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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
- September 29th, 2021 is a day I'll never forget. And I will always take any opportunity God gives me to turn my pain into purpose. If my story can bring comfort or encouragement to any of you who have walked through miscarriage and felt alone, then it will be well worth the time and vulnerability it took to make this video.
God is good, mamas.
Thank you for sharing. I had 2 miscarriages before my 5 children and I had that same guttural cry as you did. It's an instinctual outpouring of grief and a broken heart. 💔
So sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your story. I had three healthy babies prior to 2021. Never had an issue. I have a 5yo, 4yo, and 2yo. Then last year we had two unexpected second trimester losses back to back. We lost our son, Darcy, at 15 weeks (found out at 16 weeks). We then unexpectedly got pregnant a few weeks later with our daughter, Liesl. We lost her at 14 weeks (likely passed at 13 weeks). I never had any signs. I was still very sick and had all my normal pregnany symptoms. In both instances, I chose to be induced and delivered our sweet babies...Darcy on May 20th and Liesl on September 9th. Both were perfect little babies, and we all miss them terribly.
I'm now 11 weeks pregnant with our double rainbow and praying this sweet babe's little heart keeps on beating. ❤
Sending love and prayers your way!
Oh my goodness Megan. My heart broke reading your story...I simply cannot imagine. I'm sure there's maybe some fear and anxiety as you walk through these next few weeks. I pray that you experience Isaiah 66:12... "I will extend peace to her like a river..." throughout the remainder of this pregnancy! xo
@@ThisBlendedHouse Thank you so much! ❤
I just recently went through a second trimester miscarriage. I was 17 weeks but he passed at 15. I had no signs until I started bleeding. We found out his gender when I delivered him. He was a boy we named Judah. His umbilical cord had wrapped and knotted around his right arm. Praying for you for a healthy rainbow baby 🥰🥰
Sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your story. A couple years ago I was pregnant with twins and at 14 weeks we found out they had a fatal heart condition and they wouldn’t be able to live outside the womb. For weeks and weeks we saw different specialist and they all told us nothing could be done and that we should terminate the pregnancy because I “wouldn’t be getting anything at the end of it”. We were told that they would either pass away in my belly or shortly after they were born and that I was putting my life at risk for nothing. We told them no and that we were going to care for these babies as long as God allows us to and that he entrusted us with them even if it was for a short time. On April 13, 2020 I gave birth to my two little girls Nevaeh Grace and Briella Faith via c-section. My husband got to hold them for 30 min before they passed away in his arms. It was so amazing but also so sad to watch him talk to them and pray over them and just love on them. When you spoke about crying in the depths of your soul I totally felt that feeling again. But God is so faithful and 5 months after we lost the twins we surprisingly found out that we were pregnant again with a healthy baby girl. It’s still so painful to think about but I’m also so honored to be chosen to be their mom. Thanks again for sharing! God bless you and your family!
Bless you mama for keeping those babies loved and safe in your womb. ❤ So sorry for that incredible loss. Praising God for your healthy rainbow babe.
@@MeganMarie1 thank you ❤️
Thank you for sharing this! I had a miscarriage too last year, was my first pregnancy and I was so heartbroken. Now I praise the Lord that I am 21 weeks pregnant of our baby boy, praying everyday for him to be healthy and strong.
Aww, I'm 20 weeks with our little boy...so close! Hugs mama.
Sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing. I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks with my first pregnancy. I am so thankful that I was also able to let nature take its course at home, which felt like the least traumatic option. It's hard to trust my body and the process after a miscarriage and I have had a lot of anxiety in my pregnancies. But God has blessed me with 3 beautiful children since then. Ultimately miscarriage has taught me that life is never guaranteed and to cherish the days we have with the people we love.
Praise God, thank you for sharing this. I lost my first baby and ending up having to have a D&C bc the baby wouldn't pass on their own. You are not alone. You are a strong woman that the Lord has a precious plan for.
The miscarriage description! It is a feeling you never forget
I’ve been following you for years and the journey you’ve been so wonderful to share with the world is so inspiring. The way the Lord has worked in your life is just so-REAL! All of those “but God” moments that you’ve shared aren’t phony, or made up! You’ve shared the good, the bad and the ugly and you’ve ALWAYS been so sure to highlight the silver linings! Because with God there are more than we can ever count! The spirit is alive and thriving in you, Shirley!
Praise the Lord for that healthy growing baby boy! He is so good!🙌🏼❤️
My goodness!! Your comment was SUCH an encouragement to read! Thank you
I’m so sorry for your loss! I appreciate your transparency and heart to encourage other women. I lost a baby at 8 weeks along. It was my fourth pregnancy. My baby’s heartbeat was strong on the ultrasound but my body just couldn’t hold onto her. Praying for you as you continue to process this trauma. 💜
I wish I could hold your hand and we have this conversation!
Become pregnant after a miscarriage is HARD! The feelings are so real!
My husband and I miscarried Thanksgiving 2017. We were just talking about it last night. My husband gave me his heart las night as he told me how he's nervous. I am do any day with our 3 baby after our miscarriage. I have now been pregnant 5x.
I was told I would NEVER have kids. BUT GOD! He has shown Himself 5x. When doctors said never.
Your husband, a real man. My husband, a real man.
We are blessed!
We have three beautiful children here on earth and four in heaven. It’s such a hard thing. I’m sorry you had to experience that loss.
My miscarriage story is almost the exact same to yours. I lost my fourth baby in June 2020, (the day before my birthday), and it was truly a traumatic experience. Knowing my baby wasn’t alive inside of me, but not wanting to let go was so so hard. My husband was at the fire station when my body was letting go, and my mother-in-law came and got the kids. The cramping was unreal. I turned on some worship music and praised God through it even though it was such a painful time. I knew he would use it for His glory.
I also did the same thing as you..I looked for the baby, but the baby wasn’t there. Seriously so so hard.
God is so faithful and I was pregnant three months later. We now have a beautiful baby girl who is about to be 9 months old.
Thank you for sharing this. Knowing there are others who have gone through it and understand your pain truly helps bring comfort.
Oh Kendyl. I loved reading your comment, thanks for sharing. I've learned that nothing with God is wasted. xo
My heart pounded so hard listening to your story! We went through our 5th passing past sept and I can relate everything you said physically and emotionally but come out of it knowing Gods hand was over every step of everything 💗
Thank you for opening up because this is not talked about enough!
oh mama. 5 passings...there are no words!! Hugs to you xo
My heart broke for you while listening to your story ❤️ I can’t imagine how difficult this was for you & your husband, especially as newlyweds! I commented on your last video that I’d experienced a miscarriage last year, too. Your video really resonated with me and my experience. I know that despite the discomfort of sharing your story you will be a blessing to other mamas who are searching for comfort when they go through a miscarriage, too ❤️ There is so much comfort in knowing you aren’t alone. Your story will be a blessing & comfort to many ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing that! While I’ve never experienced this myself, I have several friends who have and so I feel like you’ve helped me better understand. I’ve always wanted to be able to encourage them, but it’s so hard to know what to say. I’m so, so, so sorry for your loss and what you’ve been though. But you know someday you’ll be reunited with that precious soul again!! What would we do in this life without the comfort and hope of our Savior? I don’t know. I know he understands. And I know he’s preparing a place for us where there is no more sorrow, only rejoicing.
Thank you again and I’m so happy that you’ve been blessed again. ❤️
It was so hard for me to understand, too! I loved that you watched so you could better understand & encourage your friends. xo
I'm so sorry for your loss Shirley
It's true, you really feel so alone.😢😢. I just went through it 2 days ago and just had some more clots come today aswell.😢😢. there's just no way to get through it without bawling. 😭😭😭. it's so hard. I'm so glad I'm not alone.
I'm just so sorry to hear that :( Hugs.
Thank you so much for being so open and raw with your heartbreaking experience. I will absolutely pray for you all during this continued time of healing as well as the new addition to the family 🤍
Im sorry for you loss and Thank you so much for your words. After my miscarriage being a mom of 6 I just tried to hide my Pain deep down inside me until now listening to your words feeling empty inside made me break down and let it all out 😢 I remember saying and feeling the exact same way as I was waking up after my DNC and having no one there to comfort me. My husband was there but he didn’t want another baby after our 6 girls and that was just heartbreaking for me until this day. I’ve been praying for the lord to help me forgive him for that because I still cant’t. Knowing that a couple of months before that his sister went through the exact same thing and him crying with her and comforting her at the hospital.
Thank you for this video.. I have been holding the pain inside since I miscarried back in June. It was a hard time and still is hard. Definitely walking through the valley right now but like you said, God is still good. Thank you for the encouragement and I pray blessings over your new baby and family.
Thank you for your vulnerability in sharing
Definitely resonated with your story. I’m writing this as I hold one of my rainbow babies in my arms. Upon much debate and prayer I ultimately chose a D&c the second time. I was pregnant again only a few short weeks later (and totally unexpectedly too).
Thank you for your vulnerability and transparency 💕 it truly helps us feel less alone.
I am so sorry for your loss!
I had 4 miscarriages within a short span, 2 of them in the same year. One evening after my 4th miscarriage I went to sit at my desk and accepted that it wasnt Gods plan for more kids. And I thanked Him for the 2 boys I did have. And all of a sudden I heard a clear audiable voice in my head. He said " You will have more kids when your older" It was so clear I actually chuckled & responded "yeah I wont doubt it" Well I did have more kids. A few years later I got pregnant and had 4 more kids back to back, I have twins (prego 3 yrs straight)
I didnt know at that time it was God. Until He saved me last year and I started reading the bible. I came across the verse where Sarah laughed at God just the way I did. And I jumped out of my chair😯😯😯 One of my twins is named Issac too😁😁
Hold on to your faith. God is good🙌🙌
I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 thank you so much for sharing your story 🙏
I just had a miscarriage on December 23rd at 7 weeks. It wasn't my first but it was the most painful one. Similar to you I had a bit of spotting but didn't think much of it because I had it in my first successful pregnancy. But as the days go by more blood and extreme cramping and lower back pain occured. On the 23rd I started passing blood clots and knew right away that this is it. I was in a lot of pain for several days but tried to ignore it as much as possible so I can make sure everyone has a wonderful Christmas. Now that that's all over I've sort of fallen into a hole and struggle to get daily tasks done. Including taking properly care of my two beautiful children. Which makes me feel extremely guilty and my mood even darker. Even though my husband supports me as much as he can, I feel very lonely. Because we had multiple miscarriages before, we didn't tell anyone that I'm pregnant. Therefore no one knows what I went through. Part of me wants to tell someone but I also don't because I don't want anyone to know that I failed again to protect my baby.
"I know my baby wasn't alive in me anymore...... But I felt the baby was safe!" Yep!
I have never miscarried. I only have 2 kids because I don't get pregnant that easily. ...When you said, you felt like it sounded weird that you didn't want to let your baby go and you felt like your baby ways safe inside you. The first thing I thought was "No. That is 100% normal that you feel that way."😭 I would feel the same way and I'm sure a bunch of other women would as well. ..What you described as "losing your mind," I would describe as grieving. (Maybe because I would probably do the same thing.) None of what you said sounded strange to me at all. I think it would only seem strange to those who have never experienced intense emotions ....and there is nothing wrong with ugly crying. God is in the ugly cry. He is there to rock us and hold us through hard core, difficult, bloody, gut wrenching times. Thanks for sharing your story. It IS important. You will see your baby in heaven and get a great big hug from them.
Poor sweet mama I’m so sorry for your loss. 🤍
Weeping with you Shirl….❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just miscarried last night. This was so helpful.
Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for sharing your story, I'm so sorry for your loss. I found out Friday that what should have been our 10 week old, stopped growing at 8 weeks and 5 days after having a healthy heartbeat on our last check up. Can I ask you how bad the pain was? This is my first miscarriage and first pregnancy and I am absilutely petrified! I decided to try and pass the baby naturally, but it's been 3 days since we found out and I only have very mild spotting and cramping. How much time passed between the time you found out and the actual miscarriage of the baby? I'm just trying to prepare myself and I don't know how much longer I can wait before opting to do a D&C 😢
i was 9weeks pregnant it showed at my 11-12weeks scan on 19th December 2023 but passed the miscarriage at home on 2nd January 2024, i had some spotting but red online that spotting can be something normal.
i also took the natural route. it took a while almost 2 weeks. and it was so bloody painful. i screamed aswell. it was so horrendous. but i bled so much with clots that i actually passed out.
Hugs mama.
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My mom had a miscarriage when I was 9 I think