Bisexual & Black: The Challenges

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
  • #lgbtqrights
    Have you, or someone you know, ever been treated differently because of a real or perceived sexual orientation?
    Jay Prewitt, Business Consultant and Community Activist, joined Sergeant Major (Ret.) Mario P. Fields, on Unarmored Talk, to discuss his journey growing up as a bisexual black male and how he overcame challenges with religious beliefs, family, and friends
    Listen to the Unarmored Talk podcast on Apple Podcasts at podcasts.apple... or your favorite podcasts platform.
    Thank you for supporting the Unarmored Talk podcast hosted by Sergeant Major (Ret.) Mario P. Fields!

Комментарии • 82

  • @JustJRR
    @JustJRR 3 года назад +16

    Really great chat. He kept it real and I appreciate that. 💯 I added this video to the playlist I made called #BisexualMenSpeak you should check it out. 🙌🏾💙💗💜

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  3 года назад +3

      Thank you for leaving a comment and supporting Unarmored Talk podcast. I will check it out. Please share with friends and family. Thank you!

    • @Andrew-hq4wu
      @Andrew-hq4wu 2 года назад +1

      Hey stud

    • @Andrew-hq4wu
      @Andrew-hq4wu 2 года назад

      Yo jr whstsapp me stud

  • @MonteHayTheMotivator
    @MonteHayTheMotivator 3 года назад +23

    This conversation is definitely interesting and it makes me think about those that were gay or bisexual that I knew growing up. I never looked down on them but often wondered what was going on in their minds and in their lives. I never took the time out to ask as I treated them as my brothers and sisters. Thank you for sharing your message and story to the world Jay and I appreciate you for creating this platform Mario.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  3 года назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and adding value. I believe this podcast, and our guest, would not have a chance to impact people without supporters like you!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining 3 года назад +3

      Love this

    • @industryexposedofficial
      @industryexposedofficial 2 года назад +3

      As you should’ve we are normal ppl fr

    • @Andrew-hq4wu
      @Andrew-hq4wu 2 года назад +2

      Monte y u choose this topic if u str8

  • @refikacamara1495
    @refikacamara1495 2 года назад +13

    I support bisexual black men

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +1

      Thank you!

    • @refikacamara1495
      @refikacamara1495 2 года назад +1

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields You can thank author E Lynn Harris and author Teejay LeCapois for opening my mind. Their bisexual black male characters are strong and sexy.

    • @lashellc0517
      @lashellc0517 6 месяцев назад +1

      I do too😊

  • @danielm5324
    @danielm5324 3 года назад +6

    Very interesting and informative watch. Wish you both continued success.

  • @offlier
    @offlier Год назад +4

    I don't think my ex husband will ever come out.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  Год назад +2

      Thank you for leaving a comment and I hope and pray one day he accepts who he is and develops the courage to be authentic and honest.

  • @notdefining
    @notdefining 3 года назад +4

    This is a great video. Thank you for being visible. Would you be on my podcast? We explore the spectrum of LGBTQ identities. I relate so much with this.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for watching and the feedback. Please email me at host@unarmoredtalk.com and I will try to connect you to Jay. Thank you!

    • @notdefining
      @notdefining 3 года назад +1

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields hey thank you so much. I appreciate this very much. I will send you an email when we’re ready to go with it. This conversation really nourished me. I’m going to share it. Thank you for having it.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  3 года назад

      @@notdefining My pleasure!

  • @darrenhicks9650
    @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад +1

    Several therapists have quit/resigned from the Center over that mess, and it isnt because I lied. Money cant cover up everything

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +1

      What “Center” are you referring to?

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields The LGBTQ Center OC. He is a Board Director and abusing his position

  • @jayd1k
    @jayd1k 3 года назад +2

    Notifications are turned off.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  3 года назад

      I'm glad you can turn yours on and get notified on upcoming videos. Thank you and I checked mine to ensure they are all on.

  • @fatherbewithme
    @fatherbewithme 2 года назад +7

    Honestly some black women don't mind being intimate with bisexual males a lot of black women do however mind sharing their man with the community particularly if she wishes to have a traditional long term committed relationship or marriage in the future. It's that last part that makes some BW hesitant or flat out pass on messing with bi men

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +3

      Thank you for supporting this channel and podcast playlist. Additionally, thank you for sharing your belief with the viewers. Happy New Year.

    • @fatherbewithme
      @fatherbewithme 2 года назад +2

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields Same

    • @crispri3919
      @crispri3919 2 года назад +5

      But I mean.... being bisexual doesn't mean you have slept with the opposite sex or anyone for that matter as you can still be a virgin. It just means you have an attraction to both and in some cases might even still have a stronger preference for opposite-sex as it is a spectrum.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for leaving a comment and adding value to this episode. I truly appreciate you sharing this.

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      I mind when its bisexual men like this who are problematic af. Black women do not like Jay lol and he most definitely doesn't like them either. I mean he openly sexually harassed me, tried to jail me for reporting, and then continously sent me nudes via Grindr, Snapchat, and text.

  • @LifeOnCoach
    @LifeOnCoach 2 года назад +1

    ✌🏾

  • @tacquonbarno1301
    @tacquonbarno1301 2 года назад +1

    Awesome he’s from Alabama like me

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for supporting Unarmored Talk podcast and leaving a comment.

  • @darrenhicks9650
    @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад +1

    awww you deleting comments too?

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +1

      Thank you for leaving a comment Mr. Hicks. Please help me gain a better understanding of what you mean. I’m not aware of deleting any comments from my channel. Thank you!

  • @gezra8842
    @gezra8842 Год назад +1

    Jay stop capping! That lil nas video was nasty.

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  Год назад +1

      Thank you for leaving a comment and supporting my channel!

  • @Blazenetwork1990
    @Blazenetwork1990 2 года назад +1

    Does jay have Instagram?

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +1

      I don’t believe so. I know he’s on LinkedIn.

    • @Blazenetwork1990
      @Blazenetwork1990 2 года назад +1

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields oh cool I tried to look for his Twitter but can’t find him but thanks for replying back

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +1

      My pleasure and thank you for supporting the channel. Happy New Year!

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      dont bring anyone young, black, or poor around Jay

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      and yeah that house nikka has an IG

  • @darrenhicks9650
    @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад +2

    42 years old and picking on the 20 something crowd smfh

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +3

      Are you referring to the interview?

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад +1

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields I’m referring to the person you are interviewing. James Oliver Prewitt

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields Yes it’s a whole mess out here with this man. Constantly solicits the Trans community for sex. Which is Trans chasing and generally frowned upon. Since it’s fetishizing our existences. Then cuts off our access to care when we report him for abusing his position. I’m not sorry for speaking. I’m sorry that this black man thinks he represents us. No sir. That’s still white supremacy and hella gross. It is a pattern of behavior and not just myself. He literally picks on people 25 and under. Women his own age don’t want to deal with him? Why? Because he’s a creep. It makes me sick as a Black radical that he even gets a platform. When he’s most definitely Anti-Black. Lol that’s all

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields and how does he do this? Like a weird older black man of course. Lies about his age. Uses a variety of fake profiles to solicit us. My own father is waiting to whoop this man’s ass. It’s gross and women aren’t safe dealing with him. Particularly Black women

    • @darrenhicks9650
      @darrenhicks9650 2 года назад

      @@SgtMajMarioPFields and then I see this. So he was most definitely lying to everyone about being Non-binary and tried to use that identity as justification for sexually harassing me. Lol idgaf what hormones you take. No means no.

  • @Andrew-hq4wu
    @Andrew-hq4wu 2 года назад +6

    Why do gay an bisexual men have to be obligated to advertise their sexual lifestyle.i dont see str8 people run around saying hey i am str8

    • @SgtMajMarioPFields
      @SgtMajMarioPFields  2 года назад +5

      Hi Andrew, thank you for asking the question and I believe, for this episode, the intent was to highlight his personal and professional challenges, the emotions he experienced, and how he used a thought process to improve the outcomes of his real-life situations. Hopefully, your question will generate further discussions where more beliefs can be shared to help everyone gain a better understanding. Please have a great week!

    • @claualexis1737
      @claualexis1737 2 года назад +2

      The way straight sexual lifestyle is literaly the MAINSTREAM and the most notorious in history from every single point of view, but ok. And its not about flaning anyones sexuality, its about accepting the freedom of choosing any form of sexuality without shame or prejudice. The gays and bisexuals have being celebrating the way they can express what they are now, after years, decades and centuries of oppresion from, guess who? straight people; who think they are less (or deserve less) just becuase of who they choose to go to bed with. Its just about tolerance and acceptance tbh.

    • @godemperorletoatreidesii6971
      @godemperorletoatreidesii6971 2 года назад +3

      @Be REAL ye If your dating him than you have a right to know if not it's none of your business

    • @alexajordan8610
      @alexajordan8610 2 года назад +5

      @Be REAL Exactly. Because a bisexual man is just not what I wish to date. People can avoid lots of hard feelings and anger if they just are upfront about how they are living when they meet a prospective dating partner. If one woman is not okay with it another one will be. So might as well be honest.

    • @amalmystic11
      @amalmystic11 Год назад +2

      ​@@godemperorletoatreidesii6971I would prefer BEFORE we date. I wouldn't want to be roped of that choice. Personally I don't want to invest any of my time and feelings in something I didn't want initially. It's harder for some women to walk away after discovering because now there's feelings involved. Bi men know women are emotional creatures so why manipulate them? Why start something off a faulty foundation? It doesn't matter if they want to call it heterosexual relationship because it's not. It's a bi person. We don't to be close proximity to anything and why would you want to be with someone who only accept an aspect of you?