Ep 21: ENM Matchmakers

This week we chat with ethnically non-monogamous matchmakers and date coaches Victoria & Ryan. We unpack how they specifically target men for date coaching (although they matchmake for both men and women) and the nuances of working in this field as a non-monogamous couple - a field that has historically romanticized hyper-monogamy. We also touch on how to get the process started as a new client, kinks, dating apps, and where the future of non-monogamy is headed. Also joining us are adult content creators JR Cruz & Jazmine Cruz of the Just Cruz'n podcast.
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Victoria is a certified professional matchmaker, dating coach, entrepreneur, veteran, community builder, thought leader, speaker, writer, ENM enthusiast, and educator. She founded Birds of a Feather Matchmaking, a specialty boutique matchmaking firm specializing in ethically non-monogamous (ENM), open, poly, and swinger lifestyle relationships. She’s located in Chicago and offers her services nationwide.
Victoria and her husband Ryan together, are Dating Coaches for Men who are seeking either a traditional or a non-traditional relationship, as well as men who are looking to be a more successful single male in the Swinger Lifestyle.
00:00 Teaser
03:30 - ENM matchmaking for men
07:25 - Favorite/Least favorite parts of the job
11:00 - Interested in ENM w/ no experience
18:15 - Meeting a new client
19:20 - FAQs?
23:18: Anonymity?
24:50 - Dating Apps
25:49 -certified in matchmaking
27:15 - blowback from monogamous matchmakers
28:50 - kink
32:04 - Evolution in matchmaking market
34: 45 - Where you see the field moving forward?