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Every Girl Needs is an animation about a girl from a poor home. While her peers can live and enjoy their free time, she has to support the family by relieving her hardworking parents of household chores. Invited by her classmates to go shopping, she quickly realizes that for some, this ordinary piece of clothing is not just material, but hours of sacrifice and hard work for her family.
Harsh conditions and a world watched only through the TV drive her desire to get out of here... as far away as possible, somewhere where she can finally start living.
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What were your struggles as a teenager?
PS: Next video will be sooner.
every vpn keeps logs. yet if u want to idk watch something blocked then its ok. (who knows, knows)
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Congrats for the sponsorship
He knows, but someone gotta eat
Yes sir
Props to the dad that decided to do more overtime so his daughter could go shopping with her friends for once.
Dad was awfully depressing though..
Yeah, he did not have a position to be super cheered, her Wife was not that supportive either
@@dblockbass well at least he was calm and professional about explaining things
@@dblockbass because of life man...life. family fathers really are underappreciated
@@Toppaz-ro3mn To some extent maybe. But it's also about how they grew up. Often fathers like these were spoiled by the mother. They learned that the woman have to do the household and child education. Somehow they are little kids inside that never really learned to take responisbility and have no clue about how to educate a child properly. They criticize others, but cannot take criticism themselves. They are living in their own world
I know this from my own father. It needed a lot of effort to make him a better father. Those fathers often have a really nice side, are specialists in practical topics, give you wise tips for your life, often they are nice to people outside the family, but cold and grumpy to their own family. They are too cowardly to tell others what they think about them, so they complain about them with their family. You don't believe how annoying and useless this behaviour is. With this fathers you need to find a right balance between understanding, but also clearly showing him what he makes wrong. You need to defend yourself sometimes.
Too much empathy for those fathers is posion in many cases. They often don't reflect themselves, so you have to do it for them. It's a hard stony way. They treat you as if you did sth. really horrible for the smallest of the smallest mistake. As I said they often act like little offended kids. Sometimes they even make you indirectly responsible for that, what other people done wrong (but not you). It's so weird sometimes to start a discussion with those type of fathers.
So I wouldn't call this family father.
Coming to Bulgaria to escape from poor people is like moving to Africa because of the abundance of food
Back then Bulgaria was doing quite alright compared to other ex-Warsaw Pact countries. Now though... yeah, they fucked up.
Fr man, if you want to visit a balkan country i think greece is the best or romania but dont move in the balkans cause people will just dislike it
Hungary is the best place to go
@@tonyweaver2353 best country man, filles with old people that will swear you in hungarian, eating anything with paprika, having to ride horses with genghis khan and blame serbs and romanians for the shit economy
As an African, I agree lol
This hits a little too close to home. Back when I was living in South America. I was from a low middle class family that obsessed with education as the way to get out of poverty. My parents made the effort to send me to one of the best private schools in the country so that my brother and I had the best possible education from the get-go. I remember constantly comparing myself to all my rich classmates and always wondered why I didn’t get the same things despite doing great at school. My friends would ask me why I couldn’t buy the latest phone or the latest shoes. Or why I had never left the country when they were constantly traveling abroad during the holidays. For I while I blamed my parents for the conditions we had to endure. But once I graduated HS I realized all the things my parents sacrificed so I could have better opportunities than they ever had. Thanks to their sacrifice I was able to study abroad under a scholarship and get. decent job. Thanks mom and dad
May you live the life you've always wished ❤️
Hey, I had a similar situation. I live in Russia and in the 2000s we were a rather poor family. However, we studied with two brothers in a private school. I think the parents gave a third or half of the salary for this. I also studied with children from wealthy families. They constantly traveled somewhere, bought the latest gadgets and clothes, traveled to other countries. Of course, I compared myself to them. But most of all it was insulting when they all went on vacation somewhere together as a class. They became more friendly on trips, united in companies. At this time, I sat at home and envied them. It's one of the reasons why I never had friends at school. Just bad luck. I'm 19 now, I'm studying at the university. And the past still haunts me, and it's not as joyful as I would like
Now I understand how difficult it was for parents then. They hardly could do anything. Thank them for this. But the school still crippled me and that can't be taken away
Are you brazilian?
@@khushiverma2862 Thanks. All the best to you too
@@yourhomie259 Thankfully most of the rich people at that Catholic High School were very warm and welcoming despite our economic differences, it’s like most of them were oblivious of our difference in wealth, unlike the assholes that would bully me in another primary school which weren’t as wealthy. I think it had to do a lot with the values that the Catholic HS promoted since it was run by nuns and teachers. And thankfully I didn’t have to experience the problem of paying for the graduation trip since they couldn’t decide on a place to travel before the year ended and decided to just not have any trip at all lol. I’m hopeful you found solace in my life story. Hopefully everything will work out for you and you’ll overcome your traumas the way I did mine. The sacrifices our parents made will eventually lead to a better future for us no doubt.
This is literally the only doomer channel that dont make videos like "oooh all women bad, oooh all rich people bad" they at least put some personality and bit of depth in each character (most times) every character has their own problems and background regardless of gender, sexuality or race, is something i really appreciate and would like to see more.
What doomers channels you mean? Stop the cap
There's low budget stories but his videos aren't a sequel one to another
but all women ARE bad tho fr fr no 🧢
@@goleogthais how does it feel to become the male equivalent of those women saying ' all man are trash ' .
i guess you guys will make the perfect ' trash it couple'
low budget storries are very sarcastic ... but some poeple might not be bright enough to get the trolling@@oceanb0rn05
Growing up poor made her superficial and looking for money in men as a cope and a means to fit in, creating a toxic cycle that we notice in society. This is a prequel to another video.
Is that dude at the end Matthew?
Which video?
@@diongding7377 it's a prequel of another video... but it's not posted yet
@@bogdanfechet7617 Then it's not a prequel.
@@diongding7377 men's value
It's good that her friends were so supportive and still trying to help her fit in, even when she didn't have the same means as them.
Oh god no. That was the totally opposite.
@@yoyojuana2054 how exactly?
@@pitnorman The entire problem started because her friends can afford those expensive bags and dresses and makeup etc and that made her feel inferior. When they picked those dresses for her they would've known that she's not financially capable of buying them but still insisted to do so. It's never "fit in" as OP said, girls always love to have third wheel in their group. But that's all women friendships are about I guess.
@@pitnorman like they make fun on her body , laughing about poverty
What are you talking about? They were coercing the girl into something horrible.
"Don't smoke here!"
"Or what?"
"Or you'll fly out the window!"
I think it really shows how the brother is constantly ignored and berated while the parents do what they can for his sister.
that's like, not the point... The point is they are poor, and the mom although a bit harsh lend some money to her daughter so she could buy some clothes or smth. She'd probably do the same to the boy but he looks like a kid...
Anyway, considering that the girl is a teen and the boy's a kid, she's unrealistically well behaved and patient, and the same goes for the boy.
@@rafaelpsb Even if that's not the point, that's what really stood out to me personally.
@@Luciipurr666 so, bias
its interesting thats what you got out of it. i saw a family where the daughter is treated like a nanny and the son is ignored. they are both victims really
@@remrem-gx3ml victims of reality and life.
I am not gonna lie but this guy really knows how to make a story and make it feel really realistic. This is honestly pretty impressive.
im so sick of this comment under every video
I don't get it
@@yungmentalproblemsWhat's their comment should be you think?
i just love and respect women so much
@@vembeq I don't
Very realistic video on some types of families, and how people usually don't think about whats someone's at-home situation. Also I'm really liking all these new characters bro!
Another awesome animator 😎
I study with losers
Characters are so pretty makes me aroused
yeah you should learn with him
You tow should work together 😄
i love this family, it does feel like they could be a full functional family, the mom giving her money so she can get something, the brother complimenting and worrying about her and offering help, the dad taking an overtime so she could hang out with the girls. I understand the difficulties of living in a poor financially life,t this video feels really close
4:33 This part hits hard...
You can see the mom is tired of always having to say no to her kids because of theirs financial issues.
I have no idea how hard it must be as a parent to not being able to spoil your kids from time to time, to see them hating you because they think you don't care for them...
So this time she can't resist to give her daughter some money so she can feel like others girls her age, for once.
Good mom right there even if they can't afford it she's willing to sacrifice to make her daughter happy knowing all that she does
maybe don't make 2 kids if you can't take care of one? or don't make one at all?
@@stavros8410 Average first world citizen L take.
@@Tuber-sama I dont see anything wrong with his comment. if you are not prepared for the responsibilities of raising a child, dont have one
@@Tuber-sama Even though I think white people and asians should have more kids (since we are the ones who have a natality crisis) he has a point. If you can't afford kids why would have them in the first place? Try to have more stability before doing such an important decisition.
@@Tuber-sama is he wrong tho ?
This video really struck a chord with me.
The poignant portrayal of sacrifice and hard work behind something as simple as clothing left a lasting impression. It's a powerful reminder of the desire to break free from tough circumstances and truly live. Kudos to all who worked behind for crafting such a moving and relatable piece.
Impressive work, sincerely.
capitalism bro, it´s how our sistem works
I guess it took one guy to create it
Don't you think Sarah should just get a job and work on herself?
@@SquishyEggo she doesnt even have time for herself and she have school too
@@johnnysantos7032 In communism you will starve to death lol
The dad mildly complaining about the food is spot on.
That father is so real for that, “life son, life”
Very realistic and depressing take of a huge problem in society for young people (men and women). Not fitting in because you are poor/different cultural takes is one of the worst feelings you can have during school years.
You feel like your very own life is unfair for no reason at all. You see people enjoying, festing, with the last phones and vacations while you do not even have clothes fitting your age.
Yeah... That was me 2015-2019. I'm independent now (thank god) and am a free person. It was rough being the less fortunate. Almost took my life cause of it.
@@supremeteen1975 yet you managed to turn it around, hope you're proud. You should be!
Felt
Honestly I hate myself for wasting so much time thinking about those things. All I had to do at school was learn, get a diploma and keep learning, but I got caught up in many stupid ideas. Cared too much about what others thought of me, even when I knew their true opinions. Cared too much about pretending to be somebody I wasn't, and for what? The fake approval of people who hated me from the beginning.
The people I met at school were never my friends. Never cared about me. Never cared if I was around. They insulted me to my face and I just accepted it like an idiot. I legit would have been better off if I was completely alone during all my school years. I cut contact with all of that garbage and am now at peace.
Now I only have exactly 2 friends, and they are much older than me, but at least they're genuine friends. I know because I was always honest with them, and they never judged me. All the lies I told at school teying to fit in were for nothing.
That's a good first filter: Don't lie about yourself. People will hate you anyways, but the one person who likes you will like your true self.
And all those everything-expensive-new people are so used to the luxury lifestyle they are even able to fall into debts because of it
This guy just know how to make relatable stories.
You enjoying those likes, buddy?
With such a relatable comment.
This guy is living in Poland (you can check this when mom of this girl is giving 20 PLN). This is normal situation from this country. We want to have money like in the west countries... But we can't :')
Your comment is so relatable
@@arturolopez7092 Its SOOOOOOOO relatable!
@@kamilstolc5890 Is Poland worse off than the eastern countries? I would've assumed that Europe got poorer the further East you go.
my girlfriend's parents made her do everything in the house and sarah's story makes me think of her, my girlfriend tells me how grateful she is for me being in her life to make her happy, i love her
The dirty sneakers in the beginning was like a gut punch.
finally a youtuber with common sense in society!
You're new here? Welcome and enjoy it.
@@simonmatrix insane between videos, hopely h
W comment
oh boi you didn't see what this guy says on other social media...
@@sigmaohiogyattfanumrizz where?
I'm 29, a guy, and I wish I knew what to look out for as a kid to detect people in a similar situation to my own. And they were everywhere in retrospect, too. Never understood how someone can simply expect someone their own age to be well-off financially. Granted, I never cared what people thought of me, and I've treated people the same regardless of their financial situation, but it makes high school a strange experience moreso in retrospect than it was at the time, with the benefit of the wisdom that the years have added on.
I'm 29 as well. I have a useless bachelors degree and barely have any money. I wish I had been less naive and knew just how much people determine your worth by your career. It's hard to date when everyone your age wants 100k a year minimum and 40k would be a current blessing
If only we were able to be born wise, not to get wiser later in years where many opportunities are already fucked up
@@MrSlaughterrific
I definitely understand the struggle. It's as though people think that they're unique/special, and that that entitles them to special treatment. Delusions of grandeur, it used to be called... and still is by those of us with common sense.
Women nowadays don't even know what a woman *is.* They're doomed to a life with a ton of cats, with no kids, and a life of being alone. And if you want to ask them what they believe, they'll act as though you're sub-human for not subscribing to the hivemind mentality. These are dark times that will only prove themselves as such in another 5 to 10 years, even apart from the other insanity going on on a daily basis.
@@Poet482 terminally online take
Yea
7:00 Strange hand appears.
MillenniaThinker's attention to details and deep meanings. Even 0.25 speed can't catch it.
What was that?
Very nice as always. The interaction between the girls is so lifelike, I'd love to see more of them. And the relationship with the little brother shines thorugh even in the little bits that we see. Also very compelling. I love how you stay perfectly clear of ANY existing story tropes, showing what you see without trying to make it fit into any genre. Makes me think - "This is what life ACTUALLY feels like" - this is also something I love in the work of Cormac McCarthy.
You perfectly illustrated the look of death in the fathers face and speech. I've seen those dead, cold eyes in many married men's faces.
I don’t think you’ll ever have to worry about it. You seem like an absolute incel who will never have to cope with the women you fear so much 😂🤷🏻♀️
As a married man i agree
My father is like that... This guy (the creator of this video) is genius. He, probably, have some degree in literature or something. School of Life...
@@slowcuber_azesociology*
@@slowcuber_azeor pedagogy
man i really felt that . my father passed away when i was 16 so i was the man of home . we live in a traditional country and family so i really had to do the hard work to take care of my family . my friends was hanging out and enjoying their teenage years while i was working painting job to take care of family . life is though man , Sometimes people are very unlucky . i passed those years now but the feeling of never being able to enjoy the teenage life I deserved still bothers me
Where you live bro?
you still paint ? cars ?
@@spacegodmurder LOL ! no bro i used to do that for kinda like 1.5 years . it wasn't cars btw
@@purest_evil Iran :)
@@MorisSoorati روزهای سخت مردان قوی می آفریند برادر
Thank you for including a relatable female main. I'm so sick of creators who make the girls superficial. Edit: the bgm. Damn.
I was in a similar situation, but i never really wondered about it, my mother always told me that "we dont have money for that" but i understood her and every penny i found on the road i was always giving to her knowing that she knows better how to spend it. Time passed i grew up and couldnt get a degree so i left my mother and my older brother so that they have more money for them. Now i just managed to accumulate enoigh money for studies but just learned that ill have to spend it all on my health, still beleive that itll get better eventually but it doesnt always do, and thats y i like these videos, theyre relatable because you wont always get happy endidngs in life
As a girl (still a teen) this hits so close to home, not necessarily for being a girl, but for the same living experience shown through Sarah
Can't believe I cried at a wojak video, you're amazing
This guy makes good videos
from personal experience, friends are your best bet at keeping you up and happy tbh. even if you don't really have a great situation financially or maybe even with family, true friends are going to keep you going and definitely will help you out if you know who to stick around with
Okay, we found a 2nd wö-men wathcing this channel XD
friends? idk how easy it is to keep friends but for me was impossible? whever they went nights out shopping, and what not, i just always had to say no, needless to explain why they stopped asking me and grew appart from me. i have no friend to this day. 27 years old, not a single person messages me ever, and I just go to work and get back home, sleep and workout and repeat. my situation is better, but at this point i really dont want any "friend" true friendship is for few, and i wasnt one, and world is full of people like me.
@@hogrider8525 they're not difficult to find; women on the internet will be the first ones to let you know they are women. "As a girl..."
I Live in Germany, although we do have a relative high standart of living compared to the rest of the world, the gap between rich and poor keeps on getting bigger. More and more ppl cant affort anything else beyond basic needs.
There even is a term for that. I believe its "relative Armut" (= relative poverty): The inability to afford anything beyond the basics (mostly including food and rent)
Yea same, germany makes stuff more expensive now and it doesn't stop :[
@@ahja6 yeah, everything is rigged and all. But it gets worse if you get into the details:
- The central european bank can't increase the transaction-fees to counteract inflation due to Spain, Greece and Italy having a to weak economy and would economically collapse again if we did this.
- Ukrain war (self explanatory)
- brainlet idea to shut down our atomic powerplans (that + the Russo-Ukrainian war mostly resulted into us LITERALLY having the highest electricity bill per MW/h globally)
- The US being in a economical recession (their federal banks increased transaction-fees which hurt an export-country like ours)
- The relative high possability that the US and china will hit an economical depression (that would f u c c over everybody, due to us living in a globalised society)
Just to name a few things
Thank your previous generation for that and all the bs they voted for.
It's not like this , Germany has really good quality of life, yes you face some financial problems but the salaries for well educated people are really good and most people live a good life
Still better than Poland. The same product in Poland in Lidl is more expensive than in Germany while wages are higher in Germany. I don't blame you but living in Poland is level hard comapre to Germany. Many of my friends live and have jobs in Germany and don't struggle financially anymore.
can we just appreciate how good her friends are
I lived in circumstances very similar to those of the protagonist, but probably worse. I was born into a poor family, which is common, but my mother was a patient in an mental illness treatment center for a short time and my father is an alcohol addict with previous problems. A poor and dysfunctional family can really decide and dictate your life. Things like not being able to buy a dress was the minimum, something normal compared to what I've lived and gone through in my entire life and the many shortcomings. But I won't dwell, I don't want to bore you.
4:27 the dad’s answer was sad and factual at the same time. It looked like they were having a hard time just having a place to stay let alone having new clothes or anything else. It’s an example of what many folks are enduring and my respects to those trying to make things better for their family.
Life son , life 😎
Kids talk about new clothes and luxuries, Dad hears that and thinks "more overtime"
I'm sure the two women who watch this channel will appreciate this video. Finally, some MillenniaThinker for the ladies.
But you're nearing a million subscribers. That could someday be as high as 5 women watching this channel.
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Only the smart ones will watch this video.
I'm 1 to begin with, been watching for years
@@katieuchiha woah, they exist?
I love this so much!! It really shows how much thought went into the portrayal of each character and their actions. It's like every character has their own very detailed back story that put them into their current situation which makes them very life-like.
I like how this shines a completely different light onto the "A MAN'S VALUE" mini-series.
This is literally a sequel or the same story but from a different person. I hope to continue
This is Sarah’s Story
Interestingly, we don't see any time the doomer guy. So he was irrelevant in her life and mind from the start.
@@justepourlacheruncom8393 Good point.
@@bernardbutler3720They only pick the wealthy men for long term. They pick the Chad's, thugs, etc. for the tingles. They go after the beta provider once the chads no longer want them.
I love how this guy makes animations that every individual got it's own problems unlike how many thinking others living the life to the fullest and only him/her self is incomplete
Comparing country with country and culture with culture, most women have it easier in things that truly matter. "most" been the important keyword here.
This video hit me hard. My mom and I grew up struggling really bad and I learned not to ask for things, passing by the toy isle and asking my mom for something only to remember the pain on her face saying she can’t. Now I’m older, and give her gifts and money every month and we both have good jobs. God bless us all.
The little eye movements add so much to the animation. Nicely done
Dude, I've got tears on my eyes. This is real and you better keep posting stuff like that
how'd they get on your eyes?
This was prolly the saddest video yet :|
So you cried? What a kind soul. You bring me back faith in humanity. Crying like a strong independent woman.
@@pio7763 more like strong independent man :)
@@watch-Dominion-2018 you got me bro, you are just better)
Interesting backstory on why this girl dates up the best she can due to her family’s many sacrifices to put food on the table and her having to pitch in on chores. Some people really have it tougher than others and it’s only a given that we help each other out.
People shouldn't have children if they can't afford them
@@lukemorgan6166 that's common sense, unfortunately many people don't have that. Somehow the poorest countries have the highest birthrates around the world. I get that people there think of children of some kind of investment, the one who breaks it, but it's not better than just playing lottery week after week.
@@qwerty975 Funny enough chidren are an investment to an extent since if they succeed then as parents they will have a comfortable retirement and wont have to worry about money anymore.
@@lukemorgan6166 I agree. You should be financially stable to have children if you can afford taking care of them but that wasn’t my point. My point is it’s intriguing why some people like her are desperate to get up the best they can because of their circumstances growing up and that we should help as humans when we can.
and dating up cause your poor is shallow as it gets, the guy will dump her after he finds out she is just for his money. she needs to focus on studying and work...
I have a similar dynamic on a smaller scale with a friend of mine. The trick is to admit it right when it comes up. Don't strut around pretending to be a king, find people who will support you, people who have interests you can actual indulge in and relate to. If they do, you'll be better off than if you hurt yourself to be buddy-buddy with people who're compatible.
Not to mention the leeway you can get or the jokes you can make by being poor, has to be well executed, but it can work.
I love rewatching these videos
if you make your daughter's life miserable , she thinks a rich guy is her escape route
Ohhhh I get it now
For some reason not me. This might be true for some people. But not every case. My parents make us live in one of the richest small towns in California Bay Area, while for some reason they barely let me have any clothes or self expression… It just makes no sense to me, they always say it’s a money issue but then why are we living here, making me live with these rich peers around??! But anyways, that’s my story, I just want to say, I’ve grown to care most about love. Love I haven’t gotten from my family.
Another rich white boy whines that he is not the richest🤡
Duudde you are right.
Having a caring family is far from miserable
years ago i long-distance dated a girl from Poland that this reminded me of. her family was pretty poor and struggled to get by, her mom was always taking money any money she had, and she could never stand up for herself. it was sad, and i really felt bad for this girl since it was obviously a very tough situation. but she was horrible with her money too. every month she would blow money on useless things like acryllic nails and hair dye (she hated her natural hair color so much that she refused to ever show me a picture of it, or even tell me what it actually was). we wanted to meet up, and talked a lot about doing so. i'm no millionaire but i had enough money to meet up with her any time we wanted, while she on the other hand never could seem to find a way to save anything, month after month. after over a year, i realized i couldn't keep it going with a person with such bad habits and also someone who so intensely hated something about themselves.
all this is to say, this video reminded me of her, and what a stark tragedy it is when people can't find a way out of such circumstances.
Sounds like she’s suffering from borderline personality disorder
You did what you could. You can't change people. Just sad indeed
These videos show actual real life problems that occur, I'm happy this channel does its best to being these problems out into the light.
Damn, this one made me think back on my childhood. How all my other friends were way more well-off than I was, and how often I wanted to own all their expensive Lego sets and skylanders figurines, consoles and, and...Yet I never had that. I was even privileged enough to keep my sister's DSi, that still works and is in near-mint condition still. It's crazy how this one for once struck me, as usually, I just treat these as narrative pieces.
Sarah is the crash of Mathew, from previous videos. I believe this is some kind of prequel, showing why she developed the need to go after rich/successful people she didnt love,that ultimately led to toxicity.
So,this had a bad ending?
How do you remember the previous episodes, especially the names? Good that you pointed that out.
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@@couldntbeproved1392 this mentioned in the description that this story has some related videos
Marriage isn't about love. Love in a marriage is nice, but not the point.
As a new father I am very worried about turning into the dad in this video. I'm extremely cynical and wary of 'safety'. I'm glad I watched this video, I hope it helps to remind me to just keep my thoughts to myself as my family grows up.
write one positive thing every day before bed on a piece of paper, and be serious about it
it will change your perception over time
if you can't think of something positive at the start, choose something okay at least, like "today I had a nice breakfast" or "today I got one minute earlier from work"
Worrying too much is the worst thing you can do. My father would not let me go anywhere without having a good reason for it while I was living at home. Now that we are in no contact I go everywhere alone as a woman and never had any problems. Heck, I was even working nightshifts and walking home at night alone. Not one of my father's catastrophic scenarios ever went true. He only made me incredibly insecure and agoraphobic when I was a teen. I had to consult my anxiety with a psychologist who told me that what I'm feeling isn't my own fear, but my fathers. I lived through my father's fears most of my life. I still do. I haven't healed from the trauma of being held tight yet.
@@thomas.thomas Amen!!
you worry too much
@@youtuber-tg1pu No he’s doing the right thing. People including you should be aware and care about how they might affect their children.
Of all the videos i watch and see this is the most realistic.. feel like I'm watching my past and present Days of myself.. best tip i could give is just accept what you have, hold on to it and move on forward. You never know, what you have is someone will do everything just to get it or you're more blessed than others, you just don't know yet. Those parents teaching them something important and i understand if they don't yet the meaning of those words.
The homework one, dressing down, doing everything you can to not be an inconvenience to your parents even if it means compromising your own happiness and wants. It’s all so painful because they expect you to automatically say yes. One time I just got off my two jobs. I have my finals that I needed to study on and my brother straight up asked me to review him for his exams too. I told him I have my finals too, but he brushed it off and I ended up teaching him for 3 hours.
That means he barely gives a fuck about other people, not just you
Tomboy is such a supportive friend. I love these characters
Yea, just your friend, who dates dynamic chads.
This is too real. Not necessarily pessimistic, but pure reality for many people. I also like that the protagonist is a female
Will I get an apple?
This video was so painful, I was so relatable and I feel Sarah’s pain through and through
i got chills beause this is my life,its so relatable like you saw my life and animated it
I feel like people didn't fully understand the ending of this video.
What I understood from that ending, and the video overall, is that this girl will wind up getting trapped in a toxic relationship with a wealthy person, and subsequently won't be able to escape it due to the promise of a better/wealthier life. Once you get the taste of the mirage that is "normalcy" it's scary to go back to your old life, even if staying in the current situation is damaging.
Maybe I am thinking too deep into it but that's what I took away from the ending.
Edit: I also fucking lost my shit when she checked the price tag and it was 60usd, fully knowing that all she had was 20pln.
Maybe the man in black suit is a mafia boss forcing her into prostitution or maybe the man in black suit is an allegory to onlyfans and her trapped to that life for dreaming of a better one (life).
Nope thats Sarah if im corect
I believe it's validation and wanting right, not from/for men really but from other people. She doesn't really have a lot, she sees and hears about people who have more then her (the girl's talking about the trips, her friends talking about going shopping and their boyfriends).
It seems like she wants to fit in, and she can't seem to do it with the people around her. They talk about things that she can't really do or have, and so she's trying to find a way to fit in. That's why when her mom compliments her she perks up, and that's why her reflection at the end is the pretty version of herself. She believes that if she continues, this way she'll be able to fit in better to society standards of her.
But it also shows the dark side this path, the dude in the elevator looking at her and the story about the woman being attacked. Not saying it's wrong to dress a way, but to me at least it's seems to be about wanting something more than you have even if you can't really have it and the validation that comes with it.
Everyone talks about what they want, with even the dad wanting cucumbers in his sandwich because it's dry. That's just my interprutation of it atleast.
Right, in addition i would add it sort of self perpetuates negative values. Like the character might internalize that beauty is their only inherent value due to people around her treating her better because of the make up and clothes she wears and not for their personality and character.
Likewise, something similar ive noticed happened recently is a surgency of misandry. Ive meet many women who although know its wrong often continue very man hating comments and objectification due to not only from the people around them but also the inherent envy they have from the opposite gender. I state this because their body issues also plays with their gender issues which goes again with wanting to have validation.
ultimately this doesnt help anyone at all
huh? there was no elevator in the video, what are you talking about?
@@mrosskne 0:29
@@TheSyconerd Yep, I totally agree on the misandry thing. The women who become like that have made those negative values their whole persona. I'm a woman, and it's astonishing how you can see a friend you've cared for fall for that. It's like a poison seeps into their soul and takes something from them- the inherent love for their brethren, perhaps?
I think this is Sarah , Matthew crush right?
The reflection at the end was really good
my guy im happy that in the video they mention Bulgaria its a realy nice country with a good history and great look from the mountains and great places to go
I grew up in a household full of "busy idiots" as well. constantly making trips to the store for little things and barely being able to afford the gas instead of doing one planned trip, making all of us kids do basically every household task because of it. it just sucked, but thats what poor people do they make things harder for no reason and its why they never get ahead.
*cough* my parents... *cough cough*
But that has not inherintly something to do with veing poor. More like dumb people or people who didnt habe any guidance in life they do that. There are plenty poor poeple who dont spend it all and try to gather as much as possible to maybe give them some space or opportunities to make money.
it was like that growing up. Now i really noticed it was just my mother managing 4 kids, my dad would only back home to sleep. Fairly large house we grew up in. Now that im older i could see why/how some things get pushed back on top my parents not knowing english well in the USA.
No electricity this week guys, buy packs and packs of ice to keep the meat frozen. Drive a huge van that can haul 6 people but eats so much gas. Lets add high gas prices onto it, and let 2008 ride out for several years. Damn this is a good video if im sitting here in my thoughts for over 30 minutes.
Wait why did they make u guys do all the chores
@@fiveweenies4533 Coming from that similarly, I honestly have no answer. Only God knows. They get comfortable knowing that there are others so they simply point and expect shit to get done. Everyday. They get too comfortable with that mentality.
I'm glad a fellow Slavic brother creates these wonderful artistic masterpieces, greetings from the neighbors down south, Czech Republic.
Yup he's from polish I remember
@@erenjaeger1738 Guten Tag Polen:-).
I'm wishing You a blessed NATOArticle 5 Day.
Greetings from Austria:-).
We'll wait till the winged Hussars come again.
No Homo❤.
See Ya.
Přesně tak, Polsko a Česko navždy bratři 🇨🇿🇵🇱
Czechia vole
This was the first video I've seen where everyone was actually fairly wholesome.
"life son, life." so freaking real for that
It's incredible how even with the "meme design theme", you were able to make a trully cute protagonist
"meme design" memes always have stories
the mom not wanting her to spend money but then still giving her some at the end of the day made me tear up bc my mom used to do the same thing. when we didn’t have a lot my mom still wanted me to feel happy and spoil me how she could ❤.
This is very relatable used to think about having lots of things but I realized that people work hard to get that money being humble about the people you care about and cherishing the time you have with them is the most important thing because they might have not much time to spend time with you work & adult responsibilities take a toll on your livelihood so live up to your own expectations and try your best to do as much as you can possibly get done and make the most of what you have
"Life son life"
RUclips: "There are 16 comments"
Me: "Can I see them?"
Also RUclips: "no lolz"
This video hit me hard, holy. I was cussing at my family because we can’t afford, thinking they didn’t love me because they’re rough and don’t want to buy new things but I began to grow up and want to shed tears for my family that they’re trying. I say I am proud to be raise and be part of the working class.
I want one of these kinda girls. Hardworking, and deserving of everything you give her.
Poignant af. Always that ethereal soundscape that keeps me glued.
honestly growing up in a similar situation its not that bad.... just don't let people bully you for your cloths i admit in elementary it hurts but as you get older you should learn to become self dependent. i still wear cheap value village cloths and im mid 20s but i don't care what foids and shallow people have to say. everyone financial situation is different. i just want to give hope, people who judge you for how you look are not worth having around.
you say what I want to say.. stay good brother
@@mazinofug391 ty you too bro
good on you, overly caring about what other ppl think is not a good use of time and energy. We do have some obligations to society ofc, but don't give in to bad/needless peer pressure
that said, many ppl who like to "look" rich are fake rich. They waste their money on expensive clothes /cars but can't actually afford it. The mentality of someone who had money is to not spend on useless/needless things. Many ppl who are actually rich drive modest cars and dress modestly. How else did they get rich? Not by spending it carelessly. A big part of getting rich is living below your means, and not living paycheck by paycheck (aka not spending all you have, but reducing costs so that they can save, which builds up over months/years)
Maybe I'm just weird, but I didn't even grow up poor but rarely got new clothes because I genuinely didn't care about them.
I understand the symbolism in the video, but the literal "clothes are important to fit in" depiction is something that a human being learns isn't really that important as they grow older. It's cool to express yourself and all, but you don't need new clothes to be interesting/funny to other people. Some People use it as filler for a personality they lack I think.
@@codyb.3015 yes this is what i think. too many young kids influence by social media gotta look good 24/7
I grew up poor and came of age during the 2008 recession. I completely understand how Sarah felt doing all those mental calculating while shopping. I get incredible anxiety around spending money even though I have a really good job.
Anyone else notice how the little brother gets shut down time after time for asking the same things?
Society
I always bought second hand or got it from trash. Everyone thought I am wealthy, even though my clothes cost 1 - 3€ and I was broke as hell. People throw so much good things away, its sad.
More people should thrift, you can find really good stuff sometimes 🎉
I was in a similar situation, i am a men, but i never bought new clothes, all my clothes are: old clothes that other people don't want it anymore or used clothes buyed at low cost. I understand her situation perfectly, sometimes used clothes can be cheap and look good. The idea of always buying new clothes is not affordable for everyone, is better to have a good style that don't depend on how expensive the cloth are. There is a lot of old clothes that are beautiful and in good condition for really low prices.
Of course, we do live in a society(lol)and clothes mean something more to women than they do to men.
Just get in shape and buy 'loose' compression shirts. You will be 100% more attractive than any new drip, command respect from both women and men, and save a ton of money. Buy a nice jacket or 2 for winter/fall, some dress shirts for occasions, and a pair of work shoes and dress shoes, and you won't have to buy clothes for years afterwards.
wow niesamowite ze masz tak rozwiniety kanal i taki talent do tworzenia super animacji
These hidden gems are beautiful. Ponytail with bangs is great and as well if they are side bangs, I love those hair styles. They're very pretty.
Man this video Made me remember that sometimes we judge women on their looks and we have no idea on what strugles they have to face.
Society and its consequences on society..
Any strugle a woman suffers, a man strugles way more, and noone cares about you.
@@diogosilva6940 Damn yes
Implying they have any
POV: this guy discovered empathy
Each individual nurtures a longing for something they've always felt was lacking.
Tldr: we want what we don't have
@@MrFujinko no, you missed the point - it's not about having now, but not having had in the past
@@krumuvecis yes, I agree
We are fruits of our traumas
growing up as a poor boy in a poor country this is so relatable, I only wear my big brother's clothes because I can't afford new ones and they don't even fit me.. the food we eat isn't the best and most of the time I'll be still hungry after a meal. the family in the video has it better since they own a house. I recently had a surgery and if some people din't lend us some money I would have been dead by now. and I can't say anything about this situation as I don't want my parents to feel more bad than they already feel for bringing me up to this life without being able to take care of my needs fully. I really don't wanna live like this all my life I even thought about ending it all multiple times
As a Brazilian, the Brazilian Portuguese novel at the start of the video made me happy.
I like how the end screen represents something less wholesome, as in for many girls the only way to step up financially is by marrying upwards, which can be a whole another level of messed up (or can work out well, not everyone rich is a douche). Well done as always!
At least those types of men will you marry you. Most men have to actually work.
@@cheezedoodlenygguh6229 Working is how it should be, working for a bad wage while supporting a household singlehandedly and knowing both kids are not getting what they should even as you work a lot is probably the most depressing life a father could lead. Especially as the kids point out how you're not living up to your duty despite all your effort.
I'm getting second-hand depression just by viewing this stuff.
The last scene where she's looking at her reflection in the bus window and sees herself as a beauty was really great. But in order to achive beauty she'll lose her naturality. That's the law of the world: You have to sacrifice something in oder to gain something.
how about not wasting money on endrocrine disrupting microplastic full clown face paint which will add to the amount of that toxic stuff that goes into water food supply, all just to play the game of "lets see how much more people will temporarily like me more for temporarily looking "better" " . ho about not wasting money on clothes for same reason.
@kalm monke , my brother in Christ, this is not wasting money. It's investing in yourself. Having the same clothes is not a good idea if you want to look good.
Makeup's also a good idea to look prettier. People will think of you as if you were a better person (because you can care about yourself).
tf you mean "lose naturality"? Tis not like she's doing a plastic surgery or smth. A bit of makeup doesn't change your skull shape, a bit of.
She was a beauty without make up tho
@@artemuaxd people wont nessesary think of you as better because of that stuff. many will hate it because its a reminder of them not having stuff they want, and they have to do a lot of work they dont wanna do to get it or they cant get it.
İt's Talk are so casual that I can feel like I could use them as a teaching material
Not going to lie, this felt slightly uplifting for a depressing video. Reminds me of how it took me very long time to express my femininity after high school because of family trauma.
I like how Simon always looks tired. Or more likely just not expecting that anything will change.
At the end
I know where this is going
She'll sell herself so money wouldn't be an issue anymore (for a while) until he dump her for the next one , rinse & repeat
The last one looks like a mafia guy that will force her into prostitution, maybe in other states to make this disgusting mafia rackets bigger.
She deserve that😂😂😂😂
@@wavyFranbut your words say she deserves it since its easier for her.
I love the clickbait because its opposite of what you can expect and makes it more enjoyable at some point
I see some people not getting the point of why the "rich" teens are going to Bulgaria, so let me clarify. Among polish teens, bulgaria is the most popular/preffered vacation place where you go without parents. It is preffered because of the abundance of alcohol, drugs and clubs which all are available for teens under 18.
1:05 bro chose violence cause he's the goat of all Sigmas
honestly a lot of clips from this channel would make better "sigma edits" than the ones existing
Great animation mate, and I can relate to the story sadly. It's even worse for us guys, because no one will "lend" us lipstick or other stuff. If you're broke you're broke, and then others make fun of you at school.
just join a gang
@@mrosskne lmao, too real
I always thought guys had it easy in my teenage years - They don't need to look good, like sure, it is advantage but it's not requirement like it is in girls and guys are good enough if they are smart or funny. They just need a pair of legs and play football together. That's it. Quality friendship built. You can build upon that later.
A friend is likely to help a friend in need
it's very complicated to help someone without $ and not look patronizing
debt can kill friendships; and many people will suffer great hardships not to go into debt to friends
people can be young and not understand, but I think there is a good chance they will help
I was funny & entertaining to my friends, and they found great value in my company that would not make it get weird if I didn't contribute the same $
You don’t have male friends that can help you out?
"Maybe i'll start borrowing clothes from my friends" HAHAHAHA
actual down to earth short movie , its problems families face everyday !
Honestly this was a punch to the gut. I came from a family exactly like this. Difference being, i never had friends. Never hung out with anyone. All my teenhood i dreamt of getting nice clothes and gain popularity. Instead, had a middle classed life but with little to absolutly no freedom whatsoever. Couldn't even go over my girl's house at the time or date. Every video game console and phone was taken away from me for four years and without wifi. I always ask myself, how tf did i survived that? No social media or phone for 4 straight years and no games either. I was serverly depressed those four years. Heck, i almost "took myself" on birthdays and several other times. Wasn't until 5 days before christmas 2019 (i was 19) that i was kicked out over an argument. 2020 and onwards, i became the very young man i always wanted to be. Independant, time, freedom, and freedom to make a choice. No longer chained to what someone else has to say and tell me what to do. No more depression nor living as a loner. (I'm single nowadays buy happy)
So yeah, this video got me emotional. I am NEVER looking back to that horroble life i had. (And yes i had verbally abusive parents growing up which worsened my depression)
so sorry to hear that, im glad you have independence now. it is such an empowering feeling and im really happy you have freedom to experience everything you want out of life now. im so proud of you, even if i dont know you. you are so strong.
Almost same, but I'm a girl... Still struggling with money. I studied and failed college. Studied IT, but can't find a job because nobody here wants to hire junior programmers. I kicked myself out of parents' house at 21. They were the kind of parents who hate everything about you, but still 'love' you because you are their child. I saw through that bullshit. Honestly, with my leave, the quality of life of all of us was increased. My brother had his own room. My mother could sleep in the living room(there were three rooms for three people and my parents couldn't sleep together in one because one of them snored and the other had severe insomnia). But they are still unhappy with me due to leaving and not worshipping them and also for failing the college...which I'm still really sad about. Maybe I just don't have what it takes to make it.
@@krembryle7903 u need to prof them wrong and succes if u are a programmer just foucs on getting better and better then show them the results
stay strong :)
what a great video. It's shocking how accurate this is. The end with the loverboy targeting an poor, insecure teenager is the sad truth how the world has become nowadays.
She want him because of the money I think you misinterpreted
@@daltonsmith8546 no shit, sherlock. The guy in the car is still a loverboy, a pimp who targets on poor, insecure teenagers to force them into prostitution. He tells her how much he loves her and forces her into prostituion. That's what her father said before, be careful, nowadays many young girls were kidnapped.
She's gonna try to dig for gold
Obrigado pela breve homenagem, Millennia Thinker. Eu nunca imaginei que ouviria frases em português em algum de seus vídeos. Não sei se foi proposital, mas amo o seu trabalho.
Thank you for the brief tribute, Millennia Thinker. I never imagined that I would hear sentences in Portuguese in any of your videos. I'm not sure if it was intentional, but I love your work.
😅 que loucura
I feel for her little brother though, he won't get "that" leverage, dude's gotta work his ass off for years.
Speaking from experience with a similar family, the only difference is I had two elder sisters instead of one.
The leverage of being a girl or being older?
@@Tubeytime The leverage of having a rich bf lol. Shit so many ppl missed the point of the video
@@panoctavian8999 to be fair being a girl is some leverage, maybe not as much in this case but generally girls tend to be coddled and taught to be pretty / dependant in our society
@@panoctavian8999 Yes, I did.
The boy in this also had two older sisters, it was said that Sarah got her clothes from her older sister Eliza.