What to Do When Life Is Not Going Your Way
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- As much as we wish it would, life doesn't always go the way we want it to - and when it doesn't go according to our plan we have a few options. We can learn ways to keep going, create a new plan or give up. Here we're going to talk about how to keep going and get back on track when life is not going your way.
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I've really been taking your lessons to heart and it's changed how i look at myself, and how i approach problems. I've been at it about a month now, and I notice i've been able to keep a more consistent mood, and I just remind myself to take things on as they come, to acknowledge my feelings, and try to engage my problems and not let my feelings scare me away. I needed this today, thank you .
good for you for doing the work! Celebrating with you, Dale.
Congratulations 🎉 on your book! Thank you for showing your vulnerable side and leading by example of living it 🙏🏻
thanks for being so supportive. And thank you!
I sometimes tell myself, "Instead of taking this as something too tough, lemme take it as a challenge to overcome. Lemme prove how far I can push myself to get the desired result."
Are you a mind reader Julia, how did you know I was going through this lol. I've been feeling down about my current life and feeling behind in life. it's tough but I'm trying to be better.
What was one of your takeaways from this talk?
@@juliakristinamah That I should take action from this and find new ways to keep going and not giving into my dark thoughts.
I love your real-life example; it shows how we can apply these tools to everyday life. Thank you for all that you do. I am so looking forward to the book. I am forever grateful 🧡🧡🧡
glad it connected with you Angel ❤️
I believe 100% you didn't do it for the money. It's easy to see you genuinely want to help people.
Thanks Chris - that means a lot.
I just found your channel. . The title of this video pulled me in. It’s just what I’m looking for. In addition do you ever address chronic illness?? Thx! 🌟
@Julia Kristina Counselling i can completely .understand and. relate .to this video. always. nice to watch .a new video and listen to all your. advice this. video speak s to me I don't. have the friends .or the relationship. or the life I thought I'd have .now I'm constantly. over thinking worrying. about all the things I don't. have .in my life. that I wish I had . now so Meany of us are not feeling .happy or comfortable in the life. they are in now. I know it's my mental health. that's been a part of why I don' have .friends or a relationship. now why my life isn't the way I thought it would be. thank you for sharing. this video I appreciate .any videos you share. that are helpful .and informative to me ❤️
Can’t wait to buy it! Your so inspiring and have a wonderful way of making sense of life, thank you!!
I hope you love the book. Thanks for your support!
Congratulations on your new book Julia Kristina cancelling 🙂
Congratulations Julia!! I love to watch you speak and I'm sure its going to be an awesome book! You're very real and down to earth and I believe its going to be exactly how you described it would be. Looking forward to getting a copy! 💖💐
I hope you love the book and get a lot out of it. Thanks for your support.
Congratulations! I do think this title is a little misleading though. This video seems to be kind of all over the place, not like your usual videos.
Thank you for this, I was having one of those hard days and you posted this video. Setbacks can be frustrating, but if we remember the long term goals pushing on can be done.
Congrats on getting your book published!
absolutely Nile. Keep your eye on your why!
Hoping this hard day improves and tomorrow is even better.
Everything you're saying in the beginning is so spot on for me! Nothing have gone my way, and I have a really hard time accepting it. I want things, but I don't have the energy or motivation to make it happen. I'm just... stuck.
Hey ' Coach!
Thanks for the great work.
Sincerely Sean Lowe
Julia thanks so much for being the awesome woman you are! Today 2-26 I see this great video and I order a copy of your 📚 book through Amazon. I’m really looking forward to getting my 🙌 hands on your book. 🌞😃 Thanks again!
Thanks for being here - and thanks so much for your support.
What if your life is hard or difficult to bring to any level you wish for just like your book was. You know, not just a book, you WHOLE life.
And what if it's not just 3 years like your book. What if its 43 years?
congrats julia! can't wait to get this book!
i'm not an avid reader but i will surely go through this!
I hope you love and get a lot out of it. Thanks for ALL of your support
Can’t wait to read your new book. Thanks for all your hard work. It will be interesting to read your thoughts because I just really like your voice & facial expressions. But having it all in written form is also a treasure. Hugs
Would love to hear your thoughts after you read it. Feel free to email me: Hello@juliakristina.com
Congratulations on your book. The first 13 mins of this video focus on the book. The title of the video a tad misleading.
Shame as I usually love your content.
I was about to comment the exact same thing. I think the title is misleading and should be changed as well.
Shes promoting her book without making it seem like an ad, she's showing her vulnerability while working through creating it. I appreciate that she's doing this because it's very relatable to when I'm trying to do stuff that doesn't exactly go according to how I think it would in my head. Shes proud of what she created and knew she wasn't happy with just putting out a book for the sake of a deadline but to give it her all. That's my takeaway.
@@0famz I understand what she's doing and I have no opinion about her promoting her book. I'm just saying that the title does not match the content. "My book journey" "big announcement" something along those lines would have been more relevant in my opinion. I am familiar with her content and nowhere does she give tips on what to do when things are not going my way.
I agree.... Perhaps just announce the book and I'd already support and likely buy the book to support. But over half the video was some kind of weird ad. 13 mins in RUclips land is a long time to think that someone's about to get to the point any second now. I didn't want to say anything as it's a free video/help though, and they can do whatever they wish!
I feel bad for posting this, Julia is awesome 🥺
Congrats!! So excited for you and your book ❤️❤️
Julia- I couldn’t resist myself and ordered a copy as soon as the video ended… The way you succeeded and persisted on getting it right is very inspiring 🧡 Of course I hit the like button 🧡
My way of staying motivated when things don’t go the way I want:
I remember my past experience with an injury. Not life threatening but very limiting. It took me a long time to recover. While I was recovering, I thought things will never get better, but somehow I persisted and I did recover eventually. So I tell myself ok things look bad right now but things can get better even if I cant see it right now. I just need to persist even if it might take some time.
I love this Ron - having those key switches in our perspective really makes a big difference.
And I'm so glad you ordered the book - thank you!
Mmmm, feeling like there’s no hope and struggling to want to be alive atm. 😔🌈
I want to hear - what was one of your biggest takeaways from this talk?
Thinking that I can’t do hard things…. I CAN do hard things. My soul needed this
@@tondraallen2423 YES you can. Go get it.
Congratulations!! I pre-ordered your book on Amazon. Can’t wait to read it. That is an awesome achievement! Thank you l!
Thanks for your support - it means a lot. I hope you truly love the book and get a lot out of it.
Your advice didn’t work for me.😢
When things are " way too hard"
Ask yourself you like easy.... ?
Just pre-ordered. Can't wait to check out your work. Thanks for ALL of the great videos.
Wonderful! Thank you for your support. I hope you love and get a lot out of it.
By the way your distribution/promotion is really good, my local bookstore here in Ireland has your book on pre-order. Congratulations!
Wonderful - that's so exciting to hear! Thanks for letting me know.
Congratulations on your book. I’ll buy your book for sure
Your videos are amazing.
Wow….you nailed it.
Congratulations on your book, Julia Kristina! - from a fellow Saskatchewan alum! I very much look forward to receiving / reading 'Drive Your Own Darn Bus' very soon! The fact that your authoring experience did not go as initially planned, that you struggled some in creating a product for us that you are much more happy with, also makes this a much better book than you originally anticipated! Thanks and Cheers!!!
Thanks for your kind and supportive words Gediminas - I hope you love the book!
@@juliakristinamah I seldom post any comments, generally keep to myself. I've been a subscriber going on two years, and I very much appreciate your Thursday morning vlogs. I struggle with many of the topics that you address, and your insights are very enlightening and helpful to me. My life is also in transition, and there are many challenges and uncertainties in my personal and familial life, but I am incredibly happy to be me!!!
Congratulations!!!! How does it feel? Did you record or plan to record an audio version available on audible or Spotify?
Thanks so much for your support - and yes! the Audible version will be coming out on March 8th as well.
Thank you so very much @Julia Kristina Counseling 💕 ! really needed this video today which really helped because earlier this afternoon I felt like nothing in my life was going the way I want or need it to go & then I get on RUclips and your video is about how I was feeling today and I am so glad I did watch it because as hard as today was your video made me realize that our lives aren't always going to go the way we want or need them to, so you just gotta tell yourself tv that it's OK if my life isn't going the way I want it to right now and that it doesn't mean it's the end, it just means we need to take it day by day and do the best we can for that time and not worry or be so hard on ourselves when it doesn't go the way we want at this moment and to use a different approach because this approach wasn't working & that doing it this way will help it all work out in the end. Also congratulations 🎊 👏 on your new book, I am going to order it soon and can't wait to read it 😊
Writing. A more philosophical approach, perhaps writing in a different voice will give a fresh approach. I think a lot of tone and expression can be put on the page. You have a lovely personality, and it should be there. The more of you, the more it's personified as your book.
Wow!!! Can’t wait to purchase!!😍
Same thing is happening with me
I retired when I was 60 and since then stuff has gone wrong and in the most dramatic way. I wish to relax but it’s impossible. 😢😢
I am turning 60 soon. I am still working and love what I do, so I do not anticipate retiring. I hope things start to improve for you.
Hey proud shifter here! Julia you have truly put so much into this book and I am so happy for you! I cannot wait to read it! You put your heart into what you do and you are such an inspiration. Keep doing what you do. You are touching the world. Love to you! ❤
Thanks for sharing your experience-just what so needed to hear to keep going. So excited for you and your book! Can’t wait to read it. Congratulations for seeing this through-you are an inspiration.
Thanks for your support - I hope you love the book!
Omg congrats on your very first book julia i’m so happy for you💗!! I truly can’t wait to get my copy im sure your words is gonna resonate so much with me and will make a tremendous impact on the quality of my life as you did from this helpful videos!!
I hope you love it!
I needed this. THANK YOU!
you are so welcome. Glad it connected.
Placed my order! Xoxoxo thank you for your commitment to quality xoxoxo CONGRATULATIONS 🥳🥳🥳
This is 60% self advertisement with 40% detailing how life is going EXACTLY your way. Not helpful, not necessarily bad content but not helpful at all when comparing against the video's title
I'm in the process of writing a book myself so I can't help but think I was able to relate to this video more than i bargained for.
great! I hope it's going well Dan
@@juliakristinamah Oh thank you Julia! My heart is a little warmer now.
Excellent break through information!
clickbait i felt like, a way to promote your book. sorry
I had the best job, i was a city bus driver . I was persuaded, i should retire with coworkers. I was gullible, naive.... i did it. Immediately after,.. i realized this retirement thing is NOT for me.! I couldn't return!, my seniority position was gone, and once retired., its over. Went into shock. I stressed, got anxiety, insomnia .... and severe depression. I hate life , i ruminate on my mistake , and have no interest in anything, activities, hobbies .. nothing. I just suffer every day. No one understands my pain.
Depression steals everything from you.
I feel like an imposter, this is not the life I envisioned for myself and I work so so hard but I just never got to where I wanted.
Never got the career, the degree I needed, the children, the house, the husband. Ive put in the work. I'm so defeated
Just out of curiosity, why are your videos grey instead of full color? Is it merely creative or is it an effort to represent yourself in a particular way?
Intensely alienating and unhelpful, as someone who has put in the work and gotten NOTHING I want out of life, to hear from someone with a husband, kids and creative career that it was hard to write a book. I have failed romantically, socially and career wise. My desires do not matter, they are never met. I do not want to be alive yet I am. How does one carry on with anything but resentment when all needs, desires and dreams are out of reach?
Well, if we don't have full control of our lives, then it has always been a ridiculous mind game from the beginning of time.
I have lost my job and I have been trying find another with no luck. Everything I try to do nothing goes right. I have no money to pay my rent. I will be on the street.
I have lost my job and I have been trying find another with no luck. Everything I try to do nothing goes right. I have no money to pay my rent. I will be on the street.
I have lost my job and I have been trying find another with no luck. Everything I try to do nothing goes right. I have no money to pay my rent. I will be on the street.
Great topic here.
do we really have to relentlessly fight just for crumbs of happiness? life should not be about this, right?
I won't lie this title was a bit misleading. I was looking for what to do when several bad things have happened all at once in life and I was met with 'buy my book' and 'just keep going' when I have already stopped 'going' and am struggling so badly to just even function. Please just call a book plug what it is next time
Well, gave me a reason to quit. 23 years trying ti make things happen and it never worked.
Congratulations 🎈🎉 I’m so excited to read your book. I need this now in my life.
To tell you the truth, the way my mind works, I was afraid you were going to say that “Jeff” took your book ideas and wrote it himself and had it published in his name. 😦😟!!!
I glad I was wrong. 🥰
I'm so glad that's not how it went - can you imagine??
@@juliakristinamah 😜 This is my problem. My active imagination 💭! 😃
You had my money at, "I wrote a book!"
When you had caviar dreams but right now your eating tuna. It’s a challenge.
I’m feeling discouraged in finding love and a relationship Julia.
Luke thank you for the video, Needed to here that
Thank you I really needed this today! Thank you sm
Publish or perish. Great book . I want more.
Denise South Africa
Amazing!!
Thank you 🙏
Can u do a video about emotions around buisness
You've read my current life lol
Looking forward to getting your book!
I’ll be getting your book!
I bought your new book! ❤️
Life is no bowl of cherries.
Two years ago at 48 yrs old I decided I'm going be a great and successful artist. I didn't have experience, education, or any time pursuing the in the past even as a hobby. I've failed so many times at life in just about every area I thought, F it, go for the impossible because unless I give up on it, I'll only have one fail left. It's hard, everything I do revolves around getting to the "10,000 hours," to begin to master this craft. Yeah, that's the easy part. I try not to think about the odds, even while sacrificing every other aspect of my life just to attempt this. I won't quit and I know what I'm sacrificing because if I do give up on it and quit I'd be a shell of myself for my remaining time here.
I was so so soo glad that you said it in a way that you understood and relate my situation, thoughts, like how u expreseed that you have also experienced for yourself.
You didn't just say easily like how other motivational books or vids, "Be positive and look at the better things", or use words like "negative". I shut down even more when these kinds of advice are given. Cuz it was not helpful at all.
I felt like you found me and guided me until the end, out of the complex maze. I mean not completely healed but part of my heart and mind didn't feel annoyed or irritated until the end. I am listening all over again until I find my direction and take actions.
Thank you so much and God bless you for sharing.
From Morocco, first time to see your channel, I was looking for codependacy, and I ended up watching 5/6 videos. Thank you for the enlightenment. Now I am a subscriber.
This one is like it was made SPECIFICALLY for me. Thank you for your wisdom and your amazingly clear, eloquent and empathetic presentation style! You're awesome!
Love. Career has been my challenge. I pray. Seems God has blessed me to be very resilient. I've not succeeded many times but He gets me right back in the game to try again. I thank Him.
Hello Julia,
I just ordered your book on Amazon - along with coffee pods (reading and a nice cup of Java). Super excited about my healing journey. Thank you for your gentle spirit and expertise. Congrats on your new book and your future endeavors 😊
Glad it’s finally the 1st of the month & I can order your book!!!
Golda
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I was so frustrated yesterday with my roommate s who just don't do what is expected of them it's like if you see the same problem and they egnore that after they've been asked told to help out and they don't I loose it it's not that hard to put dishes in the sink instead of leaving piles of them after they bring them down from there room and expecting me too keep doing there crap !
Ah inspiring! I have been procrastinating writing a book - good for you and I will certainly look forward to reading yours!
Motivational, I would like to have the MP3 version of Julia’s book. ❤
Congratulations on pushing through to getting your book done and published.
Oh man can I relate to this! I have been compiling a cookbook and working with publishers for a couple years and just overwhelmed with all the options and time line. We open two of our seasonal businesses in May so really at the push line. Who did you choose for your publisher?
I see it’s Watkins.
I truly gain incredible insights with your counsel, Julia. Thank you! My son passed away back in August 2021. He was ten years old and autistic. Do you have any videos or advice on grieving? My life has fallen apart since his passing and I am living and working in a transitional shelter for veterans in the southern U.S. I want things to get much better, but I feel mired in sorrow and pain. I do practice meditation and have practiced yoga, martial arts, and other spiritual activities but feel stuck in a depressed rut for the past four or five months.
I pray for your you and your family. As a mom, reading this comment broke my heart. Wherever you are, may you find the strength to overcome this tragic loss.
@@AG-ig4dy thank you so much. His mother and I have been divorced since 2018. I wasn't always the best, but I was there for my son. I have many regrets and have been through much darkness since August of last year when he died (August 8 specifically).
He was the light of the world, as are all children. Hold your loved ones tight and tell them you love them.