Inside the mind of a
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- What is going on inside the mind of a diagnosed narcissist? Are they happy? Content? Paranoid perhaps? Today's episode is dedicated to giving you the inside look of a narcissist that has been in #psychotherapy since October 2017
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Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
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Thank you so much
Their mind is constant frustration & insecurity.
They live in a delusion constantly. They see others as rebellious characters in the tv show called “their life”
This makes me wonder about my ex’s obsession with danger. Every little thing I did was dangerous. Eye contact. Smiling at cashiers. Wearing my clothes. Doing my hobbies. Dancing on stage. Oh, and everything I did was a “performance”. I was always “fake smiling” “fake having fun” “fake enjoying my hobbies” because I just want to look cool. I thought he was just being kind of annoying, but maybe he feels this in himself as well more than I thought
Same for me...I didn't have the right to look for someone while walking not even a car...he accuse me of cheating if so....real obsessions
I want to share with u something
He was projecting him self on u
And putting his traits on you !
He was saying I’m dangerous!
He meant that any thing he does is dangerous,
He was literally telling on him self .
Theyknow theeir bad.
And they tell on them self’s
With out noticing
That obsession means they r dangerous!
For example my ex usto say
I don’t trust you !
He did NOT trust him self,
Their is a video of lee about how narcs tell on them self’s ,
That is classic projection!
They think we r doing an act becosue they don’t acts,
So that is projecting again ,
He meant that when he does eye contact with ppl his intentions are dangerous!
Don’t take this clown seriously
Their r a joke
They have no ,
Sence of real self
I always feel bad for people with NPD, BPD, ASPD, DID, and even people like myself with complex-PTSD. It's so fucked up that we were not born like this. We didn't have proper caretakers, and that really sucks. My daughters father was a crip and grew up in violence with a mom who wasn't emotionally there and never held him accountable, and so much of what you say sounds like him. I had to go no contact, even tho my heart has felt broken for over a year over him. He was hurting me so badly. He wasn't physically abusing me, but his inner wounds were hurting me. He was so self protective to the point of hurting me. Shit sucks. I wish he would get better. He's the only one I have ever met that truly saw me. My inner child wounds and my grown woman self.
Relatable.
#havingthecouragetowalkaway
That's the messed-up part. They aren't born like this but MADE.
Sufilive on you tube
I fucking hate them they take your money. mentally turture you stop you sleeping. There evil to there children .
They beat you up till your bedriden for couple weeks . Slag you off mental turture cheat on you with heru. Of women give you std he was mallignant narc i married . He was on best behaviour till marrage then there mask comes off i hope they all rot in hell
They isolate you they take your
frends away being nasty to them.
They try to keep you away from your family so you have no one i got away in the end theres nothing worse
Give your vulnerability a chance, man. Vulnerability is a nice thing, when you give it a chance in the right way. It's actually strong to be vulnerable, imo
im vulnerable every day on here lol
@@MentalHealness true. I thought more like in rl tho, cause it sounded like you are struggling with that. Maybe i misunderstood
The world is a cold place being venerable gets u ….. he is doing fine
@Mental Healness I was listening to this video with my mom and when you were telling us how little you feel, I even commented to her that must have been really hard for you to admit. You must have felt really vulnerable to be able to speak on that. Your inner child was brave today
Because of narcissistic tendencies inside myself, I haven't been able to have a real relationship with anybody in my life that isn't more than a surface relationship, because my mind gets so crazy. I've been learning to try to embrace the good and bad inside myself and still only project the good things to other people, but it's been a huge struggle to not let the bad side loose. I know that I would lose everybody around me if I would say and do the things that are inside me, so I keep it to myself, and only say those things out loud when I am alone and in my prayers to God, because I know I would destroy my life otherwise. Good luck to you always, Lee. Thanks for being open and sharing.
Thanks for your candidacy 👍🏾
can you tell us what goes on your head that you think will lead to people leaving? perhaps this would lead to understanding n validation from us that will lift some of your fear pf abandonment n shame.
The courage to be vulnerable here is commendable. Thank you
@@sunkissedarkandainty01 *candour 😉
@@maryclaire340 candidacy 😉
Thanks, Lee! Yes, to more of the mindset of a narcissist. You are helping us to understand, recover, and stay safe from future narcissists 🎄 🎄
Thank you 🙏🏽
I think I have commented once before, but I literally binge watch your videos daily. Thanks for all your transparency.
Thank you. I appreciate it
@@MentalHealness No you dont .
@@Lord_Hillcrest ok
@@MentalHealness I was being harsh , do narcs appreciate anything ?
@Jon Hope Get help. You need it.
I recognized this and thought the fact that I felt he was insecure had me stay with him for 25 years until I realized he was turning a few of my kids against me and treating the rest as bad as he did me. I finally divorced healed myself and remarried to the nicest man I have ever met. I worry that one of my sons inherited his dads narcissism. I don’t even have any clue how to deal with that.
God help you escape the daily hell that you live through 24/7. Keep going, your headed in the right direction. I am grateful. Debbie
Thank you, I will
So true.. we demonize all things “dark” but it really does depend upon how you deal with darkness.
"I need to find one way I'm better than you. Just to feel better about myself." Thank you so much for this!!! Gosh, for those of us who are forced to deal with the narcissists, this helps so much. My SIL is a narcissist, and I can not cut her off until her child is 18. If I cut her off, she will take my niece from me... so I have to play ball. This helps me have compassion. I agree that unless she wants to do better for herself, I can't help her. But until that child is 18, I'm going to play her game. Otherwise, her child will suffer. Your channel has been a game changer for me. Thank You!!
Lee. God bless you for your transparency. It takes guts. I just want to add that the Narcissist can't shut off the thoughts cos the inner child is in pain. Hence why they need supply to regulate. Is too painful to face alone. 😫
Yes! You are our favorite. Self aware and most reasonable narcissist I've seen.
Thanks a lot for this explanation. I dumped and went no contact to my ex-Narc last October, and this quite sums it up. I wish all narcs could see this video, and go to therapy.
A big hug to all of you from Europe!
After years of "talk" therapy with counselors, struggling from the trauma of dealing with and having a trauma bond with a narcissist, I found someone who helped me. Near where I live I found a hypnotist who, after one session, freed my mind from the pain and trauma bond of the narcissist. After the hypnosis session, I didn't feel anxiety around people. I didn't care about the narcissist and didn't feel an attraction or pull to him. After all those years of struggling with the pain, I was finally freed. And when you're emotionally free, your body feels more free too. You are able to focus more on what you want to focus on.
Being raised by 2 narcissistic parents and a judgmental society I never really knew who I was but spending time by myself taking long walks and journaling venting out my frustrations and what I actually stood up for and who I wanted to be in the future and what I wanted to stand up for. People are supposed to be changing all the time based on their experiences. We're supposed to grow on an everyday basis. People are meant to have negative and kind of people come and go in their lives Negative people are supposed to teach us to be more cautious of the evil world out there and not just to give our hearts away What narcissists have to understand is that when they get angry over silly and small things they're giving away their narcissistic personality They're exposing themselves that they have a lot going on upstairs My mother used to try to get me to overthink and keep on beating myself up over small things I believe people just have to stop overthinking realize who they want to be what they want to stand up and that's who you become Good and bad people good and bad situations changed me a lot over time. What narcissistic people don't seem to understand is that non narcissistic people deal with a lot of the same struggles and thoughts that narcissistic people worry about Now that I know about narcissism I can see how a narcissist can give away their vulnerability all the time. Narcissistic people and non narcissistic people and people with narcissistic traits can all be vulnerable at times. We all have flesh and blood. We all can be hurt or killed. Taking long walks And journaling really help me out I'm not the type to meditate either I need to get out and just let my mind just wander. It seems to me now that my parents were trying to groom and condition me to become a narcissist.
Free thinking is a form of meditation. There is no ‘one size fits all’ form of meditation.
Many “non-narcissistic” people struggle to shut their thoughts off too.
This is a great video. It’s very insightful to get your own perspective - you’re brave to share it.
Dear Lee, I wish I found you 6-7 years ago. My narcissistic daughter died 8 months ago of alcoholism. I tried everything , nothing worked instead I got diagnosed with cancer from the stress. It is as much our fault whatever bad happens as the narcissist. I don’t mean that we should blame ourselves or the narcissist. I wish I could have played your videos to her. She was like you, mentally very smart but emotionally very stunted. I wonder if she would have been able to hear you and seek help. You must have a very smart therapist Which is rare. According to me my daughter had every thing going for her and she didn’t know it. She was smart, beautiful, funny, interesting personable, she had a charisma about her. Out of all that the only thing she recognized about herself according to how she acted, that she was smarter than everybody else. In a way she was, but I used to tell her knowledge without heart is cruel and heart without knowledge is ignorant. In other words, we have to learn wisdom to deal with them if we want to be happy or even have a possibility to see a change in them. they have to learn to have a heart to grow and be happy as much as we have to learn not to attract someone to use us and have the strength to do what’s right for both of us, first for yourself then you can possibly, possibly change their perception by observing you. I grief how she waisted her gifts and her life, she was only 52.
I started noticing. The signs when I had one class to finish for school and also I had got a raise at my job and any good news that I had to share with him. It just he made me feel like he wasn't happy for me and he always seemed like he was in competition with me more and more I listen to. Your videos the more I realize that I definitely was dealing with a narcissistic person,
My guy is providing an invaluable service
Man i totally feel this same way. Where im always on guard, meditation still has my mind running fast. Playing a musical instrument helps with that, playing my guitar calms the voices down a lot, so does walking outside. Im really realizing now that ive been a narcissist my whole life
It's super interesting! I've noticed I myself do have a feature which many narcissists have - "splitting". Even if I am not a narcissist! But I was raised by narcissists and I learned (by observation) that the world is black or white, and one can't be both. I love, Lee, what you therapists said: "Why no be both?!". I love it! I am learning to be both, and even if I am not a narcissist I struggle a lot with how i perceive myself in a splitted way and how I perceive others in a splitted way. It's terrible. I always hated it, but it was never modeled to me how to do it. So, as an adult I learn how to integrate my inner "pieces", pieces, which sometimes are very,very different, polarized.
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"Chest out...chillin...."😄🤣Thanks for your vulnerability Lee. This is such a clear explanation and thought process.🔥
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Lee, I really appreciate you making these videos. Being an empath with narcissistic traits you helped realize so much. Much love and appreciation
What traits do you have??? An Empath with narc stuff????
@Denise Stephens I'm what they consider a super empath. I"m able to act like a narcissist in order to protect myself and others from actual narcissists. I'm able to control my narcissistic traits
Jordan Peterson says that morality is in controlling the "monster" within us. There's no morality in people that are UNABLE to do bad because that's not a choice. The healthier place to be in is to recognize your potential to be dangerous, but having the control within yourself to not to. That's true power. It's not easy, but it's very human. Anyway, thanks for your transparency! I actually relate a bit. 🎄
Lee, I'm really happy that you are self aware and getting help. I love how you humanize narcs instead of demonize them. Seeing you gives me HOPE that all narcissists have a chance at being healed. I honestly doubt it'll ever happen 🥴 but it doesn't hurt to have hope. 😏🎄
You spoke about wanting to be better than a person you just meet. Wanting to emotionally hurt the person. When you spoke about that, it made me think about bullies. In a sense, bullies are the same way. At least some of them. So bullies can be jealous of you. Wow.
Thank you for the video.
you’re welcome
Lee, you are so vulnerable sometimes, like in this video, that it makes us love you so much! Since it’s especially hard to be vulnerable for narcissists, we really appreciate it!
I definitely have narcissistic tendencies. I honestly do want to change and your videos highlighted stuff I have done to people. I am so filled with regret and I can't believe I'm so self unaware
Every human being has narcissistic traits, it doesn't mean you're a narcissist!
@@haylslouise8428 I've recently got help and I have definitely improved. Practicing humility, confronting that judgmental voice in my head and letting other people have the spot light is very hard
If I gave my husband space...he would pout and when I asked if he wanted to talk...he would rage either silently or overtly directed at me. Damned if I did or didn't!
Wowwww!!!! Whew chile the turmoil!!! I’ve been binge watching your vids and omg I wish I could’ve found you 14 years ago. This is how long I’ve had to deal with a narc & you have hit every nail on the head, spot on about everything. I want a one on one. Will be scheduling soon. Thank you so much and pls take care.❤
🙏🏽 stay strong
I tip my hat to you Lee.
Wonderful honest personality. Thank you for being a fresh air. Quite funny too.
Lee, you do the proper thing as meditation... Meditation often is to let the thoughts flow without focusing on them, just let them pass.. sometimes it's just like that... It's no mean meditation needs to be clear in the mind all the time... Emptiness... Lee you do correct things...😊
What you're doing is huge. You were made for this. You got this. I so appreciate your vulnerability and being real. Hope is OK. Let people hope. Just a little . Faith is the substance of things hoped for. The universe is teaching them too and God bless the other narcs learning because of you. You give them strength to learn too. We're all in a process of change for the better. We come together for a reason. Interestingly, one vlogger said the reason we go after ghosters is because inwardly we really don't want commitment even if we say we do. 🤯
All these videos I’ve watched from you has really opened my eyes to the reality of my ex husbands actions and what I’ve been through.. and it’s comforting but also distressing at the same time.. Even though I somewhat understand it doesn’t justify his actions towards me… i just want to learn how to not be so hurt about everything that transpired and just keep going… it’s hard to forget cause he left me with three babies under 5 .. but im trying
You and babies are now free to live!!!....and their Mom has some wisdom for.them!!
Hard learning lesson, but so important to not be hoodwinked again. Don't leave your kids alone with him if you have any input.
10:50 Lee, this is meditation ☺️you let your thoughts go but don’t pass judgement on them 🙏
The "got it" stipulation shows that you still have a ways to go. Seek ye the truth...about yourself....humbly accept it. The truth of oneself almost always hurts, but it always heals. Peace be with you.
Thank you for always being so transparent Lee....I imagine its not easy for you but you are giving great advice....its good that you are finding the light in your darkness.....hats off to you sir!!!
Thanks, explains so much of their behaviour! Best analogy is the plastic bag disguise that others cannot see through but which can be burst easily..
Lee, so good. This is so helpful. Would love more of these, please. Thank you!
You’re welcome
You’re welcome
Thank you for your transparency and for sharing your story. It's making me reflect on my behavior rather than others. I'm letting the healing begin amidst my need to have control. ,
You are helping me and others so much. Thank you
You are so welcome
It’s just thoughts. That’s all it is. Just anxiety and trauma. Just keep doing the best you can and try your best to do things you enjoy. Try to take the thoughts and do something positive. These videos are great.
I don't know how to not be empathetic but I am learning that I can be empathetic from a distance.
Lee I love this video , you describe the disorder so eloquently from your own perspective, for people to actually understand the DSM disorder and not demonize it but also understand that it is not up to us to save anyone but keep ourselves safe . God bless you
Yeah, my ex would get it seemed very paranoid about everything new cars in the parking lot like. I would really trip off of how he would pay so much attention to. Oh. This car is not normally in the parking lot and sometimes. He would turn his head sitting on the couch and definitely be in his own thoughts. And he acted like he could not go without weed, and it was just crazy. I you're giving me so much insight. What happened in this relationship. Thank you so much I wish I had some money to pay you right now because you are definitely a blessing.
Thank you for videos like this. I was discarded about 6 months ago by someone who I now know has NPD. I know you would never encourage anyone to stay in a toxic relationship, but I still love this man and want to know as much as I can about how he thinks and why narcissists do what they do, which is so foreign to me. I have plenty of insecurities myself-most people do-but I am never “on guard” the way my ex was. I don’t suspect the worst of people; in fact, I try to give people the benefit of the doubt. I also know that narcissists are created, typically by terrible childhoods. Like you, my ex is a good person with learned defenses as a child that are now wreaking havoc on his life… So please, the more videos you can do to help us “neurotypical” people understand narcissists, the better. It will help us learn how to assess what is really happening in a situation and respond appropriately instead of taking things personally. If I knew a year what I know now, I think my ex and I would be in a very different place.
you have the info now to make a good decisions
Read the teachings of Buddhist monks and nuns. Even THEY struggle with “monkey mind”. Difficulty quieting the internal noise is one of the strongest indicators that you NEED to practice meditation. There is a reason meditation is called a “practice”.
Wow Lee thank you for being so open. That's hard to have to constantly worry about identity. Thanks for helping me and others understand.
Big brother Lee!! Thank you so much for your channel it has helped me to navigate coparenting along with scripture to protect my peace and myself.
I'm proud of you the fact that you realize you had a problem and cared enough to help 🆘🤣 yourself and your wife must really Love and believe in you and you twos relationship I wish you all the best and more healing every day
Hey you ...
I am a strong believer and i have the fastes heart rate i ever had right now. I am not one but i felt u down deep. I am sorry for what u really have to feel. It feels heavy. If u go and look at you out of a different light u will find a answer. I promise. A spirit is a spirit❤
Thanks Lee for all you’re doing bringing awareness to narcissism keep up the great work appreciate you much
You seem different,more intelligent than the usual narcs.I find them totally boring.great channel.I hope you and your family find peace.💙uk
Marriage doesn't change anything even if they say it will. It will change you mentally if you are with the narcissist.
Definitely will change you!!!! I completely lost who I was! I lost my mental health!!!! Stayed 18 years 😞
@@tammyinman1699 I'm in the situation right now. Unfortunately I married the man and nothing has changed.
@@bernaberna6917 I’m so very sorry!!! I hope you can take steps to get away. It isn’t easy and sometimes can be dangerous so be careful. My ex got pretty mean. Prayers for you 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
@@tammyinman1699 thank you so much for your prayers. I will. 🙂🙂🙂
@@bernaberna6917 ❤️
Wow! So informative.
Thanks a lot Mr Lee for honestly sharing this valuable information.
May The Good Lord continue to bless you. 🙏
May God bless you as well
I'm empath, and my ex fiance is narcissistic, who always wanted change. It's like I calmed her the best. At least, lead on to believe. My theory is that we have missing parts, and others have pieces to make our clocks tell a more accurate time. We stay attached and love narcissistic people so much because we want to burn them for habits and behavior they give into "How they felt and grew with it". That hurt we have and revnege, or justice we want is something they lived with. I loved she made me feel wild, and I made her feel safe. I don't need clingy or someone licking my wounds. I just know there is something special about trying to go against yourself to do the right thing. It shouldn't be unrecognized by anyone. My relationship I'll always be cherished because 3 years was perfect. Harmony. Yes, I was discarded after my mom died. But i can tell she was being forced by her mind. It's really like she had to give in, or something with her would blow. If the understanding that I trust you with my heart and you trust me with yours should be the most chemically stable relationship with passion and desire, you would think. People send a lot of hate on narcissism for good reason. If I had to push someone around in a wheel chair, I'd lose sex drive and other things sure and be attracted to others more than ever. Everyone can be guilty of the same crimes no matter the direction of traffic. Idk, something about eggs, dancing with rocks would be the ultimate. We take cheating so serious that since it's one of their hiccups and they know they are screwed. So why not give into yourself and relieve those voices. It's honestly no fair. If trauma k , can't become anymo, e then they stay. Somehow, embracing the darkness. We all act like narcissis at the end of the day. Not for everyone, but being understanding on either end should never go wrong.
I really thank you for making these videos, Lee, and being honest, because that's super helpful! 💯💯💯
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Oh wow, the revelation in this video. Wonderful info! Thank you so much Lee!
Thanks Lee. Doing a crash course and appreciate your work. Binge watching everything toxic to understand wtf
Thank you for being such a light for so many and vulnerable to share your stories.
Thank you!!!!! Thank you!!!!! We need to hear this!
I love this..
You said what I thought... He is terrified and paranoid. (not a boyfriend, a "friend" who is going to lose me Tuesday... Over. NC.. MEANS NO CONTACT....
Wow thank you so much for sharing this ❤ as an empathetic person I have outgrown so many narcissistic traits through spirtuality, meditation and SELF Reflection. This will remove those mental blockages. I wonder 💭 if this can help you as well. You never know God is so powerful.
Thanks Lee this helps me very much. God Bless!
You’re welcome
The mask came off once when he did tell me in the beginning
He said to me “ he is not a good person “
I felt emphatic and felt sad that all he needed was love ! I was wrong
I was wrong too. You are not alone
Prayers ❤️
You are very intelligent. Wish you continued healing trust me I feel you !
Wow! This video was great! Thank you for your honesty, now I understand what is going through my husband’s head. You’ve given me such clarity, I’m learning how to handle these situations. I don’t know if this marriage will last, but now I’m gaining knowledge and tools to handle narcissistic situations. Keep the videos coming!
Thank you for your honesty. I appreciate that very much 😊 good luck with your therapy!
Thank you for sharing this! This is so deep. I have seen this in action in an ex and it makes more sense, thank God you are self aware. May God continue to help you and use you to help people and I pray you find more peace 🙏🏽♥️
You are my favorite one and you are greatly helping me greatly.thankyou and thank you for your transparency.may God bless you
You are so welcome. God bless you as well
You & RUclipsr HG Tudor an ultra narc archetype are my favorite people who are self aware narcs
Anyone who calls themselves an "ultra" should be questioned, imo lol. Don't like hg tudors stuff, it's like he's writing narcissist fanfiction
@@goblin1226 but isn’t that what they do see themselves as top tier lol you think he’s a wannabe?
@@Loni91 i just think it's very convenient, that he's the top tier in his thought up schools of narcissists lol. Very surprising. I definitely don't believe he's a wannabe, i still think he's a clown tho
@@Loni91 That's right and want to add that HG Tudor is psychopathic, so he's much darker, for want of a better word, than Lee Hammock, which you'd know!
I've found both of them to be extremely helpful, not to mention intelligent, in their own ways and Lee seems to be less intimidating, which is to be expected. I'm aware that the latter person used be that way on a regular basis though. 😊
I appreciate it
I love your self awareness.That's gonna serve you well. Maybe not a cure but damn good
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Your description with the piano playing🤣🤣🤣
Thanks Lee. I am so sorry. I understand, I remember there were two roads. I didn't walk that road.I diceded to live. It was the right choice. It was the choice of pain, but see how much pain you have to endure.
The worst to me, we have to be enemies. I accept that.
You are helping while you are Sharing. Thank you
You’re welcome
That was truly awesome and so informative! Thank you for sharing this information with us and
for being you, doing the work you are doing!!! I appreciate you!! 🙏
Thank you 🙏🏽
You are the best! Please keep up. Lots of love from Germany!
So far, so good with him. He has mention to me some of his traits without coming out actually saying he's one. And stupid me never heard of a narcissit. He just have a lot of flaws, as do I. It's been a year. And I find myself; I can't live without him. I know he's brainwashing me. But, to make it more scary. I'm brainwashing my own self. But, I'm happy. And my inner child has never left me prior to meeting him. Which I met on a dating app
My narc husband once said to me that his mind races all the time,even when he sleeps,his mind is awake! I can only image that it must be so terrible!
Wow!!! Well put.
appreciate it
Yeah Lee, We R WATCHING U VERY CAREFULLY 😅😂🤣.
Great Performance Dude 😅
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Thank you 😊 your transparency, vulnerabilities, and candidacy is greatly valued!!!🙌🏾👏🏾🏆🥉🥈🥇🏅🎖
You are so welcome
candidness?
@@hashh2019 clearly you're a narcissist. For you to listen to and read all of this and conclude with THIS! 😂 shows your CANDIDACY...Google it💅🏾oh and sigma empath as well...#me😐
You even don't almost want this DNA🚽🧻🪠
bro, i just read 2 of your comments with that same word n it twisted my head- thought i will just put the word out there with no judgement.
thanks for correcting- honestly i was confused as i have used that term candidacy for so many exams that i seriously thought something is off n yea i have OCD for spellings
I have heard a narcissist rattle off a list of lives they have ruined with pride just like demons do when they manifest during deliverance.
Wow
@@christielawrence4640 Yes they are proud of the destruction that they cause.
That’s horrible
@@MentalHealness Well if it didn’t make a narcissist feel good they wouldn’t be doing it. At least he admitted it.
🎄 I do have empathy for the narcissists I have known, but it's from a distance. I don't know if telling them about narcissism would make their life any better. Imagine an ex partner or an ex friend telling you that and having that door unlocked by someone you probably see as an enemy. It would feel humiliating and extremely exposing. You would wonder how many other people know. It might take many years for you to actually want to learn more and get help. In the meantime you would find a way to damage who told you.
You have described someone I know to the “T”!
A narc is always on defensive mode - never think that some folks are really sweet & genuine & you see that as weakness not strength in a person.
Everything he staying is facts!!.. he is actually talking about the false self itself that portrays itself to other people and with the false self is doing is protecting itself from narcissistic injury it's extremely fragile that's where the war comes from and the narcissist mine there's a constant war going on mentally.
I wasted..I mean really wasted a big chunk of my life with a NPD infected man..23 yrs of hoping he would love me the same way I loved him. Now on reflection he already had a person HE LOVED..himself!
Nothing and no one will ever satisfy his love for himself. I find it grotesque that he never found time for his family in a REAL sense..always preening and looking in a mirror..now surrounds himself with expensive things to create envy and attention from others..I pity the people now around that.
Great channel.
Addiction and narcissist go hand in hand allegedly. But this explains why
Man, I have an aunt who’s a narcissist, and when she drinks she unfortunately it makes it 10 times worse.
Excellent video.
Good job on this. Thank you.
You’re welcome
Yes Paranoia is correct. Sam Vaknin says it is a big part of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Non narcissistic people and narcissistic people and narcissistic people have a lot more in common than narcissists realize. Being raised in a narcissistic society and being raised by narcissistic parents even non narcissistic people have to deal with narcissism and narcissistic thoughts.
Some of your videos make me have such compassion for my narc but it's twisted becuz I know I need to protect myself from him at the same time. It's a bit of a mess.
I’m a little bit county and a little bit rock and roll 🤩😎still learning me 💫
Lee, we really appreciate you doing these honest and open videos for us. I just want to tell you that Jesus can give you the peace that you are needing. May I make a humble spiritual suggestion? Have you ever read the gospel of John? I recommend it to learn about who He is and how much He loves you. Also read Romans 10: 9-13.
Thank you for sharing
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Thank you Lee for this great info. I do wonder what's in my m.i.l's mind? She constantly behaves like a victim. But is a nasty chronic covert narc. At church she is this old matriarch who works really really hard and takes care of her children and grandchildren and she is so holy. She is old and is suffering financially but yet continues to serve her family and is suffering because her son cut her off because his evil wife taught him. Yep, that's the picture she shows at church...