@@chickensandwich8808 thank you so. Yeah. A few weeks after the funeral he started messaging from a new number asking why I stopped talking to him, did he do something, etc. But after I asked wtf he claimed he had a mental break and didn't remember anything that had happened....but remembered he couldn't make it to the funeral. Very interesting that this memory loss happened only at the point where he fucked up.
Holy hell, that’s a loaded sentence. I am so so sorry for your loss, first and foremost. I have 4 kids and I just cannot fathom that loss. I truly hope memories and family envelope you and help you heal and get through this. Second… wow your friend is a douche canoe! Who does that THEN?! There’s a special class of humans who wait until people are broken and try and swoop in to “help” and worm their way into a relationship by way of being your “rock” in those times. Those are the scariest types of people… always plotting. Glad he showed his hand early and weeded himself right on out. You are an incredibly strong mama. Sending hugs from GA 🤍
Story 1: what a douche. That guy didn’t actually care for her if he decided to drop such a bomb like that 2 days before the wedding. His response sealed the deal too- all her worth as a person depended on her reciprocating. Props to the husband for dealing with and “taking out the trash” swiftly after. He’s a keeper!
Being an Australian and hearing them pronounce Melbourne is sending me. In all seriousness, I like putting these stories on in the background whenever I draw, do homework or play Stardew Valley or whatever so having someone engaging reading the stories to me is honestly a great way to relax and it feels like I'm having someone talk to me. Keep it up 😊
Don't know if it's me or if it's the video, but there's a lot of repeat lines that seem like they got missed in editing. Otherwise, Potato Salad had me laughing unreasonably. Thanks for being an awesome narrator, lol! 😂
Damn, what’s up with that 2 story? Like not wanting OP to wear her glasses, and about wanting OP cousin all by herself?, and claiming incest because they’re close cousins???, like sheesh Jordan needs to get some help.
0:01 no nonono why do people do this also if this guy really thinks op will just runaway with him the day before her wedding is that really the kinda girl u wanna be with
That mindy/julie story is incredibly alarming. Both of these women clearly do have reasons to lie to OP. Id also like to point out that some of the decisions Julie made are still her responsibility. She is a grown woman and she cant get mad that her decisions (such as asking for OP to manage her finances) had consequences. Mindy isnt blameless either, assuming what Julie said is true, Mindy clearly had ulterior motives when talking to OP and Julie. Regardless, more effective communication wouldve done wonders in this situation.
The communication issue is only a symptom. The real problem has to do with deeper wounds. She sounds like she feels helpless and unworthy, and OP loves to behave as her savior. They might work through the codependence over time, but only if they’re willing to address the things within themselves that motivate their behavior.
I'd like to point out that during this video I got an ad with a fanmade video of Deadpool and Wolverine with Bye Bye Bye in the background. Well played RUclips xD
The whole virginity one, that girl is obnoxious as all hell. So selfish. At least OP is introspective. But she wanted closure for her, everything is about her. Don’t get me wrong she has a right to say no to sex. That isn’t the issue. The issue is her treatment of OP. I can’t even. ETA: omg she wanted to make op jealous and it backfired in her face so bad 😂
the Jordan story just feels like poorly written fiction, more so than others. In what world does a wedding party event happen, let alone multiple, and not a single person even mentions them in passing with the person manipulatively excluded? The wedding party group chat had absolutely no chatter about it? no other bridesmaids had excited, or interested gossip with the Maid of Honor? The cousin that is supposedly Ride, or Die with OP didn't have a "sorry to hear you can't make it, I hope everything is okay, and you make it to the next one" conversation? that's not how real groups of people operate...
@@sweetmemoriesms Mhmm. Even one event seems outlandish, but perhaps a little plausible, but multiple? And the bit about the fiancee claiming the OP told them they were dropping out? Did they think the cousin was NEVER going to confront the person she was that close to saying they didn't want to be there? Just bad writing, all around. If this story is true, these people all seem like idiots.
Story 2: So good to see the abuser just go mask off at the perfect time to get away, live to see it. Story 3: I think if it wasn’t a friend of the Ex, no as many people would’ve cared if OP got a little strange after the break up. This was just an unfortunate case of a manipulator taking the reins and at least it failed. Story 4: OP summed it up great in the beginning, they wanted different things that should’ve been addressed way earlier and they didn’t so it all fell apart. OP found his perfect partner and the ex has a new man, not his fault she wants more. I feel like her work environment has really pushed her to be greedy.
Story 4: Virgin story This story rubs me the wrong way. And I think I figured out why. 1. A complete lack of initiative on girlfriend's part. (and boyfriends part too) From this short story they both feel very passive about their relationship and communication. Like they can't progress their relationship and build better communications. And only change their tune after a crisis. 2. From the story gf puts out to persistence. Like a principal virgin before marriage that caves to some pressure. And it looks super bad in the story. I mean for the future. If after martiage there appears a persistent guy on a horizon would she cave? What she would be willing to do? Also if there is no persistence will she always be passive and uninitiative in her life and relationships?
Story 3: I’ve said it every update, and I’ll say it again: OP is an idiot for blindly believing *either* of these women. The updates always make it worse, and honestly after the most recent one I actively believe Julie is lying. She forbids OP from speaking to Mindy, and thus forbids him from getting her side of the story. She makes OP move into her apartment, meaning she has the power to remove him and keep their living space. She makes him feel like this was all his fault, and OP feels like he was to make up for this when if what Julie said was true he’d be just as big a victim as she was. This sounds like textbook manipulation and gaslighting, and honestly I no longer think she’s believable here. I hope for OP’s sake I’m wrong, and she’s actually a wonderful woman. But if I’m right then I hope OP gets out of that toxic situation and finds a woman not connected to either of these women
Omg FINALLY, YES! This whole situation is so suspicious AF, I did not like ANY of what the OP was describing about either of these women. And getting married so soon when Julie clearly has so many issues to work through? This is a recipe for absolute disaster. I do not see this relationship working out in a way that is healthy or fulfilling for either of them.
The Mindy story? She didn't break up with him, she just asked for space to think and there was Mindy the snake telling OP that his gf is breaking up with him. So he did cheat, but I'll say it's more "they've been taken advantage of".
What is up with these people who treat their families and friends like props to make the perfect wedding pictures?
Ugh. I feel this. The day of my daughter's funeral, a guy friend told me he was in love with me. I was livid.
Woooow... first off I'm so sorry for your loss. Two; what the hell...
@@chickensandwich8808 thank you so. Yeah. A few weeks after the funeral he started messaging from a new number asking why I stopped talking to him, did he do something, etc. But after I asked wtf he claimed he had a mental break and didn't remember anything that had happened....but remembered he couldn't make it to the funeral. Very interesting that this memory loss happened only at the point where he fucked up.
Holy hell, that’s a loaded sentence. I am so so sorry for your loss, first and foremost. I have 4 kids and I just cannot fathom that loss. I truly hope memories and family envelope you and help you heal and get through this.
Second… wow your friend is a douche canoe! Who does that THEN?! There’s a special class of humans who wait until people are broken and try and swoop in to “help” and worm their way into a relationship by way of being your “rock” in those times. Those are the scariest types of people… always plotting. Glad he showed his hand early and weeded himself right on out.
You are an incredibly strong mama. Sending hugs from GA 🤍
Sorry for your loss of i was you i would block him
@@DiZoSoMom thank you.
Story 1: what a douche. That guy didn’t actually care for her if he decided to drop such a bomb like that 2 days before the wedding. His response sealed the deal too- all her worth as a person depended on her reciprocating.
Props to the husband for dealing with and “taking out the trash” swiftly after. He’s a keeper!
Being an Australian and hearing them pronounce Melbourne is sending me. In all seriousness, I like putting these stories on in the background whenever I draw, do homework or play Stardew Valley or whatever so having someone engaging reading the stories to me is honestly a great way to relax and it feels like I'm having someone talk to me. Keep it up 😊
"This ain't effing Alabama, you idiot!"
Love it!
Don't know if it's me or if it's the video, but there's a lot of repeat lines that seem like they got missed in editing.
Otherwise, Potato Salad had me laughing unreasonably. Thanks for being an awesome narrator, lol! 😂
Nope. It's not just you. He's an amazing narrator but repetitive lines happen to him pretty often lol. It's more editors job to fix this tho.
That's been a thing since the channel started. Every video has it. Best to just ignore it.
I always assumed he misspoke and repeated the lines to fix the mistake?
Damn, what’s up with that 2 story? Like not wanting OP to wear her glasses, and about wanting OP cousin all by herself?, and claiming incest because they’re close cousins???, like sheesh Jordan needs to get some help.
0:01 no nonono why do people do this also if this guy really thinks op will just runaway with him the day before her wedding is that really the kinda girl u wanna be with
Red flags so bad people spot them 1 SECOND into the video 😂
@@ABadPassword they do be red tho at least u can them
That mindy/julie story is incredibly alarming. Both of these women clearly do have reasons to lie to OP. Id also like to point out that some of the decisions Julie made are still her responsibility. She is a grown woman and she cant get mad that her decisions (such as asking for OP to manage her finances) had consequences. Mindy isnt blameless either, assuming what Julie said is true, Mindy clearly had ulterior motives when talking to OP and Julie.
Regardless, more effective communication wouldve done wonders in this situation.
The communication issue is only a symptom. The real problem has to do with deeper wounds. She sounds like she feels helpless and unworthy, and OP loves to behave as her savior. They might work through the codependence over time, but only if they’re willing to address the things within themselves that motivate their behavior.
We just gonna skate past OP dropping the bomb that Jordan slept with family members!!!
I'd like to point out that during this video I got an ad with a fanmade video of Deadpool and Wolverine with Bye Bye Bye in the background. Well played RUclips xD
Story one: wow what a loser the guy best friend is 💀
Ellie is a real piece of work 😑😑😑
Yup and she spun the story to make it sound like she had been SAd via coercion.
The whole virginity one, that girl is obnoxious as all hell. So selfish. At least OP is introspective. But she wanted closure for her, everything is about her. Don’t get me wrong she has a right to say no to sex. That isn’t the issue. The issue is her treatment of OP. I can’t even.
ETA: omg she wanted to make op jealous and it backfired in her face so bad 😂
The rich guy thing was infuriating, my man is too soft he's eating up all of her trash
Family and friends are always by our side and ready to help us, so we need to appreciate them
Loving the Journey gameplay in the background. One of my favorite games
The whole July/Mindy thing, I think OP is better off cutting ties with both
the Jordan story just feels like poorly written fiction, more so than others. In what world does a wedding party event happen, let alone multiple, and not a single person even mentions them in passing with the person manipulatively excluded? The wedding party group chat had absolutely no chatter about it? no other bridesmaids had excited, or interested gossip with the Maid of Honor? The cousin that is supposedly Ride, or Die with OP didn't have a "sorry to hear you can't make it, I hope everything is okay, and you make it to the next one" conversation?
that's not how real groups of people operate...
And most of the time the MOH is heavily involved in organizing all those events.
@@sweetmemoriesms Mhmm. Even one event seems outlandish, but perhaps a little plausible, but multiple? And the bit about the fiancee claiming the OP told them they were dropping out? Did they think the cousin was NEVER going to confront the person she was that close to saying they didn't want to be there?
Just bad writing, all around. If this story is true, these people all seem like idiots.
Story 2: So good to see the abuser just go mask off at the perfect time to get away, live to see it.
Story 3: I think if it wasn’t a friend of the Ex, no as many people would’ve cared if OP got a little strange after the break up. This was just an unfortunate case of a manipulator taking the reins and at least it failed.
Story 4: OP summed it up great in the beginning, they wanted different things that should’ve been addressed way earlier and they didn’t so it all fell apart. OP found his perfect partner and the ex has a new man, not his fault she wants more. I feel like her work environment has really pushed her to be greedy.
Last story: the lion, the witch and the audacity.
Your voices are hilarious 😂
Last story she thought op was a simp but she was wrong for one thing he's simping for Olivia
4:32 it repeated
Story 4: Virgin story
This story rubs me the wrong way.
And I think I figured out why.
1. A complete lack of initiative on girlfriend's part. (and boyfriends part too)
From this short story they both feel very passive about their relationship and communication. Like they can't progress their relationship and build better communications. And only change their tune after a crisis.
2. From the story gf puts out to persistence. Like a principal virgin before marriage that caves to some pressure.
And it looks super bad in the story.
I mean for the future. If after martiage there appears a persistent guy on a horizon would she cave? What she would be willing to do?
Also if there is no persistence will she always be passive and uninitiative in her life and relationships?
not to mention pressuing someone into sex isn't even consent (it is a type of coercion). and it is very upsetting that both she and he thinks it is
Story 3: I’ve said it every update, and I’ll say it again: OP is an idiot for blindly believing *either* of these women. The updates always make it worse, and honestly after the most recent one I actively believe Julie is lying. She forbids OP from speaking to Mindy, and thus forbids him from getting her side of the story. She makes OP move into her apartment, meaning she has the power to remove him and keep their living space. She makes him feel like this was all his fault, and OP feels like he was to make up for this when if what Julie said was true he’d be just as big a victim as she was. This sounds like textbook manipulation and gaslighting, and honestly I no longer think she’s believable here. I hope for OP’s sake I’m wrong, and she’s actually a wonderful woman. But if I’m right then I hope OP gets out of that toxic situation and finds a woman not connected to either of these women
Omg FINALLY, YES! This whole situation is so suspicious AF, I did not like ANY of what the OP was describing about either of these women. And getting married so soon when Julie clearly has so many issues to work through? This is a recipe for absolute disaster. I do not see this relationship working out in a way that is healthy or fulfilling for either of them.
Ellie dodged an incel-shaped bullet.
Narrator sounds like Hiccup from HTTYD and I cannot picture anyone else 😂
He looks like the human equivalent of a hiccup
I´m super confused they where broken up, he did´t cheat.
SHEwas the one who DUMPED him.
The Mindy story? She didn't break up with him, she just asked for space to think and there was Mindy the snake telling OP that his gf is breaking up with him. So he did cheat, but I'll say it's more "they've been taken advantage of".
bro friendzoned him so hard she didnt even know it 😭💀
58:25 for the love of God does he ever stop? He is exhausting
I was familiar with the Ellie story, but that last bit was new to me.
❤
She put out for money
What is the point of this game? Seems really boring.
PLEASE GET RID OF THE AI VID. UR OLD VIDS WERE SO GOOD AND I WATCHED ALL OF THEM BUT I JUS CANT ANYMORE. PLSSS SWITCH BACKK
Huh??
Wot??
That's from the video game Journey. It's not AI.
there's no AI.
Bro what? There's no AI in this video, wtf you talking about?
Also #StopAIHate