSO.
Dont have a GF, talk to multiple woman at once and everyone has a good time - dont take girls out and only Netflix and Fireball. They will say no I'm not coming over, after a week or 2 they will come over and submit - esp on Sundays when "the guys they actually wanted" screwed them over.
U definitely forgot the famous....... oh he is just friend.... that's never the case trust me if her ex is her friend move on guys move on cause there still f**kin on the side.
i asked my wife if she loved me and she said yes....but wasn,t in love with me......i asked her to repeat what she said....she said the same thing......what do i do now....i,m so confused
My first was still talking her ex and she put on a show saying she had no friends everyone hates her.. wtf was i thinking.. i saw the red flags where she would sleep with her phone under the pillow and ignored them still got attached and all of a sudden im getting messages on xmas from her ex lmao... fuck im stupid.. oh well...
In short if she cheats on you "she belongs to the streets". Never forgive a cheater they are not worth your valuable time an they will never respect you as a person.
Where were you back in the early 90s. My ex had all of these except, the cell phone. She is now sitting at the bar with alligator skin and bleach blonde hair. And me best thing ever happened to me. Got out young all my money is mine.
Thanks so much for your valuable information. It's absolutely true and happening in my life 💙
Gentleman, women do not care about your pain, your suffering, your essence, your energy ... they simply wait at the finish line and pick the winner. The burden of performance is always on you. Once she no longer views you as a winner, then she begins a new game looking for a new winner. The modern woman requires constant "entertainment". Lose your edge: She loses her interest. The game is rigged.
American Spartan you’re stealing “entrepreneurs with cars” thunder.
American Spartan you got that right!!
@Goodfight Broman 🤣😂🤣😂
Holy crap. yeah, damn right.
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1. Too busy (with work)
2. Secretive
3. Moody
4. Disrepectful (abusive verbally
5. Change routines
6. Allways on her phone
7. Password protection (go to another room)
8. Sex phobic Not emotionally and physicsl in sex
9. She acusing you cheating
King
Yes
I was married. She found a new man after my business went down. Today I am not in a serious relationship. Better that way.
Everlasting Unconditional love not real sorry u had to find out like that
Bad isnt it
Heads up you are a real king🤴
Currently there. When Corona hit I lost my job. She left with the kids
@@wilsonmugweweru4745 I am so sorry, Sir. I wish you the best in life. 👍
If you're watching these videos to find out, sorry bro
Cheating is far from condemned in feminist society.
Rather, it is glorified. A woman is allowed to blame her man for "forcing" her to cheat, rather than taking responsibility for leaving a relationship that no longer suits her.
Men do the same thing lol
@@gabrielarg5212 Men arent women.
Men usually cheat because we are like boys in a sweet shop. Women usually cheat because they have moved on. I'm not saying it's right but we usually cheat for different reasons. It's important to understand that. Especially if you want to stay with someone who has cheated. Otherwise don't be surprised if it happens again.
@@quaid667 Men usually cheat because their girlfriend/wife treats them like shit and/or withholds.
@@greenghost6416 some blokes love being treated like shit.
As a person who's never cheated, and had several long term relationships, I can tell you one thing. Someone that isn't cheating, won't give you a reason to think they are, we think about how our decisions affect you before we make them. That one thing, by itself is incredibly important, it has nothing to do with being on a leash, it has everything to do with respect for your relationship. Don't stay with a cheater, seriously, anyone that can cheat past the 6 month mark will ruin your life. I'm not condoning cheats before 6 months, it just seems to be the line where you know if that person you're with is a good match, and you know enough about each other to consider next steps.
I agree 💯 bout letting the one I'm with know things for no other reason other than respect and the possibility, lord forbid, an accident or something happens they know the last place you were and helps find location faster. I was raised that way and understood that safety came first and foremost with respect for your close people and if anyone demands to know my whereabouts at all times and questions like I'm guilty of something I definitely didn't do they get escorted to the door and given no explanation or proof I didn't do anything. Disrespect gets no respect and they know they are being disrespectful because they have nothing to show as reason to accuse or question like they are guilty. That's also the main sign she's cheating cause us regular decent folks don't think like them to come up with questions cheaters do cause they ain't cheating.
Keep your head up kings.
my motor trike should be on the tarmac but im not quite sure if they've gotten the communique i sent too them through snail mail may take some time
@@vincentrepins5825 wtf r u trying to say
Psychobabble
@@vincentrepins5825 😂😂😂what the actual fuck u saying
How to know if a girl is a cheater, 1. she has a pulse....
Killer instinct?
God, I love ladies without a pulse! It's why I've been with my wife for 5 and a half years! :)
The Smiling Jester she leaves you that’s two and half years alimony
Yup
women would say who do those women cheat with if most men cheat most women cheat as well if most women cheat most men cheat as well they are just far better at hiding it and creating the atmosphere or place moment to create the oppurtunity
Never can look you in the eye when you ask her about her lies.
The truth that everyone ends up figuring out and facing is that love isn't this magical fairy tail they've been raised and told to believe in their entire life. It's a shit show of either lies, deception or unfaithfulness.
Your absolute spot on there mate👍
Not everyone is like this. Its just hard for two similar values people to find each other.
We believe such trash due to movies and religious teachers. In reality...marriage is a partnership firm which can be liquidated anytime. Anyways, if you are in a partnership firm, there is absolutely no restriction in becoming a director in another company
@@neonovaC Agreed. You gotta find another person that holds loyalty as their highest trait. In a sense, you form a mutual co-dependency. Unconditional love starts briefly as a whimsical fairytale, but it quickly turns into commitment.
Perfect
She has a male best friend...just understand it’s your turn! Stay Woke Gents ~
Don’t forget the
1) upside down phone screen whenever her phone leaves her hands, which is rare
2) petty excuse to pick a fight/argument
3) Doesn’t post pictures of the both of you (given she has social media)
4) Lady in the video already said this but a big one is accusing you of exactly what she is guilty of it’s like some Jedi mind-trick
4:30
Relationship are ended whenever one party is cheating. Nothing to mend.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Yeah, but I was surprised by ``cheating with several girls or dudes´´. In my time, you had to cheat a woman with her sister, her female best friend, and the rumor-mill of the city quarter her parents live in! 🤔 Well, times change.
@@a.m.pietroschek1972 Social media makes it much easier for people to cheat. Mine used the Snapchat app, which conveniently erases the messages shortly after you read them, so it's hard to find evidence. My ex-girlfriend messed up and took a screenshot on her phone of one of her explicit Snapchat conversations with one of the men she was cheating on me with. (There were 2 more men she was talking to that I know of) It's the only way I found out for sure she was doing something. Otherwise I never would have been able to prove it.
Fake fights,and when they accuse you,both garantee she is cheating!
Boboiboy@93 she’s cheating bro...
The world is a strange place where
Those lacks modesty are considered beautiful.
Cheaters are considered to be clever.
And the loyal are considered to be fools.
I still don’t understand how men these day’s look for traditional love in women those day’s are long going
They still exist although in low supply
The ones that offer traditional love are the minority that are already happily married and not on the market.
"Constantly on her phone" goes hand in hand with her previous point of DISRESPECT. AT that point..... Relationship is basically over.
My very own experience ✌🏿✌🏿
Same!
Instead of teaching people when their girl is cheating
Teach them how to know a cheater befor they date cheaters
It is very hard to tell at first
Every word you said was true about my wife, down to the last detail. You spoke as you knew her every thought. I am never returning home for absolutely nothing. I lost 11 years of my life with her. I'm now a homeless on the roads, after supporting her and her kids.
I hope things worked out for you eventually.
Everything you say is 100% correct except the last part, which is about fixing the relationship. Nine out of ten times she does not want to fix it, or she will pretend she wants to fix it but will still see the other man. Once trust is broken there is no going back so why would anyone want to stay with a cheater.
She emotionally starves you then steers your attentions towards another. Very subtle and when the job is complete you get the blame as she claims moral high ground. She will have you believe it’s all your fault. Remember women have been perfecting this art since before the time of Cleopatra. Stealth versus stature
Isnt that gaslighting? Its witchcraft.
The only two signs I experienced were: 1. she would constantly lose her phone from leaving it in weird places, which was a behavioural change, she always used to leave it with mine but somewhere along the line she started taking it with her and losing it in weird places that she couldn't remember, and No. 2: constantly accused me of cheating even though I never did, was also extremely jealous if another women even spoke to me. I now realise she was just reflecting her own guilt onto me, assuming I was the same - but I wasn't. Stay strong out there kings 👑
Her show of jealousy towards you was fake. By pretending to be jealous she was trying to show that she loves you so that you dont start getting suspicious of her intentions. That's all. She was not reflecting her guilt but putting up an act of being a jealous wife to keep you under control
@@existenceandreality2715 exactly
Same.
Yes bro. First, all you fellow brothers stay strong and gather all the evidence for your divorce. Let the bitch do her cheating while you prepare your exit and slam her with a surprised divorce. No mercy on a divorce. The guy she is with will soon dump her because even he will not trust a cheater.
Four other red flags not many people talk about: 1) if she goes out shopping often but seldom buys anything, 2) she buys a lot of stuff but seems to be always returning half of it (she's cashing out and probably buying pay cards with it), 3) if she uses tampons while not on her period and 4) if she goes out the house smelling like Carolina Herrera crawled up her ass but comes home smelling like a Cleanex. All three require an attentive and inquisitive mind, but they will give you all the information you will need to either hire a PI or not.
Remember, the #1 reason many females do not like to act on their adulterous urges is that they know their husbands are watching out.
I escaped a cheater just on time. She was talking to somebody else behind my back and i found out so i kicked her out my life before things get outta hand 😂 be careful who you kings give your time to or else ya'll be in a world of hurt
Good shit my man
same!
Did she regret it? Cause mine yez lmao
I kicked mine out and she was deported soon after 💀
Lucky bro
i'm a single male, and I work with a few women that wanted to cheat with me, but i'm not like that. These married women are devious in their cheating ways, it's almost an art form. It's sad knowing that i will probably never marry because the fear of marriage ending by infidelity.
Good man , god will reward you w good women
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The same thing has happened to me for 15 years in the labor market.
Almost most of the married women who are between 20 to 40 are always looking for a savior who will free them from their marriage.
I am 35 years old and I have never been married nor do I intend to get married. Unfortunately I have fucked several married women and I know the tricks and lies they use, to this day I don't know why or for what purpose my eyes were opened since I was 20 years old. Since then I have never believed in women.
indeed how do they let you know thay are open to any possible advances they can always say you misunderstood they can twist and turn how are they devios in their cheating ways I am just curious
@@youtubefans510 they grab my junk. To put it bluntly.
Everything you said is true... But you missed out one that she starts working out, and gives lots of attention to her body
1) Too Busy
2) Secretive
3) Moody
4) Disrespectful
5) Change in Routine
6) Always on her birthday phone
7) She’s not comfortable you touching her phone
8) Unknown numbers
9) Sexphobic
10) Not emotionally invested in sex
11) Accusing to cheating
Starts unnecessarily arguments and walks out on you.
You just described someone with NPD.
NEVER give a cheat a second chance. ...ever.
Almost everything she said was spot on. I recently got hit with almost all of them, especially the overprotective attitude. Oh and let's not forget the cell phone password and all.
3:25 Banger. Yup, this is exactly the case.
Gentlemen, make a priority of ensuring you set the sexual terms (aka. tell and expect of her to announce in time if she's not in the mood, before you make a move, expect openness from her, and give her the opportunity to show her, even in less private aspects) and when she decreases interest repeatedly, see her as less of a priority. Make it clear that you know something's up (don't assume cheating yet), and if she doesn't change in that aspect, even after you tell her to speak up, time to part ways.
Find someone more feminine, and never forget, don't use "being in a relationship" as an excuse to stop improving yourself as a man.
If she is for no reason either sad/mad towards you like.. you notice she feels bad and looks at you with a frown in the mornings. She’s guilty af.
Yeah bro ur spot on. My wife was consistently mad or irritated with me out of the blue for really no reason and would often try to provoke arguments for no reason. This lasted for about 18 months. Within 5 months she has lost 80lbs, is working out, has fixated on a extreme diet and is very peppy and giddy and acts like a damn teenager in love. She acts like I'm not relevant...with literally no more anger. She makes sure to look really good out running errands where just a month ago she would just put her hair in a ponytail and wear jeans now her hair gets primped and curled and she dresses up. Her work schedule changes weekly where it used to be pretty consistent until 2 years ago. She either works late, goes to work early or "runs errands" after work that take alot longer than errands used to if she did then after work. I've inadvertently found out she sometimes leaves work early without telling me. Previously, she would just run her weekly errands on one of her three days off from work each week. She would tell me she wanted to get home to have quality time together. Now its "I'm sooo busy busy busy" and if anything things arent as busy since our oldest daughter moved out 3 years ago. Not to mention, I also have that notorious "gut feeling" that other men talk about when their wives have cheated. It's not an obsession or panic but rather a calm "knowing". I'm not a jealous dude either. Bro in retrospect what other things do you notice now that you overlooked while it was happening or before you confirmed she was cheating?
Damn it all makes sense now
@@santoparfano1910 I did not confirm she was cheating but I think I stumbled upon her wanting to put herself out there. Out of sheer luck too. In my case it started with her, all of a sudden, wanting to challenge what we both knew were boundaries: 1) having coffee dates with male coworkers behind my back (this one got my gut acting up so bad I lost 20 lbs in a week,) 2) the overall "odd" schedule (she would go to the gym and then, out of the blue, tell me that a physical therapy had suddenly opened up at her doctor's office and that she was going to take it,) 3) constantly going shopping and not buying anything, 4) using tampons even when not on her period, 5) out of the blue telling me that she wanted to go on vacation alone with her single friends, etc.
I did a lot of searching and detective work of both her phone as well as her email address and couldn't find anything but my gut told me otherwise.
I'm a lot wiser now. That's all I can say.
Signs you are with a cheater: she pisses sitting down
Yep! Almost 12 years ago. I was with a girl who cheated on me for the whole entire 3 years we were together. She was a very good liar. Straight face tales and all. I had finally broke it off with her and moved on. Around 10 years after. I heard she was in a relationship with some older guy. Had a 2 year old kid with this guy and still wanted to live a double life. Not long after. I got the word that she had been murdered. I never would have thought it would be her boyfriend/baby’s father who did it. When I was told the news, I knew what probably happened and it was confirmed that the boyfriend was tired of the games and illusion of happiness from this person. To end it off. He turns around and kills himself. 🤦🏾♂️😫😢 thank God the baby is ok and in good health. Life lesson. You can only do wrong for so long until you get caught by the one that ain’t havin it! Peace ✌🏾
Once caught it will be the beginning of the end of the relationship !
I find that to be the craziest thing about cheaters. The fact that they can go back to their partner and scream “I love you” and be look fine.
Crazy story you have there
@@brawdz31 yeah! Kinda broke my heart even though I wasn’t with her anymore.
25 years with the woman I loved very much . all the signs where there I feel such a fool thinking I knew her . the signs started 4 years ago . the distance . the excuses not to be intimate . the phone never out of her hand Spending more time with her friend's. ? One morning she told me I love you but not in love with you . found out a couple of days after that . she was seen with her 1st boyfriend arm in arm when she was meant to be out with the girls ?. also found out she was with a co worker she worked with who I thought was my friend . still never admitted it and she's still sneaking around . and the lie continues . to her family . . i can't get over the devastation.
Dude I hear ya but get Rollo Tomassi's book "The rational male". It will help you heal and understand why women do what they do.
Sorry to hear this..
Her male co workers are never your friend.. They are always waiting for their turn to hump.
As soon as you do something she doesn't like, it is and excuse for her to spread cheeks..
Oh man i heard that before i love you but not in love with you. The excuses not to be intimate. Unreliable. Till finally after i ask was she still coming over when she was the one been suggesting it. Then tells me she won't she been dealing with someone else please dont say nothing back. The shit went on for a month before she finally told me. An i think she only told me cause maybe dude was right there when i message her an he seen it so she had to make a choice. Lucky for me i was able to detach myself from her emotionally months before and started building a rotation for that raining day. Cause what the raining day started to make me wait a whole month for sex but then tell me on the day she was suppose to come she dealing with someone else but yet she making plans with me. I be pissed if i didnt have my rotation but wasting my time is quick way to get banish by me trying to steal my time from me.
Johnny big 100% she’s cheating is when she says “I love you but I’m not in love with you” 100%. Ask any guy whose heard those words. My ex said them and every guy I’ve asked
It is tough even when you’ve grown distant.
A woman tellin about a womans ways, amazin.
@Lee Wright It's a bullshit scam. It doesn't get much more illegal than that. That person is after yours & everyone else's money.
She playing us
Secretive is the key word.
The big thing for me is the on/off and hot/cold pattern of intimacy. Many great weeks in a row. Then months with nothing. I finally pressed the issue and she was like…”ok let’s get it over with”. Very odd.
Guys! omg. I’m feeling intense emotions of the trauma i dealt with in my last relationship and honestly hearing a lotta these things just cleared up the air to why she would accuse me of cheating too, i already knew this was the case then but she found a way to gaslight me so bad and verbally abuse me while she was drunk and honestly guys, the experience i had i can go on with stories all day but she would emotionally and verbally abuse me towards the end of it and just be active on her phone without responding to me purposely like.. I got caught up in that but besides that bullshit its just got my body feeling sick to my gut that i had went thru such a thing, this shit aint no joke. I just hope nobody out there ends up in this shit like me or worse if you have ended up like me n the others sendin all prayers your way my guy 🙏🏾
First of all girls never cheat, they just forget to tell about their new partner
Summary:
1. Emotional Distancing
2. Extreme Frequent Texting day & night
3. Possessiveness and secrecy around the phone
5. They accuse you to cheat
6. They become hyper critical to you
7. They keep very strict tab on you
8. They take a big interest in new outlook
More:
# Sexual Distancing
# Keeping phone upside down/ in Aeroplane mode always
REMEMBER,
ONCE A CHEATER,
ALWAYS A CHEATER....
SO LEAVE HIM/ HER ASP.
Regards
The Phone! Trying to KNOW your schedules all of a sudden. Different answers to the same question on different days. I experienced these.
It's easy. If her phone has a password, she leaves the room when receiving or always keep her phone on silent.
The most obvious sign...she vanishes for days at a time...no one is so busy that they have zero time for you.
Yea I just experience that
Amen brother. Well said
What I cannot stand about lying and cheating women is even though I can read signs talked about here I announce to her that something is not right and I think I know what it is. She is very happy that I really discoved her and suddenly I am out of her life. But after some long while she contacts me and she wants to get back together because the other guy did not work out. I categorically state that there are no returns and she actually gets very mad at me. After that I profusely give out a sigh of relief and say: eat your heart out.
a woman might sleep with a man to try to discover whether she wants the new man to be her next boyfriend if no she goes back home if yes she will want the new one maybe she even ddeliberately wants you to find out so that either of you can end it or she temporarily breaks up with you sleeps with the new guy you two are back on and then you can't say she cheated you then if you want her have to accept the moment with the other guy which may have been her plan from the start she may want to be accused of cheating deny it because she reallt did'nt temporarrily break up with you sleep with the guy back on with you and be glad she had her moment with the other guy to find out whether perhaps she might possibly want him instead of you or just for sexual pleasure and then be back with you
@@youtubefans510 No, a woman that cheated on me will never be back with me.
@@ericephemetherson3964 that;s because you are not empathic and loving enough I am glad I am not married to someone as judgemental as you
@@youtubefans510 Before you married you judged. There is no way you came to a decision of non-judgemental scrutiny of your future spouse. If you blindly married then you have made a grave error for judgement comes before any endeavor of human event.
She feels different. Cold. Not as cuddly and warm as she once was. Kisses you less. Holds hands less. Just seems subtly withdrawn, some hide it better than others. But it's all in the touch. You can feel it when the Love is Gone. And in my experience when a women shuts that door in your face, she never opens it back up. If she cheated on you, she was already out of Love with you before she even did it. When they flick that switch, you vanish from their world while you're still standing right in front of them. It Hurts. .
So true
She just described every relationship after 5 years of marriage!
A year
It happened to me around the 5 year mark so I agree.
Always listen to your gut when it comes to cheating. I absolutely do mean always.
So true. As soon as you feel disrespected or her flirting or comments or body language or anything else make you feel jealous, paranoid, insecure, etc…politely and FIRMLY dump her. And NEVER try to “work through it” or change her or any of that bs. Above ☝🏻 all else this: Never give your heart 💜 to a woman 👩.
I had a ex who blocked the other guys number . So when I was there she blocked his number. When I was gone....she would unblock him and text him.
same here
Sign she's cheating on me. She's got a black eye.
WTF YOU PUNCH HER!? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
facts
🤣
Not good
Just dum her
Turns out 5 out of 10 of these are true about her especially being on the phone all the time and the last one. She was constantly accusing me of cheating when I’m only busy at work and that I couldn’t be on the phone all the time. She’s now my Ex. Glad to have ended a real toxic relationship.
Totally spot on. My long distance relationship ex-girlfriend accused me of cheating her which I totally not at all. She then hide me from her seeing her WeChat Moments, didn't reply & answering my phone & video calls. It's a big red flag & when I confronted her about it, she admitted she got a new boyfriend & told me off for being rude, hated me & saying she don't love me. She then blocked me totally.
@@norbert1097
No, he doesn't. She already left him for another dude. Sorry, to interrupt your sales pitch.
@@johnp1995 no problem 😊. Wasn't selling nothing. Just a referral. But thanks anyway
Hey there’s other girls out there
Signs she's cheating: when you're apart.
lmfao 🤣
Lol
If she finds something better. They are all cheaters. They are always looking for something better.
My room mate not a wife has failed everything on these facts. There is no repairs to be done I’m over it!
Sadly I’ve found my answer from this video. thanks.
@@jordanallen8420 HONESTLY SHUT THE ACTUALLY FUCK UP WITH THE FUCKING SELF PROMOTION YOU CLOWN , WE AINT FALLING FOR IT
Too bad. It hurts. But you'll get over it. You're not the first guy this happened to, and unfortunately you will not be the last.
Same, my girlfriend was cheating on me with a girl lmao
Brianna Tyler how much this guy cost to do this?
RUclips knows what is going on our lives better than us. I remember how a recommended video made me find out the truth.
I honestly already knew everything that's said here ! I've learned from every relationship I've been in , they've ALL cheated ! So my question is are there ANY " REAL " FAITHFUL AND LOYAL WOMEN ?...? I'd rather die alone than be put though the games they play and damage metal and emotional they cause .. And of course they all say " IM NOT LIKE THAT " .. LOL !!!! I'm 50 years old so I say PROVE IT !!!! I'm faithful , loyal and give my all , why is it so hard for almost all women ?...?
@Chrid Mcphatter yes we exist. My mom, my sister and me. My mom stood by my dad when he was unemployed. They have been together for over 31years and still in love. I have been in two relationships. One lasted 8 years and I always stayed loyal but I've been the unlucky one here. I'm a popular person but I always chose nice guys over rich or famous ones but still I'm the only one who loves more and I don't think there is any man left who loves a loyal woman. I see less successful and women who don't give a damn are what guys are attracted to than a opinionated strong loyal individual.
And most guys don't care about the personality as long a girl is good looking.
I am an extremely loyal person. But unfortunately in life we attract opposites. Reading these comments helps me believe that there are loyal men out there too. So it works both ways. I have seen only love between my parents so of course i will be looking for the same. We do exist.
From where i am coming from. Its the women who are loyal and men arent.
@@neonovaC 😔
I have a crush on a woman.
But when she pickes her phone.
It's like shit I have that feeling in my stomach again.
And I can hear my heart beat.
Just ask her if she's messing around, if she lashes out at you shes cheating. If she has been faithful she will take it as a joke.
So glad I'm single dont have to deal with this B.S and watching videos like this reassures me that I've made the right decision.
And you can sleep easier at night knowing you ain't going to be shat on
I've been alone for the most of my living life, and sleep at night in peace but only when I'm in relationship i had to think of shit like this. Relationship is overrated man
I think many of these signs could also mean that the relationship comes to an end but not neccessairy with cheating involved. what do you guys think on that?
True, if nothing else, some of these are grounds for neglect and if not remedied by open communication and healing-lead to divorce.
1. Too busy with work and other stuff.
2. Secretive.
3. Moody, sensitive (extremely)
4. Disrespect.
5. Change in routines.
6. Always on her phone.
7. Sex phobic.
8. Accusing you of cheating.
"You have no value to her"..that hurts..🙄
At the end of the day you might never know, but in saying that if the women has a heart she will confess the truth if not she can live with the guilt, it just sucks you've got to give her the benefit of the doubt because you have no prove just instinct.
It's really like being the victim in a court of law no real prove on the accused they get away with it.
Most heart wrenching painful form of spouse abuse to get through.
Watching this in front of her. She’s trying to forcefully turn it off, as these things describe most if not all the things she does daily
Bro how did things turn out with your girl? Did you confirm her cheating? What things did you notice now that you didnt see while it was happening? I'm going through this with my wife right now.
these signs are all true. i went through them and came out true
If you think someone's cheating, it's already over...rip that bandage off. Trust is the foundation, once that is cracked, it's almost impossible to repair. Obviously if both of you feel you can deal with it, maybe an open relationship is possible, but the groundwork for something purely intimate between you is no longer there, if you want to stay together, redefine what you both expect out of the relationship, and maybe go for it, who knows. Life's weird, nothing's written in stone when it comes to love.
The gut feetling I have is my partner cheats on me while I sleep at night and asks me to message when I leave gym so she can have a coffee ready for getting home lol
All true and very accurate. My ex-wife was using a cell phone spoofing app to conceal her incoming phone calls from her boyfriend. She was supposedly on her day off with her mom but when I asked her mother she said I have not seen her in months and what is going on with her. I told that to my ex and said her mom is nuts and spent her next day off with her mom. I suggest you secretly GPS your vehicles and hire a private investigator to follow your spouse to gather photo and video evidence of adultery. You will let your spouse have their fun while you prepare for divorce.
So right and scary this truth is to me personally. Got her new phone off my phone plan, new bank account with different bank, late night staying up and saying it was just video games. Sorry for myself that I know how to hack and found hotel fees, had 3 dating apps and wa very active every night on one of them,last was when I was at traing for work to make more money for us, my oldest kid told me the neighbor boy.
You watching this video is the most important sign!!
A knock out video. You nailed it. Most smart, concise and accurate information. Wow..
I knew this pattern very well just wanted her to come and talk face to face haha
Why not just get a divorce or break up?
I mean, what's the point of cheating?
Agreed
@ageofbogyo Men use women to elevate their status too. Walking into the room with some lithe supermodel is going to make you stand out.
@ageofbogyo Meh, you can buy an escort for a night to have the same effect. And higher status is just a mindset. Get your posture up, get your confidence up, eye contact, walk like you own the place. Whatever you think high status is, you can emulate it and no one can tell the difference as long as you hold true to it.
For women there are a lot of reasons. Many which are not great ones.
1. They go through new mother depression and want to feel wanted again
2. They reunite with an ex
3. They spend more time with coworkers and can develop a "work b/f"
4. The sex isn't good with their actual husband despite being a model husband in every other area.
5. They're just nympho's. When they hit their 30's it's a sex peak. They don't give a shit about anyone else other than themselves and getting off and the fun of hooking up with strangers. (50 shades of grey shit)
6. They need extra money
7. They have slut friends who do it and will set them up with hook up dates so they can have a "partner in crime" and she'll get influenced, seduced, or pressured into it.
8. Blackmail/needing to return a favor but then turns into a regular thing cause she winds up liking it.
@@Novaximus
I think you should have co-hosted this video. Good stuff!
I know mines is I just want some evidence then I'm done
Thus sums up my ex-wife! She did everything this person has said. But in the end, she didn’t take anything in regards to my assets. Bankruptcy court made sure of that.
The tune “Stranger in my House” by Ronnie Milsap comes to mind! Good Day Everyone!
Might play that tune in front of wife, see if she admits
Sorry, but once that level of trust has been broken there is absolutely no coming back from it. It's over....
This is very challenging too & I know that I've been cheated before if I be in a relationship again I might have trust issues & maybe get hurt again that's my biggest fear afraid of being hurt
Earl Sanders I understand ,my husband has been with three different women in the 19 years we've been together. I use to worry constantly, especially after the last. After the years past by I don't worry as much, if he's gonna do it than he's gonna do it, however I will not forgive again..
@@kellysuzanne976 I been single for 7 years & counting & it's hard for me to find a loyal girlfriend & I'm t so hard to prove to myself but if or when I do find love again I have to do the best I can I just wanna be in a relationship again I'm just missing out on everything Dating someone going out on dates & being in a serious relationship & I'm just being myself
@@kellysuzanne976 & yeah being hurt is my biggest fear & I been in 3 tough relationships in the past I gave one of my exes a second chance but she used me so she can get back with her ex boyfriend & I was worried & crying in tears
@@kellysuzanne976 I just wanna know how much more do I prove to someone on this planet
Earl Sanders Sweetie idk how to answer that? There are a ton of shit women in this world , it boils down to finding the right one I guess? A woman who appreciates you and gives back what you give is what you need, and stay far away from the gold-diggers, aww I can't stand these types of women. I don't want to be alone either, I'm 40 years old not getting any younger . But if my husband cheats on me again and I find out , again, I'm done, I can't do it again I just can't. I hope you find what your looking for, goodluck cause it's not gonna be easy ,😘 it's not a fare game for sure:-(
Men: Choose up
Women: Go with available options....
Yep, the moody & disrespectful bit is spot on, as too is the whole living on the phone thing.
My girlfriend lizzy did all this things on a long distance relationship..I caught her many times sleeping but she didn't know I knew ,where her body language and her voice changed, she was thinking I was a fool.. now after I proved she simply blocked 🚫 me ..
All these signs were there before my marriage ended 32 years ago, except for the smartphone because they hadn't been invented back then. I enjoyed this video and listening to you.
First 3 minutes. Spot on! And forget that little sprinkle if doubt that it could be something else. That's enough surcumstantial evidence to convict. They rely on knowing you want to believe them. Dont!!!!!
I've watched tons of these videos, and this is the best I've seen. Hands down!
The soul of a woman was created below.
Bang on its not what they say it's what they do!
WHAT YOU FORGOT TO SAY IS THAT, THAT LOSER SHE'S CHEATING WITH WILL NEVER EVER TRUST HER ASS KNOWING THAT SHE CHEATED ON ONE MAN FOR HIM THE SIDEMAN KNOWS THAT SHE AIN'T SHIT AND WILL ALWAYS BE ON GUARD THAT WHAT SHE HAVE DONE TO THE LAST MAN CAN BE DONE TO HIM ALSO.
I've known "good women" who were trying to flirt with me and text me with suggestive messages while in relationship with my friends.
and
Dont have a GF, talk to multiple woman at once and everyone has a good time - dont take girls out and only Netflix and Fireball.
They will say no I'm not coming over, after a week or 2 they will come over and submit - esp on Sundays when "the guys they actually wanted" screwed them over.
For getting straight to the point and being clear and informative I subbed
If she cheats on you, cheat on her.
Men value love, women love value .
Immaculate description!!
U definitely forgot the famous....... oh he is just friend.... that's never the case trust me if her ex is her friend move on guys move on cause there still f**kin on the side.
i asked my wife if she loved me and she said yes....but wasn,t in love with me......i asked her to repeat what she said....she said the same thing......what do i do now....i,m so confused
Also stay away from the ones who warns you like her. They know too much !
My first was still talking her ex and she put on a show saying she had no friends everyone hates her.. wtf was i thinking.. i saw the red flags where she would sleep with her phone under the pillow and ignored them still got attached and all of a sudden im getting messages on xmas from her ex lmao... fuck im stupid.. oh well...
In short if she cheats on you "she belongs to the streets". Never forgive a cheater they are not worth your valuable time an they will never respect you as a person.
Where were you back in the early 90s. My ex had all of these except, the cell phone. She is now sitting at the bar with alligator skin and bleach blonde hair. And me best thing ever happened to me. Got out young all my money is mine.
@Max Powers Probably most are being cheated on as well and have no clue.