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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
  • Almost 30 years old, divorced dad Innis has spent the last year dodging creditors and crashing on his mother’s couch. Now he’s got a new girlfriend and he’s so busy spending his cash on her that he hasn’t made a single debt repayment. Innis’s mom and girlfriend want to see him back on his feet and living in his own apartment, but unless Innis steps up to the plate, that’s never gong to happen. Gail is just the gal to give Innis the push he needs. .
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Комментарии • 191

  • @caseyhill636
    @caseyhill636 2 месяца назад +10

    From what I have read online, Innis was quite a champion for the rights of the elderly and was a hero trying to fight for improved care for his mother in long term care. There’s a wonderful podcast that featured him and the whole family story. He may have been going through a hard time during this show, he seemed to have made a wonderful use of his life and loved his family and children very deeply. ❤

  • @OneMamaToAnother
    @OneMamaToAnother 5 месяцев назад +13

    Her comment about not throwing the relationship away over something like money shows her lack of insight. He has 2 children and is only working 25 hours a week and living on his mom's couch. Motivation, commitment, and selflessness are what's the problem.

  • @Rooneytunes01
    @Rooneytunes01 2 года назад +274

    Guys - this show was filmed almost 15 years ago. He recently passed away and both of his children have posted comments here. Ask yourself if a judgmental comment about a version of a man from 15 years ago is kind or necessary. May he Rest In Peace.

    • @deborahmeek6529
      @deborahmeek6529 Год назад +19

      Oh that’s sad that’s pretty young like 44

    • @robertwhelan9132
      @robertwhelan9132 Год назад +16

      Hope he got out of debt so that his children aren't affected by it. RIP

    • @kli9005
      @kli9005 Год назад +25

      Sorry to hear but do you pass judgement on others that you do not know? I am sure that you do. All of these showed were filmed years ago.

    • @teresahegerich8835
      @teresahegerich8835 Год назад +3

      Oh my.

    • @ebonylewis1680
      @ebonylewis1680 Год назад +3

      Wow so sad 😞

  • @nakkalinaani6464
    @nakkalinaani6464 Год назад +37

    He took the tough truth like a champ and worked on himself! Good on him 💜

  • @gardencookeat22
    @gardencookeat22 5 часов назад

    Watching this show hit home with my situation. Knowing he was a good man and a champion for the elderly, this gives me hope❤

  • @ruthirwin8222
    @ruthirwin8222 5 дней назад +1

    He did soooo well im sure his mum is so proud of him, he really took the challenges like a man, one of the best

  • @rileyingram6437
    @rileyingram6437 2 года назад +222

    I miss his voice so much. Before y’all talk ur shit in the comments he was an incredible man and father. This was in 2008 and not enough to form an opinion of him.

    • @delshandheldgames
      @delshandheldgames 2 года назад +35

      Sorry to hear about his passing. He seems like a decent man to me, Riley, and you’re right it was a long time ago and you can never truly know about a person just from a TV show.

    • @710LENNY
      @710LENNY 2 года назад +20

      So sorry to hear his passing. It looks like he got his act together though, so I hope you all had a happy family life. This must seem a very strange version of home movies for you.

    • @firefox1578
      @firefox1578 2 года назад +34

      I’m so sorry that you lost him. I read what he did to bring attention to the poor care of his mother at her retirement home. That is so admirable. He seemed like such a good person. Sucks people are judging him solely on this.

    • @colleenduffy1139
      @colleenduffy1139 2 года назад +17

      So sorry you lost your Dad.

    • @americandevo
      @americandevo 2 года назад +15

      He didn't seem to be very responsible but I'm sure he was a nice guy.

  • @laurhawk
    @laurhawk 11 месяцев назад +16

    Everyone telling Rachel to run… I hope Innis ran from her. The way she spoke about having the kids live with them, even as a part time scenario was a 🚩

    • @notoriousnic727
      @notoriousnic727 11 дней назад +1

      I was looking for this comment. I am so sad to hear he died. He seemed like a good dad, just in a down part of his life. May he rest in peace. God bless his family. 🙏🏼

  • @amyannshipyor4096
    @amyannshipyor4096 Год назад +57

    It’s sad to hear that he passed away at 45 years old. His children would be fresh out of high school and going off to university. I hope he learned a lesson from the show and enjoyed the time with his children and Rachael.

    • @sarah3796
      @sarah3796 Год назад +3

      Oh my. How did you know this sad news?

    • @tatianagranger2427
      @tatianagranger2427 Год назад +2

      God bless his family. I can’t imagine how rough it has been without their dad. I hope this show brings some comfort to his family and friends. I would love an entire show to watch that captured the smiles and laughs of them.

  • @vicaria119
    @vicaria119 2 года назад +30

    Glad he got his stuff together, divorce must be so horrible, Gail is so no nonsense.

  • @christinageddis156
    @christinageddis156 2 года назад +50

    Don't feel sorry for Rachel she's sitting there accepting all the gifts from him no one he's in debt

  • @bookmagicroe9553
    @bookmagicroe9553 2 года назад +39

    One glaring omission: the cost of raising children. Does he owe child support? Or does he have equal custody? It does not address
    his financial obligations to supporting the children....

    • @mariayelruh
      @mariayelruh 2 года назад +5

      He likely has child support taken out of his check.

    • @robertwhelan9132
      @robertwhelan9132 Год назад +2

      Maybe his wages were getting garnished?

    • @ek2137
      @ek2137 Год назад +6

      He certainly didn't have equal custody of his children because he didn't have anywhere fir the children to live.

    • @pattimartin859
      @pattimartin859 Год назад

      Exactly

    • @deborahblackvideoediting8697
      @deborahblackvideoediting8697 Год назад +1

      I was thinking about that, too. Child support for two children is a lot, and the topic should have at least been mentioned.

  • @nicolelewis7843
    @nicolelewis7843 Год назад +24

    I didn’t realize this show was on 15 years ago. I’m sorry he passed away.

  • @vannisworld
    @vannisworld 2 года назад +83

    You know, it seems like he was just going through a bit of depression with losing his family and sleeping in his car. He just needed a kick to get him out of it. He took it pretty well after that.

  • @the.blue.raven7777
    @the.blue.raven7777 Год назад +2

    Gail actually appreciated their efforts. Such a nice family

  • @denisebarker9288
    @denisebarker9288 2 года назад +24

    I'm sorry to hear of his passing. You can see he lived his children and could possibly make a life with Rachel. Hope everything worked out.

  • @soonerjane8966
    @soonerjane8966 Год назад +18

    Love watching this show. Parents aren't doing their kids a favor by NOT teaching them to live within their means. To be 30 years old and have nothing is not only sad - it appears parents have never taught him responsibility.

  • @annkirshner4468
    @annkirshner4468 2 года назад +54

    His main concern is his future with Rachel? Not his kids or being able to support himself

    • @o0laieta0o
      @o0laieta0o Год назад +3

      They probably cut that sentance off tbh

    • @pamsmith1665
      @pamsmith1665 2 дня назад

      Thinking with the little head

  • @AndyinMTL
    @AndyinMTL Год назад +6

    RIP Brother!!!!

  • @murderofcrows7738
    @murderofcrows7738 2 года назад +91

    This man went on to be a great advocate for his mother and others in care homes. Upon his recent passing Jagmeet Singh tweeted:
    “The sudden loss of Innis Ingram is saddening and a shock to many who knew him.
    The work of unpaid caregivers is often unseen.
    However, Innis' advocacy and his fight for the betterment of conditions for his mother and all in long-term care will not be forgotten.”
    We have all made mistakes and grown. It’s important to keep that in mind as you decide to make harsh comments and judge someone based on a tiny snapshot of their life.

    • @candace3493
      @candace3493 Год назад +2

      @dreamland what are you even talking about? The abuses in long term care homes have been addressed by all political parties in Canada. Naturally they all have different political philosophies on tackling the problem.

  • @nancyaguirre2307
    @nancyaguirre2307 2 года назад +30

    If he actually woke up, and he is taking care of his kids the way he cares for Rachel, then Rachel just has to be sure she’s ready to jump in. Gail gave her a glimpse to see if she could handle it. Smarty

  • @keithjacobson1640
    @keithjacobson1640 Год назад +9

    So sad to hear that he is deceased. Awful.

  • @Mikeinreallife92
    @Mikeinreallife92 Год назад +6

    This version of him is just about the norm for “men” in America now. They should watch this and learn from his mistakes and become a man like he did.

  • @matthewgardner2144
    @matthewgardner2144 Год назад +4

    What a catch!

  • @robinricart3155
    @robinricart3155 Год назад +6

    Where is the child support?

  • @brendasuelong-bryant3855
    @brendasuelong-bryant3855 2 года назад +18

    Does he pay child support? I haven't heard that mentioned!

  • @jenjones90
    @jenjones90 Год назад +14

    Seems like he was a great father, but he made the mistake a lot of men make which is to basically pay for the love and attention of a pretty woman.

  • @brendasuelong-bryant7613
    @brendasuelong-bryant7613 2 года назад +7

    Run Girl run! He will never cgange!

  • @annkirshner4468
    @annkirshner4468 2 года назад +21

    So what does she see in him?

  • @williamegler8771
    @williamegler8771 2 года назад +18

    He could conceivably make $6,000 a month in addition to his regular sales job but he prefers to be in debt and living on his mother's couch?

    • @haute03
      @haute03 Год назад +11

      Depression will do that to you. Glad he got it together.

    • @CocoaPuff01
      @CocoaPuff01 Год назад +4

      Yes, he'd rather live the single life instead of being a father with children. He's basically ignoring his kids to spend all his time with Rachel

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 7 месяцев назад +1

      Judgemental much?

  • @aprilshorty4094
    @aprilshorty4094 2 года назад +52

    Rachel you better run while you can and I hope he's taking care of his children

    • @rileyingram6437
      @rileyingram6437 2 года назад +73

      That’s my dad. I’m the little girl in this. He died and he was an incredible father and man. Him and Rachel divorced many years ago.

    • @sarasarah3404
      @sarasarah3404 2 года назад +22

      @@rileyingram6437 sorry for the loss of your dad

    • @janebaker4912
      @janebaker4912 2 года назад +9

      @@rileyingram6437 hello Riley. I have so many questions! I know you're only 17 but maybe do you think they shouldn't have married in the first place? How long did the marriage last? Did Rachel have children with your father? Did you have a good relationship with your step mom? Do you still keep in contact with her?
      Watching this I would have told her to run. Being a step mom is very hard (I'm one) and he doesn't seam to be in a good place in his life.
      I had a step mom too and when my father choose to end his life this step mom, who my dad had broken up with, come to claim all his assets.

    • @valeryjohnson7937
      @valeryjohnson7937 2 года назад +11

      @@rileyingram6437 that divorce was easily predictable. I would never hook up with a guy that is not doing EVERYTHING to take financial and other responsibility.

    • @hollyb6885
      @hollyb6885 2 года назад +18

      I’m so sorry to hear that you lost your dad.

  • @kaytaylor4698
    @kaytaylor4698 Год назад +10

    I know these are really old but I wish they had done follow ups a few years later to see how they are going!!

    • @matsiepan
      @matsiepan Год назад +4

      He passed away last year. His mother is in long term care and was treated atrociously during the pandemic. He protested, did hunger strikes, etc.

    • @MM-gu8tk
      @MM-gu8tk Год назад +2

      @@matsiepan that is so sad

  • @gillianpeake-garraway1812
    @gillianpeake-garraway1812 2 года назад +27

    I don’t think he should have any entertainment money.

    • @rileyingram6437
      @rileyingram6437 2 года назад +4

      This was in 2008 lmao

    • @sarasarah3404
      @sarasarah3404 2 года назад +10

      Entertainment budget is essential. No one can go months without adding SOME life worth living experiences

    • @hollyb6885
      @hollyb6885 2 года назад +6

      @@sarasarah3404 There are lots of free things to do. Also Rachel could pay for a dinner out or concert tickets.

    • @sarasarah3404
      @sarasarah3404 2 года назад +3

      @@hollyb6885 there is for sure. But you need to budget some spending money for life enrichment. Its not sustainable to just do free stuff

    • @hollyb6885
      @hollyb6885 2 года назад +4

      @@sarasarah3404 We did it for a few months until we got ahead of some bills. I wouldn’t want to do it forever and no one has to if they are diligent for a while.

  • @brendasuelong-bryant3855
    @brendasuelong-bryant3855 2 года назад +17

    Girl Friend needs to take long look before she Hooks up with him!

  • @Adb143
    @Adb143 Год назад +4

    Never too late to learn financial planning

  • @brendasuelong-bryant3855
    @brendasuelong-bryant3855 2 года назад +10

    Innis, GROW UP!!

  • @daniellep6807
    @daniellep6807 18 дней назад +1

    He’s actually likable and seems intelligent, he just needed a kick in the butt!

  • @kstu055
    @kstu055 9 месяцев назад

    He’s rather hilarious lol

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits Год назад +4

    I assume his money also goes to alimony and child support and if she thinks she can live with that that she will always come second.

  • @lizzie1897
    @lizzie1897 3 дня назад +2

    Go back to your wife and raise your children. Now that you’ve grown up, you and your wife can make it. Rachel drop this guy. Start fresh with a single guy.

    • @lizzie1897
      @lizzie1897 3 дня назад +1

      Gail’s bringing the kids into the condo was brilliant

    • @pamsmith1665
      @pamsmith1665 2 дня назад

      He is dead

  • @aidaningram1017
    @aidaningram1017 2 года назад +6

    “Aidan”

  • @dcg590
    @dcg590 Год назад +7

    Rachel, RUN.

    • @mymail1938
      @mymail1938 6 часов назад

      Why? As if he was a psychopath or something. So unkind.

  • @dollz2030
    @dollz2030 Год назад +4

    How did you find out he died?

    • @betsy658
      @betsy658 Год назад

      His daughter posted here in the comments. Look for the rileyingram name.

  • @mpdnd1335
    @mpdnd1335 Год назад +5

    How is it that he doesn't have to pay child support? Nothing along that line was brought up.

  • @celinereyes1185
    @celinereyes1185 2 года назад +27

    i’m so glad gail involved his kids. women who come into messed up homes are almost just as bad as home wreckers. if the mom dies they go to him full time ! and that means you too

  • @roxy4158
    @roxy4158 Год назад

    So sad 😪

  • @bunnylover6481
    @bunnylover6481 Год назад +3

    I hope Rachel didn't stick around. He couldn't afford to date anyone.

  • @valeryjohnson7937
    @valeryjohnson7937 2 года назад +9

    I am confused he has children where are they in the budget? And she isn't use to this... finds it difficult! Guarantee if they marry, the minute they have children, he (and she) will toss his kids... Sad.

    • @hollyb6885
      @hollyb6885 2 года назад +11

      I’m thinking the child support is considered a fixed expense so Gail didn’t allow for it in the variable expenses.

    • @rileyingram6437
      @rileyingram6437 2 года назад +30

      My dad took care of my brother and I.

    • @alisatjaden3906
      @alisatjaden3906 2 года назад +3

      @@rileyingram6437 Sending you and your brother So Much Love!! ❤🤗❤

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 2 года назад +7

      @@rileyingram6437 I am hoping that your lives are going well.🤞🏼He was too young to pass - so very sorry for your loss.💔Your dad was willing to humble himself enough to teach us all - thank you!

  • @brendasuelong-bryant3855
    @brendasuelong-bryant3855 2 года назад +5

    Grow up! 25 hours per week?

  • @kimberlyfamoly1963
    @kimberlyfamoly1963 Год назад +4

    Hope his mom got a new couch.

  • @teenjules2309
    @teenjules2309 Год назад +1

    Be kind people. It's just money. The ridiculously rich have dictated to us plebs for to long. We will be poor but happy. Why pay any bills if that's the case? Global goals my ass

    • @alexxx7066
      @alexxx7066 Год назад +3

      You will own nothing and be happy lol 😂 it was good while it lasted

  • @haweater1555
    @haweater1555 Год назад

    9:06 $20 bill in a jar that supposed to have a $17.50 budget.

  • @Frissdas1207
    @Frissdas1207 Год назад +5

    This dude looks like a ginger Elon Musk

  • @craftingallartpeaceful695
    @craftingallartpeaceful695 2 года назад +19

    I found his story online he apparently died from hunger strike because of the treatment of his mother at a nursing home 🤔

    • @teresahegerich8835
      @teresahegerich8835 Год назад +3

      Oh no! I'm sorry about his mom too.

    • @ykook7000
      @ykook7000 Год назад +14

      he did Not die from the hunger strike it was months after ...he did the hunger strike for only 3 days

    • @craftingallartpeaceful695
      @craftingallartpeaceful695 Год назад +3

      @@ykook7000 oh okay thanks

    • @CocoaPuff01
      @CocoaPuff01 Год назад +1

      @@craftingallartpeaceful695 liar

  • @roxannehouse4408
    @roxannehouse4408 2 года назад +9

    Boo hoo! I may have to work more! Geeeeez

  • @marlenemaschke3763
    @marlenemaschke3763 Год назад +2

    Gail mail.

  • @financialfreedom1991
    @financialfreedom1991 5 дней назад +1

    He looks like Elon Mask

  • @RebellionWarrior
    @RebellionWarrior Год назад +5

    Oh, well, the creditors cannot make him pay when he is already dead. May his soul “Rest in Peace”.

  • @pmeehan_3
    @pmeehan_3 2 года назад +5

    Did he just say to his daughter that she is a relationship sabotager. That's not gonna cause issues down the line.

  • @chaselesser3191
    @chaselesser3191 2 года назад +3

    If he took his couch to the streets and did that. And posted it on RUclips. He would get views and start making money.

  • @marshhen
    @marshhen Год назад +9

    It would be respectful to take this down or simply close it to comments. This nice man is dead and only his children suffer from negative comments.

    • @jenjones90
      @jenjones90 Год назад +4

      Everyone featured on the show will eventually die.
      We know the show is only a snapshot and he was basically paid to be judged. His kids shouldn't be getting upset cause this was him from a very long time ago.

  • @kaydublin5164
    @kaydublin5164 2 года назад +5

    Run girl, run as fast as you can, get away HES a mess.

  • @chloecamp8714
    @chloecamp8714 Год назад +7

    This guy is so behind developmentally,

  • @michellhong726
    @michellhong726 2 года назад +9

    I’m so sorry. I hate the fact that a tiny moment of weakness in a good man’s life now become immortal with internet. This is exploitation of a good man. Appalling that his passing won’t change that. You would think they would be deferent to a dead man not to broadcast his lowest point in life.

    • @RebellionWarrior
      @RebellionWarrior Год назад +5

      Oh please, I am sure that he is not the only one. It is stressful, though but very educational though.

    • @CocoaPuff01
      @CocoaPuff01 Год назад +2

      He ignored his children and saw them as burdens to his relationship with Rachel. People do not become saints and all their bad actions disappear just because they pass away

  • @jonathondoey7801
    @jonathondoey7801 2 года назад +6

    It is what it is, the guy got paid and was given free help to be on the show. He was a complete loser at the time and it's a good lesson for others.

    • @alvatorresv
      @alvatorresv Год назад

      He’s dead, shut the hell up and have some respect.

  • @mariaferreras4369
    @mariaferreras4369 2 года назад +6

    Immature moocher!
    Divorced people don’t get that first family’s responsibilities come first. Those they are with now need to realize there are two kids. Already part of the picture! Yours will not be priority in the wait to have a family.

  • @mymail1938
    @mymail1938 6 часов назад

    So, what exactly is hydro?