It's so incredibly shortsighted and ham-fisted of RUclips to prevent you from monetizing your videos about sex workers. This is not objectification. You are giving a voice to people who most of society ignores and dismisses. I greatly respect your decision to keep posting these videos anyway, because they're important, and in spite of not recouping the costs of making them. Keep up the great work, Mark.
I don’t buy her story about having an amazing childhood….some parts are missing. How does a girl go from riding horses, going to church to “making my first date at 16”….having children taken from you by the time your 21. There’s more to her story
You must not know a lot of people. You can the best upbringing and still have the worst company. All it takes is for a man to prey on your insecurity and slowly work you over. You don’t have to be abused or neglected by your parents, you can simply be naive, insecure or desperate.
@@nycapplesJH maybe she not telling everything how dare invalid the story of someone you dont know. Her dad couldve lost his job then they moved to the hood then she got around the wrong crowd for all you know. how gonna assume she's not telling the truth
Mark, i feel like you have come a long way with your interviews. Your ability to sit and listen, pause, let them speak when they need to and not rush to the next question or to fill the silence, i feel that is really powerful. I think silence allows us to process, allows them the space to feel the truth and the weight of what they just shared. Thank you for that
I grew up with Cheyenne in Washington she was one of my first good friends when I first moved to Washington from California, I’ve been watching Marks interviews for awhile now I was shocked to had come across this video she was one of my bestfriends. She’s always been a beautiful person inside and out, very kind and compassionate. Keep you’re head up love. I wish nothing but the best for you. Love, Kim
at the end of the day my daddy told me: A ho gon be a ho and bitches gon get fcked in they bumhole. just know what u doing it fo. I get my money from a ho and i dont need nobody to collect my dough cause im pretty pimpin jerome off figaro
Mark, I’m fairly new to your channel and was upset to find out you’re getting demonetized by RUclips. These stories are raw and powerful. They are helping me find compassion for others and even myself. Thank you for this work. I hope things work out for you so you can continue doing what you love.
“For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.” 2 Timothy 4:3-4
Her saying she’s in love with a guy who is a drug dealer and supports her prostituting herself and being pregnant again as if CPS isn’t going to also take that child away shows just how lost she truly is, praying for her.
Mark said in a recent interview that he does these interviews, and keeps content accessible, as a service to parents, and as an honor to his late mother, who he says, loved him unconditionally which allowed him to follow his dreams.
You are correct about parents influencing their children's lives but on the same hand it comes down to having a role model with a positive influence around kids even if the parents are not the greatest parents in the world or even on the block. I had two shitty parents and the adults on my mom and dad's side were terrible also except my grandma and grandpa on my mom's side who made sure that me and my brother didn't starve and had school clothes. Growing up me and my brother were heading down a dark path after my dad disappeared from our lives when I was 8 years old. My mom married a great guy when I was in 8th grade but my stepdad had a hard time connecting with me and my brother and this new man in my life helped me settle down a little bit. I got lucky and in my freshman year of high school found two teachers/coaches that I actually respected and that I didn't tell to go fuck themselves when I got into trouble which was quite often. These /teachers/coaches and somewhat my stepdad all knew that I was a severe problem child and took an interest in my every day life and the teachers/coaches would tell me daily where I messed up and where I did good or when I was right in a conflict that would happen damn near daily in my life. By my senior year in high school I was on the right path thanks to these teachers/coaches and my stepdad. I ended up going into the military which built onto the self discipline that the coaches instilled into me over a 3 to 4 year period. I got married after my 4 years in the military. I had 4 kids whom all have grown into fine men and women and after all of the turmoil in my life I can say that I did pretty good with my life but my brother not so much as my brother got into drugs and floating around to sleep on his friend's couches until he was forced into getting a job at age 28. My brother was electrocuted and died at age 38 and in his words he lived a life of agony. Everyone can be a role model or positive influence on the upcoming generations IF they too have their heads screwed on straight but it is much easier to work with kids that had two good parents even though some kids/people with two great parents go down the wrong path of life
This girl is sooo detached from reality it’s sad. She’s beautiful and young and still has a chance to get out of this but her denial is keeping her back.
My heart goes out to this young woman. It's not just her story, as it is a common narrative for young people in this lifestyle., but more so her tone, demeanor and even her posture shows the pain she's trying to deal with. So defeated so young. Her losses are too great for a person to handle on their own. Especially at her age. I know that she chose this life like many others have (including her mother), but hearing and seeing her tell her story is especially sad.
She seems like a lovely person who could have found her way out, but it sounds like she has severed all of her options for exit from this lifestyle. I’m so sad for her.
How in hell could anyone be convinced of that? FFS Tell the judge you're a hooker. He s sure to think you're a capable mother. No doubt about it. ?????
Sadly, like the rest of the courts, success in family courts depends on money. But of course, most of these girls never see a penny of what they earned, and she was hoodwinked into filling a pimps pockets.
No don't hustle every day 7 days a week to pay for some man to take care of his kids and "folks", at least work as your own boss keeping saving all your money for yourself.
@@lindboknifeandtool without the pimps protection the client wouldnt even pay. Its an illegal/criminal business. Plus its not real work. She getting laid for 2hrs(most likely 30 mins) a day. Then she probably just gets high with the client.
@@claytonreynolds6241 I don’t think you do. She’s doing this to get her son back? While giving all her money to this guy wanting to “see her folks get better” Oh yeah, shit too hard for her, this is her only option... no. She has 0 self worth.
To those questioning her childhood narrative.. Ya can’t give what ya don’t have. She’s likely sharing with us whatever version she’s capable of surviving in needing to believe.. We disassociate from experiences that exceed our coping skills.
@@shable1436 you mean to tell me she didn't really have a pony and a white picket fence existence with the perfect wonderful Brady Bunch family? you mean to tell me she doesn't really love selling her body, and find it fun and exciting, and empowering? you mean to tell me it's her pimp, not just a close buddy she gives all of her money to because she wants to because he has a kid to take care of and she wants to be 2nd place to, and main provider for that kid that's not hers? Yeah I agree, she is in major denial.
@@shable1436 we don't know that for sure. She said she was removed from her dad's custody which infers there were issues. Making assumptions is for morons.
This "I had a great childhood" theme comes up a lot with sex workers and then sometimes deeper in the interview you find out the not-so-great things. You can guess here what might have happened to her that she might be dissociated from. It's sad. She's lost so much so young and her goals are not clear even to her.
I feel awful for this girl. She wouldn't call him a pimp, she wouldn't call it regrets....we choose to see our lives in our ways. I hope she sees her value and gets her kids back. She deserves more than she allows herself.
She's never getting them back, they're adopted by others. She has no other options for making the money she wants. So sad she's so short sighted. Short term needs versus long term goals.
There seems to always be a moment in these when it clicks why they are where they are. She can’t get past losing her kids. The drugs, the sex, the money, the life…it’s all a cover up for the pain and the shame of losing her children 😭 praying she finds peace and life to the fullest.
YUP, I knew that as soon as she mentioned she lost her kids. The evil courts have been stealing 10's of MILLIONS of kids from mostly WHITE fathers in America for DECADES. This has destroyed men and America!
It seems like things fell apart earlier than that. She said she had a great childhood but she was selling herself by 16 and left her dad's home....wonder what was really happening....it's sad.
Damn, was sad the whole interview, but when she said she was having ANOTHER kid, I felt devastated for that child, the world, and despised her, she learned nothing at all.
yo your comment says more about you than it does about this person talking to Mark! I may agree with you but i also know that 75% of parents in the mainstream society are unfit to bring new life into this world.
She’s a sad broken girl. Her thoughts are so twisted and delusional. I’m sure it’s based on a coping mechanism. She needs so much intensive therapy to really come to terms with her own life’s reality and her past and present decisions. She has a good heart but is so messed up emotionally. Unless someone intervenes and she wants to make changes within herself, she’ll just become another lost soul on this planet that no one will notice or care about. Mark, I hope you can at least try and get her help. This is the first time I’m writing a comment based on all the interviews I’ve watched. Her potential is there, but it’s so hard to watch someone self destruct when your listening to this person go down the rabbit hole and not even know it their heading straight on to there own demise. Heart breaking
these girls who are controlled by pimps talk from the same script - the pimp probably has a few girls - she admits to working every day - name a job that is not slave labour where you work everyday - shes probably scared as i am sure her pimp/handler will watch this - and mark never challenges or pushes back - he probably has his safety to consider aswell
@@Capt.Thrust I could've missed something about the great childhood I know I heard that she explained how wonderful it was and how she loved her mother and father dearly but she did say it was her step mother her father remarried her biological mother was a drug addict? I'm not sure did she ever mention her again through the interview? I might have missed it ?
I think she is very caught up in her own head in my opinion: until her looks fade she’ll feed on her ego and intentions, only to find herself lost wandering in her own mind, receiving carnal and worldly rewards (at the permission/ regulation of her pimp). Until she realizes that “key” is in plain sight as she wanders around in her head, this is her life-path she’s chosen (albeit one that is not socially accepted on the whole). Mark can offer her locations to seek therapy but beyond that she has to have the intent, motivation, and maturity to see beyond her current aspirations in order to break or divert from her current lifestyle. I only hope the best for you, Cheyanne; ambitious soul.
Thank you Mark for giving a voice to people who usually are shunned and ignored by society. I specially love the videos about sex workers because not only do they talk about their lives, but I can also see their personalities, intelligence and even potential to do something else. Again, thank you a lot Mark.Also, I see a very smart person in Cheyenne, she is extremely genuine about her lifestyle and how addictive in can be.
I had no idea your channel wasn't monetized. Your guests are extraordinary people with extraordinary stories. Its stories like these that help me through my horrific memeories as a young man surrounded by dysfunctional people.
The extreme highs and lows she keeps describing is manic depression and she doesn’t even know it. Mental health is real. I hope she finds the help she needs.
Psychology and mental health is way more complex and needs professional intervention. Dangerous for you to assume and label people with a particular mental illness from one interview.
Some people don't have the luxury to even entertain having mental health issues....you have to survive and that's that. Any mental health condition would be to your total detriment in a third world country - no career guaranteed
You deserve to be paid for this! The work your doing is important. It has helped me to be more compassionate, more understanding. I’m a ER/ ICU R.N. God bless and keep you!
Her whole interview is so much double talk. She'd do anything to have her kids in her life. except for drugs, turning tricks, and being in love with a gang banger.
What saddens me is these women call their pimps their “boyfriend” and deny they are a pimp when they are taking a their money they are earning from sex. Regardless of how much he gives back to you, or how nice he acts, he’s still a pimp.
this young woman's body language speaks volumes. even the still footage of her screams. God bless you mark for all you do, you're a good man Charlie Brown.
I feel bad for her and her kids. It’s trauma just passing itself from generation to generation in its purest form. & she’s pregnant again & so happy which makes me hurt for her future kid even more. This one is painful, she has so much potential to live the normal life she wants.
@@mihe6212 watch Mark’s videos, when he personally talks about helping people on the street. Learn, it’s not that easy, if it was, no one would be on the street.
Jack she’s literally crying how she wants her kids so much but not enough to change her ways ! 🤣 she’s may have kicked the pipe but she refuses to kick the fast life ! She’d rather suck d**k for a quick 1000 ima couple hours but at the cost of ruining her life and her kids life’s ! She won’t change because she sees nothing wrong with her actions ! Smh think with your head jack
Mark...I watch your videos and have such a range of emotions. I don't know how you have the emotional strength to do this without it negatively affecting your life. Maybe it does. You are a very good interviewer - compassionate, caring, trustworthy, supportive and non-judgmental of the people who pour out their lives to you. You are able to reach people in a way that many therapists and mental health professionals would envy. I'm sure that many of your subjects have a therapeutic experience during and after your sessions with them. I know you pay them for their time and provide financial support to a number of them but, my guess is that many walk away with much more than just the money. Thank you for bringing us these stories that most of us would never have the opportunity to experience.
This is so sad. Her self worth is so low but she tries so hard to convince herself that it's not. She says she's her own boss but she has to give her hard earned money to a man and then tell him how much she thinks she deserves. GTFOH! Good example of living with trauma instead of addressing the trauma to heal with therapy. Best of luck to her. ❤️
Yes , she is pregnant for a man who has another family and gives him all her money she goes with strangers to give a man who doesn’t value her . She is so lost saying that she does it in her own time lol no your pimp is your boss . Nobody wants their daughter to be a prostitute and it’s not safe . She’s talks about money all the time . Seems like she doesn’t care about being descent .
We are all voyeurs watching these videos, looking at people we either relate to or are bewildered by a life we can't comprehend. The people that are involved in these interviews come in freely to extend to the viewer their explanations as to why they choose the lifestyle they live. I congratulate their honesty.
@@curiousme113 That they do, yet they give so much of themselves and often go through their trauma both past and present. Sure they get some money but they bare there soul's..
Romanticizing peoples dysfunctional lives is weird. I comprehend these stories completely and I am not bewildered. The stories are redundant so I no longer watch.
The fact that she said she loves this job because it brought her love and gave her an opportunity to be a mom again is so sad. She didn’t need this lifestyle to achieve true love and happiness.
Oh no it definitely happens all the time just because someone can have good parents and stability doesn't mean that's what a child wants lmao you've never seen someone with a good life who rebels because they're young?
Thank you Mark for this public service. I've been watching your videos for a long time. The numbers of these lives of people who live like this says a lot about the system we live in. It's sad and depressing. Most of the people you interview who work the street tell the same story over and over. They seem to grapple with coloring the danger and degradation in a positive light so they can accept it. This is horrifying that this woman has been shot twice and has lost her kids.This is important work that you do, helping to keep these visions that we try to avoid in our consciousness.
These videos highlight the US being a 3rd World country in some respects. U have no social welfare system worth the name and hence no safety net for e.g. schoolgirls who become pregnant. Cheyenne has no future with her pimp and needs to get out of crime (which sex work is in the US) and find a normal job. Porn acting would be better than what she currently does and would make a pimp completely superfluous. They're scum and get five years here in central Europe when caught. Most are, as any of their girls only need file an accusation against their pimp with the local cops.
I used be a psychiatrist at the women’s state prison here in Chino, CA. Most of my patients had children on the outside-some they had lost complete custody of bc the length of their sentence or they had lost them sometime along the treacherous path they had been not living-but surviving on before coming to prison. A few still had custody, their kids were with a family member and although we encouraged continuous visits (there is a playground in the visitation area), it was ultimately up to the family members to bring the kids which posed its own challenges. One day a patient of mine told me something that has long stayed w/ me. She hadn’t seen her son since he was a toddler-he had been adopted & she’d had no contact w/ him. He had recently turned 18 + not only found her but came to visit her. He said he didn’t care that she was behind bars, she would always be his mother. After that, I encouraged all of patients w/ children on the outside who they still had custody of to write to their children at least once a week, as painful as it was to be reminded of their reality. “Everyone mothers in their own way. Right now, this is your way to be a mother.” To those who had lost custody, I suggested starting a journal for their kids, writing to them daily in it-their hopes, their feelings, life lessons bc “some day, your child will find their way back to you bc we all have just one mother, and all of them make mistakes.” Cheyenne, your kids will find you when they can. (Ps. I’m also a reproductive psychiatrist (specialize in peripartum)-I’m here if you need me or can help connect you w/ another reproductive psychiatrist.
Respectfully she should see about getting tested for bipolar disorder, the way she talks about her back and forth with drugs and several day periods of feeling fantastic and then feeling horrible sounds very symptomatic of bipolar. Wish her the best 🥺
Her story is very patchy and delusional. I don't buy for a second that she is happy or that she has "the power" when it comes to the streets. She's been shot twice, she knows how dangerous it is out there. I just hope one day the vale lifts for you love and you can see the truth. Working a 9-5 might not be exciting but you won't end up dead. Best of luck to you. 💗
Glossed over having herself declared independent from her father at age 16 after a "great" childhood. Glossed over having her children taken away from her due to being on drugs. Still talking about getting her children back even though they've been adopted. Glossed over her brother's death.
She has no reason to lie. Nothing to gain so I absolutely believe her. She didn't seem disingenuous to me but think what you want. But why would she lie? It is an addictive lifestyle. They do and can make serious money doing this. Very pretty girl. And if you don't think she gets compliments on her looks well think again.
And her story is anything but patchy and delusional. I don't understand people like you. Just because you couldn't be happy doesn't mean someone else couldn't.
@@MVP527 I don't recall saying she's lying and I never once mentioned her looks. Just keep looking at the pretty girl, obviously all you're capable of. Have a nice day.
It’s fascinating that trauma can make you believe you are on the right and non-destructive path, after getting shot on two separate occasions. I hope this girl finds her way out.
Mark your like a confessional seems like a lot of the people on your channel have been able to say thing’s out loud that they have never or almost never been able to say knowing there’s millions of people watching talk therapy truly helps just to say things out loud is healing much respect much love and light thank you
Disgusted with You Tube demonetizing these videos. As I've mentioned in a previous comment I have completely stopped going to strip clubs. I tried to go after watching your interviews with sex workers and every time I did go I was miserable. I no longer enjoyed it. The women are real people with real lives. I wish Cheyenne the best and that she stays safe. Sorry to hear she lost her kids. Heartbreaking story.
Yeah I really wanted more background information about why she got emancipated when she was 16 (that is hard to do and courts don't do it if you have any kind of supportive parent in your life!) and how she lost her kids.
@@alexistifani07 if there are drugs in a mother’s system it automatically triggers a Child Protective Services referral… they usually get put in the foster system immediately. Moms have a choice at that time to do rehab and skills classes instead of jail time. A lot of them go back to using as soon as they get out of that program.
Her “laugh” makes me cry. She sounds so pained.. not that I blame her for feeling sad. I would too if I’d lost all my children.. I just wish she’d choose a different path.. a regular job would be a start but no.. she’s digging in deeper.😢
Mark, this is simply beautiful. You provide the opportunity to change the narrative. The pain I saw in her eyes talking about her child(ren) was so deep. This was powerful beyond words. Thank you!!!!!!
This is one of those interviews where you just want to scoop her up and place her in a safe space with her kids surrounded by love, family, and all the kindness she needs. What a sensitive soul. I hope, like all of us do, that she can find a more stable line of work and get her kids back.
@@shable1436 Not my take chief. She is struggling. And her mother skills are not for me to judge. I just think she deserves a second chance. She's a kid.
@@frankbrenner4852 lol mane stfu..this scallywag probably done have 3, 4, or 5 chances to get right....a hoe will be a hoe....and u probably the biggest trick
She is so lost, and In so much emotional pain. This lifestyle is helping her cope. It’s extremely sad when you’re alone. I hope she finds a way out of this and embraced losses and finds the strength to fight back for her kids .
Cheyenne thank you so much for sharing your life story with all of us. A lot of people feel pretty brave behind there computers typing away, projecting and judging even when they say they’re not. I would bet most people wouldn’t be able to tell their own life story in such a raw environment. I know I wouldn’t. Well not the real truth. Possibly the version that’s easier to live with, to tell myself or easier to manage in an already tough world. So thank you for sharing your life story with all of us and allowing a glimpse into your life story, your version along with your hopes and dreams. 💜
Her kids will see this 1 day, hope they have the strength to get through this interview seeing why they didn’t have their biological parents around. Hope all the best for her going forward & knowing she can change her life into anything she wants but gotta put the work into the right place.
I'm not sure I'd forgive her to be honest. For her children to be adopted she would have been given multiple chances to sort her life out and prove she can be a mum. She said herself she makes more money in an hour than a week at a normal job, unfortunately for her she's addicted to this and it seems to mean more to her than anything else. She made all the personal choices to get to this point. When you become a mum you stop being the most important person, your kids are.
The best thing you could do for her is help her get connected back with her family. Sounds like her dad was really good to her and would help her get back on her feet in a drop of a dime.
What a powerful story. So proud of her for sitting and telling her story. It reminds me of what I've been through in my life. Have you done a follow-up story with Cheyenne? I'd love to see how she is doing?
Hi Mark I’m a graduate student in a social work program. The work you do is phenomenal! I appreciate having access to your channel to witness your interviews, it’s something I know I’ll have to practice once I graduate and get licensed. Thanks for what you do!
Boyd..I have been a social worker for over 24 years and I can tell you that the profession will give you the insight to see many different types of people and situations in many ways..whatever you do..always try to listen to the person and what they are not saying..their actions will speak louder than their words..if you are able to master that skill you will impact people's lives even when you can't change their choices..welcome to a world of wonders and feel privileged that people will hopefully trust you enough to let you into their world..🙌🙌
@@Rosebud62492 how would I get into this profession? I’d love to help people I come from a immigrant family I’m the second in my home to graduate I would love to find people an share my experiences an help them
@@reverse3324 you would need to have a minimum of a bachelor's degree in social work or a masters degree in social work. The profession is much more than just helping people.
I wish you’d asked more questions like ‘if she’d be happy to talk more about why her kids got taken away from her’ or ‘why she got taken away from her father’ or why her mother judges her when she did it herself… rather than focus on the job. Really the story here isn’t about the job it’s about what lead her to where she is now.
I just want to comment here to tell her that I'm so sorry about her baby girl Esmerelda. Losing a baby is so hard. I am so very sorry. She is worth being a mom, she is worthy of love and respect. She is good enough. Sending hugs
I'm glad I continued to listen to this story. It is an incredibly sad story, incredibly sad. Now I understand much more. I wish her peace and safety and health. God bless you, woman. May your suffering transform you into great strength and helpful change.
I can't believe so many of these women are not on birth control. I understand they are "not for everyone", especially the hormonal types, including me. I can't be on anything. but in this line of work? even a copper IUD should be the first expense.
@@randymarsh9488 believe me, I understand this, there also other reasons why I don't have it personally. but do you hear how many of these women have multiple children, usually by their pimps, who then go into foster care or distant family? just sounds like the cycle repeating. they go out everyday, seeing multiple clients a day or getting raped. aside from other methods, it's cramps vs basic precaution, responsibility, and honestly making their lives easier and safer. can't imagine they can continue working heavily pregnant, just after labor, with a small child or multiple of them.
@@Aveirah true, it never makes sense that they keep getting pregnant only to either lose the child to foster care or neglect the kid beciase they have to be in the streets to bring home the bread.
Here's what I've gathered by listening to these girls talk: they religiously wear rubbers with all the men they hook. That's practically a requirement of the trade to prevent them from getting STDs. They differentiate "hooker sex" (with rubber) from "pimp sex" (without rubber). All these pimps have sex with the girls they collect money from. Wearing/not wearing a rubber is how they differentiate working sex from voluntary emotional partner sex.
It's a problem with access and a problem with a lack of consequences. The government needs to instate a three strike rule. If you give birth and lose custody three times in a row, the government should come in and mandate a hysterectomy. These kind of women shouldnt be allowed to make unloved bastard after unloved bastard.
I don't understand how they - youtube - can demonitise this channel, which brings home the true emotional horror for all, and cognitive dissonance of those working in the sex industry? YET youtube will HAPPILY monetise channels of men, encouraging other men to go to countries (thailand, phillipines, etc) which have sex industries, and inform them how to solicit women there - women who will feel and hurt like the people you portray in such a raw manner. Thr hypocrisy is galling. As someone who works in the CJS, I can say your work Mark is awesome, your subjects riveting and my heart humbled. It rips away the stereotypes, beliefs and debasement many men and women hold towards these women and men. It's painfully apparent that it's not an easy and if it becomes a choice, it's filled with trauma. Please continue to do your interviews. Give the silent sector of our society a voice and let youtube take a long, hard look at it unequal treatment towards the same sector of society
Mark you should interview the girls in Seattle on Aurora. Countless young girls out there on the daily. Wearing heels and lingerie in groups or by themselves in the hot sun, desperate to make their money. Doesn’t matter what time of day it is. It’s truly sad. As a former stripper I never would encourage anyone to be in this lifestyle. I never sold actually sex, but I sold the idea of it. Countless dangerous run in, and not sure if I would make it home safe at night. I feel for these girls, because I didn’t have the best upbringing or life. But I think someone who actually gives them that hope and helps them is very far and in between. Those pimps sell them a dream so they could use and abuse them. Continue what you’re doing Mark, you truly are a blessing.
@@squirrelabouttown6022 I’m so sorry for your lost. That life can be very dangerous and unforgiving for some. I thank God I got out when I did, and I know if I go back it won’t end for me well. Which is why I tried to steer other girls away from that lifestyle and to purse more constructive thing so.
That last bit was kind of alarming for me. The advice was solid up until she was talking about she’d “never blame someone else” and “it was my choice to walk around naked….” I really hope she knows, and understands that dressing sexy, or being drunk is NOT an excuse for someone to violate you. Sometimes it “is what it is” and the choices you make afterwards “… are what you make of it” but her working in that environment and dressing the way she does still doesn’t warrant rape and abuse. Idk. I wanted to listen with an open mind and without judgement but there were some things that just didn’t sit with me. Like her use of the N word.and the weirdness around her miscarriage. Not invalidating her experiences or dismissing her feelings in anyway, just didn’t really feel like this was entirely genuine at times. She clearly has a lot of trauma, and I do hope she can get help and have the kind of life she desires.
Omg, my thoughts exactly. I was listening to her and something just seems off. I have so many questions. She's given me want Sympathy vibes or for people to pity her. Like people said in the comments maybe this is just how she copes.
She said the "n-word" endearingly, as she called her pimping family her "folks." Like, that's her main man, her guy, that's her n****. It wasn't to disparage black people. It's like how some men call their woman "their main bitch," it's not necessarily derogatory (although it can be). It's slang. It's the vernacular of her folks, and she feels by her proximity to them, she's allowed to use the word. Obviously, she uses the word to her man, who allows it. But yes, the stuff at the end clearly sounds like things where she's rationalized her trauma, and that if she's just careful and intelligent she can avoid being raped or beaten or shot again. Which you and I know, isn't the case. Being a victim is often just being in the wrong place at the wrong time, it could happen to literally anyone. But she has to do it to survive because she's also convinced herself that "the life" is the only life she deserves.
I believe a lot of what she is saying is true, but I think she has a lot of trauma she has not dealt with head on yet. I think she skirted around talking about her childhood. And there’s a reason for that. Something from back then is extremely painful. This lifestyle is covering up emotional and mental pain. I think some people have a hard time believing her because she is all over the place emotionally in one interview (and it does NOT mean she’s bipolar). This is all trauma and her inability to deal with it currently. I wish her well.
Fr! So many weird things, “I’m 25 I just turned 24 at the beginning of the month” “I don’t do drugs I only smoke weed” “I sleep more than I work” “I work literally every day” “I had a great childhood, I was riding horses” “I was doing dates at 16” There’s something seriously off with this interview. I’m convinced that she is lying about everything. Nothing makes sense, so much inconsistency. I feel awful for her but something is seriously amiss here
Cheyenne's story of loosing her child was utterly devastating. No story, none i've ever heard, has hit my like this. I feel awful for this woman, she has an honourable positive outlook on many aspects of her life, but personally i see very little positive. Her whole narrative is awful.
She deserves more. She deserves sobriety. She deserves to keep the money she earns. She deserves a safe job. She owes herself a life with her children. She owes herself the work it takes to get out of the game and re-build a life with her children. I send her love, she deserves it.
unfortunately once a woman becomes a hoe it's nearly impossible to become a housewife. they become unable to bond with a man naturally and therefore will never be satisfied in a normal relationship
Then she needs to make better choices, giving up her kids, dating gang member??? What do you think she will get???? Duh!!! She is lucky she is breathing
Why all the sympathy? These are all choices she made for herself. It's amazing how much more latitude people will give women than men. If a man made all these terrible life choices, nobody would have any sympathy for him, I promise you.
I'm sorry for all the pain you have been through. Losing a child is life altering. You're a beautiful soul and I truly hope you can find peace within, and for, yourself 🖤
@@erikhesjedal3569 the baby (Esmeralda) died while she was still pregnant with her. Before Cheyanne was a sex worker. Before she did drugs. Great job being irrelevant on the internet, though 👍🏿
@@dilldowschwagginz2674 it’s easy to judge when you’ve never been in her shoes. Would we deal with that no absolutely not but you have no idea the life she has lived or why she has stayed in this.
No she's not 24 and going through all of this she's 24 and choosing that... There's a big difference don't feel sorry for somebody who chooses it. She admitted multiple times that she had other jobs and she'd rather rip the name tag off and go to the street she said that herself she is choosing it
@@nonyabusiness9582 you should care about the situation that put her in this. Once you're in, you hardly can get out bc there're so many lust there: money, drugs, fun,... but you can tell she's not happy about what she's doing. They usually say it's ok because they're in self-value-denial and they don't care anymore and it's heart-breaking.
You seem like a wonderful person, Cheyenne. You're tough and you've been through a lot, I'm sorry about that. I'm sure you'll be in your kids' lives one day, and they'll watch this interview and understand how much love you have for them. I wish you all the best!
Feel bad for that baby she’s carrying. People who lose custody of their children SHOULD NOT MAKE MORE BABIES. Watch the baby is going to lose it’s mother so sad 💔
She doesn't have to be honest with us, especially about losing her kids BUT I hope she is honest with herself, you cant heal from what you don't acknowledge.
My heart breaks for her. I hope she comes back to share more about her childhood and why she left home at 16. She was dealt a bad hand. Praying she finds healing ❤️🩹
Something is off with the death of her child and her kids being taken away. Her explanation of losing her child is a red flag. She is very vague with what happened. She must of done something that resulted in the child’s death which probably led to her losing her other children.
Cheyenne & friends, I lost my son and lost myself, for the past 12 years now. We can't keep covering up our complex traumas! Especially when you take back to back losses. We learn to disappear somewhere when the pain is just too much to bare. And we become too good at it escaping mentally or in a haze of drug induced delirium. But the sadness is always lingering there no matter how much we wish we could go back in time and make it all go away...no matter how long we ignore our grief, 1..2.. even 10 years from now , we can still be suffering like day one if we don't deal and heal. I'm sick of being sad. Are you?
People are sad, but it is not always because of the same situations, you have heard of the saying, you can’t repeatedly do the same things and expect different results, make the necessary changes. Good Luck!
@@lr84p38 @LR 84P I know that I am stuck in my ways after a dozen years of disappearing acts. I have as many bad habits to break as I have issues to face. I know it's not going to be easy and I'm terrified of what's on the other side. Deep in my heart I know the longest journey for me personally is believing I can get better... that I deserve to get better after checking out for so long.... and then summoning up the courage to take that first step.
@N P we're part of that club nobody wants to join.... Do they even have a term for parents who've lost kids... like a widow or widower? Because sometimes I feel like I need a disclosure stamped on my forehead that says "My baby died.... that's why I'm so messed up" And I feel like I'm the only one who remembers my son existed sometimes. I stopped reminding people of his birthday or the anniversary of his death eventually because I thought to myself " why should I remind them and make them sad too" so in comes the feeling of loneliness and feeling misunderstood. Damned for the rest of my life with this image drilled into my subconscious of my son when I found him. It creeps up in the most stressful moments at places like work , when there's nothing to remind me. But then there are tv shows/movies and interviews like this interview with Cheyenne where I don't see it coming.... startling reminders of my own loss, it's a sickening feeling. The sudden feeling of compassion and empathy I get for people who've lost a child can even be overwhelming for me, because I imagine their pain by reimagining my own, if that makes any sense. But I want to have more than just empathy. I want to be a success story...not company for their misery. I just have to do 3 things now. 1. Believe I can get better 2. Believe that it's ok to have a happy life without my son. 3. Take the first step towards therapy and reprocessing my worst memory. It's going to take a lot of commitment & bravery, but somehow I'm going to summon up the courage to face myself and fix myself and as much as I don't want to do it...I need professional help. I wish I still did social media so we could stay in touch and support each other. (I've kind of fallen off the face of the earth) Just know that we're in this together and moving forward doesn't mean we are moving forward without our babies. They are always in our hearts and they would want us to be happy. And I do believe one fine day, I will hold my son again when our spirits reunite. ♥️
@@pollyoutofpocket Tackle one bad habit at a time, remember it may not work the first time or the hundredth time, be it will work. Remember, don’t be hard on yourself, Good Luck.
I'm getting untreated bi-polar disorder. The ups and downs she speaks of are classic symptoms. I was abandoned by my mother also. You never really get over it. This beautiful girl was dealt a bad hand. Everyone handles trauma and abandonment differently.
She mentioned sometimes she’s depressed abt her lifestyle and how she feels on top of the world other times and the first thing that came to my mind was mania. I really hope she can eventually get the help she deserves one day
Psychological diagnosis is largely defined in order to prescribe billion dollar profit inducing pharmaceutical drugs. The reality is, that life is up and down, thats the reality, and some of us have more dramatic circumstances, and so we feel this more than others. And then we tend to create circumstances with more possibilities to feel this. Fyi - Bipolar diagnosis and drugs is extremely harmful to society😢 right now. Women like Cheyenne need guidance in processing their trauma, so they can learn how to ride the waves. The big problem now for the people with extra passion, is that the pharmaceutical industry is taking advantage of people with childhood trauma by medicating them with their drugs, making huge profits, and robbing their soul of the evolutionary work that needs to be done.
I'm no fan of big pharma but I'm not against medication. Some diseases and disorders require meds, including bipolar disorder. All the therapy in the world will not stop or control those ups and downs.
Damn, the part about her kids was tough to listen to. My father was never around when I was younger and became a part of my siblings and my life after we became adults. I can’t imagine not being in my kids’ lives, because I absolutely love everything about that sh*t. Life throws some serious curve balls and I hope she can reunite with her kids one day.
Mark - i know im late to comments, but one thing i know is the platform you give some peeps, you be changing there lives. Imagine being her, reading these comments, and realizing her reality is sooo different than how the rest of the world sees it. Its sad, but i hope everyone you interview reads the comments. You not only changed the lives of these people, but also mine. Came from the Johnny Chang interview. Much love and never stop what you doing ❤
I don’t understand how she had a perfect childhood and then had kids that she lost. I wish I knew more about her background and how it went from perfect to getting taken from her dad. I pray that she gets out of this life. It might be normal to her for now but it doesn’t have to be forever. We all have to decide what we will settle for. I wish her the best. ❤
I think there I'd more bad than she let on. She seems to make everything great snd good and absolutely nothing bad. Not even her pimp is a pimp. Denial. Sadly she doesn't realize that this perfect upbringing isn't jivimg with what we are looking at.
@@angeladelcid2589 yes it's denial! something she does not want to relive or let a soul know about. why would she be dating at 16 for this sort of activity?
I'm only seconds away from being homeless it's getting so hard out here to survive it only took acouple of events to happen and bam I have nothing I'm only 35yrs old grew up in poverty and thought I had it going for me I work and still can't keep up just gotta keep pushing I guess sending loving thoughts to all
Can't help it but cry with her. Beauty and brains she's got it all. Her positive perspective about life is a great lesson to me with stereotyping her because of job. What she has said about her experience is enough for me to forge a great life and great future for me, my family and everyone around me. Thanks Mark and Cheyenne wishing you all the very best with your Kids.
What Cheyenne said at the end about choice was very intelligent 👏🏼 she is profoundly deep and I don’t think many people in her life get to see that side of her, which is sad. I wish her all the very best 🙏🏼
When driving and you come to a "T" in the road.... the person in the car says "what you want is to the left" after driving for a bit you find yourself only getting further from your destination so that person gets out of the car. The next person gets in and says "if your destination ain't this direction then wtf you done burned all this gas for? Let's keep going" There's nothing wrong with turning around in pursuit of what you are trying to reach. Continuing to drive the wrong way to make the distance you've already driven the wrong way worth it is wild. The longer you drive this road, the longer the road to the 2 living children becomes. It doesn't get shorter just because you're committed to driving the other direction
She’s so lost. She’s in the worst of situations imaginable for a young woman. Totally trapped. She tries to put on a front, but the trauma in her life has ruined her.
3:45 AM on Vancouver Island. Hope you all have a good day. Can’t sleep ☹️ Always look forward to these videos when I’m trying to get back to sleep. Cheers xx
I'm from England, I'd love to be on Vancouver Island, it looks absolutely beautiful. Maybe one day I'll get my wish, Canada is a place I've always wanted to go to more than anywhere
It's so incredibly shortsighted and ham-fisted of RUclips to prevent you from monetizing your videos about sex workers. This is not objectification. You are giving a voice to people who most of society ignores and dismisses. I greatly respect your decision to keep posting these videos anyway, because they're important, and in spite of not recouping the costs of making them. Keep up the great work, Mark.
Couldn‘t have put it in better words
Nice to see you shilling on your alt account Mark.
@@jacobcook7 It's CLEARLY not an alt account and it wouldn't even make sense for Mark to do that anyway.
@@jacobcook7
and yet they let truly sexual things stay on the platform!
I don’t buy her story about having an amazing childhood….some parts are missing. How does a girl go from riding horses, going to church to “making my first date at 16”….having children taken from you by the time your 21. There’s more to her story
Yeah something seems off. I don't think she is being completely truthful about her childhood.
That is exactly what I said…she is lying to herself and lying to us
You must not know a lot of people. You can the best upbringing and still have the worst company. All it takes is for a man to prey on your insecurity and slowly work you over. You don’t have to be abused or neglected by your parents, you can simply be naive, insecure or desperate.
@@nycapplesJH maybe she not telling everything how dare invalid the story of someone you dont know. Her dad couldve lost his job then they moved to the hood then she got around the wrong crowd for all you know. how gonna assume she's not telling the truth
I buy her story. I just think she’s downplaying how bad the drugs were.
He's not a pimp, but I give him all my money and he gives me "some" back. Oh boy...
As much as she asks for tho
I was looking for this comment. I guess she seems a bit delusional. He's definitely a pimp
Yeah, living in denial 🤦🏼♀️
@@Wilda295 haha I read this at first as: LIVING and DENTAL. Haha
90-10 😆
Mark, i feel like you have come a long way with your interviews. Your ability to sit and listen, pause, let them speak when they need to and not rush to the next question or to fill the silence, i feel that is really powerful. I think silence allows us to process, allows them the space to feel the truth and the weight of what they just shared. Thank you for that
You should see him now. He has changed. Won’t shut up now and talks over people soooo much.
She has had to convince her self that this makes sense. That is both intriguing and heartbreaking
I grew up with Cheyenne in Washington she was one of my first good friends when I first moved to Washington from California, I’ve been watching Marks interviews for awhile now I was shocked to had come across this video she was one of my bestfriends. She’s always been a beautiful person inside and out, very kind and compassionate. Keep you’re head up love. I wish nothing but the best for you.
Love,
Kim
oh ok
aww she does seem like a good person but her pimp is brain washing her. she's beautiful
at the end of the day my daddy told me: A ho gon be a ho and bitches gon get fcked in they bumhole. just know what u doing it fo. I get my money from a ho and i dont need nobody to collect my dough cause im pretty pimpin jerome off figaro
@@jeromepowelltoecrum6044 🤣🤣
Crazy it's a small world. Hope she gets it together street life ain't no joke.
Mark, I’m fairly new to your channel and was upset to find out you’re getting demonetized by RUclips. These stories are raw and powerful. They are helping me find compassion for others and even myself. Thank you for this work. I hope things work out for you so you can continue doing what you love.
“For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth, and be turned aside to fables.”
2 Timothy 4:3-4
This woman is deluding herself in thinking she’s not being pimped.
People need to know the truth
Does he get demonetized on the videos where they're fully clothed too? If so, youtube is worse than i thought
Did his channel get demonetized as a whole or just some videos?
Her saying she’s in love with a guy who is a drug dealer and supports her prostituting herself and being pregnant again as if CPS isn’t going to also take that child away shows just how lost she truly is, praying for her.
Yeah I think we need a follow up to see how that worked out
She breaks my heart
you must understand the mindset of these people they believe there winning so is the housewife married to a lawyer @@amandabarnard5946
She's only interested in money. Not her baby. She admitted to this insane behavior.
as a mom, I appreciate these stories so much. You learn how parents can greatly affect children
for real... me too
I think this as well when I watch these videos
so true.
Mark said in a recent interview that he does these interviews, and keeps content accessible, as a service to parents, and as an honor to his late mother, who he says, loved him unconditionally which allowed him to follow his dreams.
You are correct about parents influencing their children's lives but on the same hand it comes down to having a role model with a positive influence around kids even if the parents are not the greatest parents in the world or even on the block.
I had two shitty parents and the adults on my mom and dad's side were terrible also except my grandma and grandpa on my mom's side who made sure that me and my brother didn't starve and had school clothes.
Growing up me and my brother were heading down a dark path after my dad disappeared from our lives when I was 8 years old. My mom married a great guy when I was in 8th grade but my stepdad had a hard time connecting with me and my brother and this new man in my life helped me settle down a little bit.
I got lucky and in my freshman year of high school found two teachers/coaches that I actually respected and that I didn't tell to go fuck themselves when I got into trouble which was quite often.
These /teachers/coaches and somewhat my stepdad all knew that I was a severe problem child and took an interest in my every day life and the teachers/coaches would tell me daily where I messed up and where I did good or when I was right in a conflict that would happen damn near daily in my life.
By my senior year in high school I was on the right path thanks to these teachers/coaches and my stepdad. I ended up going into the military which built onto the self discipline that the coaches instilled into me over a 3 to 4 year period. I got married after my 4 years in the military. I had 4 kids whom all have grown into fine men and women and after all of the turmoil in my life I can say that I did pretty good with my life but my brother not so much as my brother got into drugs and floating around to sleep on his friend's couches until he was forced into getting a job at age 28. My brother was electrocuted and died at age 38 and in his words he lived a life of agony.
Everyone can be a role model or positive influence on the upcoming generations IF they too have their heads screwed on straight but it is much easier to work with kids that had two good parents even though some kids/people with two great parents go down the wrong path of life
This girl is sooo detached from reality it’s sad. She’s beautiful and young and still has a chance to get out of this but her denial is keeping her back.
Sad, but she is so happy right? Getting out of the "Life" right? hmm
its not that easy to just "get out."
I m sorry if I implied it was. I wish there was something I could do to help anyone in these situations.
Did you watch the whole thing? She weeps as she talks about her children.
I agree…
If this beautiful girl thinks for one second her Pimp is putting money in a savings account for her, she is crazy
Dude is spending that money left and right and on his kids. If she doesn't understand that she is beyond dense.
He put it in a 401k for her
@@Lucky206life Lmfaoo
@@Capt.Thrust probably not even on his kids, more likely on himself, his car, clothes, lifestyle etc, so sad that she's so delusional.....
She isn't worried about saving. She only cares about her next fix...
My heart goes out to this young woman. It's not just her story, as it is a common narrative for young people in this lifestyle., but more so her tone, demeanor and even her posture shows the pain she's trying to deal with. So defeated so young. Her losses are too great for a person to handle on their own. Especially at her age. I know that she chose this life like many others have (including her mother), but hearing and seeing her tell her story is especially sad.
She seems like a lovely person who could have found her way out, but it sounds like she has severed all of her options for exit from this lifestyle. I’m so sad for her.
Agreed. However, Cheyenne appears to desire more for her life and that of her children. Positive energies to her.
@@dtschuor459it's never too late to do better
“Someone convinced me that it [prostitution] would be a good way to get my kids back.” Oh lord. 😢
It was a noble motivazione to start this otherwise socially despised job..
How in hell could anyone be convinced of that?
FFS
Tell the judge you're a hooker. He s sure to think you're a capable mother. No doubt about it. ?????
She was in such pain. Losing your children is a painful thing.
Sadly, like the rest of the courts, success in family courts depends on money. But of course, most of these girls never see a penny of what they earned, and she was hoodwinked into filling a pimps pockets.
sounds like something a pimp would say.
No don't hustle every day 7 days a week to pay for some man to take care of his kids and "folks", at least work as your own boss keeping saving all your money for yourself.
Idk how the fuck these dudes convince these girls to hand over all the money. Bro I’d maybe give them half saying that’s all. Nuts.
@@lindboknifeandtool without the pimps protection the client wouldnt even pay. Its an illegal/criminal business. Plus its not real work. She getting laid for 2hrs(most likely 30 mins) a day. Then she probably just gets high with the client.
I can tell you guys understand the situation these girls are in
@@claytonreynolds6241 I don’t think you do.
She’s doing this to get her son back? While giving all her money to this guy wanting to “see her folks get better”
Oh yeah, shit too hard for her, this is her only option... no. She has 0 self worth.
I think it’s more for her own protection from other pimps
To those questioning her childhood narrative.. Ya can’t give what ya don’t have. She’s likely sharing with us whatever version she’s capable of surviving in needing to believe.. We disassociate from experiences that exceed our coping skills.
Obviously she's lying
@@shable1436 you mean to tell me she didn't really have a pony and a white picket fence existence with the perfect wonderful Brady Bunch family? you mean to tell me she doesn't really love selling her body, and find it fun and exciting, and empowering? you mean to tell me it's her pimp, not just a close buddy she gives all of her money to because she wants to because he has a kid to take care of and she wants to be 2nd place to, and main provider for that kid that's not hers?
Yeah I agree, she is in major denial.
@@shable1436 we don't know that for sure. She said she was removed from her dad's custody which infers there were issues. Making assumptions is for morons.
Well said
This "I had a great childhood" theme comes up a lot with sex workers and then sometimes deeper in the interview you find out the not-so-great things. You can guess here what might have happened to her that she might be dissociated from. It's sad. She's lost so much so young and her goals are not clear even to her.
She may be one of the most sad and lost girls I've seen you interview. I hope she is ok and gets a more safe way of life.
Uhhnmmmmm…..
I feel awful for this girl. She wouldn't call him a pimp, she wouldn't call it regrets....we choose to see our lives in our ways. I hope she sees her value and gets her kids back. She deserves more than she allows herself.
He definitely is NOT!
She was a completely unfit mother , her children were adopted out. All she cares about is here looks. She cares nothing about her kids.
She's never getting them back, they're adopted by others. She has no other options for making the money she wants.
So sad she's so short sighted. Short term needs versus long term goals.
Her kids deserve better.
Her children have already been adopted, she’s not going to be getting them back.
I hate when kids are affected by their parents choices 😔 I hope they are doing ok.
The still have a chance if she stops and leaves that pimp and goes home to her mom and dad they will help her and save all her money from that ass
There seems to always be a moment in these when it clicks why they are where they are. She can’t get past losing her kids. The drugs, the sex, the money, the life…it’s all a cover up for the pain and the shame of losing her children 😭 praying she finds peace and life to the fullest.
YUP, I knew that as soon as she mentioned she lost her kids. The evil courts have been stealing 10's of MILLIONS of kids from mostly WHITE fathers in America for DECADES. This has destroyed men and America!
It seems like things fell apart earlier than that. She said she had a great childhood but she was selling herself by 16 and left her dad's home....wonder what was really happening....it's sad.
She was already in “the life,” and on track to loose her children before the car accident, that’s just the point when the system caught up with her.
@@susanlovesjava4961 yeah I picked that up as well. Said she had a wonderful childhood but left home at 16 for the streets.... Something seems off.
I see a CSA survivor written all over her. May she heal.
Damn, was sad the whole interview, but when she said she was having ANOTHER kid, I felt devastated for that child, the world, and despised her, she learned nothing at all.
yo your comment says more about you than it does about this person talking to Mark! I may agree with you but i also know that 75% of parents in the mainstream society are unfit to bring new life into this world.
I felt similar
@@adeosinowo3197
Before having a child, potential parents should pass a qualifying test--a rigourous one.
@@rosannavitale9922 FR. imagine the future of that baby :(
She’s a sad broken girl. Her thoughts are so twisted and delusional. I’m sure it’s based on a coping mechanism. She needs so much intensive therapy to really come to terms with her own life’s reality and her past and present decisions. She has a good heart but is so messed up emotionally. Unless someone intervenes and she wants to make changes within herself, she’ll just become another lost soul on this planet that no one will notice or care about. Mark, I hope you can at least try and get her help.
This is the first time I’m writing a comment based on all the interviews I’ve watched. Her potential is there, but it’s so hard to watch someone self destruct when your listening to this person go down the rabbit hole and not even know it their heading straight on to there own demise. Heart breaking
these girls who are controlled by pimps talk from the same script - the pimp probably has a few girls - she admits to working every day - name a job that is not slave labour where you work everyday - shes probably scared as i am sure her pimp/handler will watch this - and mark never challenges or pushes back - he probably has his safety to consider aswell
@@Capt.Thrust I could've missed something about the great childhood I know I heard that she explained how wonderful it was and how she loved her mother and father dearly but she did say it was her step mother her father remarried her biological mother was a drug addict? I'm not sure did she ever mention her again through the interview? I might have missed it ?
@@Capt.Thrust she doesnt know what a good childhood is just that it was a better time than the present.
I feel sorry for the baby she's about to have
I think she is very caught up in her own head in my opinion: until her looks fade she’ll feed on her ego and intentions, only to find herself lost wandering in her own mind, receiving carnal and worldly rewards (at the permission/ regulation of her pimp). Until she realizes that “key” is in plain sight as she wanders around in her head, this is her life-path she’s chosen (albeit one that is not socially accepted on the whole).
Mark can offer her locations to seek therapy but beyond that she has to have the intent, motivation, and maturity to see beyond her current aspirations in order to break or divert from her current lifestyle. I only hope the best for you, Cheyanne; ambitious soul.
Thank you Mark for giving a voice to people who usually are shunned and ignored by society. I specially love the videos about sex workers because not only do they talk about their lives, but I can also see their personalities, intelligence and even potential to do something else. Again, thank you a lot Mark.Also, I see a very smart person in Cheyenne, she is extremely genuine about her lifestyle and how addictive in can be.
When she said “this is what it is for me” then her pause it broke my heart. She has a good soul and wish her nothing but the best.
"this is your normal" "I'm a roller coaster" just heart breaking.
I had no idea your channel wasn't monetized. Your guests are extraordinary people with extraordinary stories. Its stories like these that help me through my horrific memeories as a young man surrounded by dysfunctional people.
How do you know this channel is not monetizing ?
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 podcast, something about violating ToS with youtube.
The extreme highs and lows she keeps describing is manic depression and she doesn’t even know it. Mental health is real. I hope she finds the help she needs.
Psychology and mental health is way more complex and needs professional intervention. Dangerous for you to assume and label people with a particular mental illness from one interview.
I was thinking the same. Whatever it may be, she has been through alot and having a mental health professional would probably help her so much.
Some people don't have the luxury to even entertain having mental health issues....you have to survive and that's that. Any mental health condition would be to your total detriment in a third world country - no career guaranteed
@@SRNF she's describing a not uncommon condition, and was not labeling her the way she wrote it
Um she was describing how she loves her job sometimes and hates it at other times. That is not a mental illness diagnosis. Get real
You deserve to be paid for this! The work your doing is important. It has helped me to be more compassionate, more understanding. I’m a ER/ ICU R.N. God bless and keep you!
She can’t get her children back if they’ve been adopted I wonder if she understands that she has no rights once she gave them up
Do you really think she gives a crap?
@@Yassin.ibn.farouk Exactly!
Her whole interview is so much double talk. She'd do anything to have her kids in her life. except for drugs, turning tricks, and being in love with a gang banger.
What saddens me is these women call their pimps their “boyfriend” and deny they are a pimp when they are taking a their money they are earning from sex. Regardless of how much he gives back to you, or how nice he acts, he’s still a pimp.
Everything is fine.
I wore that mask for a long time too.
PTSD is a normal reaction to a very abnormal situation.
this young woman's body language speaks volumes. even the still footage of her screams. God bless you mark for all you do, you're a good man Charlie Brown.
I feel bad for her and her kids. It’s trauma just passing itself from generation to generation in its purest form. & she’s pregnant again & so happy which makes me hurt for her future kid even more. This one is painful, she has so much potential to live the normal life she wants.
@@mihe6212 she needs to help herself
IT'S NOT TRAUMA DUMBASS SHE SAID SHE HAD A GOOD CHILDHOOD
@@mihe6212 watch Mark’s videos, when he personally talks about helping people on the street. Learn, it’s not that easy, if it was, no one would be on the street.
She isn’t ready for help. She’s one of those people you have to let wreck their own ship first ☹️
Dude she’s sober today.
Jack she’s literally crying how she wants her kids so much but not enough to change her ways ! 🤣 she’s may have kicked the pipe but she refuses to kick the fast life ! She’d rather suck d**k for a quick 1000 ima couple hours but at the cost of ruining her life and her kids life’s ! She won’t change because she sees nothing wrong with her actions ! Smh think with your head jack
@@jackstraw262no she’s not lmao she’s nodding off half the video, she just won’t admit she’s on drugs because she’s pregnant.
@@morgannburr7477 *TODAY*
Mark...I watch your videos and have such a range of emotions. I don't know how you have the emotional strength to do this without it negatively affecting your life. Maybe it does. You are a very good interviewer - compassionate, caring, trustworthy, supportive and non-judgmental of the people who pour out their lives to you. You are able to reach people in a way that many therapists and mental health professionals would envy. I'm sure that many of your subjects have a therapeutic experience during and after your sessions with them. I know you pay them for their time and provide financial support to a number of them but, my guess is that many walk away with much more than just the money. Thank you for bringing us these stories that most of us would never have the opportunity to experience.
Great shit
This is so sad. Her self worth is so low but she tries so hard to convince herself that it's not. She says she's her own boss but she has to give her hard earned money to a man and then tell him how much she thinks she deserves. GTFOH! Good example of living with trauma instead of addressing the trauma to heal with therapy. Best of luck to her. ❤️
I agree
She's getting in cars with strangers!
Yes , she is pregnant for a man who has another family and gives him all her money she goes with strangers to give a man who doesn’t value her . She is so lost saying that she does it in her own time lol no your pimp is your boss . Nobody wants their daughter to be a prostitute and it’s not safe . She’s talks about money all the time . Seems like she doesn’t care about being descent .
Right.. when she said she thrives off the compliments every day. The compliments from the men paying her for sex. It’s sad.
Yup truth so sad and naive
We are all voyeurs watching these videos, looking at people we either relate to or are bewildered by a life we can't comprehend. The people that are involved in these interviews come in freely to extend to the viewer their explanations as to why they choose the lifestyle they live. I congratulate their honesty.
It's all the same story. And this woman sounds as if she is too lazy to hold a normal job. So selling her ass is easier.
True❤
I think they get paid for the interviews
@@curiousme113 That they do, yet they give so much of themselves and often go through their trauma both past and present. Sure they get some money but they bare there soul's..
Romanticizing peoples dysfunctional lives is weird. I comprehend these stories completely and I am not bewildered. The stories are redundant so I no longer watch.
The fact that she said she loves this job because it brought her love and gave her an opportunity to be a mom again is so sad. She didn’t need this lifestyle to achieve true love and happiness.
16 yr olds don't leave an ideal perfect home life and move to another state to turn tricks... if their home life was perfect.
i think that’s called viewing things in hindsight ..
You're wrong
They most definitely do. Especially if you think the grass is greener on the other side
It’s possible..but no one’s life is “perfect”
Oh no it definitely happens all the time just because someone can have good parents and stability doesn't mean that's what a child wants lmao you've never seen someone with a good life who rebels because they're young?
I hope Cheyenne gets some intensive therapy. She has a lot of trauma to work through. She is so young. Sending hope.
unfortunately she won't
Like, do what???
Thank you Mark for this public service. I've been watching your videos for a long time. The numbers of these lives of people who live like this says a lot about the system we live in. It's sad and depressing. Most of the people you interview who work the street tell the same story over and over. They seem to grapple with coloring the danger and degradation in a positive light so they can accept it. This is horrifying that this woman has been shot twice and has lost her kids.This is important work that you do, helping to keep these visions that we try to avoid in our consciousness.
These videos highlight the US being a 3rd World country in some respects. U have no social welfare system worth the name and hence no safety net for e.g. schoolgirls who become pregnant. Cheyenne has no future with her pimp and needs to get out of crime (which sex work is in the US) and find a normal job. Porn acting would be better than what she currently does and would make a pimp completely superfluous. They're scum and get five years here in central Europe when caught. Most are, as any of their girls only need file an accusation against their pimp with the local cops.
Mark is on another level, shows respect to everyone, people should be more like this
He's not my pimp but I give him all my money
sad
denial
Denial
Denial.
Boyfriend pimping
I used be a psychiatrist at the women’s state prison here in Chino, CA. Most of my patients had children on the outside-some they had lost complete custody of bc the length of their sentence or they had lost them sometime along the treacherous path they had been not living-but surviving on before coming to prison. A few still had custody, their kids were with a family member and although we encouraged continuous visits (there is a playground in the visitation area), it was ultimately up to the family members to bring the kids which posed its own challenges. One day a patient of mine told me something that has long stayed w/ me. She hadn’t seen her son since he was a toddler-he had been adopted & she’d had no contact w/ him. He had recently turned 18 + not only found her but came to visit her. He said he didn’t care that she was behind bars, she would always be his mother. After that, I encouraged all of patients w/ children on the outside who they still had custody of to write to their children at least once a week, as painful as it was to be reminded of their reality. “Everyone mothers in their own way. Right now, this is your way to be a mother.” To those who had lost custody, I suggested starting a journal for their kids, writing to them daily in it-their hopes, their feelings, life lessons bc “some day, your child will find their way back to you bc we all have just one mother, and all of them make mistakes.” Cheyenne, your kids will find you when they can. (Ps. I’m also a reproductive psychiatrist (specialize in peripartum)-I’m here if you need me or can help connect you w/ another reproductive psychiatrist.
Man you have No Shame trying to find clients do you?
I love seeing this, bring more hope in humanity even the midst of our mistakes. I admire you.
@@cmontecino 🙏🏼
@@toriesepahmd6468 You are AMAZING!!! I love , love the way you responded. Thank you for all that you do for our people 🙏🏼
@@Ebojorquez66 it means a lot to read this. i thank you from the bottom of my heart. thank you. 💙
Respectfully she should see about getting tested for bipolar disorder, the way she talks about her back and forth with drugs and several day periods of feeling fantastic and then feeling horrible sounds very symptomatic of bipolar. Wish her the best 🥺
Definitely sounds that way.
Definitely 'sounds' like neither of you are in any way qualified to diagnose someone else of a mental illness. Have several seats and hush.
@@PrecociousFriand yikes looks like someone decided to take offense to a hypothesis for literally no reason
What are you? A psychiatrist? I doubt it.
nah, schizotypal mixed with DID 4 shore.
This might be the heaviest episode I've listened to.
Made me cry and I'm not someone who cries at all.
Her story is very patchy and delusional. I don't buy for a second that she is happy or that she has "the power" when it comes to the streets. She's been shot twice, she knows how dangerous it is out there.
I just hope one day the vale lifts for you love and you can see the truth.
Working a 9-5 might not be exciting but you won't end up dead.
Best of luck to you. 💗
Glossed over having herself declared independent from her father at age 16 after a "great" childhood. Glossed over having her children taken away from her due to being on drugs. Still talking about getting her children back even though they've been adopted. Glossed over her brother's death.
She has no reason to lie. Nothing to gain so I absolutely believe her. She didn't seem disingenuous to me but think what you want. But why would she lie? It is an addictive lifestyle. They do and can make serious money doing this. Very pretty girl. And if you don't think she gets compliments on her looks well think again.
@@MVP527 wut. The. Fuck?
And her story is anything but patchy and delusional. I don't understand people like you. Just because you couldn't be happy doesn't mean someone else couldn't.
@@MVP527 I don't recall saying she's lying and I never once mentioned her looks.
Just keep looking at the pretty girl, obviously all you're capable of.
Have a nice day.
Every single person like this was abused, neglected or somehow experienced great stress as a child. Sometimes pain is hard to talk about.
No! She's hooked on drugs and doing anything and everything to get her next fix.
It’s fascinating that trauma can make you believe you are on the right and non-destructive path, after getting shot on two separate occasions. I hope this girl finds her way out.
Mark your like a confessional seems like a lot of the people on your channel have been able to say thing’s out loud that they have never or almost never been able to say knowing there’s millions of people watching talk therapy truly helps just to say things out loud is healing much respect much love and light thank you
Disgusted with You Tube demonetizing these videos. As I've mentioned in a previous comment I have completely stopped going to strip clubs. I tried to go after watching your interviews with sex workers and every time I did go I was miserable. I no longer enjoyed it. The women are real people with real lives. I wish Cheyenne the best and that she stays safe. Sorry to hear she lost her kids. Heartbreaking story.
Why didn’t you ask her “how” she lost her kids???
Yeah I really wanted more background information about why she got emancipated when she was 16 (that is hard to do and courts don't do it if you have any kind of supportive parent in your life!) and how she lost her kids.
How did they get adopted out so quickly holes in story I would enjoy to hear more of the atory
Because of the drug use obviously.
@@alexistifani07 if there are drugs in a mother’s system it automatically triggers a Child Protective Services referral… they usually get put in the foster system immediately. Moms have a choice at that time to do rehab and skills classes instead of jail time. A lot of them go back to using as soon as they get out of that program.
He rarely asks follow up questions. I don’t think the subjects are paid, so maybe he doesn’t feel entitled to ask painful questions.
Her “laugh” makes me cry. She sounds so pained.. not that I blame her for feeling sad. I would too if I’d lost all my children.. I just wish she’d choose a different path.. a regular job would be a start but no.. she’s digging in deeper.😢
This one hit me for some reason. I feel incredibly sad for her, her children and people in their situation.
Mark, this is simply beautiful. You provide the opportunity to change the narrative.
The pain I saw in her eyes talking about her child(ren) was so deep.
This was powerful beyond words. Thank you!!!!!!
This is one of those interviews where you just want to scoop her up and place her in a safe space with her kids surrounded by love, family, and all the kindness she needs. What a sensitive soul. I hope, like all of us do, that she can find a more stable line of work and get her kids back.
She would just self sabotage and do same shit, she's a bad mother because she's so selfish
@@shable1436 Not my take chief. She is struggling. And her mother skills are not for me to judge. I just think she deserves a second chance. She's a kid.
She doesn’t want your help or a white knight. Use your big brain.
@@frankbrenner4852 lol mane stfu..this scallywag probably done have 3, 4, or 5 chances to get right....a hoe will be a hoe....and u probably the biggest trick
So right Love to put her in my guest house rent Free!!!! Yeah that would be nice***DAMM it would be very nice 🙂🙂🙂🙂
She is so lost, and In so much emotional pain. This lifestyle is helping her cope. It’s extremely sad when you’re alone. I hope she finds a way out of this and embraced losses and finds the strength to fight back for her kids .
there is a way out. quitting her pimp and taking whatever little money he gave her to go for therapy.
Two were adopted, that’s done. Unless you mean the one she’s 4 weeks pregnant with?
Cheyenne thank you so much for sharing your life story with all of us. A lot of people feel pretty brave behind there computers typing away, projecting and judging even when they say they’re not. I would bet most people wouldn’t be able to tell their own life story in such a raw environment. I know I wouldn’t. Well not the real truth. Possibly the version that’s easier to live with, to tell myself or easier to manage in an already tough world. So thank you for sharing your life story with all of us and allowing a glimpse into your life story, your version along with your hopes and dreams. 💜
Her kids will see this 1 day, hope they have the strength to get through this interview seeing why they didn’t have their biological parents around. Hope all the best for her going forward & knowing she can change her life into anything she wants but gotta put the work into the right place.
I'm not sure I'd forgive her to be honest. For her children to be adopted she would have been given multiple chances to sort her life out and prove she can be a mum. She said herself she makes more money in an hour than a week at a normal job, unfortunately for her she's addicted to this and it seems to mean more to her than anything else. She made all the personal choices to get to this point. When you become a mum you stop being the most important person, your kids are.
Thank you Mark for taking a hard one for the team with the demonetization. It's not fair to you, but we appreciate it very much.
Gimme a break. Dudes been demonitized since the beginning. He's just now bringing it up as an excuse to take all of his content behind a pay wall
@@Yassin.ibn.farouk and what’s wrong with wanting to be paid for it? he puts a lot of effort into these videos.
@@savorysoup i mean nothing wrong with it but his reasoning is bullcrap
@@savorysoup good mom this broad is dont you think?
@@Yassin.ibn.farouk lol the purpose is to spread awareness. good thing the spotlight ain’t on you
The best thing you could do for her is help her get connected back with her family. Sounds like her dad was really good to her and would help her get back on her feet in a drop of a dime.
she dont have family,,,they dont care about her
@@bloodmoney5881 Not surprised, she's a prostitute, who wants a prostitute in the family, I'm just being honest
@@bloodmoney5881 why do you say that?
@@JC111WPB because he has nothing better to say mmmm
@@JC111WPB probably her pimp or some guy who wants her isolated.
What a powerful story. So proud of her for sitting and telling her story. It reminds me of what I've been through in my life. Have you done a follow-up story with Cheyenne? I'd love to see how she is doing?
Hi Mark I’m a graduate student in a social work program. The work you do is phenomenal! I appreciate having access to your channel to witness your interviews, it’s something I know I’ll have to practice once I graduate and get licensed. Thanks for what you do!
Boyd..I have been a social worker for over 24 years and I can tell you that the profession will give you the insight to see many different types of people and situations in many ways..whatever you do..always try to listen to the person and what they are not saying..their actions will speak louder than their words..if you are able to master that skill you will impact people's lives even when you can't change their choices..welcome to a world of wonders and feel privileged that people will hopefully trust you enough to let you into their world..🙌🙌
@@Rosebud62492 thanks for sharing. I am also a 2nd year practicing social worker. Wish you all the best. I value our profession
@@addybabe3122 same to you and welcome to the profession
@@Rosebud62492 how would I get into this profession? I’d love to help people I come from a immigrant family I’m the second in my home to graduate I would love to find people an share my experiences an help them
@@reverse3324 you would need to have a minimum of a bachelor's degree in social work or a masters degree in social work. The profession is much more than just helping people.
I wish you’d asked more questions like ‘if she’d be happy to talk more about why her kids got taken away from her’ or ‘why she got taken away from her father’ or why her mother judges her when she did it herself… rather than focus on the job. Really the story here isn’t about the job it’s about what lead her to where she is now.
" I don't have a pimp, although when I do dates I give all my money to a guy who holds it and takes care of me." Sounds just like a pimp!
Because he loves her
I wonder if it’s the pump who got her pregnant and she said she is in love with?
I just want to comment here to tell her that I'm so sorry about her baby girl Esmerelda. Losing a baby is so hard. I am so very sorry. She is worth being a mom, she is worthy of love and respect. She is good enough. Sending hugs
I’m praying for her. She is delusional to the situation.
I'm glad I continued to listen to this story. It is an incredibly sad story, incredibly sad. Now I understand much more. I wish her peace and safety and health. God bless you, woman. May your suffering transform you into great strength and helpful change.
I can't believe so many of these women are not on birth control. I understand they are "not for everyone", especially the hormonal types, including me. I can't be on anything. but in this line of work? even a copper IUD should be the first expense.
I talked to an escort, the birth control makes her have cramps and it discomfort for her, same with IUD
@@randymarsh9488 believe me, I understand this, there also other reasons why I don't have it personally. but do you hear how many of these women have multiple children, usually by their pimps, who then go into foster care or distant family? just sounds like the cycle repeating. they go out everyday, seeing multiple clients a day or getting raped. aside from other methods, it's cramps vs basic precaution, responsibility, and honestly making their lives easier and safer. can't imagine they can continue working heavily pregnant, just after labor, with a small child or multiple of them.
@@Aveirah true, it never makes sense that they keep getting pregnant only to either lose the child to foster care or neglect the kid beciase they have to be in the streets to bring home the bread.
Here's what I've gathered by listening to these girls talk: they religiously wear rubbers with all the men they hook. That's practically a requirement of the trade to prevent them from getting STDs. They differentiate "hooker sex" (with rubber) from "pimp sex" (without rubber). All these pimps have sex with the girls they collect money from. Wearing/not wearing a rubber is how they differentiate working sex from voluntary emotional partner sex.
It's a problem with access and a problem with a lack of consequences. The government needs to instate a three strike rule. If you give birth and lose custody three times in a row, the government should come in and mandate a hysterectomy. These kind of women shouldnt be allowed to make unloved bastard after unloved bastard.
I don't understand how they - youtube - can demonitise this channel, which brings home the true emotional horror for all, and cognitive dissonance of those working in the sex industry? YET youtube will HAPPILY monetise channels of men, encouraging other men to go to countries (thailand, phillipines, etc) which have sex industries, and inform them how to solicit women there - women who will feel and hurt like the people you portray in such a raw manner. Thr hypocrisy is galling.
As someone who works in the CJS, I can say your work Mark is awesome, your subjects riveting and my heart humbled. It rips away the stereotypes, beliefs and debasement many men and women hold towards these women and men. It's painfully apparent that it's not an easy and if it becomes a choice, it's filled with trauma. Please continue to do your interviews. Give the silent sector of our society a voice and let youtube take a long, hard look at it unequal treatment towards the same sector of society
Mark you should interview the girls in Seattle on Aurora. Countless young girls out there on the daily. Wearing heels and lingerie in groups or by themselves in the hot sun, desperate to make their money. Doesn’t matter what time of day it is. It’s truly sad. As a former stripper I never would encourage anyone to be in this lifestyle. I never sold actually sex, but I sold the idea of it. Countless dangerous run in, and not sure if I would make it home safe at night. I feel for these girls, because I didn’t have the best upbringing or life. But I think someone who actually gives them that hope and helps them is very far and in between. Those pimps sell them a dream so they could use and abuse them. Continue what you’re doing Mark, you truly are a blessing.
Aurora is terrible. Id love for Mark to travel to Seattle and do some interviews.
@@jonistender5949 it really is. So many young girls and women being exploited.
My friends daughter got caught up in that scene and died in a parking lot on Aurora.
@@squirrelabouttown6022 I’m so sorry for your lost. That life can be very dangerous and unforgiving for some. I thank God I got out when I did, and I know if I go back it won’t end for me well. Which is why I tried to steer other girls away from that lifestyle and to purse more constructive thing so.
Yes!!! Come to the PNW!
That last bit was kind of alarming for me. The advice was solid up until she was talking about she’d “never blame someone else” and “it was my choice to walk around naked….” I really hope she knows, and understands that dressing sexy, or being drunk is NOT an excuse for someone to violate you. Sometimes it “is what it is” and the choices you make afterwards “… are what you make of it” but her working in that environment and dressing the way she does still doesn’t warrant rape and abuse.
Idk. I wanted to listen with an open mind and without judgement but there were some things that just didn’t sit with me. Like her use of the N word.and the weirdness around her miscarriage. Not invalidating her experiences or dismissing her feelings in anyway, just didn’t really feel like this was entirely genuine at times. She clearly has a lot of trauma, and I do hope she can get help and have the kind of life she desires.
I believe that is how she copes!
Omg, my thoughts exactly. I was listening to her and something just seems off. I have so many questions. She's given me want Sympathy vibes or for people to pity her. Like people said in the comments maybe this is just how she copes.
She said the "n-word" endearingly, as she called her pimping family her "folks." Like, that's her main man, her guy, that's her n****. It wasn't to disparage black people. It's like how some men call their woman "their main bitch," it's not necessarily derogatory (although it can be). It's slang. It's the vernacular of her folks, and she feels by her proximity to them, she's allowed to use the word. Obviously, she uses the word to her man, who allows it.
But yes, the stuff at the end clearly sounds like things where she's rationalized her trauma, and that if she's just careful and intelligent she can avoid being raped or beaten or shot again. Which you and I know, isn't the case. Being a victim is often just being in the wrong place at the wrong time, it could happen to literally anyone. But she has to do it to survive because she's also convinced herself that "the life" is the only life she deserves.
I believe a lot of what she is saying is true, but I think she has a lot of trauma she has not dealt with head on yet. I think she skirted around talking about her childhood. And there’s a reason for that. Something from back then is extremely painful.
This lifestyle is covering up emotional and mental pain.
I think some people have a hard time believing her because she is all over the place emotionally in one interview (and it does NOT mean she’s bipolar). This is all trauma and her inability to deal with it currently. I wish her well.
Fr! So many weird things, “I’m 25 I just turned 24 at the beginning of the month”
“I don’t do drugs I only smoke weed”
“I sleep more than I work” “I work literally every day”
“I had a great childhood, I was riding horses” “I was doing dates at 16”
There’s something seriously off with this interview. I’m convinced that she is lying about everything. Nothing makes sense, so much inconsistency. I feel awful for her but something is seriously amiss here
"I wouldn't call him a pimp". Also, "he was a gang banger, still a gang banger"
🙃
😅
They love the bad boys.. But its no bueno in the long run.. Dude is using her until she can't no more
Because by terms , yes he isn’t a pimp. And doesn’t call himself a pimp
@@sadgirlhour walks like a pimp, talks like a pimp... Must be a duck 🦆
She gives him all her money, and he gives her back what she pleads for. He's a pimp.
Cheyenne's story of loosing her child was utterly devastating. No story, none i've ever heard, has hit my like this.
I feel awful for this woman, she has an honourable positive outlook on many aspects of her life, but personally i see very little positive. Her whole narrative is awful.
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She's very well spoken and young. It's NEVER to late. Change is gross but it's worth it. ✨️ she needs love. That's what she needs.
Well spoken doesn't mean she more self esteem than some who isn't. It's a lot more complex than being young and well spoken.
Change isn't gross, hard absolutely, but the complete opposite of GROSS. Change is usually a beautiful thing.
Change is not gross, staying in your trauma is!
gross?!
She is in the grip of so much denial, I don't know how you would even begin to break through that. And now another baby? It hurts your heart.
She deserves more. She deserves sobriety. She deserves to keep the money she earns. She deserves a safe job. She owes herself a life with her children. She owes herself the work it takes to get out of the game and re-build a life with her children. I send her love, she deserves it.
unfortunately once a woman becomes a hoe it's nearly impossible to become a housewife. they become unable to bond with a man naturally and therefore will never be satisfied in a normal relationship
Then she needs to make better choices, giving up her kids, dating gang member??? What do you think she will get???? Duh!!! She is lucky she is breathing
Sad but true ^
Why all the sympathy? These are all choices she made for herself. It's amazing how much more latitude people will give women than men. If a man made all these terrible life choices, nobody would have any sympathy for him, I promise you.
She doesn’t deserve to keep her money cause she tried to do it the easy way and that’s not right
She shouldnt feel the need to hand over her money to her "boyfriend". If hes her bodyguard than he should have a set rate. Thats my opinion.
I'm sorry for all the pain you have been through. Losing a child is life altering. You're a beautiful soul and I truly hope you can find peace within, and for, yourself 🖤
She didnt lose it. She gave it up. For free. (for once). Big difference.
@@erikhesjedal3569 the baby (Esmeralda) died while she was still pregnant with her. Before Cheyanne was a sex worker. Before she did drugs. Great job being irrelevant on the internet, though 👍🏿
@@amber76OH And it was HER f*cking fault her baby died!
Lol she needs another mouthful 💦 she'll be okay.
@@erikhesjedal3569 💯
She’s 24 and going through all of this.
She's capable of doing other work. She's just stuck because she believes her own BS
She’s beautiful
@@dilldowschwagginz2674 it’s easy to judge when you’ve never been in her shoes. Would we deal with that no absolutely not but you have no idea the life she has lived or why she has stayed in this.
No she's not 24 and going through all of this she's 24 and choosing that... There's a big difference don't feel sorry for somebody who chooses it. She admitted multiple times that she had other jobs and she'd rather rip the name tag off and go to the street she said that herself she is choosing it
@@nonyabusiness9582 you should care about the situation that put her in this. Once you're in, you hardly can get out bc there're so many lust there: money, drugs, fun,... but you can tell she's not happy about what she's doing. They usually say it's ok because they're in self-value-denial and they don't care anymore and it's heart-breaking.
You seem like a wonderful person, Cheyenne. You're tough and you've been through a lot, I'm sorry about that. I'm sure you'll be in your kids' lives one day, and they'll watch this interview and understand how much love you have for them. I wish you all the best!
Leave ur job.....don't waste it
Ur life & time.......✌️🇵🇭❤️
"wonderful" people put their children first and they stop doing drugs and alcohol.
she sounds pretty lost though..
@@paulgentile1024 Got that right
Be realistic. Being real helps more than sugar coding.
This poor woman is completely lost. 😢
I'm so happy the most replayed part of the video is just her smiling about her loved one. That's precious :)
Feel bad for that baby she’s carrying. People who lose custody of their children SHOULD NOT MAKE MORE BABIES. Watch the baby is going to lose it’s mother so sad 💔
I agree 100 percent!! They should not make them get fixed
She doesn't have to be honest with us, especially about losing her kids BUT I hope she is honest with herself, you cant heal from what you don't acknowledge.
The concept of "Asking" someone else For my own Money I earned 😒
She said the dude isn’t a pimp, but she described him as a pimp
Helllllllll no!
My heart breaks for her. I hope she comes back to share more about her childhood and why she left home at 16. She was dealt a bad hand. Praying she finds healing ❤️🩹
My heart breaks for you, Cheyenne. You deserve happiness and a good life.
She’s making it sound like it’s a dream for the camera but all she is doing is working for the man
Literally!
That is the dream for some.
Yes
For real. You can see the sadness in her eyes and voice, even her posture, despite what she’s saying.
That's what happens when young women are raised without there fathers.
Something is off with the death of her child and her kids being taken away. Her explanation of losing her child is a red flag. She is very vague with what happened. She must of done something that resulted in the child’s death which probably led to her losing her other children.
Cheyenne & friends,
I lost my son and lost myself, for the past 12 years now. We can't keep covering up our complex traumas! Especially when you take back to back losses. We learn to disappear somewhere when the pain is just too much to bare.
And we become too good at it escaping mentally or in a haze of drug induced delirium.
But the sadness is always lingering there no matter how much we wish we could go back in time and make it all go away...no matter how long we ignore our grief, 1..2.. even 10 years from now , we can still be suffering like day one if we don't deal and heal.
I'm sick of being sad.
Are you?
People are sad, but it is not always because of the same situations, you have heard of the saying, you can’t repeatedly do the same things and expect different results, make the necessary changes. Good Luck!
@@lr84p38 @LR 84P I know that I am stuck in my ways after a dozen years of disappearing acts. I have as many bad habits to break as I have issues to face. I know it's not going to be easy and I'm terrified of what's on the other side. Deep in my heart I know the longest journey for me personally is believing I can get better... that I deserve to get better after checking out for so long.... and then summoning up the courage to take that first step.
@N P we're part of that club nobody wants to join....
Do they even have a term for parents who've lost kids... like a widow or widower? Because sometimes I feel like I need a disclosure stamped on my forehead that says "My baby died.... that's why I'm so messed up"
And I feel like I'm the only one who remembers my son existed sometimes. I stopped reminding people of his birthday or the anniversary of his death eventually because I thought to myself " why should I remind them and make them sad too" so in comes the feeling of loneliness and feeling misunderstood. Damned for the rest of my life with this image drilled into my subconscious of my son when I found him. It creeps up in the most stressful moments at places like work , when there's nothing to remind me. But then there are tv shows/movies and interviews like this interview with Cheyenne where I don't see it coming.... startling reminders of my own loss, it's a sickening feeling. The sudden feeling of compassion and empathy I get for people who've lost a child can even be overwhelming for me, because I imagine their pain by reimagining my own, if that makes any sense.
But I want to have more than just empathy. I want to be a success story...not company for their misery.
I just have to do 3 things now.
1. Believe I can get better
2. Believe that it's ok to have a happy life without my son.
3. Take the first step towards therapy and reprocessing my worst memory.
It's going to take a lot of commitment & bravery, but somehow I'm going to summon up the courage to face myself and fix myself and as much as I don't want to do it...I need professional help.
I wish I still did social media so we could stay in touch and support each other. (I've kind of fallen off the face of the earth)
Just know that we're in this together and moving forward doesn't mean we are moving forward without our babies. They are always in our hearts and they would want us to be happy. And I do believe one fine day, I will hold my son again when our spirits reunite. ♥️
@@pollyoutofpocket Tackle one bad habit at a time, remember it may not work the first time or the hundredth time, be it will work. Remember, don’t be hard on yourself, Good Luck.
Great comment. Relatable wow. Hope ur ok and try to have one good day at a time
Thnx
I'm getting untreated bi-polar disorder. The ups and downs she speaks of are classic symptoms. I was abandoned by my mother also. You never really get over it. This beautiful girl was dealt a bad hand. Everyone handles trauma and abandonment differently.
She mentioned sometimes she’s depressed abt her lifestyle and how she feels on top of the world other times and the first thing that came to my mind was mania. I really hope she can eventually get the help she deserves one day
Exactly what I was thinking when she was talking about how good she feels right now. It’s so sad
@@psychlosis555 mania! Yes! That’s exactly what it sounds like to me too, but I’m no dr, just my opinion
Psychological diagnosis is largely defined in order to prescribe billion dollar profit inducing pharmaceutical drugs. The reality is, that life is up and down, thats the reality, and some of us have more dramatic circumstances, and so we feel this more than others. And then we tend to create circumstances with more possibilities to feel this.
Fyi - Bipolar diagnosis and drugs is extremely harmful to society😢 right now. Women like Cheyenne need guidance in processing their trauma, so they can learn how to ride the waves. The big problem now for the people with extra passion, is that the pharmaceutical industry is taking advantage of people with childhood trauma by medicating them with their drugs, making huge profits, and robbing their soul of the evolutionary work that needs to be done.
I'm no fan of big pharma but I'm not against medication. Some diseases and disorders require meds, including bipolar disorder. All the therapy in the world will not stop or control those ups and downs.
Damn, the part about her kids was tough to listen to. My father was never around when I was younger and became a part of my siblings and my life after we became adults. I can’t imagine not being in my kids’ lives, because I absolutely love everything about that sh*t. Life throws some serious curve balls and I hope she can reunite with her kids one day.
Mark - i know im late to comments, but one thing i know is the platform you give some peeps, you be changing there lives. Imagine being her, reading these comments, and realizing her reality is sooo different than how the rest of the world sees it. Its sad, but i hope everyone you interview reads the comments. You not only changed the lives of these people, but also mine. Came from the Johnny Chang interview. Much love and never stop what you doing ❤
I don’t understand how she had a perfect childhood and then had kids that she lost. I wish I knew more about her background and how it went from perfect to getting taken from her dad. I pray that she gets out of this life. It might be normal to her for now but it doesn’t have to be forever. We all have to decide what we will settle for. I wish her the best. ❤
drugs, the lifestyle, bring homeless
I think there I'd more bad than she let on. She seems to make everything great snd good and absolutely nothing bad. Not even her pimp is a pimp. Denial. Sadly she doesn't realize that this perfect upbringing isn't jivimg with what we are looking at.
If I had to bet it would be because of bad guys and drugs
@@angeladelcid2589 yes it's denial! something she does not want to relive or let a soul know about. why would she be dating at 16 for this sort of activity?
I'm only seconds away from being homeless it's getting so hard out here to survive it only took acouple of events to happen and bam I have nothing I'm only 35yrs old grew up in poverty and thought I had it going for me I work and still can't keep up just gotta keep pushing I guess sending loving thoughts to all
Keep your head up & the smoke from over your eyes. A storm doesn't last forever. Good luck to u
Tough times don't last but tough people do
Can't help it but cry with her. Beauty and brains she's got it all. Her positive perspective about life is a great lesson to me with stereotyping her because of job. What she has said about her experience is enough for me to forge a great life and great future for me, my family and everyone around me. Thanks Mark and Cheyenne wishing you all the very best with your Kids.
Dam beautiful, Smart & could literally do anything she wanted, A 304 on fig ain’t it I promise that💯
What Cheyenne said at the end about choice was very intelligent 👏🏼 she is profoundly deep and I don’t think many people in her life get to see that side of her, which is sad. I wish her all the very best 🙏🏼
If her childhood was so picture perfect…why did she emancipate at 16 and move away? I think there is more to her childhood than she is letting on
Wow Sherlock that's some intuitive detective work there
@@WaitWhatsMyName why even comment, seriously
@@nycapplesJH the real question is why did you comment something so obvious
@@WaitWhatsMyName a lot of people here didn’t think it was…so I was starting a conversation
i mean she said her mom was on drugs so that obviously will effect you mentally even if your life is “picture perfect”
When driving and you come to a "T" in the road.... the person in the car says "what you want is to the left" after driving for a bit you find yourself only getting further from your destination so that person gets out of the car. The next person gets in and says "if your destination ain't this direction then wtf you done burned all this gas for? Let's keep going"
There's nothing wrong with turning around in pursuit of what you are trying to reach. Continuing to drive the wrong way to make the distance you've already driven the wrong way worth it is wild. The longer you drive this road, the longer the road to the 2 living children becomes. It doesn't get shorter just because you're committed to driving the other direction
I don’t see how she could be “addicted to the money” when she doesn’t get to keep her money.
She’s lying to herself
Delusional. Conditioned by her pimp
@@LinneaSanchez and us.
@@mark3p word
Right, not to mention there are legitimate ways of making money.
She’s so lost. She’s in the worst of situations imaginable for a young woman. Totally trapped. She tries to put on a front, but the trauma in her life has ruined her.
3:45 AM on Vancouver Island. Hope you all have a good day. Can’t sleep ☹️ Always look forward to these videos when I’m trying to get back to sleep. Cheers xx
8.47pm in Melbourne
Good Morning, or should I say Goodnight since your going to sleep, from Brooklyn NY
I'm from England, I'd love to be on Vancouver Island, it looks absolutely beautiful. Maybe one day I'll get my wish, Canada is a place I've always wanted to go to more than anywhere
@@myeyeswentdeaf6213 I want to explore Brooklyn. One day I’ll visit ny… have a good day
@@blackjackmaestro6505 my parents are from Scarborough… love England, haven’t been back for 7 years. Missing York, whitbey and Scarborough xx