FTM: A Primary Care Physician, an Ultrasound Technician, & a Surgical Assistant
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- Опубликовано: 22 сен 2017
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I don't want to watch this video because I want to read it for myself, but I HAVE to watch this video because it's Skylar! 😂
Skylar, I just got your book in the mail and i already love it. Thank you for showing me its okay to be me and for giving great advice. Stay beautiful and stay postive
I LOVE having people read to me and you did such a good job both reading and writing it! :)
You should definitely read more chapters. It's a lot more personal when your reading it because it shows how you really felt in the moment. It lets us feel what you felt in the way you read it. Ahhh I can't wait to order my copy. I'm so proud of you. You've come such a long way & im happy that I've been here to see you go through it all. Love you so much sky
My mom has been reading your book and she loves it
You should totally do an audiobook, or at least read more chapters :3 .
I just bought your book. As a senior 74 MTF a few have asked that I write a book working on it
Thank you for reading this Skylar. I am so sorry you had to go through that. I so look forward to the day more people dont do this stuff. I feel like it is getting better in some places. Idk. It does make it so hard. I look forward to reading more of your book. Love you lots Sky!!
I enjoyed that. Would love another chapter read :)
Damn. I'm buying your book now sky!
Incredible reading I loved this video so much.
Stay happy and healthy buddy. ❤
Jeez, what stupid people there are. I have had a few similar experiences as a married gay man. I was in the Diabetic Foot Clinic and the nurse, a Nigerian woman, was giving me an antibiotic. She asked me whether I had someone to take care of me at home. I told her that my husband would do that. She looked at me kind of funny, and asked me, "But aren't you a Christian who goes to church?" I told her that yes, I was, yes I did, and not every church believes that samesex marriage is a sin. I told her that all the African people in church accepted my husband as my husband, they all loved him to bits, and we had been together for 19 years. She didn't say anything more, but I'm hoping she thought about the matter.
Thanks for telling us that part of your story. I'm sure it was hard going through it and writing about it. You're a strong dude.
Chris Hansen I am a gay trans man today and my husband is 26 years older we get some looks too lol . But all but my I laws have mostly been great .
I shake my head too at people lol
Also im so glad to hear your book is selling so well! That's amazing and you deserve it so much!
Just finished the audio book! Incredible! I learned a lot from your book. My neice is dating a trans man who i love dearly, but wanted to learn more so I could be more informed about what they might be experiencing. I had no idea the turmoil that trans people go through. Thank you for helping me along that path. 💜
As soon as I get paid I’m getting my hands on a copy!!!
Yes absolutely Sky you should read more as I've told you before I can't really read anymore because of some trauma issues. So I can only experience books in audio form without getting sick
I want this book. Thanks for sharing. You're incredible, Sky.
Hi Sky I really enjoyed the reading and will be grabbing up my own copy of you're book soon enough as i do love a good read and yours sounds awesome! much love Malachy.
Definitely read more chapters!!!
Sounds like a good-written book to me!! AWESOME DUDE. I am so sorry these things happened to you!!
You could read to me alllll day long. Man, those stories...
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you had to deal with all that crap! I was cringing throughout the video partly because those are just not fun experiences, but also because they are so recognizable and relatable! :/ One of the worst doctor appointments I ever had was when I was 12, and I went to see our family physician for my annual physical. She was a lesbian (which I don't have a problem with, but it's relevant information for this story), and she kept asking me all these super awkward questions about who I was attracted to. She kept asking me if I had crushes on boys or girls, and when I answered that I liked boys, she kept pressing me and pressing me about it, saying, "you know, you can tell me if you like girls; it's okay if you like girls", etc., etc., and it was just so frustrating because she just wouldn't listen or believe me! And THEN, she made me lie on the table, while she lifted up my pants so she could look around down there, and made really awkward comments about how things were "looking fine" and "healthy", etc. GOSH, it was AWFUL - and I was only TWELVE, for crying out loud!!! And what she really should have asked anyway was not "do you like boys or girls?", but rather, "would you rather BE a boy or a girl?" Because although I was biologically a "girl", I always knew I didn't want to be a girl - and it was pretty damn obvious; I was quite the "tomboy" and was always read as a boy by strangers at that age. And I was wearing boxer shorts (as I always did) under my baggy cargo pants at that appointment, too. Good lord, that woman turned me off of going to the doctor for the next few years, actually; I refused to go in for physicals for the longest time after that, because it was just so horrible. And to make things even more infuriating, my mom talked to this doctor a few years ago after I'd "come out" as a trans guy (because my mom still goes to this person as her primary physician), and the woman replied, "Ya' know, I always wondered that about that child..." Well jeez, woman, if you'd always wondered that, why didn't you tell me about puberty blockers and hormones and all those other things I could've done to stop the female puberty from ever happening in the first place?!!! Damn! Would've been nice to have known about, so I didn't have to go through such an awful adolescence of being ravaged by estrogen and then because of it had to go through top surgery, not to mention all the emotional crap that comes along with having a body that's not aligned with your gender identity... sigh. Oh, and I still am attracted to guys...so she really was wrong about that (which I tried to tell her...)
ANYWAY, I didn't start out with this comment intending to write that much (sorry), but this was just super relatable! And I was mad at many of these medical characters on your behalf throughout your reading. ...I could also relate to the big fat "F" on the medical bracelets, and to the ultrasounds...I had to go through cancer treatment a few years ago, at a point in my life when I had "socially" transitioned for the most part, and had actually just had top surgery (thank goodness), but my gender marker hadn't been changed yet, and I wasn't on T. So I had a mix of really great hospital experiences during cancer treatment, where people actually looked at the notes on my chart about my pronouns and my situation, as well as kind of bad experiences, where people totally just called me a girl or a "young woman" and "she/her"-ed me.
Anyway, thank you so much for sharing this, Sky! I definitely need to go order your book now!!! :) And sorry again you had to go through those things; I feel ya'... :/
I am sorry to hear that you had to be discriminated by those bigots. You are such a lovely guy and its breaks my heart that so many folks have been so horrible you. You are so brave and so strong and I admire you for that. I love you so much Sky ❤️ I cannot wait to read your book and be even more inspired by you. I am so proud of you ❤️ much love and many hugs to you sky ❤️ 🌈🤗
Are you going to do an audiobook? You remember what I do for a living, so it would be great if I could just ride down the road and listen to the whole thing.
Nice story!
Omg I am going to have to buy ur book omg love it I love watching ur videos 💖💗💛💓💚💙💜💞❤😍
Could you read the one with the Altoids tin, I forgot the name of the chapter but I loved it.
Thanks for sharing this Skylar ! Need to get my hands on your book :) I hate to hear about this horrible discrimination you faced. Hits home. Hopefully when I go to work in a hospital I can create more positive experiences for my trans siblings. hugs
I really need to get your memoir!
BTW I am CjAsh from YouNow!
When I can afford to buy it, I will. I like what I've heard from it so far, makes me want to read all of it ^_^ One day!
u: an actual angel
i loved it :(( if i wasnt a broke college student id buy it :( 💕💕💕
Something like this happened to me recently... Every doc in my area has refused to help me with my injections (and I get sick so I can't do them myself). @ anyone who thinks this is rare: it really isn't.
Id love so much to have a copy of your book, but the shipping is just too much, it makes me very sad. I live in England so the shipping costs significantly more than the book itself :(
the hand on your shoulder, what does it mean?
love that....but WHY are you uploading less and less videos....I want more of your postings
YAY YOUR BACK 😁
Also I'm sorry for all the transphobic comments and people throughout your life
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You’re so brave for putting your life in a book for everyone to read! I’m sorry for all the transphobia you experienced
YO!!!!!
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In regards to the last story, i think you might have dug yourself a hole by telling the girl that "im 6 months on hormones and i feel great". Thats generally pretty personal information so after telling her that im not suprised that she took it as a queue to ask you personal questions
I was asked at my husband family bq ok so you are half man half women lol how are you and mike going to work lol . Well I will be getting top surgery bottom I told her no lol . Sex will be the same lol
But now I am really considering bottom surgery but I am not sure which one to get .
Sky love your book please read more it sounds amazing you should do a book on tape but have it for iTunes .
How unbelievably unprofessional are the health care workers you have had to endure.