I didn't know the different kinds of emotionally immature parents had names! Now I know my father is the emotional emotionally immature parent (extremely harsh when angry, extremely goofy and dismissive when joyful, his emotions become the whole apartment's emotions/does not respect boundaries/super enmeshed) and my mother is the passive emotionally immature parent (defends and takes my father's abusive language and behaviors, speaks about boundaries but never enforces her own, never protected me or herself from my father's wrath). Thank you! 😌
I really appreciate Jim´s knowledge, it is sharp. There are also parents who need their children to parent them instead of them parenting their children. Unable to do the job due their own background and caused developmental hindrances.
Looking back I realise my mother was very much on the Autistic spectrum. This made for an interesting childhood ! Different , but equally challenging !
Hello Jim, I rarely see or hear videos/materials on adult narcissistic children. I divorced an occult family after 25yrs, moved cross country and left everything behind including a son (in the marines) and daughter (now 24) and both are behaving worse than my X 🥲 my heart is shattered but I've decided to let go absolutely 🙏
A lot of defensive toxic parents in the comments. These can’t see or hear to change, hence they’re toxic. Of course they’re emotionally unavailable. People need to heal their traumas or they are going to BLEED into their children.
The critical parent is the mouthpiece of your inner unaware soul inner child.they " look like " grow up parents they are driven by their own inner immature kid that's good one day and bad the next.
My sister yells at her kids (4&5) right in front of everyone. She makes a big deal out of small things. And then her husband yells at the kids and pounds his fists on tables and doors. It makes family gathering traumatic. It isn’t all the time- but this is their mode of discipline. What is this?? Are they just authoritative jerks who demand absolute obedience even though they don’t listen to anyone??? Or do they have a real problem??? I honestly want to know. Like I said- not all the time- but definitely too much authority/ meanness/ control for toddlers.
lol…I’m every one you described. Every parent is. We don’t get instruction manuals. And our parents didnt either. Our kids? They didnt get one either and look8ng at the generations coming up they aren’t doing a very good job either
Lmao any parent who’s there everyday with a child and isn’t neglectful or abusive. And shows up for that child provides all the essentials food,shelter,clothes and hygiene is a bloody awesome parent doing a great job and if the other parent doesn’t see those kids at all and your alone … your doing great! Because labelling parents and parenting styles is as ludicrous as labelling a child who’s “normal”. they are Rockstars all Rockstars! ⭐️✌️
And maybe check how that parent was raised… CUZ IF my mom messes up my boundaries, what kind of parent do u think im gonna be? Even if I try and fix my own shit, my mom is right there telling my kid all kinds of garbage about me. its a shit soup. Don’t have children.
@@jadegreen1554 easier said than done tho. Remember, emotional manipulation in single parent households is an Escape Room situation that is super difficult to get out from. Add in enough physical abuse from yer only source of survival and …yer decisions start becoming challenging.
Love Jim’s #shorts always to the point
I didn't know the different kinds of emotionally immature parents had names! Now I know my father is the emotional emotionally immature parent (extremely harsh when angry, extremely goofy and dismissive when joyful, his emotions become the whole apartment's emotions/does not respect boundaries/super enmeshed) and my mother is the passive emotionally immature parent (defends and takes my father's abusive language and behaviors, speaks about boundaries but never enforces her own, never protected me or herself from my father's wrath). Thank you! 😌
I really appreciate Jim´s knowledge, it is sharp. There are also parents who need their children to parent them instead of them parenting their children. Unable to do the job due their own background and caused developmental hindrances.
Oh, so we're talking about my mother today. I see. 🙄
Looking back I realise my mother was very much on the Autistic spectrum. This made for an interesting childhood ! Different , but equally challenging !
You should be ashamed talking about your mum like that on social media.
@@jack-e-designsshamed? Says the man with feet in his profile pic
I just realized that I thought I was an *emotionally* immature parent because I laugh at my kids potty jokes… but I’m just an *immature* parent.
Woow you listened my parents on this for everything
Hello Jim, I rarely see or hear videos/materials on adult narcissistic children. I divorced an occult family after 25yrs, moved cross country and left everything behind including a son (in the marines) and daughter (now 24) and both are behaving worse than my X 🥲 my heart is shattered but I've decided to let go absolutely 🙏
I can imagine it is hard but it is better to let go than keep being cut down.
The blue Shirt looks good on you.
Well that covers most parents. Generations of parents.
Correct! Most parents shouldn’t be parents.
A lot of defensive toxic parents in the comments. These can’t see or hear to change, hence they’re toxic. Of course they’re emotionally unavailable. People need to heal their traumas or they are going to BLEED into their children.
You got that shit in the bag
The critical parent is the mouthpiece of your inner unaware soul inner child.they " look like " grow up parents they are driven by their own inner immature kid that's good one day and bad the next.
My sister yells at her kids (4&5) right in front of everyone. She makes a big deal out of small things. And then her husband yells at the kids and pounds his fists on tables and doors. It makes family gathering traumatic. It isn’t all the time- but this is their mode of discipline. What is this?? Are they just authoritative jerks who demand absolute obedience even though they don’t listen to anyone??? Or do they have a real problem??? I honestly want to know. Like I said- not all the time- but definitely too much authority/ meanness/ control for toddlers.
Sounds like it’s just plain abusive.
Duality parenting got the human species right where we are...hamass...I very dangerous, "bully kid."
Sometimes one parent has all the types
lol…I’m every one you described. Every parent is. We don’t get instruction manuals. And our parents didnt either. Our kids? They didnt get one either and look8ng at the generations coming up they aren’t doing a very good job either
One of my parents is all of those.
Would some gentle parenting styles fall under this category?
I have both types
Lmao any parent who’s there everyday with a child and isn’t neglectful or abusive. And shows up for that child provides all the essentials food,shelter,clothes and hygiene is a bloody awesome parent doing a great job and if the other parent doesn’t see those kids at all and your alone … your doing great! Because labelling parents and parenting styles is as ludicrous as labelling a child who’s “normal”. they are Rockstars all Rockstars! ⭐️✌️
And maybe check how that parent was raised… CUZ IF my mom messes up my boundaries, what kind of parent do u think im gonna be? Even if I try and fix my own shit, my mom is right there telling my kid all kinds of garbage about me. its a shit soup. Don’t have children.
Or keep your kids away from your mother who is doing damage or go very low contact, where you can manage and control what she does.
@@jadegreen1554 easier said than done tho. Remember, emotional manipulation in single parent households is an Escape Room situation that is super difficult to get out from. Add in enough physical abuse from yer only source of survival and …yer decisions start becoming challenging.
Every parent falls in one of the categories this person mentions.
They definitely dont im sorry you feel like this is normal
I have to disagree with you. Some of them are very good at emotion: rage.
And what kind of parent are you? ??
Or dont you have children?