This is what happens to me 1. I usually get tilted when something "wrong" happens. Like if there's lag, or I run into a move that looked like it wouldn't hit me **cough** Ikes F-smash **cough** but did. And then I just spiral down into madness. 2. Afterwards, I'll probably run into someone really good at the game, while I'm here raging. Once they destroy me, i get mad at myself for not being as good to even give my opponent competition. I then cut off the game and won't play for a while, out of fear that I'm gonna get angry again, and i don't want to view smash as salt simulator
Hero Same thing happens to me... I just avoid online play now and stick to playing with physical friends. Online play tends to send me down a spiral of depression and self loathing.
I feel that, except the second part, when I get my ass handed too me on a silver platter by a good player, of course I'm annoyed, but I lost to the player not the character. Knowing that, I can properly understand what I did wrong an build off that newfound knowlage.
@Hero I feel that so hard, especially when I'm playing offline and it feels like the game's input lag is really high for some reason. I've died more than once to my jumps not coming out and raged pretty badly
Normally, I keep my emotions in check. In smash however, I can lose it quick depending on the situation. Just seeing my opponent hover over Ness with the selection hand gives me a slight aneurysm. Because of my perfectly ultimate great rage toward Ness. When he locks me up with pk fire and does literally everything from edgeguarding to attacking with a controller made of gamecube b buttons and a control stick, it's a herculean task not to lose it completely. In public, it's a lot easier to keep myself in check, because I know it's not socially acceptable, even if I'm having the worst day of my life, and for some reason it's just easier to keep a level head while I'm out at the mall during a local tourney. At home it's a different story. I nearly smacked my tv with a rubber prop axe I was so tilted. I'll also roar like a demented lion if I see something particularly unacceptable that happened to me, see my example with Ness. I have some issues with characters and some mechanics I can't seem to grasp, as well, seeing GSP drop to whale poo tier due to a teabagging pk spamming Ness is soul crushing. I have some work to do, and normally I'm a pretty happy guy. I should be taking to heart the lessons I've learned here today. One day, I'll refuse to lose it when a ness inevitably hits me with their 7000th pk fire bullcrap, but it may take a while.
So then just do what's best for you and either play another game, or take a break from smash. Hell, just try doing something else other than playing games.
The ironic thing is that most high level ness players don't spam PK Fire. What does that tell you? Also, all you have to do is SDI out and shield. If they start grabbing, oos option. Simple and easy
It's not a guy, it's a bot. Proguides loves to put games against bots WHEN GAMES WITH REAL PERSONS ARE JUST WAY BETTER WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT PROGUIDES???
@@Jem-Fury It's not easier or faster, they can just play online and record/download the game like thet were doing. And also it's not the same person who is every games
I played against a ness that just kept spamming Pk fire over and over and over again... I believe that might’ve been a day I broke one of my controllers
@@PrinceTrexus what just made me quit playing smash competitively was the lag. Nothing infuriates me more than pressing a button and watching my character stand their like an idiot. I'll just play smash offline from now on.
@@Rider-fl4gf If only people listened to what we say. Like, learn to SDI. Look up training videos other than the Ganon meme montage for the hundredth time. Listen to advice from people who know what what they're doing rather than calling them a sweat. It's so simple to do, and yet people online, even some over 20 years old, have problems doing so. I don't understand people sometimes...
I think this guide might be very helpful to practically any level that the player is on in Smash Ultimate. I recommend you like this video and put it in a watch later to restudy it if you’re in a bad mood.
Tip: Quickplay will just get you frustrated. Losta lame-os on there that play super skilllessly. You might even lose to them cuz you can't punish due to lag.
That's why Elite Smash sucks in general. I don't know what's more unbelievable: a Ganon fishing for f smash and warlock punch in neutral being the "world's best" or Marth somehow being extremely busted, according to my siblings and their friends
@@survivorofthecurse717 when I still played Ultimate, I found it much more enjoyable to find a discord and play with people that are for sure near me geographically.
i'm glad that this kind of topic have so much meaning even in pro guides, this game can bring all kind of emotions and personal issues but it also can be a tool to fight the real world, i like to think that the world is like smash, you will have epic battles, you will face despair and anxiety, you gonna have ups and downs, but if you want to get good and reach the top you must be patient , grateful and cofident that you have the tools to face anything.
I wish this video came out earlier. Last tournament i was in i was up against my bracket demon round 1 and it was an even game until something crashed on the switch and then we moved to a different setup and he bodied me
I feel like there is an extra point to be said. You say "recognise what you have control over", which is correct, but we also must recognise what we do not have control over and accept it in an attempt to not get tilted by it. For example, we know that when Palu hits us with that nair that we are taking 50%. For many, this is a pet peeve and will start tilting us. This is also a pet peeve that we cannot realistically avoid, like the mention of playing online. We need to recognise that this is an element of the game and Palu is considered by many a top tier because of her high damaging tools. We should attempt to prepare ourselves, and tell ourselves that we will likely get hit by this move and take a ton of damage, so when it happens we can stay on top of our emotions and fight back. Getting tilted by these types of moves and scenarios is not going to help you get better, but accepting that these scenarios are a part of the game will help in staying calm and help prevent a salty mindset, keeping you more focused and allowing you to stay in the game.
What tilts me the most is getting combo'd by somebody like Ken or Pikachu. I'm an extremely vocal person, so I usually have to let my anger out by cursing (I only do this when playing online, so I'm not doing it in my opponent's face, at least). This video will probably prove helpful in the near future, when I start going to locals again after the hiatus I'm taking to finish uni!
I was watching this video while raging being destroyed by annoying inkling in my own arena. But by the end of the video I got HIM TO RAGE QUITE! Thanks!
“If a person gave your body to any stranger he met on his way, you would certainly be angry. And do you feel no shame in handing over your own mind to be confused and mystified by anyone who happens to verbally attack you?” - Epictetus
I'm usually a calm, rational and controlled person. Smash is the only thing in this world that can get me tilted so damn fast. Like, Dragon Ball Z levels of tilted. If smash had voice chat, I'd probably be in jail for personal offendings or something lol
2:21 Who knows how many times that guy opened the down B menu looking for Thwack? Who knows how many times he threw Thwack until it finally killed at 0%? I'm pretty sure his actual reaction at that moment was the complete oposite of what we hear in the video.
This jiggly puff has been edge guarding me for the past 3 hours and I have mixed up my recovery MANY times why does it feel like I can do absolutely nothing against this I air dodge he reads it I go high he reads if I go low he reads it anything I do even if I change it a lot does anyone have tips to help that
They left out violent anger. The kind that boils your blood on the spot and makes every cell in your body treat this normally unimportant event as a literal fight for your life. If you find yourself in this camp, as I do, then it's actually good to let it out mid match. Punch your thighs, smack your head, beat your chest. It might look terribly salty, but these people usually cant afford to wait until the match is over. It's better to end up on a saltier moments list than end up in the slammer for assault.
Smash online brings me to a point of anger I never knew I had (glad I own a punchingbag). In person I can look at them and say GG's and not feel bad because they were just oblivious better but online I lose to lag, lag switchers, and spammers that you can easily beat offline but can't online. People are less toxic in person because you can easily put them in their place because most of the time online players are the quietest and "pussies" you meet and this goes for every other game too.
Hidden message at 12:19 that the narrator doesn't say and is visible only with the captions turned on: "Anime could be a good idea! But if you're super sad maybe skip Evangelion and watch Jojo instead
What do you guys think of my own form of Terry Bogard JABJABPOWERDUNK Rage style shirt (Fox Rage)? Uair Uair Nair Uair DashJabJabMultijabDash UtiltUtiltUtilt M A S S P H JabJabU
This is very informative. I definitely relate as playing online is often very mentally deteriorating for me. You definitely feel like the worst player in the world if you lose. I’ll try to keep these things in mind. Although, I cannot quite say I agree with what you were saying about how emotions originated. There are many problems with the theories behind and they’re all just assumptions based on the evolutionary model (which also has tons of problems). For instance, what you said about guilt, which is what we get when we know we’ve done something wrong. I agree with that but if that emotion is really evolutionary, what then sets the standard of “right” and “wrong” that the guilt emotion goes by? I know that isn’t what this video is really about, it’s about how to keep calm when Ness PK fires you to 80 percent and back throws you, when sonic uses his neutral B over and over again on you, when Luigi or Dr. Mario uses their very stupid invincible down B’s, and when you go against hero, sephiroth, or pyra/mythra in general
Good video. This is something I've rather had issues with lately. Not necessarily only in the game, but also in real life. It's good to have some help reflecting like this
I can't express enough on how helpful this was! Sometimes I focus too much on winning and let the dumbest thing get the better of me. I ain't no tournament player, but I am a decent player that plays a lot of online matches. I never act out in anger by down smashing my controller ( *controllers ain't cheap you know!* ) when I lose to a laggy Snake player or a spamming PK Fire Ness that T-bags you after every stock. I'm more implosive and I admittedly just close the game mid match when I get really salty, then I usually take a break by either playing another game or work on my drawings to cool off, but sometimes I just keep thinking about how my opponent did so-and-so to me when I know I should've won, which keeps me angry ( *and i'm NOT one of those people that log into Twitter ranting about a character that should be nerfed* ). It does hurt a lot seeing you GSP go down, and getting that notification that you got booted off Elite, but I do know that the end of the day it's just a number. But anyway, in general I do take control of my emotions even before I watched this video, and I agree that it is unhealthy to hold in emotions.
Ok. I'm an Introvert. What sets me off? Ok. So, CPUs because they be like "Oh, He'S gOnNa F-aIr? GoOd ThInG i'M a CpU aNd CaN jUsT pIcK a MoVe ThAt OuTfRaMeS iT! HeH hEh" and people online. Guess I gotta play friendlies, FRICK.
I just broke my controller and I feel so angry and ashamed of myself. I'm a fairly good player, but lately I've just been losing A LOT, from the simplest things, to lag and latency. I turned the game off and walked away at first, but immediately came back, telling myself I'm not this bad, just try harder. In a match, I read Sephiroth's F-air, hit the dodge button, and still got hit cuz it didn't come out in time and lost. I threw my controller down and now I'm just mad at myself because I knew to walk away and take a break. Online isn't perfect anyway, but I feel like I should've adjusted or change playstyles. Or again, take a break.
Breathing is also free! And my personal outlet is kicking the crap out of every opponent I come across after my GSP drops by 2mil. “Oh you just started playing smash 2 days ago? Aww that’s cute. Allow me to introduce you to the game by stomping you into oblivion.”
Holy shit I didn't know repressing your emotions can mess your shit up. Welp... uh. I gotta go to the doctor and make sure I'm good lol. Mostly anger...
I was listening to this after a rough night of getting teamed on in ffa arenas and getting tbagged until the timer ran out. At some parts of the video, I almost began tearing up when talk of mental management and possible outlets came up. I can’t use some methods due to my total lack of friends. Do I need therapy?
Im not gonna lie i barely play online because i get mad with all the trash people, spammers, laggy connections, toxic characters , trolls, t-bag ughhhhhh i nearly break my switch whenever i fight that people
I’m just dropping quitplay. I notice I’m much happier when I’m on arenas and not playing against some degenerate mario who spams cape and f-air trying to get those “sIcK cLiPs!!!!”
For those that struggle with aggression keep some folded up pieces of paper in your pocket and tear one up when it gets to be too much. It is far far better than punching a wall or another person.
Im here from a spammy mario in random battle arenas that kept doing neutral b to dash attack for some reason. And everytime godamn tIME I WAS AT the gODAMN LEDGE He sAiD "f SMASH WILL WORK WONDERS" AND IT gOt me everytime.
My problem is that I'm the player among my friends and I myself am somewhat casually great player but really just beginning to understand competitive game. As a best player among my friends I'm thinking high of myself and I have noticed it is really damaging for me. So whenever I get my ass whooped by online I say stuff like: "Nah he is not that great player." I'm really ashamed of that even though I constantly do it. It might reflect on my insecurity and fear that I will never be competitive because it feel like I should have started competitive earlier when I was younger. Now I feel I can't never learn how to play competitive smash.
6:45 except Pit, hes the most honest character in the game. What can you hate about the guy? Dark Pit you can technically hate his "cheap" side B killing you at the edge at 60% but Pit? come on
@@merijns3446 dont think thats considered cheap. Young links arrows are way worse. Strong, fast, lagless and combo to a kill move. Pit's arrows dont do that =P
@@juanoshigeru no, but that's not my point, they can still be frustrating to play against and can feel very cheap if you get gimped by someone spamming arrows at ledge
I'm not a fan of the nair spam and then they wait with an arrow when you knock them off the platform so I dont even get the pleasure of properly styling on them for their dickheaded behavior
One thing: always accept a loss. Disconnecting in the middle of a match shows weakness, and your opponent will be even more confident if you get matched again.
For me I mainly get annoyed when I lose to lag or a character gimmick or just sd like a dumbass, but I never find myself getting too salty when I get dropped by a better player, because I know I can learn from them and use that to better my performance What I learned after a while is that you get salty when you feel as if you lost to the character and not when you lose to the player
Since ive been working on my mentals my gameplay improve immensely and is still improving and repressing your emotions is bad, I've learn to accept that when I'm salty I accept it and try and figure out why I am salty and how I can change it to happy or determined
This is a whole counseling session
Pog
Deadaaaaaaaassss lol
This is what happens to me
1. I usually get tilted when something "wrong" happens. Like if there's lag, or I run into a move that looked like it wouldn't hit me **cough** Ikes F-smash **cough** but did. And then I just spiral down into madness.
2. Afterwards, I'll probably run into someone really good at the game, while I'm here raging. Once they destroy me, i get mad at myself for not being as good to even give my opponent competition. I then cut off the game and won't play for a while, out of fear that I'm gonna get angry again, and i don't want to view smash as salt simulator
Hero Same thing happens to me...
I just avoid online play now and stick to playing with physical friends. Online play tends to send me down a spiral of depression and self loathing.
Me too but my bad thing is that no one wants to play with me
I feel that, except the second part, when I get my ass handed too me on a silver platter by a good player, of course I'm annoyed, but I lost to the player not the character. Knowing that, I can properly understand what I did wrong an build off that newfound knowlage.
Holy shit this is the exact same thing that happens to me. Like word for word.
@Hero I feel that so hard, especially when I'm playing offline and it feels like the game's input lag is really high for some reason. I've died more than once to my jumps not coming out and raged pretty badly
"One game at a time ralph"
-Zangief
Normally, I keep my emotions in check. In smash however, I can lose it quick depending on the situation. Just seeing my opponent hover over Ness with the selection hand gives me a slight aneurysm. Because of my perfectly ultimate great rage toward Ness. When he locks me up with pk fire and does literally everything from edgeguarding to attacking with a controller made of gamecube b buttons and a control stick, it's a herculean task not to lose it completely. In public, it's a lot easier to keep myself in check, because I know it's not socially acceptable, even if I'm having the worst day of my life, and for some reason it's just easier to keep a level head while I'm out at the mall during a local tourney. At home it's a different story. I nearly smacked my tv with a rubber prop axe I was so tilted. I'll also roar like a demented lion if I see something particularly unacceptable that happened to me, see my example with Ness. I have some issues with characters and some mechanics I can't seem to grasp, as well, seeing GSP drop to whale poo tier due to a teabagging pk spamming Ness is soul crushing. I have some work to do, and normally I'm a pretty happy guy. I should be taking to heart the lessons I've learned here today. One day, I'll refuse to lose it when a ness inevitably hits me with their 7000th pk fire bullcrap, but it may take a while.
Fuck ness dude
I hate Ness just as much as you do. But I hate Young Link more. I literally cursed and screamed at the TV fighting one yesterday
As a Ness main, I'm sorry. But there are ways around him. A lot of pk spammers keep their distance. Rushing down with a bit of patience usually works
So then just do what's best for you and either play another game, or take a break from smash. Hell, just try doing something else other than playing games.
The ironic thing is that most high level ness players don't spam PK Fire. What does that tell you?
Also, all you have to do is SDI out and shield. If they start grabbing, oos option. Simple and easy
10:32 if this guy recovers high again I’m gonna have an aneurysm
It's not a guy, it's a bot. Proguides loves to put games against bots WHEN GAMES WITH REAL PERSONS ARE JUST WAY BETTER WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT PROGUIDES???
MD • YOSMA it’s just easier and they probably have a lot to do with other games
@@Jem-Fury It's not easier or faster, they can just play online and record/download the game like thet were doing.
And also it's not the same person who is every games
MD • YOSMA fair, but you gotta realize that this company does many more games, edits it all, and they probably need all the time they can get
@@Jem-Fury PLAYING WITH BOTS IS JUST NOT FASTER THAN ONLINE !!!!
Lucario: Last stock, 120%
Me playing puff: 3 stocks, 15%
Lucario: ;)
sounds like u just need to practise ending stocks better
Idk man, when Ness locks you up with pk fire, hits you offstage, and edge guards you with a charged yo-yo I think the salt is warranted.
Just DI the pk fire, always works for me
I played against a ness that just kept spamming Pk fire over and over and over again... I believe that might’ve been a day I broke one of my controllers
@@PrinceTrexus what just made me quit playing smash competitively was the lag. Nothing infuriates me more than pressing a button and watching my character stand their like an idiot. I'll just play smash offline from now on.
@@Rider-fl4gf If only people listened to what we say. Like, learn to SDI. Look up training videos other than the Ganon meme montage for the hundredth time. Listen to advice from people who know what what they're doing rather than calling them a sweat. It's so simple to do, and yet people online, even some over 20 years old, have problems doing so. I don't understand people sometimes...
Most of what Ness does is fake. You can di out of most of it. It's just a tad tricky because he has so many multi hits.
I think this guide might be very helpful to practically any level that the player is on in Smash Ultimate. I recommend you like this video and put it in a watch later to restudy it if you’re in a bad mood.
Is it possible to learn this power
AngelOf Death not from a Jedi
Yeah. Just turn smash off and play another game.
@@lunny3715every game does this bruh
My mentality is broken, when playing Game and watch
Rage, try to calm down, lose again.
Calmed down, trying to play my best, lose again.
Repeat.
How many attempts did it take to get the clip at 2:20?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That ban hero joke was gold
Tip: Quickplay will just get you frustrated. Losta lame-os on there that play super skilllessly. You might even lose to them cuz you can't punish due to lag.
That's why Elite Smash sucks in general. I don't know what's more unbelievable: a Ganon fishing for f smash and warlock punch in neutral being the "world's best" or Marth somehow being extremely busted, according to my siblings and their friends
@@survivorofthecurse717 when I still played Ultimate, I found it much more enjoyable to find a discord and play with people that are for sure near me geographically.
Tbh, I've tried that and still do, but not much results there, unfortunately
i'm glad that this kind of topic have so much meaning even in pro guides, this game can bring all kind of emotions and personal issues but it also can be a tool to fight the real world, i like to think that the world is like smash, you will have epic battles, you will face despair and anxiety, you gonna have ups and downs, but if you want to get good and reach the top you must be patient , grateful and cofident that you have the tools to face anything.
Idk how people get salty in front of other people. I'm just happy to have someone to play with. I only get salty against online play and cpus. 👀
*_Having emotions hurt, so I just blame it on myself, accept I'll never be good, and turn off the game_*
I’m glad that you made this video cuz I get pissed off when playing online so thanks
I wish this video came out earlier. Last tournament i was in i was up against my bracket demon round 1 and it was an even game until something crashed on the switch and then we moved to a different setup and he bodied me
Tip: don't play the game. Everything in this game is rage inducing
I feel like there is an extra point to be said. You say "recognise what you have control over", which is correct, but we also must recognise what we do not have control over and accept it in an attempt to not get tilted by it. For example, we know that when Palu hits us with that nair that we are taking 50%. For many, this is a pet peeve and will start tilting us. This is also a pet peeve that we cannot realistically avoid, like the mention of playing online. We need to recognise that this is an element of the game and Palu is considered by many a top tier because of her high damaging tools. We should attempt to prepare ourselves, and tell ourselves that we will likely get hit by this move and take a ton of damage, so when it happens we can stay on top of our emotions and fight back. Getting tilted by these types of moves and scenarios is not going to help you get better, but accepting that these scenarios are a part of the game will help in staying calm and help prevent a salty mindset, keeping you more focused and allowing you to stay in the game.
When you realise just HOW WELL Japanese people approach game development compared to western genres
It do be like that
What tilts me the most is getting combo'd by somebody like Ken or Pikachu. I'm an extremely vocal person, so I usually have to let my anger out by cursing (I only do this when playing online, so I'm not doing it in my opponent's face, at least). This video will probably prove helpful in the near future, when I start going to locals again after the hiatus I'm taking to finish uni!
I was watching this video while raging being destroyed by annoying inkling in my own arena. But by the end of the video I got HIM TO RAGE QUITE! Thanks!
Dude I was just trying to learn and I got a whole ass deep dive into the mind wtf
“If a person gave your body to any stranger he met on his way, you would certainly be angry. And do you feel no shame in handing over your own mind to be confused and mystified by anyone who happens to verbally attack you?” - Epictetus
I'm usually a calm, rational and controlled person. Smash is the only thing in this world that can get me tilted so damn fast. Like, Dragon Ball Z levels of tilted. If smash had voice chat, I'd probably be in jail for personal offendings or something lol
This doesn't even apply only to Smash. It applies to life as a whole. It seems like standard physiological wellbeing.
What helped me out the most was stop playing to win and start playing to have fun.
Or you can just do what's best for you, and take a break from the game. Either just do something else or play another game. It's that simple...
Step 1: Smoke a bowl
2:21 Who knows how many times that guy opened the down B menu looking for Thwack? Who knows how many times he threw Thwack until it finally killed at 0%? I'm pretty sure his actual reaction at that moment was the complete oposite of what we hear in the video.
This jiggly puff has been edge guarding me for the past 3 hours and I have mixed up my recovery MANY times why does it feel like I can do absolutely nothing against this I air dodge he reads it I go high he reads if I go low he reads it anything I do even if I change it a lot does anyone have tips to help that
They left out violent anger. The kind that boils your blood on the spot and makes every cell in your body treat this normally unimportant event as a literal fight for your life.
If you find yourself in this camp, as I do, then it's actually good to let it out mid match. Punch your thighs, smack your head, beat your chest. It might look terribly salty, but these people usually cant afford to wait until the match is over. It's better to end up on a saltier moments list than end up in the slammer for assault.
Take note Kiraflax
Smash online brings me to a point of anger I never knew I had (glad I own a punchingbag). In person I can look at them and say GG's and not feel bad because they were just oblivious better but online I lose to lag, lag switchers, and spammers that you can easily beat offline but can't online. People are less toxic in person because you can easily put them in their place because most of the time online players are the quietest and "pussies" you meet and this goes for every other game too.
Hidden message at 12:19 that the narrator doesn't say and is visible only with the captions turned on: "Anime could be a good idea! But if you're super sad maybe skip Evangelion and watch Jojo instead
Am I the only one who though rage meant the rage mechanic in the game?
What do you guys think of my own form of Terry Bogard JABJABPOWERDUNK Rage style shirt (Fox Rage)?
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Anyone got anger issues?
Nah?
Ight it’s just me
You get salty because you think you're better than you really are.
This video should’ve talked about how to handle getting 3 stocked.
> To Much
>> Too Much
ZaTaisho beat me ‘to’ it
lol I don’t play Smash but this has been helpful for MTG. I’m tired of getting salty.
Best way to avoid tilt is to regularly acknowledge that your learn more from losing a match then from winning it.
You just don’t get mad. And never play online.
All it does for me is a cycle of deedeedee and ness. But if it’s better for you...
Was gonna end it all till this video came out....Thanks proguides.com!!!!!!!!!!!
This was definitely well needed thank you
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This is very informative. I definitely relate as playing online is often very mentally deteriorating for me. You definitely feel like the worst player in the world if you lose. I’ll try to keep these things in mind. Although, I cannot quite say I agree with what you were saying about how emotions originated. There are many problems with the theories behind and they’re all just assumptions based on the evolutionary model (which also has tons of problems). For instance, what you said about guilt, which is what we get when we know we’ve done something wrong. I agree with that but if that emotion is really evolutionary, what then sets the standard of “right” and “wrong” that the guilt emotion goes by? I know that isn’t what this video is really about, it’s about how to keep calm when Ness PK fires you to 80 percent and back throws you, when sonic uses his neutral B over and over again on you, when Luigi or Dr. Mario uses their very stupid invincible down B’s, and when you go against hero, sephiroth, or pyra/mythra in general
everytime i lose i play hero just rng my way to victory.....sorry cloud
5:13 it’s “When Emotions Become ‘Too’ Much” I guess my emotions became too much for me to contain my correction lol
Good video. This is something I've rather had issues with lately. Not necessarily only in the game, but also in real life. It's good to have some help reflecting like this
12:06 *BOLD OF YOU TO ASSUME I HAVE FRIENDS*
I can't express enough on how helpful this was! Sometimes I focus too much on winning and let the dumbest thing get the better of me. I ain't no tournament player, but I am a decent player that plays a lot of online matches. I never act out in anger by down smashing my controller ( *controllers ain't cheap you know!* ) when I lose to a laggy Snake player or a spamming PK Fire Ness that T-bags you after every stock. I'm more implosive and I admittedly just close the game mid match when I get really salty, then I usually take a break by either playing another game or work on my drawings to cool off, but sometimes I just keep thinking about how my opponent did so-and-so to me when I know I should've won, which keeps me angry ( *and i'm NOT one of those people that log into Twitter ranting about a character that should be nerfed* ). It does hurt a lot seeing you GSP go down, and getting that notification that you got booted off Elite, but I do know that the end of the day it's just a number.
But anyway, in general I do take control of my emotions even before I watched this video, and I agree that it is unhealthy to hold in emotions.
You seem like a really good guy that could help me deal with my struggles. Wanna spar with me?
@@captainrustbeard461 Sure, what times are you available? I'm usually available in the evenings, Pacific Time.🙂
@@SegaDisneyUniverse I live in Finland so when it is 8pm PT it is 6am here :P
@@SegaDisneyUniverse is it possible to find you from Discord or somewhere
@@captainrustbeard461Finland? Ah okay, I do have a Twitter it's @DisneySega if you want to dm me there.
Ok. I'm an Introvert. What sets me off? Ok. So, CPUs because they be like "Oh, He'S gOnNa F-aIr? GoOd ThInG i'M a CpU aNd CaN jUsT pIcK a MoVe ThAt OuTfRaMeS iT! HeH hEh" and people online. Guess I gotta play friendlies, FRICK.
You said become to much instead of too much just a heads up 👍🏽
9:59 But, there's 2020
I just broke my controller and I feel so angry and ashamed of myself. I'm a fairly good player, but lately I've just been losing A LOT, from the simplest things, to lag and latency. I turned the game off and walked away at first, but immediately came back, telling myself I'm not this bad, just try harder. In a match, I read Sephiroth's F-air, hit the dodge button, and still got hit cuz it didn't come out in time and lost. I threw my controller down and now I'm just mad at myself because I knew to walk away and take a break. Online isn't perfect anyway, but I feel like I should've adjusted or change playstyles. Or again, take a break.
Smash is all fun and games until you go online have deal with Spammers, Lag, One and dones, Teabaggers, and DORIYAH!
Breathing is also free!
And my personal outlet is kicking the crap out of every opponent I come across after my GSP drops by 2mil.
“Oh you just started playing smash 2 days ago? Aww that’s cute. Allow me to introduce you to the game by stomping you into oblivion.”
I looked for a Smash tutorial and found life advice, a meditation guide and some smash infos. I love it, since I am into all three. Thx
I almost had a heart attack cause I was getting comboed
Holy shit I didn't know repressing your emotions can mess your shit up. Welp... uh. I gotta go to the doctor and make sure I'm good lol. Mostly anger...
I was listening to this after a rough night of getting teamed on in ffa arenas and getting tbagged until the timer ran out. At some parts of the video, I almost began tearing up when talk of mental management and possible outlets came up. I can’t use some methods due to my total lack of friends.
Do I need therapy?
Im not gonna lie i barely play online because i get mad with all the trash people, spammers, laggy connections, toxic characters , trolls, t-bag ughhhhhh i nearly break my switch whenever i fight that people
I’m just dropping quitplay. I notice I’m much happier when I’m on arenas and not playing against some degenerate mario who spams cape and f-air trying to get those “sIcK cLiPs!!!!”
I’m always back here when I’m on a losing streak on quickplay
Especially when they start teabagging
My mental makes me play like I forgot how to read and f smashing constantly, this video helped thanks
For those that struggle with aggression keep some folded up pieces of paper in your pocket and tear one up when it gets to be too much. It is far far better than punching a wall or another person.
This first video I watch on this channel and it’s the most helpful
I got recommended this right after I matched into a laggy sonic who camped me out and killed me in sudden death with a dash attack
How to not be a jerk in smash?
How TO be a jerk in smash?
How to counter pick?
Why does this guy sound like a bunch of you tubers that I watch like alpharad
we got this guy for smash and keithalan for fortnite
i love both of you guys
edit: no homo
Ppl teabagging and trash talking is the thing that really gets me mad and I wont play the game for awhile after that to avoid the anger
Mine distraction is friends, but most of my friends don’t play smash
Crazy hand thumbnail was the biggest brain plays
for some weird reason i play better when i talk and dont pay attention much
Fuck online thats all I habe to say to be not salty thx for the vid goodbye
Im here from a spammy mario in random battle arenas that kept doing neutral b to dash attack for some reason. And everytime godamn tIME I WAS AT the gODAMN LEDGE He sAiD "f SMASH WILL WORK WONDERS" AND IT gOt me everytime.
i feel your pain bro. something about getting hit with the same exact thing over and over again breaks me on the inside..
I always lose like 4 times in a row like god damn i hate online so damn much
My problem is that I'm the player among my friends and I myself am somewhat casually great player but really just beginning to understand competitive game. As a best player among my friends I'm thinking high of myself and I have noticed it is really damaging for me. So whenever I get my ass whooped by online I say stuff like: "Nah he is not that great player." I'm really ashamed of that even though I constantly do it. It might reflect on my insecurity and fear that I will never be competitive because it feel like I should have started competitive earlier when I was younger. Now I feel I can't never learn how to play competitive smash.
You captured exactly how I feel
Does anyone know the Music he uses in the background
6:45 except Pit, hes the most honest character in the game. What can you hate about the guy? Dark Pit you can technically hate his "cheap" side B killing you at the edge at 60% but Pit? come on
have you ever played an arrow happy pit as a character without projectiles or a bad recovery?
@@merijns3446 dont think thats considered cheap. Young links arrows are way worse. Strong, fast, lagless and combo to a kill move. Pit's arrows dont do that =P
@@juanoshigeru no, but that's not my point, they can still be frustrating to play against and can feel very cheap if you get gimped by someone spamming arrows at ledge
I'm not a fan of the nair spam and then they wait with an arrow when you knock them off the platform so I dont even get the pleasure of properly styling on them for their dickheaded behavior
Captions at 12:20: is this....a JOJO REFERENCE?
I just want people to be smart and stop tbagging ;-;
I have Autism so this is me succumbing to an intervention.
One thing: always accept a loss. Disconnecting in the middle of a match shows weakness, and your opponent will be even more confident if you get matched again.
I dunno, I'd rather disconnect from a smash attack spamming Mac or a Belmont bitch because fuck them
Me who loosing against a laggy pk fire ness:
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What if your game controller broke
A tip that worked god,
Think you are tired of that
we need to talk about how annoying the plugs are
For me I mainly get annoyed when I lose to lag or a character gimmick or just sd like a dumbass, but I never find myself getting too salty when I get dropped by a better player, because I know I can learn from them and use that to better my performance
What I learned after a while is that you get salty when you feel as if you lost to the character and not when you lose to the player
It all begins within my bois and gurls
Can u do the about how to deal with online issues as well?
Interesting, thanks for these advices.
i just got so pissed at the game, i bought joker
This is like I'm joining a cult.
Since ive been working on my mentals my gameplay improve immensely and is still improving and repressing your emotions is bad, I've learn to accept that when I'm salty I accept it and try and figure out why I am salty and how I can change it to happy or determined