Ex Spa Worker interview-Tiye
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2020
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Tiye, a former spa worker from North Carolina.
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Most of these stories have one thing in common. The parents not doing their job and it pisses me off.
Miduv82 your right, I want to say all it takes is strong positive roll models to show the children the way but maybe its not that simple but still someone is gonna meet the shit end of my stick if they ever try to get my kids to do anything!
Right!!
@NVSx16 your just smarter than everyone. Im 31 with no kids and Im starting to feel like I missed the train.
In most situations and circumstances in life, theres always more than one element that affect the end results. What do you tell the parents that did their best, was there all way, and their kids still took the wrong path? What do you say to the kids whose parents was never the best, struggled to grow up, but they made it and are great people in society?
Factssssssss
These men she speaks of are doctors, teachers , husbands , fathers. Crazy world
george evans why did those men pay to cheat and pay to do lewd acts?.... and why don’t u mind ur business? All good questions
@george evans I used to have a horrible drug habit and dealt with sexual abuse and trama during my upbringing, I've been clean for a few years now. Done a lot of things I'm not proud of but I'm not going to pretend like it never happened, made me the person I am today. I dont feed into drama so I'm not going to keep responding to negativity but this is my 1st and last comment have a nice night I got my kids and family to tend to goodnight:)
george evans no it’s really not ur business ur just bored and feel like judging someone negatively. What she does has no affect on ur life in any way at all. But ur nosey and bored so here u are.
george evans ur not perfect and I bet u do a lot of fucked up shit in ur life. And in gods eyes there’s no greater sin. So I bet you’ll be a lot happier if u mind ur business and not judge ppl.
george evans have you owned your own shit?😂😂
When she broke down speaking about how she missed her mom and seeing her father treating the other kids better than she was treated, it broke my heart. I could barely watch it. She hid her sadness pretty well up until that point. We never know how badly ppl are hurting. The loss of the close family unit is such a tragedy. God bless this woman.
Delusional. This is her own version of the story. No one else is here to give there own version.
Most of it sounds like a load of bullshit to avoid taking accountability for shity lifestyle and poor decisions.
"The loss of the family unit" wtf you mean? Didn't you hear her saying her father was abusive?
@@mrD66M did you fail reading comprehension in school?
@@seanoregan998 what you said does not fit the context of the video. If you're talking about something else then say so instead of insulting ppl
I agree with you. The mother probably had no means to support her children so she let them go with their father. It was probably the worst day of her whole life. The loss of a family unit that they all hoped for crushed by the father making thoughtless choices 😢
I’m 45 years old now. Between this channel, dating some very damaged women, and certain shows on Netflix, etc…I have a whole new awareness of how truly screwed up and awful human beings can be to each other and, more specifically, to children. Very grateful for the childhood I had and the ability to provide for my children.
I'm the same age as yourself, but where you messing up is trying to date and have relationships with these women. You use and pay these women that's what they are about. Don't become a SIMP and have feelings. They for fun
❤ All we can do as humans is keep pushing forward and also enjoy life
She needed to talk about this badly.. I'm crying
I feel u...
Do you feel this way?
You ok baby girl let it out ❤️
She’s been turned out.
No one listens
I feel like fathers don't realise the impact their infidelity has on their daughters perception on men and relationships. It creates SUCH DEEP TRUST ISSUES.
what about mothers'?
They don't care.
Some dont some do...The funny part is most guys i grew up with who used to play women ALL had daughters, hell my cousin had 4 and his oldest was just like he was but with males.Hes a grandfather now.I have a daughter ,it CERTAINLY keeps you in check.Shes a teen and watches me like a HAWK..LOL
Very true
Hear , hear
"...I'm used to just turning off the switch... So I just do it..."
Really felt that
This is sad. She said she was upset that her boyfriend wanted other prostitutes and not her but at the same time she was sleeping with other women’s husbands. It’s a vicious cycle. What’s even worse is how she was treated growing up though. We can’t be shocked that people do certain things when their parents put them through hell. I pray for her healing, salvation and success. I’m so glad she is transitioning into a healthier phase of life 💕
It’s so crazy how normal she appears on the outside and then she starts talking about her trauma😨 people really do be going through some shit
Same reason why we should approach each other with care
Looks are deceiving. Learned that a long time ago.
Hi same name
This woman is perfectly normal... The people paying for these things are not.
I'm a guy, and even I don't understand why so many men pay for sex... never mind all that weird stuff.
My ex-girlfriend was like this. Beautiful and nice on the outside/Brokenness and trauma on the inside.
A lot of people smile and laugh while talking about actual traumatic events. It’s often an unconscious defense mechanism.
Facts
That’s true I do it all the time when discussing traumatic events
Bull shit that's called being a pussy trying to hide from the truth
@@chrisg2662 i dont fully disagree but the way you said it is harsh ptsd is real
This is extremely sad to hear a person just talk so nonchalantly about selling themselves for such debauchery.
She's great in everyway! Through her own personality, sense of humor, and resilience she'll finally break the cycle of family dysfunctional and abuse. lots of luck to her!
*dysfunction
@@calisongbird Thanks for the correction :)
Great in everyway?! You idolize hoes?
It was absolute pleasure seeing and listening to Tiye. She has such positive energy to her that it is almost magnetic. Im rally glad that she is not traumatized but rather empowered by her experience in those SPAs.
You barely had to ask her questions she does a great job at telling her story
Self snitching
Probably is just reciting it at this point
She needs to write a book
She definitely could write a book!
Go away
Parents, PLEASE stop comparing your kids to other kids. It seems harmless at first, but it really messes with your kid. When she was talking about her father wishing she was like them, that broke my heart.
My did it all the fucking time. "Your cousin is getting straight As. If you would try better you'd get that too"
My cousin had parents who paid for tutors, took the time to go to counselors and ask what classes their son could take and paid attention when their son was depressed.
@@ninjablack4347 Same here. I am strugling with anxiety disorder since primary school, been through some bad decissions and I blamed myself for it, just to realise some 20 years later, where my problems are rooted.
@@Tibchy91 I gave GAD, which my family decided the best way to treat was by ignoring I had a problem. Fun times
@@ninjablack4347 I feel you. I'm still going to therapies every 2-3 weeks, so... sweaty palms n feet, gagging... all that stuff still pop up at times, so yeah. I can relate
my mom does that
I love how she talks about this so much. Nailed it.
Crazy that she’s been through everything she’s been through, yet still has that great personality and charisma about her! I hope she’s doing okay
yeah she's masking her feelings of pain to move forward.
@@panzerdriver I disagree with your take. They all are into it, money is the primary driving force. If they weren't into it or sold on doing what they were doing they would be out of business. She wasn't into after her daughter was born and she left the business. Delusions of telepathy? I don't see that in her.
she's dead inside
On camera…. This chick is crazy trust me.
@@haczabim EXACTLY!!!!
It hit me when she started crying for her mom. God forgive me for taking mine for granted
La Chatelaine things can always turn around, that’s beautiful
Boyyyyyyyy😂😂😂😂 @zert teyyy
I lost my mom when I was 12 and I am now 29 and I still cry for my mom at times😕 it’s the worst growing up without a mom especially bc I have 3 daughters and wish she was here to see them grow😭😭 it’s very hard !!
@@alegrasneed5163 same but i am 25 now. The worse for me is the feeling I never really knew her.
I only started appreciating my mum when I became a mum. But she already had dementia by that time.
Childhood abuse is common denominator with all these people.
And your ignorance is what makes this world burn
DANK MEEE how is that ignorant that’s a fact?
@@dankmeee2730 what
@@dankmeee2730 You're right. Its not always an abusive childhood. That's like stereotyping. It is extremely likely. But I know people, including myself that got mixed up in some real bad shit, and had a NORMAL childhood. For some people you either had an outstanding childhood or you didn't have one at all... Its kinda sad that no matter what people find ways to generalize
Emotional abuse also!
I think her childhood killed her faith in loyalty and that's the big "switch" that got her to be okay with all of that, and accepting it as normal. (People cheating, her boyfriend's cheating and she still calls him a good guy) and off course having such low standards for the way people and life treat her, and being ok with that. You deserve so much more Tiye, you too deserve to be treated as a princess
These stories on soft white underbelly be having me crying because I can relate to some of them had a wild and crazy childhood a lot of the things I went thru I swept it under the rug because it was so hard for me to talk about it without being judged and now I’m 41 I sought out for help through a therapist to help me get through the most toughest areas in my life it’s definitely not easy opening up to a stranger I sought help before it was too late kudos to tiye for coming out and talking about her past it’s never easy
It broke my heart when she said she wanted her mom. I worked in a crisis clinic and we had a 12 yr old who was suicidal with this exact same story and she said she would rather go to a foster home than with her dad. Same story! Is so sad. You wish you just take them home! 💔
Ms Cabrera Yeah, that broke me down (into tears).
I know smh
Well exactly 2 min before she said she wanted her mom, she said her dad used to ask her did she wanna go back to Durham with her mom. So....
Watching these interviews makes me realize how evil the world is
I swear 💯💯💯
The world isn’t evil, people are
I lived with a lot of people with very similar backgrounds. Everything is so real.
There are more good people than bad.
World is good. For the love of money some people do evil things. Demons.
An amazing interview, I hope she succeeds in life. Such a wonderful soul, she's been through a lot and yet turned out so beautiful.
Very brave and strong minded to share her story like this. Struggles teach you life lessons and I give a lot of respect to people that are vulnerable like this. Having a voice matters and I am happy she uses hers from going through what she has been through. We need more videos like this to bring awareness on these topics. You definitely can learn from listening to this channel. Very proud of what she has overcome and thank you for sharing.
To a lot of y’all who keeps saying she’s a liar, doing this for attention, etc. Please leave your comments to yourself and leave with your close minded self. That’s my sister and I know the pain she went through. When she talked about her baby sister, that was me. Everything she went through with our father, I went through the same thing too and so did my oldest sister and brother. We all did differently on survival mode, but I understand every single thing and y’all should try too, but I guess some of y’all were so privileged, you can’t see the struggles some people go through.
You and your siblings are SURVIVORS of Narcissistic Abuse! I am glad that all of you survived.
None of my uploads are complete until some commenter says its a lie. There have been so many stories I know to be completely truthful that get comments accusing my interviewee of lying. I believe it’s just the nature of social media and anonymous commenting. Jealously, racism and hate are alive and well, at least on RUclips.
Americans have been programmed to think that ALL Sex Workers are dysfunctional and are victims of the sex industry.
Some women enjoy sex work and have empowered themselves through it.
The truth is sex work is mostly illegal because the men do not want women to be empowered without them...
You’re making it up too
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly Very much alive on RUclips, very.
The fact that she didn’t blame her “step-siblings” becuase they didn’t know better. She so strong.
@UMN Mode why does she has to be ashamed of being a sex worker ? desperate times causes desperate measures and just because she’s not miserable about having to what to do doesn’t make her not strong.
@@lashayhunt3574 she also has a std
@Cosmicty Randolph because desperate times cause for desperate measures. no one WANTS to be there. but mostly FORCED to. wether it’s money problems or they have a pimp.
@JESUS IS LORD333.AMEN. JESUS333.AMEN. you have to stop using sins to shame people. for you will be judged the same way you judge people and all sins are equal. she’s doing no worse than you do everyday.
@JESUS IS LORD333.AMEN. JESUS333.AMEN. i never said she should be proud of it i said stop shaming her. stop using the bible to benefit your point.
I don't know how to feel disturbed, sad, sickening, or just plain compassion. She is so broken. All I know is I'm going to hug my daughter a little closer tonight! 😭❤️😢
Amen!💯
Your daughter ain't her.shes beautiful!not saying your daughter isn't but everyone is different
She's not broken she's involved with consent. She likes it.
yes she's lost her value and her dignity
fuck outta here . u just mad coz she's strong and got all her money and got out of it
She is so charismatic....i loved her honesty...she dint advice other young girls to do what she is doing...she is very articulate in processing the difference between normal and traumatic situation...you brave girl..i wish you best of luck
The current boyfriend needs to go. Anyone that talks down to you about your past doesn’t have your best in mind. Find someone that will respect your past struggles and how far you’ve come and. Not barked you for them
Right i went through that bring you up then put you down and use your words and past against you.
Yeah if it's that bad to him, he should just leave her be. Why beat down on someone?
@Gus Bus exactly! His thirsty ass
Sadly, women like this pass up on good men who will treat them right way too often because it's not normal for them.
They find good men to be weird.
Charlie henderson a womans past has everything to do with her future he has every right to bring up past on a beta male would not bring that up
Before any man could hurt a female their daddy be the main one that done all the damage to them
So true
Real shit
💯💯
True! That’s why it’s more important to watch who we are raised by or with before people on the streets
Period. 😔👏
She is a beautiful lady who has been through some major trauma. I hope she finds happiness and heals 💗
Great spirit. I can relate more than most people would know and I think her honesty allows a lot of us commenting to feel that.
I can relate to her... I worked in a club...got addicted to coke... Sex... Money.. Dominatrix work... Omg
I got out of it at the beginning of the pandemic after my sugar daddy paid for me to go to nursing school... I graduated ..now I'm out the club for good and i am now a full time nurse!! My calling... It is hope.. Trust me!! From the club to scrubs!!
God bless!!!! Be safe out there!
You finished nursing school in three months? 🤔
Me 2...college gave me wings...I left stripping, abusers & now nursing is my jam. I have done the therapeutic work to give me understanding. I hope she takes classes & becomes free too. All the glam I had stripping is still mine now with the ocean & so much peace. I hope she joins us.
That was quick
@@blaze031gshine probably aged care. 3 months here in Australia. Maybe same in US?
I'm glad she got out and is not on drugs. She seems ok compared to alot of people in these interviews. Take care of you girl ox You are worth alot.
I know I hope well for her
Agree. She needs to dump that loser bf too
So did amanda and she totally fell off. I hope this girl gets help quickly
Love how unfiltered and raw and real this channel is. No posturing, no attempt to make reality seem more palatable or Twitter-mob friendly, just straight life.
This reminds me of struggles that my dad went through, but at the end a stronger better person comes out
The part when she said and cried about "she just wanted her mom". Some kids are really struggling. Some kids cries about a ps5 or material things but some kids cries about the absence of love or a parent
Efucational. I figured just happy endings via skilled hands.
Maybe some kids want material things because of the absence of love of a parent.
Some people shouldn't bother bearing children at all. Like if you gonna physically your child or emotionally abuse her, taking her to meet another woman and kiss that lady in front of your child, that's fked up. That dad was crazy as hell, prolly sadistic too.
Yes, but the kid that wants PS5 maybe doesn't know what suffering is, mom and dad are there and the kid has no idea...so unless the kid is exposed and introduced to emotional abuse or material crisis how the hell would he know to say..oh I don't need anything I'll just cherish minimalism
Sometimes you wish you never knew your parents..
I thought they meant a real damn SPA wth 🤦🏾♀️
This is soft underbelly IT GETS REAL! 😂😂😂
Me too
Me too! 😳😳😳
I'm still.waiting tense what spa means
they finessed me with the title ngl this shit was real tho
Wow this one has really struck something in me. Tiye is such an amazing, strong, clever woman with so much self awareness. To go through that childhood, work in that industry and come out so determined and level headed is incredible. Tiye you will go far with your outlook and you will teach your daughter to do the same.
Best wishes to Tiye! Thank you for having this interview
People should stop having kids period, have a kid when you emotionally and financially ready.
THIS!!!!!
I think you're in the wrong channel, bud. This is not Disney. This is real world TV.
Amen. The world is so clueless especially in cultures like the Phillipines. Story after story of the men making babies and then deserting the woman and the kids they make. The culture has to be reprogrammed that this mindset wrong.
@@PuffOfSmoke nope I am not, this happens in all countries. Drugs and people having unwanted babies is a common problem. I have watched a lot of stories in this channel many of the ladies have kids. I know that this one in particular has never mentioned one.
@@sibahlemvuyana9089 I'm not sure if you're still clueless or dumb... People here in this channel represents the ills of society. Like how the creator of this channel says, it shows the destructive side of human beings. If these people live a Disney kind of existence, then they wouldn't be in channel, would they? You can't be so condescending and say, 'They should have kids until their financially and ready...' Duhhhhh....
Girl I was dating told me she had sex with her psychologist when she was in her teens. If I ever had kids I hope I can be a good father so they can avoid predators like that.
That’s severe man, a therapist is a highly trusted person. Abusing that is beyond psychotic
sasholsuma are you okay
That psychologist should lose his license!
girl i was dating told me she had sex with the military priest while she worked at the building as a cleaner. she said she led him on and loved it. this was after we started dating and she didn't work there no more.
@sasholsuma Probably not only did he not pay her, but her parents paid HIM a lot.
The people who get on this stage and tell their story, their truth, are so brave
I had a student that shared many of these same experiences. I always tried to provide her some sense of stability and provide positive encouragement and outlook.
The only reason her dad took her with him was to hurt her mom. This happens all the time and it makes my blood boil.
A classic narcissist
Nah...guys do this to maintain the lie that they're not cheating because you have to be really low to take your child to your side bitches house. My own father did it and swore me to secrecy.
Ummph.... Indeed, totally agree.
It's all about "power and domination", something that society or Mom or Dad doesn't make they're children aware of.
@@radmilamilinkov oh, that yeah. I was talking about after they split up and he moved to a different city with her.
@@radmilamilinkov I’m sorry you had to go through that.
you never know what people go through man, if I saw this women I would’ve never guessed her life
You would have thought she's from a privileged family and went to the best of schools.
Never no thats why we cant judge. There people who i thought that where happy and next i hear the kill themsleves. My friend of the counselor and he tells me some super crazy stories and he even wondered if you people can be healed people asking crazy lies a lot of it starts from childhood
THATS WHY U NEVER EVER EVER EVER JUDGE CUZ YOU REALLY DON’T KNOW.
Dont mention it , it is impossible to accept the truth that life had installed in many of us!But by Gods grace! we are victors
Yeah, just by looking at her I would just assume she was a college girl with great parents.
I relate to her story. I'm glad she's in a different chapter. She is so bright and smart. I wish her nothing but success.
Loved this interview, she has such a great energy about her. Many blessings for the future.
When she cries about wanting her Mom... Every mom watching this had a moment.
I wanted to hug her 😥
As a mama my heart breaks. I would give her a hug🙁
Yes... sure did... 🤭😢
💔💔💔
I'm crying. It makes me so sad. 😥
Hope she's ok mentally. She's obviously very charming.
She seems like she is on the verge of cray-cray.
Probably not but it looks like she talks about it enough that it comes out fluently for her. But since she’s young money is the only thing she likes but she has to live with this for the rest of her life while the money is only temporary
She obviously functions better than 99% of the people I encounter on a daily basis.
@@pheemer Yeah, a being in true nirvana right there, giving and taking, it's all good for her.
Her story is CRAZY & she’s a good story teller
She knew exactly what she was doing. Trying to blame it on the drugs.
Really articulate and Psychologically perceptive, a new take on sex work. Great ideas like shutting off, new name,new person etc
I just do not understand what she gains by doing the vid?
Do they give you 50 grand or something?
Exactly she's trying to sound so perfect
She never let herself be a victim, even though circumstances totally made her one. She's a truly beautiful person. She's got some serious strength.
A victim in what sense..cause it sounded like she willingly did all those things and not forced..
She has antisocial personality disorder. As charismatic as she is, she's probably a pretty bad person.
She likes what she does... :)))
She never let herself “be a victim” but decided infact to work for a FEMALE pimp.. you feminazis have to stop pulling shit out of your ass and deeming everybody with this “amazing strength”. I have been binge watching Soft White Underbelly for the past two days and this girl was one of the one’s that showed the LEAST amount of strength in comparison to some of the other actual warriors on the channel. Yall are some
pansies and it shows stfu.
If you muted the video, you'd think she was talking about something wholesome and happy, wtf
It's common, people are numb
@@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et then don't. Why watch someone's story to judge the validity of it? You weren't there and you do not know her coping mechanisms. Gross af to judge someone you don't even know.
Trauma doesn't have a look....
@@khoneyy4637 yeah they’re just saying how it’s crazy how people can hide it
Dissociation. I’m sure she still doesn’t understand the level of trauma she’s experienced 😔
I'm in awe of how bright and bubbly Tiye is, considering everything she's been through. To deal with all those years of trauma phsychologically and emotionally is an incredible feat. I hope her sense of self worth continues to grow.
She chose to be a prostitute.
This was the first episode I watched from this channel during Covid.
If you read the comments sweety, please buy a good camera/phone, a ring light, and a computer. Start a RUclips channel just talking about yourself and your life. You’re beautiful, charismatic, and intelligent. I promise you it will Blow up and you won’t have to work menial jobs ever again. I’ll be your first subscriber.
I will sub too! She spoke volumes in this one interview...not pausing for a breath. She’s a strong young lady.
I was thinking this the whole time
Or only fans
AND follow your passions
Great advice and encouragement.
Adults need to know what "children" see and hear transcends into their adult lives! Stop destroying our children's mental capacity to function as normal human being.
That's why children grow up suicidal homicidal and everything else. If you look at most people in prison and serial killers a lot of it reverted back to their childhood. It's really sad really really sad
Indeed....truly insightful.
Hurt people, hurt hurt..
our children ? you told me you were on the pill !!!
You tell 'em!
Such a great example of how important it is for parents to be there for their children wake up mom and dad somebody needs u
I really hope she heals from all these experiences and helps other people. I hope she raises a daughter to know better.
To the young lady featured in this video
I am a 60 year old man
You’re story is very inspiring
The end listening to you speak saying you will not allow anyone to talk down to you made me so proud of you
I have two daughters and I would never want them to take any bullshit off of anyone for any reason
You’re still young
You have the rest of your life to define yourself
Wish you all the best
So many of these girls have such similar backgrounds/experiences that I’ve had (father /mental health). It’s so heartbreaking to watch. I hope you post an update on her
love you
🌽 🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽
Cervix
Vaginal fluid s
Reproductive organs
Tiye, your insight and honesty was courageous and so inspiring, I pray that you continue to heal.
Wow. That is an incredible story. How this occupation gave her a voice, and taught her to speak up for herself. I am incredibly happy that she made it through, and is stronger today because of it.
She should go into social services herself since she'll be able to easily identify young women dealing with trauma and sexual abuse.
I didn’t even think of that but you’re 100% right.
Yesss so true! I don’t know the purpose of this interview in terms of if they provide counseling or a life coach but hopefully an angel is watching and can help. I wish I had the financial means bc I would sponsor her in a heart beat. Tyler Perry and Oprah are you watching???
Amen.
But women like her are too addicted to money to give up the lifestyle like that. She said herself she has 2 cars, and I guess she probably supports a loser of a boyfriend who still criticises her for her past. It would be to hard for someone like her to go to a career that don't make as much money.
@@eliezeretecap that's an interesting perspective. I guess if she's happy there's nothing we could do to change it.
I noticed he was mostly listening to her. Hardly any interruptions
she pretty and her story just seems unbelieveable for the way she looks...she looks like a girl i went to school with..simple and quite
Because she wasn’t drunk or tweaking like most are. She just spoke non stop while following the timeline of her life without pausing for him to need to ask for details.
Yeah this guy is good. I guess subscribing and word of mouth is how we get real journalism out.
@@veronicaglouster1713 what’s wrong with you?
@@waynewayne8419 like you seems to know..whats wrong with me...
Wow, this was an amazing interview; very fascinating. I love how blunt, honest & nonchalant she was describing everything (including the sex details) in-depth.
What a badass. I hope she’s happy, being respected and remembering how smart she is. Probably a great mom
That was like a TED talk on sex work.
Lol
Bingo
Lemons into lemonade? Twenty four, crazy attractive, drug free, employed, understands money management, not letting her past ruin her future. Great job.
Yes it is all about your mind if doing this is keeping her mind free if it is supporting her and allowing her to do the things that she needs to do in her life to better herself providing opportunity for herself she wasn't dealt much of a choice
Just needs better folks
Is she biracial ?
Boston Brills she said she’s black
Don't believe everything you hear.
I'm born and raised in Durham NC and live in Charlotte NC. This story hits home. Beautiful woman. I hope her life is on the right track.
Amazing video. These videos tell a different story about life. Thank you for all you do
All who say her stories are outlandish have to live under a rock. There is a whole sexual world out there full of your darkest and wildest dreams that people indulge in wholeheartedly.
Exactly. Wake up people.
You better know it! 👏👏👏
NO. People aren’t living under a rock, they are making choices to live their best life, away from darkness. It’s the rest of you who are living under rocks.
In this case Ria, I’d rather live under a rock.
@@scottfulps2065 some of us don't want to know but it's thrown into our path. Fathers and husbands that are selfish
shes is SO beautiful and well articulate. praying she will stay strong, for LIFE. such an angel.
That's kinda...if she was a white girl, would you ever use the word "articulate"? Nope...
@@aaronlynch4397 your last name is lynch and you're the only one saying racist shit and accusations. You are the racist. You played yourself.
@@aaronlynch4397 good job deleting your other racist comments. Let it be known that you're a racist. At least you know it's wrong, though.
@@HH-gm9nz i don’t think he can control his last name bud
@@aaronlynch4397 i think she was referring to the fact that being well articulate is somewhat rare on the channel
She seems like a good person with a bright soul.
I admire Tiye, she keeps it real. Someone I would love to be friends with. I hope that wherever she is now, she is happy and doing well.
This interview had me engaged the whole time. She is intelligent and can articulate her story very well.
This is the first one that I ever watched to the end
She's ok. I wouldn't say award winning.
Because she doesn’t use drugs
She’s beautiful, smart, and strong. She’s very admirable. She left the system and didn’t let it ruin her completely. I’m so glad for her, I wish the best for her and her daughter.
lol you said smart. She almost got raped at the job then went back for more. Cant make this up
@@liggmabawls5634 She has an ATM...
@@morganzoeclanthem2847 what?
@@liggmabawls5634 She said she has an ATM between...
We don't know how ruined she is from these 10 minutes. Most damage comes years later. Will manifest in so many different ways. For all we know she may start doing heavy drugs or start drinking. We just can't tell. How do I know? I've met many women like that in my life.
There’s something oddly wholesome about her energy.
Everything this young lady said was spot on ! Im a recovering heroin addict and retired dancer . Ive danced sober and using. Two very diffrent worlds . I kept it professional inside the club only ..but even still without the right mind set itll break you down ! I've had to take time off from dancing to get my head right every few years. It could definitely make you jaded in life. However, I've seen many dancers and escorts make a great life for themselves in and out of the game. However, many don't make it out physically or mentally all together..... it can dark real fast .... once your in deep or lines a crossed ... theirs usually no getting out .
This girl is extremely wise. Im happy she's out and made a better life for herself and her child. I wish her all the best ! For 24 she's so mature and smart . She should be proud of how far she's come. I agree sex work can be empowering and teach you a lot ...if you don't let it break you. Some of my best years was when I was dancing . Some of my worse as well. Its all what you make and how you let it affect you. I woukd say doing it sober and treating it as a real job kept me a lot safer than when I was sloppy on drugs. I have friends many great money as escorts in Vegas. They seen to be living their best life . Personally it would break me. My drug addiction took me to lows Im ashamed of . My mind set is not strong enough. But ...mad respect to her. She got in and out out all in one piece.
If your current boyfriend told you that "you're less of a woman because of what you did", he should be your current ex.
I agree. Everyone has a value given to them from God. Nothing you can do to take that away
That's the real reason why many women have a "pimp" - most guys can't stomach that, can't tolerate such a profession for their partner. She needs an ex-pimp that turned his life around, that understands everyone has a past and isn't threatened by her past, present, or potential. She has a head on her shoulders, and a hole in her heart
She farted on dudes !!! Lmao
you should want to be with someone who will tell you the truth
@@doomguy9049 Her being less of a woman because of what she did is not the truth though
Judging her???? WHAT ABOUT THESE MEN THAT WERE WITH HER??? PROFESSIONALS!!! Doctors, teachers, MARRIED MEN, ECT. Yeah, these are the PEOPLE we look up to!! SHM. How about judging them????
PREACH IT!!!!!
Best comment! #FACTS
I feel disgusting by her clientele and pity for her. She is so low that she accepts this.
Who’s judging her? I wouldn’t..shoot she’s been through a lot but still seem so nice and down to earth ❤️
Right
Praying for this young woman and her child.🙏🏼🙏🏼
What a bright soul. Felt her shining through the tv. Wow.
This is one of your best interviews. This girl is a good communicator and young enough to still have a zest for life. Good luck to her. Hopefully she will stay out of demeaning relationships and jobs for the rest of her life.
She so good she did her own interview .. I’ve never seen someone command his interviews
When she cries for her mother 😥 Nobody replaces your mama 💔
I cried. For that single moment, she was a vulnerable innocent child crying out for her mother’s warmth/safety..💔
Her mother wasn't shit.
and nobody can give you one. I always wanted a mother, until being 30 years I wanted a mom, just that experience of being loved and cared for, I so wanted that my whole life. I remember as a teenager being jealous at other girls just for having parents. Its the trauma we take with us. When we know we are not wanted and never been loved. I think it destroys the humanity in us, our souls are crying for the rest of our life's and we will never look at people the same. I know I wont. I saw the worse in people since childhood.
@@maketheworldabetterplace2292 I'm virtually hugging you know.
This breaks my heart.
@@maketheworldabetterplace2292
I agree 100% Having a horrible mother is devastating. Mine was mentally ill and a narcissist; it takes a very long time and a lot of work to get over it. I wouldnt wish that situation on anyone.
Fascinating listening wishing much healing and success in your path.
I really enjoyed her story, it’s sad and dark but she makes it a bit cheerful with her bubbly personality
Sidebar: her saying that the boyfriend she has now makes comments about her being less of a woman for working there in the past? Girl, get rid of him. They will definitely creep back up in the future
she is less of a woman..
He dumb for wifing her if he has that opinion of her its kinda ass backwards on his behalf and dumb on her behalf to take that shit as well
Shes no less of a woman but her experiences as a sex worker are going to clash with "square" men who have never lived anything close to that lifestyle.
@@j.rlouis3756 women will have an opinion of her too, not just men. Women DO bash other women ya know. Just tired of the context that only men will speak negatively on her.
@@swappedoutZ71 Women do do that but that wouldnt be a relevant reply to the original comment made.
Women don’t really realize the power they have. It’s sad that most of us end up enduring years of abuse before we figure out our own worth.
What’s also sad is women pimping out other women, like the owner of La Fleur did to her
CMercyy right. Hurt people will ultimately hurt other people.
speak for yourself. MOST of us do not put up with years of abuse.
j v oh yes because children and teens being abused and trafficked are weak for not standing up for themselves
alexangel that’s not always true. lots of ppl who suffer abuse end up making sure that others don’t suffer the same fate. they either break the cycle or continue it
This woman seems so sweet. She deserved better.
Beautiful young lady who did what she had to do when she had to do it. People who come from broken homes deal with their trauma differently, and until you walk in their shoes people should not pass judgment 😢
She got me when she was crying about wanting her mom after the divorce. Got me right in the GUT ... and then for dad to treat her that way and favor the other woman’s kids.
I Went through the same…
@African Stories don't ask for anyone's age on the Internet, that's creepy af
It hit me hard, as well. You could tell it's still very fresh in her mind.
Everyone has a sad story. Does that make it ok for everyone to turn to a life of sin?
That treatment by the dad, it's a terrible experience.
She's still strong and joyful with spirit, stay strong girl.
She looks so pretty yet the words that come off her lips are dark. I hope she finds peace and love.
Her eyes hide more than she says💚
Your soooo right. Sad. I guess my pissy bankrupted, lol I'm so funny. He brought it 10 yrs ago.
Demonic spirit :/
Yup, hope so
@@Bebedollie agree
Great honest interview! Bravo!
I like testimonios like this. She rise above it all. Continue doing what you need for you and your child
$300 for a mouth fart?!!! man have i been getting ripped off.
Lol
AND A SIDE OF HERPES.
I’m hollering
with pink eye.
😂😂😂😂😂
Damn she was laughing but the stuff she was saying was sad and a bit disturbing bless her 😕
I know right
TO OS for real lol
sheli Symonè laughing is a coping mechanism for a lot of people i do that too
Have you ever heard of the saying "laugh to keep from crying". Many of the people interviewed have the same reaction..They say such heart breaking things, to chuckle behind it. Def a coping mechanism, with a lot of pain underneath. :(
I understand it’s a coping mechanism trust me I do and Ive watched several of his interviews that he’s posted where I’ve seen that same behavior , what I am specifically referring to is when she was describing her sex work and what some weird stuff guys requested , I said “ bless her “ wishing her well that she can find true happiness and healing even though she’s had a terrible / abusive past
One of the best interviews
Wow, I thought I was gonna hate this chick, but I ended up loving her. Want to hear more from her if possible. Hope she finds her way. She sounds very bright and full of great potential…and her life made her strong.
Why did you think you were gonna hate her???
I am So impressed she chose 2 leave the money behind & live a legit life. That Does take a strong mind & will. Who knows what her future holds. It's like the world is wide open 2 her.👌👍😊
definitely wide open ;),
Technically it was open from the get go for her :P
Her life was legit before.
@@ak47ava 😂