NOT HOW TO CHRISTMAS EVE
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- NOT HOW TO CHRISTMAS EVE is a meme animation about a wojak who, forced by his own conscience every year, has to attend Easter. The lack of socialization with anyone pushes him into extreme paranoia where every word and every gesture "must" have a second meaning.
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How do you spend your Christmas?
Drugs
Together with my family
lonely
Watching MilleniaThinker
Going to my grandma so I can make her happy
Being alone is better than being with people that makes you feel alone.
Merry Christmas everyone.
Amen. Merry Christmas to you too!
💯
Alone on Christmas too, my brother. Amen.
Being alone is not a bad thing. It's the loneliness that sucks. That is why a partner is needed so you won't be obliged to go to the family gatherings just to have someone in Christmas.
@@engr_qt7093 a family gathering should be a joy for all participants, but you describe it as something that should be avoided. That is sad
The big fat dude has a heart unlike the rest of the family he's defending him too this man is truly a chad
Yeah, what a valuable family member.
I understand what you mean but you could just call him a nice or decent person. A chad is a conventionally attractive man desired by many women. The real life equivalent of him would be a low tier normie or an incel because of his looks.
@@miesvaillanykyisyytta3252 The redefining of "Chad" is comical to me as it used to mean a jock type who is a meathead and rather dumb...they all look and act the same. Cheers!
@@miesvaillanykyisyytta3252 pls dont take internet seriously
@@miesvaillanykyisyytta3252 and i take "chad" as someone who is confident, radiant, brave and morally right. 3 different takes on a internet word
Merry Christmas y'all. Especially to those who will spend it alone
You too man, you too.
Wesołych świąt ziom.
Thanks, you too.
HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU TOO BRO.
you too brother
Know this, MillenniaThinker: you are part of many of us who find solace in the content you provide. We do not hate you, we appreciate you for the work you've done to express yourself and reach others. It may not matter to you, but that's ok.
Merry Christmas.
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Totally. Merry Christmas people, i wish you all to find some peace from modern struggle and stress
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Yes
With each passing year, the magic of Christmas disappears more and more
They got us anon... they got us all.
I try to keep the flame Alive
Next year in a metaverse
It's harder and harder every year to keep it going.
The more you run away from your family, the more you allow the norms, the social media and all other stuff to suck you... traditional values disappear
4 stages involving Santa:
- you believe in santa
- you don't believe in santa
- you become santa
- you end up looking like santa
- you die
:o
We truly live in a society
Intriguing to look like a chetnik
3 stages of opening presents on Christmas
Kid: toys
Teenager: video games and DVDs
Young adullt: vast quantities of pain killers
stage-6 you become a member of the grand church of Santa
"Mother, do you want help?"
"No."
5 minutes later:
"Why isn't anyone helping me? You're lazy and useless."
If that's not the truth
Parents are such a hit-or-miss thing. They can teach you love and acceptance or they can turn you into a miserable pile of agony for the rest of your life. Seems like there are far more those of the second type: broken people creating more broken people.
@@prophetofthemightysquirrel5434 childfree here. came from a broken family. people still don't understand why I don't want to have a family. People think living as a broken person is easy and expect us to bear children.
@@neutralmilkbaby Eh, society's opinion on me can eat a hundred kilometres of AIDS-ridden phalluses. They don't understand? They won't even try to do so for even a fraction of a minute, so screw them.
@@neutralmilkbaby Same, Man. Same...
I few months ago i started having weird feelings - the ones that can only be described as a desire to become a father. Not in a usual normie way of leaving a legacy or doing what everyone does but in a way of having a loving family - to adore and be adored, to have actual connection.
Sadly, everything is againts it, and even if the stars are right i would just end up passing my curse to my child and i just can't have that - i don't want anyone to suffer, be it plant, animal/insect or man.
It's funny how our child dreams of going to space are replaced with something more down to earth and simple when we grow up.
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone." - Robin Williams
"Johnny got his gun" would be much much worse
ok but ya gotta get over it.. - tony s
this is so true.
I love being alone but your statment still true.
Ironically, Christmas becomes miserable when everyone forces you to be happy.
Toxic positivity is one of the worst shits out there
@@lightspeed9762 Yeah and no one talks about it.
They force you to be happy and positive but it makes me feel even more miserable when i try.
For every nice thing i can find there 10 shitty things about this nice thing.
I hate how the world is evolving and the direction we are taking.
The more time passes the less i can hide my true feelings about it.
@@HeyMomonia I feel You bro/sis, remember You are not alone
@@lightspeed9762nah negativity is far more toxic
@@HeyMomonia you’re forcing yourself to be negative and misery not the world or anyone that’s just facts constant denial and blaming anyone but yourself is what makes people miserable
I’ll be spending Christmas alone, but Thanksgiving was enough. I’d rather be by myself than amongst people who make me feel alone.
You guys are celebrating thanksgiving?
- Me (a german)
@@themiddletaker6801 yeah. Americans celebrate that holiday
@@EnigmaShadow03 what exactly do you celebrate with Thanksgiving? What is the reason?
@the middletaker Thanksgiving in Germany is apparently called Erntedank, so imagine that holiday happening in America and Canada? The day was originally dedicated to thank God for allowing them to harvest plentiful crops from farms that year
@@leopardii6565 thanks for explaining me, now I understand
"Santa blows all these shipping companies away. He delivers more than 2 billion packages in 24 hours. He does it by sleigh. He doesn't use tracking numbers and doesn't use trucks. He just uses midgets and a giant bag" - Beff Jezos
Santa believers 💪😎
St. Nicholas enthusiasts😎💪
Beef Jizzos
Santa believers💪💪
lol
This is exactly why I stopped going to family gatherings. Never waste your time on people who don’t value you, doesn’t matter if they’re family or not.
My family talked about drama at work, and politics. I didn't outright dislike it, but I felt that I wasted my time. I think I'll just keep working and not go next year.
@@ItalianStallion1415 if the gathering made you feel bad then don’t go. Do something that you enjoy instead, doesn’t have to be work, anything that brings you joy.
No man I advise to go, familia is the most valuable thing so enjoy the present so that you have no remorse
@Fuckyouall6679 vin distal would like to chime in
I decided that at this point the only family I care for is my father, mother and brother.
Decided that won't go to the rest of the family meetings next year as I am the only based and redpilled guy with more serious interests here
Thought only I thought that way but I see a lot of strangers thinking the same.
Trzymajta się tam, anoni. Jestem obcokrajowcem, sam, we Wrocławiu, latem prawie straciłem życie w wypadku, ale przeżyłem. Nie mam GF, mam słabo z pieniędzmi, ale najważniejsze że żyję. Wszystkiego wam najlepszego i ja wierzę, że tacy jak my dadzą rady.
Warszawo warzc!
Żyjesz już jak typowy Polak...
@@dawid2383 Hahahahahahhahahah
@@dawid2383 xD
It's very importanr to lift your own spirit because no one could. Merry Christmas, happy holidays and hold on.
When I was a child Christmas was the most exciting time of the year. As an adult all of this magic disappeared, even though I have a family.
Because you're growing up
@@veiserexab1428 adults made it seem like growing up wouldn't be that bad
When you find out Santa isn't real it starts
@@guilhermehank4938 it depends on environment they grew up with
@@TheMockingjay74 its not really that bad
Many times, being with the family is exactly what brings you down. Worse if you depend on them for money, even worse if you depend on them for approval.
Yep, and I don't think spending Christmas by yourself watching a movie or playing games is bad in some way. If that's what my options are, I will gladly except them. Forcefully spending a "family holiday" with your "family" isn't the best for everyone.
Cuz you are still a child.
Its no different when saying '' Mommy, can you please buy me this candy :( ''
@@tvb4227 not necessarily Calling somebody a child, just for their toxic need of approval from their family members is pretty shallow.
Who needs such a Family? I rather stick to good friends where I don´t need approval and know that I am in good company.
Christ, this chilled me. I remember Christmas at my grandmothers having so many more family members and people playing card games and joking. Some people died, some people just don’t come anymore. The worst thing are the conversations, they’re so soulless and hollow… everyone’s just waiting till they’ve been there long enough where it’s socially acceptable to leave.
It's better being alone than have your solitude taken without getting companionship.
From a friend of mine, who lost his parents quite early, he'd say he would still prefer this kind of Christmas.
However I would she on, that having such a "Family" like in the video, it is still worse than having none at all.
Edit: reminds me of the first big battle between Sasuke and Naruto. Naruto arguing that them both are the same, because both have no Family, while Sasuke replying that he had a family, which was then taken away from him, while Naruto had never one to begin with.
@@heisHans I think the naruto thing applies to me and me seeing this comment section. I have never celebrated christmas so I might not relate to those that have celebrated it and lost the magic. I kind of feel it though, that vibe is sort of disappearing.
The way I see it the magic of Christmas is something that you and everyone has to put effort into upholding. Holidays are arbitrary and they only matter when everyone works together to make it matter. For me the magic came from all the cartoons movies decorations music and the attitude that people had that made it seem like there was some sort of force that made them the way they were. But it was really them all seeing each other coming together and working hard to make the holiday work. When your a child you weren’t really buying presents or really thinking about how its all put together, your just along for the ride.
My take on the doomer is that if he wants a good christmas he has to work around the family to make the christmas happy or find people or friends or whatever so they can help give some of the christmas magic to him. In my opinion his family can go fuck themselves because I doubt they’ve done much or are doing anything to help the doomer. And if they did its like they’ve given up on him. I think it would be better if the doomer just left them, or pulls himself up so they might like him. But if his goal is just to enjoy himself then spending christmas with them isn’t the answer.
@@crustykeycap5670 beautifully said
I recommend people not to be ashamed of what they did, even if it was nothing. What you did/stopped doing would still impact you to either change or continue that way, that depends on you to decide if you really want to keep going that path. Christmas/New Year's day is meant to be celebrated by taking what it means a true free day, where not only you're free physically, from your job and other responsabilities, but mentally, to adjust yourself by looking back at the past. I tried not to use "should" because I'm not really someone you should use for guarantee, as I am just a random guy who is posting his opinion while in the bathroom LOL.
Anyways, merry christmas, 'anon'?
To be fair though if you were given very good opportunities and you didn't take them without good reason you should be ashamed. We all do it and we should all feel a little shame for our screw ups, because that's how we progress as humans.
@@fastestdino2 True
@@fastestdino2 I had many oportunities to text in the bathroom this year but I wasted all of them. I envy this guy for acquiring this time saving skill. It will be my main goal for next year.
@@SoulGuitarMetal Lets go soldier! We will follow your journey with great interest
@Dark gamer That's strange, I don't remember having one, ja?
Not the best Christmas this year, but I'm hanging on alright.
We all gonna make it brah!
Same
@@wobblemotion6026 Zyzz!
Can't wait to start my own family and make the most perfect christmas every single year just to make my children and wife experience what I never did
You can do it bud! Tell us how things go!
That's a good goal.
That's a great goal, hope you pull it off
Good luck bro 👍
Yes me too now we wait for our girlfriends/wives
Personally, I fucking wished I could spend Xmas alone. Legit.
Damn, you here?
@@choppergunner8650 nah
No you dont
I'm down to swap what you have for the nothing I have..
Didn't know you watched this type of content
Merry Christmas to all the introverts out there! Stay strong, 2021 is ending, and be proud for all the achievements/experiences that we gained this year.
Introversy is a cope
Thank you. Bless you sir
Pretty sure being introvert or extrovert aren't related to being jobless and miserable
Not introverted just depressed
@@frds_skce for real, I'm introverted and never feel depressed, nor I am jobless.
Still, no need to shame people who feel bad
I miss the days when santa used to be real
Same anon...same.
He always was. His real name is Saint Nicholas.
Become Orthodox Christian ☦
But he is real!!! He is just in my basement
@@lordofhostsappreciator3075 cringe
@@lordofhostsappreciator3075 No need to be a heretic when Catholics have Saint Nic as well ;)
I hope that those that are in the unfortunate situation of spending Christmas alone or even worse, forced to spend it with people you dislike are more fortunate next year. Happy Holidays to everyone
dont lose doomer, i want to see you one day become
a bloomer
isnt it usually the Bloomers who become Doomers?
@@armoredlumberjack1999 yeah but this timeline might show otherwise
@@armoredlumberjack1999 the normie wojak becomes a doomer
@@armoredlumberjack1999 Once red/black pilled by life all become Doomers. Doomers become Bloomers but have to keep from reverting back to the Doom.
@@akio619 This sounds like me tbh but im more of a Dloomer
Merry Christmas everyone.
Stay strong in this Clown World.
I hope that the year 2022 will be different for us all.
It will be the same. Until we die.
@@HassanPoyo Sauron died at the end eventually.
It won’t
Stay strong, King.
Born to feel
holy shit boomer really just disrespected doomer with a who asked
LMAO
Savage!
This is it.
I don't fucking know anymore, I just don't.
How can something that's supposed to be full of joy and excitement be turned into something that I don't even wait for.
I don't care about presents, if they're too expensive I'll try and give the money back.
I don't wanna suck on people's money.
I don't know anymore. I genuinely can't comprehend why christmas isn't happy anymore.
It's not exciting. I don't even get to talk when I want to because I am scared I'll be laughed at or something.
This christmas was so warm
I didn't get one part happy, I've never even seen snow on christmas, so this day was nothing out of the ordinary.
In fact I cried for whatever reason. Christmas just doesn't feel like Christmas anymore.
Merry Christmas for the ones who have it.
We all try to keep our Christmas candles alight, even if every year it seems to be slowly fading away and the child like excitement is no longer commonly felt, so try to share the light with people who also want to share it with, even a stranger and remember what Christmas really means, a merry Christmas to you and a happy new year!👍🥳
@@asidender2674 thanks!
Heh I feel the same way. I think its the age really. At least im not young enough to be excited for presents and such and im not old enough to find joy in family reunions so im just not really excited tht prob changes
@@arandomhungarian1659 The magic of Christmas somewhat goes when you grow up. However, things that make christmas special no matter what age is having a social group you feel at home with goes along way. Which for a lot of families I get dont have such a bond.
Ive always gone by the saying 'you cant choose family but you can choose friends'. Give someone you care about a shout, youll be suprised how open people are on xmas and nye and might give you a spark.
I wish you the best and hopefully 2022 brings you success Anon.
@@asidender2674 i think if you find person to talk with that actually knows you would during Christmas would be the best Christmas gift
it hit close to home when doomer said " i survived, im even surprised myself ". thats how ive felt for a while
I got used to being alone for every single holiday.
The worst thing is when you give up on people 'cause you were proven time and time again that they succ ass, but then everyone suddenly starts being nice and all that. That shatters your reality haha
Expecting the worst is better than having high expectations. At least you are grounded to reality.
If they treat you poorly, then move on without them.
If they try to be nice, ignore them. It's just a trap so they can get their punching bag back.
Eliminating toxic people from my life has been one of the best things I ever done. Whether it's friends or family.
@@Soundsofthewood I am toxic. My only friend said that to me. I can see why its my fault and how I react and stuff... And I hate school, I'm having bad grades. Its really fun to see how there is no compasion in the world, but I'm not going to be difficult and I'm just going to take what there's being offered. Whatever I'm not good myself either. I hate when people reffer toxic people, its like its all their fault.
@@lessens_2004 well if you know the traits of being g toxic and you see yourself doing them, then you have to fix that with your own actions.
I guess I should've included that.
I'm a very forgiving person, but I won't put up with a person that continues to be toxic and shows no sign of changing that.
You mentioned school so I'm probably alit older then you.
So I dealt with alot of toxic people over the years.
I'm willing to steer them in the right direction, but most times those people will fight it.
The times I dealt with the most.
Racist.
Bullies( verbal, physical, both.)
Bad habits that affect their and other people's lives.
Thievery.
Addictions.
Over the top liars.
Scammers
Ect.
If you know where you're being toxic, then fix it. I would also examine your friend there and see if he/she is toxic. Because sometimes they're toxic, but would rather push that off onto other instead of accepting the truth.
And I had toxic traits as well and I went and fixed them. Sometimes it's hard to know you're being toxic.
Like complaining about a job non stop and don't even notice you're kill the hopes of someone else that actually likes working there.
I'm guilty of that with my time in the army.
@@Soundsofthewood Thanks for the help and advise! I want to change and start being less toxic, bad influence. I'm feel guilty and angry.
Guilty because I couldn't see my bad influence on some persons and that I couldn't notice it. The person I have troubles with is not bad at all. I started it and said bad things that led to this mess. I was kinda selfish. I wasn't aware I guess, to me it seemed normal. Even her parents think I'm bad for her.
I'm angry at myself because I know I won't change. I try to change, to understand others and how they feel about certain things. But it seems after some time of being concious of what I do or say, I repeat the same mistakes and say bad stuff. I know its my problem, most people would ignore and I know most people won't take its seriously or don't care, they'll say 'its your problem' or there are worse things that could happen and they are completely right. But she is also the only friend I have, i don't know what's worse than losing a friend.
I try to talk to her, communicate. But whenever I try to talk to her she doesn't look at me. After school's done and we go home I try to talk to her but when I approach she speeds away and she's gone, or she goes to her other friend. I even asked her 'Do you want to do something during vacation? you know its christmass and stuff.' She said no. She doesn't like, talk to me anymore. It seems hopeless.
Sure, forgiving is good, but do you still trust them? Will things go back to the way it was?
Guess its understandable, people don't want to talk to toxic people and feel that negatvity.
Hopefully you understand it and I also didn't want to share my toxicness to you if it seems I did. Just my thoughts, how I see things the way they are.
"when you're young, Xmas is joyously fun, but when you're old, Xmas is sadly dull"
- a lonely wojak
Perhaps one of the core messages out of many that can be taken from this video is that sometimes your own family isn’t good for you and toxic but you can still have excellent friends that are a perfect substitute that won’t bring you down and care for what you have to say and do.
Agree!
Because some people argue with their parents even if its littlest problem
and what if you ahave no friends?
I think people react too bad about being alone at Christmas, at least for me it's a day like the others, you shouldn't feel bad if you spend that day alone because it's your choice or because you couldn't spend it with other people.
I mean it's not the worst thing ever, but if you were alone the rest of the year as well you might realise that you are doing something wrong in your life.
@@thegodfather5842 That for sure bat if it's just for this day, who cares. In my case, this year I spent Christmas alone at home because of problems with some relatives
Na is bad Christmas is like alcohol every emotion we have in the moment is gonna be way bigger this part of the year, when you are a child full of happiness that's the best of your years but when you grow and notice you are always alone that feeling becomes something that takes part of you and make you feel like is the only one whos alone when the others are having the best moments of their lives
@Fuckyouall6679 I would characterize myself as introvert but still that example seems to extreme to be healthy to me. Unless you are too preassured by studies or work being isolated for a whole year seems unreasonable and unheathy
Merry Christmas everyone!
To those that are celebrating alone, try not to be discouraged. To those who are in a dark place please stay with us longer. To those who recently broke up with their significant other, someone better will come along, which I still haven’t seen myself, but I’m hopeful. To everyone I would like to say stay strong and do that thing you always wanted to do, don’t let it pass by and miss your chance. You won’t be able to change the past and living with regret is much more difficult than disappointment. You have your life ahead of you for disappointment to be erased but regret remains a stain on the mind.
If someone doesn’t bring me more peace of mind than my own solitude does they’re not around long.
💯💯 words to live by, bro
Yep I felt so lonely with my highs mates or college mates worse..so bored of them..no fun not an interesting thing to say..shared whole life and energiess as teen for nothing...better off alone I realized a bit too late
Never before, like this year, have I felt so judged by my parents. The feeling that you wake up every morning and others have to smile at you falsely, grinds you day by day until the idea that you do not exist and that no one knows you becomes a good one. Merry Christmas to those who feel like strangers among their loved ones.
this channel is amazing at portraying the subtle aggressions people project onto others
Sitting here on Christmas Eve with no electricity because some asshole wrapped his car around a telephone poll. Merry Christmas everyone.
I'm so miserable when the holidays are happening....
Same here
I definitely feel this anon, I don't try to spend Christmas with my family like it used to be because so much has changed and I'd rather not waste my time spending it with people I don't like.
@Hals Earhart I feel that too.
Feel you bro, its really hard but I think I rather be alone than be with people who always kill your mood.
@Hals Earhart 💯
I don't want to spend Christmas with my family because there's no love and joy. Unfortunately I don't know where to go on Christmas Day and staying outside for 8 hours in the park cold is a bit difficult
Westerners forgot what actually is the true meaning of Christmas, what we actually celebrate (at least us christian).
@YourRationalWorldisaCircleJerk It is called Christmas, not Familymass.
@YourRationalWorldisaCircleJerk Strawman? I'm not trying to have a dang argument. All I'm saying is, I celebrate it as a Christian and with my family although they're not devout whatsoever so to me it goes further than just family and it is evident not only in name but the practises and attending church.
To be frank that's kinda your own fault throughout generations you've slowly allowed consumerism and selfishness to take over your holiday that was meant to be about coming together as a community in selflessness
@@almalone3282 Sad but true.
@@anonymerdude4501 watch how they ignore this fact lol
I really like how the color scheme transitions at 6:04-6:07 from vibrant, more welcoming colors to plain and gray theme. It emphasized the bleakness of reality and makes viewer subconsciously relate to the doomer. Great work bro!
Is it past to present or are they entirely different people is what confuses me
@@Carl_Shackleford those are his friends, they appear in other videos, I guess he’s imagining spending the holidays with his actual friends instead of his toxic family
It’s the worst when the older people in the family use holiday gatherings to simply compare everyone’s income or “success” in life. It’s not what meeting with family is about. If you ever get asked your income DONT answer because all they will do is label you.
That speech at the end really got me in the feels.
I like your pfp, this guy always had a good heart. It feels like society has gone down the papers please route.
Hope everybody has a Merry Christmas. Just try to hold onto what little joy is left.
yare yare
yar yar dayz
Ora ora ora ora
Stand, a gift that we want
@@monsterboomer8051 MUDA MUDA MUDA MUDA
pretending to get along with my siblings so my grandparents can die living a happy delusion
That's crazy men
@@misterycryptowhoknows8017 man?
I meant that I found it crazy what you said.
@@99onone50 Who are your siblings? I have two brothers and we are close.
@@nelzelpher7158 i grew up in a two bedroom two bathroom house, one living room/kitchen/dining room, we were 5. my father had the bedroom bathroom to himself nearly all day, i lived my early life in two rooms. try forming healthy relationships in that environment, the constant beatings didn't help either i guess.. but in the end i didn't have any good or strong relations with my family with the rare exception here and there
My family always finds a way to fuck it up and tear each other apart.... every fucking Christmas, every single meeting any day of the year... but that boy is dead, he is a man now, and he is not scared to punch back anymore.
Thank you for taking your time making this animations. I really appreciate your work and advice in this platform. Thank you, and merry Christmas.
I didn't enjoy my christmas much, but anyways happy holidays everyone
edit: replace happy holidays with merry christmas
wait, has christmas already passed in ur country already?
Say "Merry Christmas" or "Blessed Nativity". "Happy Holidays" is for secular deboonkers who want to erase the Christian roots of the holiday.
@@lordofhostsappreciator3075 .
@@thatcactus5451 yes
@@lordofhostsappreciator3075 Hello again fren.
It drives me nuts whenever i get asked or joked about the fact that im not in a relationship during these types of family gatherings, like its the single biggest , most important thing in life. Fuck everything else ive achieved thus far... it makes me feel worthless even tho i know im not it still somehow makes me feel this way and i absolutely hate it.
Merry Christmas everyone, now go out there and be a chad
I'd rather stay away from the drunken crowds during a pandemic winter, thank you very much.
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you need good genetics, be above 6' tall, 6 pack, handsome symmetrical face, good hair, big pen1s, and wide frame, to be a Chad
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d "They hated Jesus because he told the truth"
@@user-ju6zx3rm8d You can control most of that with aesthetics tho, of course not the 6 ft
This hits close to home, everyone in our family hates each other ever since our grandmother passed away and wouldn’t make us all have Christmas together. Spent this Christmas with a buddy of mine on discord who also cant really celebrate it either. Good to have some company but not how Christmas should be celebrated, hopefully when I have my own children I can make sure they always have a good Christmas even for their grandchildren. Merry Christmas everyone!
Im scared of, not this christmas eve, but the upcoming new year. Since uni started in person i struggled extremely hard on making new friends. Its a long story, im a bit introverted and a year more of quarantine killed my social skills towards the end lmao. I will probably spending the new years eve alone without a single invitation.
Yup.
That's okay. Go do whatever you want that you can do alone. I understand your feelings and frustration but it doesn't mean you're a bad person.
don't get anxious darling, if you get to relax a little you will be fine. And don't feel pressured to spend holidays with someone
You’re an amazing story teller. The way you right these scripts feel as if…real. I want to become a good writer like you someday, you are very inspirational, and you make me think about how cruel life can be and that not every story ends happily ever after.
Atheist waiting for the Science Tree to evolve into Darwin Claus so that they can have Booster shots
Idk what you mean, I didn't even had my first vaccine yet.
I don't think they want the ouchy
as an atheist f the boosters
I wanna kinda get this out of my chest.. im Spending Christmas alone for the first time and i know this isn't gonna be the last but this year has been very Hard And lonely for me so i kinda wanna say to those who will be spending it alone as well is.. have a very Special Christmas 🎄.
you are not alone, we are all with you in heart
" I must add something until now I was only a passive listener. "
Summary of my life.
Merry Christmas Anons.
This Christmas wasn't inherently bad for me, but the mood is just dead. Not to mention all the stuff that's overshadowed the past 3 Christmases for me, it's all just coming back to me.
But at least my family doesn't berate or belittle me. And hearing about other's horrible experiences with family, I've learned to be grateful for the little things like that
Thanks for your words at the end. Even if I never saw you I learnt much from you this year. So thanks Anon and have a great Christmas and new year.
I have disliked Christmas ever since that one year where my sister was treating me badly, and then my mother wanted me to help decorate the tree.
My entire family is obese, so it was tricky for them to get up high and down low on the tree. I have always been fit and still am.
I didn't like how I was treated for some reason, but I forget why now. I just went into my room. I must have been 11 or 12. I remembered that, and the summer of 2003, I decided I was going to stop talking to my family. I went into my room for days at a time and only came out at night time. At first they pretended not to notice. After a while, my father got angry like was acting weak, but that didn't bother me at all because I have always known that me at whatever age could probably kick the ass of my father at that age also, also my father was never particularly harsh or mean about anything. My mother got angry and took it all personally and would yell at me and treat me badly for not talking to her, so I just kept staying in my room and not talking to her. Then she started trying to get physical, but I was reasonably strong and flexible, so she would slap me and sometimes miss, or I would stare at her and just kind of eat the slap, knowing it was coming. One time she was trying to grab my arms/wrists for some reason in a rage. I just stood there, stronger than her, not moving and not particularly angry. I wanted her to know that I wasn't just teenage angry. I was done with her as a person and she was too unpredictable for me to want to engage with her by choice. I joined the military and dealt with more assholes. I had thought that since I was reserved, fit, clean, and stoic that I'd do well in the military. Then I started getting into trouble for my neighbor having a dirty room or something... and that kind of bothered me. I started seeing people sign out maintenance tools in my name and losing them. (happened 3 or 4 times). The few friends I had started doing drugs. I lost interest in getting promoted. I started to dislike women because of how they act in the Marine Corps. I realized that I could never date one of them and that they all depended on men to bail them out of work and/or fitness. I remember still being happier in the military than back at home, though.
I just don't know what to do. I want to build familiarity with someone. I tried marriage and she was just a cheater and cokehead. I don't know how I have failed so hard. I think I am missing something that other people have. I don't naturally want to talk to people about normie stuff like sportsball/netflix shows/politics or whatever else. I want friends that I can build stuff with, or plant a garden with, or get drunk and do pranks with, or something. I do some of that stuff on my own, but when I'm around people... they often do some kind of joke where I have to have fake laughter, and I don't even smile because it's not funny at all, or they start to slowly become commanding and/or demanding of my time. It happened once when I was married that something of mine walked off from one of my ex's many many many low quality friends and they would trash the house too. I sort of figured that's not me. It's the world, which is the most depressing thing of all, but it also seems like I'm the common denominator so it must be me... but the two aren't mutually exclusive, which might even be worse because it means I have work to do, but it still might not be enough, but my only option is to try, which is a real pain in the ass.
Maybe the people in the world are mean and abusive and it is true that they shouldn't be. Then maybe it is also true as well that I, personally, and many other people like me are doing things that draw out the worst behaviors of those around you. I think this now because I can see that people I know treat other people they know better. I think people are just too tempted to assert their dominance within your territory or disrespect you, and if you don't notice or something or you don't care about the kinds of things they care about(like someone borrowing something small and practically meaningless and then telling you after because 'we are close' Which a lot of people would overlook once or twice, or scratching their naked foot against the edge of your coffee table), they keep disrespecting you further and it escalates... then you try to draw a line, and the person thinks that you are acting out of line because in the past you were constantly walked on and now you don't like it. So you have to escalate... so now your friend acts like a victim and that you "just blew up" or something from their perspective. I think that happens to a lot of people. So now I have no friends generally because if someone seems too eager to befriend me, or it's a woman that wants to be my friend, or the slightest infraction after becoming a friend, I will stop talking to the person. It seems like if I am as good of a person as I can be without expecting anything and kicking out any people that I don't need, I might draw in some quality people, but those quality people are probably busy doing things and succeeding.
So I don't know what to do. So far, I have tried a few hobbies... I think my self-development will come from within... not from someone else. Right now I am trying to turn a cheap machete into a cutlass in my garage with a basket hilt and a mirror finish. I want to get good enough to refurbish junk and sell it to yuppies.... but I might quit and work on something else... I don't know. We'll have to see.
dont lose yourself, and hope things will turn better in your life! stay strong, mate!
Hang tough bro.
If you want serious advice - seek therapy, I had a turbulent childhood, and served in the forces, and since leaving I've been unable to establish a relationship, and therapy is helping me to think differently about my situation and what happens in my life. It pays to speak to somebody who knows their shit 👌
To me, it sounds like that one situation with your family on Christmas was the catalyst for everything. If that is the case, how come you can't remember what it was about?
As someone who's on the outside, your behavior towards your mother in particular sounds heartless. It sounds like she became desperate, frustrated at this anger from you towards her that she couldn't understand. Was it just because of that one event? Was it impossible to make peace with her? Why didn't you just tell her how you felt? I'd be worried about your parents being overweight in particular.
I wish all those things you desire come to you, and that you achieve peace
I remember as a kid I loved Christmas and I was happy now that I’m a adult I spend most of my holidays alone and isolated
Average drainer, I feel u
@@tomato9593 😭 yeh I got to love bladee and thanks man for understanding hope you have a good life
Your story is exact the same with mine. I either made a big mistake in my life or didn't that I started to use Discord for first time even though I had already made an account before but never used it. Online friends are either being hostile to me or trying to make a friendship with me but it's still the same. I always get in a toxic relationship. I'm toxic and they are toxic. I know to tolerate, to hurt myself every single bit when I think again of what I had done to them, I never had the courage to really say sorry but thank you? Yes. I thanks a lot. I hate myself for making friends, I hate being alone, having no one to share my bitter or sweet, sour stories to , but then it all ends in a toxic way. Maybe we were all being selfish or maybe we have never really understood each other. But having online friends helps to define my own personalities, my own somewhat - hard-to-understand self, I don't have to feel lonely anymore but after all, it all comes to an end, the biggest fears, the biggest enemies, REGRET and AGONY... I was too dumb to realise what had my family done horribly to me, I had to hide it, not to let closed people know, and I thought that sharing what my parents had done to me to strangers on the Internet could help me a lot in somekind of emotional way. Yes, but also no. I wanna be alone but also not wanna hide my feelings, my deep-down stories, at least for strangers not any closed ones. I'm being way too terrible in looks, characteristics, mentality, etc... And once again, it's midnight of Christmas and I'm here, alone, listening to type of Indie music, Blues, Classical, RnB, but something different is that I'm listening alone in Discord vc. Thanks a lot for meeting you guys and I'm sorry for being such a terrible person. Merry Christmas!!!
Im in the military and i will spend christmas with a squad i dont know and a shithead officer. Remember it could always be worse!
How was it?
*They say there are three of you inside your head.*
The one you show your family.
The one you show your friends.
And the one you actually are.
Family has rules. Rules that you were born under. When next to family you're held back emotionally, having to fit a role of being a father, a careful mother, a responsible brother, or a younger who has to do his best to not disappoint anyone. Family is the heaviest shackle there is.
Friends are your interests manifested into people. You find them naturally, but first you have to develop yourself. You're free to talk with them about whatever you wish, because it's a relationship based on who we are, and not where we come from. It's also the most fragile of the two shackles, because anything can destroy it, and it might not even be anyone's fault.
You have life that you probably never told anyone. Probably because of fear of rejection from society. This is the one of you that is the most hidden, because it's ruled by fear. Family and Friends, they are the shackles that keep the true you in order. In most cases, the shackles weight so much on people that they end up forgetting who they really were before. Their life becomes what they do for others. But there are some instances, some fascinating people that were born with the ability to not care. Those are the people that are truly happy, and always will be.
So, Anon... who are you gonna be next year? The choice is yours.
But not really.
Well. If it helps, you are doing something important to me, and to a lot more people around the globe too. You are not the loser some people think you are.
To me Millenniathinker is a legend.
5:53 I really like this part honestly, how the ones to appear are his friends, how it shows he would rather be with who he considers his real family, the family he chose and not the one connected by blood
List your fears/hopes for this Christmas EVE?
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edit: no listing, return to lazy
I hope I get my Logitech steering wheel for my racing games
My hope in christmass is I wanna died & my fear is to not die
I hope ill get more friends soon
@@askended6726 what the heck
hey man thanks for putting this content out. I first came across your channel a year ago during covid19 lockdowns and was too much into deep shit me mentally to comprehend your content. I came across it again a couple months ago and am hooked. Especially the content about Becoming a Chad, how to stop being a simp and the likes. Dude you're making a huge difference in people's lives know this. I've since then, stopped my shitty habits, mentally become way better, changing my old job to a newer one at the start of the year, been hitting the gym a lot and getting better at it, reading and just improving myself and also helping out the people I meet who feel the need to be inspired. I'm gonna start with my guitar again and also some other stuff I used to before.
You're making a huge difference in people's lives man and I sure as hell hope we all, you, me and everyone else comes out stronger or at least become strong enough to bear the burdens. Cheers my man..keep at it !
Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Life is not easy, but keep up the good fight.
Wishing everyone the best.
Merry Christmas everyone!
that girl saying "give me, give me" is the perfect summary of our time.
"When in the real world nobody recognizes me and doesn't even try."
I feel you on that one brother. I feel like I am invisible to most people I meet throughout life. No matter how much interest or compassion I show to them it never seems to be reciprocated. As for my family, even though we are not toxic to each other or anything, there are still times where I question if even my own family truly understand who I am. Have a Merry Christmas all the same.
Hope everyone is having a Merry Christmas! And to those who are alone, may you have extra joy this coming new year!
This helps a lot to cope with my inner self I can't always understand.
Thanks a lot for all of these videos and especially the message at the end of this one - I completely understand you.
101 movies about recapturing the Christmas spirit and here’s the sad reality for so many.
I just dont have any hope or dream left, I dont know what i'm living for
Dear anons here, if you're down the slope and there's no ups you see coming, i want to tell you something. Don't let surroundings control your life. Fight. Even if you fail don't stop fighting because giving up is worse than being a failure. Do it for yourself.
I love you anons.
I was waiting for you to expose the darker side of family for a while now. It's not all support and righteousness as some people make it out to be. If anything they are more capable of hurting you than anyone else on the planet. For me this is a nice Christmas gift.
Merry Christmas, Millennia.
At one point time just becomes a giant bundle of days and hours to the point where holidays or not it's always the same. Now imagine experiencing this while being young...
Guys, well, I know we don't even know each other, but somehow I feel we (who enjoy MillenniaThinker) could be good friends or acquaintances. Even if you are alone, remember that many of us are, and this somehow brings us together. I wish u all a Very Happy Christmas even if we are not that much happy. Remeber to not give up! We may get lost on the road, but the road will always be there for us to follow, even though we lose track many times. U are strong in your own terms.
Yes, feeling alone is the worst feeling ever. I was always alone in school, for all 12 years, so I didn't really care, I got used to it.
Pluss as an introvert it was actually a pluss, since I really didn't feel like talking to other people, there were days, maybe even weeks spent 8 hours every day at school without saying a single word, other than "good morning" to teacher. Obviously.
But at the end of 12th class (finishing school) we had gathering after school. Parents were invited. My class had made entartaiment "show" for parents. After that there was food and talking.
And I noticed that everyone's parents is there and they were talking to each other, while I just stood there with food. It was most awkward and painfull experience of my life. Shortly after I left. That day broke me, I cried going home. I regretted coming.
And it's not because my parents didn't make it or something but because my parents never gave a shit about me.
And now I was "thrown" that in my face.
*being depressed feeling like im going through a crisis where ive gotta enjoy being 15 while the summer last counting down the days to my birthday while im young makes me sick, like being abused by narcissist making you feel older sucks, please enjoy yourself if you can, were trying very hard rn. It may not be hard for some but it is for others. :/*
im so glad i have a loving family. I can't imagine having a family that hates me when we live in such a cruel world already.
That advice in the end - absolutely agree.
I have noticed for myself that for all the time - I regret no thing that I've done in my life, only those I didn't.
Merry Christmas, Anon.
goddamn deep as always, i think this Christmas is actually the best one im gonna have, keep your head up high kings and Merry Christmas
I decided I had enough of the attitude of some family this year, became clear around my birthday.
Moved out, trying to find a place while currently at my mothers.. and who knows how the job situation will look next year, but I don't need the attitude, and refuse to break-bread with them this Christmas.
I'll go and exchange gifts, hang around for an hour, and then bail.
Just because they're family does not mean you must suffer their disrespect.
Christmas feels empty nowadays
I'm 30 years old and this is the first year in my life I haven't spent Christmas with my family... I don't even like them anymore and I would rather spend the holidays by myself than be with them just for the formalities.. I've made this conscious decision, although I feel bad now... anyway, Merry Xmas everyone! 🎁🔔🎄 🎅
I understand what it feels like to be unappreciated, and to memorize your answers to your family's questions (feels like groundhog day at family events), but when you have family gatherings like these it's always useful to think of all the gifts you receive by the unknown.
I am grateful to the sun for its warmth
I am grateful to the water for its cleansing of the body
I am grateful to the plants for the air and beauty they give
I am grateful to my eyes for letting me experience this world
I am grateful to my room for sheltering me from the world and all of its dangers
I am grateful to my parents for giving me birth
and I am grateful to the future for ending this unbearable existence.
have a good holiday season.
Idk abt the parents giving me birth part thats where you lost me. Most kids and teens if the world is in such the bad state it us wouldn't have wanted to be born, esp when many parents use that "I gave you life so you should respect me" is a narcissistic ideology that is completely wrong.
@@chavonjames8941 I never said we owe anything to anyone, "I am grateful to my parents for giving me birth" as in "thanks father and mother for creating me, I'll use my existence to have fun and enjoy life... oh you want me to respect/work for you because you had unprotected sex? yeah no thanks"
@@nicomoron001 still weird to be thankful for the natural human reproduction cycle unless you have your parent tell you that you were an oopsie, werent planned, and just so happened you are here today and you wanna thank them for...sticking to their decision of having you...? that's like being thankful you won the swim race just to find out your depressed in life due to social and external pressures. Maybe that's me, I'm more inclined to say "thankful for raising me and taking the time to teach me things in life for which I also have to experience myself, and giving me the opportunities to represent the family I am born into" is more of a better way to look at it. Like I said, you had me until that one point.
True words at the end there, better to try and fail than to live a life of despair and wither away without actually living. Hope all of you anons have a merry christmas and happy holidays for those that dont celebrate
Thanks for this video man, I really wished that I could at least help myself become better not only as a person but as a friend to others. I shouldn't be too hard about myself but I too shouldn't be too lax about it. Merry Christmas reader.
Dziękuję za ten film, dał mi poczucie, że ludzie wychodzili z takich sytuacji jak moja oraz pierwszy raz od dawna szczerze się uśmiechnąłem.
Merry Christmas to all of you KINGS. It does not matter whether you are alone or not, you are still one of the best soldiers out there, so please, DO NOT EVER EVER BACK DOWN. Give your grandma a call, lift weights, hug your father, read a good book, eat healthy and always remember that we are going TO MAKE IT. We have some demons to fight, together, do not let me down ok? :)
Hugs from Spain to this amazing community. 🇪🇸⚡
Merry Christmas from texas
@@fearoflife6850 Merry Christmas Lauro :D
@@quique3671 Spain.. I loved that country when I visited in 2016
@@omerkaraman7564 I visited Turkey twice, my ex gf is Turkish, amazing country, amazing people. God bless you Ömer.
For me it's like getting harder and harder with time to just be like it used to be in the past , simple , just experiencing things and learning through the present moment rather than constantly being pulled down by the argument in my head and in the most important moments it gets on me and stops me . Maybe i'm giving too much meaning into simple things , maybe sometimes it's better to just let go , to forget about everything and relax , but it's hard . I don't know what to do sometimes , feels like it just has no end nor meaning and i've just put myself into something i can't get out of . Most of the time it's like that because i think i just don't know any different, like every time i prove to myself that something's wrong with me . I don't know , it almost feels like it has been for eternity and will be for eternity and i don't know what to do about it . Maybe i indeed give too much meaning into words , but it's hard to distinguish yourself from all of that sometimes , i don't even want to explain why , it just is . I've been looking for answers and shile i got some i would still regularly end up dragging myself into the abyss of negative thoughts . Like just one thought could trigger me into succumbing to thoughts that would make me feel negative . Maybe i realy too much on myself , no rather i think there's need to realy on myself to withstand a problem , but really i have been creating one by focusing on negative . I think i need to just let go
The more you grow up, the more Christmas becomes meaningless to you
Merry Xmas for all of you anon brothers and sisters ❤️ don't give up (with love from México)
Merry Christmas buddy, remember that your videos bring some kind of joy and sense of belongingness in thousands of people around the world :) Take care!
It's summer and I'm already thinking about what food I'm going to make this year with the holidays. Candles ready, I clean up my home before the holidays, maybe I'll even buy a christmas tree for the first time in my life. That's better than being repeatedly depressed each year, about having no friends, having no love and having no family. In fact, the holidays became a blessing like this. Nobody can mess it up except for myself. So I'm preparing and celebrating it for myself so I don't have to feel bad about it.