Great video sis!! When we try to help God, things ALWAYS fall apart. We also have to cast out all of the lies from the enemy because he knows what we desire and he will start to tell us things like "God did that for him/her but not you" "You are going to be too old and wrinkly to enjoy the promise when it finally does show up" or "God has forgotten you" i immediately try to rebuke those thoughts because it will put you in a funk and you start to question the Lord. I still struggle with this and it is a daily battle, but i try my hardest to cast my cares unto him and remind myself of his word.
Very encouraging perspective. God can truly do what He wants to do, when He wants to do it for whom He wants to do it for at any stage of life. Be blessed!
You are sooo right! Once I stopped focusing on finding a man and started focusing on God and making myself happy, I found my husband , he literally came out of nowhere. Don’t lose hope ladies, your husband is out there! she’s giving great advice. Don’t be desperate, focus on yourself, praying, traveling , reading, doing charity work, whatever makes you happy and God will send him to you. God’s timing is not your timing . Let go and let God
On a serious note...." may the lordt REBUKE that spirit of delusion, thirst and desperation and replace it with peace, patience and self worth....#AMENT!🙏✨🙏
Once I pulled back from dating, I was able to graduate with a B.A. in criminal justice. And the pressure to get a man came to an end. I follow John 15:7 and I'm on God's timing.. I'm just like sister Hannah of the Bible😄😄
The fact that you said that marriage is not better than being single, set me free in that area! 🙏🏾 I always thought that marriage was “higher” or “more goal-oriented” than it is in reality. It was a lie. Thank you for the truth Lord & speaking through Lala J. ❤
Yeah I have been single for 6 years plus waiting until marriage. And lord I think about my ex. And I would go back to him back and forth because I’m like I’m not going to meet anybody better than him. I heard God tell me kayla your either going to wait or your going to keep on doing things your way and not wait on my timing. Nobody is in my DM’s on the gram. I am 32 years old and hunny I wanted to be married before 30 and have a child and the career. My life is nowhere like that at all. I have never been engaged or even ever had a man propose to me before. Today my ex called me hunny I didn’t call him back at all. I have had other women tell me that I will never find a man who doesn’t have kids or who is going to wait until marriage to have sex with me. My ex was really inconsistent with me he would go months weeks days without texting me or calling me. I’m like God you know what I’m going to let this man go. I deserve better than that. I don’t want a man who is going to be inconsistent with me doesn’t lead me closer to God and not making me a priority and not waiting until marriage to have sex with me. Yes it has been hard for me to be single. I don’t have no man giving me attention or making plans with me. I know God is going to bless me one day with someone. While I’m waiting I’m going to work on paying off debt and getting into Nursing school. Ladies let’s stop being desperate on the gram or anywhere else.
This video showed up on my recommended last night and I’m re-watching it after waking up the morning after. This was literally the Holy Spirit sending me this, I kid you not. God bless you for being his vessel! 💜 To all of my sisters out there: LISTEN to this message! It is SPOT ON!!!
Girlllll, you are preaching!! May God bless you for your obedience in sharing what he tells you to share❤ I pray that everyone who sees this accepts God’s word
I am so glad that I found this video and I have to confess... that's exactly the gems of wisdom I needed. And hearing and meditating on this really made realize that I shouldn't be wasting my time worrying about love because I know in my heart that as long as God is existing, I will be loved. He ain't nowhere near through with writing my love story so the least I can do is to continue doing my job which working on the possibilities and let God handle the impossibilities. And I'm way too beautiful to be settling less than God's best! God bless you and thank you for encouraging me.
Literally heard different messages this week talking on Ruth, David and Solomon touching on the things you've referenced. Giiiirrrrlll, YOU ARE IN THE SPIRIT!!!
Ruth is, literally, THE WORST EXAMPLE of not chasing after a Man. If lying at a Man's feet, that you like, while he is sleeping, isn't chasing, than I really don't know what to say
Dont be desperate...but also dont be afraid to tell a man how you honestly (feel)...If you see a man that you find interesting dont hesitate to approach a him...Its not chasing or harassing its just how people used to meet each other before the social media era...Its a lot of men that would feel honored to see women learning how to come true with their feelings...Its not about being desperate...If you learn how to approach a man and tell him how you truly feel then you will get a lot further with your man...Trust me im a man...
I have been single for sooo long, but was never interested. But nowadays, the devil is sending exes in my way, making me get temped. Thank you for this video. Makes me really correct my path and fix my eyes back on my Lord and saviour. Bless you girl! 🙏💖
God led me to your page and all I can say is Thank you God … you truly are a vessel , I followed yesterday and literally have watched 4 videos that have been ON POINT !!! Thank you sis for being willing
Thank you so much I needed to hear this.been through so much rejection but now realising that it was God's protection and him wanting me to focus on him not the world or the pain.Your truly God send and exceedingly beautiful.God bless you.
For whatever reason I was a bit skeptical before I started your video. However, I was wrong and I needed this video! Thank you so much for sharing when you felt led to❤️.
Yes,I got 2 guys friends that both are interested in me but I am NOT having it right now because I just want to concentrate and focus on myself for the time being...I got alot going on work/family related that I need to be focusing on & taking care of it first and it was just confirmed to be the right thing for me right now.That is why I told both that I am NOT looking for a relationship...I will pray and let God tell me when the timing is right for that.So I told them both that we can be on a friendship basis as of right now.Thanks for this message!!!I am 36 and have never been married/no kids and just because everyone else is doing something doesn't mean I got to be doing it too...I will follow my own path that I feel is right and that God wants me to lead and not currently dating anyone either.
I received this Sis! This is such a timely reminder. I came searching for something to motivate me in this area of my life and I found it, received it, and felt blessed. Being a single Christian woman with associates who are belivers but are not dedicated Christians can be hard sometimes. Each day I have to stand my ground to not cave into peer pressure. I do believe that being around them is like when Jesus went into the wilderness to pray and was tempted by the devil. He did not cave in and so will I. I believe that my Boaz will come when I least expect it. Single women stand firm in God and He will give us the desires of our hearts as long as it's in alignment
I didn’t knowi I needed to hear this until I did . I didn’t grow up in the church and don’t have women of God in my life. Dating and men as a newly saved woman is something that is harder for me with no advice
ISAIAH 4:1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!” New Living Translation In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying, “Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let us take your name so we won’t be mocked as old maids.” English Standard Version And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach.” Berean Study Bible In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own bread and provide our own clothes. Just let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!” King James Bible And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach. New King James Version And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear our own apparel; Only let us be called by your name, To take away our reproach.” New American Standard Bible For seven women will take hold of one man on that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our disgrace!” NASB 1995 For seven women will take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach!” NASB 1977 For seven women will take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach!” Amplified Bible And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear [and provide] our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame [of being unmarried].”
Damn sister, you looking very good. 😘😘😘 Keep pumping out the good content and may the Lord bless you with more knowledge and experiences so you can give us some good stories too.
I can't believe I'm only discovering your channel now. But I know God wanted me to see it today and this is the right time for the discovery. Thank you for this message. I no longer feel alone in this journey of celibacy and the period of waiting for the one while I pursue the purpose God has for me. I really appreciate it. God Bless You
Conviction is a beautiful characteristic of God because he cherishes you. Conviction draws you to God and provides hope while condemnation attacks ourselves, where conviction reminds us that we have hope because we are in Christ! Thank you for your honesty. This is lovely!
I have to put this out there. Im watching good Christian women in my life still remain single going on 40 because they believed a mate "comes along" at the "right time" like a husband gets delivered in a red bow. People have free will. I dated a nice Christian guy but he pulled the plug on it and wanted to just be friends. I ended long term relationships in the past because I felt God wanted me to, and thats fine. But its like its always 'no' from God and never yes. I see women who get saved after having kids and are better off bcoz at least they've had a whole family by my age. I have friends and sisters who are older than me and have waited for "the one" and got nothing but trauma from Christian men! One woman got married and engaged quickly bcoz I think she just settled for what was on offer , but I guess she got 2 children in 2 years. So its really not this follow this path and you get what you want at the end. I did it. I gave all my time to God and end up with the wrong guy bcoz the good guy I prayed fo at church, found someone else. If God would just give someone "when its time" it would save a lot of wasted years and heartache for women. Being 20 something and receiving this advice is fine. But in your 30s your biological clock is ticking, I dont want miracle children. I just want to have children. Nobody want to start having kids at 40. Its not normal and it's actually not Gods will for women to go this long empty handed. Women are also vulnerable to the enemy when they are single for years. We can throw bible verses at it, but if we're aging without the joys of motherhood and marriage, we're left with failure and devastation and literally nothing can fix that except having those things.
@@LaLaJenkins you dont know me or my walk with God. Women of God are meant to be able to express their deepest hurts and be understood by one another without being labelled. I think your comment shows a lack of maturity and understanding. Its a very pharisaical and prideful response but its nothing new here on youtube. You should learn what compassion and humility is and not be so harsh which is unlike Christ.
Hello @Taliyah, my heart goes out to you! I'm currently 40. Never been married, dated; I also 'v been celibate since Sept 2004. I'm right now content in my singleness while being open to date good characters Christian men. So, I'm qualified to give you a response. I agree Christian women won't have luck waiting on men being delivered at their door. They need to go out and have a life, hobbies besides going to work, church, and home. Keep hope alive. The devil wants you to be discouraged and to settle. Keep obeying God when God says "no"; rejoice for every "no" because you're dodging a bullet. There will be a "yes" in due season. Having kids is a gift, and all children are miracle babies no matter what age their mom have them. From age 18 to 50 years old. All single mothers are not better off, because they never signed up to be single parents being mom/dad at the same time. Raising a kid is never easy. Your friends who married & got traumatized by their "Christian" husband's missed the red flags during the courtship. Did they love themselves prior? Did they heal from childhood trauma? Did they do works to better themselves individually before? Trauma attracts trauma. Besides, everyone claiming to be "Christian" are not always. Like you said, everyone has free will. I'm sorry you too went through a bad relationship. Again, did you look at the man's character? Did you consult God? Waiting on God does not mean doing nothing, it means go have a life, enjoy God daily, better who you are while God is working on timing for you to meet your mate. Your time will come! Keep trusting the Lord.
@@jehannedufresne3998 I am encouraged by your response. I am pushing 40 and am single as well. Its been me a d God for a long time and I often feel like I'm the odd ball out as I see other women, even those younger than me, enjoying building their families or atleast meeting good men that want to take them out. I try not to pressure myself when it comes to romance, but sometimes feel left out. Your response let's me know that I'm not alone in bring on my 30's and single .
Wow you really helped me! You use to think something was wrong with me and that no guys liked me and that I was a loser for not having a boyfriend like others but I’m not I’m a child of GOD! By the way I love you lipstick
One of my favorite things about Black women is when we say a whole word, a whole life changing perspective we be like “Well that’s all, I ain’t really want nun or that’s all I got for you” as if you didn’t just shift my entire thought process 😂😂😂
I am a single Christian man. Yes I got nosey. I have been praying for a wife who is willing to obey God for the longest time. I have met fakers and liars and pretenders. The Bible says wives obey your husbands but a truly Godly Mano Lu wants his wife to obey gods word. Proverbs 31 where are you girl!? Ladies please obey God! These jezebels are not attractive. May God give you the Godly man you deserve.
Lol sis, loved the video. Kind David was like DOING NOTHING AT HOME when he fell in love with Bate Seba. So... its like you said: lets keep ourselves busy, just like RUTH!!!
I’m not gonna lie, God told me recently that I need to learn my identity as a human, woman, a New Testament believer, in the Body of Christ, from His perspective. The Bible has so much to say about how fearfully and wonderfully we are made! The world can’t do justice by reducing who we are the way they do. The Word has so much to say about women, too. God loves His daughters so much. There’s a lot of Scripture that outlines the difference between how God made women vs what the world thinks a woman is. It is astonishing!
I was just thinking for the first time in a long time how maybe i should be more embarassed or try harder to find a husband..something I've prayed about lately. I was cheated on and got divorced 3 years ago after many years with my first everything. But God led me to this video because it reminded me not to be desperate and give it to God! I'm currently working towards my Bachelors in IT, living with my parents, started reading the bible again daily, and I think I'm where God wants me right now. 😊 I wanted to add that I dont have kids but its something else thats bothered me lately since i will only have kids once im married but im still single. But its all in God's timing!
Thank you! I’m in high school rn and I feel all this pressure to go after boys and lust and talk about them in ungodly ways. I feel that because I don’t have a boyfriend that I am unloveable. I’m sending this to all my friends!!
...And when we fall deeply in love with the Christ we find that there is no flesh and blood man on this Earth with a 'cologne' fragrance like that of the Christ. And when we fall in love with Christ, we spiritually hear the 'heartbeat' of Holy Spirit. No question, Earthly marriage is beautiful! Man (Adam) is the Woman's (Eve) beginning; Woman is the Man's completion. This poetry of sacred marital oneness is without rival on this Earth. And our Heavenly Father knows how to bring a woman/daughter to that Heaven APPROVED waiting HUSBAND who has done more than step inside a Church building but (in his personal Christian walk) he has stepped inside the presence of Almighty Yahweh by the Grace of Jesus Christ.
lol, this was the first video i saw in your channel and im definitely subscribing. Thank you Lord for giving us this digital friend army to help us in these difficult days!
Glory be to God, you are God send, may God keep on elevating you and use you Mightly for the great transformation. I'm gonna it unto God, ohhh Lord mould me, this message has left me emotional.
Thank you so much for this video. I needed to hear this today, and I will most likely revisit this video many many times. I just wanted to say you have a very gentle and loving spirit :) God bless you and your family!❤
God bless you sister! Praise God great message! I just got out of a bad situation trying to get involved with some non christian worldy guy . God saved me from a lot I found out he had a double life . Learn my lesson! And you're right it was desperation and age thinking I'm old.Do you still do bible study?
I am 43 and i never had a real relationship. I dont even know whats wrong with me. Everytime i like someone in the church which is rare because there arent any available my age, there is some reason they dont like me. Im not sure what about myself i need to change so someone will like me. Only non christian men are interested. People I know that are not God choice for me. Where is his choice for me? I struggle with depression during the nights because its so lonely.
Rejection is Gods protection. Perhaps these men dont like you back because they arent for you. They are not your husband. Try spending more intentional time with God directly and be very intentional about your prayers and ask Him how He would like for you to move forward. You could also bring your concerns to Him and ask him for clarity as there is always a reason for the delay in the dating scene. He may need you to work on a few things or channel your time elsewhere in the season that He has you in. God bless you and I hope this helps.
What should I do in this situation: i have been engaged to a non-believer but broke up 7 months ago because he was toxic. Now I am working on my relationship with God and attend church regularly, go to youth conferences and participate in the youth meetings outside church. However, I find most of thr guys from church have high expectations from girls (in terms of physical appearance and thry expect women to approach them). I am an introvert, I am disappointed in men generally and find their attitudes towards as women as being non-polite. This opinion is backed up by the other girls' opinion from church. There are better girls than me and 90% single. I would love to be again in a relationship, but I do not want to be controlled in any way. I would really want to find a Christian guy. I find it impossible nowadays. Someone to also make the first step and do not expect me to chase him
The issue is.. YOU are trying to find the guy. And that’s not in alignment with the Word. The Father finds the Wife for the Husband. Until then, you’re in a season of preparation. So, I would suggest switching your view from finding a Christian guy to seriously strengthening your relationship with Christ. Start doing daily readings of your Bible, start praying daily, starting talking to God consistent throughout your day. Satan has you distracted by this desire for a man that your spiritual growth is stifled. And “There are better girls than me” is a LIE straight from Satan. Comparison is the thief of joy! You are JUST as AMAZING as the other women you’re talking about. They are NOT better than you. God sees you and knows you by name. He said you are valuable to Him! Don’t allow Satan to make your compare yourself to other women. But I will say this, until you really learn to be content with just you and God, you might be in this single season for a while. So, give the desire to Him and continue working on your relationship when the Father. He’ll bring the PERFECT (for you) man along when it’s time. 🤎
@@LaLaJenkins thank you for your reply. You are so right. I doubt in my faith after my ex relationship and I switched my approach. Rather than waiting I feel like I run out of time as I am in late twenties ans I know after 30 would be even more difficult to find someone acceptable. Also the society has changed. The fact that Christian men expect women to approach and even propose to them, it it what worries me. I grew up with the premises that men need to make the first steps towards a relationship and I find hard to accommodate. But as you say, I should focus on my relationship with God. I will pray for it more and focus on myself, God and others. God bless! ☺️🙏🙏
The Bible says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing when I got saved the Lord showed me my husband I was newly saved at the time and I said I didn’t get saved to date Bob, John and whoever I did that in the world so I asked the Lord is the person he showed me my husband I also fleece the Lord like Gideon did then I prayed and asked the Lord if he’s my husband show me rainbows 🌈 girrrrl I chocked on rainbows for 6 years on my wedding day there was a rainbow in the sky on my honeymoon I had to cross the rainbow bridge to get to Niagra Falls my advice is stay in God he will send a husband but pray and ask and God will answer be vigilant always consult with the Lord. Be blessed. I also asked for true friends and he sent them and one was a Jezebel . Stay prayed up.
Great video sis!! When we try to help God, things ALWAYS fall apart. We also have to cast out all of the lies from the enemy because he knows what we desire and he will start to tell us things like "God did that for him/her but not you" "You are going to be too old and wrinkly to enjoy the promise when it finally does show up" or "God has forgotten you" i immediately try to rebuke those thoughts because it will put you in a funk and you start to question the Lord. I still struggle with this and it is a daily battle, but i try my hardest to cast my cares unto him and remind myself of his word.
YES! Rebuke ALL the lies of the Enemy! I loooove this! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I struggle hard with that, one could only wait so long😥
Very encouraging perspective. God can truly do what He wants to do, when He wants to do it for whom He wants to do it for at any stage of life. Be blessed!
You are sooo right! Once I stopped focusing on finding a man and started focusing on God and making myself happy, I found my husband , he literally came out of nowhere. Don’t lose hope ladies, your husband is out there! she’s giving great advice. Don’t be desperate, focus on yourself, praying, traveling , reading, doing charity work, whatever makes you happy and God will send him to you. God’s timing is not your timing . Let go and let God
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let go and let God🔥❤️ I needed that reminder 💗
These exact words came to my mind the other day, that I need to ‘let go and let God.’ It is so, so hard sometimes but so necessary for peace.
On a serious note...." may the lordt REBUKE that spirit of delusion, thirst and desperation and replace it with peace, patience and self worth....#AMENT!🙏✨🙏
Amen❤
This is good!!! Leaving our position in Christ for man is never worth it 🙌🏾
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"... He won't require us to do the most ... " Giiiirrrrlll 😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌
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Sometimes I gotta come back to this video as a little wake up call when I fall into the same patterns. God is good!
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Once I pulled back from dating, I was able to graduate with a B.A. in criminal justice. And the pressure to get a man came to an end. I follow John 15:7 and I'm on God's timing.. I'm just like sister Hannah of the Bible😄😄
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Yes don't chase men let him if like Christian like you chase you but God will send you him but got to wait
The fact that you said that marriage is not better than being single, set me free in that area! 🙏🏾
I always thought that marriage was “higher” or “more goal-oriented” than it is in reality. It was a lie.
Thank you for the truth Lord & speaking through Lala J. ❤
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"i was praying for my husband for 5-6 years and hes nowhere to be found!"....#DECEASEDDD! ☠️⚰️☠️ #NOWLOGGINGOFF..😭😪😭
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Yeah I have been single for 6 years plus waiting until marriage. And lord I think about my ex. And I would go back to him back and forth because I’m like I’m not going to meet anybody better than him. I heard God tell me kayla your either going to wait or your going to keep on doing things your way and not wait on my timing. Nobody is in my DM’s on the gram. I am 32 years old and hunny I wanted to be married before 30 and have a child and the career. My life is nowhere like that at all. I have never been engaged or even ever had a man propose to me before. Today my ex called me hunny I didn’t call him back at all. I have had other women tell me that I will never find a man who doesn’t have kids or who is going to wait until marriage to have sex with me. My ex was really inconsistent with me he would go months weeks days without texting me or calling me. I’m like God you know what I’m going to let this man go. I deserve better than that. I don’t want a man who is going to be inconsistent with me doesn’t lead me closer to God and not making me a priority and not waiting until marriage to have sex with me. Yes it has been hard for me to be single. I don’t have no man giving me attention or making plans with me. I know God is going to bless me one day with someone. While I’m waiting I’m going to work on paying off debt and getting into Nursing school. Ladies let’s stop being desperate on the gram or anywhere else.
Amen my Sister❤
This video showed up on my recommended last night and I’m re-watching it after waking up the morning after. This was literally the Holy Spirit sending me this, I kid you not. God bless you for being his vessel! 💜 To all of my sisters out there: LISTEN to this message! It is SPOT ON!!!
Glory to God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Girlllll, you are preaching!! May God bless you for your obedience in sharing what he tells you to share❤ I pray that everyone who sees this accepts God’s word
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I am so glad that I found this video and I have to confess... that's exactly the gems of wisdom I needed. And hearing and meditating on this really made realize that I shouldn't be wasting my time worrying about love because I know in my heart that as long as God is existing, I will be loved. He ain't nowhere near through with writing my love story so the least I can do is to continue doing my job which working on the possibilities and let God handle the impossibilities. And I'm way too beautiful to be settling less than God's best! God bless you and thank you for encouraging me.
Literally heard different messages this week talking on Ruth, David and Solomon touching on the things you've referenced. Giiiirrrrlll, YOU ARE IN THE SPIRIT!!!
Wow!! LOOK AT GOD! 😭😭
Ruth is, literally, THE WORST EXAMPLE of not chasing after a Man. If lying at a Man's feet, that you like, while he is sleeping, isn't chasing, than I really don't know what to say
Dont be desperate...but also dont be afraid to tell a man how you honestly (feel)...If you see a man that you find interesting dont hesitate to approach a him...Its not chasing or harassing its just how people used to meet each other before the social media era...Its a lot of men that would feel honored to see women learning how to come true with their feelings...Its not about being desperate...If you learn how to approach a man and tell him how you truly feel then you will get a lot further with your man...Trust me im a man...
It depends my bro. most man they think ladies who approach them first they are cheap and can't be trusted.
I have been single for sooo long, but was never interested. But nowadays, the devil is sending exes in my way, making me get temped. Thank you for this video. Makes me really correct my path and fix my eyes back on my Lord and saviour. Bless you girl! 🙏💖
I needed to hear this word. Good things comes to those who wait on the Lord
Lady you are a good guidance for women who forget themselves.
Self focus and Christ will lead us always ,desperation is never the answer
God led me to your page and all I can say is Thank you God … you truly are a vessel , I followed yesterday and literally have watched 4 videos that have been ON POINT !!! Thank you sis for being willing
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This was an on time word!!! (as my granny would say lol) Thank you ma'am for being obedient and sharing this message. I definitely needed this
Glory to God! 🙌🏽
So glad I found your channel. I’m on my singleness journey and you have been inspiring
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Oh my goodness!!! You are RIGHT!
Thank you dearest sweet sister.
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Thx so much for obeying GOD 🙌🏽 … this was a timely word !!! 💖
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I needed this word. I just want to focus on me being a better person. And building up faith.
You seem to say what I need to hear at exactly the right time. Thank you for these videos ❤
Aww yay! Glory to God! 🙌🏽🤎
Thank you so much I needed to hear this.been through so much rejection but now realising that it was God's protection and him wanting me to focus on him not the world or the pain.Your truly God send and exceedingly beautiful.God bless you.
Glory to God! May the Lord continue to bless you as well. 🙏🏽🤎
Omg Lala you are truly god sent thank you so much for this ,this was most definitely CONFIRMATION for me.
For whatever reason I was a bit skeptical before I started your video. However, I was wrong and I needed this video! Thank you so much for sharing when you felt led to❤️.
Yes,I got 2 guys friends that both are interested in me but I am NOT having it right now because I just want to concentrate and focus on myself for the time being...I got alot going on work/family related that I need to be focusing on & taking care of it first and it was just confirmed to be the right thing for me right now.That is why I told both that I am NOT looking for a relationship...I will pray and let God tell me when the timing is right for that.So I told them both that we can be on a friendship basis as of right now.Thanks for this message!!!I am 36 and have never been married/no kids and just because everyone else is doing something doesn't mean I got to be doing it too...I will follow my own path that I feel is right and that God wants me to lead and not currently dating anyone either.
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I received this Sis! This is such a timely reminder. I came searching for something to motivate me in this area of my life and I found it, received it, and felt blessed.
Being a single Christian woman with associates who are belivers but are not dedicated Christians can be hard sometimes. Each day I have to stand my ground to not cave into peer pressure. I do believe that being around them is like when Jesus went into the wilderness to pray and was tempted by the devil. He did not cave in and so will I. I believe that my Boaz will come when I least expect it.
Single women stand firm in God and He will give us the desires of our hearts as long as it's in alignment
Period and amen! I needed this today! Thank you! ❤️
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I didn’t knowi I needed to hear this until I did . I didn’t grow up in the church and don’t have women of God in my life. Dating and men as a newly saved woman is something that is harder for me with no advice
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ISAIAH 4:1
In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
New Living Translation
In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying, “Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let us take your name so we won’t be mocked as old maids.”
English Standard Version
And seven women shall take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach.”
Berean Study Bible
In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own bread and provide our own clothes. Just let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
King James Bible
And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.
New King James Version
And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear our own apparel; Only let us be called by your name, To take away our reproach.”
New American Standard Bible
For seven women will take hold of one man on that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our disgrace!”
NASB 1995
For seven women will take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach!”
NASB 1977
For seven women will take hold of one man in that day, saying, “We will eat our own bread and wear our own clothes, only let us be called by your name; take away our reproach!”
Amplified Bible
And in that day seven women will take hold of one man, saying, “We will eat our own food and wear [and provide] our own clothes; only let us be called by your name; take away our shame [of being unmarried].”
wow this spoke to me HEAVVVYYYYY 🔥🔥🔥 Choose not to compromise myself even as speeded on my college campus. 🎉Thank you GOOODDD
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This was for me 🙃 NEEDED THIS!
Thank you for sharing ❤️
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I’ve spent years being single and have poured out my heart to God and still nothing… I’m 26 and I feel like giving up
Praying for all of us who feel like giving up. Wait on The Lord❤🫂
Whew, the title alone! Speak 🗣 sister!
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Damn sister, you looking very good. 😘😘😘
Keep pumping out the good content and may the Lord bless you with more knowledge and experiences so you can give us some good stories too.
Amen!! Ty Jesus. Good Word Ty sister LALa for allowing God to place that Word. I’m so Glad I came across your videos🙏🏽
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I can't believe I'm only discovering your channel now. But I know God wanted me to see it today and this is the right time for the discovery. Thank you for this message. I no longer feel alone in this journey of celibacy and the period of waiting for the one while I pursue the purpose God has for me. I really appreciate it. God Bless You
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This resonated with me on a deep level such a blessing this word!!!!!God bless
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I needed this so much,I feel so convicted,thank you! ❤
Conviction is a beautiful characteristic of God because he cherishes you. Conviction draws you to God and provides hope while condemnation attacks ourselves, where conviction reminds us that we have hope because we are in Christ! Thank you for your honesty. This is lovely!
Tao Prosperity Counseling -- "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."
Thank you I was so used to approaching men before I gave my life to god. Now when I ask god when can I have a husband he said wait. ❤
I have to put this out there. Im watching good Christian women in my life still remain single going on 40 because they believed a mate "comes along" at the "right time" like a husband gets delivered in a red bow. People have free will. I dated a nice Christian guy but he pulled the plug on it and wanted to just be friends. I ended long term relationships in the past because I felt God wanted me to, and thats fine. But its like its always 'no' from God and never yes. I see women who get saved after having kids and are better off bcoz at least they've had a whole family by my age. I have friends and sisters who are older than me and have waited for "the one" and got nothing but trauma from Christian men! One woman got married and engaged quickly bcoz I think she just settled for what was on offer , but I guess she got 2 children in 2 years. So its really not this follow this path and you get what you want at the end. I did it. I gave all my time to God and end up with the wrong guy bcoz the good guy I prayed fo at church, found someone else. If God would just give someone "when its time" it would save a lot of wasted years and heartache for women. Being 20 something and receiving this advice is fine. But in your 30s your biological clock is ticking, I dont want miracle children. I just want to have children. Nobody want to start having kids at 40. Its not normal and it's actually not Gods will for women to go this long empty handed. Women are also vulnerable to the enemy when they are single for years. We can throw bible verses at it, but if we're aging without the joys of motherhood and marriage, we're left with failure and devastation and literally nothing can fix that except having those things.
You are operating in the Spirit of Pride. You think you know better than God. Please repent and return back to God.
@@LaLaJenkins you dont know me or my walk with God. Women of God are meant to be able to express their deepest hurts and be understood by one another without being labelled. I think your comment shows a lack of maturity and understanding. Its a very pharisaical and prideful response but its nothing new here on youtube. You should learn what compassion and humility is and not be so harsh which is unlike Christ.
Hello @Taliyah, my heart goes out to you! I'm currently 40. Never been married, dated; I also 'v been celibate since Sept 2004. I'm right now content in my singleness while being open to date good characters Christian men. So, I'm qualified to give you a response.
I agree Christian women won't have luck waiting on men being delivered at their door. They need to go out and have a life, hobbies besides going to work, church, and home.
Keep hope alive. The devil wants you to be discouraged and to settle. Keep obeying God when God says "no"; rejoice for every "no" because you're dodging a bullet. There will be a "yes" in due season.
Having kids is a gift, and all children are miracle babies no matter what age their mom have them. From age 18 to 50 years old. All single mothers are not better off, because they never signed up to be single parents being mom/dad at the same time. Raising a kid is never easy.
Your friends who married & got traumatized by their "Christian" husband's missed the red flags during the courtship. Did they love themselves prior? Did they heal from childhood trauma? Did they do works to better themselves individually before? Trauma attracts trauma. Besides, everyone claiming to be "Christian" are not always.
Like you said, everyone has free will. I'm sorry you too went through a bad relationship. Again, did you look at the man's character? Did you consult God?
Waiting on God does not mean doing nothing, it means go have a life, enjoy God daily, better who you are while God is working on timing for you to meet your mate.
Your time will come! Keep trusting the Lord.
@@jehannedufresne3998 I am encouraged by your response. I am pushing 40 and am single as well. Its been me a d God for a long time and I often feel like I'm the odd ball out as I see other women, even those younger than me, enjoying building their families or atleast meeting good men that want to take them out. I try not to pressure myself when it comes to romance, but sometimes feel left out. Your response let's me know that I'm not alone in bring on my 30's and single .
@@Godlywoman88 I'm glad to hear. Let us keep our faith in God and hope alive!
I'm 33 and I'm still single and I don't have kids the train is leaving me behind if I don't hurry up. 1:19
My God...sis this was right on time you have no idea...I thank God for your obedience 🙏🏽
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Excellent word, Sister!! Thank you!!
I found this vide today after talking to god about this and this is confirmation….. ❤ thank you god
Wow you really helped me! You use to think something was wrong with me and that no guys liked me and that I was a loser for not having a boyfriend like others but I’m not I’m a child of GOD! By the way I love you lipstick
I'm happy watching this. I need this at this moment.Thank you dear
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Thank you sister, God bless you abundantly, this is the Holy Spirit having a girl chat with me.
One of my favorite things about Black women is when we say a whole word, a whole life changing perspective we be like “Well that’s all, I ain’t really want nun or that’s all I got for you” as if you didn’t just shift my entire thought process 😂😂😂
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I am a single Christian man. Yes I got nosey. I have been praying for a wife who is willing to obey God for the longest time. I have met fakers and liars and pretenders. The Bible says wives obey your husbands but a truly Godly Mano Lu wants his wife to obey gods word. Proverbs 31 where are you girl!? Ladies please obey God! These jezebels are not attractive. May God give you the Godly man you deserve.
Dwell in Psalm 37:4 and the Most High will set you just right ladies! 🙏
I've been by myself for this entire Christian journey almost 20 years.
I am an elder now.
I don't even know not really do not know at all
Thank you for allowing God to use you as a vessel for this word!! I really needed to hear this ❤
Lol sis, loved the video.
Kind David was like DOING NOTHING AT HOME when he fell in love with Bate Seba.
So... its like you said: lets keep ourselves busy, just like RUTH!!!
When you get saved men start coming out the wood works....
I find it being mainly, but not only for single women. Thank you for the message. ;)
God done put LaLa in my business to do this video 😩😂… 🗣HEARD YOU GOD! 🤣
Whoops! I ain’t mean to be in your business! 🙈🙊🙉
I’m not gonna lie, God told me recently that I need to learn my identity as a human, woman, a New Testament believer, in the Body of Christ, from His perspective. The Bible has so much to say about how fearfully and wonderfully we are made! The world can’t do justice by reducing who we are the way they do. The Word has so much to say about women, too. God loves His daughters so much. There’s a lot of Scripture that outlines the difference between how God made women vs what the world thinks a woman is. It is astonishing!
Good video! I recently understood and see that doing online dating is setting self up in a desperate position.
I was just thinking for the first time in a long time how maybe i should be more embarassed or try harder to find a husband..something I've prayed about lately. I was cheated on and got divorced 3 years ago after many years with my first everything. But God led me to this video because it reminded me not to be desperate and give it to God! I'm currently working towards my Bachelors in IT, living with my parents, started reading the bible again daily, and I think I'm where God wants me right now. 😊
I wanted to add that I dont have kids but its something else thats bothered me lately since i will only have kids once im married but im still single. But its all in God's timing!
Thank you! I’m in high school rn and I feel all this pressure to go after boys and lust and talk about them in ungodly ways. I feel that because I don’t have a boyfriend that I am unloveable. I’m sending this to all my friends!!
...And when we fall deeply in love with the Christ we find that there is no flesh and blood man on this Earth with a 'cologne' fragrance like that of the Christ. And when we fall in love with Christ, we spiritually hear the 'heartbeat' of Holy Spirit. No question, Earthly marriage is beautiful! Man (Adam) is the Woman's (Eve) beginning; Woman is the Man's completion. This poetry of sacred marital oneness is without rival on this Earth. And our Heavenly Father knows how to bring a woman/daughter to that Heaven APPROVED waiting HUSBAND who has done more than step inside a Church building but (in his personal Christian walk) he has stepped inside the presence of Almighty Yahweh by the Grace of Jesus Christ.
Praise God and Amen!🙌🏽🙏🏽
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lol, this was the first video i saw in your channel and im definitely subscribing.
Thank you Lord for giving us this digital friend army to help us in these difficult days!
Amen! And welcome to the party! 🥳
Glory be to God, you are God send, may God keep on elevating you and use you Mightly for the great transformation. I'm gonna it unto God, ohhh Lord mould me, this message has left me emotional.
Amen, I am fearful and wonderful made. I sm the Queen. I shall get married.
This video came right on time! Thanks so much Lala!
Aww yay! Glory to God! 🙌🏽🤎
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Thank you so much!!!! You don’t even understand what this video means to me! Great video sis!!!
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Love this, thank you 🙏. I always struggle if I should be on a dating site, I get confused if this is me taking over and not waiting on god.
Thank you so much for this video. I needed to hear this today, and I will most likely revisit this video many many times. I just wanted to say you have a very gentle and loving spirit :) God bless you and your family!❤
Intimacy is where the thirst is but there's a lackkkkkk.
I’m watching this a year later! God bless you!! This was a great word ❤❤❤❤❤
This is still good 8 months later! Thank you!! I needed it 🙌🏾
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Mannn even though this came out 3 months ago, this resonates for me now! 💯
Amen!
Needed this message today. Thank you for this video!
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LOVE THIS WORD!!!! but sis it's these BTS~!!!!! lmao.
God bless you sister! Praise God great message! I just got out of a bad situation trying to get involved with some non christian worldy guy . God saved me from a lot I found out he had a double life . Learn my lesson! And you're right it was desperation and age thinking I'm old.Do you still do bible study?
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🙌 Thank you LaLa! # Confirmation. My soul needed this. ❤️
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What a lovely uplifting video amen Thankyou 🤍
Amen amen 🙏😭😭😭😭I will wait apon God . God's time is the best the information is for me😭😭
This video was very aspiring and motivating. Thank you so much!! This was a great message!!
Thank you so much for this sister! God bless
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😢this has literally healed me❤
I needed this sis! Thank God!
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I've watched a lot of videos on this topic but this is the only video ive heared 😊❤
Thank you so much sis. God bless you. Sometimes we forget. God bless you. I will listen to this everyday if i can until it sinks in. 💜💜
Thank you for sharing this. A blessing to mamy!
what a timely word.
I am 43 and i never had a real relationship. I dont even know whats wrong with me. Everytime i like someone in the church which is rare because there arent any available my age, there is some reason they dont like me. Im not sure what about myself i need to change so someone will like me. Only non christian men are interested. People I know that are not God choice for me. Where is his choice for me? I struggle with depression during the nights because its so lonely.
Praying that God will be your ultimate comforter during this loneliness season. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Rejection is Gods protection. Perhaps these men dont like you back because they arent for you. They are not your husband. Try spending more intentional time with God directly and be very intentional about your prayers and ask Him how He would like for you to move forward. You could also bring your concerns to Him and ask him for clarity as there is always a reason for the delay in the dating scene. He may need you to work on a few things or channel your time elsewhere in the season that He has you in. God bless you and I hope this helps.
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What should I do in this situation: i have been engaged to a non-believer but broke up 7 months ago because he was toxic. Now I am working on my relationship with God and attend church regularly, go to youth conferences and participate in the youth meetings outside church. However, I find most of thr guys from church have high expectations from girls (in terms of physical appearance and thry expect women to approach them). I am an introvert, I am disappointed in men generally and find their attitudes towards as women as being non-polite. This opinion is backed up by the other girls' opinion from church. There are better girls than me and 90% single. I would love to be again in a relationship, but I do not want to be controlled in any way. I would really want to find a Christian guy. I find it impossible nowadays. Someone to also make the first step and do not expect me to chase him
The issue is.. YOU are trying to find the guy. And that’s not in alignment with the Word. The Father finds the Wife for the Husband. Until then, you’re in a season of preparation. So, I would suggest switching your view from finding a Christian guy to seriously strengthening your relationship with Christ. Start doing daily readings of your Bible, start praying daily, starting talking to God consistent throughout your day. Satan has you distracted by this desire for a man that your spiritual growth is stifled.
And “There are better girls than me” is a LIE straight from Satan. Comparison is the thief of joy! You are JUST as AMAZING as the other women you’re talking about. They are NOT better than you. God sees you and knows you by name. He said you are valuable to Him! Don’t allow Satan to make your compare yourself to other women.
But I will say this, until you really learn to be content with just you and God, you might be in this single season for a while. So, give the desire to Him and continue working on your relationship when the Father. He’ll bring the PERFECT (for you) man along when it’s time. 🤎
@@LaLaJenkins thank you for your reply. You are so right. I doubt in my faith after my ex relationship and I switched my approach. Rather than waiting I feel like I run out of time as I am in late twenties ans I know after 30 would be even more difficult to find someone acceptable. Also the society has changed. The fact that Christian men expect women to approach and even propose to them, it it what worries me. I grew up with the premises that men need to make the first steps towards a relationship and I find hard to accommodate. But as you say, I should focus on my relationship with God. I will pray for it more and focus on myself, God and others. God bless! ☺️🙏🙏
The Bible says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing when I got saved the Lord showed me my husband I was newly saved at the time and I said I didn’t get saved to date Bob, John and whoever I did that in the world so I asked the Lord is the person he showed me my husband I also fleece the Lord like Gideon did then I prayed and asked the Lord if he’s my husband show me rainbows 🌈 girrrrl I chocked on rainbows for 6 years on my wedding day there was a rainbow in the sky on my honeymoon I had to cross the rainbow bridge to get to Niagra Falls my advice is stay in God he will send a husband but pray and ask and God will answer be vigilant always consult with the Lord. Be blessed. I also asked for true friends and he sent them and one was a Jezebel . Stay prayed up.
Thank you for this, Lala. This is really helpful. God bless you :)
Really needed to hear this. Thank you
Thank you Jesus for the Truth