Peter, this is the best video for me so far, I loved the story with the 1 pound love ... I have been searching for love all my life, I was raised in a family without much love ... My parents did all their best to raise us, they also had a difficult childhood ... But I always felt the need of affection and until now nobody could give it to me , but now is clear to me that I am the Only One who can do it... It makes so much more sense since I am with myself until the end , but the messages we get from the outer world is that you need someone or something to fulfill you! So, I am unhappy because I crave for affection and then I get more unhappy for not finding that RIGHT man ... So much suffering! What you say makes much more sense! THANK YOU!
+Peter Sage Thank you for your kindness and yes I am happy to have "discovered" you through London Real. I keep on watching your videos, they make me feel warm on the inside ... Kiss
+Peter Sage Yet another truth, Peter! I have a High School diploma and my military training. Still, I speak 4 languages, have lived in 4 countries, visited a few more. Life experience along with a deep understanding, maintaining a burning curiosity of everything is key.
Peter, this theory works. Another implication is - self love protects us from "destructive relationships". My guy thought I was not smart enough to talk to him (he went to an U.S. Ivy). Well I loved him, but I refused not to love myself. So I broke up with the guy, kept doing my work, guess what after a year I was offered a scholarship by UK government (who's not smart now). The first day I came to London, I went to the British Museum, a very smart & handsome guy came to me and say: "Hello young lady, you have a very strong presence, radiant one. Can we be friends?" Nice video. Thanks for the effort to make it :)
I love your bright mind & humble heart Peter :-) I feel comfortable listeting YOU instead of other "motivators" because of the similarity in driving force. And of course the way of thinking. Thanks "God" being not alone! :-)
I have recently read Erich Fromm - "The art of loving" and it is a great addition to what you say Peter on this video. The love is caring about the life and growth of what you love. The conclusion that i have get is to love the plants, animals, nature that lives and grow, love yourself by growing; love people that grow and let them grow; to become the most valuable person i can be, be spontaneous, enjoy sharing the company with people as they are instead of as you say needing them or expecting something from them. And i strongly believe that with that attitude anyone is able to find that romantic love he/she desires and fulfilling friendships. Just grow, be spontaneous and have patience.
1)I am incredibly unconditionally loving. 2)I am one of the bravest people I know. 3)I am resilient like no one’s business. 4)I am unfailingly generous. 5)I feel grateful and blessed almost constantly. 6)Every day I am more connected to the deep wisdom of my heart. 7)I consistently feel so blessed to be human. 8)I am constantly guided, mentored, and nurtured by synchronicity Itself. 9)I see amazing people all around me, showing me all the wonderful possibilities of abundance, love, service, and gratification, by example. 10)I am extremely skilled at seeing the silver lining 11)I take full responsibility for all areas of my life. 12)I am a superstar at forgiveness. 13)I am so funny and charming. People love me. 14)I am multitalented and very smart. 15)I CAN ACHIEVE HEART COHERENCE IN SECONDS 16)I’m so much fun to be around! 17)I am truly industrious 18)I am very creative 19)I am very good at understanding people, and I love my species (and all the other ones of course!) 20)I have attracted the most phenomenal people and teachings into my life! 21)All that, and I am super hot!!! 22);-))) No, not kidding even a little. C'mon babe don't keep me waiting!
As a person without any family, it is something that I struggle with because I never really been loved that much in my life. I admire how you have overcame such a challenge since you are a person without family too. You have affirmed my beliefs to not blame my parents or anyone else. People are free to do as they please but I have control of how I respond to my experiences. Every day, I focus on self-love more but every now and then I do have my periods of doubt. Most people like being around me but maybe I am not putting myself out there more. Perhaps, I need to be a bit more extroverted to be discovered by that special someone. I am an introvert and not very direct about disclosing my true feelings, especially to women that I found attractive. So, being more extroverted is still challenging for me. I know these things take time. I plan on being a centenarian and someday my soulmate will makes it worth the wait. All I have is time so I will optimize it to the best of my ability.
Amazing video! I love the way you created pictures and explained with metaphor. I truly appreciate your effort and you are very genuine and awesome! 👏🍀🌸
It is true. People always seem to forget that you first need to cut and throw some logs on a fire yourself, before you can expect to get some of that heat back. When there is no fire, it will be difficult to invite others and share some of that warmth. And for religious people that ultimate source of "self love" should be love of God, knowing that your life has value and you are accepted, even when you seriously mess up or find no specific reason to love yourself. Days like that can come. Drawing from That source, no worries of ever running out ;) It becomes much easier to love others, but is possible only when that faith is genuine and personal. A constant walk.
Great video peter the part u said about people getting likes on social media in order to feel they need love is absolutly true i see it all the time from friends and it make me change my mindset on how to approach differently with all my social media and started sharing my interest and what i learn in computers without any expectations from anyone ever since than a couple of mouths ago of doing that i started getting followers from tech employees who are working with well known companys and ask me for my email to have a conversation.
I've given up on love, at 57 years old, I've had enough of failed relationships. However, I do need to build up my self love as I do enjoy sharing 'love' to others. So this video has given me the key to that. Thanks Peter. Next vid on making money starting with none would be really useful!
+Jd Ck Thing is, youre talking like its over. In this day and age of connectedness, things can change dramatically in very short periods of time. Desiderata. All relationships fail. Even those that last beyond when they should have been brought to an end are failures. Those relationships kept up for saving face, or from fear of not being in a relationship are hardly the correct reasons.
+gepisar I understand your sentiments. Its gone beyond fear, really, I'm just exhausted, I really dont have the energy to go through all that again. I am very happy on my own, aggro free existence. I don't trust my choices in the arena of relationships now. I've learnt that lesson the hard way. Life is simpler alone, neither do I ever feel lonely. These days I keep animals, sad as it may be, my life revolves around them as animals respond unconditionally. Humans could learn from these other Earthlings we share this world with.
+Jd Ck Im reading a good book at the mo called "Everything is Obvious". Its sort of about business and how we can look at strategy and how to make good decisions based on available information and so called predictions of the future. Heres a story: Sony made the Betamax. It was a closed format, proprietary and superior to VHS in quality but couldn’t play long tapes (until Betamax 2 was released). VHS was an open standard, and the uptake was huge and in the end, the “network” effect won over the technically better Betamax. Sony, then looked to audio and made the MiniDisc. Learning from the “mistakes” the MiniDisc was better quality than CD, higher capacity, smaller, OPEN format and more robust than CDs. Then the internet came along and killed the need for minidisc as MP3 was born. You go left, you get blocked, you go right, you get blocked. So, then a device came out that was based on closed architecture that Apple refused to license, ran on proprietary software, and was actively resisted by the major content providers. Nevertheless, it was a smashing success. And iTunes was born. Everything that sony did “wrong” with Betamax, this time was a resounding success. So, sometimes, it just isn’t your choices that affect the outcome. Life would be simpler for Sony if the opted out. Its good you don’t feel lonely. Animals are cool. They don’t seem to have this notion of the past. For example, if Shep gets locked in the garage for hours hes crazy glad to see you when you unlock the doors. Try that on the wife or husband! So, if its any consolation, its not how the world reacts to our decisions that makes the world, its how we respond to the world; and that, im told is under our control. If you figure it out - let me know how! Yes, humans could learn, should learn, but shudda/couldda... im sure Sony wishes shudda/couldda... Life.
+banjocracy I am not Peter, yet, please allow me to answer. The boundary between valid self love vs egotistic self love. Narcissism is when a person uses others to magnify their own ego. Healthy self love is when you have confidence in yourself along with your own abilities enough to magnify others strengths while they work on their own weaknesses.
i'd throw away (or give it to someone who needs it more) my last pound as it would make no difference to me and it would stop someone else taking the decision from me. At least that would be MY decision rather someone else's. Then with no pounds to worry about, its one less "worry". I might conclude from this that i'm not qualified to judge what is "great" about me. The video starts of with the contrast frame. Without a comparison or judgement against others, our self rating of "great" is just as arbitrary as discarding our last pound. At least it is of our own making - and thats where it starts. In these sense then, a pound is just a pound, at it matters not whether its our only pound or millionth. Whether we are great or not, is only our self opinion, and no one but ourselves cares about that, no matter how many selfies or likes.
+Peter Sage Yeah, i thought about it. As you can maybe tell, i just dont "jive" with people. Funnily enough, i completed the NLP Trainers training with Grinder, years ago. I read a lot too. And when i talk with people they look at me like ive just spoken an alien language. Ive recently learned that giving people a start + a SMART goal isnt enough. They always screw up the bit in the middle - and i lose my rag with that. Isnt it obvious?!! Well, change isnt easy. "Switch - How to change when change isnt easy" was enlightening. For me, whats missing from the SMART goals is the need to also be specific on the method(s) or by what means the goal will be got. As Grinder said, the map is not the territory. But what he didnt say, is that there is more than one map! And you can overlay them! Then, people need that first step to prototype the new behavior. This is why starbucks stamp your new loyalty card with two stamps towards 10. (They could just make it so that 8 stamps are required) - but, this means already you are 20% there... Apparently this is better... i just dont get it; way to "digital" to relate. But then, i'm also the least successful person i know and not one to lead! How is the SBSP project going? That sounds way cool! And, i do appreciate you taking time out to respond to your TY commentators. Most do not.
I'm only week 10 into your ultimate self mastery journey & I barely recognize myself for the transformation & growth.
Thank you Peter, I love you !
Peter, this is the best video for me so far, I loved the story with the 1 pound love ... I have been searching for love all my life, I was raised in a family without much love ... My parents did all their best to raise us, they also had a difficult childhood ... But I always felt the need of affection and until now nobody could give it to me , but now is clear to me that I am the Only One who can do it... It makes so much more sense since I am with myself until the end , but the messages we get from the outer world is that you need someone or something to fulfill you! So, I am unhappy because I crave for affection and then I get more unhappy for not finding that RIGHT man ... So much suffering! What you say makes much more sense! THANK YOU!
+Peter Sage Thank you for your kindness and yes I am happy to have "discovered" you through London Real. I keep on watching your videos, they make me feel warm on the inside ... Kiss
+Peter Sage I also loved the song so much, is It possible to know about It? 💜
i became addicted to your theories. i love them so much because they are so rational!
+Peter Sage Yet another truth, Peter! I have a High School diploma and my military training. Still, I speak 4 languages, have lived in 4 countries, visited a few more. Life experience along with a deep understanding, maintaining a burning curiosity of everything is key.
Peter, this theory works. Another implication is - self love protects us from "destructive relationships". My guy thought I was not smart enough to talk to him (he went to an U.S. Ivy). Well I loved him, but I refused not to love myself. So I broke up with the guy, kept doing my work, guess what after a year I was offered a scholarship by UK government (who's not smart now). The first day I came to London, I went to the British Museum, a very smart & handsome guy came to me and say: "Hello young lady, you have a very strong presence, radiant one. Can we be friends?"
Nice video. Thanks for the effort to make it :)
Aw.. this was so sweet and helpful. Thank you for the constant inspiration, Peter. I found you through London Real and very glad that I did!!
Peter, you are simply amazing! With all the negativity around in my life, your words and lessons strike a chord deep within. Stay amazing.
I love your bright mind & humble heart Peter :-) I feel comfortable listeting YOU instead of other "motivators" because of the similarity in driving force. And of course the way of thinking. Thanks "God" being not alone! :-)
I have recently read Erich Fromm - "The art of loving" and it is a great addition to what you say Peter on this video. The love is caring about the life and growth of what you love. The conclusion that i have get is to love the plants, animals, nature that lives and grow, love yourself by growing; love people that grow and let them grow; to become the most valuable person i can be, be spontaneous, enjoy sharing the company with people as they are instead of as you say needing them or expecting something from them. And i strongly believe that with that attitude anyone is able to find that romantic love he/she desires and fulfilling friendships. Just grow, be spontaneous and have patience.
This has literally changed me instantly. God bless you!!!
1)I am incredibly unconditionally loving.
2)I am one of the bravest people I know.
3)I am resilient like no one’s business.
4)I am unfailingly generous.
5)I feel grateful and blessed almost constantly.
6)Every day I am more connected to the deep wisdom of my heart.
7)I consistently feel so blessed to be human.
8)I am constantly guided, mentored, and nurtured by synchronicity Itself.
9)I see amazing people all around me, showing me all the wonderful possibilities of abundance, love, service, and gratification, by example.
10)I am extremely skilled at seeing the silver lining
11)I take full responsibility for all areas of my life.
12)I am a superstar at forgiveness.
13)I am so funny and charming. People love me.
14)I am multitalented and very smart.
15)I CAN ACHIEVE HEART COHERENCE IN SECONDS
16)I’m so much fun to be around!
17)I am truly industrious
18)I am very creative
19)I am very good at understanding people, and I love my species (and all the other ones of course!)
20)I have attracted the most phenomenal people and teachings into my life!
21)All that, and I am super hot!!!
22);-))) No, not kidding even a little.
C'mon babe don't keep me waiting!
Fantastic Peter, keep up the great work you are doing. Totally love your realness.
As a person without any family, it is something that I struggle with because I never really been loved that much in my life. I admire how you have overcame such a challenge since you are a person without family too.
You have affirmed my beliefs to not blame my parents or anyone else. People are free to do as they please but I have control of how I respond to my experiences.
Every day, I focus on self-love more but every now and then I do have my periods of doubt. Most people like being around me but maybe I am not putting myself out there more. Perhaps, I need to be a bit more extroverted to be discovered by that special someone.
I am an introvert and not very direct about disclosing my true feelings, especially to women that I found attractive. So, being more extroverted is still challenging for me.
I know these things take time. I plan on being a centenarian and someday my soulmate will makes it worth the wait. All I have is time so I will optimize it to the best of my ability.
Absolutely Powerful! Thank you - I will get to 10/10 on the self-love scale ⚖ 😄
im thankful to have a mentor such as you self , thanks man peter sage is the truth
Amazing video!
I love the way you created pictures and explained with metaphor.
I truly appreciate your effort and you are very genuine and awesome! 👏🍀🌸
Thank you, Peter. Two big thumbs up! It has you be real good if you can get the viewer to smile, and you accomplished that with me.
Peter u have really simplified an issue that seemed to be complicated..... u r wise n I've learned alot from you
That s greatnest, thank you for this video 😌🙏🙏❤️i really needed to hear this to confirm something i was thinking and not realizing enough🙏
Wow! this was eye-opening! thanks, Peter
This video is so so good . By watching your clip makes me smile more every day. Love back to you for all you are doing Peter.
Thank you! Brilliant message!
So much truth and wisdom, Thank you so very much.
Mr. Peter 007😉 I do Love You❤️ It's so incredible how far I have gone in 2 months by holding your voice in my ears. THANK YOU!
Well done, Merry!
Thank you so much for these videos. you communicate to me so easlily and in ways that i can easily relate to. thank you for changing my life.
Very refressing to hear the same topics so often discussed, from you in 'new' way..especially the example from the pounds, very helpfull. Thank you.
It is true. People always seem to forget that you first need to cut and throw some logs on a fire yourself, before you can expect to get some of that heat back. When there is no fire, it will be difficult to invite others and share some of that warmth.
And for religious people that ultimate source of "self love" should be love of God, knowing that your life has value and you are accepted, even when you seriously mess up or find no specific reason to love yourself. Days like that can come. Drawing from That source, no worries of ever running out ;) It becomes much easier to love others, but is possible only when that faith is genuine and personal. A constant walk.
Well said
Peter you are a genius!! listening to you is becoming one of my habits ;) and I am also getting off the media... Thank you!! Greetings from Argentina!
Wow! it is an honour to receive your words! I always keep your words in mind ;) Thank you so much!
I am waiting for you over here Master.
Great video peter the part u said about people getting likes on social media in order to feel they need love is absolutly true i see it all the time from friends and it make me change my mindset on how to approach differently with all my social media and started sharing my interest and what i learn in computers without any expectations from anyone ever since than a couple of mouths ago of doing that i started getting followers from tech employees who are working with well known companys and ask me for my email to have a conversation.
+Peter Sage thanks peter
Beautiful! We need to apply all this great advice
It's so true , I loved ur messages thanks💕💖💕👑
Amazing authentic content.....Love Love Love this video:)
Self love :a great concept thanks Peter
You're welcome.
Superb video.
Thank you.
Xxx
I've given up on love, at 57 years old, I've had enough of failed relationships. However, I do need to build up my self love as I do enjoy sharing 'love' to others. So this video has given me the key to that. Thanks Peter.
Next vid on making money starting with none would be really useful!
+Jd Ck Thing is, youre talking like its over. In this day and age of connectedness, things can change dramatically in very short periods of time. Desiderata. All relationships fail. Even those that last beyond when they should have been brought to an end are failures. Those relationships kept up for saving face, or from fear of not being in a relationship are hardly the correct reasons.
+gepisar I understand your sentiments. Its gone beyond fear, really, I'm just exhausted, I really dont have the energy to go through all that again. I am very happy on my own, aggro free existence. I don't trust my choices in the arena of relationships now. I've learnt that lesson the hard way. Life is simpler alone, neither do I ever feel lonely. These days I keep animals, sad as it may be, my life revolves around them as animals respond unconditionally. Humans could learn from these other Earthlings we share this world with.
+Jd Ck Im reading a good book at the mo called "Everything is Obvious".
Its sort of about business and how we can look at strategy and how to make good decisions based on available information and so called predictions of the future. Heres a story:
Sony made the Betamax. It was a closed format, proprietary and superior to VHS in quality but couldn’t play long tapes (until Betamax 2 was released). VHS was an open standard, and the uptake was huge and in the end, the “network” effect won over the technically better Betamax.
Sony, then looked to audio and made the MiniDisc. Learning from the “mistakes” the MiniDisc was better quality than CD, higher capacity, smaller, OPEN format and more robust than CDs. Then the internet came along and killed the need for minidisc as MP3 was born.
You go left, you get blocked, you go right, you get blocked.
So, then a device came out that was based on closed architecture that Apple refused to license, ran on proprietary software, and was actively resisted by the major content providers. Nevertheless, it was a smashing success. And iTunes was born. Everything that sony did “wrong” with Betamax, this time was a resounding success.
So, sometimes, it just isn’t your choices that affect the outcome.
Life would be simpler for Sony if the opted out. Its good you don’t feel lonely. Animals are cool. They don’t seem to have this notion of the past. For example, if Shep gets locked in the garage for hours hes crazy glad to see you when you unlock the doors. Try that on the wife or husband!
So, if its any consolation, its not how the world reacts to our decisions that makes the world, its how we respond to the world; and that, im told is under our control. If you figure it out - let me know how! Yes, humans could learn, should learn, but shudda/couldda... im sure Sony wishes shudda/couldda... Life.
The most wonderful channel on RUclips. 😊💛
Thank you, Peter. I love you too.
Peter is the most beautiful person, you lovely my child ❤
Thank you! I appreciate that kindness ❤
Thank you Peter
I don't know that someone who thinks they are sooo awesome is very loveable.
love it!
Very helpful
Hi Peter. Where is the boundary between valid self love and egotistic self love (narcissism)?
+banjocracy I am not Peter, yet, please allow me to answer. The boundary between valid self love vs egotistic self love. Narcissism is when a person uses others to magnify their own ego. Healthy self love is when you have confidence in yourself along with your own abilities enough to magnify others strengths while they work on their own weaknesses.
love you Peter
What if I become high headed as I create my inventory and stop improving?
wow, love it
Thank you!
Oh man Pete you hit the bulleye again.
when he described the homeless person, i just pictured johnson in my head. dont ask me why.
Can I meet you
i'd throw away (or give it to someone who needs it more) my last pound as it would make no difference to me and it would stop someone else taking the decision from me. At least that would be MY decision rather someone else's. Then with no pounds to worry about, its one less "worry". I might conclude from this that i'm not qualified to judge what is "great" about me. The video starts of with the contrast frame. Without a comparison or judgement against others, our self rating of "great" is just as arbitrary as discarding our last pound. At least it is of our own making - and thats where it starts. In these sense then, a pound is just a pound, at it matters not whether its our only pound or millionth. Whether we are great or not, is only our self opinion, and no one but ourselves cares about that, no matter how many selfies or likes.
+Peter Sage Yeah, i thought about it. As you can maybe tell, i just dont "jive" with people. Funnily enough, i completed the NLP Trainers training with Grinder, years ago. I read a lot too. And when i talk with people they look at me like ive just spoken an alien language. Ive recently learned that giving people a start + a SMART goal isnt enough. They always screw up the bit in the middle - and i lose my rag with that. Isnt it obvious?!! Well, change isnt easy. "Switch - How to change when change isnt easy" was enlightening. For me, whats missing from the SMART goals is the need to also be specific on the method(s) or by what means the goal will be got. As Grinder said, the map is not the territory. But what he didnt say, is that there is more than one map! And you can overlay them! Then, people need that first step to prototype the new behavior. This is why starbucks stamp your new loyalty card with two stamps towards 10. (They could just make it so that 8 stamps are required) - but, this means already you are 20% there... Apparently this is better... i just dont get it; way to "digital" to relate. But then, i'm also the least successful person i know and not one to lead! How is the SBSP project going? That sounds way cool! And, i do appreciate you taking time out to respond to your TY commentators. Most do not.