They Told You They Wanted a Break? The Perfect Response… (Matthew Hussey)
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What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you he wants a break?
You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much.
What would you say to him?
In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to. If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need...
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My boyfriend after dating 18mths said he wanted a break as he thought he might just love me as a friend and nothing more.
I told him if he wanted a break that was fine, but I would see it as a break up. I said he wouldn't be able to contact me again as I didn't see him as just a friend, so it would be best to just go our seperate ways.
It was so hard for me to do, inside I was dying but we agreed amicably and broke contact.
Three months later he phoned me in absolute tears telling me that he had missed me so much every day and knew he couldn't live without me.
We got married that year and have been married 15 years now with 3 kids.
Sometimes you have to let someone go to really know if it's meant to be.
Hope this helps someone.
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People are really confusing, most of us don't have any clue of what is going on in our own minds, to expect to understand someone else's is arrogance
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I don’t believe in breaks. It’s either a breakup or working through the hard times to stay in the relationship.
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It's just what most girls use to ease the emotional feeling of really breaking up hoping they can go back when they're feeling better about it all.
Most dudes will just straight up tell them they're done or just become distant because they don't want to hurt the girl and string her along.
TheLondonCyclist definitely not true lol its definitely both males and females that ask for breaks
@@jennyfromdabl0xxx agreed, I've definitely heard it from both!
A break gives them the opportunity to try and estimate how much success they'd have if they dated other people, and having the safety to get back to the relationship if they realise they can't do any better than their current partner 🤷🏻♀️ it may not be a conscious plan for most people but that's what I've observed !
"The girl really worth having won't wait for anybody" that quote hit different I wish some of my girlfriend's would listen to this advice
@@grumpyschnauzer I'm so glad you have found someone who appreciates you, I'm so glad your happy with this new guy. Thank you for sharing. My friends stay in relationships with guys just because they have invested so much time into them rather than because he loves and respects my friends. Sorry for the rant
My husband said this to me... I’m now with a guy who tells me how much he appreciates having me in his life... as a matter of fact he is humming a tune as we sit next to each other relaxing... I think he is happy 😊 and that makes my heart happy.
Ellie Lane Thank you! It took a decade to take the leap of faith so it can take time before any of your friends get there. For me I the alternative was better than waiting. I still love him but I finally get how to love myself first and do life instead of waiting on the sidelines as it passes by.
@@grumpyschnauzer Awe I'm so happy for you and I'm glad your leap of faith worked out and you were brave enough to take a chance. I wish you a happy future with your new guy 😊
It's hard
I think there are two kinds of breaks we are talking about here.
One is: “I want some space and distance, we will see each other less often so I can focus on work/friends/figuring out my own identity issues... But we remain committed and still make big decisions together as a team. I am not interested in pursuing other options during this time. “ I think this is actually necessary in a relationship sometimes, and I have done this in the past.
And second is: “I have doubts about this relationship and want to see how life is without the other person, or I simply want to sleep with other people. “ Then that’s not a good reason and should just lead to a breakup.
Yes I totally agree with you.
I feel like people have slightly different definitions of the word "break." For the first meaning that you gave, some people don't consider that a "break," just time away from each other. In fact, many may not find it necessary to use the word "break" during that kind of situation, they my just tell their S.O that they want to have a bit of space from each other. I think what he means is when a person is talking about wanting a "break" from the (keyword) relationship. And like he said, if the problem can not be solved while still being in a relationship, then there is no point waiting around, hoping the person will come back when you could be with someone else who may be a better match. Going back to your first definition of a "break," because the two people are still committed to each other and still technically in a relationship, he may see it as them taking some space from each other in a relationship to try to solve a problem (from not being suffocated). From that, the couple can learn how to balance the amount of time they spend with each other to make sure they feel good in the relationship, so it's still a problem solving technique. But if the couple can not solve their problem together, and they have to put a "break" from the relationship as a whole, then is it really healthy to wait for the break to be over? He is saying it would just be best to move on. (At least that's what I think he is trying to say)
Break and space are different things. The first example is just "I need space".
both sound like a break up to me. If you approached me and referred to number 1 as a "break" i would 100 percent leave you. If you just said you need to refocus and regain balance in your life that's understandable and is not a break nor a break up. Its literally just shifting space and being responsible.
I had a break with my girlfriend a six months ago close to the first one. She had medical issues and didn't have the time or energy to treat me right, which I respect. I gave her space and she still loved me up until a few months later when she decided she didn't and went to someone else. The kicker? She never got her medical issue treated. Sometimes not even the first kind of break will end well.
Your train shouldn't stop because he wants a break....Leave his ass on the platform and keep moving Sista!
And, depending on the circumstances, run his ass over! 😂😂😂😂🚂🚃
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Me: very single
Also Me: he wants a break!? yes Matthew, what should I do!? 🥺
Hello... Sis 😂😅😅
gotta prepare cause these men out here are truly something else. i just want to get married and be done. I dont like men other than my future husband.
I’ve never related to a comment more in my life 😂😂😂
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Haha just sent a risky text and expecting this response so I’m preparing 😂
My advice would be leave as soon as a break is mentioned .
That what I did 😅🤚
A break? Never! Either work on the problems together while in the relationship or leave when the so-called "break" is suggested.
a break means they've met someone more interesting and want to 'explore the connection' to see if they can upgrade. If it doesn't work out...they'll come back and want to 'reconnect'. It's so obviously someone wanting to take time off to cheat. IMHO
exactly! dont even bother with having a conversation, you are just gonna hear more excuses that will confuse you
@@LibertyLobotomy my experience exactly!!
He told me he just wants to be alone right now and that he lost his feelings for me. It's been a month now and even though it's still hard and I still think about him... I actually think I am fine without him. We've been together for 4 years and I thought I couldn't live without him. But I can. And I will. And he will be sorry one day.
flowersinmay what a heartless coward he is. Go girl!
I promise it’ll get better
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He get what he deserves one day
If he wants a break, then go ahead. But I wont be here when he comes back. I deserve much better. You only realized how much you love a person when he/she is not with you anymore.
If someone is needing a "break" just wish them the best and move on. No need for a conversation. When your done with that if you feel sad. The best way to overcome the sadness is to get up everyday and live your life. When you are living your best life the right man or woman for you will come.
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Your response is truly mature… in essence, you’re suggesting people run from hard times.
It has nothing to do with running from hard times! It has everything to do with a partner hanging the other out to face the hard times alone- life has no breaks.... It's all or nothing
My husband said this to me... I’m now with a guy who tells me how much he appreciates having me in his life... as a matter of fact he is humming a tune as we sit next to each other relaxing... I think he is happy 😊 and that makes my heart happy.
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@@vivianespinoza1549 im so jealous ! Happy for you ❤
You’re so lucky❤ I love that. It gives me hope.
I was asked for a break during Covid lockdown. He said that he wanted to check with himself whether his feelings for me were strong enough to go forward. I perceived that as a unilateral violation of my feelings: no chance to talk in person, no human touch, nothing. After two months and a half in which he did disappeared he sent me an email to tell me he didn’t miss me enough so he wanted to make his life without me and that he wanted his things back. Now I believe that was a huge act of cowardice and disrespect but I was so fragile, so hopeful and so alone during the lockdown that I was not able to respond to such behavior anymore. My lockdown was so deeply sad and lonely, I suffered so much: I wasn’t given the human right of confrontation. I promised to myself to not accept this kind of behavior from anyone in the future.
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I'm sorry, you deserve better. My ex decided to break up with me virtually as well even though I insisted on talking in person. It was hard but they will regret loosing someone braver than them 🙏✨💛
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Wendy Yang I did not insisted. After his email I totally disappeared. His things were given to him by a courier. He did not deserve any answer, after my suffering.
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If anyone is asking for a break, we are breaking up period.
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@@tonyjohn7839 I think looking at people's comments the people that you're telling this to wouldn't want to get back with them
I've done everything right. I saved my life from wasting precious time with people who have problems to solve on their side. I'm not a man's therapist!
When he said he wanted a brake , I broke up with him and never regret it.
Omg me too. I wasn’t going to Waste any time.
“Ain’t nobody got time for someone else’s weakassness. Make yourself a priority & move on” ✌🏾
I was told this once upon a time. I quickly said "I was thinking the same thing. Thank you for bring it up. I just didn't want to hurt your feelings." He wanted to call off the breakup after that. I said no because obviously both of us were on the same track about our relationship. Show it's time to go our separate ways. Then I got up and left. I went home and cried. But the guy kept calling me wanting to get back with me for months.
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Why Vin, he's an ex?
To quote Ross Geller. “We were on a break”. Just what is on a break?
We’ve been together for almost three years and she decided to just leave. I want to pick myself up and move on but I constantly find myself falling back down, hoping and waiting for her to come back one day. Nothing has ever felt harder I swear.
Hold on! Somebody beautiful is waiting for you and your love. You don't need anybody who doesn't need you ❤️
I really like the message of valuing your time. No matter if there’s still a part of you that’s hopeful to be together again, but remind yourself the fact that this person isn’t willing to be a team player then they’re not right for you even if everything else about this person is perfect. Thanks Matthew 💕
This is so true Marissa!
This!
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Great relationships are not great because they have no problems, they are great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work. You just cant leave or be with a person as per your convenience or mood.
I needed to hear this.. I was a few minutes away from contacting my ex and settling for FWB. Screw that, the woman worth having won’t accept less then what she deserves. And I want to become that women ❤️ thanks Matthew
I feel sorry for ur ex .for not being fwb .because u hottt 🤣
Let's take a break. Translation: I don't love you anymore. I'm Dumping you and going to start dating...but in case I don't meet anyone. I'll come back.
@@4EducationPurpose Reply. Great idea! I'm going to find someone who WANTS to be with me. Ps If he comes back... PLEASE don't forgive him for dumping you!
This really hurt to watch. My long-term boyfriend, someone I thought I'd spend my life with, decided he wanted a break last Saturday. I am coping, but this video really hit home, and no matter how much this hurts, I think you're right. I need to keep moving. And if at some point he wants to come back, he needs to be ready for a fact I won't be there any longer.
I’m sorry and how are things now ?
I feel like I can't breathe...
Sorry how’s everything now
Its also happened to me this week sadly
I also thing the same,, we've together for 2 years in ldr, and thats how he wanted.
‘Your time can never be replaced, guard it like precious jewel’ are best words I heard today, thank you Matt, should hv subscribed your channel earlier, so I won’t waste my whole year on someone who doesn’t even care about me
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Yes!!! This is gold. I’ve watched so many videos about this and none were nearly as perfect as this. Be a high-value and respected woman ladies!
If they take a "break" it WILL end up leading to break UP in the future. Thats what happened to me over 1 year later.
Same thing happened to me. We took a break for about a month and we broke up a month and a half after we got back from that break.
^this!!! Wasted 3 years of my life because I didn’t listen to the 3 times he said he wanted a break! Just end it now sis
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I broke up with someone who kept wanting to go on breaks and if it had to do with me states are out of my control he was possessive always thought I was cheating it didn't matter what I did she always came to that conclusion and it started feeling insulting at the same time she did that I want to hang out the guys once in awhile she thought I was cheating I don't call her on the minute expecting me to call she thought I was cheating on her I don't call her after I tell her I'm going to be busy but yet expects me to call her knowing plant already told her I'm helping my dad out with something serious I'm cheating yeah I didn't want to get back with her she wanted to get back with me several times I could not do that really the girls who just want to get back I figured out not benefiting themselves or you in a relationship especially the possessive once when it's just a possessive reason they want to get back so I rejected her every time because it was actually more therapeutic for my mental health to be away from her
There is a immense love for you Matthew, I have had a really difficult time coping up from "situationship" but with the help of your videos and content I could come out stronger and clearer... I can't tell you how real, authentic and practical advice you give which help us soo much to take right decisions in life.
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Sometimes breaks are necessary. We love each other so much and we match but something about our timing is off right now. It’s clear as day for us but the love, the chemistry and the vibe will always be in my heart. Same for him. My other half 🖤✨Maybe it’ll come back or maybe it won’t but I won’t regret that love we shared.
I wish I could quantify the value this video brought me- but just know you have helped me save precious moments of my life and I am so grateful
This is exactly what I’m going through, and wow how this has really opened up my eyes.
I absolutely agree with your advices. I had this exact conversation.
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He dared to ask me "I thought you *wanted* this relationship?" only to say "I need a break" right after (he proposed to me).
So I sent him to hell.
Not going through pain, sit down and WAIT for a person who says "you deserve better". YES. You are RIGHT. I DO deserve better.
I hope u kept the ring for wasting your time 😁
@@jeenjeanjeen He never gave it to me because it didn't fit.. "We" wanted to order a slimmer one. But when i wanted to try it on one more time I never saw it again. And not long after that he said "I need a break"
Ya.. wish i would have kept the ring even if it was too big.
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@Zemiya & @jeanjeanjean, The "proposal/engagement ring" doesn't belong to you unless you get married. It is contingent upon getting married. Women like both of you need to understand the original concept of the engagement ring and stop being greedy and materialistic.
@@72sunrise 🤣🤣🤣 it belongs to whoever has physical possession of it. If he wants it back, then he better get a knife and be willing to go to the slammer. When was the last time u heard someone use the word slammer to refer to jail? Too long.
Sometimes I regret breaking up with him when he asked for a break. Watching this video I realized that I did do all of those things you suggested and that whether I could express it or not I was protecting myself by treating the break as a breakup. He decided he no longer wanted to return the relationship with me after some time and it still hurts, but im still grateful that I got to use the time to reflect on myself and where I needed to grow for any future relationship. Thank you for this, it was very validating.
The most painful thing about a break is when being in a long-term relationship, having built your whole life around a person, depending on them entirely, then all of a sudden they press in the break and you didn’t have your seatbelt on because you trusted them that this car (relationship) you were in would never stop.
And a break is more like a crash. But once you let time heal your wounds, you will learn to love yourself again, and you will become yourself again.
Never give up on love, and those that do, aren’t worth loving.
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My gf of 5 years just told me she doesn't want me anymore, not really sure what went on in her mind or what influenced her decision because we haven't met in the past 2 weeks so I suggested a break. What should I do or say before we start this so called break?
@@ijam1729 hey I would say that if it comes to a point that a break is needed chances are you’ll break up because you’ll grow apart, breaks are a no go for a relationships.
My biggest advice to you is to be strong and prepare yourself for the worse and starting finding your own during this time, also an important part would be to set boundaries what you can and can’t do during the break i.e dating others, or talking to others etc.
Hope all goes well though and you get back in love together, but understand everything happens for a reason in this life and that reason is for your best! Hope this helps
@@ijam1729 take break and she want break up not a break
This is one of the most honest realistic straight-up talk I’ve found about this topic. Being calm, asking if the relationship can be worked on as a team, your time and self love ♥️💪🏿. Thank you, I appreciate this so much 🥰
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Spell caster? Are you serious????
Going through a break/breakup right now and I really needed to see/hear this. Thank you.
I didn’t sign up to take breaks & I’m not sticking around if he mention it to me. I can do bad by myself ✌🏾
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i told my girlfriend i wanted a break and currently we are going through that rn. but this advice is reasonable for 1. you don’t believe in breaks or 2. the person wants a break because of a relationship issue. now me AND my partner are focusing on ourselves and learning how to love ourselves and care for ourselves because our mental health is very low and her and i stay way too focused on the relationship and each other that we don’t put ourselves first. we’re taking a break to learn to love and care for ourselves as well as each other. it’s only 2 weeks. no flirting or anything w anyone but no talking to each other unless there’s an emergency. this helps the BOTH of us and we’ll come back even stronger and healthier.
Update on how it’s going now?
That´s awesome!
Nobody can put these situations across with a better explanation. You're a perfect psychologist when it comes to human relationships. 👍
This literally came at the exact time I needed it, it's like Matthew is watching my love life 😂
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My partner said she lost the spark a little but still likes me, she wants time alone to focus on her mental health. Etc... I'm upset but I've deleted social media. Stopped posting, I'm preparing for her to dump me. We've been on a break for about 3 weeks, she thinks it might be longer. But I'm thinking I might end it with her. I don't want to feel like I'm.not good enough when I treat her amazing. And I just asked her to be my gf and a month later she wanted a break. I'm angry inside and disappointed as well. I try blaming myself but this video really helps me know that I'm worth more than waiting for someone to tell me they like me enough.
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Thank you Mathew. Once again your advice is pure gold 🧡
This guy have a "free-guide" for every situation !
Matthew Hussey offers the most insightful advice. I love his message. His approach to finding a life partner and developing a relationship built on honesty and mutual love and respect is why I'm now engaged to the love of my life.
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Wow Matthew! You're preaching a high-value-rules-to-live-by sermon EARLY this morning and I ❤️LOVE IT❤️‼️‼️‼️
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So what you are saying is if he asking for break, he doesn't care about you anymore and it will be a breakup, if he really wanted you he won't be asking for a break from you or the relationship
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not always. sometimes breaks can be a good thing and they can bring you closer. the end result will always depend on how the situation is handled
You answered this question in a live webinar, and I knew you were right. I loved the way you explain it in this video. You are so didactique. Breaks are break-ups.
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There is something about his face and accent that makes me wanna crave to see him more and more and more
I wasn’t healthy enough to do this, so I was in a decades’ long relationship, hoping a toxic individual would love me and pay attention to me.
EMDR/CBT therapies three years prior to my leaving the relationship, helped me to heal and make the choice to wait no longer.
Thank you for this succinct message, Matthew!
Blessings!❤️
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Even if I believed in witchcraft or divination (casting of spells), I wouldn’t want the toxic ex to come back to me. He’s TOXIC, self-entitled, needy,. He never loved me, never took care of me when I was ill, even when I took care of him when HE was ill. He disrespected me, cheated on me, and didn’t like me. Who wants to go back to someone like that?!!!
@@nryane you made the right choice one witchcraft is evil 2 a person would have to be toxic to try to cast a spell for someone to be with them 3 you're better off without that person
I am so surprised right now. Because I have seen your video only now, but I have done exactly what you are suggesting in this video a year ago. I don’t think I was wrong after all. I’m glad I trusted myself on the decision and your video helped me assure it! Thanks :)
Yes life and love need a team up work and sacrifice for each other. Else no need for extra struggle. Life is already Hard! Thank you!
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You are good at being good..
It might take a hundred lifetimes to do..but I just wanna be good as you..
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In my “childhood” relationship (8 years. Age 16 to 24) he used to always ask for a break when things got heavy. I would always tell him I don’t believe it breaks; that it was all or nothing. One time, ONE time while in an argument I agreed to his suggestion of taking a break (we were 6+ years in) because I was just too exhausted to carry on the argument. He went and slept with another woman. I believe there was an agenda all along. DO NOT TAKE A BREAK!
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Cudos that you agreed.
Through that you freed yourself from the illusion that your relationship was based on love.
I understand his reasoning, but I also believe that sometimes a break can be good. Sometimes we get too close to someone too soon and lose sight of our own goals. Asking for a finite break (i.e 2 weeks, a month) could be good to clear your head and think about what you really want. And if you can still achieve your goals with guy/girl in your life, even better. I don’t think a break is necessarily an indication that someone doesn’t value you. They could just be really busy with their own issues and need to recenter.
Appreciate the heck out of you Matthew! Thanks for another great video!!
This message is brilliant. Thank you 🙏
Thank you for this. Just recently last week a girl I've been with for over a year has just out of the blue wanted a break and then to meet up in a few months to see me. I don't think I should wait around and hope things change. I have anxiety just thinking about it.
I should have walked away when they first break was suggested! Wasted precious 5years and here I am. If she ever wants a break, end it and move on, no time for games.
that was so beautifully put...I need to memorize all those words!
Amazing truths here!
Our counselor told us to take a break and separate because she was stressed and pulling away. It was the beginning on the end and trying to work on us issues alone was insane in my eyes. We were never the same and went through over a year of hell separated and only gradually got worse. A break or separation is the beginning of the end and should always be seen as the end to save years of misery
day two of heartbreak.. i got this.. *deep breath* I GOT THIS. i will attract the person that’s right for me, when the time is right and i will have full clarity. no more petty explanations, i will never wait around for a decision to be made.
You got this!
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This hit home with exactly what I’m going through at this moment.
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I came upon this and I have to say that don’t take advice literally without assessing if it suits your situation. For me I pushed my partner and caused so much pain that he asked for a break. I respect that cos it’s my own doing. So I’m giving he as much time as he needs to…
Just say yes and give them the break that’s it 🤷🏾♀️ if they want a break give it to them that’s the respectful thing to do why be pushy that’s manipulative I think 🤔 I will just give them a break and continue to move on with my life without all that wasted energy in conversation
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Agreed
Real talk sister
honestly Matthew you’re the best.
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Hello, Matthew. I’ve been subscribed to your channel since I was 19 years old. I am now 28 years old. I finally met someone who I care about. We recently had an argument and he he suggested we should take a break...2 or 3 months. I told him no because I just didn’t want to take the chance and wait for him while he could be looking for someone else. Your video is exactly how I wanted to express myself. Thank you, always.
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This is such good advice! I so agree that it is better to do the breakup and give yourself the respect you deserve
Thank you. I did this before even watching this video.. his response to part three was “I need your actions to line up with your words” we live(d) together. He moved into his moms house. I am still living here at the home he owns with my three children at the r he invited us to come move in and we started building a family together together with him and his daughter. They left at the beginning of this month after an argument we had regarding intimacy.. or the lack there of. He didn’t want it.. I did.. we both have past traumas and he knows how important staying connected is to me. Thank you for this video. I am going to offer to rent or buy his house, if he doesn’t want to do that I will look for a new place for me and my kids to live. Thanks again.
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Wow.... this video is so on point, changed my perspective of how to see the “break thing”
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I felt SO guilty having set this boundary, and thought I was being mean but seeing others respond the same way I did, it helps. And I wasnt trying to be mean but it’s not fair for me to have to wait for them🥴
@@standground7956 That is so very sad, your loyality is abused here that makes me so very sad to read. I wish you the very best
@@standground7956 No he did and he didn't even ask me, he decided we have a break. After me ignoring that he came back after 1 day lol. And I told him what Matthew says in the video. If he wants a break he can have that a lifetime. Turns out he really appreciated that strength, and he is jealous which gives him issues in his head. Loyality is not being a doormat. I think what you're going through is not okay, the missing timeline especially, and that you seem to have agreed with the break. Look your best, workout and if she comes back ask oops is the break already over it was so much fun without you I wished it was longer 😂 Seriously, I'm sorry I think you are in pain and need control+power back to strengthen your position, you're worthy and valulabe don't ever let anyone tell you different.
@@standground7956 Of course the first moment feels great, enjoy it. Underneath you may feel like the trust is broken, that you probably sign up for more of that abuse. If she questioned how loyal you are, it should have been done within the relationship but she told you something very different and broke the relationship for that for 7 months. I feel like, when someone breaks the relationship, they brake a part of me too. No matter he came back, something stinks and I'm careful now.
You say "That's awesome! I was just thinking the same thing!
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You’re wonderful! Thank you for your heartfelt advice. ❤️
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Thank you Matthew! Very important video for me.
Two weeks of agreeing to go on a break: its a little lonely and difficult at times.. but the old me has started to resurface the me that was savage and is not afraid of losing people and just self love do what i do best to self love I feel like this was the me that got buried when I started to feel like I needed to care and give people my outmost attention for validation and this was the person I was and the reason why my partner fell over hill over me… I was confident and did my own sht made my money went on trips alone take myself on dates and ect ect heck my baby smooth face looks like its coming back
I needed this today - I did this exact thing two weeks ago (only because I’ve been watching your videos for a year and I learned ) but I’ve been doubting what I know was the correct way to proceed, I guess because new healthy habits take time to feel right. Thanks for this Mathew, this was the reminder I needed , to stop doubting myself .
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Your video is SO dam good. I totally feel this.
Great answer! A man's either in love or he's not, & he knows that early on. If you walk through that door to go & see if you can get a better deal.......hold that door, 'cause I'm walking through it too.
Great thoughts, Matthew. I was the one who wanted the break. He has mental health issues and refused to open up and communicate healthily about things that needed solving. The pressure became too much for me and I had a nervous breakdown. I had to remove myself. So we have been on a break for as long as it took me to recover. I'm not going to jump back into a relationship that follows the same patterns. Love alone is not enough. We'll see what happens but a break is not always a break in the typical sense. I needed to put myself first but also was to some extent open to letting him wake up to the possibility that he would have to live life potentially without me, and what that would be like. We are special, despite the difficulties, but I will not go back to trauma-rooted stonewalling and refusal to work together and communicate again. Thank you for all you do, Matthew.
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Jane i am exactly the same situation as you. I asked for a break because I felt my relationship is just one sided. It’s caused me so anxious and confused - sometimes we just need to give it a break so that both ourself and the other person can finally feel what it’s like without each other rather than staying together with series of problems unsolved
No breaks. They want to weed you off instead of doing it "cold-turkey" because it will hurt too much if they do it.
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So damn well put
Thank you needed it ❣️
I love math .. I actually asked for some space but this reminds me it’s worthy … my time is precious ❤
A break with no explanation is a relationship not worth having. They are either doing it as a power move or aren't taking cafe of the relationship enough to work on it.
Its like they are asking to leave. Let them go.
I asked for a break because the relationship has become toxic. He is no longer happy with me, and stopped trying. I’m in pieces right now. I’m really trying to take care of myself
Legendary words man. Well done
Yessss no conflict avoidance. But many dont seem to know how to communicate properly anymore
if a man tells you he wants a break and gives you pointless excuses ruuun , he most likely found someone or doen't have to courage to tell you it's over so he wants you to initiate it ,let him have his break let him have a break for life , and if he comes back tell him it's too late and that he isn't worth your time or emotions
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okay, got into the video with the idea of how to feel better after the break, or even trying to fix the relationship, but realized i actually needed to break up. it’s what’s best now. this helped a lot. and i’ll definitely check the other video as well. i don’t feel as bad now 😅
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I met someone only a month ago and the connection was unexpectedly strong. We have both said we are not ready, not done working on ourselves yet. I have emotional stuff to work through on my own. He has a really busy professional life... Then he was in a car accident and he asked for a break, said that things were too much, too fast. I told him thank you, I need a break too. I'm kind of sad but, I should not have even been dating anyone when I met him. I learned a huge lesson about myself through this!
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Breaks are okay as long as you trust each other, me and my boyfriend had a break but I literally just stayed at my moms for a week and felt a lot bette after coming back to him. We both mutually agreed though I didn’t just get up and leave. But I guess it depends on what everyone wants the break for
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omg this is exactly what i did and ive been a avid subscriber for years matthew! its like ur mindset is engrained into me now and i automatically asked him when he wanted a break to stop giving me why this or why that because i dont think its the honest answer.. but i asked him to tell me if he still wants to work this out together as a team.. because whatever the problem is i am willing to do the work to solve it with you.. but if not, then we're breaking up. We broke up. Our city went into lockdown, I was alone and abroad. It's been over 3 months now (we're still in lockdown) and I have times that I'm lonely and I cry. I miss my family and friends at home but I cant get a flight home. I have religiously listened to you heartbreak videos again and again and you know what? It helps so much. It is not my job to fix what he broke and I should never grieve as if he was the love of y life because the truth he is not. And it's okay. Actually it made me so excited to see what else is in store for me even though right now everything looks grim because of lockdown, but I'm hanging in there. Thanks Matt for all your videos and your life-changing talks.
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These suggestions can be applied to everything. I wish I had of applied them years ago instead of hanging on to a relationship that ended up being a waste of 11 years.
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This is a perfect answer and I will learn by heart it to tell in that situation (lol). Becaused I don't think I can have enough calm and tenderness to say those words for a guy I really love and is telling me to breakup.