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Hey there, it's Charlotte Dobre, and in this video, we're going to talk about narcissists on social media.
First of all, let's define what a narcissist is. Narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others.
Social media is the perfect breeding ground for narcissists. They can use it to showcase their perfect lives, gather attention and admiration from their followers, and even manipulate others into believing they are more important than they really are.
But what are the signs of a narcissist on social media? Well, they often post a lot of selfies, constantly update their followers on their activities, and are quick to delete any negative comments or feedback.
Narcissists also tend to use social media to project a false image of themselves. They may post about their luxurious lifestyle, their extravagant vacations, or their impressive accomplishments, all to create the illusion that they are better than everyone else.
So, what can you do if you encounter a narcissist on social media? Well, the first step is to recognize their behavior for what it is. Don't get caught up in their web of lies and don't let them manipulate you.
Remember, social media is not always an accurate reflection of reality. Don't compare your life to the carefully curated lives of others on social media. Instead, focus on building genuine relationships with the people around you and enjoying the real moments in life.
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My bed is made
Hello Charlotte!!!!
Oh how I wish I could afford it! Someday soon! I’ll try to save my pennies!
@@michellerobin5461 much luck my bestie!! Life is a struggle. I pray it gets more comfortable soon.
I complimented a woman's outfit the other morning. Early morning out shopping before 7 AM with my husband, and she was behind us at the register. She was wearing this special knitted jacket with a pattern I remembered this old lady had made a blanket with in my childhood, and it was just so well made. I asked her if she had made it herself and she had, so I told her I thought it looked amazing. She got really happy which made me happy. It was also a huge step for me to do this because I suffer from anxiety but that homemade jacket/blanket was just stunning. I had to tell her.
Awe that’s so sweet!!! I compliment people all the time!!! I love seeing them smile and brightening someone’s day. Especially if they look down or upset. How beautiful of you.
Thats really kind and sweet. People don't show enough kindness. That bit of kindness really makes someones day so much better 😊
Added, as one with anxiety, social anxiety, thay can be so dang hard.
OMG first, love your user name, second, that was so sweet of you. It really brightens someone day, keep it up! Have a beautiful day 💜💜
You probably made her day ❤❤❤ Great job, anxiety is a bltch ❤
I want to see a version of an influencer walking out with Walmart bags, eating at McDonald’s, living in their postage stamp size apartment with their 6 roommates. Lol
I love the idea!
I'm NOT an influencer but I do have a channel where you can see exactly this lol. Except my roommates are my husband and our six animals :)
Tammy. Trailer trash Tammy. She’s amazing
Oh, so me. 😅 kidding!!!
They exist. The problem is that once they get a huge following, they have the money for more expensive things and they upgrade. 😂
Advice that has never failed me: if someone compliments you, just smile and say thank you.
I used to have a really bad habit of trying to essentially argue why the compliment isn’t true (e.g. no, my hair looks awful today; yeah it’s cute, but I don’t like how this top looks on me, etc). It was really just a reflex from self esteem issues and the deeply ingrained habit of talking down to myself.
One day, I did that to the wrong person. There was a sweet, older lady in the checkout line with me. I don’t remember exactly what the compliment was, but when I tried to fight it, she put her hand up to shush me and said, “Oh no no no. When someone says something nice about you, just smile and say thank you. Then I say that you’re welcome, and we both have a nice day.” Her tone was very kind but firm. Thank you, random sweet lady from a decade ago for setting me straight!! 💜
Shes probably dead
Wtf?!
Similar for me. One day someone said the same and i listened. Essentially if we argue the compliments we are coming across as asking for reassurance and more compliments..
@@Madiha-hu7wqjust why? Why???
Honestly proud of you for coming around
I like seeing influencers eating well, working out and being productive. I find it inspiring even if it’s a facade.
To me, there is a BIG difference between "influencer" and "Content Creator" . Content Creators are people who have some sort of talent, skill, wisdom, or expertise to share with an audience. These people gain followers by offering something of value, and usually they begin offering that something out of sheer love of doing it.
"influencers" offer nothing. They are walking commercials. They are the "popular kids" from school still trying to feed off of our collective trauma of being excluded BY THEM and their ilk in the first place. They exist purely to feed their own vanity, they will ditch even their " besties" if they don't fit the aesthetic they are looking for.
Very well said! ❤
#TruthBeTold 💯
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@@nicolecourter2870 thank you! 😊
@@deanbarnette1602 thanks! 😊
I took the plunge and deleted Instagram and tiktok etc about a month ago and I feel so good. If you feel overwhelmed, I highly recommend! No comparing to strangers, no constant barrage of news or gossip. It’s freeing!
IG and RUclips are the only things I have and it makes me happy.
Yeah I refuse to keep most social media for that reason. I’ll keep Facebook for family and close friends. Some people hate it, but they get over it.
I never had Tik Tok, and even though I have an Instagram account, I don't really use it. I basically just use youtube.
Social media is just toxic, and I don't need that in my life.
I keep those apps only for cats videos.
@@Arlenemusume only legit reason tbh
The “picnic peaches” guy had me rolling. It was so subtle, but absolutely dead on accurate.
Was he making a parody? Or was this "genuinely fake?" 😅😂
I was a tradie in the Western Australia desert building houses when I met my wife while travelling in Europe. She was a model and wanted me to take photos of her every time we went on holidays. I hated taking photos of her on holidays as I was terrible at it and she let me know about it. Anyway fast forward 12 years and I’m an award winning photographer that’s worked with some of the biggest brands in the world. Sometimes being an Instagram boyfriend leads to a career you never even considered.
I’m so happy that one guy included the most important part of everyone’s morning routine… thoroughly scrubbing down their TV stand.
😂😂 I thought that was odd too!
😅😂😂😂😂😂
Lol - I did wonder WTH he was doing 😂
Idk, he got a chore done and he monetized it while getting his good side. My sensibilities would not allow me to do that without busting up laughing at myself all through it. But my head isn't up my own sphincter either.
I mean yes. Who doesn't do that 🙄
I'm an introvert, and my 15 yr old daughter is an extravert...massive sunshine-y people energy, this girl. Through her example, I have learned the power of giving compliments. First, you actually have to be aware of other people (😂). Second, you have to see/read the details. It's not just saying something general, like "oh you look so pretty," it's spotting the thing you can tell they like, like "omg, your nails and that outfit totally vibe," or "that purse is rad." People like compliments, but when it's specific, they light up like an arena. It's fun!!
I know right!? I just love watching people light up. Especially if it seems they’re having a hard day or are just upset in general.
Yes! And you do it perfectly! Remember people, a compliment is about THEM... so "I love your purse!" Is technically not a compliment...😊
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Awesome comment and advice!
Agreed 100% ..
I agree with the ‘let them take their picture sentiment’.
If I see someone taking photos like that, I try to stop and tell them that they look beautiful/handsome or compliment them on something.
Sometimes a kind word from a stranger can make someone’s day, especially when they are being critical of themselves trying to get the perfect photo.
I saw someone’s comment about a jacket and so I thought I’d share my story too.
I used to work at a thrift store, and I saw this old lady who was a regular there. Her jacket was made of different patterns and materials, such as blankets, but it was so beautiful and unique. I told her that I loved her jacket and it was beautiful. She then told me that her best friend made it for her, who had just recently passed away a few months ago. She said she liked having a piece of her best friend to carry around with her, and that it meant so much to her that I complimented it. I also suffer with anxiety, so complimenting people is pretty rare for me. But I can tell you, every person I’ve complimented, it’s made their day.
Compliment people! It won’t hurt! Spread kindness and love, fellow potatoes ❤
Narcissists never fail to lower the bar😂😂 and are never short of audacity 😂😂 just smile and wave, move along
Charlotte defending influencers being a public menace is so hilarious. Love you girl. As long as they don't crowd museums and art installations, and pose on other people's cars, I don't mind.
It's gotten to a point where influencers have been known to go onto private property without permission because their narcissism has made them a little crazy.
5:27 I had this guy on a class trip that kept singing that as a joke and by the end everyone had it stuck in their head. It didn’t help that he had the perfect deep voice for it too 😆.
We were walking out of our hotel in Buenos Aires and saw a VISION of a bride getting into her limo. We HAD to run over super quick and tell her how stunning she looked! She asked us for marriage advice, but since she was in a hurry, all I said was "Choose to love each other every day, no matter what." Surprisingly, we saw the newly-married couple at brunch the following morning and they invited us to sit and have coffee. We were there for our 30th ann. but mostly talked about their story. They were adorable. I hope in my heart of hearts that they stay together forever. An aside: They were magazine cover gorgeous.
Truly made my day your story!!
Worked in a golf Resort hotel (lots of weddings) and I considered it part of MY JOB to tell every bride how incredible, amazing, fabulous, fantastic they looked!!
Such a beautiful story ❤ I'm not sure how many years you are at currently, anniversary wise or when it is, but I wish you an incredibly happy anniversary for many, many years to come! 💘🎉 Thank you for sharing 😄
@@meow_mixture Thank you!! We are at 31 and going strong!
The bed is made because I work two jobs and my therapist told me making my bed would make climbing into it at the end of every day would help me sleep better and she was right.
We won't talk about the chair covered in clean clothes and the basket of unfinished projects, though.
Just shove them aside. It’s fine. Sleep is waaay more important.
You got a chair? Damn… I just gots a box
It’s a work in progress, for sure
About the strangers taking pictures thing: My friend group and I went to Bratislava not too long ago and asked an elderly gentleman to take our picture (one, because he was the first person to cross our drunken path and two, because we figured an elder would be least likely to steal our phone). This sweet man took about ten pictures of us (we were ten people). Seven of those pictures were basically just his thumb. Two were half his thumb, half us and one was actually half decent (that's the one literally every single one of us posted - our mutuals were quite annoyed to say the least). We didn't complain though because he seemed so, so proud of the "great" job he did and I really do cherish that memory regardless of how aesthetic our pictures turned out to be. It's about the experience imo lol
The guy at 13:20 cracked me up!! LOL!!!
😂😅
One of the worst thing about influencers is that they don’t care who they inconvenience, acting as if it’s their right.
“Are you recording me?”
>>looking at my insulin pump>my friend who works at this good place, clearly laughing at the ‘influencer’ getting the IDGAF expression
one guy got shot for clicks and views. lol.
One time I got complimented by this young woman who came up to me and said " Why are you so beautiful?". It was the cutest thing and I was so taken aback that I almost started giggling out of nervousness, but I had the biggest grin on my face, it was so sweet. I just told her I don't know and thanked her, lol. That is a good idea to give a compliment back, I usually just take the compliment and say thank you. AND the only time I'll ever say " I know" when someone says "you're pretty" or something, is if it's a dude that might not have the best intentions with me.
I never expect anything in return, just to light up your life for a brief second. Stay beautiful my friend.
My sister is gorgeous, even in her 70s now, but when she was young she could have been a doppelganger for Linda Carter, the actress who played "Wonder Woman" on TV back in the 1970s. People often told her she looked like the actress, but her favorite was when a little boy saw her at the grocery store, gasped, and loudly "whispered", "MOOMMM! It's Wonder Woman!!"
The boy's mother was embarrassed but my sister thanked the little guy and his mother and told her it was the nicest thing anyone had said about her in a long time.
Lol, "Thank you, I was hoping you could tell me how we do it!"
I agree with the dude thing, I feel like sometimes when they give a compliment it's because they think male validation is all you crave and it's gonna make you crazy about them... whereas women compliments are so genuine
I’m kind of shy, but for some reason, I’m never shy about giving compliments. I suspect it’s because no matter how awkwardly you deliver them, the recipient is so pleased to receive them.
Michelle's story reminded me of an instance with an actual "celebrity" I once had.
I was in a beach bar/restaurant on a Caribbean island. I'd been on the island for about 6 weeks at this point, and I frequented this bar on a daily basis because the owner was the son of my landlady, and they had free wifi. I was happily ensconced in my favourite corner, doing emails and FB on my phone whilst enjoying the sound of the waves washing up on the beach. As you do.
Said "celebrity" and her entourage entered. I'll not name her, she was lovely about the incident, but one of her crew made a beeline for me. "NO PHOTOS!" he barked. I wasn't taking pics, and said so. "PUT. YOUR PHONE. AWAY!" he said loudly from about an inch from my face. No. I'm minding my own business, and care little for celebrity. Especially ones from a different continent to me, and whose chatshow I never watch because it isn't a thing where I'm from. "Put the phone away, or there will be trouble!" they hissed at me, still far too much in my face. This was the point I stood up, towering over the precocious little worm, and said "Fine. Here or on the beach?". Luckily for all parties, this was the point his boss called him off. She also sent a beer over to me as an apology.
In my experience, actual celebrities seem to be much nicer than "influencers".
Love how you write!!
Women have a hard enough time trying to survive in todays world without turning on each other. Why not do like Charlotte says and support each other.
Is my bed made? Hell, I'm still in it!
Saaaaame
Same lol, I hope everyone comfy and doing well.
Samesies
Exactly!
Trueeeee
I'm not gonna lie, I get really invested in taking strangers photos for them. Will go all out, hyping them up, making sure they look good, making sure the angles are just right. I have no idea why I'm like this, but it makes other people happy so I'm not stopping anytime soon.
That is absolutely the sweetest thing! 💜✌
I’m the same!
I'm not used to getting compliments to be honest, I get really uncomfortable with them and often say something stupid, like "OMG you too!" something that makes no sense! ( insert nervous laughter here)
Don't be a jerk when a stranger compliments you. One time when I was little, a lady at the grocery store complimented me on my hair and I said "Everyone says that" instead of thanking her. I am 26 years old and I STILL think about that on a daily basis. If someone takes the time to compliment you, just say thank you.
In high-school, a guy at a party asked me: "Do you even know how beautiful you are?" I quickly ran through replies in my head and what came out was: "Sometimes." I should have just said Thank you! But because he asked a question I felt obligated to give an answer. I'm still embarrassed by that conversation and it's been 10 years. Can't imagine being like that girl at 11:10!!
😅 THIS is a mood. My default answer is always "mad make up skills". A close friend once nearly shouted in my face "take the damn compliment, FFS!" 😅😂
I had a very insecure phase where I literally insulted anyone who complimented me because I always assumed they were making fun of me. I tried to be sarcastic in case they were being honest but still, I feel so bad about it now
Oh come on! It's the perfect answer! "Sometimes" chefs kiss
Sometimes 😂 well you're nothing if not honest haha, I appreciate this answer
@@catferreira5598 That's actually a good reply! I'll keep that in the back of my mind! :D
The secondhand embarrassment I felt for some of these. How do these people not feel it, seriously 😂
Many years ago, about 1980, I was the one who was embarrassed because I had no idea who a famous person was.
I was on a date at Benihana's, a nice Japanese restaurant. The way the tables were set up, there were basically two tables per "room" (rice paper partitions). My date and I were at one table, and the other table was occupied by a very handsome man, dining alone. Several people came in, interrupting him, asking for his autograph. I asked my date if he knew who the guy was, he didn't have a clue either. I guess we weren't discussing our ignorance quietly enough, because the handsome guy said something like, "You don't watch TV much, do you?"
I was embarrassed but apologized, and we admitted that we know he's famous but we really don't watch much TV. He smiled and gave us each his autograph, which we both looked at, blankly.
He had lovely penmanship but the name "Robert Fuller" still didn't ring a bell.
He had starring roles in the 1960s western series "Laramie", and "Wagon Train" and had recently starred in the popular TV show, "Emergency", along with appearing in lots of movies but apparently neither of us had seen any of those roles. He was very nice and I think he was amused that we didn't recognize him. That probably didn't happen often.
Today, that would be about the equivalent of not recognizing a Hemsworth brother! Robert Fuller was smoking hot. When I told my mom about it later, her reaction was pretty much, "WTH is wrong with you? How could you NOT know who Robert Fuller is?"
@@LazyIRanch I personally think it's not embarrassing to not recognize a celebrity. No matter how famous they are, they are still human beings, it's impossible for every still human to know them. I personally prefer good books to series and movies (when I do watch them, I don't always keep track of who is acting) so I don't recognize Robert Fuller and have never heard of the Hemsworth brothers 🤷♀️
They don't feel it cause they have their checks to keep them warm.
ikr? i feel shame just walking out of the house because i'm an introverted turtle. I can't imagine doing multiple takes in public with strangers. i'd feel like a clown.
@@Cantetinza17you've won RUclips 🤣🤣🤣. This comment is the most under-rated and overlooked comment ON RUclips. Wish I could give it multiple 👍 or some type of über 👍.
Oh my GOODNESS. The amount of times I tried to make new friends by showering them with compliments and got the look over and the fake “thanks” as a kid is why I can’t make new friends now as an adult but I still shower women with compliments because ✨empowerment✨ even though I have that grumpy thought gremlin telling me that they all hate me in secret 🤣
Ok petition for Charlotte to start including some bloopers at the end of her videos.
After watching a couple of your videos i got the impression that you are really a genuine person. Open minded accepting. Empathic
Welcome to the casserole tater tot!!! Much love from almost Canada! We like to stay positive and lift each other up on this channel and in her feed. She’s quick to block off people pop off and be rude. Luckily, most of us are like minded. So sit back and enjoy the wholesomeness that is Charlotte. She never fails to brighten our lives. ❤
We love Charlotte ❤❤ and I'm in Australia and think it's time for a
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t-shirt or hoody cause it's getting colder here now 🎉🎉 thank you for the laughs and keep them coming 😅😅😅😅
Yes! I followed her from the other station. Love her
I think influencers would become so relatable if they posted their blooper reels. Do it, Charlotte. 😂
When he said "outdoor meals," I couldn't especially the poses lol
I don’t get compliments from anyone and don’t feel like I deserve them but a lady said I was absolutely beautiful while I wore a crop top 8 months preg. I was already risking it like felt embarrassed to wear a crop top and show my stomach but it was so hot. So her saying that made my week and I was surprised and didn’t say anything except thanks and now I feel bad 😭
As someone who loves to compliment, don’t feel bad. We want nothing in return but to see you light up like the Fourth of July. And I’m sad you don’t get compliments I’m positive you deserve them. ❤ such a sweet gentle soul you have.
Wait is that your pfp?!? Because you ARE beautiful. Omg. You actually look like my ex gf. Lmao! So beautiful.
Don’t feel bad! I like to give compliments but not because I’m expecting anything back. I think most people who give compliments, are like me, and they are just genuinely giving compliments without wanting anything in return. Watching you light up after she complimented you was a compliment in it’s own! 🫶🏻
Don’t feel bad! I’m sure you were very nice but there are some people who are rude in their lack of response!
It's 2am but when Charlotte drops a video, sleep takes a back seat.
Sweet dreams bestie!!! It’s a good morning day here!!!
I live in London and work in the tourist centre. The amount of people taking up the sidewalk from others and even the road when I’m biking home😂😂
@ 4:39
Your mom trained you for that question as a kid. Because, apparently she knew our world would come to this 😂😂😂😂
“Picnics are like outdoor meals.” 😂😂
"Hey everybody, welcome back" and Charlotte's beautiful smile and great sense of humour always makes my day. 🤗✨
Me too! Usually, I try to watch during my lunch break...listening to people complain all day, she kind of puts that in perspective!
I always say 'love makes the world go round..... but money makes the ride smoother' xxx
I rarely post on social media because my life is boring, and I like it that way.
True. Buying expensive clothes, shoes and purses won't make you happy. But books will 😊
Oh yes!!!!!
Books and plants!!!
I have six animals and a teenager. My house hasn’t been that clean in YEARS!! Lol I can’t wait till it’s a clean house again.
i'm so SO so GLAD where i live you usualy dont see people recording tiktok on (in?) the street, very relieve
9:45 exactly here i had an ad starting which said as the first word: "Ouch"... Fitting
When I get told my outfit is cute sometimes I go "I know right?!" But in a way that I'm excited about the dress or whatever hahaha
Lol me too, but I always say thank you. Just because I feel I have to. I don’t feel owed a thanks when I compliment others. I just love complimenting people.
@@erikarussell1142 oh yeah I say thank you too but it's like "Yes I have good taste!" Lol
@@Resilient_Sage88 lol right?! Love that confidence boost for others!! And when you slay an outfit and get that pep in your step. Love it.
I very recently moved to the city and encountered quite some influencers in the wild in less than a week. The worst part of it, there is a really beautiful cherry tree right outside of apartment (and every other building in the street honestly). The Fassade of the building is pretty old and adorned with so pretty fresco. So I get why people want to take pictures. It wouldn’t really be an issue, if they would just stop being right in front of my building and in my way. And I really really don’t want to be in any pictures. It is a minor issue, but still kinda annoying. 😅
Sounds amazing. I get that though. It costs nothing to be respectful of others and your surroundings.
If it's just pictures get a Halloween mask and photo bomb and if their shooting videos, talk with your neighbors beforehand and blast some Disney music lol
@@jessbeingme8155 smart thinking. I like it 😂👍🏻
Due to a major family tragedy, we found ourselves very much in the public eye for the last 9 years, it's horrific and on one documentary there was a guy who kept getting in front of the camera in the street and saying 'are you filming me?', can I help with anything?...erm, no...and NO!, I really felt like saying to him, 'if you would like my life right now?, go ahead and take it from our shoulders because it's totally shitty!!'...I've had to hold a lot in, lets put it that way...Camera junkies just don't see the other side of this.😪
a round of applause to all those doormats "boyfriends"
I am also a complimenting person. I get taken aback by reactions sometimes. Think many people out there that aren’t complimented ever.
I love to compliment people. You never know if they are having a bad day and need the compliment.
I’m a big complimented too, Char. The gleam on peoples’ faces when they get a compliment is just the best. You’re such a gem and I wish we could be friends IRL sometimes.
My fave thing bartending is getting to tell all the ladies how great they look whilst they’re SO’s smile and appreciate 😊
Some of these made me laugh at how ridiculous these people can be, some of these triggered and annoyed at how ridiculous they can be. 😂 Great video and work as always Charlotte in making our days!
Lmao yeah literally today I went to a cat cafe with my sister and niece, these 3 girls came in and together they just looked so iconic, like bohemian styled bratz dolls and I thought they just looked awesome! So I worked up the courage to tell them, and I didn't at all expect a compliment back but their response and look on their faces were like why are you speaking to me? 😂😭
God that’s part of why I don’t like people nowadays. Half the time they look at you doing anything related to being normal and they’re like “that’s so beneath me..”
"Everyone is hate-watching" 😂😂😭 truest of the true!
Self care Saturday! Do a little self care today. Even if it’s small. You are loved! ❤
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When it comes to these influencers filming and taking pictures outside in public, do they ever worry that the people around them don't want to be filmed? Like, maybe THAT'S why they scoff at you??
The compliment thing.. I do that sometimes... like if someone says my freshly coloured hair looks good I go "I know right! I did it myself last night! I was worried it was gonna come out too yellow bla bla". or "your shoes are nice" - "Right!? I got them crazy cheap at this sale bla bla" When its something im excited about i usually start off with agreeing, cuz i literally agree and im so happy someone else noticed
I'm pretty sure Janeinsane with the claw clip and the "DAMMIT!!" and the crazy balloon party decorations was doing a sarcastic riff on the cliches of influencing. And I'm there for it!
My grandmother asked me, a few months into my RUclips channel, if I wanted to be an influencer. I said no, as I thought all influencers were cringey attention-seekers. I'm nearly two years into being a RUclipsr, and I still have no wish to be an influencer.
Good luck with your channel!!! ❤
@@CharlotteDobre, aww, thanks!
@@CharlotteDobre qqq
Just subbed, best of luck potatoe fam 🤗
*Ah yes I’m here with my cup of tea every day*
Picnic "influencer" with his perfect lighting had me rolling!
The lighting guy at 14:00 was giving off major Michael Scott vibes lol.
But... In my defense; when I get a compliment from a stranger, I'm so thrown off guard that all I can say is "thank you!" But, as I walk away, all I can think about is how I should have returned the compliment. #awkward
As someone who loves to compliment others, we honestly don’t want anything in return. We just want to see you light up. I actually don’t even expect a thank you. I just want to see you light up like the Fourth of July!!
Compliments can make a person's whole day. I've made it a point to try to compliment people when I can, because sometimes their entire face lights up and it's a wonderful feeling!
It's the "how dare you walk on the sidewalk into my shot!" ones that kill me.
Funny story about the influencer saying "I know" to compliments.
One time at work I was mentally checked out and a customer told me I had pretty eyes to which I responded "I know." I dont know why I did this or what I thought I heard, but I proceeded to apologize and be embarrassed about it for the rest of my life. Could never relate to saying it on purpose. 😂
It happens. Someone once asked me if anyone ever told me my lips looks like a rosebud opening and I said ,so I've been told. His face just fell. I spent too much time thinking about that😮
I had, sort of, an "Influencer" encounter a while ago that didn't go how they wanted... Summed up like this. Usual entitlement attitudes. Influencer: "Do you know who I am?". Inconvenienced Me: "You should have asked 'DO I CARE WHO YOU ARE?'!" followed closely with a "Now get out of the way!" The look of their face? Priceless. Cross between shock, disbelief and tears.
I’ve been in an abusive relationship with a narcissist before now and it’s the most horrible experience ever… narcissists are Assholes!
Love you petty queen!!! ❤❤❤
Oh yes. I was with one for six years then got together with another closet one for five. Then I was single six years and met the man of my dreams. He was married for 19.5 years!!! To a full on straight physically emotionally mentally and se*ually abusive narcissist. Poor poor man. I’m so glad we met each other. We are completely made for each other. 5.5 years and we’re stronger than yesterday, and not a single fight between us.
@Erlka Russell,
I wish you continued happiness. You both deserve it. Peace...
same ladies. you are total godesses and deserve so much better x
Its a thin line between Narcissistic and sociopathic as well.
@@bettawitch4606 I’m pretty sure they’re on the same spectrum. From experience. Lol
The best possible response to "idk, for some reason people love recording me" is "yeah, I don't know why either"
3:43 as someone who grew up from poverty, this kind of things will really make me happy. I grew up in a household were we’d eat rice and salt to go by, day by day; leaking roofs when rainy season comes, can't even afford a new electric fan on summer, just recycling old notebooks from neighbors for new school year. it's not because the society made me think that way, it's the feeling of accomplishment from getting things that you just only dream of having. happiness may do come from within, but the definition of it differs from each and everyone else.
I'm so greatful that when I thank people for insults, they get confused.
I can't explain how seeing you post makes me so happy. Tysm for posting Charlotte. I hope you have a great day/night!
You are so welcome!😊
Scary to think that in 30 years these 'influencers' are going to be running countries & the world.
Can't be much worse than what we have now.
I find if I give even just one compliment to a stranger I feel better about myself too. That circle of positivity. Also it’s rare you get someone who is rude. Maybe they look shy or sort of embarrassed (just like I am if someone compliments me) but you never know if they are having a bad day and you just made them feel incredible with such a simple gesture. Who doesnt love compliments on some level?
Once I was on a walk, and passed by my neighborhood's church. I saw this really beautiful bride (and her groom of course) and she looked so pretty so i really wanted to compliment her but l'm shy and and bit of an introvert (plus I didn't know these people from Adam) so I kept walking, but I wanted to compliment so bad, that I gathered all my courage turn around and walked up to compliment her for my peace of mind 😂.
Long story short, I'm a big complimenter too, so I can completely understand Charlotte. I can not be complimented and not give the love back😊
I love exposing people… it’s my toxic trait
How someone reacts after a compliment tells me everything I'll ever need to know about them. Instantly someone that I thought was beautiful becomes ugly.
I adore the AOL Internet sound with the loading wheel 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉❤
I feel so comfortable complementing people in general. I love to call elderly men handsome and hottie. Just because if they die today and nobody ever made them feel beautiful, I hope i did. I call eldely ladies interesting, intelligent and wise. It maks them feel loved and appreciated. I also tell all of my friends that I love them every time I say good bye. I say "I missed you" if I have not seen them in over 4 days and hug them. Yes, I have been called a brown nose. But I can care less and say "You know I am not white. Right?" The sour pickles die inside, and thats ok. 😂😅Nothing can please them, ever (not even nagging & complaining).
I don't suffer from embarrassment, first nor second hand. I don't believe that people pay that much attention to me that they look at my every move or flaw. I'm not pretty nor beautiful like Tyra Banks, Alicia Machado, Taylor Swift, Shakira, I know that only I care if my eyeliner is even. I can speak in public without fear because I know it does not threaten my life. I just do me.
I like the way you operate ❤ You seem really cool, like that rare type who just thinks of the small things everyone takes for granted. :)
🥔Our Queen has arrived! All hail the Potato! Happeeeee Saturday Spud Nation!
I think the best way to take a compliment is to say thanks and then either agree with it or return it!
I love how,"🤣 cringie this video made you feel 😂. Your reactions are everything 😂😂😂
I once was an influencer in the wild but I wasn’t influencing, I was with a friend taking pics for my dating profile because for once I wore a nice dress, I looked hot 🔥 and my friend has taken modeling lessons so she was telling me how to pose. Also, the place had gardens and such a beautiful setting. How could I let go of that opportunity?!?! I was so aware that people saw us. But have gotten many likes on those pics 👍
Ended up posting those pics on my dating profile and most of my social media 😅
Sooo.... don't stop there, girl! Did your pics get you dates? You look really pretty from your avatar.
Good afternoon (From South Africa 🇿🇦)
Good Afternoon from Miami
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Good Afternoon from Michigan
Always wanted to visit!!!!! Much love and good morning afternoon from almost Canada! ❤
I also used to say "I know" when someone complimented me like that girl at 11:19...to be fair though, I was, like, 3 or 4.
I don't even like taking selfies let alone videos of myself. Who thinks they are famous from things like the internet? I always laugh at those girls that are like " Oh beautiful sunset" but the picture is of her face or "Oh great coffee" but the picture is of her face. I'm like " What does a sunset or coffee have to do with your face?" But, I love giving people compliments to brighten up their day.
I recently found your channel and I just love you ❤️ love seeing how fast you are growing!
Welcome to the casserole tater tot!!! Much love from almost Canada! ❤
Money does not impress me it's the person's attitude what's in their heart how they treat other people.
Amen to that!
Omg the graduation one! At my graduation from massage therapy school I ended up next to the hot mess girl who just always took up more emotional space than anyone else, even though she wasn’t even technically graduating that day because she had missed so many days, but for some reason she still got to go to the graduation ceremony with the rest of the class. Her creepy 12 years older than her narcissist boyfriend was filming her so she was performing ‘happiness’ through the whole ceremony, and I had such a hard time handling sitting next to her. Such obnoxious main character energy!!
The man who scoffed didnt try to make her stop taking the photo, he just scoffed, which usually is a gesture for yourself. Meaning that he just thought it was rediculous but not enough to make a big deal about it.
Honestly, I do think sometimes when people are like “you think you’re better than me?” I just want to respond “yes” at this point. Cause I’m just living my life and tried of validating people who are assuming me just existing means I think I’m better than them. Lol like sure, if you think so bro, who am I to tell your insecurities that they’re wrong. 🤷♀️😆
narcs are living in a different world xD
" in the moment it doesn't feel embarrassing" yes it does! I can't stand my family watching me eat let alone strangers watch me take photos of myself🙈 I simply could not. Which is why I do absolutely nothing on social m😂
I compliment people all the time. It increases endorphins in both the receiver and the giver.
My response to compliments I receive: Oh, that is so sweet of you!
I also smile at people.
Love this channel! Love your sense of humour!
Thanks so much!
😊Thanks for always brightening our days😊