Chinese mother becomes food blogger to raise 2 disabled sons

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    A 60-year-old woman has become an online celebrity for her cooking tutorial videos. Lu Aimei has been the sole carer of her two disabled sons for more than 20 years. Her eldest and second sons both suffer from a progressive nervous system disease known as Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) that has paralysed them since adolescence. After allegedly being subjected to domestic violence at the hands of her husband for years, Lu moved out with her sons in 2012 to start a new life.
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Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @sakshipatel2039
    @sakshipatel2039 2 года назад +26600

    "I brought these boys into the world so I must treat them well" is the most beautiful thing I've heard said in a while

    • @kyleroberts1276
      @kyleroberts1276 2 года назад +1454

      Meanwhile, some parents believe their children owe them for bringing them into this world.

    • @Gaia_Seraphina
      @Gaia_Seraphina 2 года назад +491

      @@kyleroberts1276
      Well ... parents should care for their children when they are little and children should care for their parents when they are old.

    • @katherinel8970
      @katherinel8970 2 года назад +161

      I agree!! It was a nice change to see her say that, it’s so common in asian culture to think otherwise

    • @ashleyburbank3129
      @ashleyburbank3129 2 года назад +69

      @sly dankass just different cultures around food. Do you boil lobsters alive? They recently found out they do feel it... yet they still prepare them this way. Just saying.

    • @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
      @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516 2 года назад +5

      @@kyleroberts1276 For real

  • @BlackKiryuu
    @BlackKiryuu Год назад +20676

    "Many strangers have helped us. They are kinder than my own relatives."
    This really hits because it is true most of the time.

    • @a1marine105
      @a1marine105 Год назад +721

      Hurts even more when you remember the fact your reletives is more likely to cause your downfall

    • @iamshadowbanned699
      @iamshadowbanned699 Год назад +420

      "Best friends are God's way of apologising for terrible relatives."

    • @rootsychick2151
      @rootsychick2151 Год назад +254

      I've learned there's a big difference in blood relatives and Family. It was a very harsh lesson.

    • @Methylated_
      @Methylated_ Год назад +8

      Yeah

    • @_gotchamocha
      @_gotchamocha Год назад +3

      Yes

  • @monko4738
    @monko4738 Год назад +5542

    The fact that even her sons who are paralyzed are able to help her out other than just being fed is amazing. I'm glad they can all work together so well.

    • @manghariz2211
      @manghariz2211 Год назад +220

      Yeah Iam surprised by that as well,
      Even paralyzed to the extent of only able moving lips and a couple of fingers,
      They are able to direct and edit videos,
      Which imo is pretty impressive.

  • @shinyhoarder
    @shinyhoarder Год назад +3905

    You can clearly see the love in her eyes when she feeds them. This is the kind of internet celebrity who deserves their fame and recognition.

  • @pikl3pookie414
    @pikl3pookie414 Год назад +8013

    She’s 60, takes care of her sons and is able lift her sons up? She’s a superhero

    • @tipsyGnostalgics
      @tipsyGnostalgics Год назад +94

      she really is :)

    • @elz7769
      @elz7769 Год назад +36

      She's truly a superhero ...

    • @hardivora1468
      @hardivora1468 Год назад +172

      Having go through domestic violence, with 2 disabled children. How does she even cope with these.. Stay strong and healthy great mom. May luck be with her always and wish her children can get better 👍

    • @sawad3285
      @sawad3285 Год назад +8

      Every mom is a superhero💜

    • @pikl3pookie414
      @pikl3pookie414 Год назад +36

      @@sawad3285 heh, that’s really funny because I know a few of moms who are absolutely disgusting people

  • @sakuraiswatchingyou
    @sakuraiswatchingyou 2 года назад +7364

    The fact that she’s 60 years old and still is taking care of her sons, truly made my day.

    • @seechao
      @seechao 2 года назад +80

      Really? Thats a happy thing to you? Idk i think they should have far better health care so that all of them can live together with assistance for the mom so she and her sons can focus on each other. Medical devices like wheelchair ramps, bathtub lifts etc.

    • @sakuraiswatchingyou
      @sakuraiswatchingyou 2 года назад +204

      @@seechao true, I’m just pretty happy that they are still a loving family, and still taking care of each other. Unlike some other people.

    • @sakuraiswatchingyou
      @sakuraiswatchingyou 2 года назад +70

      @@seechao I’m a bit focused on the taking care of each other. I do wish them the best for their health.

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад +1

      Blm is anti Asian

    • @sakuraiswatchingyou
      @sakuraiswatchingyou 2 года назад +6

      @@readmychanneldescription6663 what?-

  • @thea_therian
    @thea_therian Год назад +759

    She's an amazing mother but i feel like the fact that she's a SURVIVOR of domestic abuse and has such a positive view of her children and genuinely loves them and does everything in her power to take care of them? Literally one of a kind woman

    • @sussurro.7
      @sussurro.7 29 дней назад +14

      She deserves all the love in the world

    • @SoliseLeili
      @SoliseLeili 18 дней назад +5

      She deserves the whole world to herself ❤❤

  • @cmja09
    @cmja09 Год назад +1070

    this made my tear up, I''m approaching my 30s and still planning not to have children, because I don't trust myself to love them unconditionally. She's a great mother.

    • @antoniakoseva6399
      @antoniakoseva6399 Год назад +46

      Don't worry abou that. You will love them. Especially a woman starts loving ber child the moment she knows it is growing inside of her. I had the same fear but now I am pregnant and already love, protect and take care of my little treasure. 😊

    • @haodite_
      @haodite_ Год назад +129

      You don't need to have children because society says so 🥰 You are allowed to lead your life the way you want.

    • @CarolaTesla
      @CarolaTesla Год назад +100

      @@antoniakoseva6399 i understand your point but your experience is not the same for everyone, someone who doesnt feel is ready to have children shouldn't have them, motherhood is way more complex than people like to to admit. I have a huge respect for women who love their children and love being a mom, but not every woman is ready or would like to do that job

    • @antoniakoseva6399
      @antoniakoseva6399 Год назад +6

      @@CarolaTesla Usually women who are not ready, don't do it. That's why I said it.

    • @Emilia-em5cz
      @Emilia-em5cz Год назад +48

      @@antoniakoseva6399 Unfortunately, it's not that simple and natural. Lots of women don't feel the love they were hoping for after having a baby. This later leads to frustration and regret over life. They are raising these children more of a duty. Not every woman who wants to have children will find herself in motherhood. That's why it's important for women who are not sure about it to be even more careful. That's okay, everyone is different after all.

  • @EveryDayMan808
    @EveryDayMan808 Год назад +5685

    "Their dream is to see the sea someday." I've definitely taken my life for granted.

    • @aidanjanemcintosh6919
      @aidanjanemcintosh6919 Год назад +282

      you and every single one of us my friend, you and every single one of us...

    • @21sausage9
      @21sausage9 Год назад +212

      @@aidanjanemcintosh6919 I felt the same. Lets all appreciate how amazing our lives are and start to spread more love and positivity to everyone around us. We need more love and respect than hatred in todays world!

    • @megan893
      @megan893 Год назад +68

      Yeah, that part really got me in the heart. I can drive myself and my children there in 35 minutes

    • @ForeverGone1
      @ForeverGone1 Год назад +40

      Reminds me of Eren and Armin

    • @sian2439
      @sian2439 Год назад +17

      i hope they get that dream

  • @A129WOLFY
    @A129WOLFY 2 года назад +4717

    what a blessing she is, not just for her sons but to the world. Such pure kindness and compassion

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад +1

      Blm is anti asian

    • @alif4927
      @alif4927 2 года назад +6

      @@readmychanneldescription6663 ALM (ALL LIVE MATERS)

    • @Lilhajxjk274
      @Lilhajxjk274 2 года назад +1

      @@readmychanneldescription6663 You are too afraid. Fight me. If you don't respond you are scared

    • @axdage5674
      @axdage5674 2 года назад +1

      @@TheGigaSigma it's a bot don't even bother to reply

  • @thesilversapphire
    @thesilversapphire Год назад +781

    "Lu hopes that she can fulfil her sons' wish - to see the sea someday" - hit me like a brick wall and now I'm sobbing. Such a loving mother, such handsome boys. My love to them all.
    - An internet stranger.

  • @cancertourmaline6798
    @cancertourmaline6798 Месяц назад +70

    It’s been two years, I hope she’s gotten all the love and help she and her sons deserve!

  • @saisatwik8945
    @saisatwik8945 2 года назад +6240

    This shows that mothers will do anything for their kids. Mad respect for all the mothers out there doing hard work.

  • @blitz-o-byte
    @blitz-o-byte 2 года назад +4576

    "I brought these boys into the world so I must treat them well"
    thats exactly how it should be

    • @furiousdestroyah9999
      @furiousdestroyah9999 Год назад +41

      A decent human being, a true rarity indeed

    • @aknadulyan25
      @aknadulyan25 Год назад +45

      This line made me tearful. Most parents say the opposite

    • @fendy5124
      @fendy5124 Год назад +6

      they deserved each other

    • @lalaskii7814
      @lalaskii7814 Год назад +36

      @@aknadulyan25 something like..
      "I brought them to this world so they must thank me for that" ?

    • @Upakulbordoloii
      @Upakulbordoloii Год назад +2

      @@lalaskii7814 yeah

  • @philip9566
    @philip9566 Месяц назад +69

    She’s amazing. She rescued herself and them. Their “father” does not deserve them.

  • @kimsheen6535
    @kimsheen6535 2 года назад +2414

    She doesnt have regrets and you can see how much she cared for her children. Her smile says it all.

  • @rockygurumayum8059
    @rockygurumayum8059 2 года назад +5164

    I can’t even imagine the pain she must be hiding behind her smile. Mother’s love is just incomparable ♥️

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад +3

      BLM is anti-Asian

    • @harumaker2380
      @harumaker2380 2 года назад +47

      @@littleleah310 lies bc we aren't

    • @doggoswampu1450
      @doggoswampu1450 2 года назад +39

      @@littleleah310 go take a look at the statistics of racial violence comparing asians on black people and black people on asians before you start yapping again.

    • @madmcp6894
      @madmcp6894 2 года назад +8

      @@littleleah310 we are not :(

    • @GreenTacos
      @GreenTacos 2 года назад +7

      @@littleleah310 what how lol

  • @kunalvarshney9927
    @kunalvarshney9927 Год назад +123

    She made me cry. She is positive despite so many problems and old age. Hope she gets the support she deserves

  • @dikshachauhan9422
    @dikshachauhan9422 2 года назад +21490

    I hope she has a long and healthy life to live. She is so encouraging, lots of love.

    • @alesto3202
      @alesto3202 2 года назад +97

      Her channel
      ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @dikshachauhan9422
      @dikshachauhan9422 2 года назад +35

      @@alesto3202 thanks a lot.

    • @127.
      @127. 2 года назад +5

      @@dikshachauhan9422 probably fake.

    • @dikshachauhan9422
      @dikshachauhan9422 2 года назад +8

      @@127. what do you mean?

    • @127.
      @127. 2 года назад +18

      @@dikshachauhan9422 that above RUclips channel is probably fake one.

  • @andrewflashchannelgibbs5384
    @andrewflashchannelgibbs5384 Год назад +79

    I have been living in China 7 years and these are the type of people I see. Hard working, respectful and happy. The domestic abuse issue has been something I have sadly also heard.
    I wish this lady and her sons continued happiness. 🙏

    • @osayieweka
      @osayieweka Год назад +1

      True, remember social media gave everyone a voice.
      Prolly that’s why you see it often on wechat channels especially

  • @beth-bi9yv
    @beth-bi9yv Год назад +88

    What a glowing example of the mother every child deserves. I wish them many happy years.

  • @msdorine72
    @msdorine72 Год назад +3340

    “Destiny has brought my boys to me.” The heart of this woman truly embodies the word ‘mother’. May she continue to be provided all that she needs for her boys and herself.

  • @N_ei_L
    @N_ei_L Год назад +4860

    She's smiling after everything she must've endured with her ex husband and even while taking care of her children for so long. Her smile is so contagious and i hope she lives a long and peaceful life because she honestly deserves every second of it! What. A. Boss. ❤️

    • @shania2925
      @shania2925 Год назад +35

      this is her channel btw ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @N_ei_L
      @N_ei_L Год назад +10

      @@shania2925 thank you so much!

    • @shania2925
      @shania2925 Год назад +13

      Ur welcome actually thank u for looking at the link i sended u bc ppl r ignoring me sadly while im just trying to help this poor mother💗❤️

    • @Kamotea_kyutie
      @Kamotea_kyutie Год назад +4

      @@shania2925 I think its because people are ignoring because they think that youre a bot or sumn 😅 and tysm!! ✨ Ive been looking at the description box if they had linked her channel vlog but I couldnt find it, so Thank you so so much

    • @shania2925
      @shania2925 Год назад +3

      Oh true thats why i didnt spam all over the comments LOL i js found out that channel is fake Unsubscribe now pls

  • @barkita6366
    @barkita6366 Год назад +44

    She is such an amazing person, Gone through domestic violence and has disabled children still she's living her life taking care of both, most of the people would breakdown and leave

  • @lostpelican1883
    @lostpelican1883 Год назад +38

    This woman has a very strong spirit, how hard it must be to watch not one but two of your kids lose the ability to move bc of ALS. She’s doing it all. I hope they always have whatever thy need.

  • @Mikiiiiiiiiiip
    @Mikiiiiiiiiiip 2 года назад +3562

    I like that although the sons are disabled and have trouble doing simple tasks, they still try their best to help out by helping to film and edit the video. It’s a team effort!

    • @alfiueun1472
      @alfiueun1472 2 года назад +148

      Yeah i love how they're able to help each other despite the hardship💕

  • @aglis_
    @aglis_ 2 года назад +1703

    Stories like this are ones where you feel like these people truly deserve all the attention they receive on the internet.
    Not like the popular people who receive fame for the wrong reasons.

    • @xphelion_
      @xphelion_ 2 года назад +7

      hu tao why r u here?

    • @adlinahuda3615
      @adlinahuda3615 2 года назад +2

      @Arknights Skin Comparison nice comeback

    • @Mr_blue_7777
      @Mr_blue_7777 2 года назад

      Agreed

    • @eddiefoneshome9043
      @eddiefoneshome9043 2 года назад

      Well said

    • @lingyingli1563
      @lingyingli1563 2 года назад +13

      Can't say more well then this,people always pay attention and gave fame to people that doesn't need it when out there....there is people trying to gain fame from internet to keep on living etc..

  • @hilili4724
    @hilili4724 Год назад +25

    "Destiny has brought my boys to me..." This lady literally embodies the definition of a mother

  • @hakkam7082
    @hakkam7082 11 дней назад +3

    There are so many great mothers like mama Lu, just gives a little bit of hope in this dystopian society

  • @ericaluo6281
    @ericaluo6281 2 года назад +2297

    This reminds me of what “mother” does means. She’s just admirable, deserves everything she needs! Please give her a beautiful rest life.

    • @daniellsitio
      @daniellsitio 2 года назад +10

      Only asian. In west probably the sons are going to be aborted

    • @blu3j00Ls
      @blu3j00Ls 2 года назад +10

      She really does...she deserves a carefree, happy life :'(

    • @kimchithatisnicelyfermente4627
      @kimchithatisnicelyfermente4627 2 года назад +7

      @@joshua01 But that's sometimes true tho.... There are a lot of parents who aborted or even gave up on their children if they have some kind of disability. It's hard to accept it tho.

    • @YesJadey
      @YesJadey 2 года назад

      True

    • @lili4fav
      @lili4fav 2 года назад +12

      @@kimchithatisnicelyfermente4627 If you can’t handle it you can’t handle that’s why abortion is a personal choice you have no right to judge a person for.

  • @jayen5751
    @jayen5751 2 года назад +1860

    My mum was a victim of domestic abuse and this hit so close to home, what an incredible woman

  • @silvercat2922
    @silvercat2922 Год назад +18

    This is the kind of mother every child deserves.
    I grew up as an orphan after my parents abandoned and abused me . Leaving me back on the streets as a Teenager.
    This video really hit me hard.
    I'm so glad those boys have her.
    I also wish I could help them somehow but I am lucky if I even have some kind of food on the table every day.
    Best of wishes to you and your family!

  • @Dinooooooooooooooooooooooo
    @Dinooooooooooooooooooooooo Год назад +31

    I have a brother who has Down syndrome. We are all Chinese but I mainly speak English as I was born in Britain. 🇬🇧 My brother is 13 and I am 11, I am taller than him by a head. Watching this is really heart-warming because my mum vowed to live longer than my brother just so she could take care of him every moment of his life. I love my mum and dad and my dad only recently just came to Scotland because he needs work in London. Before that, he had worked in Beijing. He loves my brother but in a spoiled way so if I was to decide who the better carer was, I'd say my mum. she's been with me and my brother our whole lives and my dad hasn't even been with us for a year. I only go back to china to visit my family and I have never lived there.💗

  • @rens1075
    @rens1075 2 года назад +1098

    "I brought this boys into this world, so i must look after them and treat them well" she is such a sweetheart and angel. I hope your 2nd son have a speedy recovery, my prayer for the family ❤

  • @chellebelle69.92
    @chellebelle69.92 2 года назад +2046

    This made me cry 😭 I have 2 autistic sons and one autistic daughter. Life can be so challenging! When I see this, it makes me stronger and makes me fight harder for my children 💗

    • @sanamalik5511
      @sanamalik5511 2 года назад +92

      I hope your doing well☺️

    • @uwuss8418
      @uwuss8418 2 года назад +74

      You can do this! Wish you and your kids happines en life ❤

    • @asseylum_2.012
      @asseylum_2.012 2 года назад +61

      I can't imagine what life you've been through but i hope you nothing but happiness and well life. Hope you can manage things through and give nothing but best to them. Everything will be okay 🥰💖

    • @chellebelle69.92
      @chellebelle69.92 2 года назад +52

      @@asseylum_2.012 thank you so much! My children are my reason for living and I have nothing but pure love for them ❤️

    • @chellebelle69.92
      @chellebelle69.92 2 года назад +17

      @@uwuss8418 thank you so much! ❤️

  • @mayvchrist3648
    @mayvchrist3648 Год назад +12

    "i brought the boys into this world, so i must look after them and treat them well" bro i cried

  • @andyzhang7890
    @andyzhang7890 4 месяца назад +10

    This made me tear up… This lady is an Angel on earth, bless her soul 😭

  • @sujageorge1031
    @sujageorge1031 Год назад +2183

    Despite her fate being so cruel, she did not give up her sons........that is a true mother indeed. Being able to smile through all that pain is a big lesson for me.

  • @zzzzzzz1751
    @zzzzzzz1751 Год назад +168

    This is really sad but she is a champion for not giving up on her sons and her life. Turning something difficult into something positive is the attitude I aspire seeing her.
    Hope the boys have someone to look after them well once their mother is no more. But my wish is for her to live long healthy and happy life filled with love.

  • @srsaito9262
    @srsaito9262 2 года назад +655

    What maked me cry about her, is that even after all that suffering and all the love she gave to her childreen, she still wants to helps others when getting more money, and not just thinking of resting, what a wonderful pearson she is.

    • @junglekutz5625
      @junglekutz5625 2 года назад +7

      *Sometimes what others refer to as suffering for whomever they're looking at may not be seen as suffering for said person. (Unless of course they're obviously suffering) Especially if they have found a way to manuever through whatever experience. I can see why she had a mental breakdown after realizing that both of her sons had the same disease because this realitization more than likely had her step up to a few plates.

    • @123samanthastar
      @123samanthastar 2 года назад +8

      I wish we can donate directly to her

    • @triforceofpizzza
      @triforceofpizzza 2 года назад

      Pink Floyd

  • @jessellepelingon9046
    @jessellepelingon9046 Месяц назад +7

    It is so heartwarming,a mother who takes care of her children amidst their disability. Mothers who abandoned their children should see this

  • @paulamusik2509
    @paulamusik2509 Год назад +43

    Stop it, I'm crying! All the best in the world to this lovely family! Never in my life has I felt the sentence: "I wish them to live happily every day" so much! I hope her son got better again and that she gains enough followers to live a comfortable life with her children! Also since I didn't see it anywhere mentioned in the comments: shout-out to her strong sons who edit her videos! Such an impressive family company!

  • @andromedaspark2241
    @andromedaspark2241 2 года назад +2994

    It's great you posted about her, but maybe you should have linked how to follow her blog for those who are inspired and interested. She's an amazing mother.

    • @cosmoobserver3416
      @cosmoobserver3416 2 года назад +2

      ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw This seems to be an account bearing the same name and the same content. Just wonder if it is the official account from Lu and her two sons.

    • @EileenStar
      @EileenStar Год назад +56

      Have you found how/where to follow her?

    • @harrynaicker1482
      @harrynaicker1482 Год назад +146

      @@EileenStar she's on douyin or Chinese tiktok

    • @EileenStar
      @EileenStar Год назад +33

      @@harrynaicker1482 can you link me to her page?

    • @jinjigu8913
      @jinjigu8913 Год назад +47

      I saw in the description her name is Lu Aimei.

  • @grashew4323
    @grashew4323 2 года назад +4123

    What Ann incredible woman, she has so much obstacles in front of her, yet, still pushing ahead, and her attitude is admirable, amazing ! I wish her the best !!!

    • @alesto3202
      @alesto3202 2 года назад +9

      Her channel
      ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @alesto3202
      @alesto3202 2 года назад +6

      Her channel in YT:有娘就是福

    • @hassanoladimeji2097
      @hassanoladimeji2097 2 года назад +2

      @@alesto3202 thanks nicholas

    • @alesto3202
      @alesto3202 2 года назад +24

      @@hassanoladimeji2097 don't worry too much,Now she has 300,000 subscriptions on Douyin, as well as advertising endorsements and online sales. Many people also want to help her and donate, but she refused. She just wants to earn money with dignity.

    • @127.
      @127. 2 года назад

      @@alesto3202 seems fake to me.

  • @turkeyman631
    @turkeyman631 Год назад +5

    There are times I’m sure she doesn’t want to smile, but she does anyway. A true angel.

  • @crystaliieleanor
    @crystaliieleanor Год назад +15

    "I brought the boys into this world, so I must treat them well"
    Such simple words that I wish to hear from my mother who's this close to abandoning me to my grandma. I'm not disabled and I try to help most of the time, but I feel like mom abuses it because she treats me like a maid most of the time. My mom also sought her own path by now by seeking her "own happiness" by finding a man (who I don't approve of because he's married)

  • @oliverspielmann7071
    @oliverspielmann7071 2 года назад +781

    Maaan, this feels like a try not to cry challenge. When they said that the mother hopes to fulfil his sons wish to see the sea someday, they almost got me. What an amazing mother.

    • @yang_er
      @yang_er 2 года назад +26

      If this was a try not to cry challenge, I definitely failed. Idk but the amount of love the mother has for her sons is enough to move anyone

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад +1

      BLM is anti asian

    • @darktempest
      @darktempest 2 года назад

      "almost"

    • @jusrayne
      @jusrayne 2 года назад

      I tried my best I lasted like 30 seconds in

    • @z.6480
      @z.6480 2 года назад +3

      @@readmychanneldescription6663 give up already

  • @tamafeet7447
    @tamafeet7447 2 года назад +751

    Absolutely bawling over her. She's so pure and kind. Nothing will ever compare to the love of a mother. I hope she's happy.

    • @jusrayne
      @jusrayne 2 года назад +9

      She reminds me so much about my mother I was shedding tears the whole time watching I don't have a disability but I was a very sick little girl and my brother also for some reason we kept getting pneumonia when we were little also the doctors said we would never walk my mom proved them wrong she practice with her hands on are legs mimicking walking till we walked on are own I think I run faster than the average person and I loooove dancing lol 🤣 btw my mom had lupus so I wouldn't suggest women who take medication for lupus to have kids that's why we had those birth defects

  • @cecesoebagdja5891
    @cecesoebagdja5891 Год назад +9

    The Mother's Love is always made me cry a river 😭

  • @smtasin6441
    @smtasin6441 Год назад +12

    A true mother's strength has no limits. Which also makes us have unlimited love for them. Much love

  • @uhu597
    @uhu597 2 года назад +388

    Her sons probably came up with her channel's title, "Having mom is a blessing". All three of them are indeed courageous people that humble us all.

    • @ariloves10
      @ariloves10 2 года назад +1

      Very humbled and inspired to suffer more and with joy.

    • @ifergot
      @ifergot 2 года назад +1

      Thanks, I was looking for the channel name and managed to find it thanks to you!

  • @rigden9469
    @rigden9469 Год назад +24

    Her smile holds so much, makes me teary thinking how much love a mother can provide

  • @UltimateEarthElement
    @UltimateEarthElement Год назад +7

    The constant intro she says in the beginning is "Hello everyone, Mama Lu here..." with a big smile on her face.I find it so warming :)

  • @tutziepop
    @tutziepop Год назад +1551

    If all the 1.2M viewers would search her channel and view her videos, we can all do a small part to help this brave and resilient mother! Incredible ❤️

    • @glennjarTV
      @glennjarTV Год назад +46

      what's her channel?

    • @ravinepz
      @ravinepz Год назад +79

      She do live stream on Chinese tiktok which not available for outsider.

    • @lucsun6960
      @lucsun6960 Год назад

      @@glennjarTV this is where she uploads onto RUclips! ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @lucsun6960
      @lucsun6960 Год назад +10

      @@ravinepz she uploads onto RUclips as well

    • @glennjarTV
      @glennjarTV Год назад +3

      @@lucsun6960 youtube channel?

  • @mingyuhuang8944
    @mingyuhuang8944 2 года назад +1160

    This bought a tear to my eye. May she and her sons be blessed with happiness and joy for the rest of their lives.

  • @kerryngai6640
    @kerryngai6640 Год назад +3

    Only a mother have that kind of strength. Hats off to this lady.

  • @venven809
    @venven809 Год назад +7

    May she always be healthy to take care of his two sons. I am glad she is a cheerful lady

  • @kiki246810
    @kiki246810 2 года назад +713

    THAT'S a mother! I always respect parents who tries their best for their children even when they are born different.

  • @amateuranalyst9863
    @amateuranalyst9863 2 года назад +1185

    My hearts goes to her...some mothers are just angels

    • @condorX2
      @condorX2 2 года назад +53

      The video editor is the son who can only moved his 2 fingers.. is even impressive!

    • @addicted2me
      @addicted2me 2 года назад +8

      Some. I agree.
      Still the warmth i feel from her is sooo 💞
      Bless beautiful hearts.

    • @JH-jz1sd
      @JH-jz1sd 2 года назад +26

      @E = mc² • 5 hours ago • 9 minutes ago you're either hilarious or a special kind of dumb.

    • @barrontrump9917
      @barrontrump9917 2 года назад +1

      All there smiles heal my soul

    • @hassanoladimeji2097
      @hassanoladimeji2097 2 года назад +2

      @E = mc² • 5 hours ago • 9 minutes ago maybe lives in hong kong macau or taiwan lol

  • @emimoon6067
    @emimoon6067 Год назад +9

    she’s so strong in every way, so amazing!

  • @Puntonghua
    @Puntonghua Год назад +19

    Nothing compares to a mother’s love for her kids 🥺❤️

  • @caramoish
    @caramoish 2 года назад +652

    Can't hold my tears. I cant imagine how she endured such hardships. She is an amazing mom, I wish her long and healthy life.

  • @surendramumgai631
    @surendramumgai631 2 года назад +1419

    So sad , at her age her sons should be taking care of her but can't and not the other way round but her brave , cheerful attitude to her unjust situation is very inspiring.

    • @ogueyratogeyrat7448
      @ogueyratogeyrat7448 2 года назад +25

      How they going to take care of her lol

    • @a..4255
      @a..4255 2 года назад +212

      @@ogueyratogeyrat7448 i think op just worded it weirdly and meant that usually kids around that age start to take care of their parents but they can't because yknow

    • @Eclipse-lv1oq
      @Eclipse-lv1oq 2 года назад +87

      @@ogueyratogeyrat7448 I think he meant in normal households where the children don't have disabilities

    • @TheSweetcakes108
      @TheSweetcakes108 2 года назад +10

      @@Eclipse-lv1oq they are normal. People with disabilities aren’t different.

    • @arianapetrova90
      @arianapetrova90 2 года назад +48

      @@TheSweetcakes108 so you’re saying your parents still feed you 3 times a day?

  • @vinnielalumia
    @vinnielalumia Год назад +5

    She is strong! Inside and out. Respect. I love the Asian community.

  • @BeastFitness472
    @BeastFitness472 10 дней назад +2

    Kudos, To her shes such a nice mom some people deserve to be parents and shes one of them

  • @scarletwitch6023
    @scarletwitch6023 2 года назад +344

    ALS is such a cruel disease, this family deserve all the success and happiness. What an incredible mother ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SHAdaKID
    @SHAdaKID 2 года назад +540

    Just when you think your life is hard, a story like this puts it all in perspective. Bless this woman and her sons.

    • @ariloves10
      @ariloves10 2 года назад +4

      Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

    • @astxrism8236
      @astxrism8236 2 года назад +5

      You shouldn’t compare your life to others though. Someone else’s life won’t make your life any easier than what it is.

    • @gokittygo978
      @gokittygo978 2 года назад +8

      @@astxrism8236 me when i miss the whole point of the comment

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад +1

      BLM is anti asian

    • @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516
      @ArcaniaSkypirateDen9516 2 года назад

      I was thinking I wanted those strawberry 🍓 cakes 🍰
      😅

  • @reply_to_me_if_you_are_dumb
    @reply_to_me_if_you_are_dumb Год назад +2

    A mother's love is unconditional .
    Respect her and treat her well .

  • @wynterpulchritudo7255
    @wynterpulchritudo7255 Год назад +20

    This mother's love knows no bounds. She will live a long life full of love and compassion. She made her past make her will, resilience, and kindness stronger than letting it tear her apart. Keep going Mammá!

  • @asteria7403
    @asteria7403 2 года назад +24

    ridiculous, why not leave the mom’s blog channel in the description??? it’s all just all of your platforms and it certainly doesn’t help the situation.

  • @vincentrayalba5936
    @vincentrayalba5936 2 года назад +659

    I wish she has a long life to live so that she always take care of children.

    • @tonycheung6715
      @tonycheung6715 2 года назад +6

      Or her son short life

    • @WiewiurTV
      @WiewiurTV 2 года назад +30

      I wish she would live in a functional state where the social workers can help her like in Germany or the EU...
      In Germany the disabled get free apartment, free care, free transport and are supported till their very last day, in china they get under 200 yuan (27eur) in some cases nothing and are left in a ditch...

    • @dasren
      @dasren 2 года назад +9

      @@tonycheung6715 💀💀

    • @AhmedAbdullah-me5xb
      @AhmedAbdullah-me5xb 2 года назад

      @@WiewiurTV that's cool

  • @kryptxy9976
    @kryptxy9976 23 дня назад +2

    Bless this women, I usually never comment on youtube vidoes but this video gave me hope in this world.

  • @abdullahnassor9433
    @abdullahnassor9433 Год назад +5

    She is a strong woman and a great mother , with that beautiful smile you never know the pain she keeps behind it ... She needs to be supported... Mother will always be mother nothing like a mother , respect your mothers

  • @sakshixsingh
    @sakshixsingh 2 года назад +232

    Not only the mother, but her son are also so so strong. All of them have a smile on their face, even in such situations where they had to beg. This gives me strength to deal with everything and shows how small my problems are.

    • @Ghostface44
      @Ghostface44 2 года назад +8

      your comment touch me! she remind me of my mom, my mom sort of look like her...I almost cried when I see this video. Some mom are just amazing and her love for children is infinite despite the challenges...

    • @sakshixsingh
      @sakshixsingh 2 года назад +1

      @@Ghostface44 so true! I cried fr while watching it.

  • @lvl5969
    @lvl5969 2 года назад +161

    Can I nominate this remarkable woman for the " Mother of the Year Award"?

    • @Kpfitness360
      @Kpfitness360 2 года назад +8

      She deserves all the recognition in the world.

    • @maronq9130
      @maronq9130 2 года назад +1

      She has been the mother of the year for 20 years

  • @lovelillysingh1230
    @lovelillysingh1230 Год назад +10

    I really hope these 3 love the happiest and most fulfilling life together ❤

  • @jeannees2402
    @jeannees2402 10 дней назад +1

    Looking at her sons smiling while eating the cake melts my heart. I wish her to have a loving happy life forever ❤

  • @calvinchua9131
    @calvinchua9131 2 года назад +749

    I hope she leads an extraordinary life ahead. It's not easy. But, it shows the power of mother’s love.

  • @condorX2
    @condorX2 2 года назад +102

    The video editor is the son who can only moved his 2 fingers.. is even impressive!

    • @rjn1749
      @rjn1749 2 года назад +9

      I was even surprised, didn't really expect that.

    • @123samanthastar
      @123samanthastar 2 года назад +1

      They really have amazing resilience

  • @redpie32
    @redpie32 Месяц назад +1

    i appreciate people who take care of disabled children SO much. The level of patience and work it takes to raise them is unreal and I honestly could never handle them myself, let alone children

  • @Iam-me
    @Iam-me Месяц назад +1

    Mom is always has positive thinking
    I cant imagine those son without mom in future

  • @margaretlim9180
    @margaretlim9180 2 года назад +272

    This video put tears in my eyes. As a single mom of 2 autistic kids, I thought my life was tough, but after seeing this video, it has inspired me to keep going. She is correct, when she said we brought the kids into our world, we should see it through, take care and love them until the end.❤❤❤

    • @IamKarryanne
      @IamKarryanne 2 года назад +3

      💙💙💙

    • @garrulus3399
      @garrulus3399 2 года назад +18

      As a fellow single mom to an autistic kid I will tell you, we. Can. Do. It. Cause we do it everyday! There is no need to be perfect, or love our reality every single day but showing up fully human is more than enough :) the universe doesn't rush and so let's take day by day, breath by breath if needed and look out for support and wonder each day. We got this!

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад +1

      Blm is anti asian

    • @margaretlim9180
      @margaretlim9180 2 года назад

      @@garrulus3399 so true...❤

    • @redmond7313
      @redmond7313 2 года назад +2

      u are a really strong person !!!! i wish u all the best 💜

  • @squeegie
    @squeegie 2 года назад +409

    My heart ached knowing, behind her smile there are a lot of sorrows, struggle and pain.
    Mother's love is truly amazing.

    • @readmychanneldescription6663
      @readmychanneldescription6663 2 года назад

      BLM is anti-Asian

    • @Ryan-mf2rg
      @Ryan-mf2rg 2 года назад

      @@readmychanneldescription6663 No it's not.

    • @shania2925
      @shania2925 Год назад +1

      heres her channel btw:) ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @squeegie
      @squeegie Год назад

      @@shania2925 Thanks! Subbed!

    • @shania2925
      @shania2925 Год назад

      tysm for helping her❤️💗

  • @Gooieduck1224
    @Gooieduck1224 Год назад +7

    All three of them are champions! Amazing teamwork, the sons do the directing and the video editing, she does the acting cooking and feeding. I hope they see the sea, and continue to rise above all their challenges

  • @VicksLLhunter
    @VicksLLhunter 8 дней назад

    Now she is a real example of a mother, standing strong to raise her children and working hard, thinking of many ways to help

  • @Laura-ol3fj
    @Laura-ol3fj 2 года назад +308

    A very strong and brave mother. I hope someone help her making her promise to bring her sons to the beach comes true.

  • @adevoidvessel
    @adevoidvessel 2 года назад +285

    She's a legend! Her children are lucky that they ended up with an amazing mom like her. This is just heart warming!

    • @MickeyInSD
      @MickeyInSD 2 года назад +3

      They are all lucky and fortunate to have each other. 3 legs to a very strong table they make.

  • @sk-is5sw
    @sk-is5sw Год назад +1

    A mother is always a ahead of everything in this world...pure love and pure caring...hats off❤️🫂

  • @abhinandannandan3863
    @abhinandannandan3863 18 дней назад +1

    Man this nearly cry, She's deserve everything 🙏

  • @gazellepop
    @gazellepop 2 года назад +130

    Her resilience in overcoming an abusive spouse while loving her children is very inspiring for many of us who are struggling too. Glad to see technology has given them a means of making a living and smiles.

  • @stickynorth
    @stickynorth Год назад +1047

    I hope someone can make her a millionaire for her efforts! Her family deserve it! I love these kind of stories. Keep 'em coming!

    • @adityakarunia9935
      @adityakarunia9935 Год назад +6

      she not need that, she only want be happy with a lot of money to.feed her children

    • @jae_03_
      @jae_03_ Год назад +63

      ​@@adityakarunia9935 that's what being a millionaire means , you have a lot of money

    • @neoanderson4840
      @neoanderson4840 Год назад +6

      I guess she will become one but in the meanwhile hope her boys become better 🙄

    • @whatamidoing8862
      @whatamidoing8862 Год назад

      @@neoanderson4840 what's with the emoji wishing that her boys become better 💀

  • @kiwinaur
    @kiwinaur Год назад +5

    she deserves the whole world. respect for her

  • @miyashita291
    @miyashita291 5 дней назад +1

    Momma you are doing absolutely more than great! ❤ the amount of love you have for your sons.. is felt from the screen. 🌹

  • @fernanmontevista204
    @fernanmontevista204 2 года назад +346

    That's the true mother instinct.To love and raise her children at her given strenght.

    • @gigachad6117
      @gigachad6117 2 года назад +15

      Ikr.I respect every mother and many fathers who have given their all to raise their children.true heroes.

    • @fernanmontevista204
      @fernanmontevista204 2 года назад +4

      @@gigachad6117 yeah that's right

    • @alesto3202
      @alesto3202 2 года назад +3

      Her channel
      ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @127.
      @127. 2 года назад

      @@alesto3202 fake channel

    • @ednamode7480
      @ednamode7480 2 года назад +1

      @@127. wow ... really ??? This is way of life for some people in the world . Included your own back yard . Open your eyes and wake up to the reality of this world . Have a heart and reach out to those of needs .

  • @jonelparilla7972
    @jonelparilla7972 2 года назад +387

    Being a mother is indeed the greatest profession of all professions. They don't need to get paid by money, they only need love in return. Salute to all of the mothers.❤️

    • @idamaya3398
      @idamaya3398 2 года назад +17

      @Caramel 2133 agree but also i think she/he applies to parents that people say " anyone can have a child but not everyone can be a real parents to their kids"

    • @amirahelechi7113
      @amirahelechi7113 2 года назад +1

      No.

    • @furtfurt
      @furtfurt 2 года назад +1

      This is true, modern media and much of society doesn't respect motherhood nor fatherhood, even though these are the building blocks to a functional society. Rather they push us to be slaves to corporations or ourselves.

    • @Khairuddin313
      @Khairuddin313 2 года назад

      @@furtfurt well said 👏🏽

  • @silverdove88
    @silverdove88 29 дней назад +2

    I'm having a hard time with the circumstances of my life. she is definitely an inspiration that one day I might have the the same attitude to my own (objectively better than hers in many ways, and has been a torture and source of grief for me)

  • @josebrizuela3340
    @josebrizuela3340 Год назад +4

    WHAT AN INSPIRING MOTHER SHE IS FOR HER CHILDREN AMAZING AND CARING

  • @SahanaRavi9235
    @SahanaRavi9235 Год назад +807

    When they said that the 2 sons both have als I got really emotional because my mother has als and has for the past 13-14 years. So that hit close to home.

    • @TinkerHell04
      @TinkerHell04 Год назад +45

      I am so very sorry to hear that. I really can't imagine the struggles that come w/ it & I'm sure it just gets more difficult as time goes by. It's just not fair is it? I truly wish the best for your mom & yourself. Just keep loving her & doing everything to make her comfortable ( I'm sure that's not easy) spend as much time w/ her as you can because life just flies by. Say all the things you want to say & hold her tight for as long as you can. My mom committed suicide last June & my heart is just shattered. I miss her probably more than I know & wish everyday that I could see her just one more time. Your blessed that you still have your mom, so love & cherish her all you can. Truly wish the best for your mom & yourself. Sending you Love💞 & Light.💫.

  • @darrenlin7943
    @darrenlin7943 2 года назад +893

    That's truly inspiring.

    • @darrenlee8334
      @darrenlee8334 2 года назад +2

      great perseverance!!

    • @vennsim71
      @vennsim71 2 года назад

      A smile so warm, certainly melt hearts…

    • @alesto3202
      @alesto3202 2 года назад

      Her channel
      ruclips.net/channel/UCdr_bjCxEMEsL1pTB3bwcEw

    • @127.
      @127. 2 года назад

      @@alesto3202 fake channel

    • @daniellsitio
      @daniellsitio 2 года назад +2

      Why inspiring? Its daily stuff in Asia. Dont let those degenarate western ruin this

  • @sanayc2032
    @sanayc2032 Месяц назад +1

    This was so heartwarming ♥🥰
    This made me cry 😭😥
    Someone should start a go fund me for her.
    She is a single mother who suffered, with two sons. This is so hard.
    She truly deserves a hug!
    Always be grateful for ur parents!