I feel like you guys should stop capping the episodes at 1 hour, most times the conversation feels feels rushed or not fully exhausted and I don't think the audience would mind longer episodes. Personally I would love that
I agree and maybe consider not having the 1st session “what caught your attention” when you have many guests, just start the conversation, it eats into the much sought after conversation. I really wanted to hear from Dushy this episode but it was so rushed.
Some of us who came from villages and went to good top schools (dominated by kids from Nairobi and other urban areas), probably know how the bullying in school, whether direct, behind one's back, or implied, really hurt. Last weekend, some ladies were trying to shame me for having gone to a public university in a rural part of Kenya (unlike them who went to private universities in Nairobi), yet we are now ALL living abroad, and I have a very good job and career prospects probably better than some of them. Mean girls and bullying never really ends, and I agree that it comes from a place of insecurity! You just ignore it, or hit back at them, and focus on what is important to you. I kept thinking that day: Haven't I achieved more than you, and yet I came from less?
Edith has had me running here to listen. I love listening to her just the same way Jules gets mesmerized by her. Please bring her for the next 100 episodes she's full of wisdom and the way she expresses herself is so amazing. Can she please create her podcast. Please and thanks.
Great episode 🎉 just to clarify the difference between the three terms. Rude is inadvertently saying or doing something that hurts someone else. Incidents of rudeness are usually spontaneous, unplanned inconsideration, based on thoughtlessness, poor manners or narcissism, but not meant to actually hurt someone. Being mean involves purposefully saying or doing something to hurt someone once or twice. Mean behavior aims to hurt or depreciate someone. Bullying is intentionally aggressive behavior, repeated over time, that involves an imbalance of power.
Can we not be so strict on the time please!??! Considering the "what caught your eye segment" takes approximately half an hour!! You need to have a little more faith in what you bring to the table and that your audience is willing to listen beyond an hour because we are. Especially when you have guests, it feels like we barely get to really hear their contribution before its time to wrap up😢
Great episode as always. All in for longer episodes. I'd like to also hear about the mean gurl behaviour that comes from women who deem another woman as not woman enough and thus abuse her by calling her masculine. I'd really love to hear your thoughts on femininity&masculinity. I am passionate about that and it really irks me when women and men come up with rigid descriptions of how a female should present themselves. Including internilised beliefs on gender that are self limiting.
At times it feels like Jules makes her opinion the only correct opinion, like in a certain episode Sharz said that skinny girls go through shaming and what can I do to gain weight, something in those lines , and then Jules shut her off sharz had to say she was asking for her friend.in this particular episode, I feel like she shut dushy down when she was talking about her skin tone ....just an Observation and I could be wrong .....
To be honest all those 3 girls she called darkskins they all have different shades like dushy was trying to explain. Its giving Jules probably has low self esteem and kinda not attentive to details .But I'm a big fan of her and we can't all be perfect ,or I could be wrong
@@lucyliving It's really not that deep, girl. You missed her point which is that, despite the different shades of dark skin, they are all dark skinned at the end of the day. Sometimes these variations are an attempt by some women to distance themselves from the fact that they are, in fact, dark skinned despite the shade it may come in.
Second 😂😂🎉nway i remember somewhere i used to work at the time i was introverted and not outspoken..that was like a curse coz the way someone looks down and finds every reason to bully you..and its usually women funny enough 😢
Great conversation though I suggest more time to the actual topic to cover for the beginning segment of what caught your attention. I felt that more could have been discussed such as how even mean girls sabotage other babes growth and promotions in the workplace especially in structures that are predominantly male led organizations. Looking forward to the conversation on why women are mostly paid less than their male colleagues for identical roles, and even where they are asked to do more. How HR's tend to over negotiate women salaries during recruitment to pay them less etc compared to how they deal with male hires. Also how pregnancy, maternity leave and childbirth affects career women in the workplace could be another topic to consider.
Jules was triggered 😂 eh you were not having it? If Edith is considered light skin in the Kenyan context, then what is caramel skin. Cause Edith looks caramel, Dushy & Sharon are more chocolate and Jules is not dark dark skin either, more mocha with a dash of dark choc lakini I understand where Jules is coming. Light skin to me ni akina Tracy Wanjiru, kina Tanasha Donna. Suggestion, guys. Since y'all are worried about the time, how about whenever everyone is talking about what caught their attention, try to keep it short & sweet that way more time can go towards the topic of the pod? Is this something that can be put into consideration? I feel like sometimes what got your attention takes a lot of time.
I really loved the conversation and when Dushy mentioned 'equality' I just knew it had to be one of the many Precious Blood Schools. Lakini it is time to retire the 'mean girl' energy , btn covid, monkeypox, the economy, taxes, nairobi r/ships, riots and climate change, where do they get the time and energy?🤷
I feel like I came here to cry because wueh! My high school was a nightmare and I never even want to think about it. But now I'm here and I'm telling myself it's been 10years I need to move on 😕
I thought 3 was lit! Being 4 is way more entertaining honestly. 👐👐👐 Maybe 1 & a half hours at least? I love listening to you ladies speak. This was a great episode, I usually like the video even before the introduction ends. 😅
I love this conversations, I’m in the Tech space and it can get like this . Why I started out there was cliquesm culture, even socialising with the IT girls was reserved .It still happens but not like 10 years ago. Mungu si Kamau, some of those mean are washed up😅.
Heh! I was bullied for coming from a specific tribe. My mum would make some nice fish for me for lunch once a week and 2 specific girls would take my lunchbox, open it and show it to the whole class and the whole class would laugh at me. I literally stopped eating fish and dropped my African name 😅
Please do that topic. Im looking forward to the conversation about imbalance in relationships and the woman earning more than the man. Im in a relationship and i earn significantly more than my guy and im curious about this topic because of the stigma that comes with being a high earning woman.
Wow loved hearing Jules talk about Moi Girls cause I was literally there, just hearing her talk about the induction was so nostalgic- Biggie right? Haha
I also have serious trauma from Brookhouse! 😅 classism there was no joke and it was from students and teachers alike. I was there at the same time as Sharon (a few years behind her) and its sad that some of us were treated so horribly by rich kids who come from more privileged homes. I didn't enjoy my high school experience at alllll 😭
In Brookhouse I experienced classism from fellow IFY students, I was surprised the other students in year 12 and 13 were so kind and warm,the teachers were lovely, it was so strange
I was a 2017 mono, I don't think monolization bullying is still on. Maybe the general bullying which could happen whether you're in school or not. There's change for sure.
Thank you for these beautiful episodes!!!! ❤️. is there a reason you're capping the episodes to an hour coz we're not complaining, plus we really don't want the convos to be rushed and inexhaustive
Jules babe I love you! However.. I feel like you went hard on Dushy trying to explain her skin tone and forced your opinion in… The vulnerable me would consider that low key mean 😅..
Omg i could write a whole book about bullying in my life. In Primary I had some Shaddy experiences with some mean girls, my highschool was a nightmare. I was Moi girls Nairobi same as Jules and that school traumatized me for life. I was bullied all through highschool and worse of by my own classmates… I have also experienced bullying at work and it’s always people who feel so threatened by you. It’s absolutely a bad culture that is so much in women and a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.
I was in Moi Girls Nairobi and I came from Makini Primary… I was singled out and a target because I had a sister in form 3 😭😭😭 I transferred and went back to Makini high school in 2nd form because it was too much!!!
is it me or if you can afford brookhouse, you are not okay, you are living luxuriously, might not be as rich as the other students, but it is doing quite well, very well...reminds me of david beckham wifes saying they were a middle class family when owning multiple rolls royce vehicles
Edith slave name tena 😂 Dushy's short hair is 🔥 surprisingly the mean girls in school turned out to be the nicest afterwards...you wonder why we're you like that though and they never have an answer
Girls u're talking about mean girls I was in a boys' school and I found it rough.Just because I was flamboyant and favoured my best friend turned against me and was actually coming for what was mine,and as a friend he knew most of my weaknesses.He gave me sleepless nights.I have never felt that kind of pain in my whole life,I went through hell because of him and he seemed thriving in me suffering.i finally transfered schools.
About the skin tone conversation, I don't look at Jules and Dushy as having the same skin tones. It's like the makeup thing women complain about. Cause the two will need two different foundations* or whatever yall call it hehe
This episode was really short anyways thanx for the good work being mean or bullied was not just by girls was a girl who sat with two boys who used to bully me every single day the wud take my fountain pens n break n the class teacher wudnt do a thing abt it but wen i lost it one day i stabbed one with a pen on the thigh n i was the one who was suspended😢
@@carolinenjoroge1195I guess it's cause Jules has interacted with diverse variations of black people, light skin would be like Beyonce, Sharon is more coco-caramel
@@carol76798 I'm just speaking from the POV of having travelled broadly and seen different shades of black, but in Kenya I understand why Sharon and Dushy wouldn't be seen as dark skin since we've got some of the darkest shades of black in Kenya
Oh my goodness....Shaz...my notes I also draft texts and messages before sending . Then I add poetry, reminders, recipes ,things I randomly cut from blogs etc I was not bullied at highschool. In fact I had a few seniors who quite liked me. There was no bullying in my school. I was bullied at my first work place by one of my lady bosses thou.
Girls, I gotta tell you, I didn’t enjoy this episode. It felt so rushed, by the end we had only tackled definitions and personal experiences. I feel like it could have improved by talking about how you handle mean girls now. I don’t know, I could be wrong though. Cheers!
Petition to have longer episodes, one hour is so short. Well i have been accused of being mean and i can relate to the not wanting to hear it said and weaponizing it, but I am mean to the men (Not justified of course) to just keep them off my case which also doesn't exactly work. But on the flip side of receiving mean girl energy I do, and you can always feel it through interactions, I had a colleague who I have always felt -ish -ish about just the other day ask me if an amateur did my hair or if i did it myself. and that's just one instance i have had with her, i really brush it off and check with someone to see if i am making it up in my head. But it doesn't help if other everyone else likes you.
I feel like you guys should stop capping the episodes at 1 hour, most times the conversation feels feels rushed or not fully exhausted and I don't think the audience would mind longer episodes. Personally I would love that
I concur
Same here!!!!
I agree and maybe consider not having the 1st session “what caught your attention” when you have many guests, just start the conversation, it eats into the much sought after conversation. I really wanted to hear from Dushy this episode but it was so rushed.
I second by lifting my hands and feet 😅😂
Longer episodes definitely,,I love the what got your attention parts. With the kind of content they are giving we'll listen
Excuse me please. That conversation of a women earning more in a relationship must happen. A full episode!!!
Coming soon!
Yes yes please!
Some of us who came from villages and went to good top schools (dominated by kids from Nairobi and other urban areas), probably know how the bullying in school, whether direct, behind one's back, or implied, really hurt. Last weekend, some ladies were trying to shame me for having gone to a public university in a rural part of Kenya (unlike them who went to private universities in Nairobi), yet we are now ALL living abroad, and I have a very good job and career prospects probably better than some of them. Mean girls and bullying never really ends, and I agree that it comes from a place of insecurity! You just ignore it, or hit back at them, and focus on what is important to you. I kept thinking that day: Haven't I achieved more than you, and yet I came from less?
Dushy.!!!!!? The glow unapaka mafuta gani...
That skin tone convo needs to happen as well !
Dushy and Edith are such fantastic guests !!
Coming soon. Keep tuned
Especially because I am convinced Dushy and Sharon are light skinned 😂
I really need a new perspective on this for sure!
At this rate please make Dushy permanent
😂😂
yes she is hilarious
Loved Her Already🎉
Edith has had me running here to listen. I love listening to her just the same way Jules gets mesmerized by her. Please bring her for the next 100 episodes she's full of wisdom and the way she expresses herself is so amazing. Can she please create her podcast. Please and thanks.
Thank you for your feedback
Dushy's skin...is skinning.. giving what it's supposed to give ❤
She should share her skin care routine
Sharon talking about Brookhouse in the same week as "The Mpesa Kids" expose on Twitter is just 😂😂😂 wah!
Great episode 🎉 just to clarify the difference between the three terms.
Rude is inadvertently saying or doing something that hurts someone else. Incidents of rudeness are usually spontaneous, unplanned inconsideration, based on thoughtlessness, poor manners or narcissism, but not meant to actually hurt someone.
Being mean involves purposefully saying or doing something to hurt someone once or twice. Mean behavior aims to hurt or depreciate someone.
Bullying is intentionally aggressive behavior, repeated over time, that involves an imbalance of power.
Can we not be so strict on the time please!??! Considering the "what caught your eye segment" takes approximately half an hour!! You need to have a little more faith in what you bring to the table and that your audience is willing to listen beyond an hour because we are. Especially when you have guests, it feels like we barely get to really hear their contribution before its time to wrap up😢
Thank you for your feedback
or we get two episodes, what caught your attention and the full hour of the conversation ...
Can we hear some noise for Dushy's skin
Great episode as always. All in for longer episodes.
I'd like to also hear about the mean gurl behaviour that comes from women who deem another woman as not woman enough and thus abuse her by calling her masculine. I'd really love to hear your thoughts on femininity&masculinity. I am passionate about that and it really irks me when women and men come up with rigid descriptions of how a female should present themselves. Including internilised beliefs on gender that are self limiting.
over already?? it felt like 5 minutes! the conversation on dark skinned women and skin tones also
needs to me continued.
This is coming soon too.
OG over 25 fans remember that "watch your clothes dry" story from Jules😂
😂😂
i love how minimally edited ya'll are on this episode. and edith is such an amazing guest
Uuuuh, I was mean girled at church!!!!!!!!! Mark you these two ladies who mean girled me are part of the leadership team😅.
Guuurl I was mean guyed at church too, by a church youth leader for singing better than he assumed!😂
@@billskeyy 😂
At church?????Thats wild
I've not listened to Edith so much but this babe either becomes a regular shmegular and/or opens a podcast. She has depth manze
Ikr? I could listen to her ALL DAY! 😊
She is amazing!
@@ItsRelatedIPromise I love Edith's tone when she is speaking.
At times it feels like Jules makes her opinion the only correct opinion, like in a certain episode Sharz said that skinny girls go through shaming and what can I do to gain weight, something in those lines , and then Jules shut her off sharz had to say she was asking for her friend.in this particular episode, I feel like she shut dushy down when she was talking about her skin tone ....just an Observation and I could be wrong .....
I like Jules but I see this too and she gets loud about it. Like, two truts can co-exist.
I remember that episode cause even I was also agreeing with Sharz but then she kept insisting it's not the same for skinny girls or something
Her opinion on skinny shaming was honestly correct. They are not the same bffr
To be honest all those 3 girls she called darkskins they all have different shades like dushy was trying to explain. Its giving Jules probably has low self esteem and kinda not attentive to details .But I'm a big fan of her and we can't all be perfect ,or I could be wrong
@@lucyliving It's really not that deep, girl. You missed her point which is that, despite the different shades of dark skin, they are all dark skinned at the end of the day. Sometimes these variations are an attempt by some women to distance themselves from the fact that they are, in fact, dark skinned despite the shade it may come in.
@Jules we’re all dark skinned women but there’s definitely a spectrum and there’s nothing wrong with that.
I think men see it as you have explained too as opposed to what Jules is saying but it shouldn't be neither here nor there.
Second 😂😂🎉nway i remember somewhere i used to work at the time i was introverted and not outspoken..that was like a curse coz the way someone looks down and finds every reason to bully you..and its usually women funny enough 😢
The kind of conversations that IRIP usually have are so rich that one hour is just not enough. You can look into it
Bullying in highschool actually made me never want to be in a room full of girls only...including girl groups. Therapy i guess😅
Jules you look so beautiful, That convo of women earning more sounds interesting .
Coming soon
@@ItsRelatedIPromisei really wanna hear it. Coz girl, i’m in the THIIIICK of it!!!
Great conversation though I suggest more time to the actual topic to cover for the beginning segment of what caught your attention. I felt that more could have been discussed such as how even mean girls sabotage other babes growth and promotions in the workplace especially in structures that are predominantly male led organizations. Looking forward to the conversation on why women are mostly paid less than their male colleagues for identical roles, and even where they are asked to do more. How HR's tend to over negotiate women salaries during recruitment to pay them less etc compared to how they deal with male hires. Also how pregnancy, maternity leave and childbirth affects career women in the workplace could be another topic to consider.
Jules was triggered 😂 eh you were not having it? If Edith is considered light skin in the Kenyan context, then what is caramel skin. Cause Edith looks caramel, Dushy & Sharon are more chocolate and Jules is not dark dark skin either, more mocha with a dash of dark choc lakini I understand where Jules is coming. Light skin to me ni akina Tracy Wanjiru, kina Tanasha Donna.
Suggestion, guys. Since y'all are worried about the time, how about whenever everyone is talking about what caught their attention, try to keep it short & sweet that way more time can go towards the topic of the pod? Is this something that can be put into consideration? I feel like sometimes what got your attention takes a lot of time.
Your feedback is appeciated
I really loved the conversation and when Dushy mentioned 'equality' I just knew it had to be one of the many Precious Blood Schools. Lakini it is time to retire the 'mean girl' energy , btn covid, monkeypox, the economy, taxes, nairobi r/ships, riots and climate change, where do they get the time and energy?🤷
😂😂yoooh well said
As a PB Kilungu alumni I concur. That school equilized us and made it comfortable for everyone.
Please make the episodes longer😭😭 Dushy and Edith are amazing guests!!❤❤
Wow, Dushy is gorgeous, skin is skinning and her personality is infectious ❤
Dushy is back😂😂😂😂she is such a vibe😂😂😂I love the show already
This was just amazing😊
Work place bullying is actually the worst! Yoh have gone through it!
I feel like I came here to cry because wueh! My high school was a nightmare and I never even want to think about it. But now I'm here and I'm telling myself it's been 10years I need to move on 😕
We are sorry you went through it
We need a part two of this episode. Interesting conversations.
I thought 3 was lit! Being 4 is way more entertaining honestly. 👐👐👐 Maybe 1 & a half hours at least? I love listening to you ladies speak. This was a great episode, I usually like the video even before the introduction ends. 😅
Edith and Dushy Again🎉 Love it. Also Jules, no pressure but I'm really missing the So this is love episodes,drop something new wena🥺
I concur with Edith.....at this point in my life, i would definitely call out my "bully" or "mean girl". I owe myself that.
Aint no lies told here🙌🙌
I love this conversations, I’m in the Tech space and it can get like this . Why I started out there was cliquesm culture, even socialising with the IT girls was reserved .It still happens but not like 10 years ago. Mungu si Kamau, some of those mean are washed up😅.
The energy just gave me the energy💯
Also can I say how I hate mean humor that is often coated as "jokes"
Heh! I was bullied for coming from a specific tribe. My mum would make some nice fish for me for lunch once a week and 2 specific girls would take my lunchbox, open it and show it to the whole class and the whole class would laugh at me. I literally stopped eating fish and dropped my African name 😅
Oh no! So sorry
I love the episode before it even starts 😂😂
Guys, we need a poll because some of us don't mind longer episodes. Lol.
Please do that topic. Im looking forward to the conversation about imbalance in relationships and the woman earning more than the man. Im in a relationship and i earn significantly more than my guy and im curious about this topic because of the stigma that comes with being a high earning woman.
Wow loved hearing Jules talk about Moi Girls cause I was literally there, just hearing her talk about the induction was so nostalgic- Biggie right? Haha
Omg I also do the notes thing with messages I want to send to someone 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I thought it was odd, good to know there's others that do it 😂😂😂😂
Very powerful talk ❤❤❤
Once I went audio visual, I never went back 😂
Sameeeeee
Me too sis , gotta see Jules talk
Sameeee
Lovely conversation.
Liking this.
As a clinical psychologist, this whole convo has really piqued my interest.
Thanks for watching
I also have serious trauma from Brookhouse! 😅 classism there was no joke and it was from students and teachers alike. I was there at the same time as Sharon (a few years behind her) and its sad that some of us were treated so horribly by rich kids who come from more privileged homes. I didn't enjoy my high school experience at alllll 😭
In Brookhouse I experienced classism from fellow IFY students, I was surprised the other students in year 12 and 13 were so kind and warm,the teachers were lovely, it was so strange
Is Sharon dark skin? I don't think so. Jules' shade of dark is so pretty.
Loved the convo. The pacing felt a bit rushed though. Could you maybe consider having a 1½hr/2hr cap for future episodes?
There is the loudly mean girl, and there is the passive aggressive mean girl.😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jules just bringing back bad memories, Quabbz was hell...anyone pretending it was otherwise is in denial‼️
Jules you can say it all!!! As a darker skin babe, we have seen it all 😅😂
I was a 2017 mono, I don't think monolization bullying is still on. Maybe the general bullying which could happen whether you're in school or not. There's change for sure.
Thank you for these beautiful episodes!!!! ❤️. is there a reason you're capping the episodes to an hour coz we're not complaining, plus we really don't want the convos to be rushed and inexhaustive
Amazing guests❤. Loving the Girl power energy💃🏾✨. Not slave names now😅. Jules mentioned 'insider' imenirudisha mbali🤭. Dushy and Edith are vibes😍😍.
Dushy please what lotion do you use esp on your legs???? I want 14 bottles of it now
Top 200🔥🔥 hehe..had really waited.
Jules babe I love you! However.. I feel like you went hard on Dushy trying to explain her skin tone and forced your opinion in… The vulnerable me would consider that low key mean 😅..
Omg i could write a whole book about bullying in my life. In Primary I had some Shaddy experiences with some mean girls, my highschool was a nightmare. I was Moi girls Nairobi same as Jules and that school traumatized me for life. I was bullied all through highschool and worse of by my own classmates…
I have also experienced bullying at work and it’s always people who feel so threatened by you.
It’s absolutely a bad culture that is so much in women and a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.
Love this episodes.But this one today felt rushed.One hour is limiting.Lets go back to the long episodes❤
I was in Moi Girls Nairobi and I came from Makini Primary… I was singled out and a target because I had a sister in form 3 😭😭😭 I transferred and went back to Makini high school in 2nd form because it was too much!!!
Yesssss am so proud of Yvonne Okwaro
Dushy i love your shoes ❤
I wanna hear about women earning more in a relationship
is it me or if you can afford brookhouse, you are not okay, you are living luxuriously, might not be as rich as the other students, but it is doing quite well, very well...reminds me of david beckham wifes saying they were a middle class family when owning multiple rolls royce vehicles
At the end of the day, despite her background she had a mean girl experience. People from OK backgrounds have mean girl experiences too.
Edith slave name tena 😂 Dushy's short hair is 🔥 surprisingly the mean girls in school turned out to be the nicest afterwards...you wonder why we're you like that though and they never have an answer
Probably issues and trouble back home I would guess.
Girls u're talking about mean girls I was in a boys' school and I found it rough.Just because I was flamboyant and favoured my best friend turned against me and was actually coming for what was mine,and as a friend he knew most of my weaknesses.He gave me sleepless nights.I have never felt that kind of pain in my whole life,I went through hell because of him and he seemed thriving in me suffering.i finally transfered schools.
About the skin tone conversation, I don't look at Jules and Dushy as having the same skin tones. It's like the makeup thing women complain about. Cause the two will need two different foundations* or whatever yall call it hehe
If I may suggest less time should be spent on the intro session
This episode was really short anyways thanx for the good work being mean or bullied was not just by girls was a girl who sat with two boys who used to bully me every single day the wud take my fountain pens n break n the class teacher wudnt do a thing abt it but wen i lost it one day i stabbed one with a pen on the thigh n i was the one who was suspended😢
My slave name😂😂😂 ah you guys
This reverence to authority🙄 I remember standing up anytime a teacher entered the classroom in primary school. I hope schools don't still do that.
According to me Sharon ni light skin
Jules amekataa😂😂
@@carolinenjoroge1195I guess it's cause Jules has interacted with diverse variations of black people, light skin would be like Beyonce, Sharon is more coco-caramel
@@JKnowZ. But the difference between Sharon's and Edith's complexion isn't that big.
@@carol76798 I'm just speaking from the POV of having travelled broadly and seen different shades of black, but in Kenya I understand why Sharon and Dushy wouldn't be seen as dark skin since we've got some of the darkest shades of black in Kenya
Dushy ❤🎉
Oh my goodness....Shaz...my notes I also draft texts and messages before sending . Then I add poetry, reminders, recipes ,things I randomly cut from blogs etc I was not bullied at highschool. In fact I had a few seniors who quite liked me. There was no bullying in my school. I was bullied at my first work place by one of my lady bosses thou.
😅😅😅Jules I was in red house, in Biggie. Promise we were not vigilantes 😂
Passwords on notes is risky business 😫😫😫. Try using password managers. Like bitwarden
Sharon sio dark skin
Ate STS? I'm on the floor
Why is the episode 1hr 😢
Sharon Machira....dark skin?
I don't see much difference between her and Edith
Quaberrians gather here😂😂
First 🎉❤✨✨✨
Ati I thought we sung😂😂
Love love love iiiiiiiiittttttt
Hello everyone love you all.
Lakini Jules let everyone else speak uwii😂
She talks too much and cut others short..She's giving control freak
Yvonne Okwara is gorgeous
But Sharon is light skinned
Kwani ni choir😂😂😂
Mememememeeeeeee ppuah puah puah😂😂😂
Girls, I gotta tell you, I didn’t enjoy this episode. It felt so rushed, by the end we had only tackled definitions and personal experiences. I feel like it could have improved by talking about how you handle mean girls now. I don’t know, I could be wrong though. Cheers!
I love Dushy. She is so hilarious. And Mrs Madowo is deep. Amazing topic guys
All kabberians i have interacted with have attitude problem
I think monolisation comes from colonial hazing
Petition to have longer episodes, one hour is so short. Well i have been accused of being mean and i can relate to the not wanting to hear it said and weaponizing it, but I am mean to the men (Not justified of course) to just keep them off my case which also doesn't exactly work. But on the flip side of receiving mean girl energy I do, and you can always feel it through interactions, I had a colleague who I have always felt -ish -ish about just the other day ask me if an amateur did my hair or if i did it myself. and that's just one instance i have had with her, i really brush it off and check with someone to see if i am making it up in my head. But it doesn't help if other everyone else likes you.
jules dont discredit other people's experiences bcoz its not similar to what you went through